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<Essence of Friendship Is Equality>

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(Questioner) I want to thank you
for your helpful public sessions.

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My question is about reactions
I get from my friends when I talk.

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My talk seems to bring down
the mood and people

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do not react or respond
to what I say.

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I tried to be friendly
but it made me feel

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more timid and introverted
afterwards.

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Recently, rather than trying to
get together with people,

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I spend time by myself
at home.

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The more I try to talk with people,
I feel more withdrawn inside.

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I don't know how to go
about this.

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That's my concern right now
and the question for you.

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(Sunim) Why do you
feel awkward and withdrawn?

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(Questioner) Just happens...
When people do not react

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and it gets quiet, I think 
to myself,

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""What am I doing right now?"
and feel self-conscious.

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(Sunim) So,

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