WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:05.339 we become what we think about focus on 00:00:02.820 --> 00:00:07.350 what you want rather than focusing on 00:00:05.339 --> 00:00:10.290 what you don't want so who do you want 00:00:07.350 --> 00:00:15.570 to be you know why why did why are you 00:00:10.290 --> 00:00:19.380 here on this planet you live according 00:00:15.570 --> 00:00:21.449 to the principles of love compassion you 00:00:19.380 --> 00:00:24.900 know appreciative joy you know 00:00:21.449 --> 00:00:28.199 celebrating other people's successes but 00:00:24.900 --> 00:00:31.230 how do you overcome hatred and confusion 00:00:28.199 --> 00:00:33.300 and just having a good heart then I 00:00:31.230 --> 00:00:35.309 think that's what happened to me then I 00:00:33.300 --> 00:00:37.260 start to get clear about what what I 00:00:35.309 --> 00:00:41.430 like to do and how I can be of service 00:00:37.260 --> 00:00:44.040 how can I help other people that we were 00:00:41.430 --> 00:00:45.870 wired for success but it's how we relate 00:00:44.040 --> 00:00:49.680 to our experience that determines 00:00:45.870 --> 00:00:52.920 whether we're chipping away or we're you 00:00:49.680 --> 00:00:58.770 know kind of burying that sense of 00:00:52.920 --> 00:01:01.379 wholeness that we that were born with it 00:00:58.770 --> 00:01:03.660 just that we forget it we don't look 00:01:01.379 --> 00:01:05.549 inside we're looking outside and so 00:01:03.660 --> 00:01:07.619 unless we're still and we think about it 00:01:05.549 --> 00:01:09.900 and we understand that I was born with 00:01:07.619 --> 00:01:12.600 this masterpieces no one can give it to 00:01:09.900 --> 00:01:15.960 me or take it away it's it's an inside 00:01:12.600 --> 00:01:18.600 job and so if I look at what's right it 00:01:15.960 --> 00:01:20.220 just it makes makes a lot of sense so 00:01:18.600 --> 00:01:23.549 it's whether you're coming from a place 00:01:20.220 --> 00:01:25.500 of scarcity or I would say survival mode 00:01:23.549 --> 00:01:28.530 or coming from growth mode which has to 00:01:25.500 --> 00:01:31.439 do with yes I can't yes to life and I I 00:01:28.530 --> 00:01:34.500 have the capacity and the responsibility 00:01:31.439 --> 00:01:37.320 to make it different but to make it make 00:01:34.500 --> 00:01:39.420 it better having that faith that 00:01:37.320 --> 00:01:42.450 vulnerability that just see things that 00:01:39.420 --> 00:01:45.270 are hard to see gotta get comfortable 00:01:42.450 --> 00:01:46.620 being uncomfortable so can you handle 00:01:45.270 --> 00:01:49.140 the truth 00:01:46.620 --> 00:01:50.670 it's a question and if you can't then 00:01:49.140 --> 00:01:52.440 you if you see that that you can say 00:01:50.670 --> 00:01:54.870 well is if I'm going to change I'm gonna 00:01:52.440 --> 00:01:57.510 have to figure out how to deal with that 00:01:54.870 --> 00:01:59.490 discomfort until the point that I can 00:01:57.510 --> 00:02:01.620 see what I need to see then I can change 00:01:59.490 --> 00:02:05.010 it so as the persistence of continuing 00:02:01.620 --> 00:02:07.770 to do something that you can do it is is 00:02:05.010 --> 00:02:09.750 most of the work this is just continuing 00:02:07.770 --> 00:02:13.050 to make mistakes learn from mistakes but 00:02:09.750 --> 00:02:15.930 the mistakes are viewed as feedback not 00:02:13.050 --> 00:02:18.930 as I'm a failure it's just an event now 00:02:15.930 --> 00:02:20.580 who we are so that error correction is 00:02:18.930 --> 00:02:22.500 really important and when you can see 00:02:20.580 --> 00:02:25.440 when you attributed this something you 00:02:22.500 --> 00:02:28.230 can learn or change now you've got faith 00:02:25.440 --> 00:02:29.910 and confidence to do it versus if you're 00:02:28.230 --> 00:02:31.680 seeing it like oh I'm just not strong 00:02:29.910 --> 00:02:34.800 enough I'm not tall enough and all of 00:02:31.680 --> 00:02:36.270 that that's just that's what I call the 00:02:34.800 --> 00:02:38.550 negative committee telling you you can't 00:02:36.270 --> 00:02:39.990 do anything rather than saying well let 00:02:38.550 --> 00:02:41.670 me see what can i what I can do 00:02:39.990 --> 00:02:45.650 so it's like a child learn how to walk 00:02:41.670 --> 00:02:48.750 right same thing your life can change 00:02:45.650 --> 00:02:52.950 your life can be more than just a place 00:02:48.750 --> 00:02:56.190 it can be your future your success this 00:02:52.950 --> 00:02:58.620 change this change takes courage it 00:02:56.190 --> 00:03:00.930 takes courage to stand up and break down 00:02:58.620 --> 00:03:02.340 the aspects of your life that you know 00:03:00.930 --> 00:03:06.239 is holding you back 00:03:02.340 --> 00:03:09.020 let your progress be idolized let it 00:03:06.239 --> 00:03:09.020 speak for itself 00:03:10.010 --> 00:03:16.359 [Music] 00:03:13.959 --> 00:03:17.950 average becomes sort of like this slow 00:03:16.359 --> 00:03:20.230 asphyxiation it's almost like an 00:03:17.950 --> 00:03:22.150 anesthetic and that overtime would 00:03:20.230 --> 00:03:23.680 become kind of immune and dulled to the 00:03:22.150 --> 00:03:25.180 average that we're becoming I know this 00:03:23.680 --> 00:03:27.129 is true at least for me you probably 00:03:25.180 --> 00:03:29.290 experienced it yourself too and so over 00:03:27.129 --> 00:03:30.909 time we sort of minimize where we're at 00:03:29.290 --> 00:03:32.829 in other words I'm a little pudgy 00:03:30.909 --> 00:03:35.230 instead of being know your fat ass right 00:03:32.829 --> 00:03:37.180 you know you don't magnify the degree to 00:03:35.230 --> 00:03:38.829 which the pain ought to be affecting you 00:03:37.180 --> 00:03:40.629 and so really what he means on that is 00:03:38.829 --> 00:03:42.099 listen you're gonna get out of your life 00:03:40.629 --> 00:03:43.209 what you'll accept that's really 00:03:42.099 --> 00:03:44.500 difficult for people I think to 00:03:43.209 --> 00:03:46.030 understand is look what you think you're 00:03:44.500 --> 00:03:47.560 worth and what you're gonna tolerate is 00:03:46.030 --> 00:03:49.510 absolutely what you're gonna bring into 00:03:47.560 --> 00:03:50.829 your life and what the outward part of 00:03:49.510 --> 00:03:53.650 your life is gonna look like and so I 00:03:50.829 --> 00:03:56.549 live by that like I let myself sort of 00:03:53.650 --> 00:03:58.629 feel the pain and the difficulty of 00:03:56.549 --> 00:03:59.650 being not where I want to be in whatever 00:03:58.629 --> 00:04:02.139 that areas were those would be my 00:03:59.650 --> 00:04:04.209 spirituality my relationships my money I 00:04:02.139 --> 00:04:05.349 let myself feel that pain because as you 00:04:04.209 --> 00:04:07.299 know there's two motivators right 00:04:05.349 --> 00:04:08.980 there's the gaining of pleasure right 00:04:07.299 --> 00:04:10.959 wanting to go get something chasing the 00:04:08.980 --> 00:04:13.599 dream but then there's the avoidance of 00:04:10.959 --> 00:04:15.579 pain and for a lot of champions that's a 00:04:13.599 --> 00:04:17.650 pretty big driving force for them and so 00:04:15.579 --> 00:04:19.299 at least for me I I leveraged both of 00:04:17.650 --> 00:04:22.840 those things on me to get myself to take 00:04:19.299 --> 00:04:26.979 action one of the reasons I'm relatively 00:04:22.840 --> 00:04:28.570 fit is not just peak State I have an 00:04:26.979 --> 00:04:29.680 uncle and my family that died at 50 00:04:28.570 --> 00:04:31.659 years old of a heart attacks my 00:04:29.680 --> 00:04:34.630 godfather my dad's only brother I kind 00:04:31.659 --> 00:04:37.479 of resemble him and I look like a plan 00:04:34.630 --> 00:04:39.909 so on the way back from his funeral my 00:04:37.479 --> 00:04:41.530 reticular activating art attacks on the 00:04:39.909 --> 00:04:43.120 TV screen on the airplane I listen to 00:04:41.530 --> 00:04:45.009 music is the Oprah Winfrey Show she's 00:04:43.120 --> 00:04:46.809 going through a new heart scan 00:04:45.009 --> 00:04:49.270 I've unplugged my headphones plug into 00:04:46.809 --> 00:04:51.460 this airplane one I scheduled it I went 00:04:49.270 --> 00:04:53.110 in I had a world-class doctor who 00:04:51.460 --> 00:04:54.550 understood reasons and levers instead of 00:04:53.110 --> 00:04:55.659 just prescribing coolant only coach well 00:04:54.550 --> 00:04:57.279 you need to do this you need to do this 00:04:55.659 --> 00:04:57.699 like doctors do it take his pill take 00:04:57.279 --> 00:05:00.789 this 00:04:57.699 --> 00:05:01.930 he understood leverage and reasons what 00:05:00.789 --> 00:05:03.969 you do is to take the scan then you go 00:05:01.930 --> 00:05:06.610 to lunch you come back I took the scan I 00:05:03.969 --> 00:05:08.680 went those I had a burrito I came back 00:05:06.610 --> 00:05:12.419 and I'm in the LA when I walk in I sit 00:05:08.680 --> 00:05:12.419 down the doctor comes up and he says 00:05:13.380 --> 00:05:20.970 oh my I can't believe these arteries are 00:05:17.190 --> 00:05:22.620 in that young body got my attention we 00:05:20.970 --> 00:05:24.990 walk back in we sit down he could still 00:05:22.620 --> 00:05:26.220 go you need Crestor eat clean get out of 00:05:24.990 --> 00:05:28.950 here is know what an average doctor does 00:05:26.220 --> 00:05:30.720 right No wired me with huge reasons he 00:05:28.950 --> 00:05:31.950 goes let me ask you a question I heard 00:05:30.720 --> 00:05:33.930 your wife's pregnant you have I said I 00:05:31.950 --> 00:05:34.950 have a son and he says do you want to be 00:05:33.930 --> 00:05:37.590 there when he graduates from high school 00:05:34.950 --> 00:05:39.900 to be there for that day I said yes sir 00:05:37.590 --> 00:05:41.190 yeah he goes your wife's pregnant what 00:05:39.900 --> 00:05:43.230 do you have it I said a daughter this is 00:05:41.190 --> 00:05:45.270 where you get a dad he goes she was six 00:05:43.230 --> 00:05:46.560 months pregnant he goes do you um would 00:05:45.270 --> 00:05:48.000 you like to walk her down the aisle on 00:05:46.560 --> 00:05:49.790 her wedding day are you okay that it's 00:05:48.000 --> 00:05:57.200 some other man 00:05:49.790 --> 00:05:58.790 I went what the zahn this skin right 00:05:57.200 --> 00:06:00.050 like and he goes I want to be very clear 00:05:58.790 --> 00:06:01.820 with you if you keep going down the road 00:06:00.050 --> 00:06:03.590 you're going there'll be some other man 00:06:01.820 --> 00:06:05.570 with your son at graduation high school 00:06:03.590 --> 00:06:06.860 and a strangers walking your daughter 00:06:05.570 --> 00:06:09.380 down the aisle that's not even born yet 00:06:06.860 --> 00:06:11.180 on her wedding day and I went to him and 00:06:09.380 --> 00:06:14.060 he goes but if you do exactly what I 00:06:11.180 --> 00:06:16.040 tell you to do you'll be there and so to 00:06:14.060 --> 00:06:17.390 this day brother there are mornings when 00:06:16.040 --> 00:06:18.730 I wake up not every morning I don't want 00:06:17.390 --> 00:06:21.710 to go to the gym I go Bella's wedding 00:06:18.730 --> 00:06:23.900 Bella's wedding Bella's wedding so my 00:06:21.710 --> 00:06:26.120 standards are high because of my big old 00:06:23.900 --> 00:06:27.260 reasons other dudes may miss the gym 00:06:26.120 --> 00:06:28.520 that day cuz they're not gonna miss 00:06:27.260 --> 00:06:30.590 their daughter's wedding if they don't 00:06:28.520 --> 00:06:33.040 go but I've convinced myself I will get 00:06:30.590 --> 00:06:33.040 emotional 00:06:33.800 --> 00:06:37.550 I've convinced myself on this my 00:06:35.659 --> 00:06:39.050 daughter's wedding so I will get my ass 00:06:37.550 --> 00:06:40.580 out of bed at 4 o'clock in the morning 00:06:39.050 --> 00:06:42.620 and I will get to that gym because my 00:06:40.580 --> 00:06:45.379 reasons are bigger so my standards are 00:06:42.620 --> 00:06:49.270 higher so that's what I think causes us 00:06:45.379 --> 00:06:49.270 to have great standards as huge reasons 00:06:49.409 --> 00:06:56.540 when you're inspired by something or 00:06:51.629 --> 00:07:00.890 someone in your life you feel the magic 00:06:56.540 --> 00:07:03.680 now's the time to be the magic what are 00:07:00.890 --> 00:07:07.220 you going to do are you going to let the 00:07:03.680 --> 00:07:09.710 Masters inspire you to feel it or are 00:07:07.220 --> 00:07:11.400 you going to strive to be a master 00:07:09.710 --> 00:07:14.520 [Music] 00:07:11.400 --> 00:07:17.310 it's your choice the magic is waiting 00:07:14.520 --> 00:07:19.250 not only for you just a feeling but so 00:07:17.310 --> 00:07:23.699 be it 00:07:19.250 --> 00:07:26.550 nobody can take this away in your life 00:07:23.699 --> 00:07:28.949 you can't escape anything that goes 00:07:26.550 --> 00:07:30.350 along with life you know we are not 00:07:28.949 --> 00:07:37.220 immune to problems 00:07:30.350 --> 00:07:37.220 drama trauma the tragedy you know we all 00:07:37.699 --> 00:07:42.780 here as human beings so you know when 00:07:41.790 --> 00:07:44.430 you're going through some sort of 00:07:42.780 --> 00:07:46.020 difficulties you know first fighting or 00:07:44.430 --> 00:07:48.600 whatever that difficulty may be you know 00:07:46.020 --> 00:07:51.510 you know we do with within your power in 00:07:48.600 --> 00:07:53.250 terms of how to start slowly you know 00:07:51.510 --> 00:07:56.010 get yourself out of that situation 00:07:53.250 --> 00:07:59.310 and you believe you'd be optimistic 00:07:56.010 --> 00:08:02.430 about you know being negative about a 00:07:59.310 --> 00:08:04.789 situation stand in that place it never 00:08:02.430 --> 00:08:07.050 helps you know it's nothing wrong with 00:08:04.789 --> 00:08:09.120 understanding that place feeling bad 00:08:07.050 --> 00:08:12.510 about it looking at it for what it is 00:08:09.120 --> 00:08:14.130 but don't stay there you've got to get 00:08:12.510 --> 00:08:17.340 back on that other side and start 00:08:14.130 --> 00:08:20.849 looking at the resolved resolution of 00:08:17.340 --> 00:08:23.789 how can I get back to feeling good and 00:08:20.849 --> 00:08:27.320 feeling prosperous again to where I'm 00:08:23.789 --> 00:08:27.320 not dealing with this obstacle 00:08:30.210 --> 00:08:35.219 words are very powerful very powerful so 00:08:33.390 --> 00:08:37.649 the thing is about getting within 00:08:35.219 --> 00:08:39.959 yourself and understand who you are to 00:08:37.649 --> 00:08:41.250 kind of you know what off those negative 00:08:39.959 --> 00:08:43.050 comments that's coming towards my 00:08:41.250 --> 00:08:44.760 virtually always prepared you know you 00:08:43.050 --> 00:08:47.760 have to go for those things in order to 00:08:44.760 --> 00:08:49.350 see it in light of the light at the end 00:08:47.760 --> 00:08:51.720 of the tunnel you know I don't think 00:08:49.350 --> 00:08:53.160 anything is going to just be like this 00:08:51.720 --> 00:08:54.750 throughout your life and then you have 00:08:53.160 --> 00:08:57.570 to go through that difficult overcome 00:08:54.750 --> 00:08:59.070 obstacle because it's a testament of 00:08:57.570 --> 00:09:01.080 your character of who you are in high 00:08:59.070 --> 00:09:03.029 gear to deal with certain things you 00:09:01.080 --> 00:09:07.950 know to get yourself back on it playing 00:09:03.029 --> 00:09:10.589 field everything happened for a reason 00:09:07.950 --> 00:09:12.720 no regrets all the negative things that 00:09:10.589 --> 00:09:14.790 happened I'm thankful for it because I 00:09:12.720 --> 00:09:17.040 learned hopefully I learned from those 00:09:14.790 --> 00:09:20.130 situations and all the positive things 00:09:17.040 --> 00:09:22.770 I'm humbly grateful that those was able 00:09:20.130 --> 00:09:25.140 to take place and still striving to be 00:09:22.770 --> 00:09:27.330 the best I can be and you know going 00:09:25.140 --> 00:09:30.660 forward people didn't care at some kid 00:09:27.330 --> 00:09:33.779 to be the best they could be you know 00:09:30.660 --> 00:09:38.480 anything is possible positive thinking 00:09:33.779 --> 00:09:38.480 is also translating them you know so 00:09:38.850 --> 00:09:44.160 when you have something that's positive 00:09:41.579 --> 00:09:46.380 up there you can be you know the best 00:09:44.160 --> 00:09:48.000 you can be you know any negative out 00:09:46.380 --> 00:09:51.779 there and you could bring down the worst 00:09:48.000 --> 00:09:54.630 person misery loves company misery loves 00:09:51.779 --> 00:09:57.060 company so we are not debbie down as we 00:09:54.630 --> 00:09:59.220 more uplifters you know we always no 00:09:57.060 --> 00:10:02.190 matter what the situation with the 00:09:59.220 --> 00:10:04.949 situation is we're gonna try to look for 00:10:02.190 --> 00:10:10.170 the outcome the better of that situation 00:10:04.949 --> 00:10:12.180 you know if we can't find a resolution 00:10:10.170 --> 00:10:14.279 to get out of it you know we're gonna 00:10:12.180 --> 00:10:16.529 keep on searching the continue to try to 00:10:14.279 --> 00:10:18.810 find a resolution to get out of because 00:10:16.529 --> 00:10:20.220 that's what you do you know that's how 00:10:18.810 --> 00:10:23.639 you get to the bottom of that's how you 00:10:20.220 --> 00:10:25.829 get to the facts of Nass are you willing 00:10:23.639 --> 00:10:28.620 to breath are you willing to be the 00:10:25.829 --> 00:10:31.589 warrior bring your shield bring your 00:10:28.620 --> 00:10:34.050 sword stand up and fight today will be 00:10:31.589 --> 00:10:36.540 the day where you can take control take 00:10:34.050 --> 00:10:39.360 control of your power become this power 00:10:36.540 --> 00:10:42.120 because now is the time to fight you're 00:10:39.360 --> 00:10:45.649 a warrior warriors don't give up and 00:10:42.120 --> 00:10:48.779 they don't back down become the warrior 00:10:45.649 --> 00:10:51.569 transform your life transform yourself 00:10:48.779 --> 00:10:52.560 head out into battle step on to the 00:10:51.569 --> 00:10:55.439 battlefield 00:10:52.560 --> 00:10:58.800 use your weapons to fight through this 00:10:55.439 --> 00:11:02.339 pain fight through the rejection learn 00:10:58.800 --> 00:11:06.120 from the bruises the blood scars because 00:11:02.339 --> 00:11:09.760 this time you can rise to become the 00:11:06.120 --> 00:11:13.780 step on to the Plainfield because now is 00:11:09.760 --> 00:11:18.760 the time to change now is the time to 00:11:13.780 --> 00:11:20.200 rise with the crown on your head you 00:11:18.760 --> 00:11:22.570 know you want to be a little bit better 00:11:20.200 --> 00:11:24.820 in some way tomorrow than you are today 00:11:22.570 --> 00:11:27.550 but it's not gonna be in a linear path 00:11:24.820 --> 00:11:30.850 again these go through cycles of stress 00:11:27.550 --> 00:11:33.330 and recovery so it's just kind of being 00:11:30.850 --> 00:11:36.100 able to surf the flow of that and know 00:11:33.330 --> 00:11:37.780 again it really comes down to balance so 00:11:36.100 --> 00:11:39.940 it's the practices that you need to know 00:11:37.780 --> 00:11:42.610 what to do for sure and then you need to 00:11:39.940 --> 00:11:45.010 know how to apply those things in the 00:11:42.610 --> 00:11:47.560 right way so when you when to push and 00:11:45.010 --> 00:11:49.120 when to take the pressure off the gas as 00:11:47.560 --> 00:11:51.100 well and I think that's really 00:11:49.120 --> 00:11:52.450 understanding that so part of it is the 00:11:51.100 --> 00:11:53.710 knowledge and then part of it is the 00:11:52.450 --> 00:11:56.620 follow-through and then part of it is 00:11:53.710 --> 00:11:58.680 the discipline to know not only when you 00:11:56.620 --> 00:12:02.710 need to go but when you need to rest I 00:11:58.680 --> 00:12:05.430 think it's important to really trust 00:12:02.710 --> 00:12:08.260 that what you're doing is going to work 00:12:05.430 --> 00:12:10.750 what's a day that makes life awesome and 00:12:08.260 --> 00:12:14.140 and makes you again a little bit better 00:12:10.750 --> 00:12:16.690 tomorrow from having done it today you 00:12:14.140 --> 00:12:18.790 have to really do the work like you have 00:12:16.690 --> 00:12:20.320 to back it with hard work you know any 00:12:18.790 --> 00:12:23.380 of you ask Conor McGregor like what's 00:12:20.320 --> 00:12:25.210 the secret to his success hard work hard 00:12:23.380 --> 00:12:27.010 work hard work I don't know if he 00:12:25.210 --> 00:12:28.960 actually worked harder than anybody but 00:12:27.010 --> 00:12:30.280 he believes he does you know he has no 00:12:28.960 --> 00:12:32.980 doubts in his mind that he's actually 00:12:30.280 --> 00:12:34.490 working harder and and that's I think 00:12:32.980 --> 00:12:36.980 important so 00:12:34.490 --> 00:12:38.930 really making sure that you really do 00:12:36.980 --> 00:12:41.390 your best to get the goods you know and 00:12:38.930 --> 00:12:42.770 to in to practice that and go out there 00:12:41.390 --> 00:12:45.020 and put yourself out there and then on 00:12:42.770 --> 00:12:46.399 the other side what is the thing what is 00:12:45.020 --> 00:12:48.529 the antagonist of belief well the 00:12:46.399 --> 00:12:51.320 antagonist of belief is fear you know 00:12:48.529 --> 00:12:52.910 fear is a belief that something negative 00:12:51.320 --> 00:12:54.440 is going to happen rather than something 00:12:52.910 --> 00:12:56.149 positive is going to happen so it's like 00:12:54.440 --> 00:12:58.700 that's on the other side you're almost 00:12:56.149 --> 00:13:00.200 believing in your failure right rather 00:12:58.700 --> 00:13:03.200 than believing in your success so you 00:13:00.200 --> 00:13:05.180 have to go attack and collapse these 00:13:03.200 --> 00:13:07.760 different fears and part of that is 00:13:05.180 --> 00:13:10.279 going to be sucking out the the penalty 00:13:07.760 --> 00:13:11.839 if if you fail right because like a lot 00:13:10.279 --> 00:13:13.459 of the fear comes because we're afraid 00:13:11.839 --> 00:13:15.410 that we're gonna judge ourselves harshly 00:13:13.459 --> 00:13:16.850 or whatever so you got to realize like 00:13:15.410 --> 00:13:18.770 there is no such thing as failure 00:13:16.850 --> 00:13:20.810 there's just learning right so you 00:13:18.770 --> 00:13:22.850 collapse the penalty for failure so that 00:13:20.810 --> 00:13:24.830 collapses the fear which allows you to 00:13:22.850 --> 00:13:26.240 believe even more so that's one way to 00:13:24.830 --> 00:13:27.410 do it and the other way is to just look 00:13:26.240 --> 00:13:29.029 at fear itself 00:13:27.410 --> 00:13:31.279 and play out the different scenarios 00:13:29.029 --> 00:13:34.490 know that you're gonna be fine again 00:13:31.279 --> 00:13:37.490 forgive yourself always and and really 00:13:34.490 --> 00:13:39.260 also just attack fear wherever you see 00:13:37.490 --> 00:13:41.089 it even when it's trivial even when it's 00:13:39.260 --> 00:13:42.380 some kind of we were just before the 00:13:41.089 --> 00:13:44.779 before we got on here we talked about 00:13:42.380 --> 00:13:46.520 the fear of the number 13 true God trick 00:13:44.779 --> 00:13:48.290 a phobia like if you're afraid of 13 you 00:13:46.520 --> 00:13:51.110 know what you need to do you put 13s all 00:13:48.290 --> 00:13:52.970 of you in house you know you need to 00:13:51.110 --> 00:13:55.040 like sit in Thirteen's you need to go to 00:13:52.970 --> 00:13:57.560 the 13th demand to be on the 13th floor 00:13:55.040 --> 00:13:59.029 of every hotel in every airplane because 00:13:57.560 --> 00:14:01.190 you got to get over that shit because 00:13:59.029 --> 00:14:04.100 that is telling yourself that there's 00:14:01.190 --> 00:14:05.900 something irrational that should control 00:14:04.100 --> 00:14:07.250 you and if you believe there's something 00:14:05.900 --> 00:14:09.410 that's irrational that should control 00:14:07.250 --> 00:14:11.630 you that will apply universally so 00:14:09.410 --> 00:14:13.670 wherever you find fear specifically 00:14:11.630 --> 00:14:15.440 that's out of balance with actual danger 00:14:13.670 --> 00:14:16.970 like I'm not saying touch a hot stove or 00:14:15.440 --> 00:14:19.220 put your hand in a rattlesnake cage like 00:14:16.970 --> 00:14:22.910 there's danger there that's not fear but 00:14:19.220 --> 00:14:25.610 13 no danger you know that's not real 00:14:22.910 --> 00:14:27.620 so go collapse that the fear of crickets 00:14:25.610 --> 00:14:30.130 like I have a fear of like whatever it 00:14:27.620 --> 00:14:33.560 is collapse fear wherever you see it and 00:14:30.130 --> 00:14:36.820 that specific collapse will help with 00:14:33.560 --> 00:14:36.820 the universal collapses 00:14:37.339 --> 00:14:40.829 you just got to understand the only 00:14:39.570 --> 00:14:43.440 thing that you're responsible for is 00:14:40.829 --> 00:14:45.810 your best but he can't do better than 00:14:43.440 --> 00:14:47.639 your best you just do your best and if 00:14:45.810 --> 00:14:48.720 you try to obsess too much you're not 00:14:47.639 --> 00:14:50.820 doing your best you're gonna be 00:14:48.720 --> 00:14:52.440 paralyzed right so you have to get as 00:14:50.820 --> 00:14:53.970 much information as you can make the 00:14:52.440 --> 00:14:56.160 most educated choice make sure that 00:14:53.970 --> 00:14:59.550 you're not choosing based on ego or 00:14:56.160 --> 00:15:01.680 emotion or you know greed or these other 00:14:59.550 --> 00:15:03.899 forces that delude you and prevent you 00:15:01.680 --> 00:15:06.060 from thinking clearly but if you do your 00:15:03.899 --> 00:15:07.500 best and you fail like what do you do 00:15:06.060 --> 00:15:09.269 beat yourself up for that like that 00:15:07.500 --> 00:15:10.589 doesn't make any sense if you're doing 00:15:09.269 --> 00:15:12.630 your best if you're really laying it out 00:15:10.589 --> 00:15:15.269 there there's nothing nothing more you 00:15:12.630 --> 00:15:16.589 can do and and that's I think that 00:15:15.269 --> 00:15:19.680 that's really the key is just to 00:15:16.589 --> 00:15:22.139 constantly rest and rely on that fact 00:15:19.680 --> 00:15:25.040 that I'm just I'm doing my best and 00:15:22.139 --> 00:15:27.329 there's nothing nothing more than that 00:15:25.040 --> 00:15:29.370 you know you have to really appreciate 00:15:27.329 --> 00:15:31.350 where you are in the journey and say 00:15:29.370 --> 00:15:33.180 yeah where you are is awesome but you 00:15:31.350 --> 00:15:36.120 could be better cuz that's the the 00:15:33.180 --> 00:15:38.339 process is becoming better right so it's 00:15:36.120 --> 00:15:40.709 not it's not judging it externally by 00:15:38.339 --> 00:15:42.990 any other criteria because every step is 00:15:40.709 --> 00:15:45.480 good but the process of striving for 00:15:42.990 --> 00:15:47.579 more in a process to really unfailing 00:15:45.480 --> 00:15:50.130 who you are to an even greater degree to 00:15:47.579 --> 00:15:52.410 getting cleaner and clearer and more 00:15:50.130 --> 00:15:55.199 full and more robust and the best 00:15:52.410 --> 00:15:56.730 version of yourself like that process is 00:15:55.199 --> 00:15:58.470 a beautiful process I think it's one of 00:15:56.730 --> 00:16:00.480 the reasons why we're here it feels the 00:15:58.470 --> 00:16:02.610 best it feels the best to be continuing 00:16:00.480 --> 00:16:04.230 on the path but that doesn't mean that 00:16:02.610 --> 00:16:06.209 you look forward to a point in the past 00:16:04.230 --> 00:16:08.190 say when I get there I'll love myself 00:16:06.209 --> 00:16:10.319 when I get there I'll I made it like 00:16:08.190 --> 00:16:13.350 love yourself where you are wherever you 00:16:10.319 --> 00:16:15.329 are that's awesome let's still strive 00:16:13.350 --> 00:16:18.740 for more because the striving is the 00:16:15.329 --> 00:16:22.110 journey it's always the striving 00:16:18.740 --> 00:16:23.790 if we were able to do like even a 00:16:22.110 --> 00:16:26.640 fraction of the things we know we should 00:16:23.790 --> 00:16:28.410 we would all be badasses you know but 00:16:26.640 --> 00:16:30.090 there's so many things you talk to me 00:16:28.410 --> 00:16:31.410 yeah I should be doing that yeah I 00:16:30.090 --> 00:16:33.150 should be doing I know I should be I 00:16:31.410 --> 00:16:34.530 should be meditating yeah I know I 00:16:33.150 --> 00:16:36.330 should be doing this I should be eating 00:16:34.530 --> 00:16:39.840 better I should be doing this and we all 00:16:36.330 --> 00:16:41.040 know what we want to do to be the best 00:16:39.840 --> 00:16:43.170 version of ourselves but for whatever 00:16:41.040 --> 00:16:45.240 reason we don't do it you know and 00:16:43.170 --> 00:16:47.040 there's a lot of reasons why but we're 00:16:45.240 --> 00:16:49.950 not doing it and so the ability to 00:16:47.040 --> 00:16:51.570 choose and actually decide what you're 00:16:49.950 --> 00:16:54.300 going to do to be the not well to be the 00:16:51.570 --> 00:16:55.680 art and say oh well if I believe I 00:16:54.300 --> 00:16:58.440 should meditate then I'll meditate and 00:16:55.680 --> 00:17:01.320 just collapsing that I know I should 00:16:58.440 --> 00:17:03.560 with actually doing it you know that is 00:17:01.320 --> 00:17:07.020 a superpower that's what defines the 00:17:03.560 --> 00:17:08.460 greatest performers from the people who 00:17:07.020 --> 00:17:10.500 haven't quite made it yet it's really 00:17:08.460 --> 00:17:11.970 their ability to say oh if I should 00:17:10.500 --> 00:17:13.560 train now I will know if I should eat 00:17:11.970 --> 00:17:15.750 like this I will oh if I should do this 00:17:13.560 --> 00:17:17.790 okay then I will it's collapsing that 00:17:15.750 --> 00:17:20.070 knowing what knowing what you should do 00:17:17.790 --> 00:17:22.740 and actually doing and making that one 00:17:20.070 --> 00:17:24.100 and that's ultimately a choice 00:17:22.740 --> 00:17:27.789 [Music] 00:17:24.100 --> 00:17:29.169 we have way more power than we recognize 00:17:27.789 --> 00:17:31.570 and what people will tell us that we 00:17:29.169 --> 00:17:33.970 have so stepping into that power and 00:17:31.570 --> 00:17:36.270 deciding for ourselves what we want to 00:17:33.970 --> 00:17:36.270 do with it 00:17:37.990 --> 00:17:41.920 what time is it right now look at it 00:17:40.870 --> 00:17:45.910 face it 00:17:41.920 --> 00:17:48.670 stand up to it what do you see what did 00:17:45.910 --> 00:17:51.929 that number say to you how much of this 00:17:48.670 --> 00:17:56.170 number have you wasted wasted on waiting 00:17:51.929 --> 00:17:58.780 waiting for what what is it that you're 00:17:56.170 --> 00:18:01.380 waiting for how much do you want ask 00:17:58.780 --> 00:18:05.410 yourself this what's more valuable 00:18:01.380 --> 00:18:08.500 waiting or your time your power and your 00:18:05.410 --> 00:18:12.220 action this is where your journey starts 00:18:08.500 --> 00:18:15.160 this is where you grow grow adapt 00:18:12.220 --> 00:18:20.170 improve to become the person you admire 00:18:15.160 --> 00:18:24.220 this is you this can be you stop failing 00:18:20.170 --> 00:18:27.730 to respond to react this is how you 00:18:24.220 --> 00:18:31.150 shape your life how you construct your 00:18:27.730 --> 00:18:34.030 future make this what it is your success 00:18:31.150 --> 00:18:37.220 all this work now are the steps before 00:18:34.030 --> 00:18:40.010 you break the ribbon at the finish 00:18:37.220 --> 00:18:43.010 this is your opportunity to change 00:18:40.010 --> 00:18:45.230 change towards a better life towards a 00:18:43.010 --> 00:18:47.690 life where you are the director where 00:18:45.230 --> 00:18:50.330 you are the power the power that drives 00:18:47.690 --> 00:18:53.000 you forward to success the power that 00:18:50.330 --> 00:18:56.420 defines your life now that defines your 00:18:53.000 --> 00:18:58.300 legacy your future this is the time to 00:18:56.420 --> 00:19:01.370 become something more than or do 00:18:58.300 --> 00:19:04.220 something outside the realm of expected 00:19:01.370 --> 00:19:06.740 because you're more than you always have 00:19:04.220 --> 00:19:09.710 been but in order for you to become this 00:19:06.740 --> 00:19:12.560 you need to work you need to want it so 00:19:09.710 --> 00:19:15.290 much it pushes you it pushes you outside 00:19:12.560 --> 00:19:17.360 your comfort zone this is where it 00:19:15.290 --> 00:19:19.640 starts this is where you become 00:19:17.360 --> 00:19:23.060 something something better than now 00:19:19.640 --> 00:19:25.670 where you build a life with yourself one 00:19:23.060 --> 00:19:28.630 where you hold the reins where you make 00:19:25.670 --> 00:19:32.570 the final cut where you have that power 00:19:28.630 --> 00:19:35.750 you deserve this you deserve to feel 00:19:32.570 --> 00:19:39.110 fulfilled proud and excited for this 00:19:35.750 --> 00:19:43.820 newfound success you will and can embody 00:19:39.110 --> 00:19:46.160 your future your legacy your life can 00:19:43.820 --> 00:19:49.670 transform into the paradise you've 00:19:46.160 --> 00:19:52.400 always imagined it could be your life 00:19:49.670 --> 00:19:55.850 can change your life can be more than 00:19:52.400 --> 00:19:59.840 just a place it can be your future your 00:19:55.850 --> 00:20:02.570 success this change this change takes 00:19:59.840 --> 00:20:04.820 courage it takes courage to stand up and 00:20:02.570 --> 00:20:07.779 break down the aspects of your life that 00:20:04.820 --> 00:20:11.799 you know is holding you back 00:20:07.779 --> 00:20:15.099 let your progress be idolized let it 00:20:11.799 --> 00:20:19.210 speak for itself let it leave a mark so 00:20:15.099 --> 00:20:21.879 deep it can never be erased this den can 00:20:19.210 --> 00:20:24.460 have such a positive influence on your 00:20:21.879 --> 00:20:27.099 life that it can transform your future 00:20:24.460 --> 00:20:30.820 transform your life using the potential 00:20:27.099 --> 00:20:34.269 you know you've always had make your 00:20:30.820 --> 00:20:36.849 life worth remembering make it worth the 00:20:34.269 --> 00:20:40.960 pain it took the hours it used the 00:20:36.849 --> 00:20:43.950 effort put in know to take pride in your 00:20:40.960 --> 00:20:46.599 work know that your life can break all 00:20:43.950 --> 00:20:49.749 possibilities break all boundaries and 00:20:46.599 --> 00:20:53.169 become something beyond any expectations 00:20:49.749 --> 00:20:56.710 human letdown you face rejection and you 00:20:53.169 --> 00:21:01.059 failed fortunately when you hit that 00:20:56.710 --> 00:21:02.499 point the only place to go is up I want 00:21:01.059 --> 00:21:05.169 you to imagine that your life is a tree 00:21:02.499 --> 00:21:07.809 the failure that you've just faced is 00:21:05.169 --> 00:21:10.269 actually a seed and it's a seed that's 00:21:07.809 --> 00:21:13.450 gonna grow your potential the light you 00:21:10.269 --> 00:21:16.119 need is your mindset and the water is 00:21:13.450 --> 00:21:18.879 your strength because the rejection you 00:21:16.119 --> 00:21:22.029 feel right now is sprouting your success 00:21:18.879 --> 00:21:24.279 and in order for you to grow you need to 00:21:22.029 --> 00:21:26.830 feel the pain the pain of the struggle 00:21:24.279 --> 00:21:28.719 is more than just some dark place you go 00:21:26.830 --> 00:21:31.179 to it's actually a starting place a 00:21:28.719 --> 00:21:33.820 place to begin trying and a place you 00:21:31.179 --> 00:21:35.859 start to improve and that improvement 00:21:33.820 --> 00:21:37.629 can be the start of the making of your 00:21:35.859 --> 00:21:39.789 success look at me you're not five feet 00:21:37.629 --> 00:21:41.810 under you're five feet higher than any 00:21:39.789 --> 00:21:44.930 position you've ever been it 00:21:41.810 --> 00:21:46.580 man stop bringing yourself down start 00:21:44.930 --> 00:21:50.000 learning that you are more than just 00:21:46.580 --> 00:21:51.800 your mistakes in fact they make you they 00:21:50.000 --> 00:21:53.300 make you grow and they make you branch 00:21:51.800 --> 00:21:56.480 out into a stronger and more courageous 00:21:53.300 --> 00:21:58.580 person give yourself the space to grow 00:21:56.480 --> 00:22:00.620 give yourself the space to grow into a 00:21:58.580 --> 00:22:02.750 better in a more successful person to 00:22:00.620 --> 00:22:04.310 see your potential is sprouting you've 00:22:02.750 --> 00:22:06.200 got a better foundation now because 00:22:04.310 --> 00:22:08.990 those roots are dug deep into the ground 00:22:06.200 --> 00:22:10.550 and if something breaks you down know 00:22:08.990 --> 00:22:12.950 that you can grow further past the point 00:22:10.550 --> 00:22:15.170 you were at before because this tree can 00:22:12.950 --> 00:22:17.420 only grow taller bigger and stronger 00:22:15.170 --> 00:22:18.710 because you are stronger now so you've 00:22:17.420 --> 00:22:21.230 got to know that this isn't a setback 00:22:18.710 --> 00:22:22.880 this is just another ingredient that you 00:22:21.230 --> 00:22:26.450 need for the success that's coming your 00:22:22.880 --> 00:22:29.240 way it really is 00:22:26.450 --> 00:22:32.870 stop making excuses take control of your 00:22:29.240 --> 00:22:34.460 situation and rise to your potential man 00:22:32.870 --> 00:22:35.930 I don't think that we would be here if 00:22:34.460 --> 00:22:37.400 we didn't have a purpose I can tell you 00:22:35.930 --> 00:22:39.440 that 00:22:37.400 --> 00:22:42.500 it's our job to develop that purposes 00:22:39.440 --> 00:22:44.150 I've dealt with find and hone in and 00:22:42.500 --> 00:22:46.160 craft that purpose and the purpose is 00:22:44.150 --> 00:22:47.810 usually crafted through some level of 00:22:46.160 --> 00:22:50.660 suffering it's the hero's journey right 00:22:47.810 --> 00:22:53.330 like in film you know the hero he's down 00:22:50.660 --> 00:22:55.520 and out and he loses the girl in the in 00:22:53.330 --> 00:22:57.230 the house and he goes on this journey 00:22:55.520 --> 00:22:58.460 and he finds strength and wisdom and 00:22:57.230 --> 00:23:01.280 knowledge and comes back and is now the 00:22:58.460 --> 00:23:06.590 hero we have to go through that level of 00:23:01.280 --> 00:23:16.040 suffering there's this hunger that 00:23:06.590 --> 00:23:20.480 everyone has and it's always neutered my 00:23:16.040 --> 00:23:21.500 family my teachers my culture and I 00:23:20.480 --> 00:23:23.900 believe you wouldn't be put on this 00:23:21.500 --> 00:23:26.180 planet if you didn't have this hunger 00:23:23.900 --> 00:23:28.940 and if you explore this hunger and for 00:23:26.180 --> 00:23:30.230 me it was done being a fat kid than 00:23:28.940 --> 00:23:32.330 being a being a foreigner and then a fat 00:23:30.230 --> 00:23:33.710 kid and then fixing my problems and then 00:23:32.330 --> 00:23:36.080 realizing I have the solution to other 00:23:33.710 --> 00:23:38.720 peoples weight-loss problems for someone 00:23:36.080 --> 00:23:40.010 else it might be a financial thing you 00:23:38.720 --> 00:23:42.410 know they fix their financial problems 00:23:40.010 --> 00:23:43.850 and they realize they can help everyone 00:23:42.410 --> 00:23:46.700 else's financial problems but you have 00:23:43.850 --> 00:23:48.470 to go through the suffering you have to 00:23:46.700 --> 00:23:51.620 be hungry enough to deal with the pain 00:23:48.470 --> 00:23:53.630 and come out the other side with some 00:23:51.620 --> 00:23:58.280 scars because scar tissue is infinitely 00:23:53.630 --> 00:23:59.900 more resilient than regular tissue but 00:23:58.280 --> 00:24:01.340 again goes back to most people feel like 00:23:59.900 --> 00:24:03.530 yeah I think there's something great in 00:24:01.340 --> 00:24:04.790 me but I don't want to explore it I want 00:24:03.530 --> 00:24:07.550 to play it safe I'm gonna stay bubble 00:24:04.790 --> 00:24:08.630 wraps I don't want to risk it but we 00:24:07.550 --> 00:24:10.370 wouldn't be put on this planet if we 00:24:08.630 --> 00:24:12.350 didn't have this greater thing to 00:24:10.370 --> 00:24:13.820 accomplish now some of us are going to 00:24:12.350 --> 00:24:16.370 be Elon Musk and were going to shoot a 00:24:13.820 --> 00:24:17.810 Tesla to the Mars right and that's okay 00:24:16.370 --> 00:24:20.120 and others are gonna create a fitness 00:24:17.810 --> 00:24:21.770 franchise or a or a supplement company 00:24:20.120 --> 00:24:24.020 that actually delivers you know great 00:24:21.770 --> 00:24:28.670 nutrients that help people in eyes their 00:24:24.020 --> 00:24:30.530 performance whatever your purpose is 00:24:28.670 --> 00:24:32.750 you've got to develop it you got to 00:24:30.530 --> 00:24:34.220 develop it but you wouldn't be put on 00:24:32.750 --> 00:24:38.960 this planet if you didn't have it I'm 00:24:34.220 --> 00:24:40.880 convinced of that not enough people are 00:24:38.960 --> 00:24:43.550 willing to build that mental emotional 00:24:40.880 --> 00:24:47.960 toughness and the moment they do they'll 00:24:43.550 --> 00:24:50.450 go perseverance nothing happens until 00:24:47.960 --> 00:24:51.950 you get done everyone's got a great idea 00:24:50.450 --> 00:24:53.540 it'll make me this many millions and 00:24:51.950 --> 00:24:56.570 it'll help this many people nothing 00:24:53.540 --> 00:24:57.830 happens so you get that done put 00:24:56.570 --> 00:24:59.450 yourself in a position where you're 00:24:57.830 --> 00:25:03.049 gonna thrive not where it's gonna be 00:24:59.450 --> 00:25:06.889 comfortable right get done 00:25:03.049 --> 00:25:09.369 I believe we all are raised this fighter 00:25:06.889 --> 00:25:11.989 jets just we get neutered by parents by 00:25:09.369 --> 00:25:14.360 grandparents because of the filters they 00:25:11.989 --> 00:25:16.489 had and viewed life through the 00:25:14.360 --> 00:25:17.809 experiences they had teachers who go you 00:25:16.489 --> 00:25:19.309 don't want to disappoint yourself just 00:25:17.809 --> 00:25:21.889 go to college go get a good job go to 00:25:19.309 --> 00:25:23.450 college don't go to college today don't 00:25:21.889 --> 00:25:24.440 go to college it's the worst thing you 00:25:23.450 --> 00:25:28.009 can do and that's going to be a doctor 00:25:24.440 --> 00:25:29.539 or an attorney or accountant or you know 00:25:28.009 --> 00:25:31.159 some kind of an architect don't go to 00:25:29.539 --> 00:25:33.049 college you can do a lot more in life 00:25:31.159 --> 00:25:34.309 with that go to college and so again 00:25:33.049 --> 00:25:36.019 teachers professors will end up 00:25:34.309 --> 00:25:37.789 neutering us and when they take they 00:25:36.019 --> 00:25:40.359 take that fighter jet that hunger the 00:25:37.789 --> 00:25:42.799 claws and fangs they've defamed us 00:25:40.359 --> 00:25:44.119 alright so now we're crop dusters I 00:25:42.799 --> 00:25:45.379 don't want to take too many risks I just 00:25:44.119 --> 00:25:46.970 want to live a good life and they want 00:25:45.379 --> 00:25:49.789 to be average and mediocre that's the 00:25:46.970 --> 00:25:52.100 crop duster yet everyone inside has this 00:25:49.789 --> 00:25:53.330 hunger see the fighter jet didn't go 00:25:52.100 --> 00:25:56.239 away it's just been suppressed 00:25:53.330 --> 00:25:57.950 you've been neutered and that was me 00:25:56.239 --> 00:25:59.330 like hey don't take big Ridge just go 00:25:57.950 --> 00:26:00.379 get a good job go be a smog technician 00:25:59.330 --> 00:26:02.029 like that was the advice I was given 00:26:00.379 --> 00:26:04.159 gonna be a smog technician Society 00:26:02.029 --> 00:26:06.590 parents who ever have set the standard 00:26:04.159 --> 00:26:09.049 for you to not play it safe it risks 00:26:06.590 --> 00:26:10.039 what if you lose what have you lose you 00:26:09.049 --> 00:26:12.889 care as long as you don't die you can 00:26:10.039 --> 00:26:14.899 come right back and so the fighter jet 00:26:12.889 --> 00:26:17.840 mentality is that someone who is just 00:26:14.899 --> 00:26:20.029 determined relentlessly obsessed and 00:26:17.840 --> 00:26:23.809 achieving an outcome in the face of all 00:26:20.029 --> 00:26:25.039 adversity the crop duster is someone 00:26:23.809 --> 00:26:27.440 who's always looking for the easiest 00:26:25.039 --> 00:26:29.119 path to loophole which what I used to be 00:26:27.440 --> 00:26:30.409 a severe crop duster the composter hits 00:26:29.119 --> 00:26:31.639 the snooze button every day because 00:26:30.409 --> 00:26:33.619 they'd rather take 10 more minutes of 00:26:31.639 --> 00:26:35.539 mediocre sleep than getting up and 00:26:33.619 --> 00:26:37.249 dominating their path every morning on 00:26:35.539 --> 00:26:39.769 my nightstand there's two stacks of 00:26:37.249 --> 00:26:41.929 dominoes lined up and at the top of this 00:26:39.769 --> 00:26:43.639 stack says you're a loser the top of 00:26:41.929 --> 00:26:45.769 this one says you're a winner if I hit 00:26:43.639 --> 00:26:47.450 the snooze button I've hit that first 00:26:45.769 --> 00:26:48.559 domino in the loser stack the rest of my 00:26:47.450 --> 00:26:50.119 day is gonna suck now with that 00:26:48.559 --> 00:26:52.730 mentality am I gonna ever hit snooze 00:26:50.119 --> 00:26:55.519 again absolutely not because I've sold 00:26:52.730 --> 00:26:57.529 myself on the idea that when I hit the 00:26:55.519 --> 00:27:00.409 snooze button I'm an absolute loser I'm 00:26:57.529 --> 00:27:01.999 scum of the earth I am my day is 00:27:00.409 --> 00:27:02.830 destined to be shitty now some people 00:27:01.999 --> 00:27:05.110 are you being off 00:27:02.830 --> 00:27:06.549 yourself more people should be hard on 00:27:05.110 --> 00:27:08.830 themselves we go around bubble wrapping 00:27:06.549 --> 00:27:10.720 ourselves right we lead the training 00:27:08.830 --> 00:27:12.070 bills on for too long like be hard on 00:27:10.720 --> 00:27:14.200 yourself take up the bubble wrap off 00:27:12.070 --> 00:27:15.909 take the tikki training wheels out no 00:27:14.200 --> 00:27:18.190 one did that for me man to be a fighter 00:27:15.909 --> 00:27:20.200 jet me a fighter jet go to battle every 00:27:18.190 --> 00:27:22.929 day take risks that's what a fighter jet 00:27:20.200 --> 00:27:30.070 does a crop duster as a routine life and 00:27:22.929 --> 00:27:34.059 it's been boring every day is a new 00:27:30.070 --> 00:27:36.460 opportunity to change your life every 00:27:34.059 --> 00:27:39.850 day is a new opportunity to make your 00:27:36.460 --> 00:27:40.929 life a better place to live in your life 00:27:39.850 --> 00:27:43.029 is at stake 00:27:40.929 --> 00:27:44.559 think right now what you've done 00:27:43.029 --> 00:27:45.630 differently from the things you did 00:27:44.559 --> 00:27:48.580 yesterday 00:27:45.630 --> 00:27:50.470 perhaps you got up an hour earlier 00:27:48.580 --> 00:27:53.380 maybe you meditated or you went to the 00:27:50.470 --> 00:27:54.639 gym if you know that you haven't made 00:27:53.380 --> 00:27:57.269 any change today 00:27:54.639 --> 00:28:01.210 then make this your day take this 00:27:57.269 --> 00:28:03.760 opportunity change you're better than 00:28:01.210 --> 00:28:06.519 you were yesterday because you know that 00:28:03.760 --> 00:28:09.820 today and the day after that you will 00:28:06.519 --> 00:28:12.039 make progress you will know that you put 00:28:09.820 --> 00:28:15.039 in the work that you earned the 00:28:12.039 --> 00:28:17.049 improvement you need to push yourself so 00:28:15.039 --> 00:28:19.539 you feel the satisfaction that you've 00:28:17.049 --> 00:28:22.149 made further and further past your 00:28:19.539 --> 00:28:25.690 original routine further and further 00:28:22.149 --> 00:28:29.380 past your failure there is nothing else 00:28:25.690 --> 00:28:32.769 you can do but work to work harder and 00:28:29.380 --> 00:28:35.380 harder the struggle is the only way you 00:28:32.769 --> 00:28:37.360 know you're going to succeed and take 00:28:35.380 --> 00:28:40.559 this new opportunity and make this 00:28:37.360 --> 00:28:45.669 change in your life you will be better 00:28:40.559 --> 00:28:47.590 take this risk take this opening this is 00:28:45.669 --> 00:28:50.320 the time to make your life a better 00:28:47.590 --> 00:28:52.220 place to make your future a place where 00:28:50.320 --> 00:28:54.830 you can see yourself achieve 00:28:52.220 --> 00:28:57.409 a future where your life is somewhere 00:28:54.830 --> 00:29:00.830 where you can create your own Empire 00:28:57.409 --> 00:29:03.980 know that not all of your successes has 00:29:00.830 --> 00:29:06.530 to be exposed or flaunted be humble 00:29:03.980 --> 00:29:08.409 that's even more important than the 00:29:06.530 --> 00:29:12.730 progress you've made 00:29:08.409 --> 00:29:16.490 use your success for you and only you 00:29:12.730 --> 00:29:18.770 use your success to boost your life into 00:29:16.490 --> 00:29:21.230 the next level use your success to make 00:29:18.770 --> 00:29:25.250 you grow into a more courageous and 00:29:21.230 --> 00:29:28.340 stronger person you are you for one 00:29:25.250 --> 00:29:31.100 reason to be yourself to use the 00:29:28.340 --> 00:29:34.370 potential you have as a person and make 00:29:31.100 --> 00:29:37.429 this your future use this as your first 00:29:34.370 --> 00:29:40.580 step into success change the way you 00:29:37.429 --> 00:29:44.110 view life switch your perspective of 00:29:40.580 --> 00:29:46.179 success and use it in the right place 00:29:44.110 --> 00:29:48.309 confident to stand up and take 00:29:46.179 --> 00:29:51.080 responsibility for your mistakes and 00:29:48.309 --> 00:29:55.460 courageous enough to make mistakes in 00:29:51.080 --> 00:29:57.919 the first place educate yourself be this 00:29:55.460 --> 00:30:01.610 person become the person you've always 00:29:57.919 --> 00:30:04.309 wanted to be you need to make this 00:30:01.610 --> 00:30:08.179 transition for your future to make your 00:30:04.309 --> 00:30:11.210 life better and bigger you will be who 00:30:08.179 --> 00:30:11.809 you need to be motivate yourself with 00:30:11.210 --> 00:30:15.499 that 00:30:11.809 --> 00:30:18.909 the vision of your future the future of 00:30:15.499 --> 00:30:18.909 a successful life 00:30:19.980 --> 00:30:23.820 what's the favorite lesson you've ever 00:30:21.690 --> 00:30:26.070 learned what is your biggest achievement 00:30:23.820 --> 00:30:28.919 you've ever accomplished and then what 00:30:26.070 --> 00:30:31.139 is your greatest success I want you to 00:30:28.919 --> 00:30:33.510 think about it think about how you got 00:30:31.139 --> 00:30:35.820 there where you needed to be in order to 00:30:33.510 --> 00:30:38.940 get there in order for you to make that 00:30:35.820 --> 00:30:40.769 kind of progress what challenges did you 00:30:38.940 --> 00:30:42.330 have to pass what limits did you have to 00:30:40.769 --> 00:30:45.659 crush what hurdles that you have to 00:30:42.330 --> 00:30:47.549 overcome now I want you to think about 00:30:45.659 --> 00:30:50.460 that satisfaction that overcame you when 00:30:47.549 --> 00:30:53.039 you accomplish these things how did you 00:30:50.460 --> 00:30:56.100 feel and how do you need to feel right 00:30:53.039 --> 00:30:57.600 now feel like you have the opportunity 00:30:56.100 --> 00:30:58.980 to repeat those actions that you once 00:30:57.600 --> 00:31:03.450 did because let me tell you right now 00:30:58.980 --> 00:31:05.220 you do make the progress now make your 00:31:03.450 --> 00:31:08.130 progress for the better for you to make 00:31:05.220 --> 00:31:10.169 more progress you have that potential 00:31:08.130 --> 00:31:13.350 now go ahead and spark your success and 00:31:10.169 --> 00:31:15.360 spark your inspiration that inspiration 00:31:13.350 --> 00:31:18.990 it yields the progress that you need to 00:31:15.360 --> 00:31:20.909 make use the tools you have use your 00:31:18.990 --> 00:31:23.789 tools because no one can do it like you 00:31:20.909 --> 00:31:26.279 can all right use this inspiration while 00:31:23.789 --> 00:31:29.399 you have the opening stop living in the 00:31:26.279 --> 00:31:33.299 past start thinking about your future 00:31:29.399 --> 00:31:35.940 the future where you can succeed that 00:31:33.299 --> 00:31:36.750 future is actually happening around you 00:31:35.940 --> 00:31:39.450 right now 00:31:36.750 --> 00:31:42.630 so take control of your future now by 00:31:39.450 --> 00:31:45.440 living in the present living for now 00:31:42.630 --> 00:31:48.139 because that at the end of the day 00:31:45.440 --> 00:31:52.250 is the only thing that mattered boost 00:31:48.139 --> 00:31:56.059 your life make your life and live your 00:31:52.250 --> 00:31:58.190 life it's this time in history that most 00:31:56.059 --> 00:31:59.659 people are wasting on the wrong stuff 00:31:58.190 --> 00:32:00.950 they're spending it on Netflix or 00:31:59.659 --> 00:32:02.360 fortnight or going out with their 00:32:00.950 --> 00:32:03.799 friends are drinking and if you want to 00:32:02.360 --> 00:32:05.870 do that that's fine you know enjoy your 00:32:03.799 --> 00:32:08.419 can mediocre ship life but like there's 00:32:05.870 --> 00:32:12.379 so much more that you can do with weird 00:32:08.419 --> 00:32:13.940 knowledge and studying you make a 00:32:12.379 --> 00:32:14.990 mistake it's a part of life it's part of 00:32:13.940 --> 00:32:17.299 the journey you know you have to 00:32:14.990 --> 00:32:19.519 appreciate the lows you have to respect 00:32:17.299 --> 00:32:20.929 the lows celebrate the highs but respect 00:32:19.519 --> 00:32:22.610 the lows don't block them out and don't 00:32:20.929 --> 00:32:23.929 ignore them in order to be successful I 00:32:22.610 --> 00:32:26.690 think this is the biggest thing you have 00:32:23.929 --> 00:32:28.909 to be so dedicated to your craft and so 00:32:26.690 --> 00:32:30.980 passionate about it so single-minded 00:32:28.909 --> 00:32:33.139 focus on that 00:32:30.980 --> 00:32:34.519 you know tasks and most people just 00:32:33.139 --> 00:32:35.929 don't take you that seriously they're 00:32:34.519 --> 00:32:38.419 like yeah I want to be a millionaire 00:32:35.929 --> 00:32:39.830 yeah like well I meet people and they're 00:32:38.419 --> 00:32:41.779 like oh you're that millionaire and it 00:32:39.830 --> 00:32:43.730 like a smile comes on their face like oh 00:32:41.779 --> 00:32:44.809 how do I become a millionaire but they 00:32:43.730 --> 00:32:47.059 don't really believe it they're not 00:32:44.809 --> 00:32:49.610 asking seriously they don't they're not 00:32:47.059 --> 00:32:51.409 willing to put in the thousands of hours 00:32:49.610 --> 00:32:53.389 requires like there's no magic formula 00:32:51.409 --> 00:32:54.860 this isn't like get-rich-quick and those 00:32:53.389 --> 00:32:56.570 people who do get rich like the lotto 00:32:54.860 --> 00:32:57.799 winners like they're tough because they 00:32:56.570 --> 00:32:59.740 didn't earn it they don't don't 00:32:57.799 --> 00:33:03.169 appreciate it they don't understand it I 00:32:59.740 --> 00:33:05.840 think that going through the ups and the 00:33:03.169 --> 00:33:07.280 downs is what makes you appreciate 00:33:05.840 --> 00:33:08.899 everything 00:33:07.280 --> 00:33:11.419 [Music] 00:33:08.899 --> 00:33:13.309 you have to find meaning and for me and 00:33:11.419 --> 00:33:14.509 a lot of people like you know you're on 00:33:13.309 --> 00:33:16.519 this journey like I want to be 00:33:14.509 --> 00:33:18.289 successful I want to be rich that's what 00:33:16.519 --> 00:33:20.599 I want but what about when you get there 00:33:18.289 --> 00:33:22.190 you don't have a plan for that so now 00:33:20.599 --> 00:33:23.899 I'm trying to teach you know all about 00:33:22.190 --> 00:33:25.309 charity and giving back in the lessons 00:33:23.899 --> 00:33:27.109 that I've learned now from being rich 00:33:25.309 --> 00:33:29.149 for several years and it's not what you 00:33:27.109 --> 00:33:30.739 might think there's a lot of stuff that 00:33:29.149 --> 00:33:34.749 comes with being rich and you don't 00:33:30.739 --> 00:33:34.749 realize it and you know that's life 00:33:36.480 --> 00:33:40.140 because the world and even school 00:33:38.130 --> 00:33:43.740 teaches you teaches us in so many ways 00:33:40.140 --> 00:33:46.500 to you know work on our weaknesses to 00:33:43.740 --> 00:33:48.270 get stronger and I think that's a huge 00:33:46.500 --> 00:33:49.350 flaw I think we just get great at what 00:33:48.270 --> 00:33:51.390 we're good at we only need to be good at 00:33:49.350 --> 00:33:54.049 one or two things and we can make an 00:33:51.390 --> 00:33:54.049 impact on the world 00:33:54.980 --> 00:33:59.570 everybody's in a vehicle like your 00:33:57.410 --> 00:34:01.400 wealth creation vehicle whether that's a 00:33:59.570 --> 00:34:03.080 job you don't like or a job you do like 00:34:01.400 --> 00:34:04.820 or business you started or business 00:34:03.080 --> 00:34:06.590 that's crushing or business it's not 00:34:04.820 --> 00:34:09.500 doing great you have this vehicle and 00:34:06.590 --> 00:34:11.060 when this vehicle is not working we're 00:34:09.500 --> 00:34:13.280 looking on the road of all the other 00:34:11.060 --> 00:34:15.080 shiny cars and it's like oh man I tried 00:34:13.280 --> 00:34:16.550 selling stuff on Amazon that's not 00:34:15.080 --> 00:34:18.200 working I'm gonna go in the car business 00:34:16.550 --> 00:34:20.330 the real estate business I'm gonna go in 00:34:18.200 --> 00:34:21.679 a speaking business the the nutrition 00:34:20.330 --> 00:34:24.409 business the suppli and you're looking 00:34:21.679 --> 00:34:26.750 for another car to jump in and I realize 00:34:24.409 --> 00:34:28.580 people jump from car to car to car their 00:34:26.750 --> 00:34:30.350 whole life looking for satiation looking 00:34:28.580 --> 00:34:32.060 for satisfaction looking to make more 00:34:30.350 --> 00:34:34.429 money if you can stop jumping from 00:34:32.060 --> 00:34:36.320 vehicle to vehicle the vehicle you're in 00:34:34.429 --> 00:34:37.369 might be the right vehicle but you don't 00:34:36.320 --> 00:34:38.929 have the right habits or the right 00:34:37.369 --> 00:34:40.850 beliefs or the right rules whatever you 00:34:38.929 --> 00:34:42.290 want to call it my books habit so I call 00:34:40.850 --> 00:34:44.210 them habits but it's really the 00:34:42.290 --> 00:34:46.129 foundation for success so you can 00:34:44.210 --> 00:34:48.169 overcome the obstacles you don't like 00:34:46.129 --> 00:34:49.760 negative people in your life steer you 00:34:48.169 --> 00:34:52.369 in different directions it doesn't you 00:34:49.760 --> 00:34:54.500 know even people who ask me about 00:34:52.369 --> 00:34:56.060 productivity people say how do you get 00:34:54.500 --> 00:34:57.560 so much done how do you run a business 00:34:56.060 --> 00:34:58.850 and still coach the little league in 00:34:57.560 --> 00:35:01.310 baseball and saw how do you do all those 00:34:58.850 --> 00:35:04.730 things it's because of just simple 00:35:01.310 --> 00:35:06.590 success habits like I just wrote 00:35:04.730 --> 00:35:08.480 something on this recently I said you 00:35:06.590 --> 00:35:10.400 have to treat your decisions for 00:35:08.480 --> 00:35:12.380 productivity like binary thinking which 00:35:10.400 --> 00:35:14.840 is X's and O's black and black or white 00:35:12.380 --> 00:35:16.400 yes or no is this moving me toward a 00:35:14.840 --> 00:35:21.530 better version of myself a wealthier 00:35:16.400 --> 00:35:23.570 version a happier person or is it not we 00:35:21.530 --> 00:35:25.340 never give ourselves credit we'd never 00:35:23.570 --> 00:35:26.990 treat a friend the way we treat 00:35:25.340 --> 00:35:28.340 ourselves it's like I know I've had days 00:35:26.990 --> 00:35:30.380 I've gone till 10 o'clock at night go 00:35:28.340 --> 00:35:32.240 man I got nothing done today the biggest 00:35:30.380 --> 00:35:34.340 lie like we beat ourselves up we just 00:35:32.240 --> 00:35:35.720 were like these racehorses we wouldn't 00:35:34.340 --> 00:35:37.520 even treat a racehorse that we owned as 00:35:35.720 --> 00:35:39.530 bad as we treat ourselves right so I 00:35:37.520 --> 00:35:41.000 wake up and I'll do a quick little 00:35:39.530 --> 00:35:42.920 gratitude and they'll say what was one 00:35:41.000 --> 00:35:44.960 win yesterday that I accomplished I'm 00:35:42.920 --> 00:35:47.000 like wow you didn't do that yes and then 00:35:44.960 --> 00:35:48.680 I'll think of one win I want to do that 00:35:47.000 --> 00:35:50.270 day like what I'm gonna need a million 00:35:48.680 --> 00:35:53.410 things done thing what's a must today 00:35:50.270 --> 00:35:53.410 that would be a great win 00:35:54.789 --> 00:35:59.380 I don't think we should drive for money 00:35:57.039 --> 00:36:01.329 I think we should drive to be a better 00:35:59.380 --> 00:36:03.729 version of ourselves when money was no 00:36:01.329 --> 00:36:06.009 longer a worry for me I drove into me 00:36:03.729 --> 00:36:07.809 and I have been ignoring and tucking 00:36:06.009 --> 00:36:11.349 down a lot of crap for a lot of years 00:36:07.809 --> 00:36:12.549 and I was surface-level I look like the 00:36:11.349 --> 00:36:14.049 guy that had it all going on but 00:36:12.549 --> 00:36:16.150 businesses are doing good I'm amazing 00:36:14.049 --> 00:36:18.369 children company thriving I live in the 00:36:16.150 --> 00:36:20.429 right neighborhood Drive do I have the 00:36:18.369 --> 00:36:24.339 right friends I thinking looked great 00:36:20.429 --> 00:36:26.859 but it was all masked and when money got 00:36:24.339 --> 00:36:29.199 out of the way I was able to find 00:36:26.859 --> 00:36:30.729 digging to me and do my own personal 00:36:29.199 --> 00:36:33.579 development and my own personal growth 00:36:30.729 --> 00:36:34.779 and really find the things that I wanted 00:36:33.579 --> 00:36:38.829 to fix so I could become a better 00:36:34.779 --> 00:36:40.390 version there might be something that 00:36:38.829 --> 00:36:42.609 makes you a lot of money but it robs 00:36:40.390 --> 00:36:44.199 your soul so there's that balance and I 00:36:42.609 --> 00:36:46.299 think that doesn't happen oh that 00:36:44.199 --> 00:36:47.979 doesn't happen in your 20s and maybe not 00:36:46.299 --> 00:36:49.599 in your 30s at least been for me I was 00:36:47.979 --> 00:36:51.579 just fighting to be successful in my 20s 00:36:49.599 --> 00:36:53.219 and 30s but this face I wish someone 00:36:51.579 --> 00:36:55.119 would have grabbed me at 25 and said 00:36:53.219 --> 00:36:56.469 you're gonna make all the money you want 00:36:55.119 --> 00:36:58.809 you'll have all the success you want 00:36:56.469 --> 00:36:59.289 make sure your soul is aligned with that 00:36:58.809 --> 00:37:01.209 money 00:36:59.289 --> 00:37:03.849 and every time I don't know about you 00:37:01.209 --> 00:37:05.140 every time I align my values my soul my 00:37:03.849 --> 00:37:08.259 purpose whatever it is you want to call 00:37:05.140 --> 00:37:10.029 it with my businesses and my profits 00:37:08.259 --> 00:37:14.609 they always soar without having to 00:37:10.029 --> 00:37:14.609 obsess on the you know on the numbers 00:37:16.020 --> 00:37:21.570 great people don't have anything magic 00:37:18.720 --> 00:37:25.050 they worked relentlessly for years and 00:37:21.570 --> 00:37:27.120 years they decided that they were going 00:37:25.050 --> 00:37:29.280 to be great they decided that they 00:37:27.120 --> 00:37:31.590 didn't want to sit back and hide they 00:37:29.280 --> 00:37:33.480 decided that they wanted to shine they 00:37:31.590 --> 00:37:35.970 decided that their name would be in 00:37:33.480 --> 00:37:40.650 lights and people would admire what they 00:37:35.970 --> 00:37:43.740 do if not for you decide to be great for 00:37:40.650 --> 00:37:46.590 the world success never stops never 00:37:43.740 --> 00:37:49.380 stops to breathe never takes a day off 00:37:46.590 --> 00:37:51.480 never looks to take a break we already 00:37:49.380 --> 00:37:53.640 have enough problems on this planet be 00:37:51.480 --> 00:37:55.980 different be a person who makes a 00:37:53.640 --> 00:37:58.980 difference be a person who makes a 00:37:55.980 --> 00:38:01.860 change for good be a person who has an 00:37:58.980 --> 00:38:04.410 impact on the world you need to become 00:38:01.860 --> 00:38:06.780 someone and you need to become your 00:38:04.410 --> 00:38:10.260 future you're gonna handle your power 00:38:06.780 --> 00:38:12.900 and feel your potential you gotta feel 00:38:10.260 --> 00:38:15.570 this pain to progress to change to feel 00:38:12.900 --> 00:38:17.730 fulfilled to feel satisfaction this is 00:38:15.570 --> 00:38:22.980 where everything can and trust me it all 00:38:17.730 --> 00:38:26.730 will fall into place stop denying the 00:38:22.980 --> 00:38:29.870 world of your greatness you need to see 00:38:26.730 --> 00:38:33.120 every single day as a bank account 00:38:29.870 --> 00:38:36.180 nobody is poor nobody is rich 00:38:33.120 --> 00:38:39.060 everyone has 24 hours each and how you 00:38:36.180 --> 00:38:43.200 spend your balance each day will decide 00:38:39.060 --> 00:38:46.380 who you become now pay attention to 00:38:43.200 --> 00:38:49.260 every detail take every day like it's a 00:38:46.380 --> 00:38:52.140 brand new spankin opportunity take every 00:38:49.260 --> 00:38:53.340 risk as if it's a stepping stone into 00:38:52.140 --> 00:38:55.650 the future you're carving out for 00:38:53.340 --> 00:38:58.050 yourself because you have control you 00:38:55.650 --> 00:39:00.560 have the control to change in the 00:38:58.050 --> 00:39:04.710 control to improve the action and 00:39:00.560 --> 00:39:07.650 improvement spend your time wisely 00:39:04.710 --> 00:39:08.160 do not waste it on things out of your 00:39:07.650 --> 00:39:12.090 control 00:39:08.160 --> 00:39:15.150 if the weather is bad do not waste time 00:39:12.090 --> 00:39:18.060 feeling down about it if it is out of 00:39:15.150 --> 00:39:21.750 your control move past it look for the 00:39:18.060 --> 00:39:24.150 things that you can control it all takes 00:39:21.750 --> 00:39:26.160 resilience resilience to push past any 00:39:24.150 --> 00:39:28.560 boundaries and push through every risk 00:39:26.160 --> 00:39:32.370 every hardship every wrong 00:39:28.560 --> 00:39:35.130 turn right now right here is an open 00:39:32.370 --> 00:39:39.510 door the door that puts you on the path 00:39:35.130 --> 00:39:42.590 towards success losing 24 hours because 00:39:39.510 --> 00:39:45.720 of the bad 10 minutes is like throwing 00:39:42.590 --> 00:39:49.590 $10,000 away because you dropped a few 00:39:45.720 --> 00:39:51.510 pennies you have control you have 00:39:49.590 --> 00:39:53.400 control over your future a future fueled 00:39:51.510 --> 00:39:55.050 by your success constructed by your 00:39:53.400 --> 00:39:57.360 progress it all begins right here and it 00:39:55.050 --> 00:39:59.040 all starts right now don't waste one 00:39:57.360 --> 00:40:00.980 more minute sitting and thinking I want 00:39:59.040 --> 00:40:03.120 you to spend your next minute acting 00:40:00.980 --> 00:40:05.160 take your own direction and write your 00:40:03.120 --> 00:40:07.170 own rules you need to write the next 00:40:05.160 --> 00:40:09.270 chapter the next chapter that pushes you 00:40:07.170 --> 00:40:13.380 through towards a story and a story that 00:40:09.270 --> 00:40:16.380 you can finally be proud of now is the 00:40:13.380 --> 00:40:20.220 time to become someone you believe in 00:40:16.380 --> 00:40:23.100 someone with purpose don't stop now 00:40:20.220 --> 00:40:35.370 don't stop until you know you can make 00:40:23.100 --> 00:40:38.820 it stand up to your success stand up to 00:40:35.370 --> 00:40:42.210 your power this is your opportunity take 00:40:38.820 --> 00:40:49.230 it take it like you own it because you 00:40:42.210 --> 00:40:52.380 do be sure know your purpose your worth 00:40:49.230 --> 00:40:57.150 your intention your drive to strive 00:40:52.380 --> 00:41:01.190 towards success life is in your hands it 00:40:57.150 --> 00:41:01.190 has always been in your hands 00:41:01.470 --> 00:41:08.040 this is the time this is the time to 00:41:04.870 --> 00:41:11.410 make it past your fears your boundaries 00:41:08.040 --> 00:41:14.740 this is the time you break them shatter 00:41:11.410 --> 00:41:17.650 them make them a part of you build your 00:41:14.740 --> 00:41:22.540 future from the remains this is where it 00:41:17.650 --> 00:41:26.080 starts now is the time to succeed the 00:41:22.540 --> 00:41:28.000 power is in your hands the power to be 00:41:26.080 --> 00:41:31.810 something more something that has 00:41:28.000 --> 00:41:35.260 potential you know that you've always 00:41:31.810 --> 00:41:37.690 had it take the opportunity take the 00:41:35.260 --> 00:41:44.500 risk take the risk now before it's too 00:41:37.690 --> 00:41:49.140 late it's never too late never stop this 00:41:44.500 --> 00:41:52.870 is where you can begin work hard work 00:41:49.140 --> 00:41:55.750 become the person you admire you know 00:41:52.870 --> 00:41:59.800 that you can be the best all it takes is 00:41:55.750 --> 00:42:03.580 power drive and work work until it hurts 00:41:59.800 --> 00:42:09.220 this is where you succeed this is how 00:42:03.580 --> 00:42:11.650 you succeed you can be you can be so 00:42:09.220 --> 00:42:14.190 much more start thinking about what 00:42:11.650 --> 00:42:14.190 you're actually doing 00:42:14.220 --> 00:42:18.670 like you're gonna only be so pretty 00:42:16.660 --> 00:42:20.410 you're only gonna be so smart like you 00:42:18.670 --> 00:42:21.940 like there's there's things are gonna be 00:42:20.410 --> 00:42:24.880 natural and there's things that you can 00:42:21.940 --> 00:42:26.050 actually control I do believe and I 00:42:24.880 --> 00:42:29.350 don't know if I'm right or wrong I don't 00:42:26.050 --> 00:42:31.660 but I do believe that work ethic is a 00:42:29.350 --> 00:42:34.130 taught behavior it's something you do 00:42:31.660 --> 00:42:36.470 have more control over 00:42:34.130 --> 00:42:38.839 I feel like there's a shift that can 00:42:36.470 --> 00:42:42.140 make people work harder the big one that 00:42:38.839 --> 00:42:44.059 I push is you're gonna die like like if 00:42:42.140 --> 00:42:45.769 your complaint like to me life is broken 00:42:44.059 --> 00:42:47.839 down into complaining and not so if 00:42:45.769 --> 00:42:50.299 you're not complaining well then I know 00:42:47.839 --> 00:42:54.589 I have no advice for you but I'm pumped 00:42:50.299 --> 00:42:56.809 like you did it great people don't have 00:42:54.589 --> 00:43:01.490 anything magic they worked relentlessly 00:42:56.809 --> 00:43:03.710 for years and years they decided that 00:43:01.490 --> 00:43:05.299 they were going to be great they decided 00:43:03.710 --> 00:43:07.579 that they didn't want to sit back and 00:43:05.299 --> 00:43:10.099 hide they decided that they wanted to 00:43:07.579 --> 00:43:12.289 shine they decided that their name would 00:43:10.099 --> 00:43:16.730 be in lights and people would admire 00:43:12.289 --> 00:43:19.990 what they do if not for you decide to be 00:43:16.730 --> 00:43:19.990 great for the world 00:43:20.230 --> 00:43:24.820 I think so many people are keyboard 00:43:22.480 --> 00:43:26.890 activists right everybody's good at 00:43:24.820 --> 00:43:28.720 sending a tweet about how the world 00:43:26.890 --> 00:43:30.310 should be and nobody's doing anything 00:43:28.720 --> 00:43:32.600 about it and that just that is just very 00:43:30.310 --> 00:43:33.760 much human nature 00:43:32.600 --> 00:43:36.070 [Music] 00:43:33.760 --> 00:43:38.320 but let's not be naive I mean people 00:43:36.070 --> 00:43:40.630 literally complain when somebody gives 00:43:38.320 --> 00:43:45.130 them the wrong amount of like extra 00:43:40.630 --> 00:43:47.500 cream in a Starbucks $6 coffee my lack 00:43:45.130 --> 00:43:49.780 of interest in complaining is so high 00:43:47.500 --> 00:43:51.910 and when I watch what people complain 00:43:49.780 --> 00:43:53.890 about it breaks my heart because they 00:43:51.910 --> 00:43:55.570 completely lack perspective and i 00:43:53.890 --> 00:43:58.030 genuinely believe my happiness and 00:43:55.570 --> 00:44:00.340 optimism comes from my perspective even 00:43:58.030 --> 00:44:01.690 in political unrest times like right now 00:44:00.340 --> 00:44:04.270 a lot of people very bent out of shape 00:44:01.690 --> 00:44:06.730 but the reality is is that it just never 00:44:04.270 --> 00:44:08.230 been better to be a human being it's 00:44:06.730 --> 00:44:11.530 that's just the truth that's just data 00:44:08.230 --> 00:44:14.950 that's that's reality and yeah I mean 00:44:11.530 --> 00:44:19.300 it's just a very fun time to be alive so 00:44:14.950 --> 00:44:21.100 much going on be prepared in life for a 00:44:19.300 --> 00:44:22.900 lot of rejection because if you're 00:44:21.100 --> 00:44:24.880 prepared for a lot of rejection it comes 00:44:22.900 --> 00:44:26.200 you don't get turned off you don't get 00:44:24.880 --> 00:44:27.460 disappointed like well I'm not gonna do 00:44:26.200 --> 00:44:29.800 this anymore no one thinks it's a good 00:44:27.460 --> 00:44:31.420 idea it's like I say selling 00:44:29.800 --> 00:44:34.270 encyclopedias not kinda hundred doors 00:44:31.420 --> 00:44:36.940 they slab them you're faced you must be 00:44:34.270 --> 00:44:39.960 just as enthusiastic on door number 101 00:44:36.940 --> 00:44:39.960 as door number one 00:44:42.430 --> 00:44:46.760 [Music] 00:44:44.060 --> 00:44:47.420 we're all worth far more than anyone can 00:44:46.760 --> 00:44:50.570 imagine 00:44:47.420 --> 00:44:52.040 our power honestly is endless in our 00:44:50.570 --> 00:44:54.250 potential has the power and make 00:44:52.040 --> 00:44:58.730 something real out of the life you live 00:44:54.250 --> 00:45:02.090 that's crazy but your life is now you 00:44:58.730 --> 00:45:04.370 can alter your future this is where you 00:45:02.090 --> 00:45:08.600 begin to and this is where you start to 00:45:04.370 --> 00:45:09.580 succeed now this moment around you right 00:45:08.600 --> 00:45:12.220 now 00:45:09.580 --> 00:45:16.190 that's the secret power that you have 00:45:12.220 --> 00:45:18.470 time is your power this time you have 00:45:16.190 --> 00:45:22.880 the potential to succeed to be something 00:45:18.470 --> 00:45:25.190 with purpose someone with power there's 00:45:22.880 --> 00:45:26.600 so many people there talking about how 00:45:25.190 --> 00:45:28.400 big of an entrepreneur they're gonna be 00:45:26.600 --> 00:45:31.700 and how much they're gonna achieve and 00:45:28.400 --> 00:45:33.740 they don't work on weekends 00:45:31.700 --> 00:45:36.050 you know I worked every Saturday of my 00:45:33.740 --> 00:45:38.540 20s like and I talk to 20 year old 00:45:36.050 --> 00:45:39.770 entrepreneurs every single day lately 00:45:38.540 --> 00:45:41.720 I've been saying to them this Saturday 00:45:39.770 --> 00:45:44.420 you're gonna have more time off than 00:45:41.720 --> 00:45:46.430 I've had in my entire 20s on a Saturday 00:45:44.420 --> 00:45:47.390 so like before you tell me how you're 00:45:46.430 --> 00:45:49.250 gonna be bigger than me 00:45:47.390 --> 00:45:51.640 start thinking about what you're 00:45:49.250 --> 00:45:51.640 actually doing 00:45:53.790 --> 00:46:00.340 we're beating ourselves up like 00:45:56.890 --> 00:46:02.590 everybody sucks at something right like 00:46:00.340 --> 00:46:04.750 we all have shortcomings and we all have 00:46:02.590 --> 00:46:06.730 strengths and for me it's like why don't 00:46:04.750 --> 00:46:08.200 we just audit that like why don't we 00:46:06.730 --> 00:46:09.490 just look at it that way and be like 00:46:08.200 --> 00:46:11.650 alright well I'm good at this but I'm 00:46:09.490 --> 00:46:13.210 not good at that like and then and then 00:46:11.650 --> 00:46:15.820 and then I only focus what I'm good at 00:46:13.210 --> 00:46:17.800 right like I don't dwell that I can't 00:46:15.820 --> 00:46:19.540 fix it around the house I call somebody 00:46:17.800 --> 00:46:21.430 to fix it like I'm not like I'm not a 00:46:19.540 --> 00:46:23.290 man I don't give a fuck like you know 00:46:21.430 --> 00:46:25.600 like like you know like I don't I don't 00:46:23.290 --> 00:46:27.130 get it like we all like I also think 00:46:25.600 --> 00:46:29.350 it's awesome that I'm so emotionally 00:46:27.130 --> 00:46:30.790 stable and I'm the emotional backbone of 00:46:29.350 --> 00:46:32.590 everybody is that what a dude's supposed 00:46:30.790 --> 00:46:34.120 to do like like these cliches these 00:46:32.590 --> 00:46:36.670 stereotypes they're so silly 00:46:34.120 --> 00:46:39.790 you're exactly right man I don't judge 00:46:36.670 --> 00:46:41.110 myself I'm fully in love with myself but 00:46:39.790 --> 00:46:43.180 I'm also fully in love with everybody 00:46:41.110 --> 00:46:44.080 else too right it's not like like it 00:46:43.180 --> 00:46:46.360 goes both ways 00:46:44.080 --> 00:46:48.190 like I tell people to buy into me that 00:46:46.360 --> 00:46:52.870 work for me it's cuz I buy into them 00:46:48.190 --> 00:46:59.380 first like I don't need anybody to gain 00:46:52.870 --> 00:47:03.360 trust with me I've it's they're like I 00:46:59.380 --> 00:47:07.390 believe if the human race is so grossly 00:47:03.360 --> 00:47:09.340 underrated we are good of course we have 00:47:07.390 --> 00:47:11.710 some bad there's and seven billion of us 00:47:09.340 --> 00:47:14.230 but like when you look at our net score 00:47:11.710 --> 00:47:16.360 it's bonger like you know any damage we 00:47:14.230 --> 00:47:19.330 can be doing to each other on a hourly 00:47:16.360 --> 00:47:22.210 basis and we don't like we're still here 00:47:19.330 --> 00:47:23.950 like we won were the Alpha being and 00:47:22.210 --> 00:47:26.290 we've figured out how to stay together 00:47:23.950 --> 00:47:28.840 this is insane when you think about it 00:47:26.290 --> 00:47:35.590 and yet everybody wants to dwell on like 00:47:28.840 --> 00:47:37.690 somebody said something mean we already 00:47:35.590 --> 00:47:39.850 have enough problems on this planet be 00:47:37.690 --> 00:47:42.190 different be a person who makes a 00:47:39.850 --> 00:47:45.190 difference be a person who makes a 00:47:42.190 --> 00:47:47.810 change for good be a person who has an 00:47:45.190 --> 00:47:51.760 impact on the world 00:47:47.810 --> 00:47:55.160 stop denying the world of your greatness 00:47:51.760 --> 00:47:56.530 you need to see every single day as a 00:47:55.160 --> 00:47:59.780 bank account 00:47:56.530 --> 00:48:02.870 nobody is poor nobody is rich 00:47:59.780 --> 00:48:05.720 everyone has 24 hours each and how you 00:48:02.870 --> 00:48:10.400 spend your balance each day will decide 00:48:05.720 --> 00:48:13.310 who you become spend your time wisely 00:48:10.400 --> 00:48:17.660 do not waste it on things out of your 00:48:13.310 --> 00:48:19.580 control be prepared for a lot of 00:48:17.660 --> 00:48:21.500 rejection whether it's in their personal 00:48:19.580 --> 00:48:22.880 life that someone says you're too old 00:48:21.500 --> 00:48:24.950 you're too fat you're too young you're 00:48:22.880 --> 00:48:26.450 not going to do anything other than yes 00:48:24.950 --> 00:48:27.590 you've got holes in your nose you got 00:48:26.450 --> 00:48:29.360 these coming out your ears 00:48:27.590 --> 00:48:31.340 whatever is other than yes this is 00:48:29.360 --> 00:48:33.950 wonderful realize this can happen in 00:48:31.340 --> 00:48:35.870 life as soon as people know that when 00:48:33.950 --> 00:48:40.060 something goes wrong they look at a 00:48:35.870 --> 00:48:40.060 piece of paper oh yeah that reminds me 00:48:40.300 --> 00:48:45.920 but the best thing that happened to me 00:48:42.380 --> 00:48:48.140 no one helped me no one felt sorry for 00:48:45.920 --> 00:48:50.420 me no one looked at me and said like 00:48:48.140 --> 00:48:52.280 this day and age though they'll take you 00:48:50.420 --> 00:48:55.880 in and it'll tell you bye stop picking 00:48:52.280 --> 00:48:57.440 on this person back then any care the 00:48:55.880 --> 00:48:59.600 only person that's to turn this person 00:48:57.440 --> 00:49:01.970 around it's me you don't reckon 00:48:59.600 --> 00:49:04.970 turnaround is put myself through the 00:49:01.970 --> 00:49:07.130 worst things possible a human being 00:49:04.970 --> 00:49:10.010 could ever endure and I'd be the only 00:49:07.130 --> 00:49:11.600 way that I can build this brain to 00:49:10.010 --> 00:49:13.910 handle anything that comes in front of 00:49:11.600 --> 00:49:16.380 him callus in my mind through pain and 00:49:13.910 --> 00:49:18.450 suffering 00:49:16.380 --> 00:49:20.640 don't be afraid to step up to your fears 00:49:18.450 --> 00:49:22.769 don't be afraid to even become your 00:49:20.640 --> 00:49:24.779 fears take this opportunity now to be 00:49:22.769 --> 00:49:27.089 worthy of the success you want to be the 00:49:24.779 --> 00:49:29.039 person that you admire someone who takes 00:49:27.089 --> 00:49:31.109 extra steps to be more than they could 00:49:29.039 --> 00:49:34.250 ever imagine those extra steps putting 00:49:31.109 --> 00:49:34.250 in those extra hours 00:49:35.080 --> 00:49:41.680 as humans we we want to find out how to 00:49:38.320 --> 00:49:44.710 be someone else what we don't do is we 00:49:41.680 --> 00:49:46.930 don't go inside so literally turn 00:49:44.710 --> 00:49:48.220 yourself inside out read the book that 00:49:46.930 --> 00:49:50.320 says like like we're writing a book 00:49:48.220 --> 00:49:52.540 every day for life but we never read 00:49:50.320 --> 00:49:54.070 that book so what I would challenge this 00:49:52.540 --> 00:49:56.590 young man or or you don't want me to do 00:49:54.070 --> 00:49:58.060 is you have to look inside of here so if 00:49:56.590 --> 00:50:00.040 you see what you really want what are 00:49:58.060 --> 00:50:02.230 you passionate about we use these words 00:50:00.040 --> 00:50:04.480 and these little phrases of only the 00:50:02.230 --> 00:50:10.890 strong survive and also the crap they're 00:50:04.480 --> 00:50:13.930 all just fucking words take this as your 00:50:10.890 --> 00:50:17.710 opportunity to change your life for the 00:50:13.930 --> 00:50:20.530 better to enjoy the life you deserve to 00:50:17.710 --> 00:50:23.740 have the future you've worked for the 00:50:20.530 --> 00:50:26.530 future you know you can have use this as 00:50:23.740 --> 00:50:30.940 a tool a tool to motivate your life 00:50:26.530 --> 00:50:31.810 through your success this is where it 00:50:30.940 --> 00:50:34.420 all starts 00:50:31.810 --> 00:50:37.990 kick off your life in the direction that 00:50:34.420 --> 00:50:40.750 pushes you towards a life a life where 00:50:37.990 --> 00:50:42.570 you can take control make sure you know 00:50:40.750 --> 00:50:46.030 which direction you're headed in 00:50:42.570 --> 00:50:49.530 organize your world in your favor your 00:50:46.030 --> 00:50:52.620 favor for your purpose for your future 00:50:49.530 --> 00:50:56.070 this is the opening to take you towards 00:50:52.620 --> 00:50:58.580 a life full of success you have this 00:50:56.070 --> 00:51:03.780 control you have always had this power 00:50:58.580 --> 00:51:06.660 unleash the animal the only way you're 00:51:03.780 --> 00:51:09.960 ever going to get to the other side of 00:51:06.660 --> 00:51:15.750 this journey is you have got to suffer 00:51:09.960 --> 00:51:17.700 to grow to grow you must suffer and some 00:51:15.750 --> 00:51:19.230 people will get it something wrong but 00:51:17.700 --> 00:51:20.700 they have to see what their journey is 00:51:19.230 --> 00:51:22.260 to start their journey several people 00:51:20.700 --> 00:51:23.550 live to be 100 years old 00:51:22.260 --> 00:51:25.230 they have great lives and they have 00:51:23.550 --> 00:51:27.150 great kids the kids go to college long 00:51:25.230 --> 00:51:29.730 sort of stuff but somewhere in their 00:51:27.150 --> 00:51:32.640 life there was a point where they had a 00:51:29.730 --> 00:51:35.510 decision to make they can go left or 00:51:32.640 --> 00:51:35.510 right on this path 00:51:36.440 --> 00:51:41.010 left was the easy route right was a hard 00:51:39.589 --> 00:51:44.630 rock 00:51:41.010 --> 00:51:47.280 [Music] 00:51:44.630 --> 00:51:48.990 allows you to take the easy route and 00:51:47.280 --> 00:51:50.940 they had a good life that way 00:51:48.990 --> 00:51:54.540 but the better life was going to the 00:51:50.940 --> 00:51:57.060 right side and you may have 20 years of 00:51:54.540 --> 00:51:59.040 pain and suffering to get past it but a 00:51:57.060 --> 00:52:02.220 lot of us die never truly starting our 00:51:59.040 --> 00:52:03.840 journey and I would tell this to a 00:52:02.220 --> 00:52:06.840 person you got to start your journey it 00:52:03.840 --> 00:52:08.220 may suck but it will it will come out 00:52:06.840 --> 00:52:10.080 the other side where you're coasting 00:52:08.220 --> 00:52:14.340 just keep doing the right thing and the 00:52:10.080 --> 00:52:19.290 good thing it'll happen the reason 00:52:14.340 --> 00:52:22.850 people change is because of pain my 00:52:19.290 --> 00:52:29.700 relationship with pain runs deep and 00:52:22.850 --> 00:52:33.920 it's complicated on the one hand I love 00:52:29.700 --> 00:52:37.830 pain I love trying to push the outer 00:52:33.920 --> 00:52:41.940 edges of envelope of what the pain 00:52:37.830 --> 00:52:45.000 experience is in a physical sense and 00:52:41.940 --> 00:52:47.190 it's also been my greatest teacher in 00:52:45.000 --> 00:52:50.220 terms of things that I've accomplished 00:52:47.190 --> 00:52:52.350 but also my errant ways as well 00:52:50.220 --> 00:52:57.870 pain is truly the only thing that's ever 00:52:52.350 --> 00:53:00.030 gotten me to change so it's been my 00:52:57.870 --> 00:53:05.010 growth accelerator as well as my 00:53:00.030 --> 00:53:06.390 reminder of when I've gone astray okay 00:53:05.010 --> 00:53:08.130 so there's a difference between pain and 00:53:06.390 --> 00:53:10.620 suffering there's a difference between 00:53:08.130 --> 00:53:13.830 there were we're all suffering we all 00:53:10.620 --> 00:53:16.590 have suffering we all have an emptiness 00:53:13.830 --> 00:53:18.450 or a dark place or corners inside of our 00:53:16.590 --> 00:53:20.580 spirit in our mind that are not 00:53:18.450 --> 00:53:23.580 fulfilled and watered and full like we 00:53:20.580 --> 00:53:25.290 all can relate to that and when I'm 00:53:23.580 --> 00:53:27.570 talking about pain I'm not necessarily 00:53:25.290 --> 00:53:29.910 talking about suffering but 00:53:27.570 --> 00:53:32.190 acknowledging our suffering being in 00:53:29.910 --> 00:53:34.440 touch with the pain that's enough to say 00:53:32.190 --> 00:53:35.720 when you're really honest that's enough 00:53:34.440 --> 00:53:38.510 to say I 00:53:35.720 --> 00:53:40.819 I don't want to do the same like this is 00:53:38.510 --> 00:53:43.400 not the person I want to become and be 00:53:40.819 --> 00:53:45.680 on a regular basis if that's the case if 00:53:43.400 --> 00:53:48.430 that assumption is right then as a loved 00:53:45.680 --> 00:53:51.710 one my job is to help you get real and 00:53:48.430 --> 00:53:55.250 experience those places as often as you 00:53:51.710 --> 00:53:58.190 can so that you make the declaration to 00:53:55.250 --> 00:54:02.260 say no no no that's not okay for me to 00:53:58.190 --> 00:54:05.450 feel and be this way on a regular basis 00:54:02.260 --> 00:54:08.660 you know we're so conditioned to avoid 00:54:05.450 --> 00:54:10.670 pain every message that we see every 00:54:08.660 --> 00:54:13.809 billboard we see every advertisement 00:54:10.670 --> 00:54:16.220 that we're exposed to is telling us that 00:54:13.809 --> 00:54:19.880 happiness can be can be purchased 00:54:16.220 --> 00:54:22.789 through comfort luxury through ease and 00:54:19.880 --> 00:54:25.190 that's sort of implicit in that is that 00:54:22.789 --> 00:54:27.380 that's how we find happiness and I can 00:54:25.190 --> 00:54:29.930 tell you that I'm happiest and most 00:54:27.380 --> 00:54:32.599 alive when I'm butting up against the 00:54:29.930 --> 00:54:35.450 outer edges of my pain threshold and I'm 00:54:32.599 --> 00:54:38.089 not afraid of it and so when I start to 00:54:35.450 --> 00:54:39.859 feel that sensation rather than shirk 00:54:38.089 --> 00:54:44.510 away from it I realize that's an 00:54:39.859 --> 00:54:48.470 opportunity to experience a heightened 00:54:44.510 --> 00:54:51.920 sense of myself in my environment to 00:54:48.470 --> 00:54:54.500 really be in a position where everything 00:54:51.920 --> 00:54:57.460 else falls away and it's just you and 00:54:54.500 --> 00:55:01.069 your ability to take one step forward 00:54:57.460 --> 00:55:03.740 there's a purity to that that again 00:55:01.069 --> 00:55:06.079 isn't another great feature and so in 00:55:03.740 --> 00:55:08.569 terms of techniques I've just learned 00:55:06.079 --> 00:55:11.569 through experience that just like David 00:55:08.569 --> 00:55:14.390 Goggin says when the signals that you're 00:55:11.569 --> 00:55:15.650 receiving are telling you to stop that 00:55:14.390 --> 00:55:17.420 you don't necessarily have to pay 00:55:15.650 --> 00:55:21.170 attention to that that that you are 00:55:17.420 --> 00:55:24.859 capable of so much more if you can 00:55:21.170 --> 00:55:27.440 develop the acuity the presence of mind 00:55:24.859 --> 00:55:29.539 and the wherewithal to then take that 00:55:27.440 --> 00:55:31.940 next step and when you're on the other 00:55:29.539 --> 00:55:34.279 side of it to realize you're still okay 00:55:31.940 --> 00:55:37.369 and you can take another step and a 00:55:34.279 --> 00:55:38.930 whole your horizon extends and you 00:55:37.369 --> 00:55:41.630 realize that there's a whole world of 00:55:38.930 --> 00:55:44.910 potential and possibility available to 00:55:41.630 --> 00:55:53.480 you that you weren't previously aware of 00:55:44.910 --> 00:55:56.490 [Music] 00:55:53.480 --> 00:55:59.670 never should never exist in your world 00:55:56.490 --> 00:56:02.250 if you want to improve if you can see 00:55:59.670 --> 00:56:05.460 yourself being better never should even 00:56:02.250 --> 00:56:07.800 be in the picture you have the power to 00:56:05.460 --> 00:56:10.110 do anything possible the power to 00:56:07.800 --> 00:56:13.440 transform into somebody capable of 00:56:10.110 --> 00:56:16.470 anything you can imagine this this is 00:56:13.440 --> 00:56:22.170 the power you deserve let your success 00:56:16.470 --> 00:56:24.540 let your mindset be the beginning the 00:56:22.170 --> 00:56:26.730 journey doesn't in here this journey 00:56:24.540 --> 00:56:29.250 doesn't end when the Sun goes up when 00:56:26.730 --> 00:56:31.620 the sun goes down it doesn't end when 00:56:29.250 --> 00:56:33.930 you close your eyes doesn't end for one 00:56:31.620 --> 00:56:39.780 second because hard work waits for 00:56:33.930 --> 00:56:41.430 nobody let yourself be heard let your 00:56:39.780 --> 00:56:44.130 power speak for itself 00:56:41.430 --> 00:56:46.470 let your beginning be the potential to 00:56:44.130 --> 00:56:48.780 take you further and further along your 00:56:46.470 --> 00:56:51.360 path to success you are the only 00:56:48.780 --> 00:56:54.420 inspiration you need you are the only 00:56:51.360 --> 00:56:57.510 force it takes to be someone more to 00:56:54.420 --> 00:57:00.120 have so much more remember your worth as 00:56:57.510 --> 00:57:02.490 a person remember the possibilities of 00:57:00.120 --> 00:57:05.880 your power the fruitful future that 00:57:02.490 --> 00:57:08.430 lingers over your shoulders this is 00:57:05.880 --> 00:57:10.740 where you never say never never say 00:57:08.430 --> 00:57:13.710 never to any possibility to any 00:57:10.740 --> 00:57:17.850 opportunity to any mistakes to any fear 00:57:13.710 --> 00:57:20.140 you say yes this this is the only way to 00:57:17.850 --> 00:57:23.440 grow 00:57:20.140 --> 00:57:25.060 I think that that most people set the 00:57:23.440 --> 00:57:26.530 wrong goals for themselves and it's 00:57:25.060 --> 00:57:28.450 because they're disconnected from who 00:57:26.530 --> 00:57:30.160 they are they are living someone else's 00:57:28.450 --> 00:57:32.500 life or they're living a life that's so 00:57:30.160 --> 00:57:34.030 disconnected from who they are it 00:57:32.500 --> 00:57:37.690 becomes very difficult to set the right 00:57:34.030 --> 00:57:40.990 goal so I think in order to reconcile 00:57:37.690 --> 00:57:42.460 that you have to look inward you know 00:57:40.990 --> 00:57:44.650 and that can be different for everybody 00:57:42.460 --> 00:57:46.510 that can mean a consistent meditation 00:57:44.650 --> 00:57:50.770 practice that can mean therapy that can 00:57:46.510 --> 00:57:54.160 mean you know starting to do yoga 00:57:50.770 --> 00:57:59.920 it can mean many many things but I think 00:57:54.160 --> 00:58:03.550 there's no and run around the very 00:57:59.920 --> 00:58:06.100 difficult long process of really trying 00:58:03.550 --> 00:58:08.800 to be honest with yourself about who you 00:58:06.100 --> 00:58:11.530 are what's important to you what you 00:58:08.800 --> 00:58:14.860 care about and then beginning to breathe 00:58:11.530 --> 00:58:19.090 life into those things as frivolous as 00:58:14.860 --> 00:58:20.770 they may seem to bring expression to the 00:58:19.090 --> 00:58:23.230 things that that you do care about that 00:58:20.770 --> 00:58:24.640 that that get you excited in the morning 00:58:23.230 --> 00:58:28.770 and that doesn't mean you quit your job 00:58:24.640 --> 00:58:31.870 tomorrow but the more you can foster 00:58:28.770 --> 00:58:35.440 something that has personal importance 00:58:31.870 --> 00:58:37.250 to you I think that's the first step in 00:58:35.440 --> 00:58:40.530 trying to 00:58:37.250 --> 00:58:41.280 move past whatever it is that's holding 00:58:40.530 --> 00:58:42.599 you back 00:58:41.280 --> 00:58:45.900 whether it's professionally or 00:58:42.599 --> 00:58:49.790 personally to being a more integrated 00:58:45.900 --> 00:58:49.790 authentic version of yourself 00:58:51.700 --> 00:58:57.740 let this be the moment you remember 00:58:54.860 --> 00:59:00.950 show yourself as the rocket in your own 00:58:57.740 --> 00:59:03.140 life this is the journey you're on you 00:59:00.950 --> 00:59:05.270 control the progress you make you 00:59:03.140 --> 00:59:06.860 strengthen the path that transforms you 00:59:05.270 --> 00:59:09.050 into the person you've been waiting to 00:59:06.860 --> 00:59:11.930 become the person that allows you to 00:59:09.050 --> 00:59:14.330 become someone new you have the skills 00:59:11.930 --> 00:59:16.520 to be bold the strengths to grow faster 00:59:14.330 --> 00:59:19.040 the power to be stronger the journey 00:59:16.520 --> 00:59:21.950 you've waited for is here here for you 00:59:19.040 --> 00:59:24.170 to be something better this is the 00:59:21.950 --> 00:59:26.800 opportunity in front of you this is your 00:59:24.170 --> 00:59:29.360 future staring at you face to face 00:59:26.800 --> 00:59:32.840 waiting for the power to be granted to 00:59:29.360 --> 00:59:35.420 you your power is welcomed welcomed by 00:59:32.840 --> 00:59:39.020 your progress your progress that guide 00:59:35.420 --> 00:59:41.510 you towards your future be someone you 00:59:39.020 --> 00:59:44.420 can take pride in become someone you 00:59:41.510 --> 00:59:47.260 know that you can become this is the 00:59:44.420 --> 00:59:50.690 journey you have the journey you're on 00:59:47.260 --> 00:59:53.060 take the first step towards success take 00:59:50.690 --> 00:59:56.030 the first movie of faith into the risks 00:59:53.060 --> 00:59:58.790 of your life push past the limits move 00:59:56.030 --> 01:00:03.910 toward a future you can imagine a future 00:59:58.790 --> 01:00:03.910 use design this is your power 01:00:06.250 --> 01:00:11.690 self-reliance is everything don't don't 01:00:09.740 --> 01:00:13.880 expect anybody to do anything for you 01:00:11.690 --> 01:00:15.530 I'm the only one who can get it done and 01:00:13.880 --> 01:00:18.560 if you just buckle down and go the extra 01:00:15.530 --> 01:00:21.700 mile you will solve the problem and you 01:00:18.560 --> 01:00:21.700 will make your way in the world 01:00:23.020 --> 01:00:28.670 you know we all have a unique song and I 01:00:26.330 --> 01:00:31.220 think most people to echo the words of 01:00:28.670 --> 01:00:33.560 Henry David Thoreau are leading lives of 01:00:31.220 --> 01:00:35.270 quiet desperation and go to the grave 01:00:33.560 --> 01:00:37.480 with the song still in them and I find 01:00:35.270 --> 01:00:42.020 that tragic and so if there's anything 01:00:37.480 --> 01:00:44.360 that that that my work is about it's 01:00:42.020 --> 01:00:46.820 about helping people become cognizant of 01:00:44.360 --> 01:00:50.090 that and to take action so that they 01:00:46.820 --> 01:00:52.670 don't become that person leading a life 01:00:50.090 --> 01:00:54.380 of quiet desperation which I think I 01:00:52.670 --> 01:00:57.110 don't know I wouldn't want to say most 01:00:54.380 --> 01:01:00.040 people but a lot of people are and I 01:00:57.110 --> 01:01:00.040 found out heartbreaking 01:01:02.370 --> 01:01:06.090 you know what's your major malfunction 01:01:03.990 --> 01:01:08.700 right now what's the thing that keeps 01:01:06.090 --> 01:01:11.670 you up at night do you resent the most 01:01:08.700 --> 01:01:12.930 what are you afraid of what do you want 01:01:11.670 --> 01:01:14.250 to achieve what's in it 01:01:12.930 --> 01:01:16.200 what's in it what do you think is in 01:01:14.250 --> 01:01:21.360 your way you know I think just by asking 01:01:16.200 --> 01:01:25.650 people questions and and and and then 01:01:21.360 --> 01:01:29.220 holding a vision for that better life 01:01:25.650 --> 01:01:30.600 for them to say I believe in you I'm not 01:01:29.220 --> 01:01:33.420 here to tell you what to do or how to 01:01:30.600 --> 01:01:35.820 live your life but I believe in your 01:01:33.420 --> 01:01:36.890 greatest expression and I'm gonna hold 01:01:35.820 --> 01:01:39.810 space for you 01:01:36.890 --> 01:01:41.850 to give people permission to be honest 01:01:39.810 --> 01:01:43.760 to be vulnerable we're so afraid of 01:01:41.850 --> 01:01:47.760 being vulnerable 01:01:43.760 --> 01:01:49.770 we're terrified of being honest we're so 01:01:47.760 --> 01:01:52.860 used to being judged and being held to a 01:01:49.770 --> 01:01:54.330 standard that society sets for us that 01:01:52.860 --> 01:01:56.130 we don't give ourselves permission to 01:01:54.330 --> 01:01:58.790 even ask these questions let alone 01:01:56.130 --> 01:01:58.790 answer them 01:01:59.680 --> 01:02:04.839 what have you done today to be different 01:02:02.400 --> 01:02:06.390 what have you done to step outside the 01:02:04.839 --> 01:02:09.069 conventions that you set for yourself 01:02:06.390 --> 01:02:12.460 the conventions and the rules set by 01:02:09.069 --> 01:02:14.770 your past today you have the power to 01:02:12.460 --> 01:02:16.690 move on today you have the power to move 01:02:14.770 --> 01:02:19.710 away from your past and move towards a 01:02:16.690 --> 01:02:19.710 successful future 01:02:21.520 --> 01:02:26.210 this is your decision your call to make 01:02:24.859 --> 01:02:28.160 in your future 01:02:26.210 --> 01:02:30.049 this is how your life can gain its own 01:02:28.160 --> 01:02:32.869 direction and this is where your life 01:02:30.049 --> 01:02:35.420 can be so much more so much better you 01:02:32.869 --> 01:02:37.460 can make it better you have always had 01:02:35.420 --> 01:02:39.799 the potential to take one more step the 01:02:37.460 --> 01:02:41.780 potential to take the risks others are 01:02:39.799 --> 01:02:44.180 too scared to take because you are more 01:02:41.780 --> 01:02:46.640 and you are stronger and you have the 01:02:44.180 --> 01:02:49.089 determination and the courage to be so 01:02:46.640 --> 01:02:49.089 much more