[Script Info] Title: [Events] Format: Layer, Start, End, Style, Name, MarginL, MarginR, MarginV, Effect, Text Dialogue: 0,0:00:00.52,0:00:01.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there is a bug Dialogue: 0,0:00:01.95,0:00:05.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I can not realy on clicking on the terminal to open a link in a browser Dialogue: 0,0:00:05.65,0:00:08.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because there is currently a bug in konsole with a k Dialogue: 0,0:00:08.87,0:00:12.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that opens link in random browsers Dialogue: 0,0:00:14.76,0:00:19.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and i learned that i have a browser installed that i didnt know existed Dialogue: 0,0:00:19.01,0:00:22.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,its called eric6 Dialogue: 0,0:00:22.62,0:00:30.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and if you have the eric python\Ngraphical development environment installed Dialogue: 0,0:00:31.04,0:00:38.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it contains a browser and it maps it to mine Dialogue: 0,0:00:38.24,0:00:43.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and if you have a terminal that for some reason open browsers at random Dialogue: 0,0:00:43.00,0:00:47.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you get links to open in that Dialogue: 0,0:00:47.10,0:00:49.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so ill copy and paste the urls Dialogue: 0,0:00:49.49,0:00:51.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it will be a little slower Dialogue: 0,0:00:51.22,0:00:53.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i think i have 5 minutes still to go Dialogue: 0,0:00:58.04,0:01:01.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,time passes quickly when you have fun Dialogue: 0,0:01:04.60,0:01:08.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,audience: install terminator! Dialogue: 0,0:01:08.40,0:01:09.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,enrico: no Dialogue: 0,0:01:09.68,0:01:14.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if look at my blog, there is a list of requirements for termianl emulators Dialogue: 0,0:01:14.04,0:01:17.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and the reason they all suck Dialogue: 0,0:01:17.08,0:01:20.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,all the bits that do not work Dialogue: 0,0:01:20.80,0:01:24.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,now terminator is in that list, it has things that dont work for me Dialogue: 0,0:01:24.42,0:01:27.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but we have the upstream for the ?? terminal at the conference Dialogue: 0,0:01:27.86,0:01:31.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that has seen the list and went like Dialogue: 0,0:01:31.10,0:01:33.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that i implemented 2 days ago Dialogue: 0,0:01:33.78,0:01:35.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that is in my todo list now Dialogue: 0,0:01:35.54,0:01:39.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that, let take a look at the code, yes i can do it Dialogue: 0,0:01:39.70,0:01:41.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,im working on it Dialogue: 0,0:01:41.80,0:01:44.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and so thank you Dialogue: 0,0:01:59.64,0:02:01.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,3 minutes i believe Dialogue: 0,0:02:01.88,0:02:02.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,2 Dialogue: 0,0:02:06.89,0:02:09.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,well, in the meantime, i will read something Dialogue: 0,0:02:09.60,0:02:14.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that i guess everyone \Nshould had read before entering Dialogue: 0,0:02:14.30,0:02:17.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,which is, i will ramble freely\Nabout debian Dialogue: 0,0:02:17.87,0:02:20.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and everything i care about Dialogue: 0,0:02:20.18,0:02:23.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and you are going to have the misfortune Dialogue: 0,0:02:24.04,0:02:27.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of figuring out what it is that \Ni also care about Dialogue: 0,0:02:29.63,0:02:32.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i will cover topics including Dialogue: 0,0:02:33.00,0:02:35.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but specially, not limited to, Dialogue: 0,0:02:36.02,0:02:39.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,anarchism, relationships, sex, violence Dialogue: 0,0:02:39.67,0:02:42.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,society, stereotypes and expectations Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and i will always be talking about debian Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,really Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i expect that this talks will be both Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,unsuitable and insightful for pretty much Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,any kind of audience that i can think of Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and first 3 minutes of it are about making sure Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you understand what will be the remaining 27 Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and have a chance to leave Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,after 3 minutes if you leave Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you are kinda seen by everyone or something Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but some shy people might Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i dont know Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,no, at any point in the talk Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if anybody want to safe word out Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and ill explain what the safe word is Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but if anybody want out and Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,lalala i dont want to hear anymore Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,raise your hand, i will stop Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,black the screen Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,?? my ?? file will show up in my clumsy attempt Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to black the screen, and waiting for you to leave Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the room before resuming, so Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,?? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,quotations that are famous anarchists have said Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,hundreds of years ago about debian Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,like this could be about mailing list discussions Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for example Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i guess i can begin Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,chapter one: disclaimers Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,sorry, I was supposed to be introduced Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I was born... Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is it on? okay Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it gives me great pleasure to introduce a man that Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that pushed me into the maintainers process about Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,seven years ago Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Enrico Zini Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so, chapter one: disclaimers Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i will let people know my better introducer Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Aida: anyhow if you are still a little dark Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in the end, just ask a young person or google Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i mean, dont take your computer for a ?? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i mean ?? afterwards Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Enrico: that songs talks about dogging Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,which is an interesting topic to kind of give Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,an idea about the rest of the thing Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,its good to give you an idea about the level Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of the rest of the discussion Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so you know what is going to happen Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,dogging redirect to public sex Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,its one of the famous Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,anyone safewording outs? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you okay? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,its a british thing apparently Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a british are famous for steam engines Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and dogging and a bunch of other things Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,hot and cold water, ?? but dogging in this case Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and dogging like debian has Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a code of conduct Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,its good that we found a liquor tap Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,which people who are doing things seriously Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there is more if you goggle Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but yeah, its always sex in public spaces Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,its usually done with cars Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in cars, im not sure someone might Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but i personally wouldnt recommend it Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,its not my thing Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,theres a code that if you would like to be seen Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,while you do it, you leave the light on Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,inside the car Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if you want to be followed into another's place Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you flash your lights Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i think there was a thing about raising the windows Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but im not sure about that Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,theres a wonderful documental from BBC Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,where you can find Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ask the british Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so this set Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Aida: theres a sense of dispossition Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,leave now Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,right, we can begin Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,about the debian social contract Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and Emma Goldman said once that Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Every daring attempt to make a great change Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in existing conditions, every lofty vision of Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,new possibilities for the human race Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,has been labeled Utopian Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we do Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,im going to talk about many topics Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that we all know have so much in common Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Anarchism, poliamory, BSDM and free software Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and after all, they are about people Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,consensually, doing things together, right? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,people consensually doing things together Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so its different communities, with some overlaps Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they are different communities of people Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,consensually doing things together and Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there a lot to talk, theres a lot to learn Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,from each other, because for a reason Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or another all this communities are focus on Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,different aspects of aspects of consensually Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,doing things together Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,anarchism might focus more on the political side Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,BDSM might focus more on the consensual side Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and on the things that you do, free software Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and poliamory have a lot of focus on the political Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the doing things, the consensual and ?? everything else Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,chapter 2: BDSM Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Lysander Spooner talking about proprietary cloud Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,service providers said that Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,A person is no less a slave because they are allowed Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to choose a new master once in a term of years Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so, BDSM Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we freesoftware people think that we are clever Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because we have recursive acronyms Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,BDSM stands for Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Bondage disco is an interesting concept Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we could expanded later im sure it can go somewhere Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who was in the debian contributors this afternoon Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,has worked on code that submits debian developers Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,sorry, submit debian contributors to the site Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but its not the same thing Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so its a chained acronym Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,BD, DS, SM (Bondage Discipline, Dominance Submission, Sado Masochism) Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so thats the first thing we have in common Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,clever acronyms Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so its about some of those things Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i think BDSM is really interesting not just because Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of whips but also for having develop over the years Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a lot of awareness about power relationships Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,its in the acronym, dominance-submission-discipline Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with that in mind i have a BDSM freesoftware definition Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i refuse to be bound by software Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i cannot negotiate with Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and how i negotiate with software Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,well, if i have the source code i can come to terms Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with it and nogiating my interaction and if i dont Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the source code or i dont have the ability to change it Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,then im stuck, right? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so i think thats a pretty good definition of freesoftware Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,im very proud of that Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so thats another way to coceptualize freesoftware that Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i think that can be understood really well by people Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who may struggle with the four freedoms or the 10 points Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of the ?? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so thats one thing that could be carried across Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,theres another acronym that i would like to submit Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to your consideration which is this Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Your Kink Is Not My Kink But Your Kink Is Okay (YKINMKBYKIOK) Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,which i said but i should expand it for those that dont Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,find it obvious Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,kink is something people do Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and something that some other people might not want to do Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in the BSDM community is costumary to say Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,your kink is not my kink but your kink is okay Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the idea is to be non judgamental but at the same time Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to pull oneself out from somebody that one doesnt want to do Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in my opinion, this is the final solution Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for the VI vs EMACS problem Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,im really eager to carry this into the freesoftware Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,community, it would solve a lot of things Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,other interesting things about BDSM is awareness about Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,confort zones i know when im doing something im confortable with Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i know my limits i know the limits i have i do not want to push Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i learned to communicate all this Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,otherwise dissaster happens Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there are safewords to prevent dissater to happen Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,safeword means a word that means stop everything right now Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,no matter what Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there is even level of safe words Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,common standard traffic lights green, yellow, red Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,green means yeah, bring it on Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,yellow means this is getting intense, but do go on Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,red means stop right now or i will call the police Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,once i manage to manage to wiggle free of this Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,incidentally safe words are something we dont have in debian Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and i would be interested to have Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there are things that i see in mailing lists that i would like Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to safeword out Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there is the clause the mail browser option yes Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it works pretty well, but then some people might take decisions Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and then... well, its a concept i think should be explored Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,theres this nice gift that tell me that i can zoom, yes Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"No means no", unless there has been a long discussion first, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and a safeword is in place, in which case "Fuzzy purple unicorn" means "no" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,thats the idea of safewords and "no means no" is an important Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,concept in most of the BSDM community Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,theres the some fringes in there but i think is unimportant Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,theres an interesting thing coming from the BDSM comunity Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is the awereness that really, when no means no Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is easier to say yes Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if im around a person that says, would you like to have tea Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and i say mmm nooo? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and i go like: but do have tea, tea is good Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and im like no Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and it goes: but its really good tea Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,then i start feeling really unconfortable and chances are Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i dont want to drink anymore tea in my whole life Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,which is a shame, because i might like tea Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,incidentally, you can have consent explain with tea Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,video: if you are still struggling with consent Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,just imagine instead of iniciating sex, you are making them a cup of tea Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you said: hey, would you like a cup of tea? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they go: omg, fuck yes, i would fucking love a cup of tea Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,thank you Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,then you know they want a cup of tea Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if you say: hey would you like a cup of tea? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they are like: hmmm, you know, im not really sure Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but you could make him a cup of tea or not Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you could make him a cup of tea... or not Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but be aware they might not drink it Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and if they dont drink it, then if they dont drink it Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,then, and this is the important part, dont make them drink it Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,just because you made it, doenst mean you are entitled to watch them Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,drink it Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and if they say: no thank you Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,then, dont make them tea. That is all Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,enrico: i highly recommend this video Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,consent is important, ill come back to it later Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,theres another thing that i really like about BDSM Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,its a concept wich is aftercare Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the idea is that after you are having a person, bound... whatever Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and you both have push your comfort\Nzones a little further than usual Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when the whole thing ends, there's a\Nmoment of recovering Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,getting back inside the comfort zones of love,\Nof celebration Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,which is called aftercare, which is\Nsomething Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that we dont do much in debian Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we do debian release parties. Aftercare for release Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we are out of the bindings of the free spirit Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and then we get back into the comfort zone Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of freedom and gcc transition and breaking\Nunstable Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but there could be moments of celebration Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,after each vote on something Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there could be solidarity towards the people Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that werent represented on the results\Nof the election Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or high fives after springs and\Nlots of efforts Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,thats another thing that, in part we do, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but could do more, because more hacks\Nis nice Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,except if one does not like hacks Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,at first, approach people at front\Nif you want to hug Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and signal that you want a hug, \Nbefore entering their personal espace Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,do not hug people from the back,\Nthat short of things Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,chapter previous + 1: poliamory