we become what we think about focus on

what you want rather than focusing on

what you don't want so who do you want

to be you know why why did why are you

here on this planet you live according

to the principles of love compassion you

know appreciative joy you know

celebrating other people's successes but

how do you overcome hatred and confusion

and just having a good heart then I

think that's what happened to me then I

start to get clear about what what I

like to do and how I can be of service

how can I help other people that we were

wired for success but it's how we relate

to our experience that determines

whether we're chipping away or we're you

know kind of burying that sense of

wholeness that we that were born with it

just that we forget it we don't look

inside we're looking outside and so

unless we're still and we think about it

and we understand that I was born with

this masterpieces no one can give it to

me or take it away it's it's an inside

job and so if I look at what's right it

just it makes makes a lot of sense so

it's whether you're coming from a place

of scarcity or I would say survival mode

or coming from growth mode which has to

do with yes I can't yes to life and I I

have the capacity and the responsibility

to make it different but to make it make

it better having that faith that

vulnerability that just see things that

are hard to see gotta get comfortable

being uncomfortable so can you handle

the truth

it's a question and if you can't then

you if you see that that you can say

well is if I'm going to change I'm gonna

have to figure out how to deal with that

discomfort until the point that I can

see what I need to see then I can change

it so as the persistence of continuing

to do something that you can do it is is

most of the work this is just continuing

to make mistakes learn from mistakes but

the mistakes are viewed as feedback not

as I'm a failure it's just an event now

who we are so that error correction is

really important and when you can see

when you attributed this something you

can learn or change now you've got faith

and confidence to do it versus if you're

seeing it like oh I'm just not strong

enough I'm not tall enough and all of

that that's just that's what I call the

negative committee telling you you can't

do anything rather than saying well let

me see what can i what I can do

so it's like a child learn how to walk

right same thing your life can change

your life can be more than just a place

it can be your future your success this

change this change takes courage it

takes courage to stand up and break down

the aspects of your life that you know

is holding you back

let your progress be idolized let it

speak for itself

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average becomes sort of like this slow

asphyxiation it's almost like an

anesthetic and that overtime would

become kind of immune and dulled to the

average that we're becoming I know this

is true at least for me you probably

experienced it yourself too and so over

time we sort of minimize where we're at

in other words I'm a little pudgy

instead of being know your fat ass right

you know you don't magnify the degree to

which the pain ought to be affecting you

and so really what he means on that is

listen you're gonna get out of your life

what you'll accept that's really

difficult for people I think to

understand is look what you think you're

worth and what you're gonna tolerate is

absolutely what you're gonna bring into

your life and what the outward part of

your life is gonna look like and so I

live by that like I let myself sort of

feel the pain and the difficulty of

being not where I want to be in whatever

that areas were those would be my

spirituality my relationships my money I

let myself feel that pain because as you

know there's two motivators right

there's the gaining of pleasure right

wanting to go get something chasing the

dream but then there's the avoidance of

pain and for a lot of champions that's a

pretty big driving force for them and so

at least for me I I leveraged both of

those things on me to get myself to take

action one of the reasons I'm relatively

fit is not just peak State I have an

uncle and my family that died at 50

years old of a heart attacks my

godfather my dad's only brother I kind

of resemble him and I look like a plan

so on the way back from his funeral my

reticular activating art attacks on the

TV screen on the airplane I listen to

music is the Oprah Winfrey Show she's

going through a new heart scan

I've unplugged my headphones plug into

this airplane one I scheduled it I went

in I had a world-class doctor who

understood reasons and levers instead of

just prescribing coolant only coach well

you need to do this you need to do this

like doctors do it take his pill take

this

he understood leverage and reasons what

you do is to take the scan then you go

to lunch you come back I took the scan I

went those I had a burrito I came back

and I'm in the LA when I walk in I sit

down the doctor comes up and he says

oh my I can't believe these arteries are

in that young body got my attention we

walk back in we sit down he could still

go you need Crestor eat clean get out of

here is know what an average doctor does

right No wired me with huge reasons he

goes let me ask you a question I heard

your wife's pregnant you have I said I

have a son and he says do you want to be

there when he graduates from high school

to be there for that day I said yes sir

yeah he goes your wife's pregnant what

do you have it I said a daughter this is

where you get a dad he goes she was six

months pregnant he goes do you um would

you like to walk her down the aisle on

her wedding day are you okay that it's

some other man

I went what the zahn this skin right

like and he goes I want to be very clear

with you if you keep going down the road

you're going there'll be some other man

with your son at graduation high school

and a strangers walking your daughter

down the aisle that's not even born yet

on her wedding day and I went to him and

he goes but if you do exactly what I

tell you to do you'll be there and so to

this day brother there are mornings when

I wake up not every morning I don't want

to go to the gym I go Bella's wedding

Bella's wedding Bella's wedding so my

standards are high because of my big old

reasons other dudes may miss the gym

that day cuz they're not gonna miss

their daughter's wedding if they don't

go but I've convinced myself I will get

emotional

I've convinced myself on this my

daughter's wedding so I will get my ass

out of bed at 4 o'clock in the morning

and I will get to that gym because my

reasons are bigger so my standards are

higher so that's what I think causes us

to have great standards as huge reasons

when you're inspired by something or

someone in your life you feel the magic

now's the time to be the magic what are

you going to do are you going to let the

Masters inspire you to feel it or are

you going to strive to be a master

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it's your choice the magic is waiting

not only for you just a feeling but so

be it

nobody can take this away in your life

you can't escape anything that goes

along with life you know we are not

immune to problems

drama trauma the tragedy you know we all

here as human beings so you know when

you're going through some sort of

difficulties you know first fighting or

whatever that difficulty may be you know

you know we do with within your power in

terms of how to start slowly you know

get yourself out of that situation

and you believe you'd be optimistic

about you know being negative about a

situation stand in that place it never

helps you know it's nothing wrong with

understanding that place feeling bad

about it looking at it for what it is

but don't stay there you've got to get

back on that other side and start

looking at the resolved resolution of

how can I get back to feeling good and

feeling prosperous again to where I'm

not dealing with this obstacle

words are very powerful very powerful so

the thing is about getting within

yourself and understand who you are to

kind of you know what off those negative

comments that's coming towards my

virtually always prepared you know you

have to go for those things in order to

see it in light of the light at the end

of the tunnel you know I don't think

anything is going to just be like this

throughout your life and then you have

to go through that difficult overcome

obstacle because it's a testament of

your character of who you are in high

gear to deal with certain things you

know to get yourself back on it playing

field everything happened for a reason

no regrets all the negative things that

happened I'm thankful for it because I

learned hopefully I learned from those

situations and all the positive things

I'm humbly grateful that those was able

to take place and still striving to be

the best I can be and you know going

forward people didn't care at some kid

to be the best they could be you know

anything is possible positive thinking

is also translating them you know so

when you have something that's positive

up there you can be you know the best

you can be you know any negative out

there and you could bring down the worst

person misery loves company misery loves

company so we are not debbie down as we

more uplifters you know we always no

matter what the situation with the

situation is we're gonna try to look for

the outcome the better of that situation

you know if we can't find a resolution

to get out of it you know we're gonna

keep on searching the continue to try to

find a resolution to get out of because

that's what you do you know that's how

you get to the bottom of that's how you

get to the facts of Nass are you willing

to breath are you willing to be the

warrior bring your shield bring your

sword stand up and fight today will be

the day where you can take control take

control of your power become this power

because now is the time to fight you're

a warrior warriors don't give up and

they don't back down become the warrior

transform your life transform yourself

head out into battle step on to the

battlefield

use your weapons to fight through this

pain fight through the rejection learn

from the bruises the blood scars because

this time you can rise to become the

step on to the Plainfield because now is

the time to change now is the time to

rise with the crown on your head you

know you want to be a little bit better

in some way tomorrow than you are today

but it's not gonna be in a linear path

again these go through cycles of stress

and recovery so it's just kind of being

able to surf the flow of that and know

again it really comes down to balance so

it's the practices that you need to know

what to do for sure and then you need to

know how to apply those things in the

right way so when you when to push and

when to take the pressure off the gas as

well and I think that's really

understanding that so part of it is the

knowledge and then part of it is the

follow-through and then part of it is

the discipline to know not only when you

need to go but when you need to rest I

think it's important to really trust

that what you're doing is going to work

what's a day that makes life awesome and

and makes you again a little bit better

tomorrow from having done it today you

have to really do the work like you have

to back it with hard work you know any

of you ask Conor McGregor like what's

the secret to his success hard work hard

work hard work I don't know if he

actually worked harder than anybody but

he believes he does you know he has no

doubts in his mind that he's actually

working harder and and that's I think

important so

really making sure that you really do

your best to get the goods you know and

to in to practice that and go out there

and put yourself out there and then on

the other side what is the thing what is

the antagonist of belief well the

antagonist of belief is fear you know

fear is a belief that something negative

is going to happen rather than something

positive is going to happen so it's like

that's on the other side you're almost

believing in your failure right rather

than believing in your success so you

have to go attack and collapse these

different fears and part of that is

going to be sucking out the the penalty

if if you fail right because like a lot

of the fear comes because we're afraid

that we're gonna judge ourselves harshly

or whatever so you got to realize like

there is no such thing as failure

there's just learning right so you

collapse the penalty for failure so that

collapses the fear which allows you to

believe even more so that's one way to

do it and the other way is to just look

at fear itself

and play out the different scenarios

know that you're gonna be fine again

forgive yourself always and and really

also just attack fear wherever you see

it even when it's trivial even when it's

some kind of we were just before the

before we got on here we talked about

the fear of the number 13 true God trick

a phobia like if you're afraid of 13 you

know what you need to do you put 13s all

of you in house you know you need to

like sit in Thirteen's you need to go to

the 13th demand to be on the 13th floor

of every hotel in every airplane because

you got to get over that shit because

that is telling yourself that there's

something irrational that should control

you and if you believe there's something

that's irrational that should control

you that will apply universally so

wherever you find fear specifically

that's out of balance with actual danger

like I'm not saying touch a hot stove or

put your hand in a rattlesnake cage like

there's danger there that's not fear but

13 no danger you know that's not real

so go collapse that the fear of crickets

like I have a fear of like whatever it

is collapse fear wherever you see it and

that specific collapse will help with

the universal collapses

you just got to understand the only

thing that you're responsible for is

your best but he can't do better than

your best you just do your best and if

you try to obsess too much you're not

doing your best you're gonna be

paralyzed right so you have to get as

much information as you can make the

most educated choice make sure that

you're not choosing based on ego or

emotion or you know greed or these other

forces that delude you and prevent you

from thinking clearly but if you do your

best and you fail like what do you do

beat yourself up for that like that

doesn't make any sense if you're doing

your best if you're really laying it out

there there's nothing nothing more you

can do and and that's I think that

that's really the key is just to

constantly rest and rely on that fact

that I'm just I'm doing my best and

there's nothing nothing more than that

you know you have to really appreciate

where you are in the journey and say

yeah where you are is awesome but you

could be better cuz that's the the

process is becoming better right so it's

not it's not judging it externally by

any other criteria because every step is

good but the process of striving for

more in a process to really unfailing

who you are to an even greater degree to

getting cleaner and clearer and more

full and more robust and the best

version of yourself like that process is

a beautiful process I think it's one of

the reasons why we're here it feels the

best it feels the best to be continuing

on the path but that doesn't mean that

you look forward to a point in the past

say when I get there I'll love myself

when I get there I'll I made it like

love yourself where you are wherever you

are that's awesome let's still strive

for more because the striving is the

journey it's always the striving

if we were able to do like even a

fraction of the things we know we should

we would all be badasses you know but

there's so many things you talk to me

yeah I should be doing that yeah I

should be doing I know I should be I

should be meditating yeah I know I

should be doing this I should be eating

better I should be doing this and we all

know what we want to do to be the best

version of ourselves but for whatever

reason we don't do it you know and

there's a lot of reasons why but we're

not doing it and so the ability to

choose and actually decide what you're

going to do to be the not well to be the

art and say oh well if I believe I

should meditate then I'll meditate and

just collapsing that I know I should

with actually doing it you know that is

a superpower that's what defines the

greatest performers from the people who

haven't quite made it yet it's really

their ability to say oh if I should

train now I will know if I should eat

like this I will oh if I should do this

okay then I will it's collapsing that

knowing what knowing what you should do

and actually doing and making that one

and that's ultimately a choice

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we have way more power than we recognize

and what people will tell us that we

have so stepping into that power and

deciding for ourselves what we want to

do with it

what time is it right now look at it

face it

stand up to it what do you see what did

that number say to you how much of this

number have you wasted wasted on waiting

waiting for what what is it that you're

waiting for how much do you want ask

yourself this what's more valuable

waiting or your time your power and your

action this is where your journey starts

this is where you grow grow adapt

improve to become the person you admire

this is you this can be you stop failing

to respond to react this is how you

shape your life how you construct your

future make this what it is your success

all this work now are the steps before

you break the ribbon at the finish

this is your opportunity to change

change towards a better life towards a

life where you are the director where

you are the power the power that drives

you forward to success the power that

defines your life now that defines your

legacy your future this is the time to

become something more than or do

something outside the realm of expected

because you're more than you always have

been but in order for you to become this

you need to work you need to want it so

much it pushes you it pushes you outside

your comfort zone this is where it

starts this is where you become

something something better than now

where you build a life with yourself one

where you hold the reins where you make

the final cut where you have that power

you deserve this you deserve to feel

fulfilled proud and excited for this

newfound success you will and can embody

your future your legacy your life can

transform into the paradise you've

always imagined it could be your life

can change your life can be more than

just a place it can be your future your

success this change this change takes

courage it takes courage to stand up and

break down the aspects of your life that

you know is holding you back

let your progress be idolized let it

speak for itself let it leave a mark so

deep it can never be erased this den can

have such a positive influence on your

life that it can transform your future

transform your life using the potential

you know you've always had make your

life worth remembering make it worth the

pain it took the hours it used the

effort put in know to take pride in your

work know that your life can break all

possibilities break all boundaries and

become something beyond any expectations

human letdown you face rejection and you

failed fortunately when you hit that

point the only place to go is up I want

you to imagine that your life is a tree

the failure that you've just faced is

actually a seed and it's a seed that's

gonna grow your potential the light you

need is your mindset and the water is

your strength because the rejection you

feel right now is sprouting your success

and in order for you to grow you need to

feel the pain the pain of the struggle

is more than just some dark place you go

to it's actually a starting place a

place to begin trying and a place you

start to improve and that improvement

can be the start of the making of your

success look at me you're not five feet

under you're five feet higher than any

position you've ever been it

man stop bringing yourself down start

learning that you are more than just

your mistakes in fact they make you they

make you grow and they make you branch

out into a stronger and more courageous

person give yourself the space to grow

give yourself the space to grow into a

better in a more successful person to

see your potential is sprouting you've

got a better foundation now because

those roots are dug deep into the ground

and if something breaks you down know

that you can grow further past the point

you were at before because this tree can

only grow taller bigger and stronger

because you are stronger now so you've

got to know that this isn't a setback

this is just another ingredient that you

need for the success that's coming your

way it really is

stop making excuses take control of your

situation and rise to your potential man

I don't think that we would be here if

we didn't have a purpose I can tell you

that

it's our job to develop that purposes

I've dealt with find and hone in and

craft that purpose and the purpose is

usually crafted through some level of

suffering it's the hero's journey right

like in film you know the hero he's down

and out and he loses the girl in the in

the house and he goes on this journey

and he finds strength and wisdom and

knowledge and comes back and is now the

hero we have to go through that level of

suffering there's this hunger that

everyone has and it's always neutered my

family my teachers my culture and I

believe you wouldn't be put on this

planet if you didn't have this hunger

and if you explore this hunger and for

me it was done being a fat kid than

being a being a foreigner and then a fat

kid and then fixing my problems and then

realizing I have the solution to other

peoples weight-loss problems for someone

else it might be a financial thing you

know they fix their financial problems

and they realize they can help everyone

else's financial problems but you have

to go through the suffering you have to

be hungry enough to deal with the pain

and come out the other side with some

scars because scar tissue is infinitely

more resilient than regular tissue but

again goes back to most people feel like

yeah I think there's something great in

me but I don't want to explore it I want

to play it safe I'm gonna stay bubble

wraps I don't want to risk it but we

wouldn't be put on this planet if we

didn't have this greater thing to

accomplish now some of us are going to

be Elon Musk and were going to shoot a

Tesla to the Mars right and that's okay

and others are gonna create a fitness

franchise or a or a supplement company

that actually delivers you know great

nutrients that help people in eyes their

performance whatever your purpose is

you've got to develop it you got to

develop it but you wouldn't be put on

this planet if you didn't have it I'm

convinced of that not enough people are

willing to build that mental emotional

toughness and the moment they do they'll

go perseverance nothing happens until

you get done everyone's got a great idea

it'll make me this many millions and

it'll help this many people nothing

happens so you get that done put

yourself in a position where you're

gonna thrive not where it's gonna be

comfortable right get done

I believe we all are raised this fighter

jets just we get neutered by parents by

grandparents because of the filters they

had and viewed life through the

experiences they had teachers who go you

don't want to disappoint yourself just

go to college go get a good job go to

college don't go to college today don't

go to college it's the worst thing you

can do and that's going to be a doctor

or an attorney or accountant or you know

some kind of an architect don't go to

college you can do a lot more in life

with that go to college and so again

teachers professors will end up

neutering us and when they take they

take that fighter jet that hunger the

claws and fangs they've defamed us

alright so now we're crop dusters I

don't want to take too many risks I just

want to live a good life and they want

to be average and mediocre that's the

crop duster yet everyone inside has this

hunger see the fighter jet didn't go

away it's just been suppressed

you've been neutered and that was me

like hey don't take big Ridge just go

get a good job go be a smog technician

like that was the advice I was given

gonna be a smog technician Society

parents who ever have set the standard

for you to not play it safe it risks

what if you lose what have you lose you

care as long as you don't die you can

come right back and so the fighter jet

mentality is that someone who is just

determined relentlessly obsessed and

achieving an outcome in the face of all

adversity the crop duster is someone

who's always looking for the easiest

path to loophole which what I used to be

a severe crop duster the composter hits

the snooze button every day because

they'd rather take 10 more minutes of

mediocre sleep than getting up and

dominating their path every morning on

my nightstand there's two stacks of

dominoes lined up and at the top of this

stack says you're a loser the top of

this one says you're a winner if I hit

the snooze button I've hit that first

domino in the loser stack the rest of my

day is gonna suck now with that

mentality am I gonna ever hit snooze

again absolutely not because I've sold

myself on the idea that when I hit the

snooze button I'm an absolute loser I'm

scum of the earth I am my day is

destined to be shitty now some people

are you being off

yourself more people should be hard on

themselves we go around bubble wrapping

ourselves right we lead the training

bills on for too long like be hard on

yourself take up the bubble wrap off

take the tikki training wheels out no

one did that for me man to be a fighter

jet me a fighter jet go to battle every

day take risks that's what a fighter jet

does a crop duster as a routine life and

it's been boring every day is a new

opportunity to change your life every

day is a new opportunity to make your

life a better place to live in your life

is at stake

think right now what you've done

differently from the things you did

yesterday

perhaps you got up an hour earlier

maybe you meditated or you went to the

gym if you know that you haven't made

any change today

then make this your day take this

opportunity change you're better than

you were yesterday because you know that

today and the day after that you will

make progress you will know that you put

in the work that you earned the

improvement you need to push yourself so

you feel the satisfaction that you've

made further and further past your

original routine further and further

past your failure there is nothing else

you can do but work to work harder and

harder the struggle is the only way you

know you're going to succeed and take

this new opportunity and make this

change in your life you will be better

take this risk take this opening this is

the time to make your life a better

place to make your future a place where

you can see yourself achieve

a future where your life is somewhere

where you can create your own Empire

know that not all of your successes has

to be exposed or flaunted be humble

that's even more important than the

progress you've made

use your success for you and only you

use your success to boost your life into

the next level use your success to make

you grow into a more courageous and

stronger person you are you for one

reason to be yourself to use the

potential you have as a person and make

this your future use this as your first

step into success change the way you

view life switch your perspective of

success and use it in the right place

confident to stand up and take

responsibility for your mistakes and

courageous enough to make mistakes in

the first place educate yourself be this

person become the person you've always

wanted to be you need to make this

transition for your future to make your

life better and bigger you will be who

you need to be motivate yourself with

that

the vision of your future the future of

a successful life

what's the favorite lesson you've ever

learned what is your biggest achievement

you've ever accomplished and then what

is your greatest success I want you to

think about it think about how you got

there where you needed to be in order to

get there in order for you to make that

kind of progress what challenges did you

have to pass what limits did you have to

crush what hurdles that you have to

overcome now I want you to think about

that satisfaction that overcame you when

you accomplish these things how did you

feel and how do you need to feel right

now feel like you have the opportunity

to repeat those actions that you once

did because let me tell you right now

you do make the progress now make your

progress for the better for you to make

more progress you have that potential

now go ahead and spark your success and

spark your inspiration that inspiration

it yields the progress that you need to

make use the tools you have use your

tools because no one can do it like you

can all right use this inspiration while

you have the opening stop living in the

past start thinking about your future

the future where you can succeed that

future is actually happening around you

right now

so take control of your future now by

living in the present living for now

because that at the end of the day

is the only thing that mattered boost

your life make your life and live your

life it's this time in history that most

people are wasting on the wrong stuff

they're spending it on Netflix or

fortnight or going out with their

friends are drinking and if you want to

do that that's fine you know enjoy your

can mediocre ship life but like there's

so much more that you can do with weird

knowledge and studying you make a

mistake it's a part of life it's part of

the journey you know you have to

appreciate the lows you have to respect

the lows celebrate the highs but respect

the lows don't block them out and don't

ignore them in order to be successful I

think this is the biggest thing you have

to be so dedicated to your craft and so

passionate about it so single-minded

focus on that

you know tasks and most people just

don't take you that seriously they're

like yeah I want to be a millionaire

yeah like well I meet people and they're

like oh you're that millionaire and it

like a smile comes on their face like oh

how do I become a millionaire but they

don't really believe it they're not

asking seriously they don't they're not

willing to put in the thousands of hours

requires like there's no magic formula

this isn't like get-rich-quick and those

people who do get rich like the lotto

winners like they're tough because they

didn't earn it they don't don't

appreciate it they don't understand it I

think that going through the ups and the

downs is what makes you appreciate

everything

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you have to find meaning and for me and

a lot of people like you know you're on

this journey like I want to be

successful I want to be rich that's what

I want but what about when you get there

you don't have a plan for that so now

I'm trying to teach you know all about

charity and giving back in the lessons

that I've learned now from being rich

for several years and it's not what you

might think there's a lot of stuff that

comes with being rich and you don't

realize it and you know that's life

because the world and even school

teaches you teaches us in so many ways

to you know work on our weaknesses to

get stronger and I think that's a huge

flaw I think we just get great at what

we're good at we only need to be good at

one or two things and we can make an

impact on the world

everybody's in a vehicle like your

wealth creation vehicle whether that's a

job you don't like or a job you do like

or business you started or business

that's crushing or business it's not

doing great you have this vehicle and

when this vehicle is not working we're

looking on the road of all the other

shiny cars and it's like oh man I tried

selling stuff on Amazon that's not

working I'm gonna go in the car business

the real estate business I'm gonna go in

a speaking business the the nutrition

business the suppli and you're looking

for another car to jump in and I realize

people jump from car to car to car their

whole life looking for satiation looking

for satisfaction looking to make more

money if you can stop jumping from

vehicle to vehicle the vehicle you're in

might be the right vehicle but you don't

have the right habits or the right

beliefs or the right rules whatever you

want to call it my books habit so I call

them habits but it's really the

foundation for success so you can

overcome the obstacles you don't like

negative people in your life steer you

in different directions it doesn't you

know even people who ask me about

productivity people say how do you get

so much done how do you run a business

and still coach the little league in

baseball and saw how do you do all those

things it's because of just simple

success habits like I just wrote

something on this recently I said you

have to treat your decisions for

productivity like binary thinking which

is X's and O's black and black or white

yes or no is this moving me toward a

better version of myself a wealthier

version a happier person or is it not we

never give ourselves credit we'd never

treat a friend the way we treat

ourselves it's like I know I've had days

I've gone till 10 o'clock at night go

man I got nothing done today the biggest

lie like we beat ourselves up we just

were like these racehorses we wouldn't

even treat a racehorse that we owned as

bad as we treat ourselves right so I

wake up and I'll do a quick little

gratitude and they'll say what was one

win yesterday that I accomplished I'm

like wow you didn't do that yes and then

I'll think of one win I want to do that

day like what I'm gonna need a million

things done thing what's a must today

that would be a great win

I don't think we should drive for money

I think we should drive to be a better

version of ourselves when money was no

longer a worry for me I drove into me

and I have been ignoring and tucking

down a lot of crap for a lot of years

and I was surface-level I look like the

guy that had it all going on but

businesses are doing good I'm amazing

children company thriving I live in the

right neighborhood Drive do I have the

right friends I thinking looked great

but it was all masked and when money got

out of the way I was able to find

digging to me and do my own personal

development and my own personal growth

and really find the things that I wanted

to fix so I could become a better

version there might be something that

makes you a lot of money but it robs

your soul so there's that balance and I

think that doesn't happen oh that

doesn't happen in your 20s and maybe not

in your 30s at least been for me I was

just fighting to be successful in my 20s

and 30s but this face I wish someone

would have grabbed me at 25 and said

you're gonna make all the money you want

you'll have all the success you want

make sure your soul is aligned with that

money

and every time I don't know about you

every time I align my values my soul my

purpose whatever it is you want to call

it with my businesses and my profits

they always soar without having to

obsess on the you know on the numbers

great people don't have anything magic

they worked relentlessly for years and

years they decided that they were going

to be great they decided that they

didn't want to sit back and hide they

decided that they wanted to shine they

decided that their name would be in

lights and people would admire what they

do if not for you decide to be great for

the world success never stops never

stops to breathe never takes a day off

never looks to take a break we already

have enough problems on this planet be

different be a person who makes a

difference be a person who makes a

change for good be a person who has an

impact on the world you need to become

someone and you need to become your

future you're gonna handle your power

and feel your potential you gotta feel

this pain to progress to change to feel

fulfilled to feel satisfaction this is

where everything can and trust me it all

will fall into place stop denying the

world of your greatness you need to see

every single day as a bank account

nobody is poor nobody is rich

everyone has 24 hours each and how you

spend your balance each day will decide

who you become now pay attention to

every detail take every day like it's a

brand new spankin opportunity take every

risk as if it's a stepping stone into

the future you're carving out for

yourself because you have control you

have the control to change in the

control to improve the action and

improvement spend your time wisely

do not waste it on things out of your

control

if the weather is bad do not waste time

feeling down about it if it is out of

your control move past it look for the

things that you can control it all takes

resilience resilience to push past any

boundaries and push through every risk

every hardship every wrong

turn right now right here is an open

door the door that puts you on the path

towards success losing 24 hours because

of the bad 10 minutes is like throwing

$10,000 away because you dropped a few

pennies you have control you have

control over your future a future fueled

by your success constructed by your

progress it all begins right here and it

all starts right now don't waste one

more minute sitting and thinking I want

you to spend your next minute acting

take your own direction and write your

own rules you need to write the next

chapter the next chapter that pushes you

through towards a story and a story that

you can finally be proud of now is the

time to become someone you believe in

someone with purpose don't stop now

don't stop until you know you can make

it stand up to your success stand up to

your power this is your opportunity take

it take it like you own it because you

do be sure know your purpose your worth

your intention your drive to strive

towards success life is in your hands it

has always been in your hands

this is the time this is the time to

make it past your fears your boundaries

this is the time you break them shatter

them make them a part of you build your

future from the remains this is where it

starts now is the time to succeed the

power is in your hands the power to be

something more something that has

potential you know that you've always

had it take the opportunity take the

risk take the risk now before it's too

late it's never too late never stop this

is where you can begin work hard work

become the person you admire you know

that you can be the best all it takes is

power drive and work work until it hurts

this is where you succeed this is how

you succeed you can be you can be so

much more start thinking about what

you're actually doing

like you're gonna only be so pretty

you're only gonna be so smart like you

like there's there's things are gonna be

natural and there's things that you can

actually control I do believe and I

don't know if I'm right or wrong I don't

but I do believe that work ethic is a

taught behavior it's something you do

have more control over

I feel like there's a shift that can

make people work harder the big one that

I push is you're gonna die like like if

your complaint like to me life is broken

down into complaining and not so if

you're not complaining well then I know

I have no advice for you but I'm pumped

like you did it great people don't have

anything magic they worked relentlessly

for years and years they decided that

they were going to be great they decided

that they didn't want to sit back and

hide they decided that they wanted to

shine they decided that their name would

be in lights and people would admire

what they do if not for you decide to be

great for the world

I think so many people are keyboard

activists right everybody's good at

sending a tweet about how the world

should be and nobody's doing anything

about it and that just that is just very

much human nature

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but let's not be naive I mean people

literally complain when somebody gives

them the wrong amount of like extra

cream in a Starbucks $6 coffee my lack

of interest in complaining is so high

and when I watch what people complain

about it breaks my heart because they

completely lack perspective and i

genuinely believe my happiness and

optimism comes from my perspective even

in political unrest times like right now

a lot of people very bent out of shape

but the reality is is that it just never

been better to be a human being it's

that's just the truth that's just data

that's that's reality and yeah I mean

it's just a very fun time to be alive so

much going on be prepared in life for a

lot of rejection because if you're

prepared for a lot of rejection it comes

you don't get turned off you don't get

disappointed like well I'm not gonna do

this anymore no one thinks it's a good

idea it's like I say selling

encyclopedias not kinda hundred doors

they slab them you're faced you must be

just as enthusiastic on door number 101

as door number one

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we're all worth far more than anyone can

imagine

our power honestly is endless in our

potential has the power and make

something real out of the life you live

that's crazy but your life is now you

can alter your future this is where you

begin to and this is where you start to

succeed now this moment around you right

now

that's the secret power that you have

time is your power this time you have

the potential to succeed to be something

with purpose someone with power there's

so many people there talking about how

big of an entrepreneur they're gonna be

and how much they're gonna achieve and

they don't work on weekends

you know I worked every Saturday of my

20s like and I talk to 20 year old

entrepreneurs every single day lately

I've been saying to them this Saturday

you're gonna have more time off than

I've had in my entire 20s on a Saturday

so like before you tell me how you're

gonna be bigger than me

start thinking about what you're

actually doing

we're beating ourselves up like

everybody sucks at something right like

we all have shortcomings and we all have

strengths and for me it's like why don't

we just audit that like why don't we

just look at it that way and be like

alright well I'm good at this but I'm

not good at that like and then and then

and then I only focus what I'm good at

right like I don't dwell that I can't

fix it around the house I call somebody

to fix it like I'm not like I'm not a

man I don't give a fuck like you know

like like you know like I don't I don't

get it like we all like I also think

it's awesome that I'm so emotionally

stable and I'm the emotional backbone of

everybody is that what a dude's supposed

to do like like these cliches these

stereotypes they're so silly

you're exactly right man I don't judge

myself I'm fully in love with myself but

I'm also fully in love with everybody

else too right it's not like like it

goes both ways

like I tell people to buy into me that

work for me it's cuz I buy into them

first like I don't need anybody to gain

trust with me I've it's they're like I

believe if the human race is so grossly

underrated we are good of course we have

some bad there's and seven billion of us

but like when you look at our net score

it's bonger like you know any damage we

can be doing to each other on a hourly

basis and we don't like we're still here

like we won were the Alpha being and

we've figured out how to stay together

this is insane when you think about it

and yet everybody wants to dwell on like

somebody said something mean we already

have enough problems on this planet be

different be a person who makes a

difference be a person who makes a

change for good be a person who has an

impact on the world

stop denying the world of your greatness

you need to see every single day as a

bank account

nobody is poor nobody is rich

everyone has 24 hours each and how you

spend your balance each day will decide

who you become spend your time wisely

do not waste it on things out of your

control be prepared for a lot of

rejection whether it's in their personal

life that someone says you're too old

you're too fat you're too young you're

not going to do anything other than yes

you've got holes in your nose you got

these coming out your ears

whatever is other than yes this is

wonderful realize this can happen in

life as soon as people know that when

something goes wrong they look at a

piece of paper oh yeah that reminds me

but the best thing that happened to me

no one helped me no one felt sorry for

me no one looked at me and said like

this day and age though they'll take you

in and it'll tell you bye stop picking

on this person back then any care the

only person that's to turn this person

around it's me you don't reckon

turnaround is put myself through the

worst things possible a human being

could ever endure and I'd be the only

way that I can build this brain to

handle anything that comes in front of

him callus in my mind through pain and

suffering

don't be afraid to step up to your fears

don't be afraid to even become your

fears take this opportunity now to be

worthy of the success you want to be the

person that you admire someone who takes

extra steps to be more than they could

ever imagine those extra steps putting

in those extra hours

as humans we we want to find out how to

be someone else what we don't do is we

don't go inside so literally turn

yourself inside out read the book that

says like like we're writing a book

every day for life but we never read

that book so what I would challenge this

young man or or you don't want me to do

is you have to look inside of here so if

you see what you really want what are

you passionate about we use these words

and these little phrases of only the

strong survive and also the crap they're

all just fucking words take this as your

opportunity to change your life for the

better to enjoy the life you deserve to

have the future you've worked for the

future you know you can have use this as

a tool a tool to motivate your life

through your success this is where it

all starts

kick off your life in the direction that

pushes you towards a life a life where

you can take control make sure you know

which direction you're headed in

organize your world in your favor your

favor for your purpose for your future

this is the opening to take you towards

a life full of success you have this

control you have always had this power

unleash the animal the only way you're

ever going to get to the other side of

this journey is you have got to suffer

to grow to grow you must suffer and some

people will get it something wrong but

they have to see what their journey is

to start their journey several people

live to be 100 years old

they have great lives and they have

great kids the kids go to college long

sort of stuff but somewhere in their

life there was a point where they had a

decision to make they can go left or

right on this path

left was the easy route right was a hard

rock

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allows you to take the easy route and

they had a good life that way

but the better life was going to the

right side and you may have 20 years of

pain and suffering to get past it but a

lot of us die never truly starting our

journey and I would tell this to a

person you got to start your journey it

may suck but it will it will come out

the other side where you're coasting

just keep doing the right thing and the

good thing it'll happen the reason

people change is because of pain my

relationship with pain runs deep and

it's complicated on the one hand I love

pain I love trying to push the outer

edges of envelope of what the pain

experience is in a physical sense and

it's also been my greatest teacher in

terms of things that I've accomplished

but also my errant ways as well

pain is truly the only thing that's ever

gotten me to change so it's been my

growth accelerator as well as my

reminder of when I've gone astray okay

so there's a difference between pain and

suffering there's a difference between

there were we're all suffering we all

have suffering we all have an emptiness

or a dark place or corners inside of our

spirit in our mind that are not

fulfilled and watered and full like we

all can relate to that and when I'm

talking about pain I'm not necessarily

talking about suffering but

acknowledging our suffering being in

touch with the pain that's enough to say

when you're really honest that's enough

to say I

I don't want to do the same like this is

not the person I want to become and be

on a regular basis if that's the case if

that assumption is right then as a loved

one my job is to help you get real and

experience those places as often as you

can so that you make the declaration to

say no no no that's not okay for me to

feel and be this way on a regular basis

you know we're so conditioned to avoid

pain every message that we see every

billboard we see every advertisement

that we're exposed to is telling us that

happiness can be can be purchased

through comfort luxury through ease and

that's sort of implicit in that is that

that's how we find happiness and I can

tell you that I'm happiest and most

alive when I'm butting up against the

outer edges of my pain threshold and I'm

not afraid of it and so when I start to

feel that sensation rather than shirk

away from it I realize that's an

opportunity to experience a heightened

sense of myself in my environment to

really be in a position where everything

else falls away and it's just you and

your ability to take one step forward

there's a purity to that that again

isn't another great feature and so in

terms of techniques I've just learned

through experience that just like David

Goggin says when the signals that you're

receiving are telling you to stop that

you don't necessarily have to pay

attention to that that that you are

capable of so much more if you can

develop the acuity the presence of mind

and the wherewithal to then take that

next step and when you're on the other

side of it to realize you're still okay

and you can take another step and a

whole your horizon extends and you

realize that there's a whole world of

potential and possibility available to

you that you weren't previously aware of

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never should never exist in your world

if you want to improve if you can see

yourself being better never should even

be in the picture you have the power to

do anything possible the power to

transform into somebody capable of

anything you can imagine this this is

the power you deserve let your success

let your mindset be the beginning the

journey doesn't in here this journey

doesn't end when the Sun goes up when

the sun goes down it doesn't end when

you close your eyes doesn't end for one

second because hard work waits for

nobody let yourself be heard let your

power speak for itself

let your beginning be the potential to

take you further and further along your

path to success you are the only

inspiration you need you are the only

force it takes to be someone more to

have so much more remember your worth as

a person remember the possibilities of

your power the fruitful future that

lingers over your shoulders this is

where you never say never never say

never to any possibility to any

opportunity to any mistakes to any fear

you say yes this this is the only way to

grow

I think that that most people set the

wrong goals for themselves and it's

because they're disconnected from who

they are they are living someone else's

life or they're living a life that's so

disconnected from who they are it

becomes very difficult to set the right

goal so I think in order to reconcile

that you have to look inward you know

and that can be different for everybody

that can mean a consistent meditation

practice that can mean therapy that can

mean you know starting to do yoga

it can mean many many things but I think

there's no and run around the very

difficult long process of really trying

to be honest with yourself about who you

are what's important to you what you

care about and then beginning to breathe

life into those things as frivolous as

they may seem to bring expression to the

things that that you do care about that

that that get you excited in the morning

and that doesn't mean you quit your job

tomorrow but the more you can foster

something that has personal importance

to you I think that's the first step in

trying to

move past whatever it is that's holding

you back

whether it's professionally or

personally to being a more integrated

authentic version of yourself

let this be the moment you remember

show yourself as the rocket in your own

life this is the journey you're on you

control the progress you make you

strengthen the path that transforms you

into the person you've been waiting to

become the person that allows you to

become someone new you have the skills

to be bold the strengths to grow faster

the power to be stronger the journey

you've waited for is here here for you

to be something better this is the

opportunity in front of you this is your

future staring at you face to face

waiting for the power to be granted to

you your power is welcomed welcomed by

your progress your progress that guide

you towards your future be someone you

can take pride in become someone you

know that you can become this is the

journey you have the journey you're on

take the first step towards success take

the first movie of faith into the risks

of your life push past the limits move

toward a future you can imagine a future

use design this is your power

self-reliance is everything don't don't

expect anybody to do anything for you

I'm the only one who can get it done and

if you just buckle down and go the extra

mile you will solve the problem and you

will make your way in the world

you know we all have a unique song and I

think most people to echo the words of

Henry David Thoreau are leading lives of

quiet desperation and go to the grave

with the song still in them and I find

that tragic and so if there's anything

that that that my work is about it's

about helping people become cognizant of

that and to take action so that they

don't become that person leading a life

of quiet desperation which I think I

don't know I wouldn't want to say most

people but a lot of people are and I

found out heartbreaking

you know what's your major malfunction

right now what's the thing that keeps

you up at night do you resent the most

what are you afraid of what do you want

to achieve what's in it

what's in it what do you think is in

your way you know I think just by asking

people questions and and and and then

holding a vision for that better life

for them to say I believe in you I'm not

here to tell you what to do or how to

live your life but I believe in your

greatest expression and I'm gonna hold

space for you

to give people permission to be honest

to be vulnerable we're so afraid of

being vulnerable

we're terrified of being honest we're so

used to being judged and being held to a

standard that society sets for us that

we don't give ourselves permission to

even ask these questions let alone

answer them

what have you done today to be different

what have you done to step outside the

conventions that you set for yourself

the conventions and the rules set by

your past today you have the power to

move on today you have the power to move

away from your past and move towards a

successful future

this is your decision your call to make

in your future

this is how your life can gain its own

direction and this is where your life

can be so much more so much better you

can make it better you have always had

the potential to take one more step the

potential to take the risks others are

too scared to take because you are more

and you are stronger and you have the

determination and the courage to be so

much more