1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:05,339 we become what we think about focus on 2 00:00:02,820 --> 00:00:07,350 what you want rather than focusing on 3 00:00:05,339 --> 00:00:10,290 what you don't want so who do you want 4 00:00:07,350 --> 00:00:15,570 to be you know why why did why are you 5 00:00:10,290 --> 00:00:19,380 here on this planet you live according 6 00:00:15,570 --> 00:00:21,449 to the principles of love compassion you 7 00:00:19,380 --> 00:00:24,900 know appreciative joy you know 8 00:00:21,449 --> 00:00:28,199 celebrating other people's successes but 9 00:00:24,900 --> 00:00:31,230 how do you overcome hatred and confusion 10 00:00:28,199 --> 00:00:33,300 and just having a good heart then I 11 00:00:31,230 --> 00:00:35,309 think that's what happened to me then I 12 00:00:33,300 --> 00:00:37,260 start to get clear about what what I 13 00:00:35,309 --> 00:00:41,430 like to do and how I can be of service 14 00:00:37,260 --> 00:00:44,040 how can I help other people that we were 15 00:00:41,430 --> 00:00:45,870 wired for success but it's how we relate 16 00:00:44,040 --> 00:00:49,680 to our experience that determines 17 00:00:45,870 --> 00:00:52,920 whether we're chipping away or we're you 18 00:00:49,680 --> 00:00:58,770 know kind of burying that sense of 19 00:00:52,920 --> 00:01:01,379 wholeness that we that were born with it 20 00:00:58,770 --> 00:01:03,660 just that we forget it we don't look 21 00:01:01,379 --> 00:01:05,549 inside we're looking outside and so 22 00:01:03,660 --> 00:01:07,619 unless we're still and we think about it 23 00:01:05,549 --> 00:01:09,900 and we understand that I was born with 24 00:01:07,619 --> 00:01:12,600 this masterpieces no one can give it to 25 00:01:09,900 --> 00:01:15,960 me or take it away it's it's an inside 26 00:01:12,600 --> 00:01:18,600 job and so if I look at what's right it 27 00:01:15,960 --> 00:01:20,220 just it makes makes a lot of sense so 28 00:01:18,600 --> 00:01:23,549 it's whether you're coming from a place 29 00:01:20,220 --> 00:01:25,500 of scarcity or I would say survival mode 30 00:01:23,549 --> 00:01:28,530 or coming from growth mode which has to 31 00:01:25,500 --> 00:01:31,439 do with yes I can't yes to life and I I 32 00:01:28,530 --> 00:01:34,500 have the capacity and the responsibility 33 00:01:31,439 --> 00:01:37,320 to make it different but to make it make 34 00:01:34,500 --> 00:01:39,420 it better having that faith that 35 00:01:37,320 --> 00:01:42,450 vulnerability that just see things that 36 00:01:39,420 --> 00:01:45,270 are hard to see gotta get comfortable 37 00:01:42,450 --> 00:01:46,620 being uncomfortable so can you handle 38 00:01:45,270 --> 00:01:49,140 the truth 39 00:01:46,620 --> 00:01:50,670 it's a question and if you can't then 40 00:01:49,140 --> 00:01:52,440 you if you see that that you can say 41 00:01:50,670 --> 00:01:54,870 well is if I'm going to change I'm gonna 42 00:01:52,440 --> 00:01:57,510 have to figure out how to deal with that 43 00:01:54,870 --> 00:01:59,490 discomfort until the point that I can 44 00:01:57,510 --> 00:02:01,620 see what I need to see then I can change 45 00:01:59,490 --> 00:02:05,010 it so as the persistence of continuing 46 00:02:01,620 --> 00:02:07,770 to do something that you can do it is is 47 00:02:05,010 --> 00:02:09,750 most of the work this is just continuing 48 00:02:07,770 --> 00:02:13,050 to make mistakes learn from mistakes but 49 00:02:09,750 --> 00:02:15,930 the mistakes are viewed as feedback not 50 00:02:13,050 --> 00:02:18,930 as I'm a failure it's just an event now 51 00:02:15,930 --> 00:02:20,580 who we are so that error correction is 52 00:02:18,930 --> 00:02:22,500 really important and when you can see 53 00:02:20,580 --> 00:02:25,440 when you attributed this something you 54 00:02:22,500 --> 00:02:28,230 can learn or change now you've got faith 55 00:02:25,440 --> 00:02:29,910 and confidence to do it versus if you're 56 00:02:28,230 --> 00:02:31,680 seeing it like oh I'm just not strong 57 00:02:29,910 --> 00:02:34,800 enough I'm not tall enough and all of 58 00:02:31,680 --> 00:02:36,270 that that's just that's what I call the 59 00:02:34,800 --> 00:02:38,550 negative committee telling you you can't 60 00:02:36,270 --> 00:02:39,990 do anything rather than saying well let 61 00:02:38,550 --> 00:02:41,670 me see what can i what I can do 62 00:02:39,990 --> 00:02:45,650 so it's like a child learn how to walk 63 00:02:41,670 --> 00:02:48,750 right same thing your life can change 64 00:02:45,650 --> 00:02:52,950 your life can be more than just a place 65 00:02:48,750 --> 00:02:56,190 it can be your future your success this 66 00:02:52,950 --> 00:02:58,620 change this change takes courage it 67 00:02:56,190 --> 00:03:00,930 takes courage to stand up and break down 68 00:02:58,620 --> 00:03:02,340 the aspects of your life that you know 69 00:03:00,930 --> 00:03:06,239 is holding you back 70 00:03:02,340 --> 00:03:09,020 let your progress be idolized let it 71 00:03:06,239 --> 00:03:09,020 speak for itself 72 00:03:10,010 --> 00:03:16,359 [Music] 73 00:03:13,959 --> 00:03:17,950 average becomes sort of like this slow 74 00:03:16,359 --> 00:03:20,230 asphyxiation it's almost like an 75 00:03:17,950 --> 00:03:22,150 anesthetic and that overtime would 76 00:03:20,230 --> 00:03:23,680 become kind of immune and dulled to the 77 00:03:22,150 --> 00:03:25,180 average that we're becoming I know this 78 00:03:23,680 --> 00:03:27,129 is true at least for me you probably 79 00:03:25,180 --> 00:03:29,290 experienced it yourself too and so over 80 00:03:27,129 --> 00:03:30,909 time we sort of minimize where we're at 81 00:03:29,290 --> 00:03:32,829 in other words I'm a little pudgy 82 00:03:30,909 --> 00:03:35,230 instead of being know your fat ass right 83 00:03:32,829 --> 00:03:37,180 you know you don't magnify the degree to 84 00:03:35,230 --> 00:03:38,829 which the pain ought to be affecting you 85 00:03:37,180 --> 00:03:40,629 and so really what he means on that is 86 00:03:38,829 --> 00:03:42,099 listen you're gonna get out of your life 87 00:03:40,629 --> 00:03:43,209 what you'll accept that's really 88 00:03:42,099 --> 00:03:44,500 difficult for people I think to 89 00:03:43,209 --> 00:03:46,030 understand is look what you think you're 90 00:03:44,500 --> 00:03:47,560 worth and what you're gonna tolerate is 91 00:03:46,030 --> 00:03:49,510 absolutely what you're gonna bring into 92 00:03:47,560 --> 00:03:50,829 your life and what the outward part of 93 00:03:49,510 --> 00:03:53,650 your life is gonna look like and so I 94 00:03:50,829 --> 00:03:56,549 live by that like I let myself sort of 95 00:03:53,650 --> 00:03:58,629 feel the pain and the difficulty of 96 00:03:56,549 --> 00:03:59,650 being not where I want to be in whatever 97 00:03:58,629 --> 00:04:02,139 that areas were those would be my 98 00:03:59,650 --> 00:04:04,209 spirituality my relationships my money I 99 00:04:02,139 --> 00:04:05,349 let myself feel that pain because as you 100 00:04:04,209 --> 00:04:07,299 know there's two motivators right 101 00:04:05,349 --> 00:04:08,980 there's the gaining of pleasure right 102 00:04:07,299 --> 00:04:10,959 wanting to go get something chasing the 103 00:04:08,980 --> 00:04:13,599 dream but then there's the avoidance of 104 00:04:10,959 --> 00:04:15,579 pain and for a lot of champions that's a 105 00:04:13,599 --> 00:04:17,650 pretty big driving force for them and so 106 00:04:15,579 --> 00:04:19,299 at least for me I I leveraged both of 107 00:04:17,650 --> 00:04:22,840 those things on me to get myself to take 108 00:04:19,299 --> 00:04:26,979 action one of the reasons I'm relatively 109 00:04:22,840 --> 00:04:28,570 fit is not just peak State I have an 110 00:04:26,979 --> 00:04:29,680 uncle and my family that died at 50 111 00:04:28,570 --> 00:04:31,659 years old of a heart attacks my 112 00:04:29,680 --> 00:04:34,630 godfather my dad's only brother I kind 113 00:04:31,659 --> 00:04:37,479 of resemble him and I look like a plan 114 00:04:34,630 --> 00:04:39,909 so on the way back from his funeral my 115 00:04:37,479 --> 00:04:41,530 reticular activating art attacks on the 116 00:04:39,909 --> 00:04:43,120 TV screen on the airplane I listen to 117 00:04:41,530 --> 00:04:45,009 music is the Oprah Winfrey Show she's 118 00:04:43,120 --> 00:04:46,809 going through a new heart scan 119 00:04:45,009 --> 00:04:49,270 I've unplugged my headphones plug into 120 00:04:46,809 --> 00:04:51,460 this airplane one I scheduled it I went 121 00:04:49,270 --> 00:04:53,110 in I had a world-class doctor who 122 00:04:51,460 --> 00:04:54,550 understood reasons and levers instead of 123 00:04:53,110 --> 00:04:55,659 just prescribing coolant only coach well 124 00:04:54,550 --> 00:04:57,279 you need to do this you need to do this 125 00:04:55,659 --> 00:04:57,699 like doctors do it take his pill take 126 00:04:57,279 --> 00:05:00,789 this 127 00:04:57,699 --> 00:05:01,930 he understood leverage and reasons what 128 00:05:00,789 --> 00:05:03,969 you do is to take the scan then you go 129 00:05:01,930 --> 00:05:06,610 to lunch you come back I took the scan I 130 00:05:03,969 --> 00:05:08,680 went those I had a burrito I came back 131 00:05:06,610 --> 00:05:12,419 and I'm in the LA when I walk in I sit 132 00:05:08,680 --> 00:05:12,419 down the doctor comes up and he says 133 00:05:13,380 --> 00:05:20,970 oh my I can't believe these arteries are 134 00:05:17,190 --> 00:05:22,620 in that young body got my attention we 135 00:05:20,970 --> 00:05:24,990 walk back in we sit down he could still 136 00:05:22,620 --> 00:05:26,220 go you need Crestor eat clean get out of 137 00:05:24,990 --> 00:05:28,950 here is know what an average doctor does 138 00:05:26,220 --> 00:05:30,720 right No wired me with huge reasons he 139 00:05:28,950 --> 00:05:31,950 goes let me ask you a question I heard 140 00:05:30,720 --> 00:05:33,930 your wife's pregnant you have I said I 141 00:05:31,950 --> 00:05:34,950 have a son and he says do you want to be 142 00:05:33,930 --> 00:05:37,590 there when he graduates from high school 143 00:05:34,950 --> 00:05:39,900 to be there for that day I said yes sir 144 00:05:37,590 --> 00:05:41,190 yeah he goes your wife's pregnant what 145 00:05:39,900 --> 00:05:43,230 do you have it I said a daughter this is 146 00:05:41,190 --> 00:05:45,270 where you get a dad he goes she was six 147 00:05:43,230 --> 00:05:46,560 months pregnant he goes do you um would 148 00:05:45,270 --> 00:05:48,000 you like to walk her down the aisle on 149 00:05:46,560 --> 00:05:49,790 her wedding day are you okay that it's 150 00:05:48,000 --> 00:05:57,200 some other man 151 00:05:49,790 --> 00:05:58,790 I went what the zahn this skin right 152 00:05:57,200 --> 00:06:00,050 like and he goes I want to be very clear 153 00:05:58,790 --> 00:06:01,820 with you if you keep going down the road 154 00:06:00,050 --> 00:06:03,590 you're going there'll be some other man 155 00:06:01,820 --> 00:06:05,570 with your son at graduation high school 156 00:06:03,590 --> 00:06:06,860 and a strangers walking your daughter 157 00:06:05,570 --> 00:06:09,380 down the aisle that's not even born yet 158 00:06:06,860 --> 00:06:11,180 on her wedding day and I went to him and 159 00:06:09,380 --> 00:06:14,060 he goes but if you do exactly what I 160 00:06:11,180 --> 00:06:16,040 tell you to do you'll be there and so to 161 00:06:14,060 --> 00:06:17,390 this day brother there are mornings when 162 00:06:16,040 --> 00:06:18,730 I wake up not every morning I don't want 163 00:06:17,390 --> 00:06:21,710 to go to the gym I go Bella's wedding 164 00:06:18,730 --> 00:06:23,900 Bella's wedding Bella's wedding so my 165 00:06:21,710 --> 00:06:26,120 standards are high because of my big old 166 00:06:23,900 --> 00:06:27,260 reasons other dudes may miss the gym 167 00:06:26,120 --> 00:06:28,520 that day cuz they're not gonna miss 168 00:06:27,260 --> 00:06:30,590 their daughter's wedding if they don't 169 00:06:28,520 --> 00:06:33,040 go but I've convinced myself I will get 170 00:06:30,590 --> 00:06:33,040 emotional 171 00:06:33,800 --> 00:06:37,550 I've convinced myself on this my 172 00:06:35,659 --> 00:06:39,050 daughter's wedding so I will get my ass 173 00:06:37,550 --> 00:06:40,580 out of bed at 4 o'clock in the morning 174 00:06:39,050 --> 00:06:42,620 and I will get to that gym because my 175 00:06:40,580 --> 00:06:45,379 reasons are bigger so my standards are 176 00:06:42,620 --> 00:06:49,270 higher so that's what I think causes us 177 00:06:45,379 --> 00:06:49,270 to have great standards as huge reasons 178 00:06:49,409 --> 00:06:56,540 when you're inspired by something or 179 00:06:51,629 --> 00:07:00,890 someone in your life you feel the magic 180 00:06:56,540 --> 00:07:03,680 now's the time to be the magic what are 181 00:07:00,890 --> 00:07:07,220 you going to do are you going to let the 182 00:07:03,680 --> 00:07:09,710 Masters inspire you to feel it or are 183 00:07:07,220 --> 00:07:11,400 you going to strive to be a master 184 00:07:09,710 --> 00:07:14,520 [Music] 185 00:07:11,400 --> 00:07:17,310 it's your choice the magic is waiting 186 00:07:14,520 --> 00:07:19,250 not only for you just a feeling but so 187 00:07:17,310 --> 00:07:23,699 be it 188 00:07:19,250 --> 00:07:26,550 nobody can take this away in your life 189 00:07:23,699 --> 00:07:28,949 you can't escape anything that goes 190 00:07:26,550 --> 00:07:30,350 along with life you know we are not 191 00:07:28,949 --> 00:07:37,220 immune to problems 192 00:07:30,350 --> 00:07:37,220 drama trauma the tragedy you know we all 193 00:07:37,699 --> 00:07:42,780 here as human beings so you know when 194 00:07:41,790 --> 00:07:44,430 you're going through some sort of 195 00:07:42,780 --> 00:07:46,020 difficulties you know first fighting or 196 00:07:44,430 --> 00:07:48,600 whatever that difficulty may be you know 197 00:07:46,020 --> 00:07:51,510 you know we do with within your power in 198 00:07:48,600 --> 00:07:53,250 terms of how to start slowly you know 199 00:07:51,510 --> 00:07:56,010 get yourself out of that situation 200 00:07:53,250 --> 00:07:59,310 and you believe you'd be optimistic 201 00:07:56,010 --> 00:08:02,430 about you know being negative about a 202 00:07:59,310 --> 00:08:04,789 situation stand in that place it never 203 00:08:02,430 --> 00:08:07,050 helps you know it's nothing wrong with 204 00:08:04,789 --> 00:08:09,120 understanding that place feeling bad 205 00:08:07,050 --> 00:08:12,510 about it looking at it for what it is 206 00:08:09,120 --> 00:08:14,130 but don't stay there you've got to get 207 00:08:12,510 --> 00:08:17,340 back on that other side and start 208 00:08:14,130 --> 00:08:20,849 looking at the resolved resolution of 209 00:08:17,340 --> 00:08:23,789 how can I get back to feeling good and 210 00:08:20,849 --> 00:08:27,320 feeling prosperous again to where I'm 211 00:08:23,789 --> 00:08:27,320 not dealing with this obstacle 212 00:08:30,210 --> 00:08:35,219 words are very powerful very powerful so 213 00:08:33,390 --> 00:08:37,649 the thing is about getting within 214 00:08:35,219 --> 00:08:39,959 yourself and understand who you are to 215 00:08:37,649 --> 00:08:41,250 kind of you know what off those negative 216 00:08:39,959 --> 00:08:43,050 comments that's coming towards my 217 00:08:41,250 --> 00:08:44,760 virtually always prepared you know you 218 00:08:43,050 --> 00:08:47,760 have to go for those things in order to 219 00:08:44,760 --> 00:08:49,350 see it in light of the light at the end 220 00:08:47,760 --> 00:08:51,720 of the tunnel you know I don't think 221 00:08:49,350 --> 00:08:53,160 anything is going to just be like this 222 00:08:51,720 --> 00:08:54,750 throughout your life and then you have 223 00:08:53,160 --> 00:08:57,570 to go through that difficult overcome 224 00:08:54,750 --> 00:08:59,070 obstacle because it's a testament of 225 00:08:57,570 --> 00:09:01,080 your character of who you are in high 226 00:08:59,070 --> 00:09:03,029 gear to deal with certain things you 227 00:09:01,080 --> 00:09:07,950 know to get yourself back on it playing 228 00:09:03,029 --> 00:09:10,589 field everything happened for a reason 229 00:09:07,950 --> 00:09:12,720 no regrets all the negative things that 230 00:09:10,589 --> 00:09:14,790 happened I'm thankful for it because I 231 00:09:12,720 --> 00:09:17,040 learned hopefully I learned from those 232 00:09:14,790 --> 00:09:20,130 situations and all the positive things 233 00:09:17,040 --> 00:09:22,770 I'm humbly grateful that those was able 234 00:09:20,130 --> 00:09:25,140 to take place and still striving to be 235 00:09:22,770 --> 00:09:27,330 the best I can be and you know going 236 00:09:25,140 --> 00:09:30,660 forward people didn't care at some kid 237 00:09:27,330 --> 00:09:33,779 to be the best they could be you know 238 00:09:30,660 --> 00:09:38,480 anything is possible positive thinking 239 00:09:33,779 --> 00:09:38,480 is also translating them you know so 240 00:09:38,850 --> 00:09:44,160 when you have something that's positive 241 00:09:41,579 --> 00:09:46,380 up there you can be you know the best 242 00:09:44,160 --> 00:09:48,000 you can be you know any negative out 243 00:09:46,380 --> 00:09:51,779 there and you could bring down the worst 244 00:09:48,000 --> 00:09:54,630 person misery loves company misery loves 245 00:09:51,779 --> 00:09:57,060 company so we are not debbie down as we 246 00:09:54,630 --> 00:09:59,220 more uplifters you know we always no 247 00:09:57,060 --> 00:10:02,190 matter what the situation with the 248 00:09:59,220 --> 00:10:04,949 situation is we're gonna try to look for 249 00:10:02,190 --> 00:10:10,170 the outcome the better of that situation 250 00:10:04,949 --> 00:10:12,180 you know if we can't find a resolution 251 00:10:10,170 --> 00:10:14,279 to get out of it you know we're gonna 252 00:10:12,180 --> 00:10:16,529 keep on searching the continue to try to 253 00:10:14,279 --> 00:10:18,810 find a resolution to get out of because 254 00:10:16,529 --> 00:10:20,220 that's what you do you know that's how 255 00:10:18,810 --> 00:10:23,639 you get to the bottom of that's how you 256 00:10:20,220 --> 00:10:25,829 get to the facts of Nass are you willing 257 00:10:23,639 --> 00:10:28,620 to breath are you willing to be the 258 00:10:25,829 --> 00:10:31,589 warrior bring your shield bring your 259 00:10:28,620 --> 00:10:34,050 sword stand up and fight today will be 260 00:10:31,589 --> 00:10:36,540 the day where you can take control take 261 00:10:34,050 --> 00:10:39,360 control of your power become this power 262 00:10:36,540 --> 00:10:42,120 because now is the time to fight you're 263 00:10:39,360 --> 00:10:45,649 a warrior warriors don't give up and 264 00:10:42,120 --> 00:10:48,779 they don't back down become the warrior 265 00:10:45,649 --> 00:10:51,569 transform your life transform yourself 266 00:10:48,779 --> 00:10:52,560 head out into battle step on to the 267 00:10:51,569 --> 00:10:55,439 battlefield 268 00:10:52,560 --> 00:10:58,800 use your weapons to fight through this 269 00:10:55,439 --> 00:11:02,339 pain fight through the rejection learn 270 00:10:58,800 --> 00:11:06,120 from the bruises the blood scars because 271 00:11:02,339 --> 00:11:09,760 this time you can rise to become the 272 00:11:06,120 --> 00:11:13,780 step on to the Plainfield because now is 273 00:11:09,760 --> 00:11:18,760 the time to change now is the time to 274 00:11:13,780 --> 00:11:20,200 rise with the crown on your head you 275 00:11:18,760 --> 00:11:22,570 know you want to be a little bit better 276 00:11:20,200 --> 00:11:24,820 in some way tomorrow than you are today 277 00:11:22,570 --> 00:11:27,550 but it's not gonna be in a linear path 278 00:11:24,820 --> 00:11:30,850 again these go through cycles of stress 279 00:11:27,550 --> 00:11:33,330 and recovery so it's just kind of being 280 00:11:30,850 --> 00:11:36,100 able to surf the flow of that and know 281 00:11:33,330 --> 00:11:37,780 again it really comes down to balance so 282 00:11:36,100 --> 00:11:39,940 it's the practices that you need to know 283 00:11:37,780 --> 00:11:42,610 what to do for sure and then you need to 284 00:11:39,940 --> 00:11:45,010 know how to apply those things in the 285 00:11:42,610 --> 00:11:47,560 right way so when you when to push and 286 00:11:45,010 --> 00:11:49,120 when to take the pressure off the gas as 287 00:11:47,560 --> 00:11:51,100 well and I think that's really 288 00:11:49,120 --> 00:11:52,450 understanding that so part of it is the 289 00:11:51,100 --> 00:11:53,710 knowledge and then part of it is the 290 00:11:52,450 --> 00:11:56,620 follow-through and then part of it is 291 00:11:53,710 --> 00:11:58,680 the discipline to know not only when you 292 00:11:56,620 --> 00:12:02,710 need to go but when you need to rest I 293 00:11:58,680 --> 00:12:05,430 think it's important to really trust 294 00:12:02,710 --> 00:12:08,260 that what you're doing is going to work 295 00:12:05,430 --> 00:12:10,750 what's a day that makes life awesome and 296 00:12:08,260 --> 00:12:14,140 and makes you again a little bit better 297 00:12:10,750 --> 00:12:16,690 tomorrow from having done it today you 298 00:12:14,140 --> 00:12:18,790 have to really do the work like you have 299 00:12:16,690 --> 00:12:20,320 to back it with hard work you know any 300 00:12:18,790 --> 00:12:23,380 of you ask Conor McGregor like what's 301 00:12:20,320 --> 00:12:25,210 the secret to his success hard work hard 302 00:12:23,380 --> 00:12:27,010 work hard work I don't know if he 303 00:12:25,210 --> 00:12:28,960 actually worked harder than anybody but 304 00:12:27,010 --> 00:12:30,280 he believes he does you know he has no 305 00:12:28,960 --> 00:12:32,980 doubts in his mind that he's actually 306 00:12:30,280 --> 00:12:34,490 working harder and and that's I think 307 00:12:32,980 --> 00:12:36,980 important so 308 00:12:34,490 --> 00:12:38,930 really making sure that you really do 309 00:12:36,980 --> 00:12:41,390 your best to get the goods you know and 310 00:12:38,930 --> 00:12:42,770 to in to practice that and go out there 311 00:12:41,390 --> 00:12:45,020 and put yourself out there and then on 312 00:12:42,770 --> 00:12:46,399 the other side what is the thing what is 313 00:12:45,020 --> 00:12:48,529 the antagonist of belief well the 314 00:12:46,399 --> 00:12:51,320 antagonist of belief is fear you know 315 00:12:48,529 --> 00:12:52,910 fear is a belief that something negative 316 00:12:51,320 --> 00:12:54,440 is going to happen rather than something 317 00:12:52,910 --> 00:12:56,149 positive is going to happen so it's like 318 00:12:54,440 --> 00:12:58,700 that's on the other side you're almost 319 00:12:56,149 --> 00:13:00,200 believing in your failure right rather 320 00:12:58,700 --> 00:13:03,200 than believing in your success so you 321 00:13:00,200 --> 00:13:05,180 have to go attack and collapse these 322 00:13:03,200 --> 00:13:07,760 different fears and part of that is 323 00:13:05,180 --> 00:13:10,279 going to be sucking out the the penalty 324 00:13:07,760 --> 00:13:11,839 if if you fail right because like a lot 325 00:13:10,279 --> 00:13:13,459 of the fear comes because we're afraid 326 00:13:11,839 --> 00:13:15,410 that we're gonna judge ourselves harshly 327 00:13:13,459 --> 00:13:16,850 or whatever so you got to realize like 328 00:13:15,410 --> 00:13:18,770 there is no such thing as failure 329 00:13:16,850 --> 00:13:20,810 there's just learning right so you 330 00:13:18,770 --> 00:13:22,850 collapse the penalty for failure so that 331 00:13:20,810 --> 00:13:24,830 collapses the fear which allows you to 332 00:13:22,850 --> 00:13:26,240 believe even more so that's one way to 333 00:13:24,830 --> 00:13:27,410 do it and the other way is to just look 334 00:13:26,240 --> 00:13:29,029 at fear itself 335 00:13:27,410 --> 00:13:31,279 and play out the different scenarios 336 00:13:29,029 --> 00:13:34,490 know that you're gonna be fine again 337 00:13:31,279 --> 00:13:37,490 forgive yourself always and and really 338 00:13:34,490 --> 00:13:39,260 also just attack fear wherever you see 339 00:13:37,490 --> 00:13:41,089 it even when it's trivial even when it's 340 00:13:39,260 --> 00:13:42,380 some kind of we were just before the 341 00:13:41,089 --> 00:13:44,779 before we got on here we talked about 342 00:13:42,380 --> 00:13:46,520 the fear of the number 13 true God trick 343 00:13:44,779 --> 00:13:48,290 a phobia like if you're afraid of 13 you 344 00:13:46,520 --> 00:13:51,110 know what you need to do you put 13s all 345 00:13:48,290 --> 00:13:52,970 of you in house you know you need to 346 00:13:51,110 --> 00:13:55,040 like sit in Thirteen's you need to go to 347 00:13:52,970 --> 00:13:57,560 the 13th demand to be on the 13th floor 348 00:13:55,040 --> 00:13:59,029 of every hotel in every airplane because 349 00:13:57,560 --> 00:14:01,190 you got to get over that shit because 350 00:13:59,029 --> 00:14:04,100 that is telling yourself that there's 351 00:14:01,190 --> 00:14:05,900 something irrational that should control 352 00:14:04,100 --> 00:14:07,250 you and if you believe there's something 353 00:14:05,900 --> 00:14:09,410 that's irrational that should control 354 00:14:07,250 --> 00:14:11,630 you that will apply universally so 355 00:14:09,410 --> 00:14:13,670 wherever you find fear specifically 356 00:14:11,630 --> 00:14:15,440 that's out of balance with actual danger 357 00:14:13,670 --> 00:14:16,970 like I'm not saying touch a hot stove or 358 00:14:15,440 --> 00:14:19,220 put your hand in a rattlesnake cage like 359 00:14:16,970 --> 00:14:22,910 there's danger there that's not fear but 360 00:14:19,220 --> 00:14:25,610 13 no danger you know that's not real 361 00:14:22,910 --> 00:14:27,620 so go collapse that the fear of crickets 362 00:14:25,610 --> 00:14:30,130 like I have a fear of like whatever it 363 00:14:27,620 --> 00:14:33,560 is collapse fear wherever you see it and 364 00:14:30,130 --> 00:14:36,820 that specific collapse will help with 365 00:14:33,560 --> 00:14:36,820 the universal collapses 366 00:14:37,339 --> 00:14:40,829 you just got to understand the only 367 00:14:39,570 --> 00:14:43,440 thing that you're responsible for is 368 00:14:40,829 --> 00:14:45,810 your best but he can't do better than 369 00:14:43,440 --> 00:14:47,639 your best you just do your best and if 370 00:14:45,810 --> 00:14:48,720 you try to obsess too much you're not 371 00:14:47,639 --> 00:14:50,820 doing your best you're gonna be 372 00:14:48,720 --> 00:14:52,440 paralyzed right so you have to get as 373 00:14:50,820 --> 00:14:53,970 much information as you can make the 374 00:14:52,440 --> 00:14:56,160 most educated choice make sure that 375 00:14:53,970 --> 00:14:59,550 you're not choosing based on ego or 376 00:14:56,160 --> 00:15:01,680 emotion or you know greed or these other 377 00:14:59,550 --> 00:15:03,899 forces that delude you and prevent you 378 00:15:01,680 --> 00:15:06,060 from thinking clearly but if you do your 379 00:15:03,899 --> 00:15:07,500 best and you fail like what do you do 380 00:15:06,060 --> 00:15:09,269 beat yourself up for that like that 381 00:15:07,500 --> 00:15:10,589 doesn't make any sense if you're doing 382 00:15:09,269 --> 00:15:12,630 your best if you're really laying it out 383 00:15:10,589 --> 00:15:15,269 there there's nothing nothing more you 384 00:15:12,630 --> 00:15:16,589 can do and and that's I think that 385 00:15:15,269 --> 00:15:19,680 that's really the key is just to 386 00:15:16,589 --> 00:15:22,139 constantly rest and rely on that fact 387 00:15:19,680 --> 00:15:25,040 that I'm just I'm doing my best and 388 00:15:22,139 --> 00:15:27,329 there's nothing nothing more than that 389 00:15:25,040 --> 00:15:29,370 you know you have to really appreciate 390 00:15:27,329 --> 00:15:31,350 where you are in the journey and say 391 00:15:29,370 --> 00:15:33,180 yeah where you are is awesome but you 392 00:15:31,350 --> 00:15:36,120 could be better cuz that's the the 393 00:15:33,180 --> 00:15:38,339 process is becoming better right so it's 394 00:15:36,120 --> 00:15:40,709 not it's not judging it externally by 395 00:15:38,339 --> 00:15:42,990 any other criteria because every step is 396 00:15:40,709 --> 00:15:45,480 good but the process of striving for 397 00:15:42,990 --> 00:15:47,579 more in a process to really unfailing 398 00:15:45,480 --> 00:15:50,130 who you are to an even greater degree to 399 00:15:47,579 --> 00:15:52,410 getting cleaner and clearer and more 400 00:15:50,130 --> 00:15:55,199 full and more robust and the best 401 00:15:52,410 --> 00:15:56,730 version of yourself like that process is 402 00:15:55,199 --> 00:15:58,470 a beautiful process I think it's one of 403 00:15:56,730 --> 00:16:00,480 the reasons why we're here it feels the 404 00:15:58,470 --> 00:16:02,610 best it feels the best to be continuing 405 00:16:00,480 --> 00:16:04,230 on the path but that doesn't mean that 406 00:16:02,610 --> 00:16:06,209 you look forward to a point in the past 407 00:16:04,230 --> 00:16:08,190 say when I get there I'll love myself 408 00:16:06,209 --> 00:16:10,319 when I get there I'll I made it like 409 00:16:08,190 --> 00:16:13,350 love yourself where you are wherever you 410 00:16:10,319 --> 00:16:15,329 are that's awesome let's still strive 411 00:16:13,350 --> 00:16:18,740 for more because the striving is the 412 00:16:15,329 --> 00:16:22,110 journey it's always the striving 413 00:16:18,740 --> 00:16:23,790 if we were able to do like even a 414 00:16:22,110 --> 00:16:26,640 fraction of the things we know we should 415 00:16:23,790 --> 00:16:28,410 we would all be badasses you know but 416 00:16:26,640 --> 00:16:30,090 there's so many things you talk to me 417 00:16:28,410 --> 00:16:31,410 yeah I should be doing that yeah I 418 00:16:30,090 --> 00:16:33,150 should be doing I know I should be I 419 00:16:31,410 --> 00:16:34,530 should be meditating yeah I know I 420 00:16:33,150 --> 00:16:36,330 should be doing this I should be eating 421 00:16:34,530 --> 00:16:39,840 better I should be doing this and we all 422 00:16:36,330 --> 00:16:41,040 know what we want to do to be the best 423 00:16:39,840 --> 00:16:43,170 version of ourselves but for whatever 424 00:16:41,040 --> 00:16:45,240 reason we don't do it you know and 425 00:16:43,170 --> 00:16:47,040 there's a lot of reasons why but we're 426 00:16:45,240 --> 00:16:49,950 not doing it and so the ability to 427 00:16:47,040 --> 00:16:51,570 choose and actually decide what you're 428 00:16:49,950 --> 00:16:54,300 going to do to be the not well to be the 429 00:16:51,570 --> 00:16:55,680 art and say oh well if I believe I 430 00:16:54,300 --> 00:16:58,440 should meditate then I'll meditate and 431 00:16:55,680 --> 00:17:01,320 just collapsing that I know I should 432 00:16:58,440 --> 00:17:03,560 with actually doing it you know that is 433 00:17:01,320 --> 00:17:07,020 a superpower that's what defines the 434 00:17:03,560 --> 00:17:08,460 greatest performers from the people who 435 00:17:07,020 --> 00:17:10,500 haven't quite made it yet it's really 436 00:17:08,460 --> 00:17:11,970 their ability to say oh if I should 437 00:17:10,500 --> 00:17:13,560 train now I will know if I should eat 438 00:17:11,970 --> 00:17:15,750 like this I will oh if I should do this 439 00:17:13,560 --> 00:17:17,790 okay then I will it's collapsing that 440 00:17:15,750 --> 00:17:20,070 knowing what knowing what you should do 441 00:17:17,790 --> 00:17:22,740 and actually doing and making that one 442 00:17:20,070 --> 00:17:24,100 and that's ultimately a choice 443 00:17:22,740 --> 00:17:27,789 [Music] 444 00:17:24,100 --> 00:17:29,169 we have way more power than we recognize 445 00:17:27,789 --> 00:17:31,570 and what people will tell us that we 446 00:17:29,169 --> 00:17:33,970 have so stepping into that power and 447 00:17:31,570 --> 00:17:36,270 deciding for ourselves what we want to 448 00:17:33,970 --> 00:17:36,270 do with it 449 00:17:37,990 --> 00:17:41,920 what time is it right now look at it 450 00:17:40,870 --> 00:17:45,910 face it 451 00:17:41,920 --> 00:17:48,670 stand up to it what do you see what did 452 00:17:45,910 --> 00:17:51,929 that number say to you how much of this 453 00:17:48,670 --> 00:17:56,170 number have you wasted wasted on waiting 454 00:17:51,929 --> 00:17:58,780 waiting for what what is it that you're 455 00:17:56,170 --> 00:18:01,380 waiting for how much do you want ask 456 00:17:58,780 --> 00:18:05,410 yourself this what's more valuable 457 00:18:01,380 --> 00:18:08,500 waiting or your time your power and your 458 00:18:05,410 --> 00:18:12,220 action this is where your journey starts 459 00:18:08,500 --> 00:18:15,160 this is where you grow grow adapt 460 00:18:12,220 --> 00:18:20,170 improve to become the person you admire 461 00:18:15,160 --> 00:18:24,220 this is you this can be you stop failing 462 00:18:20,170 --> 00:18:27,730 to respond to react this is how you 463 00:18:24,220 --> 00:18:31,150 shape your life how you construct your 464 00:18:27,730 --> 00:18:34,030 future make this what it is your success 465 00:18:31,150 --> 00:18:37,220 all this work now are the steps before 466 00:18:34,030 --> 00:18:40,010 you break the ribbon at the finish 467 00:18:37,220 --> 00:18:43,010 this is your opportunity to change 468 00:18:40,010 --> 00:18:45,230 change towards a better life towards a 469 00:18:43,010 --> 00:18:47,690 life where you are the director where 470 00:18:45,230 --> 00:18:50,330 you are the power the power that drives 471 00:18:47,690 --> 00:18:53,000 you forward to success the power that 472 00:18:50,330 --> 00:18:56,420 defines your life now that defines your 473 00:18:53,000 --> 00:18:58,300 legacy your future this is the time to 474 00:18:56,420 --> 00:19:01,370 become something more than or do 475 00:18:58,300 --> 00:19:04,220 something outside the realm of expected 476 00:19:01,370 --> 00:19:06,740 because you're more than you always have 477 00:19:04,220 --> 00:19:09,710 been but in order for you to become this 478 00:19:06,740 --> 00:19:12,560 you need to work you need to want it so 479 00:19:09,710 --> 00:19:15,290 much it pushes you it pushes you outside 480 00:19:12,560 --> 00:19:17,360 your comfort zone this is where it 481 00:19:15,290 --> 00:19:19,640 starts this is where you become 482 00:19:17,360 --> 00:19:23,060 something something better than now 483 00:19:19,640 --> 00:19:25,670 where you build a life with yourself one 484 00:19:23,060 --> 00:19:28,630 where you hold the reins where you make 485 00:19:25,670 --> 00:19:32,570 the final cut where you have that power 486 00:19:28,630 --> 00:19:35,750 you deserve this you deserve to feel 487 00:19:32,570 --> 00:19:39,110 fulfilled proud and excited for this 488 00:19:35,750 --> 00:19:43,820 newfound success you will and can embody 489 00:19:39,110 --> 00:19:46,160 your future your legacy your life can 490 00:19:43,820 --> 00:19:49,670 transform into the paradise you've 491 00:19:46,160 --> 00:19:52,400 always imagined it could be your life 492 00:19:49,670 --> 00:19:55,850 can change your life can be more than 493 00:19:52,400 --> 00:19:59,840 just a place it can be your future your 494 00:19:55,850 --> 00:20:02,570 success this change this change takes 495 00:19:59,840 --> 00:20:04,820 courage it takes courage to stand up and 496 00:20:02,570 --> 00:20:07,779 break down the aspects of your life that 497 00:20:04,820 --> 00:20:11,799 you know is holding you back 498 00:20:07,779 --> 00:20:15,099 let your progress be idolized let it 499 00:20:11,799 --> 00:20:19,210 speak for itself let it leave a mark so 500 00:20:15,099 --> 00:20:21,879 deep it can never be erased this den can 501 00:20:19,210 --> 00:20:24,460 have such a positive influence on your 502 00:20:21,879 --> 00:20:27,099 life that it can transform your future 503 00:20:24,460 --> 00:20:30,820 transform your life using the potential 504 00:20:27,099 --> 00:20:34,269 you know you've always had make your 505 00:20:30,820 --> 00:20:36,849 life worth remembering make it worth the 506 00:20:34,269 --> 00:20:40,960 pain it took the hours it used the 507 00:20:36,849 --> 00:20:43,950 effort put in know to take pride in your 508 00:20:40,960 --> 00:20:46,599 work know that your life can break all 509 00:20:43,950 --> 00:20:49,749 possibilities break all boundaries and 510 00:20:46,599 --> 00:20:53,169 become something beyond any expectations 511 00:20:49,749 --> 00:20:56,710 human letdown you face rejection and you 512 00:20:53,169 --> 00:21:01,059 failed fortunately when you hit that 513 00:20:56,710 --> 00:21:02,499 point the only place to go is up I want 514 00:21:01,059 --> 00:21:05,169 you to imagine that your life is a tree 515 00:21:02,499 --> 00:21:07,809 the failure that you've just faced is 516 00:21:05,169 --> 00:21:10,269 actually a seed and it's a seed that's 517 00:21:07,809 --> 00:21:13,450 gonna grow your potential the light you 518 00:21:10,269 --> 00:21:16,119 need is your mindset and the water is 519 00:21:13,450 --> 00:21:18,879 your strength because the rejection you 520 00:21:16,119 --> 00:21:22,029 feel right now is sprouting your success 521 00:21:18,879 --> 00:21:24,279 and in order for you to grow you need to 522 00:21:22,029 --> 00:21:26,830 feel the pain the pain of the struggle 523 00:21:24,279 --> 00:21:28,719 is more than just some dark place you go 524 00:21:26,830 --> 00:21:31,179 to it's actually a starting place a 525 00:21:28,719 --> 00:21:33,820 place to begin trying and a place you 526 00:21:31,179 --> 00:21:35,859 start to improve and that improvement 527 00:21:33,820 --> 00:21:37,629 can be the start of the making of your 528 00:21:35,859 --> 00:21:39,789 success look at me you're not five feet 529 00:21:37,629 --> 00:21:41,810 under you're five feet higher than any 530 00:21:39,789 --> 00:21:44,930 position you've ever been it 531 00:21:41,810 --> 00:21:46,580 man stop bringing yourself down start 532 00:21:44,930 --> 00:21:50,000 learning that you are more than just 533 00:21:46,580 --> 00:21:51,800 your mistakes in fact they make you they 534 00:21:50,000 --> 00:21:53,300 make you grow and they make you branch 535 00:21:51,800 --> 00:21:56,480 out into a stronger and more courageous 536 00:21:53,300 --> 00:21:58,580 person give yourself the space to grow 537 00:21:56,480 --> 00:22:00,620 give yourself the space to grow into a 538 00:21:58,580 --> 00:22:02,750 better in a more successful person to 539 00:22:00,620 --> 00:22:04,310 see your potential is sprouting you've 540 00:22:02,750 --> 00:22:06,200 got a better foundation now because 541 00:22:04,310 --> 00:22:08,990 those roots are dug deep into the ground 542 00:22:06,200 --> 00:22:10,550 and if something breaks you down know 543 00:22:08,990 --> 00:22:12,950 that you can grow further past the point 544 00:22:10,550 --> 00:22:15,170 you were at before because this tree can 545 00:22:12,950 --> 00:22:17,420 only grow taller bigger and stronger 546 00:22:15,170 --> 00:22:18,710 because you are stronger now so you've 547 00:22:17,420 --> 00:22:21,230 got to know that this isn't a setback 548 00:22:18,710 --> 00:22:22,880 this is just another ingredient that you 549 00:22:21,230 --> 00:22:26,450 need for the success that's coming your 550 00:22:22,880 --> 00:22:29,240 way it really is 551 00:22:26,450 --> 00:22:32,870 stop making excuses take control of your 552 00:22:29,240 --> 00:22:34,460 situation and rise to your potential man 553 00:22:32,870 --> 00:22:35,930 I don't think that we would be here if 554 00:22:34,460 --> 00:22:37,400 we didn't have a purpose I can tell you 555 00:22:35,930 --> 00:22:39,440 that 556 00:22:37,400 --> 00:22:42,500 it's our job to develop that purposes 557 00:22:39,440 --> 00:22:44,150 I've dealt with find and hone in and 558 00:22:42,500 --> 00:22:46,160 craft that purpose and the purpose is 559 00:22:44,150 --> 00:22:47,810 usually crafted through some level of 560 00:22:46,160 --> 00:22:50,660 suffering it's the hero's journey right 561 00:22:47,810 --> 00:22:53,330 like in film you know the hero he's down 562 00:22:50,660 --> 00:22:55,520 and out and he loses the girl in the in 563 00:22:53,330 --> 00:22:57,230 the house and he goes on this journey 564 00:22:55,520 --> 00:22:58,460 and he finds strength and wisdom and 565 00:22:57,230 --> 00:23:01,280 knowledge and comes back and is now the 566 00:22:58,460 --> 00:23:06,590 hero we have to go through that level of 567 00:23:01,280 --> 00:23:16,040 suffering there's this hunger that 568 00:23:06,590 --> 00:23:20,480 everyone has and it's always neutered my 569 00:23:16,040 --> 00:23:21,500 family my teachers my culture and I 570 00:23:20,480 --> 00:23:23,900 believe you wouldn't be put on this 571 00:23:21,500 --> 00:23:26,180 planet if you didn't have this hunger 572 00:23:23,900 --> 00:23:28,940 and if you explore this hunger and for 573 00:23:26,180 --> 00:23:30,230 me it was done being a fat kid than 574 00:23:28,940 --> 00:23:32,330 being a being a foreigner and then a fat 575 00:23:30,230 --> 00:23:33,710 kid and then fixing my problems and then 576 00:23:32,330 --> 00:23:36,080 realizing I have the solution to other 577 00:23:33,710 --> 00:23:38,720 peoples weight-loss problems for someone 578 00:23:36,080 --> 00:23:40,010 else it might be a financial thing you 579 00:23:38,720 --> 00:23:42,410 know they fix their financial problems 580 00:23:40,010 --> 00:23:43,850 and they realize they can help everyone 581 00:23:42,410 --> 00:23:46,700 else's financial problems but you have 582 00:23:43,850 --> 00:23:48,470 to go through the suffering you have to 583 00:23:46,700 --> 00:23:51,620 be hungry enough to deal with the pain 584 00:23:48,470 --> 00:23:53,630 and come out the other side with some 585 00:23:51,620 --> 00:23:58,280 scars because scar tissue is infinitely 586 00:23:53,630 --> 00:23:59,900 more resilient than regular tissue but 587 00:23:58,280 --> 00:24:01,340 again goes back to most people feel like 588 00:23:59,900 --> 00:24:03,530 yeah I think there's something great in 589 00:24:01,340 --> 00:24:04,790 me but I don't want to explore it I want 590 00:24:03,530 --> 00:24:07,550 to play it safe I'm gonna stay bubble 591 00:24:04,790 --> 00:24:08,630 wraps I don't want to risk it but we 592 00:24:07,550 --> 00:24:10,370 wouldn't be put on this planet if we 593 00:24:08,630 --> 00:24:12,350 didn't have this greater thing to 594 00:24:10,370 --> 00:24:13,820 accomplish now some of us are going to 595 00:24:12,350 --> 00:24:16,370 be Elon Musk and were going to shoot a 596 00:24:13,820 --> 00:24:17,810 Tesla to the Mars right and that's okay 597 00:24:16,370 --> 00:24:20,120 and others are gonna create a fitness 598 00:24:17,810 --> 00:24:21,770 franchise or a or a supplement company 599 00:24:20,120 --> 00:24:24,020 that actually delivers you know great 600 00:24:21,770 --> 00:24:28,670 nutrients that help people in eyes their 601 00:24:24,020 --> 00:24:30,530 performance whatever your purpose is 602 00:24:28,670 --> 00:24:32,750 you've got to develop it you got to 603 00:24:30,530 --> 00:24:34,220 develop it but you wouldn't be put on 604 00:24:32,750 --> 00:24:38,960 this planet if you didn't have it I'm 605 00:24:34,220 --> 00:24:40,880 convinced of that not enough people are 606 00:24:38,960 --> 00:24:43,550 willing to build that mental emotional 607 00:24:40,880 --> 00:24:47,960 toughness and the moment they do they'll 608 00:24:43,550 --> 00:24:50,450 go perseverance nothing happens until 609 00:24:47,960 --> 00:24:51,950 you get done everyone's got a great idea 610 00:24:50,450 --> 00:24:53,540 it'll make me this many millions and 611 00:24:51,950 --> 00:24:56,570 it'll help this many people nothing 612 00:24:53,540 --> 00:24:57,830 happens so you get that done put 613 00:24:56,570 --> 00:24:59,450 yourself in a position where you're 614 00:24:57,830 --> 00:25:03,049 gonna thrive not where it's gonna be 615 00:24:59,450 --> 00:25:06,889 comfortable right get done 616 00:25:03,049 --> 00:25:09,369 I believe we all are raised this fighter 617 00:25:06,889 --> 00:25:11,989 jets just we get neutered by parents by 618 00:25:09,369 --> 00:25:14,360 grandparents because of the filters they 619 00:25:11,989 --> 00:25:16,489 had and viewed life through the 620 00:25:14,360 --> 00:25:17,809 experiences they had teachers who go you 621 00:25:16,489 --> 00:25:19,309 don't want to disappoint yourself just 622 00:25:17,809 --> 00:25:21,889 go to college go get a good job go to 623 00:25:19,309 --> 00:25:23,450 college don't go to college today don't 624 00:25:21,889 --> 00:25:24,440 go to college it's the worst thing you 625 00:25:23,450 --> 00:25:28,009 can do and that's going to be a doctor 626 00:25:24,440 --> 00:25:29,539 or an attorney or accountant or you know 627 00:25:28,009 --> 00:25:31,159 some kind of an architect don't go to 628 00:25:29,539 --> 00:25:33,049 college you can do a lot more in life 629 00:25:31,159 --> 00:25:34,309 with that go to college and so again 630 00:25:33,049 --> 00:25:36,019 teachers professors will end up 631 00:25:34,309 --> 00:25:37,789 neutering us and when they take they 632 00:25:36,019 --> 00:25:40,359 take that fighter jet that hunger the 633 00:25:37,789 --> 00:25:42,799 claws and fangs they've defamed us 634 00:25:40,359 --> 00:25:44,119 alright so now we're crop dusters I 635 00:25:42,799 --> 00:25:45,379 don't want to take too many risks I just 636 00:25:44,119 --> 00:25:46,970 want to live a good life and they want 637 00:25:45,379 --> 00:25:49,789 to be average and mediocre that's the 638 00:25:46,970 --> 00:25:52,100 crop duster yet everyone inside has this 639 00:25:49,789 --> 00:25:53,330 hunger see the fighter jet didn't go 640 00:25:52,100 --> 00:25:56,239 away it's just been suppressed 641 00:25:53,330 --> 00:25:57,950 you've been neutered and that was me 642 00:25:56,239 --> 00:25:59,330 like hey don't take big Ridge just go 643 00:25:57,950 --> 00:26:00,379 get a good job go be a smog technician 644 00:25:59,330 --> 00:26:02,029 like that was the advice I was given 645 00:26:00,379 --> 00:26:04,159 gonna be a smog technician Society 646 00:26:02,029 --> 00:26:06,590 parents who ever have set the standard 647 00:26:04,159 --> 00:26:09,049 for you to not play it safe it risks 648 00:26:06,590 --> 00:26:10,039 what if you lose what have you lose you 649 00:26:09,049 --> 00:26:12,889 care as long as you don't die you can 650 00:26:10,039 --> 00:26:14,899 come right back and so the fighter jet 651 00:26:12,889 --> 00:26:17,840 mentality is that someone who is just 652 00:26:14,899 --> 00:26:20,029 determined relentlessly obsessed and 653 00:26:17,840 --> 00:26:23,809 achieving an outcome in the face of all 654 00:26:20,029 --> 00:26:25,039 adversity the crop duster is someone 655 00:26:23,809 --> 00:26:27,440 who's always looking for the easiest 656 00:26:25,039 --> 00:26:29,119 path to loophole which what I used to be 657 00:26:27,440 --> 00:26:30,409 a severe crop duster the composter hits 658 00:26:29,119 --> 00:26:31,639 the snooze button every day because 659 00:26:30,409 --> 00:26:33,619 they'd rather take 10 more minutes of 660 00:26:31,639 --> 00:26:35,539 mediocre sleep than getting up and 661 00:26:33,619 --> 00:26:37,249 dominating their path every morning on 662 00:26:35,539 --> 00:26:39,769 my nightstand there's two stacks of 663 00:26:37,249 --> 00:26:41,929 dominoes lined up and at the top of this 664 00:26:39,769 --> 00:26:43,639 stack says you're a loser the top of 665 00:26:41,929 --> 00:26:45,769 this one says you're a winner if I hit 666 00:26:43,639 --> 00:26:47,450 the snooze button I've hit that first 667 00:26:45,769 --> 00:26:48,559 domino in the loser stack the rest of my 668 00:26:47,450 --> 00:26:50,119 day is gonna suck now with that 669 00:26:48,559 --> 00:26:52,730 mentality am I gonna ever hit snooze 670 00:26:50,119 --> 00:26:55,519 again absolutely not because I've sold 671 00:26:52,730 --> 00:26:57,529 myself on the idea that when I hit the 672 00:26:55,519 --> 00:27:00,409 snooze button I'm an absolute loser I'm 673 00:26:57,529 --> 00:27:01,999 scum of the earth I am my day is 674 00:27:00,409 --> 00:27:02,830 destined to be shitty now some people 675 00:27:01,999 --> 00:27:05,110 are you being off 676 00:27:02,830 --> 00:27:06,549 yourself more people should be hard on 677 00:27:05,110 --> 00:27:08,830 themselves we go around bubble wrapping 678 00:27:06,549 --> 00:27:10,720 ourselves right we lead the training 679 00:27:08,830 --> 00:27:12,070 bills on for too long like be hard on 680 00:27:10,720 --> 00:27:14,200 yourself take up the bubble wrap off 681 00:27:12,070 --> 00:27:15,909 take the tikki training wheels out no 682 00:27:14,200 --> 00:27:18,190 one did that for me man to be a fighter 683 00:27:15,909 --> 00:27:20,200 jet me a fighter jet go to battle every 684 00:27:18,190 --> 00:27:22,929 day take risks that's what a fighter jet 685 00:27:20,200 --> 00:27:30,070 does a crop duster as a routine life and 686 00:27:22,929 --> 00:27:34,059 it's been boring every day is a new 687 00:27:30,070 --> 00:27:36,460 opportunity to change your life every 688 00:27:34,059 --> 00:27:39,850 day is a new opportunity to make your 689 00:27:36,460 --> 00:27:40,929 life a better place to live in your life 690 00:27:39,850 --> 00:27:43,029 is at stake 691 00:27:40,929 --> 00:27:44,559 think right now what you've done 692 00:27:43,029 --> 00:27:45,630 differently from the things you did 693 00:27:44,559 --> 00:27:48,580 yesterday 694 00:27:45,630 --> 00:27:50,470 perhaps you got up an hour earlier 695 00:27:48,580 --> 00:27:53,380 maybe you meditated or you went to the 696 00:27:50,470 --> 00:27:54,639 gym if you know that you haven't made 697 00:27:53,380 --> 00:27:57,269 any change today 698 00:27:54,639 --> 00:28:01,210 then make this your day take this 699 00:27:57,269 --> 00:28:03,760 opportunity change you're better than 700 00:28:01,210 --> 00:28:06,519 you were yesterday because you know that 701 00:28:03,760 --> 00:28:09,820 today and the day after that you will 702 00:28:06,519 --> 00:28:12,039 make progress you will know that you put 703 00:28:09,820 --> 00:28:15,039 in the work that you earned the 704 00:28:12,039 --> 00:28:17,049 improvement you need to push yourself so 705 00:28:15,039 --> 00:28:19,539 you feel the satisfaction that you've 706 00:28:17,049 --> 00:28:22,149 made further and further past your 707 00:28:19,539 --> 00:28:25,690 original routine further and further 708 00:28:22,149 --> 00:28:29,380 past your failure there is nothing else 709 00:28:25,690 --> 00:28:32,769 you can do but work to work harder and 710 00:28:29,380 --> 00:28:35,380 harder the struggle is the only way you 711 00:28:32,769 --> 00:28:37,360 know you're going to succeed and take 712 00:28:35,380 --> 00:28:40,559 this new opportunity and make this 713 00:28:37,360 --> 00:28:45,669 change in your life you will be better 714 00:28:40,559 --> 00:28:47,590 take this risk take this opening this is 715 00:28:45,669 --> 00:28:50,320 the time to make your life a better 716 00:28:47,590 --> 00:28:52,220 place to make your future a place where 717 00:28:50,320 --> 00:28:54,830 you can see yourself achieve 718 00:28:52,220 --> 00:28:57,409 a future where your life is somewhere 719 00:28:54,830 --> 00:29:00,830 where you can create your own Empire 720 00:28:57,409 --> 00:29:03,980 know that not all of your successes has 721 00:29:00,830 --> 00:29:06,530 to be exposed or flaunted be humble 722 00:29:03,980 --> 00:29:08,409 that's even more important than the 723 00:29:06,530 --> 00:29:12,730 progress you've made 724 00:29:08,409 --> 00:29:16,490 use your success for you and only you 725 00:29:12,730 --> 00:29:18,770 use your success to boost your life into 726 00:29:16,490 --> 00:29:21,230 the next level use your success to make 727 00:29:18,770 --> 00:29:25,250 you grow into a more courageous and 728 00:29:21,230 --> 00:29:28,340 stronger person you are you for one 729 00:29:25,250 --> 00:29:31,100 reason to be yourself to use the 730 00:29:28,340 --> 00:29:34,370 potential you have as a person and make 731 00:29:31,100 --> 00:29:37,429 this your future use this as your first 732 00:29:34,370 --> 00:29:40,580 step into success change the way you 733 00:29:37,429 --> 00:29:44,110 view life switch your perspective of 734 00:29:40,580 --> 00:29:46,179 success and use it in the right place 735 00:29:44,110 --> 00:29:48,309 confident to stand up and take 736 00:29:46,179 --> 00:29:51,080 responsibility for your mistakes and 737 00:29:48,309 --> 00:29:55,460 courageous enough to make mistakes in 738 00:29:51,080 --> 00:29:57,919 the first place educate yourself be this 739 00:29:55,460 --> 00:30:01,610 person become the person you've always 740 00:29:57,919 --> 00:30:04,309 wanted to be you need to make this 741 00:30:01,610 --> 00:30:08,179 transition for your future to make your 742 00:30:04,309 --> 00:30:11,210 life better and bigger you will be who 743 00:30:08,179 --> 00:30:11,809 you need to be motivate yourself with 744 00:30:11,210 --> 00:30:15,499 that 745 00:30:11,809 --> 00:30:18,909 the vision of your future the future of 746 00:30:15,499 --> 00:30:18,909 a successful life 747 00:30:19,980 --> 00:30:23,820 what's the favorite lesson you've ever 748 00:30:21,690 --> 00:30:26,070 learned what is your biggest achievement 749 00:30:23,820 --> 00:30:28,919 you've ever accomplished and then what 750 00:30:26,070 --> 00:30:31,139 is your greatest success I want you to 751 00:30:28,919 --> 00:30:33,510 think about it think about how you got 752 00:30:31,139 --> 00:30:35,820 there where you needed to be in order to 753 00:30:33,510 --> 00:30:38,940 get there in order for you to make that 754 00:30:35,820 --> 00:30:40,769 kind of progress what challenges did you 755 00:30:38,940 --> 00:30:42,330 have to pass what limits did you have to 756 00:30:40,769 --> 00:30:45,659 crush what hurdles that you have to 757 00:30:42,330 --> 00:30:47,549 overcome now I want you to think about 758 00:30:45,659 --> 00:30:50,460 that satisfaction that overcame you when 759 00:30:47,549 --> 00:30:53,039 you accomplish these things how did you 760 00:30:50,460 --> 00:30:56,100 feel and how do you need to feel right 761 00:30:53,039 --> 00:30:57,600 now feel like you have the opportunity 762 00:30:56,100 --> 00:30:58,980 to repeat those actions that you once 763 00:30:57,600 --> 00:31:03,450 did because let me tell you right now 764 00:30:58,980 --> 00:31:05,220 you do make the progress now make your 765 00:31:03,450 --> 00:31:08,130 progress for the better for you to make 766 00:31:05,220 --> 00:31:10,169 more progress you have that potential 767 00:31:08,130 --> 00:31:13,350 now go ahead and spark your success and 768 00:31:10,169 --> 00:31:15,360 spark your inspiration that inspiration 769 00:31:13,350 --> 00:31:18,990 it yields the progress that you need to 770 00:31:15,360 --> 00:31:20,909 make use the tools you have use your 771 00:31:18,990 --> 00:31:23,789 tools because no one can do it like you 772 00:31:20,909 --> 00:31:26,279 can all right use this inspiration while 773 00:31:23,789 --> 00:31:29,399 you have the opening stop living in the 774 00:31:26,279 --> 00:31:33,299 past start thinking about your future 775 00:31:29,399 --> 00:31:35,940 the future where you can succeed that 776 00:31:33,299 --> 00:31:36,750 future is actually happening around you 777 00:31:35,940 --> 00:31:39,450 right now 778 00:31:36,750 --> 00:31:42,630 so take control of your future now by 779 00:31:39,450 --> 00:31:45,440 living in the present living for now 780 00:31:42,630 --> 00:31:48,139 because that at the end of the day 781 00:31:45,440 --> 00:31:52,250 is the only thing that mattered boost 782 00:31:48,139 --> 00:31:56,059 your life make your life and live your 783 00:31:52,250 --> 00:31:58,190 life it's this time in history that most 784 00:31:56,059 --> 00:31:59,659 people are wasting on the wrong stuff 785 00:31:58,190 --> 00:32:00,950 they're spending it on Netflix or 786 00:31:59,659 --> 00:32:02,360 fortnight or going out with their 787 00:32:00,950 --> 00:32:03,799 friends are drinking and if you want to 788 00:32:02,360 --> 00:32:05,870 do that that's fine you know enjoy your 789 00:32:03,799 --> 00:32:08,419 can mediocre ship life but like there's 790 00:32:05,870 --> 00:32:12,379 so much more that you can do with weird 791 00:32:08,419 --> 00:32:13,940 knowledge and studying you make a 792 00:32:12,379 --> 00:32:14,990 mistake it's a part of life it's part of 793 00:32:13,940 --> 00:32:17,299 the journey you know you have to 794 00:32:14,990 --> 00:32:19,519 appreciate the lows you have to respect 795 00:32:17,299 --> 00:32:20,929 the lows celebrate the highs but respect 796 00:32:19,519 --> 00:32:22,610 the lows don't block them out and don't 797 00:32:20,929 --> 00:32:23,929 ignore them in order to be successful I 798 00:32:22,610 --> 00:32:26,690 think this is the biggest thing you have 799 00:32:23,929 --> 00:32:28,909 to be so dedicated to your craft and so 800 00:32:26,690 --> 00:32:30,980 passionate about it so single-minded 801 00:32:28,909 --> 00:32:33,139 focus on that 802 00:32:30,980 --> 00:32:34,519 you know tasks and most people just 803 00:32:33,139 --> 00:32:35,929 don't take you that seriously they're 804 00:32:34,519 --> 00:32:38,419 like yeah I want to be a millionaire 805 00:32:35,929 --> 00:32:39,830 yeah like well I meet people and they're 806 00:32:38,419 --> 00:32:41,779 like oh you're that millionaire and it 807 00:32:39,830 --> 00:32:43,730 like a smile comes on their face like oh 808 00:32:41,779 --> 00:32:44,809 how do I become a millionaire but they 809 00:32:43,730 --> 00:32:47,059 don't really believe it they're not 810 00:32:44,809 --> 00:32:49,610 asking seriously they don't they're not 811 00:32:47,059 --> 00:32:51,409 willing to put in the thousands of hours 812 00:32:49,610 --> 00:32:53,389 requires like there's no magic formula 813 00:32:51,409 --> 00:32:54,860 this isn't like get-rich-quick and those 814 00:32:53,389 --> 00:32:56,570 people who do get rich like the lotto 815 00:32:54,860 --> 00:32:57,799 winners like they're tough because they 816 00:32:56,570 --> 00:32:59,740 didn't earn it they don't don't 817 00:32:57,799 --> 00:33:03,169 appreciate it they don't understand it I 818 00:32:59,740 --> 00:33:05,840 think that going through the ups and the 819 00:33:03,169 --> 00:33:07,280 downs is what makes you appreciate 820 00:33:05,840 --> 00:33:08,899 everything 821 00:33:07,280 --> 00:33:11,419 [Music] 822 00:33:08,899 --> 00:33:13,309 you have to find meaning and for me and 823 00:33:11,419 --> 00:33:14,509 a lot of people like you know you're on 824 00:33:13,309 --> 00:33:16,519 this journey like I want to be 825 00:33:14,509 --> 00:33:18,289 successful I want to be rich that's what 826 00:33:16,519 --> 00:33:20,599 I want but what about when you get there 827 00:33:18,289 --> 00:33:22,190 you don't have a plan for that so now 828 00:33:20,599 --> 00:33:23,899 I'm trying to teach you know all about 829 00:33:22,190 --> 00:33:25,309 charity and giving back in the lessons 830 00:33:23,899 --> 00:33:27,109 that I've learned now from being rich 831 00:33:25,309 --> 00:33:29,149 for several years and it's not what you 832 00:33:27,109 --> 00:33:30,739 might think there's a lot of stuff that 833 00:33:29,149 --> 00:33:34,749 comes with being rich and you don't 834 00:33:30,739 --> 00:33:34,749 realize it and you know that's life 835 00:33:36,480 --> 00:33:40,140 because the world and even school 836 00:33:38,130 --> 00:33:43,740 teaches you teaches us in so many ways 837 00:33:40,140 --> 00:33:46,500 to you know work on our weaknesses to 838 00:33:43,740 --> 00:33:48,270 get stronger and I think that's a huge 839 00:33:46,500 --> 00:33:49,350 flaw I think we just get great at what 840 00:33:48,270 --> 00:33:51,390 we're good at we only need to be good at 841 00:33:49,350 --> 00:33:54,049 one or two things and we can make an 842 00:33:51,390 --> 00:33:54,049 impact on the world 843 00:33:54,980 --> 00:33:59,570 everybody's in a vehicle like your 844 00:33:57,410 --> 00:34:01,400 wealth creation vehicle whether that's a 845 00:33:59,570 --> 00:34:03,080 job you don't like or a job you do like 846 00:34:01,400 --> 00:34:04,820 or business you started or business 847 00:34:03,080 --> 00:34:06,590 that's crushing or business it's not 848 00:34:04,820 --> 00:34:09,500 doing great you have this vehicle and 849 00:34:06,590 --> 00:34:11,060 when this vehicle is not working we're 850 00:34:09,500 --> 00:34:13,280 looking on the road of all the other 851 00:34:11,060 --> 00:34:15,080 shiny cars and it's like oh man I tried 852 00:34:13,280 --> 00:34:16,550 selling stuff on Amazon that's not 853 00:34:15,080 --> 00:34:18,200 working I'm gonna go in the car business 854 00:34:16,550 --> 00:34:20,330 the real estate business I'm gonna go in 855 00:34:18,200 --> 00:34:21,679 a speaking business the the nutrition 856 00:34:20,330 --> 00:34:24,409 business the suppli and you're looking 857 00:34:21,679 --> 00:34:26,750 for another car to jump in and I realize 858 00:34:24,409 --> 00:34:28,580 people jump from car to car to car their 859 00:34:26,750 --> 00:34:30,350 whole life looking for satiation looking 860 00:34:28,580 --> 00:34:32,060 for satisfaction looking to make more 861 00:34:30,350 --> 00:34:34,429 money if you can stop jumping from 862 00:34:32,060 --> 00:34:36,320 vehicle to vehicle the vehicle you're in 863 00:34:34,429 --> 00:34:37,369 might be the right vehicle but you don't 864 00:34:36,320 --> 00:34:38,929 have the right habits or the right 865 00:34:37,369 --> 00:34:40,850 beliefs or the right rules whatever you 866 00:34:38,929 --> 00:34:42,290 want to call it my books habit so I call 867 00:34:40,850 --> 00:34:44,210 them habits but it's really the 868 00:34:42,290 --> 00:34:46,129 foundation for success so you can 869 00:34:44,210 --> 00:34:48,169 overcome the obstacles you don't like 870 00:34:46,129 --> 00:34:49,760 negative people in your life steer you 871 00:34:48,169 --> 00:34:52,369 in different directions it doesn't you 872 00:34:49,760 --> 00:34:54,500 know even people who ask me about 873 00:34:52,369 --> 00:34:56,060 productivity people say how do you get 874 00:34:54,500 --> 00:34:57,560 so much done how do you run a business 875 00:34:56,060 --> 00:34:58,850 and still coach the little league in 876 00:34:57,560 --> 00:35:01,310 baseball and saw how do you do all those 877 00:34:58,850 --> 00:35:04,730 things it's because of just simple 878 00:35:01,310 --> 00:35:06,590 success habits like I just wrote 879 00:35:04,730 --> 00:35:08,480 something on this recently I said you 880 00:35:06,590 --> 00:35:10,400 have to treat your decisions for 881 00:35:08,480 --> 00:35:12,380 productivity like binary thinking which 882 00:35:10,400 --> 00:35:14,840 is X's and O's black and black or white 883 00:35:12,380 --> 00:35:16,400 yes or no is this moving me toward a 884 00:35:14,840 --> 00:35:21,530 better version of myself a wealthier 885 00:35:16,400 --> 00:35:23,570 version a happier person or is it not we 886 00:35:21,530 --> 00:35:25,340 never give ourselves credit we'd never 887 00:35:23,570 --> 00:35:26,990 treat a friend the way we treat 888 00:35:25,340 --> 00:35:28,340 ourselves it's like I know I've had days 889 00:35:26,990 --> 00:35:30,380 I've gone till 10 o'clock at night go 890 00:35:28,340 --> 00:35:32,240 man I got nothing done today the biggest 891 00:35:30,380 --> 00:35:34,340 lie like we beat ourselves up we just 892 00:35:32,240 --> 00:35:35,720 were like these racehorses we wouldn't 893 00:35:34,340 --> 00:35:37,520 even treat a racehorse that we owned as 894 00:35:35,720 --> 00:35:39,530 bad as we treat ourselves right so I 895 00:35:37,520 --> 00:35:41,000 wake up and I'll do a quick little 896 00:35:39,530 --> 00:35:42,920 gratitude and they'll say what was one 897 00:35:41,000 --> 00:35:44,960 win yesterday that I accomplished I'm 898 00:35:42,920 --> 00:35:47,000 like wow you didn't do that yes and then 899 00:35:44,960 --> 00:35:48,680 I'll think of one win I want to do that 900 00:35:47,000 --> 00:35:50,270 day like what I'm gonna need a million 901 00:35:48,680 --> 00:35:53,410 things done thing what's a must today 902 00:35:50,270 --> 00:35:53,410 that would be a great win 903 00:35:54,789 --> 00:35:59,380 I don't think we should drive for money 904 00:35:57,039 --> 00:36:01,329 I think we should drive to be a better 905 00:35:59,380 --> 00:36:03,729 version of ourselves when money was no 906 00:36:01,329 --> 00:36:06,009 longer a worry for me I drove into me 907 00:36:03,729 --> 00:36:07,809 and I have been ignoring and tucking 908 00:36:06,009 --> 00:36:11,349 down a lot of crap for a lot of years 909 00:36:07,809 --> 00:36:12,549 and I was surface-level I look like the 910 00:36:11,349 --> 00:36:14,049 guy that had it all going on but 911 00:36:12,549 --> 00:36:16,150 businesses are doing good I'm amazing 912 00:36:14,049 --> 00:36:18,369 children company thriving I live in the 913 00:36:16,150 --> 00:36:20,429 right neighborhood Drive do I have the 914 00:36:18,369 --> 00:36:24,339 right friends I thinking looked great 915 00:36:20,429 --> 00:36:26,859 but it was all masked and when money got 916 00:36:24,339 --> 00:36:29,199 out of the way I was able to find 917 00:36:26,859 --> 00:36:30,729 digging to me and do my own personal 918 00:36:29,199 --> 00:36:33,579 development and my own personal growth 919 00:36:30,729 --> 00:36:34,779 and really find the things that I wanted 920 00:36:33,579 --> 00:36:38,829 to fix so I could become a better 921 00:36:34,779 --> 00:36:40,390 version there might be something that 922 00:36:38,829 --> 00:36:42,609 makes you a lot of money but it robs 923 00:36:40,390 --> 00:36:44,199 your soul so there's that balance and I 924 00:36:42,609 --> 00:36:46,299 think that doesn't happen oh that 925 00:36:44,199 --> 00:36:47,979 doesn't happen in your 20s and maybe not 926 00:36:46,299 --> 00:36:49,599 in your 30s at least been for me I was 927 00:36:47,979 --> 00:36:51,579 just fighting to be successful in my 20s 928 00:36:49,599 --> 00:36:53,219 and 30s but this face I wish someone 929 00:36:51,579 --> 00:36:55,119 would have grabbed me at 25 and said 930 00:36:53,219 --> 00:36:56,469 you're gonna make all the money you want 931 00:36:55,119 --> 00:36:58,809 you'll have all the success you want 932 00:36:56,469 --> 00:36:59,289 make sure your soul is aligned with that 933 00:36:58,809 --> 00:37:01,209 money 934 00:36:59,289 --> 00:37:03,849 and every time I don't know about you 935 00:37:01,209 --> 00:37:05,140 every time I align my values my soul my 936 00:37:03,849 --> 00:37:08,259 purpose whatever it is you want to call 937 00:37:05,140 --> 00:37:10,029 it with my businesses and my profits 938 00:37:08,259 --> 00:37:14,609 they always soar without having to 939 00:37:10,029 --> 00:37:14,609 obsess on the you know on the numbers 940 00:37:16,020 --> 00:37:21,570 great people don't have anything magic 941 00:37:18,720 --> 00:37:25,050 they worked relentlessly for years and 942 00:37:21,570 --> 00:37:27,120 years they decided that they were going 943 00:37:25,050 --> 00:37:29,280 to be great they decided that they 944 00:37:27,120 --> 00:37:31,590 didn't want to sit back and hide they 945 00:37:29,280 --> 00:37:33,480 decided that they wanted to shine they 946 00:37:31,590 --> 00:37:35,970 decided that their name would be in 947 00:37:33,480 --> 00:37:40,650 lights and people would admire what they 948 00:37:35,970 --> 00:37:43,740 do if not for you decide to be great for 949 00:37:40,650 --> 00:37:46,590 the world success never stops never 950 00:37:43,740 --> 00:37:49,380 stops to breathe never takes a day off 951 00:37:46,590 --> 00:37:51,480 never looks to take a break we already 952 00:37:49,380 --> 00:37:53,640 have enough problems on this planet be 953 00:37:51,480 --> 00:37:55,980 different be a person who makes a 954 00:37:53,640 --> 00:37:58,980 difference be a person who makes a 955 00:37:55,980 --> 00:38:01,860 change for good be a person who has an 956 00:37:58,980 --> 00:38:04,410 impact on the world you need to become 957 00:38:01,860 --> 00:38:06,780 someone and you need to become your 958 00:38:04,410 --> 00:38:10,260 future you're gonna handle your power 959 00:38:06,780 --> 00:38:12,900 and feel your potential you gotta feel 960 00:38:10,260 --> 00:38:15,570 this pain to progress to change to feel 961 00:38:12,900 --> 00:38:17,730 fulfilled to feel satisfaction this is 962 00:38:15,570 --> 00:38:22,980 where everything can and trust me it all 963 00:38:17,730 --> 00:38:26,730 will fall into place stop denying the 964 00:38:22,980 --> 00:38:29,870 world of your greatness you need to see 965 00:38:26,730 --> 00:38:33,120 every single day as a bank account 966 00:38:29,870 --> 00:38:36,180 nobody is poor nobody is rich 967 00:38:33,120 --> 00:38:39,060 everyone has 24 hours each and how you 968 00:38:36,180 --> 00:38:43,200 spend your balance each day will decide 969 00:38:39,060 --> 00:38:46,380 who you become now pay attention to 970 00:38:43,200 --> 00:38:49,260 every detail take every day like it's a 971 00:38:46,380 --> 00:38:52,140 brand new spankin opportunity take every 972 00:38:49,260 --> 00:38:53,340 risk as if it's a stepping stone into 973 00:38:52,140 --> 00:38:55,650 the future you're carving out for 974 00:38:53,340 --> 00:38:58,050 yourself because you have control you 975 00:38:55,650 --> 00:39:00,560 have the control to change in the 976 00:38:58,050 --> 00:39:04,710 control to improve the action and 977 00:39:00,560 --> 00:39:07,650 improvement spend your time wisely 978 00:39:04,710 --> 00:39:08,160 do not waste it on things out of your 979 00:39:07,650 --> 00:39:12,090 control 980 00:39:08,160 --> 00:39:15,150 if the weather is bad do not waste time 981 00:39:12,090 --> 00:39:18,060 feeling down about it if it is out of 982 00:39:15,150 --> 00:39:21,750 your control move past it look for the 983 00:39:18,060 --> 00:39:24,150 things that you can control it all takes 984 00:39:21,750 --> 00:39:26,160 resilience resilience to push past any 985 00:39:24,150 --> 00:39:28,560 boundaries and push through every risk 986 00:39:26,160 --> 00:39:32,370 every hardship every wrong 987 00:39:28,560 --> 00:39:35,130 turn right now right here is an open 988 00:39:32,370 --> 00:39:39,510 door the door that puts you on the path 989 00:39:35,130 --> 00:39:42,590 towards success losing 24 hours because 990 00:39:39,510 --> 00:39:45,720 of the bad 10 minutes is like throwing 991 00:39:42,590 --> 00:39:49,590 $10,000 away because you dropped a few 992 00:39:45,720 --> 00:39:51,510 pennies you have control you have 993 00:39:49,590 --> 00:39:53,400 control over your future a future fueled 994 00:39:51,510 --> 00:39:55,050 by your success constructed by your 995 00:39:53,400 --> 00:39:57,360 progress it all begins right here and it 996 00:39:55,050 --> 00:39:59,040 all starts right now don't waste one 997 00:39:57,360 --> 00:40:00,980 more minute sitting and thinking I want 998 00:39:59,040 --> 00:40:03,120 you to spend your next minute acting 999 00:40:00,980 --> 00:40:05,160 take your own direction and write your 1000 00:40:03,120 --> 00:40:07,170 own rules you need to write the next 1001 00:40:05,160 --> 00:40:09,270 chapter the next chapter that pushes you 1002 00:40:07,170 --> 00:40:13,380 through towards a story and a story that 1003 00:40:09,270 --> 00:40:16,380 you can finally be proud of now is the 1004 00:40:13,380 --> 00:40:20,220 time to become someone you believe in 1005 00:40:16,380 --> 00:40:23,100 someone with purpose don't stop now 1006 00:40:20,220 --> 00:40:35,370 don't stop until you know you can make 1007 00:40:23,100 --> 00:40:38,820 it stand up to your success stand up to 1008 00:40:35,370 --> 00:40:42,210 your power this is your opportunity take 1009 00:40:38,820 --> 00:40:49,230 it take it like you own it because you 1010 00:40:42,210 --> 00:40:52,380 do be sure know your purpose your worth 1011 00:40:49,230 --> 00:40:57,150 your intention your drive to strive 1012 00:40:52,380 --> 00:41:01,190 towards success life is in your hands it 1013 00:40:57,150 --> 00:41:01,190 has always been in your hands 1014 00:41:01,470 --> 00:41:08,040 this is the time this is the time to 1015 00:41:04,870 --> 00:41:11,410 make it past your fears your boundaries 1016 00:41:08,040 --> 00:41:14,740 this is the time you break them shatter 1017 00:41:11,410 --> 00:41:17,650 them make them a part of you build your 1018 00:41:14,740 --> 00:41:22,540 future from the remains this is where it 1019 00:41:17,650 --> 00:41:26,080 starts now is the time to succeed the 1020 00:41:22,540 --> 00:41:28,000 power is in your hands the power to be 1021 00:41:26,080 --> 00:41:31,810 something more something that has 1022 00:41:28,000 --> 00:41:35,260 potential you know that you've always 1023 00:41:31,810 --> 00:41:37,690 had it take the opportunity take the 1024 00:41:35,260 --> 00:41:44,500 risk take the risk now before it's too 1025 00:41:37,690 --> 00:41:49,140 late it's never too late never stop this 1026 00:41:44,500 --> 00:41:52,870 is where you can begin work hard work 1027 00:41:49,140 --> 00:41:55,750 become the person you admire you know 1028 00:41:52,870 --> 00:41:59,800 that you can be the best all it takes is 1029 00:41:55,750 --> 00:42:03,580 power drive and work work until it hurts 1030 00:41:59,800 --> 00:42:09,220 this is where you succeed this is how 1031 00:42:03,580 --> 00:42:11,650 you succeed you can be you can be so 1032 00:42:09,220 --> 00:42:14,190 much more start thinking about what 1033 00:42:11,650 --> 00:42:14,190 you're actually doing 1034 00:42:14,220 --> 00:42:18,670 like you're gonna only be so pretty 1035 00:42:16,660 --> 00:42:20,410 you're only gonna be so smart like you 1036 00:42:18,670 --> 00:42:21,940 like there's there's things are gonna be 1037 00:42:20,410 --> 00:42:24,880 natural and there's things that you can 1038 00:42:21,940 --> 00:42:26,050 actually control I do believe and I 1039 00:42:24,880 --> 00:42:29,350 don't know if I'm right or wrong I don't 1040 00:42:26,050 --> 00:42:31,660 but I do believe that work ethic is a 1041 00:42:29,350 --> 00:42:34,130 taught behavior it's something you do 1042 00:42:31,660 --> 00:42:36,470 have more control over 1043 00:42:34,130 --> 00:42:38,839 I feel like there's a shift that can 1044 00:42:36,470 --> 00:42:42,140 make people work harder the big one that 1045 00:42:38,839 --> 00:42:44,059 I push is you're gonna die like like if 1046 00:42:42,140 --> 00:42:45,769 your complaint like to me life is broken 1047 00:42:44,059 --> 00:42:47,839 down into complaining and not so if 1048 00:42:45,769 --> 00:42:50,299 you're not complaining well then I know 1049 00:42:47,839 --> 00:42:54,589 I have no advice for you but I'm pumped 1050 00:42:50,299 --> 00:42:56,809 like you did it great people don't have 1051 00:42:54,589 --> 00:43:01,490 anything magic they worked relentlessly 1052 00:42:56,809 --> 00:43:03,710 for years and years they decided that 1053 00:43:01,490 --> 00:43:05,299 they were going to be great they decided 1054 00:43:03,710 --> 00:43:07,579 that they didn't want to sit back and 1055 00:43:05,299 --> 00:43:10,099 hide they decided that they wanted to 1056 00:43:07,579 --> 00:43:12,289 shine they decided that their name would 1057 00:43:10,099 --> 00:43:16,730 be in lights and people would admire 1058 00:43:12,289 --> 00:43:19,990 what they do if not for you decide to be 1059 00:43:16,730 --> 00:43:19,990 great for the world 1060 00:43:20,230 --> 00:43:24,820 I think so many people are keyboard 1061 00:43:22,480 --> 00:43:26,890 activists right everybody's good at 1062 00:43:24,820 --> 00:43:28,720 sending a tweet about how the world 1063 00:43:26,890 --> 00:43:30,310 should be and nobody's doing anything 1064 00:43:28,720 --> 00:43:32,600 about it and that just that is just very 1065 00:43:30,310 --> 00:43:33,760 much human nature 1066 00:43:32,600 --> 00:43:36,070 [Music] 1067 00:43:33,760 --> 00:43:38,320 but let's not be naive I mean people 1068 00:43:36,070 --> 00:43:40,630 literally complain when somebody gives 1069 00:43:38,320 --> 00:43:45,130 them the wrong amount of like extra 1070 00:43:40,630 --> 00:43:47,500 cream in a Starbucks $6 coffee my lack 1071 00:43:45,130 --> 00:43:49,780 of interest in complaining is so high 1072 00:43:47,500 --> 00:43:51,910 and when I watch what people complain 1073 00:43:49,780 --> 00:43:53,890 about it breaks my heart because they 1074 00:43:51,910 --> 00:43:55,570 completely lack perspective and i 1075 00:43:53,890 --> 00:43:58,030 genuinely believe my happiness and 1076 00:43:55,570 --> 00:44:00,340 optimism comes from my perspective even 1077 00:43:58,030 --> 00:44:01,690 in political unrest times like right now 1078 00:44:00,340 --> 00:44:04,270 a lot of people very bent out of shape 1079 00:44:01,690 --> 00:44:06,730 but the reality is is that it just never 1080 00:44:04,270 --> 00:44:08,230 been better to be a human being it's 1081 00:44:06,730 --> 00:44:11,530 that's just the truth that's just data 1082 00:44:08,230 --> 00:44:14,950 that's that's reality and yeah I mean 1083 00:44:11,530 --> 00:44:19,300 it's just a very fun time to be alive so 1084 00:44:14,950 --> 00:44:21,100 much going on be prepared in life for a 1085 00:44:19,300 --> 00:44:22,900 lot of rejection because if you're 1086 00:44:21,100 --> 00:44:24,880 prepared for a lot of rejection it comes 1087 00:44:22,900 --> 00:44:26,200 you don't get turned off you don't get 1088 00:44:24,880 --> 00:44:27,460 disappointed like well I'm not gonna do 1089 00:44:26,200 --> 00:44:29,800 this anymore no one thinks it's a good 1090 00:44:27,460 --> 00:44:31,420 idea it's like I say selling 1091 00:44:29,800 --> 00:44:34,270 encyclopedias not kinda hundred doors 1092 00:44:31,420 --> 00:44:36,940 they slab them you're faced you must be 1093 00:44:34,270 --> 00:44:39,960 just as enthusiastic on door number 101 1094 00:44:36,940 --> 00:44:39,960 as door number one 1095 00:44:42,430 --> 00:44:46,760 [Music] 1096 00:44:44,060 --> 00:44:47,420 we're all worth far more than anyone can 1097 00:44:46,760 --> 00:44:50,570 imagine 1098 00:44:47,420 --> 00:44:52,040 our power honestly is endless in our 1099 00:44:50,570 --> 00:44:54,250 potential has the power and make 1100 00:44:52,040 --> 00:44:58,730 something real out of the life you live 1101 00:44:54,250 --> 00:45:02,090 that's crazy but your life is now you 1102 00:44:58,730 --> 00:45:04,370 can alter your future this is where you 1103 00:45:02,090 --> 00:45:08,600 begin to and this is where you start to 1104 00:45:04,370 --> 00:45:09,580 succeed now this moment around you right 1105 00:45:08,600 --> 00:45:12,220 now 1106 00:45:09,580 --> 00:45:16,190 that's the secret power that you have 1107 00:45:12,220 --> 00:45:18,470 time is your power this time you have 1108 00:45:16,190 --> 00:45:22,880 the potential to succeed to be something 1109 00:45:18,470 --> 00:45:25,190 with purpose someone with power there's 1110 00:45:22,880 --> 00:45:26,600 so many people there talking about how 1111 00:45:25,190 --> 00:45:28,400 big of an entrepreneur they're gonna be 1112 00:45:26,600 --> 00:45:31,700 and how much they're gonna achieve and 1113 00:45:28,400 --> 00:45:33,740 they don't work on weekends 1114 00:45:31,700 --> 00:45:36,050 you know I worked every Saturday of my 1115 00:45:33,740 --> 00:45:38,540 20s like and I talk to 20 year old 1116 00:45:36,050 --> 00:45:39,770 entrepreneurs every single day lately 1117 00:45:38,540 --> 00:45:41,720 I've been saying to them this Saturday 1118 00:45:39,770 --> 00:45:44,420 you're gonna have more time off than 1119 00:45:41,720 --> 00:45:46,430 I've had in my entire 20s on a Saturday 1120 00:45:44,420 --> 00:45:47,390 so like before you tell me how you're 1121 00:45:46,430 --> 00:45:49,250 gonna be bigger than me 1122 00:45:47,390 --> 00:45:51,640 start thinking about what you're 1123 00:45:49,250 --> 00:45:51,640 actually doing 1124 00:45:53,790 --> 00:46:00,340 we're beating ourselves up like 1125 00:45:56,890 --> 00:46:02,590 everybody sucks at something right like 1126 00:46:00,340 --> 00:46:04,750 we all have shortcomings and we all have 1127 00:46:02,590 --> 00:46:06,730 strengths and for me it's like why don't 1128 00:46:04,750 --> 00:46:08,200 we just audit that like why don't we 1129 00:46:06,730 --> 00:46:09,490 just look at it that way and be like 1130 00:46:08,200 --> 00:46:11,650 alright well I'm good at this but I'm 1131 00:46:09,490 --> 00:46:13,210 not good at that like and then and then 1132 00:46:11,650 --> 00:46:15,820 and then I only focus what I'm good at 1133 00:46:13,210 --> 00:46:17,800 right like I don't dwell that I can't 1134 00:46:15,820 --> 00:46:19,540 fix it around the house I call somebody 1135 00:46:17,800 --> 00:46:21,430 to fix it like I'm not like I'm not a 1136 00:46:19,540 --> 00:46:23,290 man I don't give a fuck like you know 1137 00:46:21,430 --> 00:46:25,600 like like you know like I don't I don't 1138 00:46:23,290 --> 00:46:27,130 get it like we all like I also think 1139 00:46:25,600 --> 00:46:29,350 it's awesome that I'm so emotionally 1140 00:46:27,130 --> 00:46:30,790 stable and I'm the emotional backbone of 1141 00:46:29,350 --> 00:46:32,590 everybody is that what a dude's supposed 1142 00:46:30,790 --> 00:46:34,120 to do like like these cliches these 1143 00:46:32,590 --> 00:46:36,670 stereotypes they're so silly 1144 00:46:34,120 --> 00:46:39,790 you're exactly right man I don't judge 1145 00:46:36,670 --> 00:46:41,110 myself I'm fully in love with myself but 1146 00:46:39,790 --> 00:46:43,180 I'm also fully in love with everybody 1147 00:46:41,110 --> 00:46:44,080 else too right it's not like like it 1148 00:46:43,180 --> 00:46:46,360 goes both ways 1149 00:46:44,080 --> 00:46:48,190 like I tell people to buy into me that 1150 00:46:46,360 --> 00:46:52,870 work for me it's cuz I buy into them 1151 00:46:48,190 --> 00:46:59,380 first like I don't need anybody to gain 1152 00:46:52,870 --> 00:47:03,360 trust with me I've it's they're like I 1153 00:46:59,380 --> 00:47:07,390 believe if the human race is so grossly 1154 00:47:03,360 --> 00:47:09,340 underrated we are good of course we have 1155 00:47:07,390 --> 00:47:11,710 some bad there's and seven billion of us 1156 00:47:09,340 --> 00:47:14,230 but like when you look at our net score 1157 00:47:11,710 --> 00:47:16,360 it's bonger like you know any damage we 1158 00:47:14,230 --> 00:47:19,330 can be doing to each other on a hourly 1159 00:47:16,360 --> 00:47:22,210 basis and we don't like we're still here 1160 00:47:19,330 --> 00:47:23,950 like we won were the Alpha being and 1161 00:47:22,210 --> 00:47:26,290 we've figured out how to stay together 1162 00:47:23,950 --> 00:47:28,840 this is insane when you think about it 1163 00:47:26,290 --> 00:47:35,590 and yet everybody wants to dwell on like 1164 00:47:28,840 --> 00:47:37,690 somebody said something mean we already 1165 00:47:35,590 --> 00:47:39,850 have enough problems on this planet be 1166 00:47:37,690 --> 00:47:42,190 different be a person who makes a 1167 00:47:39,850 --> 00:47:45,190 difference be a person who makes a 1168 00:47:42,190 --> 00:47:47,810 change for good be a person who has an 1169 00:47:45,190 --> 00:47:51,760 impact on the world 1170 00:47:47,810 --> 00:47:55,160 stop denying the world of your greatness 1171 00:47:51,760 --> 00:47:56,530 you need to see every single day as a 1172 00:47:55,160 --> 00:47:59,780 bank account 1173 00:47:56,530 --> 00:48:02,870 nobody is poor nobody is rich 1174 00:47:59,780 --> 00:48:05,720 everyone has 24 hours each and how you 1175 00:48:02,870 --> 00:48:10,400 spend your balance each day will decide 1176 00:48:05,720 --> 00:48:13,310 who you become spend your time wisely 1177 00:48:10,400 --> 00:48:17,660 do not waste it on things out of your 1178 00:48:13,310 --> 00:48:19,580 control be prepared for a lot of 1179 00:48:17,660 --> 00:48:21,500 rejection whether it's in their personal 1180 00:48:19,580 --> 00:48:22,880 life that someone says you're too old 1181 00:48:21,500 --> 00:48:24,950 you're too fat you're too young you're 1182 00:48:22,880 --> 00:48:26,450 not going to do anything other than yes 1183 00:48:24,950 --> 00:48:27,590 you've got holes in your nose you got 1184 00:48:26,450 --> 00:48:29,360 these coming out your ears 1185 00:48:27,590 --> 00:48:31,340 whatever is other than yes this is 1186 00:48:29,360 --> 00:48:33,950 wonderful realize this can happen in 1187 00:48:31,340 --> 00:48:35,870 life as soon as people know that when 1188 00:48:33,950 --> 00:48:40,060 something goes wrong they look at a 1189 00:48:35,870 --> 00:48:40,060 piece of paper oh yeah that reminds me 1190 00:48:40,300 --> 00:48:45,920 but the best thing that happened to me 1191 00:48:42,380 --> 00:48:48,140 no one helped me no one felt sorry for 1192 00:48:45,920 --> 00:48:50,420 me no one looked at me and said like 1193 00:48:48,140 --> 00:48:52,280 this day and age though they'll take you 1194 00:48:50,420 --> 00:48:55,880 in and it'll tell you bye stop picking 1195 00:48:52,280 --> 00:48:57,440 on this person back then any care the 1196 00:48:55,880 --> 00:48:59,600 only person that's to turn this person 1197 00:48:57,440 --> 00:49:01,970 around it's me you don't reckon 1198 00:48:59,600 --> 00:49:04,970 turnaround is put myself through the 1199 00:49:01,970 --> 00:49:07,130 worst things possible a human being 1200 00:49:04,970 --> 00:49:10,010 could ever endure and I'd be the only 1201 00:49:07,130 --> 00:49:11,600 way that I can build this brain to 1202 00:49:10,010 --> 00:49:13,910 handle anything that comes in front of 1203 00:49:11,600 --> 00:49:16,380 him callus in my mind through pain and 1204 00:49:13,910 --> 00:49:18,450 suffering 1205 00:49:16,380 --> 00:49:20,640 don't be afraid to step up to your fears 1206 00:49:18,450 --> 00:49:22,769 don't be afraid to even become your 1207 00:49:20,640 --> 00:49:24,779 fears take this opportunity now to be 1208 00:49:22,769 --> 00:49:27,089 worthy of the success you want to be the 1209 00:49:24,779 --> 00:49:29,039 person that you admire someone who takes 1210 00:49:27,089 --> 00:49:31,109 extra steps to be more than they could 1211 00:49:29,039 --> 00:49:34,250 ever imagine those extra steps putting 1212 00:49:31,109 --> 00:49:34,250 in those extra hours 1213 00:49:35,080 --> 00:49:41,680 as humans we we want to find out how to 1214 00:49:38,320 --> 00:49:44,710 be someone else what we don't do is we 1215 00:49:41,680 --> 00:49:46,930 don't go inside so literally turn 1216 00:49:44,710 --> 00:49:48,220 yourself inside out read the book that 1217 00:49:46,930 --> 00:49:50,320 says like like we're writing a book 1218 00:49:48,220 --> 00:49:52,540 every day for life but we never read 1219 00:49:50,320 --> 00:49:54,070 that book so what I would challenge this 1220 00:49:52,540 --> 00:49:56,590 young man or or you don't want me to do 1221 00:49:54,070 --> 00:49:58,060 is you have to look inside of here so if 1222 00:49:56,590 --> 00:50:00,040 you see what you really want what are 1223 00:49:58,060 --> 00:50:02,230 you passionate about we use these words 1224 00:50:00,040 --> 00:50:04,480 and these little phrases of only the 1225 00:50:02,230 --> 00:50:10,890 strong survive and also the crap they're 1226 00:50:04,480 --> 00:50:13,930 all just fucking words take this as your 1227 00:50:10,890 --> 00:50:17,710 opportunity to change your life for the 1228 00:50:13,930 --> 00:50:20,530 better to enjoy the life you deserve to 1229 00:50:17,710 --> 00:50:23,740 have the future you've worked for the 1230 00:50:20,530 --> 00:50:26,530 future you know you can have use this as 1231 00:50:23,740 --> 00:50:30,940 a tool a tool to motivate your life 1232 00:50:26,530 --> 00:50:31,810 through your success this is where it 1233 00:50:30,940 --> 00:50:34,420 all starts 1234 00:50:31,810 --> 00:50:37,990 kick off your life in the direction that 1235 00:50:34,420 --> 00:50:40,750 pushes you towards a life a life where 1236 00:50:37,990 --> 00:50:42,570 you can take control make sure you know 1237 00:50:40,750 --> 00:50:46,030 which direction you're headed in 1238 00:50:42,570 --> 00:50:49,530 organize your world in your favor your 1239 00:50:46,030 --> 00:50:52,620 favor for your purpose for your future 1240 00:50:49,530 --> 00:50:56,070 this is the opening to take you towards 1241 00:50:52,620 --> 00:50:58,580 a life full of success you have this 1242 00:50:56,070 --> 00:51:03,780 control you have always had this power 1243 00:50:58,580 --> 00:51:06,660 unleash the animal the only way you're 1244 00:51:03,780 --> 00:51:09,960 ever going to get to the other side of 1245 00:51:06,660 --> 00:51:15,750 this journey is you have got to suffer 1246 00:51:09,960 --> 00:51:17,700 to grow to grow you must suffer and some 1247 00:51:15,750 --> 00:51:19,230 people will get it something wrong but 1248 00:51:17,700 --> 00:51:20,700 they have to see what their journey is 1249 00:51:19,230 --> 00:51:22,260 to start their journey several people 1250 00:51:20,700 --> 00:51:23,550 live to be 100 years old 1251 00:51:22,260 --> 00:51:25,230 they have great lives and they have 1252 00:51:23,550 --> 00:51:27,150 great kids the kids go to college long 1253 00:51:25,230 --> 00:51:29,730 sort of stuff but somewhere in their 1254 00:51:27,150 --> 00:51:32,640 life there was a point where they had a 1255 00:51:29,730 --> 00:51:35,510 decision to make they can go left or 1256 00:51:32,640 --> 00:51:35,510 right on this path 1257 00:51:36,440 --> 00:51:41,010 left was the easy route right was a hard 1258 00:51:39,589 --> 00:51:44,630 rock 1259 00:51:41,010 --> 00:51:47,280 [Music] 1260 00:51:44,630 --> 00:51:48,990 allows you to take the easy route and 1261 00:51:47,280 --> 00:51:50,940 they had a good life that way 1262 00:51:48,990 --> 00:51:54,540 but the better life was going to the 1263 00:51:50,940 --> 00:51:57,060 right side and you may have 20 years of 1264 00:51:54,540 --> 00:51:59,040 pain and suffering to get past it but a 1265 00:51:57,060 --> 00:52:02,220 lot of us die never truly starting our 1266 00:51:59,040 --> 00:52:03,840 journey and I would tell this to a 1267 00:52:02,220 --> 00:52:06,840 person you got to start your journey it 1268 00:52:03,840 --> 00:52:08,220 may suck but it will it will come out 1269 00:52:06,840 --> 00:52:10,080 the other side where you're coasting 1270 00:52:08,220 --> 00:52:14,340 just keep doing the right thing and the 1271 00:52:10,080 --> 00:52:19,290 good thing it'll happen the reason 1272 00:52:14,340 --> 00:52:22,850 people change is because of pain my 1273 00:52:19,290 --> 00:52:29,700 relationship with pain runs deep and 1274 00:52:22,850 --> 00:52:33,920 it's complicated on the one hand I love 1275 00:52:29,700 --> 00:52:37,830 pain I love trying to push the outer 1276 00:52:33,920 --> 00:52:41,940 edges of envelope of what the pain 1277 00:52:37,830 --> 00:52:45,000 experience is in a physical sense and 1278 00:52:41,940 --> 00:52:47,190 it's also been my greatest teacher in 1279 00:52:45,000 --> 00:52:50,220 terms of things that I've accomplished 1280 00:52:47,190 --> 00:52:52,350 but also my errant ways as well 1281 00:52:50,220 --> 00:52:57,870 pain is truly the only thing that's ever 1282 00:52:52,350 --> 00:53:00,030 gotten me to change so it's been my 1283 00:52:57,870 --> 00:53:05,010 growth accelerator as well as my 1284 00:53:00,030 --> 00:53:06,390 reminder of when I've gone astray okay 1285 00:53:05,010 --> 00:53:08,130 so there's a difference between pain and 1286 00:53:06,390 --> 00:53:10,620 suffering there's a difference between 1287 00:53:08,130 --> 00:53:13,830 there were we're all suffering we all 1288 00:53:10,620 --> 00:53:16,590 have suffering we all have an emptiness 1289 00:53:13,830 --> 00:53:18,450 or a dark place or corners inside of our 1290 00:53:16,590 --> 00:53:20,580 spirit in our mind that are not 1291 00:53:18,450 --> 00:53:23,580 fulfilled and watered and full like we 1292 00:53:20,580 --> 00:53:25,290 all can relate to that and when I'm 1293 00:53:23,580 --> 00:53:27,570 talking about pain I'm not necessarily 1294 00:53:25,290 --> 00:53:29,910 talking about suffering but 1295 00:53:27,570 --> 00:53:32,190 acknowledging our suffering being in 1296 00:53:29,910 --> 00:53:34,440 touch with the pain that's enough to say 1297 00:53:32,190 --> 00:53:35,720 when you're really honest that's enough 1298 00:53:34,440 --> 00:53:38,510 to say I 1299 00:53:35,720 --> 00:53:40,819 I don't want to do the same like this is 1300 00:53:38,510 --> 00:53:43,400 not the person I want to become and be 1301 00:53:40,819 --> 00:53:45,680 on a regular basis if that's the case if 1302 00:53:43,400 --> 00:53:48,430 that assumption is right then as a loved 1303 00:53:45,680 --> 00:53:51,710 one my job is to help you get real and 1304 00:53:48,430 --> 00:53:55,250 experience those places as often as you 1305 00:53:51,710 --> 00:53:58,190 can so that you make the declaration to 1306 00:53:55,250 --> 00:54:02,260 say no no no that's not okay for me to 1307 00:53:58,190 --> 00:54:05,450 feel and be this way on a regular basis 1308 00:54:02,260 --> 00:54:08,660 you know we're so conditioned to avoid 1309 00:54:05,450 --> 00:54:10,670 pain every message that we see every 1310 00:54:08,660 --> 00:54:13,809 billboard we see every advertisement 1311 00:54:10,670 --> 00:54:16,220 that we're exposed to is telling us that 1312 00:54:13,809 --> 00:54:19,880 happiness can be can be purchased 1313 00:54:16,220 --> 00:54:22,789 through comfort luxury through ease and 1314 00:54:19,880 --> 00:54:25,190 that's sort of implicit in that is that 1315 00:54:22,789 --> 00:54:27,380 that's how we find happiness and I can 1316 00:54:25,190 --> 00:54:29,930 tell you that I'm happiest and most 1317 00:54:27,380 --> 00:54:32,599 alive when I'm butting up against the 1318 00:54:29,930 --> 00:54:35,450 outer edges of my pain threshold and I'm 1319 00:54:32,599 --> 00:54:38,089 not afraid of it and so when I start to 1320 00:54:35,450 --> 00:54:39,859 feel that sensation rather than shirk 1321 00:54:38,089 --> 00:54:44,510 away from it I realize that's an 1322 00:54:39,859 --> 00:54:48,470 opportunity to experience a heightened 1323 00:54:44,510 --> 00:54:51,920 sense of myself in my environment to 1324 00:54:48,470 --> 00:54:54,500 really be in a position where everything 1325 00:54:51,920 --> 00:54:57,460 else falls away and it's just you and 1326 00:54:54,500 --> 00:55:01,069 your ability to take one step forward 1327 00:54:57,460 --> 00:55:03,740 there's a purity to that that again 1328 00:55:01,069 --> 00:55:06,079 isn't another great feature and so in 1329 00:55:03,740 --> 00:55:08,569 terms of techniques I've just learned 1330 00:55:06,079 --> 00:55:11,569 through experience that just like David 1331 00:55:08,569 --> 00:55:14,390 Goggin says when the signals that you're 1332 00:55:11,569 --> 00:55:15,650 receiving are telling you to stop that 1333 00:55:14,390 --> 00:55:17,420 you don't necessarily have to pay 1334 00:55:15,650 --> 00:55:21,170 attention to that that that you are 1335 00:55:17,420 --> 00:55:24,859 capable of so much more if you can 1336 00:55:21,170 --> 00:55:27,440 develop the acuity the presence of mind 1337 00:55:24,859 --> 00:55:29,539 and the wherewithal to then take that 1338 00:55:27,440 --> 00:55:31,940 next step and when you're on the other 1339 00:55:29,539 --> 00:55:34,279 side of it to realize you're still okay 1340 00:55:31,940 --> 00:55:37,369 and you can take another step and a 1341 00:55:34,279 --> 00:55:38,930 whole your horizon extends and you 1342 00:55:37,369 --> 00:55:41,630 realize that there's a whole world of 1343 00:55:38,930 --> 00:55:44,910 potential and possibility available to 1344 00:55:41,630 --> 00:55:53,480 you that you weren't previously aware of 1345 00:55:44,910 --> 00:55:56,490 [Music] 1346 00:55:53,480 --> 00:55:59,670 never should never exist in your world 1347 00:55:56,490 --> 00:56:02,250 if you want to improve if you can see 1348 00:55:59,670 --> 00:56:05,460 yourself being better never should even 1349 00:56:02,250 --> 00:56:07,800 be in the picture you have the power to 1350 00:56:05,460 --> 00:56:10,110 do anything possible the power to 1351 00:56:07,800 --> 00:56:13,440 transform into somebody capable of 1352 00:56:10,110 --> 00:56:16,470 anything you can imagine this this is 1353 00:56:13,440 --> 00:56:22,170 the power you deserve let your success 1354 00:56:16,470 --> 00:56:24,540 let your mindset be the beginning the 1355 00:56:22,170 --> 00:56:26,730 journey doesn't in here this journey 1356 00:56:24,540 --> 00:56:29,250 doesn't end when the Sun goes up when 1357 00:56:26,730 --> 00:56:31,620 the sun goes down it doesn't end when 1358 00:56:29,250 --> 00:56:33,930 you close your eyes doesn't end for one 1359 00:56:31,620 --> 00:56:39,780 second because hard work waits for 1360 00:56:33,930 --> 00:56:41,430 nobody let yourself be heard let your 1361 00:56:39,780 --> 00:56:44,130 power speak for itself 1362 00:56:41,430 --> 00:56:46,470 let your beginning be the potential to 1363 00:56:44,130 --> 00:56:48,780 take you further and further along your 1364 00:56:46,470 --> 00:56:51,360 path to success you are the only 1365 00:56:48,780 --> 00:56:54,420 inspiration you need you are the only 1366 00:56:51,360 --> 00:56:57,510 force it takes to be someone more to 1367 00:56:54,420 --> 00:57:00,120 have so much more remember your worth as 1368 00:56:57,510 --> 00:57:02,490 a person remember the possibilities of 1369 00:57:00,120 --> 00:57:05,880 your power the fruitful future that 1370 00:57:02,490 --> 00:57:08,430 lingers over your shoulders this is 1371 00:57:05,880 --> 00:57:10,740 where you never say never never say 1372 00:57:08,430 --> 00:57:13,710 never to any possibility to any 1373 00:57:10,740 --> 00:57:17,850 opportunity to any mistakes to any fear 1374 00:57:13,710 --> 00:57:20,140 you say yes this this is the only way to 1375 00:57:17,850 --> 00:57:23,440 grow 1376 00:57:20,140 --> 00:57:25,060 I think that that most people set the 1377 00:57:23,440 --> 00:57:26,530 wrong goals for themselves and it's 1378 00:57:25,060 --> 00:57:28,450 because they're disconnected from who 1379 00:57:26,530 --> 00:57:30,160 they are they are living someone else's 1380 00:57:28,450 --> 00:57:32,500 life or they're living a life that's so 1381 00:57:30,160 --> 00:57:34,030 disconnected from who they are it 1382 00:57:32,500 --> 00:57:37,690 becomes very difficult to set the right 1383 00:57:34,030 --> 00:57:40,990 goal so I think in order to reconcile 1384 00:57:37,690 --> 00:57:42,460 that you have to look inward you know 1385 00:57:40,990 --> 00:57:44,650 and that can be different for everybody 1386 00:57:42,460 --> 00:57:46,510 that can mean a consistent meditation 1387 00:57:44,650 --> 00:57:50,770 practice that can mean therapy that can 1388 00:57:46,510 --> 00:57:54,160 mean you know starting to do yoga 1389 00:57:50,770 --> 00:57:59,920 it can mean many many things but I think 1390 00:57:54,160 --> 00:58:03,550 there's no and run around the very 1391 00:57:59,920 --> 00:58:06,100 difficult long process of really trying 1392 00:58:03,550 --> 00:58:08,800 to be honest with yourself about who you 1393 00:58:06,100 --> 00:58:11,530 are what's important to you what you 1394 00:58:08,800 --> 00:58:14,860 care about and then beginning to breathe 1395 00:58:11,530 --> 00:58:19,090 life into those things as frivolous as 1396 00:58:14,860 --> 00:58:20,770 they may seem to bring expression to the 1397 00:58:19,090 --> 00:58:23,230 things that that you do care about that 1398 00:58:20,770 --> 00:58:24,640 that that get you excited in the morning 1399 00:58:23,230 --> 00:58:28,770 and that doesn't mean you quit your job 1400 00:58:24,640 --> 00:58:31,870 tomorrow but the more you can foster 1401 00:58:28,770 --> 00:58:35,440 something that has personal importance 1402 00:58:31,870 --> 00:58:37,250 to you I think that's the first step in 1403 00:58:35,440 --> 00:58:40,530 trying to 1404 00:58:37,250 --> 00:58:41,280 move past whatever it is that's holding 1405 00:58:40,530 --> 00:58:42,599 you back 1406 00:58:41,280 --> 00:58:45,900 whether it's professionally or 1407 00:58:42,599 --> 00:58:49,790 personally to being a more integrated 1408 00:58:45,900 --> 00:58:49,790 authentic version of yourself 1409 00:58:51,700 --> 00:58:57,740 let this be the moment you remember 1410 00:58:54,860 --> 00:59:00,950 show yourself as the rocket in your own 1411 00:58:57,740 --> 00:59:03,140 life this is the journey you're on you 1412 00:59:00,950 --> 00:59:05,270 control the progress you make you 1413 00:59:03,140 --> 00:59:06,860 strengthen the path that transforms you 1414 00:59:05,270 --> 00:59:09,050 into the person you've been waiting to 1415 00:59:06,860 --> 00:59:11,930 become the person that allows you to 1416 00:59:09,050 --> 00:59:14,330 become someone new you have the skills 1417 00:59:11,930 --> 00:59:16,520 to be bold the strengths to grow faster 1418 00:59:14,330 --> 00:59:19,040 the power to be stronger the journey 1419 00:59:16,520 --> 00:59:21,950 you've waited for is here here for you 1420 00:59:19,040 --> 00:59:24,170 to be something better this is the 1421 00:59:21,950 --> 00:59:26,800 opportunity in front of you this is your 1422 00:59:24,170 --> 00:59:29,360 future staring at you face to face 1423 00:59:26,800 --> 00:59:32,840 waiting for the power to be granted to 1424 00:59:29,360 --> 00:59:35,420 you your power is welcomed welcomed by 1425 00:59:32,840 --> 00:59:39,020 your progress your progress that guide 1426 00:59:35,420 --> 00:59:41,510 you towards your future be someone you 1427 00:59:39,020 --> 00:59:44,420 can take pride in become someone you 1428 00:59:41,510 --> 00:59:47,260 know that you can become this is the 1429 00:59:44,420 --> 00:59:50,690 journey you have the journey you're on 1430 00:59:47,260 --> 00:59:53,060 take the first step towards success take 1431 00:59:50,690 --> 00:59:56,030 the first movie of faith into the risks 1432 00:59:53,060 --> 00:59:58,790 of your life push past the limits move 1433 00:59:56,030 --> 01:00:03,910 toward a future you can imagine a future 1434 00:59:58,790 --> 01:00:03,910 use design this is your power 1435 01:00:06,250 --> 01:00:11,690 self-reliance is everything don't don't 1436 01:00:09,740 --> 01:00:13,880 expect anybody to do anything for you 1437 01:00:11,690 --> 01:00:15,530 I'm the only one who can get it done and 1438 01:00:13,880 --> 01:00:18,560 if you just buckle down and go the extra 1439 01:00:15,530 --> 01:00:21,700 mile you will solve the problem and you 1440 01:00:18,560 --> 01:00:21,700 will make your way in the world 1441 01:00:23,020 --> 01:00:28,670 you know we all have a unique song and I 1442 01:00:26,330 --> 01:00:31,220 think most people to echo the words of 1443 01:00:28,670 --> 01:00:33,560 Henry David Thoreau are leading lives of 1444 01:00:31,220 --> 01:00:35,270 quiet desperation and go to the grave 1445 01:00:33,560 --> 01:00:37,480 with the song still in them and I find 1446 01:00:35,270 --> 01:00:42,020 that tragic and so if there's anything 1447 01:00:37,480 --> 01:00:44,360 that that that my work is about it's 1448 01:00:42,020 --> 01:00:46,820 about helping people become cognizant of 1449 01:00:44,360 --> 01:00:50,090 that and to take action so that they 1450 01:00:46,820 --> 01:00:52,670 don't become that person leading a life 1451 01:00:50,090 --> 01:00:54,380 of quiet desperation which I think I 1452 01:00:52,670 --> 01:00:57,110 don't know I wouldn't want to say most 1453 01:00:54,380 --> 01:01:00,040 people but a lot of people are and I 1454 01:00:57,110 --> 01:01:00,040 found out heartbreaking 1455 01:01:02,370 --> 01:01:06,090 you know what's your major malfunction 1456 01:01:03,990 --> 01:01:08,700 right now what's the thing that keeps 1457 01:01:06,090 --> 01:01:11,670 you up at night do you resent the most 1458 01:01:08,700 --> 01:01:12,930 what are you afraid of what do you want 1459 01:01:11,670 --> 01:01:14,250 to achieve what's in it 1460 01:01:12,930 --> 01:01:16,200 what's in it what do you think is in 1461 01:01:14,250 --> 01:01:21,360 your way you know I think just by asking 1462 01:01:16,200 --> 01:01:25,650 people questions and and and and then 1463 01:01:21,360 --> 01:01:29,220 holding a vision for that better life 1464 01:01:25,650 --> 01:01:30,600 for them to say I believe in you I'm not 1465 01:01:29,220 --> 01:01:33,420 here to tell you what to do or how to 1466 01:01:30,600 --> 01:01:35,820 live your life but I believe in your 1467 01:01:33,420 --> 01:01:36,890 greatest expression and I'm gonna hold 1468 01:01:35,820 --> 01:01:39,810 space for you 1469 01:01:36,890 --> 01:01:41,850 to give people permission to be honest 1470 01:01:39,810 --> 01:01:43,760 to be vulnerable we're so afraid of 1471 01:01:41,850 --> 01:01:47,760 being vulnerable 1472 01:01:43,760 --> 01:01:49,770 we're terrified of being honest we're so 1473 01:01:47,760 --> 01:01:52,860 used to being judged and being held to a 1474 01:01:49,770 --> 01:01:54,330 standard that society sets for us that 1475 01:01:52,860 --> 01:01:56,130 we don't give ourselves permission to 1476 01:01:54,330 --> 01:01:58,790 even ask these questions let alone 1477 01:01:56,130 --> 01:01:58,790 answer them 1478 01:01:59,680 --> 01:02:04,839 what have you done today to be different 1479 01:02:02,400 --> 01:02:06,390 what have you done to step outside the 1480 01:02:04,839 --> 01:02:09,069 conventions that you set for yourself 1481 01:02:06,390 --> 01:02:12,460 the conventions and the rules set by 1482 01:02:09,069 --> 01:02:14,770 your past today you have the power to 1483 01:02:12,460 --> 01:02:16,690 move on today you have the power to move 1484 01:02:14,770 --> 01:02:19,710 away from your past and move towards a 1485 01:02:16,690 --> 01:02:19,710 successful future 1486 01:02:21,520 --> 01:02:26,210 this is your decision your call to make 1487 01:02:24,859 --> 01:02:28,160 in your future 1488 01:02:26,210 --> 01:02:30,049 this is how your life can gain its own 1489 01:02:28,160 --> 01:02:32,869 direction and this is where your life 1490 01:02:30,049 --> 01:02:35,420 can be so much more so much better you 1491 01:02:32,869 --> 01:02:37,460 can make it better you have always had 1492 01:02:35,420 --> 01:02:39,799 the potential to take one more step the 1493 01:02:37,460 --> 01:02:41,780 potential to take the risks others are 1494 01:02:39,799 --> 01:02:44,180 too scared to take because you are more 1495 01:02:41,780 --> 01:02:46,640 and you are stronger and you have the 1496 01:02:44,180 --> 01:02:49,089 determination and the courage to be so 1497 01:02:46,640 --> 01:02:49,089 much more