0:00:06.860,0:00:07.975 Good morning. 0:00:09.705,0:00:13.930 I'll try to tell you what I think, 0:00:13.930,0:00:18.759 what I believe led me [br]to be here this morning 0:00:19.299,0:00:21.589 speaking to you at TEDx, 0:00:21.589,0:00:23.915 which is of great importance[br]to the whole world. 0:00:25.003,0:00:29.017 On a February night in 2014, 0:00:29.017,0:00:32.437 in Peru, in a small city, 0:00:33.837,0:00:35.228 in a football game 0:00:35.228,0:00:38.488 where I was playing for Cruzeiro[br]in the Libertadores Cup 0:00:38.488,0:00:42.077 upon entering the field[br]for the second half, 0:00:42.077,0:00:44.487 every time I saw the ball[br]coming towards me 0:00:44.487,0:00:46.304 and I got the ball, 0:00:46.304,0:00:49.018 I heard a monkey sound, and well ... 0:00:49.678,0:00:54.328 This was increasing[br]every minute of the game. 0:00:54.328,0:01:00.734 Since we were losing the game, we were[br]tuned into the tension of the match. 0:01:00.734,0:01:02.978 Since it was an important match, 0:01:02.978,0:01:05.782 I didn't even sense what was happening. 0:01:05.782,0:01:08.670 This wasn't the first time[br]that it had happened; 0:01:08.670,0:01:13.560 we were getting used to it[br]and were overcoming all that. 0:01:15.070,0:01:19.468 There was only a little time left[br]before the end of game. 0:01:19.468,0:01:21.963 I was on the sideline 0:01:21.963,0:01:26.928 when the match ended, and the press[br]was already on the border of the field. 0:01:26.928,0:01:28.988 The press came in my direction, 0:01:28.988,0:01:32.018 and I was imagining that they[br]would talk about the result 0:01:32.018,0:01:33.888 because we had lost the game. 0:01:33.888,0:01:38.677 In my head, I was ready[br]with a quick response 0:01:38.677,0:01:44.518 because football questions[br]are normally all the same, 0:01:44.518,0:01:46.658 so the answers are also all the same. 0:01:46.658,0:01:48.722 (Laughter) 0:01:50.372,0:01:54.028 So I had the answers ready. Easy, right? 0:01:54.028,0:01:57.438 I thought that they would ask, 0:01:57.438,0:02:00.738 "Why did you lose?",[br]"Why didn't you score?" 0:02:00.738,0:02:04.845 So I was ready with all those answers. 0:02:04.845,0:02:09.059 And to my surprise -[br]this was only the three to five seconds 0:02:09.059,0:02:11.449 after the game was finished,[br]it was very quick - 0:02:11.449,0:02:16.413 the question was different than all those[br]I had ever heard at the end of a game. 0:02:17.213,0:02:19.155 The question was the following: 0:02:19.155,0:02:21.355 they asked me what I felt 0:02:21.355,0:02:24.515 or how I felt 0:02:24.515,0:02:27.239 after having won so many titles, 0:02:27.239,0:02:29.922 played in so many countries, 0:02:29.922,0:02:32.538 to be suffering that act of racism[br]or racial insult - 0:02:32.538,0:02:34.702 I don't remember very well how he spoke - 0:02:34.702,0:02:36.737 in a neighbor country to ours. 0:02:37.407,0:02:38.975 And that question surprised me 0:02:38.975,0:02:42.838 because, as I said, I assumed[br]it would be the usual question. 0:02:42.838,0:02:48.338 And that surprised me,[br]and I was not prepared with an answer. 0:02:48.338,0:02:49.906 I seized that opportunity. 0:02:49.906,0:02:52.433 As I didn't have an answer, 0:02:52.433,0:02:58.698 I seized the opportunity when he spoke[br]of achievements and titles 0:02:58.698,0:03:01.688 that I had won in my career. 0:03:01.688,0:03:06.585 And I simply said[br]that I would trade all my titles 0:03:06.585,0:03:09.095 for racial and social equality, anyway ... 0:03:09.095,0:03:12.028 That is what I said,[br]but it was real quick. 0:03:12.988,0:03:14.930 At the end, I went to the locker room, 0:03:14.930,0:03:16.490 took a shower ... 0:03:16.490,0:03:20.640 There was no cell phone reception[br]in the stadium; the city was underserved. 0:03:20.640,0:03:23.586 The reception was very weak[br]at the hotel, too. 0:03:23.586,0:03:27.963 I arrived at the hotel and it was already[br]late here in Brazil, it was one o'clock. 0:03:27.963,0:03:31.523 I grabbed the telephone[br]and, as was my practice, I called home. 0:03:31.523,0:03:35.518 When I called home, my family,[br]my wife, my children, 0:03:35.518,0:03:40.288 everyone was asking[br]what had happened and how I was. 0:03:40.288,0:03:43.833 I said, "I'm okay,[br]we lost the game, right? 0:03:43.833,0:03:46.033 I'm upset, but it's the way it goes. 0:03:46.033,0:03:48.393 Sports are like this,[br]you win, you lose ..." 0:03:48.393,0:03:50.797 I thought it was about this[br]that they were asking. 0:03:50.797,0:03:54.930 My family said, "No, this that happened,"[br]and such, and I wasn't aware of anything! 0:03:56.570,0:04:02.321 There was no internet, nothing[br]in the room, the situation was precarious. 0:04:02.321,0:04:07.807 Then they said, "No, it's coming out[br]on all the websites all over the world, 0:04:07.817,0:04:13.968 the country's president talked[br]about it, our president too, 0:04:14.658,0:04:19.108 and various athletes across the world,[br]many people are talking about this issue." 0:04:19.108,0:04:23.744 I was worried because I am a guy[br]that doesn't like much the media thing, 0:04:23.744,0:04:29.834 I always liked to be valued only[br]for my work, for my accomplishments. 0:04:29.834,0:04:31.894 I don't like this thing of - 0:04:31.894,0:04:33.849 So it started to frighten me. 0:04:33.849,0:04:40.059 I went downstairs to talk with[br]the press agent about what was happening, 0:04:40.059,0:04:43.229 and when I arrived, there were[br]many people in the reception area, 0:04:43.229,0:04:47.571 press from all the places[br]that were covering the game. 0:04:47.571,0:04:51.191 I went upstairs fast, he came to my room,[br]"Look, people want to talk to you." 0:04:51.191,0:04:55.098 I said, "No, I have nothing to say. 0:04:55.098,0:04:58.408 Tell them that I am sleeping,[br]that I'm going to sleep, or something." 0:04:59.768,0:05:03.377 And when I woke up the next day,[br]we caught the flight, arrived in Brazil, 0:05:03.377,0:05:06.127 and the thing continued, even bigger. 0:05:06.127,0:05:11.961 And that frightened me because I didn't[br]want to see my name spinning like that. 0:05:11.961,0:05:14.849 Of course, I didn't look for that. 0:05:14.849,0:05:17.824 What I did was simply 0:05:17.824,0:05:21.224 give an answer like anyone[br]unprepared for the issue would, 0:05:21.224,0:05:23.354 but it was an answer[br]that came from my heart. 0:05:23.354,0:05:29.221 I think that in every battle,[br]in every war, or whatever, 0:05:29.221,0:05:32.061 the only solution for me is in love. 0:05:32.061,0:05:36.307 So, that's what I said, that I would trade[br]all my titles for equality. 0:05:36.307,0:05:39.729 That was what came to my mind,[br]and I seized that opportunity, 0:05:39.729,0:05:43.259 And the thing started to be[br]talked about more and more, 0:05:43.259,0:05:46.552 and then my phone rang. 0:05:46.982,0:05:49.982 It was Dinorah and Manuel, 0:05:49.982,0:05:53.982 who are representatives of CUFA,[br]Central Única das Favelas. 0:05:53.982,0:05:58.363 We've set up a few[br]football projects together, 0:05:58.363,0:06:02.302 so, we were already partners[br]in other activities, 0:06:02.302,0:06:05.748 and we talked about - 0:06:06.558,0:06:08.418 because the thing was so big - 0:06:08.418,0:06:11.748 creating a campaign, a project, something, 0:06:11.748,0:06:15.716 and we started to talk about names,[br]about what could be done ... 0:06:15.716,0:06:18.508 I remember that, out of the various[br]names being considered, 0:06:18.508,0:06:21.918 one was "Chutando o Racismo,"[br]"Kicking Racism," 0:06:21.918,0:06:25.985 as we were talking about that,[br]and the World Cup was coming up. 0:06:26.755,0:06:28.236 We reached a conclusion. 0:06:28.236,0:06:33.056 I thought the name should be "Chutando[br]o Preconceito," "Kicking Prejudice," 0:06:33.056,0:06:36.966 and they immediately agreed[br]because there was this idea, 0:06:36.966,0:06:41.508 that we should talk not only [br]about racism, but all types of prejudice, 0:06:41.508,0:06:48.768 because I believe that when I am lecturing[br]and talking about prejudice, 0:06:48.768,0:06:54.057 I don't need to talk about what I suffered[br]or what I am going to suffer 0:06:54.057,0:06:57.887 for the color of my skin, or for my hair, 0:06:57.887,0:07:01.354 just as I believe also that when we[br]are talking about a disabled person, 0:07:01.354,0:07:03.374 someone in a wheelchair[br]or an obese person, 0:07:03.374,0:07:06.278 we don't need to talk[br]about what they have suffered 0:07:06.278,0:07:09.778 or are going to suffer from their problem. 0:07:09.778,0:07:15.478 With our eyes, we can see[br]and imagine many things, 0:07:15.478,0:07:19.978 and all of us have[br]a little prejudice in our hearts. 0:07:19.978,0:07:24.301 Both the black and the white,[br]anyway, we have it. 0:07:24.301,0:07:29.170 What I try to convey is that we first[br]accept that we have this, 0:07:29.170,0:07:31.102 and then try to evolve, to improve. 0:07:32.202,0:07:34.930 And then we created the project[br]"Kicking Prejudice." 0:07:34.930,0:07:39.331 The project's first action[br]was at Shopping Total. 0:07:39.331,0:07:45.361 We did a really cool activity,[br]many participated, influential people, 0:07:45.361,0:07:48.191 both from football and the media. 0:07:48.191,0:07:52.351 And this ended up running all over Brazil 0:07:52.351,0:07:56.931 where I gave 16 lectures in 2014. 0:07:56.931,0:08:00.557 I didn't give more because[br]I was playing and didn't have time. 0:08:01.587,0:08:05.778 Many of these lectures used[br]a question-and-answer model, 0:08:08.648,0:08:12.968 and what surprised me a lot[br]was that each time I lectured, 0:08:12.968,0:08:16.468 there were always some repeated questions, 0:08:16.468,0:08:20.971 about how I overcame it, 0:08:20.971,0:08:24.401 how I had the calmness 0:08:24.401,0:08:29.171 to overcome or live with it and be calm. 0:08:29.171,0:08:32.373 Because it wasn't the first time[br]that this happened to an athlete, 0:08:32.373,0:08:36.593 this has already happened many times,[br]especially in Europe, it happens nonstop, 0:08:36.593,0:08:40.370 and in the majority of cases,[br]athletes, whether entitled or not, 0:08:40.370,0:08:42.530 react to it in a different way. 0:08:42.530,0:08:45.678 Many leave the football field,[br]many throw their shirt, 0:08:45.678,0:08:48.988 many react by cursing the fan. 0:08:49.888,0:08:52.563 I believe that each one reacts in one way, 0:08:52.563,0:08:57.463 and the way that I reacted was[br]that I only gave a short sentence, 0:08:57.463,0:09:02.950 but I think that this is what made[br]a difference and an impact. 0:09:02.950,0:09:09.582 So they asked this a lot, how I,[br]as a person, had reacted like this. 0:09:09.582,0:09:14.338 I couldn't say why I reacted in this way 0:09:14.338,0:09:17.208 without talking about my life 0:09:17.208,0:09:22.731 because we don't do anything[br]for which we are not prepared. 0:09:23.261,0:09:25.905 My preparation, my base - 0:09:25.905,0:09:28.735 I always say that I had a very good base. 0:09:29.275,0:09:33.265 I will explain to you about[br]my family base which was very good, 0:09:33.265,0:09:36.798 a base in which I was raised[br]practically by my mother alone. 0:09:36.798,0:09:42.396 When I was seven, my father abandoned us,[br]it was just my older sister and me. 0:09:43.406,0:09:46.898 A base where my mother[br]left for work at 7 a.m. 0:09:46.898,0:09:50.108 and came back home at 6 p.m. 0:09:50.108,0:09:57.098 This is one of the things[br]that I remember most, 0:09:57.098,0:10:01.468 that my mother, when Friday,[br]Saturday and Sunday arrived, 0:10:01.468,0:10:04.581 mainly Friday and Saturday,[br]as she worked at a club, 0:10:04.581,0:10:07.915 there would be parties,[br]dancing, at the club, 0:10:07.915,0:10:10.685 so she worked extra hours. 0:10:10.685,0:10:14.452 And that was an extra source of income. 0:10:14.452,0:10:18.399 I remember that I liked to play football, 0:10:18.399,0:10:21.147 I arrived at 6 p.m. at home[br]and my mother said, 0:10:21.147,0:10:25.157 "Son, don't make any noise because I have[br]to go out again at 10 p.m. to work." 0:10:25.157,0:10:29.567 There were three short hours that she had[br]to sleep and to return to work 0:10:29.567,0:10:32.057 because she worked all night. 0:10:32.357,0:10:34.392 So this is the base that I have, 0:10:34.392,0:10:38.432 and the memory that I have[br]of childhood is a memory of work, 0:10:38.432,0:10:40.277 that I arrived at home, 0:10:40.277,0:10:44.987 my mother had just arrived from work[br]and was already resting to work again. 0:10:44.987,0:10:48.819 I woke up in the morning and she arrived[br]at seven, eight o'clock in the morning, 0:10:48.819,0:10:51.483 bringing something different, 0:10:51.483,0:10:55.963 maybe something to eat[br]that I hadn't had all week. 0:10:56.413,0:10:58.777 So, in my head, I imagined 0:10:58.777,0:11:02.647 that work, honesty, her discipline[br]to the schedule that she kept, 0:11:02.647,0:11:06.580 sleeping just a bit to then leave again,[br]this brought good things. 0:11:06.580,0:11:10.580 I would wake up in the morning[br]and stay at the window waiting. 0:11:10.580,0:11:14.157 She would come carrying bags[br]and I would run to get them. 0:11:14.157,0:11:18.573 I was growing up imagining that work 0:11:18.573,0:11:21.933 and meeting schedules was a good thing 0:11:21.933,0:11:24.648 because when I asked for sneakers[br]or something, she said, 0:11:24.648,0:11:28.558 "This week I will work longer[br]so I can buy the sneakers." 0:11:28.558,0:11:33.767 So the base that I had was of work,[br]of honesty, of keeping a schedule. 0:11:34.227,0:11:37.477 And these were things[br]that I carried into my career, 0:11:37.477,0:11:42.573 since I arrived in Grêmio, at 15. 0:11:42.573,0:11:46.521 I always say that I was educated[br]inside of sports, 0:11:46.521,0:11:51.811 and, for this reason, I strongly encourage[br]all schools that have sports, music, 0:11:51.811,0:11:56.327 or whatever thing that teaches discipline[br]and maintaining schedules. 0:11:58.917,0:12:02.386 I ended up carrying this[br]through my entire life, 0:12:02.386,0:12:05.716 so I always tell people 0:12:06.766,0:12:09.496 that having a schedule,[br]a work schedule, was my base. 0:12:09.496,0:12:10.960 Why do I say this? 0:12:10.960,0:12:16.190 Because I see a lot[br]of people taking a stand 0:12:16.190,0:12:19.540 and, sometimes, even using as an excuse[br]the fact that they had no base, 0:12:19.540,0:12:22.697 that they've been raised[br]only by their mother, or by their father, 0:12:22.697,0:12:26.656 and that was what they lacked. 0:12:26.656,0:12:32.667 I don't see this, I can say that my mother[br]raised me alone with a good base, 0:12:32.667,0:12:35.436 and she was working,[br]practically the entire day. 0:12:35.436,0:12:39.875 So truly, as we've discussed here,[br]we choose our destiny, 0:12:39.875,0:12:44.305 we choose what we want[br]to take by example. 0:12:45.015,0:12:47.561 I could very well use this as an excuse, 0:12:47.561,0:12:52.591 I was raised by my mother and practically[br]didn't see her, only saw her at night, 0:12:52.591,0:12:54.445 and could use this as an excuse 0:12:54.445,0:13:00.567 and become a person without objectives,[br]without focus, without a profession. 0:13:01.867,0:13:04.484 And many people say,[br]"Oh, but he was lucky." 0:13:04.484,0:13:07.029 I did have much luck, 0:13:07.029,0:13:10.939 and every time that luck found me,[br]it found me working. 0:13:10.939,0:13:12.949 This was the great luck that I had. 0:13:12.949,0:13:15.610 When luck came to me,[br]it always found me doing something. 0:13:15.610,0:13:18.590 I was always working, waiting for it. 0:13:18.590,0:13:24.024 This is the luck that I have in my life, 0:13:24.024,0:13:27.774 of having had my mother's example, 0:13:27.774,0:13:31.618 an example of much struggle, of much work. 0:13:34.747,0:13:37.337 I'd like you to know 0:13:39.687,0:13:41.947 that I am proud to see, 0:13:41.947,0:13:43.957 on a Saturday morning, 0:13:43.957,0:13:49.197 persons of different ages and professions 0:13:49.197,0:13:53.087 worried about so many issues[br]that are going to be discussed here. 0:13:53.087,0:13:58.571 This shows that we are capable of being[br]a better country, of being better people. 0:13:58.571,0:14:02.201 This encourages me because[br]on a Saturday morning, 0:14:02.201,0:14:04.944 although we could be doing[br]many other things, we are here 0:14:04.944,0:14:08.797 to listen to different stories,[br]different lives. 0:14:08.797,0:14:12.457 This shows that we have dedicated people, 0:14:12.457,0:14:15.379 people that can change the world,[br]like was said here. 0:14:15.379,0:14:17.207 If each one of us changes our world, 0:14:17.207,0:14:22.697 we are going to reach a higher goal,[br]each one trying to change their world. 0:14:23.807,0:14:29.072 And this was one of the things[br]that encouraged me, 0:14:30.772,0:14:37.322 each day, to not only become[br]a player, but to become a person 0:14:37.322,0:14:42.417 because I always thought about the day[br]when I would stop playing football; 0:14:42.417,0:14:47.327 I would have to deal[br]with Paulo César, the person. 0:14:47.617,0:14:51.437 Even with failures and successes[br]because we are human, we are like that, 0:14:51.437,0:14:57.357 I always seek to have a life[br]that I can follow after football, 0:14:57.357,0:14:58.517 with respect as a man. 0:14:58.517,0:15:03.067 I believe that when we have[br]a talent or do something, 0:15:03.067,0:15:06.667 many times people put up with us[br]because of the talent we have, 0:15:06.667,0:15:11.052 but when we are men and have a discipline, 0:15:11.052,0:15:14.772 people put up with us,[br]in fact they respect us, 0:15:14.772,0:15:16.462 they like us for our character. 0:15:16.462,0:15:20.724 This is one of the things I have learned,[br]and I wanted to pass on to you: 0:15:22.364,0:15:24.964 through work and through honesty, 0:15:24.964,0:15:28.324 we can reach our goals. 0:15:28.324,0:15:32.672 I have learned in recent years 0:15:32.672,0:15:36.712 the great "trickery" of the century. 0:15:36.712,0:15:40.245 When I say this word, people get scared, 0:15:40.245,0:15:43.135 and I don't like it either, 0:15:43.135,0:15:45.877 but I have learned this, 0:15:45.877,0:15:50.797 I have lived this in the[br]most recent years of my career, 0:15:50.797,0:15:53.817 mainly by working outside of football too, 0:15:53.817,0:15:58.084 as much in the social part as other areas, 0:15:59.224,0:16:02.817 that the great trickery[br]of the century is honesty. 0:16:03.537,0:16:07.374 This is something that seems very simple, 0:16:07.374,0:16:11.874 but today, honesty is the great[br]trickery of the century, in business, 0:16:11.874,0:16:14.637 in day to day routine, and for people 0:16:14.637,0:16:16.299 it is very difficult to have. 0:16:16.299,0:16:20.375 Today everyone is thinking about[br]their own advantage, where they can win, 0:16:20.375,0:16:25.447 or what they will have to do to get there,[br]so it is very difficult to live this. 0:16:25.447,0:16:27.823 I have lived this way[br]the last years of my career, 0:16:27.823,0:16:31.932 and it has given me great joy. 0:16:33.293,0:16:38.313 I was not supposed to do it,[br]but I am going to confide in you here 0:16:38.993,0:16:41.902 and say that I am going[br]to stop playing in April. 0:16:41.902,0:16:44.422 I am telling you firsthand. 0:16:44.422,0:16:46.898 I felt the need to say this here, now. 0:16:48.248,0:16:51.558 I am going to stop with great honor. 0:16:52.618,0:16:55.622 (Applause) 0:17:18.022,0:17:20.352 (Applause) (Cheers) 0:17:27.482,0:17:28.482 Thank you. 0:17:30.359,0:17:31.356 Thank you. 0:17:31.376,0:17:37.316 Maybe what every player[br]and every athlete dreams of 0:17:38.826,0:17:42.824 is to announce this in a full stadium[br]as those where I've lived my entire life, 0:17:42.824,0:17:44.745 but for me, my biggest pride 0:17:44.745,0:17:48.975 is to be announcing this in a room[br]with so many educated people, 0:17:49.815,0:17:51.582 so many trained people. 0:17:52.187,0:17:56.212 My dream from when I started 0:17:56.212,0:18:01.782 was to be able one day to be on a stage 0:18:01.782,0:18:06.302 talking for people who truly are idols. 0:18:06.302,0:18:11.504 For me a true idol is a teacher, a doctor, 0:18:11.504,0:18:14.264 those that educate, those that form. 0:18:14.874,0:18:16.494 For me, this is the true idol, 0:18:16.494,0:18:19.416 those that save lives,[br]those that care for lives. 0:18:20.386,0:18:22.786 So I could do this in a packed stadium, 0:18:22.786,0:18:25.998 but I have great pride[br]in the fact that I can do this - 0:18:25.998,0:18:29.403 I don't know how many people are here, 0:18:29.403,0:18:33.194 but I know that those who are here[br]are persons that truly influence lives. 0:18:33.637,0:18:34.637 Thank you so much. 0:18:34.637,0:18:38.817 That's how I kicked all the difficulties[br]I came across in my life. 0:18:38.817,0:18:40.754 I want to know how you are going to kick 0:18:40.754,0:18:43.014 the difficulties[br]you come across in your lives. 0:18:43.014,0:18:45.839 (Applause) (Cheers)