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[FBR] Okay. This is another video
on face and body reading.

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Although I personally have 
no interest in the royal family,

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or the overall usefulness
of having one.

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Here, I want to talk about

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Prince Harry and Meghan Markle,

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about the recent engagement,

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and the interview they gave,

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with BBC.

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Let's get started.

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[Mishal Husain, BBC] 
Your Royal Highness,

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and Meghan Markle,

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congratulations to you both.

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[MM] Thank you.

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[BBC] Can we start with 
the proposal,

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and the actual moment
of your engagement?

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[FBR] I don't know
the BBC interviewer,

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but she is probably not
the best person

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to conduct this, um,

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sort of 'happy couple'
interview.

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She has this asymmetric
expression on her face,

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which indicates superiority.

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She might be very cynical
about the whole thing.

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She might not think
that it will last,

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or she might be cynical
about love, in general.

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She has also these 
angular eyebrows,

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which means that

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she is very mentally
in control,

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she wants to be right.

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Also, on one side,
the left side,

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you can see the 
white of her eye,

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underneath her pupil.

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That indicates, um,
mental instability,

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or potentially, even,
depression.

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There is something

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not particularly positive,
about her.

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And then, personally,

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I don't like the purple.
[Scoffs]

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It has nothing to do
with the interview,

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but, um, purple is a royal color.

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I personally don't like it,

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because it is a mixture

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of a warm color, red;
and a cold color, blue.

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In Christian religion,
it has to do

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with the birth and death
of Christ.

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It's a little bit, um,
in between life and death color.

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It's not my favorite color.

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Makes her look very cold,
like the Ice Queen.

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Okay.

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Let's go back to the...
happy couple.

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[BBC] When did it happen?
How did it happen?

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[PH] Uh...it happened, uh,
a few weeks ago.

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Um, earlier this month...
year...at our cottage.

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[FBR] Cottage? Understatement.
I think it is quite big.

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[PH] A standard, typical
night for us.

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[MM] A cozy night.
It was...

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what were we doing?

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Just roasting...chicken,
and having...

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[PH] Roasting chicken.
Trying to roast chicken.

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[MM] Trying. [Laughs]
Trying to roast a chicken.

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And it was just
an amazing surprise.

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It was so sweet, and...
[Inhales]

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[FBR] A lot of eye contact.
A lot of touching.

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A lot of mirroring.

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Also, she has his hand
on her side.

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Grasping it with two hands.

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She doesn't want to
let go of him.

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[MM] A natural,
and very romantic.

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He got on one knee.
[Laughs]

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[PH] Of course.

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[BBC] Was it an instant
yes, from you?

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[MM] Yes!!

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As a matter of fact,

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I could barely let you
finishing proposing.

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[PH] Uh...

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[MM] "Can I say yes, now?"

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[PH] She didn't even
let me finish.

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[MM laughs]

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[PH] "Can I say yes, can I say yes?"

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[FBR] They finish each other's sentences.

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That's also very typical 
for people in love.

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[PH] So then, there was hugs,
and I had the ring in my --

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[FBR] There's a lot of
illustrators.

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He uses the arm to 
illustrate the act.

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He is overall in the interview
using a lot of illustrators.

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Which is generally a good sign.

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There is a lot of congruency

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between the body language,
and what he is saying.

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[PH] I was like, "Can I 
give you the ring?"

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She was like, "Oh yes! The ring!"

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So, no, it was a really nice moment.

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It was just the two of us.

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And, um, I think I managed
to catch --

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[FBR] Again, eye contact.

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This is certainly
the first stage of love.

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There is a lot of smiling,

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gazing into each other's eyes.

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Also, the attraction is caused

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by a neurotransmitter, dopamine.

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And, it gets people excited.

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It's like a drug.

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Suppression of serotonin,

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which can even lead to
obsessive behavior.

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So, there is no reasoning
at this moment.

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They are just in love.

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This is the first stage of love.

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Later stages would be:

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Becoming a couple.

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That's what they are
starting to do, now.

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Everything is very fast.

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And, then, there is the stage of

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disillusionment.

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This is the stage when

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the couple often breaks apart.

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And, the relationship ends.

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And this is the key:

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to get beyond this stage.

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The following stage would be:

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to create a real, lasting love.

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Often, years later,

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and it often is 
accompanied by marriage.

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Potentially, having kids.

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And this is based off,

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not a physical attraction,

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necessarily, but of respect.

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And, um, to make this work,

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at this stage, it is ideal

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if the two people
have similar backgrounds.

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Because, when it's about
upbringing of a child,

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the couple will look at
their own parents,

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and their own background,

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because it's all they know,

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and if they are compatible,

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it makes it much easier.

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Of course, they have

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very different backgrounds,

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which might lead
to difficulties, later.

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Particularly, it's so unequal.

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It's going to be

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all about the royal family.

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And very little
about her background.

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This unequal background

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will make it very hard, later,

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to succeed in a relationship.

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[Mishal Husain, BBC] 
Quite a whirlwind.

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Is that how it felt to you?

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[Prince Harry sniffs.]

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[FBR] The whirlwind?
Both are thinking.

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[MM] I don't think --

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[FBR] He is smiling.

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He thinks, certainly,

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it has been like
a whirlwind.

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And that's also

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what he likes about
the whole thing.

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About being with someone

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very unconventional.

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From an American background.

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Being very different
from the stiff royal family.

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He is really excited.

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[MM] I don't think
that I would call it a whirlwind.

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[FBR] And she's...

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She is the responsible one.

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She is saying it hasn't been
like a whirlwind.

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But, you know --

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here, they don't agree.

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[MM] And, uh,

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in terms of our relationship,

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obviously, there have been layers,

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[PH sniffs.]

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[FBR] Now, he doesn't like that.

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He sniffs.

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He has a little bit of contempt,

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with this asymmetric 
facial expression.

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This is, of course,

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not what he likes
about the relationship.

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He likes the spontaneous,
the unconventional.

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And now she is, um,

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explaining how
it hasn't been whirlwind.

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[MM] Um, after we had
a good five, six --

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[FBR] So he has --

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sometimes when she speaks,

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and she is sort of
the responsible one,

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he is blinking, and he has this

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sort of serious expression on his face.

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So this is, of course,

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not what he really likes
about her, and the relationship.

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[MM] five or six months

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with just privacy,
which was amazing.

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[Inhales] Um...

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But, no. I think
we were really

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able to have so much time
[gulps]

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just to connect --

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[FBR] So here, sometimes,
when she looks at him,

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and she is explaining something,

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she looks very worried.

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She has these wrinkles
on her forehead.

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So, I don't know what this is.

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It might be that she is
sort of worried

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at this stage in the relationship,

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that she is worried
she might lose him.

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She is also holding onto his hand, here,

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with her two hands.

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[MM] And we never went longer
than two weeks,

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without seeing each other,

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even though
we were obviously

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doing a long-distance 
relationship.

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So...

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[FBR] Here, he smiles,
a little bit.

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[MM] It's, um...we made it work.

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[BBC] How did you first meet?

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[PH] Uhhhh...

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Yes, we first met --

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[FBR] Seem to have been good.

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[PH] We were introduced
by a mutual friend.

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Who, um, we will --

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[MM] We should protect
her privacy.

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[FBR] She is the responsible one.

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She wants to protect her privacy,
of course.

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[PH, MM] Protect our privacy, yeah.
Little too much of that.

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[PH] And, um, but....

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It was, it was literally...
it was through her.

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And, then, we met

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once, twice, back to back,
two dates in London.

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Last...July?

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[MM] Yes.

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[FBR] Lot of back and forth.
Helping each other out.

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Let's move a little later.

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[MM] And then, I'm, you know --

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because I'm from The States,
you don't grow up

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with the same understanding
of the royal family.

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[FBR] When she says
"royal family," he moves away.

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Seems to be displeased
with the idea of the royal family.

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[PH sniffs.]

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[FBR] And he makes this
sniffing sound, again.

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This seems to be an indicator of,
potentially, elements of contempt.

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Something unpleasant. He did this before.

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[PH] So, a week, and then going back,

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and then, starting to film the next day,

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four A. M. wake up call, 
straight into set.

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[MM] Right off the plane, 
and straight --

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[FBR] So she is basically
mirroring, now.

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She is doing the same.

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She is repeating what he said,

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and using similar, 
mirrored language.

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[MM] -- to set, just coming back,
and doing it again.

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[PH] I'm just trying to --

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stay as close as possible.

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[MM] There is a misconception,

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that because I have worked

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in the entertainment industry,

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that this would be something that
I am familiar with.

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But, even though I've been on my show --

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[FBR] He makes this, uh, 
little mouth shrug.

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He doesn't seem to like too much

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when she talks about her background,

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and her independent work, and so on.

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And, she was married before.

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So, it's probably not the most 
pleasant thing to think about.

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[MM] -- for, I guess,
about six years, at that point.

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And, working before that,

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I've never been part of 
tabloid culture.

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I've never been in pop culture
to that degree, and --

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[FBR] See, he doesn't like that,

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when she talks about
her background.

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[MM] And lived...
a relatively quiet life.

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[FBR] Blinking a lot.

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[MM] I didn't focus so much
on my job, and, um...

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[FBR] That's very American,

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to talk about a job.

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He later talks a lot about 'team.'

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He uses 'team' language.

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Tackling, and so on.

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And she often talks about herself,

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and her job, and so on.

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Which is also a difference in cultures.

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It's very American.

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[MM] Nurturing our relationship.

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[PH] On us.

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[MM] On us, yeah.

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[FBR] When they talk about 'us,'
you know,

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they like to live in the moment.

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But, he doesn't want to think
about her past.

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He likes thinking about them,
as a couple.

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[MM] Of course it's disheartening.

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You know, it's -- it's, ummm....

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It's a shame, that that is
the climate,

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in this world,

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to focus on that, that would
be discriminatory

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in a sense. But, I mean --

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
[FBR] He doesn't look pleased, again.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
But, maybe that is about
the racial discrimination.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
[MM] You know, at the end of the day

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I am really just proud of who I am,

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and where I come from, and

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[FBR] See, he makes this little
mouth shrug, again.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
Somehow, he doesn't like too much

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
when she talks about her,
her background.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
This might also mean

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
that he is worried that his dad
does not approve of her,

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
that she is not interviewing

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like a royal bride.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
[MM] I think it makes it really easy

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to just enjoy being together, and

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
[PH] Hmm.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
[FBR] Yeah. Together.
That's what both like.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
There is no doubt,
they are in love.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
Question is, does it last.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
[BBC] Now that it is all official,

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
Prince Harry, do you have that
sense,

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
that the combination of
the two of you,

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
and your different backgrounds,

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
that you, together,
represent something new?

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
[FBR] Different backgrounds.
He is pressing his lips together.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
There is something he is hiding.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
Something he is afraid of saying,
potentially.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
[BBC] Something new, for
the royal family?

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
[PH] Um, I don't think
it is something new.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
[FBR] So, she smiled.
She likes it,

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
that there is something new
to the royal family.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
And now she is looking down,
when he says it is nothing new.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
[PH] For me, it's uh....

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
an added member of the family.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
It's uh, it's a -- another team player,

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
part of the bigger team.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
[FBR] He uses a lot of 
this 'team' language.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
Maybe he likes rugby, 
or cricket, or something.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
[PH] All of us, we...

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
[FBR] I don't know anything
about him.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
[PH] Everything, everything...

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
all the stars were aligned.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
Everything was just perfect.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
It was this beautiful woman,

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
just,m sort of literally tripped 
and fell into my life.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
[MM laughs]

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
I fell into her life.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
[PH] And the fact that --

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
[FBR] Very nice animation.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
[PH] She will be unbelievably good
at the job part of it, as well.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
[BBC] Children?

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
[FBR] Interesting -- again a pause.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
Doesn't look like they 
talked about it.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
Otherwise, they might have
looked at each other.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
So, I don't think
they planned too much ahead.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
[PH] Not currently, no.
[MM laughs]

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
[FBR] He is very humorous.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
I mean, you have to 
give it to him.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
He is very humorous
and funny.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
A little quirky, and, um, goofy,

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
but you know, 
he is quite likeable.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
She is also good character.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
Very outgoing, very friendly.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
Very refreshing.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
[BBC] You've been at home a lot.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
[PH, MM] Yes.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
[PH] We've, uh -- well, we had to

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
sort of reverse the whole process.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
And, cozy nights in,
in front of the television.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
Cooking dinner, with, uh,

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
just the two of us, by ourselves.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
In our little cottage.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
Um, rather than going 
out for dinner,

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
and being seen in public.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
To be with each other,

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
without other people looking,

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
trying to take photos on their phones,

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
[FBR] She looked away.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
She might have liked it better,

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
to have done more in public.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
[MM] And we were able
to really get to know each other.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
[FBR] So she is repeating, essentially,
what he said.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
[PH] He looks slightly annoyed,
with the eye blinking.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
[MM] Also to have friends over --

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
[FBR] Eye blinking.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
Now she talks about friends, and family.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
He looked away.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
[MM] Any of those were, you know --

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
[BBC] Have you met the Queen?

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
[MM] I have, yes.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
[PH] A couple times.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
[BBC] What was she like?

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
[FBR] So now. What was interesting,

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
when she asked "What was she like,"

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
he looked at her,

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
to make her answer the question
very quickly.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
The Queen, his grandmother, 
certainly very important to him.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
And it's not very unusual.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
Grandkids are often very close
to their grandparents.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
These are often easier relationships

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
than with the parents directly.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
[MM] It's incredible.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
I think, you know, A, to
be able to meet her,

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
through his lens,

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
not just with his
honor, respect for her

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
as the Monarch, but

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
the love that he has for her,
as his grandmother.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
[BBC] What was it like,

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
introducing Meghan
to your father and brother?

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
[PH] Ummm...

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
[FBR] Oh!

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
Big pause, here, and
closing the eyes.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
[PH] Uh...

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
[FBR] Oh, no.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
[PH] What was it like?

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
It was...exciting.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
[FBR] So now, he is going back

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
to the sort of standard
P. R. routine.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
"Exciting, everything fine."

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
This certainly shows that

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
he has not a good relationship

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
with his father and his brother,
and his family, even.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
[PH] You know, I've been --

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
[FBR] He is scratching.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
He is dissipating some anxiety.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
[PH] A period of time when I 
literally didn't tell anybody at all.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
[FBR] He misspoke, even now.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
So there is certainly an issue here.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
If you want to have a lasting
relationship with a woman,

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
you have to be on good terms
with your dad.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
You have to become a man

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
to have a proper relationship.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
Otherwise, you are just a player.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
And so this will be certainly
an issue, in the future.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
[PH] William was longing to meet her.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
[FBR] He is certainly
his mama's boy, here.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
If she is daddy's girl,
the issue is twice as big.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
[PH] As has William as well.
Fantastic support.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
And then, my father --

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
[FBR] Shaking his head,
a little bit,

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
when he talks about
such fantastic support.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
[PH] Um, the family together --

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
[FBR] He pulls the mouth back,

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
means it's a little 
unpleasant thing

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
to talk about.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
He is slightly embarrassed.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
[PH] Solid support.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
[FBR] Shaking his head.
Solid support. Apparently not.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
[PH] And my grandparents,
as well,

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
have been wonderful
throughout this whole process.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
And they've known
for quite some time.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
[FBR] So now, he's 
much more still,

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
when he talks about
the grandparents.

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
So, he has certainly
a good relationship

99:59:59.999 --> 99:59:59.999
to the grandparents.