0:00:08.275,0:00:11.356 I'm Amy Walker and I'm a believaholic. 0:00:11.356,0:00:13.672 (Audience) Hi, Amy. 0:00:13.672,0:00:15.006 Thank you. 0:00:15.386,0:00:19.527 I believe that you are capable[br]of anything you set your mind to. 0:00:20.177,0:00:22.304 When people ask me[br]to teach them a new skill, 0:00:22.304,0:00:25.762 they're really asking for me[br]to believe that they're capable of it. 0:00:25.762,0:00:26.937 They want to do it. 0:00:26.937,0:00:29.863 They just don't quite think[br]that they can, yet. 0:00:30.293,0:00:34.617 And so I show them,[br]over and over, that it is possible. 0:00:36.577,0:00:40.119 In small enough increments,[br]I help them expand their identity 0:00:40.119,0:00:42.318 so that even though they begin by saying, 0:00:42.318,0:00:44.722 "Oh, I'm just taking lessons," 0:00:45.572,0:00:47.539 gradually, they'll expand their identity 0:00:47.539,0:00:53.145 to include the title[br]"I'm a singer," "I'm an actor," etc. 0:00:53.875,0:00:55.716 I did not begin this way. 0:00:57.196,0:00:59.217 At the tender age of 14, 0:00:59.217,0:01:03.086 I was your above-average student[br]with below-average confidence. 0:01:03.616,0:01:07.645 Depressed, apologetic, and not popular. 0:01:08.185,0:01:11.845 It wasn't until the end[br]of my middle-school internment, 0:01:11.845,0:01:13.126 (Laughter) 0:01:13.126,0:01:14.945 the eighth-grade dance, 0:01:15.485,0:01:17.504 that all that began to change. 0:01:18.154,0:01:20.185 I'd somehow managed to squeeze my way 0:01:20.185,0:01:23.246 into the impenetrable circle[br]of popular people. 0:01:23.846,0:01:25.620 Clearly out of my element, 0:01:25.620,0:01:29.642 I began doing what I always did then[br]and looked around for someone to copy. 0:01:30.952,0:01:34.836 But as I perused all those faces,[br]with too much dark lipliner, 0:01:36.146,0:01:40.369 I noticed that these popular people,[br]who always know what they're doing, right, 0:01:40.599,0:01:43.098 were looking around[br]for someone else to follow. 0:01:43.918,0:01:47.490 So I just closed my eyes[br]and said to myself, 0:01:47.730,0:01:52.467 "Amy Frances Walker,[br]doesn't matter what they think. 0:01:52.467,0:01:56.821 Music is in your blood.[br]You've been singing since the highchair. 0:01:57.601,0:01:59.629 Surely, you can dance. 0:01:59.629,0:02:01.601 You just don't realize it yet. 0:02:01.991,0:02:06.828 So you reach into your heart,[br]and you feel the pulse of that music 0:02:06.828,0:02:10.572 and let it carry your body into dance." 0:02:17.882,0:02:22.747 And as I opened my eyes,[br]I noticed that they were all following me. 0:02:23.737,0:02:26.159 Suddenly, I had the opportunity to become 0:02:26.399,0:02:29.588 "She who knows how to dance[br]at social gatherings." 0:02:29.588,0:02:31.020 (Laughter) 0:02:31.020,0:02:35.676 It was a big deal for a 14-year-old,[br]grunge-era fashion casualty. 0:02:35.676,0:02:37.501 (Laughter) 0:02:37.501,0:02:40.180 And so we encounter a crossroads: 0:02:40.390,0:02:42.547 The opportunity to be 0:02:42.907,0:02:44.523 or not to be 0:02:45.033,0:02:47.674 something we've been[br]longing to experience. 0:02:48.824,0:02:51.198 I used to look at[br]a beautiful person and think, 0:02:51.368,0:02:54.131 "She is so gorgeous.[br]I could never look like that." 0:02:54.451,0:02:56.176 Of course, as we all know, 0:02:56.176,0:03:00.908 the entire world is only allowed[br]2000 beauty points, total. 0:03:00.908,0:03:02.517 (Laughter) 0:03:02.517,0:03:07.403 And since Beyoncé and Juliette Binoche[br]are obviously 900 points each, 0:03:08.063,0:03:12.044 I must be like a point zero-zero-two[br]or something, right? 0:03:13.454,0:03:18.794 But if I can look at a rotting leaf[br]in a way that I see the beauty in it, 0:03:19.264,0:03:22.288 clearly, beauty is not a substance. 0:03:22.618,0:03:26.338 It's not a material[br]that only certain things are made of. 0:03:26.338,0:03:27.579 Things like: 0:03:27.579,0:03:31.191 "Raindrops on roses[br]and whiskers on kittens, 0:03:31.191,0:03:34.771 and Julie Andrews[br]because we're all smitten, 0:03:34.771,0:03:37.983 beauty is found in all manner of things, 0:03:37.983,0:03:44.008 beauty's the way you behold how it sings." 0:03:45.632,0:03:47.985 (Applause) 0:03:49.965,0:03:54.459 I began to practice seeing[br]the abundance of beauty around me. 0:03:55.509,0:04:00.008 The more deeply I observed[br]beauty singing in every form, 0:04:00.458,0:04:02.709 the more I began to see it in myself. 0:04:03.439,0:04:07.854 I started rewriting a bunch of old labels[br]I'd been carrying for a long time: 0:04:07.854,0:04:12.891 not thin enough, not pretty enough,[br]not talented enough, not good enough. 0:04:13.811,0:04:16.654 It's a challenge to break[br]old judgment patterns 0:04:16.654,0:04:19.305 you've been identifying with for so long, 0:04:19.305,0:04:21.839 often without even being aware of them. 0:04:22.209,0:04:23.738 It can be scary. 0:04:24.138,0:04:26.143 I've had to abandon the relative comfort 0:04:26.143,0:04:28.030 of who I think I am 0:04:28.030,0:04:30.677 for the possibility of whom I may become. 0:04:33.907,0:04:35.366 It can be hard. 0:04:35.776,0:04:38.762 It can require courage, you know. 0:04:38.762,0:04:41.142 But as a wise fish once said, 0:04:41.142,0:04:42.438 (Laughter) 0:04:42.438,0:04:43.657 "Just keep swimming. 0:04:43.657,0:04:46.017 Swimming, swimming. What do we we do? 0:04:46.017,0:04:51.705 We swim, ha hahaha.[br]I thank you, Alan and Pixar." 0:04:51.705,0:04:54.429 (Laughter) (Applause) 0:04:55.299,0:04:56.547 Dory. 0:05:00.277,0:05:04.188 Courage is not the absence of fear; 0:05:04.648,0:05:09.384 it's when you just keep swimming[br]and sing louder than the voice of doubt. 0:05:10.204,0:05:12.239 And so as you watch these speakers today, 0:05:12.239,0:05:13.721 I invite you to practice seeing 0:05:13.721,0:05:16.491 the beauty and the potential[br]in each one of them, 0:05:16.491,0:05:19.168 even beyond the wonders[br]that they present today. 0:05:19.808,0:05:22.007 As you offer them an opportunity to grow, 0:05:22.007,0:05:25.019 you'll find that empowerment[br]reflected back to you 0:05:25.019,0:05:27.540 because they're all here[br]to share what they've learned 0:05:27.540,0:05:30.608 that you might take it[br]to new heights on your own path. 0:05:30.838,0:05:32.051 Thank you. 0:05:32.051,0:05:34.172 (Applause)