0:00:00.000,0:00:05.339 we become what we think about focus on 0:00:02.820,0:00:07.350 what you want rather than focusing on 0:00:05.339,0:00:10.290 what you don't want so who do you want 0:00:07.350,0:00:15.570 to be you know why why did why are you 0:00:10.290,0:00:19.380 here on this planet you live according 0:00:15.570,0:00:21.449 to the principles of love compassion you 0:00:19.380,0:00:24.900 know appreciative joy you know 0:00:21.449,0:00:28.199 celebrating other people's successes but 0:00:24.900,0:00:31.230 how do you overcome hatred and confusion 0:00:28.199,0:00:33.300 and just having a good heart then I 0:00:31.230,0:00:35.309 think that's what happened to me then I 0:00:33.300,0:00:37.260 start to get clear about what what I 0:00:35.309,0:00:41.430 like to do and how I can be of service 0:00:37.260,0:00:44.040 how can I help other people that we were 0:00:41.430,0:00:45.870 wired for success but it's how we relate 0:00:44.040,0:00:49.680 to our experience that determines 0:00:45.870,0:00:52.920 whether we're chipping away or we're you 0:00:49.680,0:00:58.770 know kind of burying that sense of 0:00:52.920,0:01:01.379 wholeness that we that were born with it 0:00:58.770,0:01:03.660 just that we forget it we don't look 0:01:01.379,0:01:05.549 inside we're looking outside and so 0:01:03.660,0:01:07.619 unless we're still and we think about it 0:01:05.549,0:01:09.900 and we understand that I was born with 0:01:07.619,0:01:12.600 this masterpieces no one can give it to 0:01:09.900,0:01:15.960 me or take it away it's it's an inside 0:01:12.600,0:01:18.600 job and so if I look at what's right it 0:01:15.960,0:01:20.220 just it makes makes a lot of sense so 0:01:18.600,0:01:23.549 it's whether you're coming from a place 0:01:20.220,0:01:25.500 of scarcity or I would say survival mode 0:01:23.549,0:01:28.530 or coming from growth mode which has to 0:01:25.500,0:01:31.439 do with yes I can't yes to life and I I 0:01:28.530,0:01:34.500 have the capacity and the responsibility 0:01:31.439,0:01:37.320 to make it different but to make it make 0:01:34.500,0:01:39.420 it better having that faith that 0:01:37.320,0:01:42.450 vulnerability that just see things that 0:01:39.420,0:01:45.270 are hard to see gotta get comfortable 0:01:42.450,0:01:46.620 being uncomfortable so can you handle 0:01:45.270,0:01:49.140 the truth 0:01:46.620,0:01:50.670 it's a question and if you can't then 0:01:49.140,0:01:52.440 you if you see that that you can say 0:01:50.670,0:01:54.870 well is if I'm going to change I'm gonna 0:01:52.440,0:01:57.510 have to figure out how to deal with that 0:01:54.870,0:01:59.490 discomfort until the point that I can 0:01:57.510,0:02:01.620 see what I need to see then I can change 0:01:59.490,0:02:05.010 it so as the persistence of continuing 0:02:01.620,0:02:07.770 to do something that you can do it is is 0:02:05.010,0:02:09.750 most of the work this is just continuing 0:02:07.770,0:02:13.050 to make mistakes learn from mistakes but 0:02:09.750,0:02:15.930 the mistakes are viewed as feedback not 0:02:13.050,0:02:18.930 as I'm a failure it's just an event now 0:02:15.930,0:02:20.580 who we are so that error correction is 0:02:18.930,0:02:22.500 really important and when you can see 0:02:20.580,0:02:25.440 when you attributed this something you 0:02:22.500,0:02:28.230 can learn or change now you've got faith 0:02:25.440,0:02:29.910 and confidence to do it versus if you're 0:02:28.230,0:02:31.680 seeing it like oh I'm just not strong 0:02:29.910,0:02:34.800 enough I'm not tall enough and all of 0:02:31.680,0:02:36.270 that that's just that's what I call the 0:02:34.800,0:02:38.550 negative committee telling you you can't 0:02:36.270,0:02:39.990 do anything rather than saying well let 0:02:38.550,0:02:41.670 me see what can i what I can do 0:02:39.990,0:02:45.650 so it's like a child learn how to walk 0:02:41.670,0:02:48.750 right same thing your life can change 0:02:45.650,0:02:52.950 your life can be more than just a place 0:02:48.750,0:02:56.190 it can be your future your success this 0:02:52.950,0:02:58.620 change this change takes courage it 0:02:56.190,0:03:00.930 takes courage to stand up and break down 0:02:58.620,0:03:02.340 the aspects of your life that you know 0:03:00.930,0:03:06.239 is holding you back 0:03:02.340,0:03:09.020 let your progress be idolized let it 0:03:06.239,0:03:09.020 speak for itself 0:03:10.010,0:03:16.359 [Music] 0:03:13.959,0:03:17.950 average becomes sort of like this slow 0:03:16.359,0:03:20.230 asphyxiation it's almost like an 0:03:17.950,0:03:22.150 anesthetic and that overtime would 0:03:20.230,0:03:23.680 become kind of immune and dulled to the 0:03:22.150,0:03:25.180 average that we're becoming I know this 0:03:23.680,0:03:27.129 is true at least for me you probably 0:03:25.180,0:03:29.290 experienced it yourself too and so over 0:03:27.129,0:03:30.909 time we sort of minimize where we're at 0:03:29.290,0:03:32.829 in other words I'm a little pudgy 0:03:30.909,0:03:35.230 instead of being know your fat ass right 0:03:32.829,0:03:37.180 you know you don't magnify the degree to 0:03:35.230,0:03:38.829 which the pain ought to be affecting you 0:03:37.180,0:03:40.629 and so really what he means on that is 0:03:38.829,0:03:42.099 listen you're gonna get out of your life 0:03:40.629,0:03:43.209 what you'll accept that's really 0:03:42.099,0:03:44.500 difficult for people I think to 0:03:43.209,0:03:46.030 understand is look what you think you're 0:03:44.500,0:03:47.560 worth and what you're gonna tolerate is 0:03:46.030,0:03:49.510 absolutely what you're gonna bring into 0:03:47.560,0:03:50.829 your life and what the outward part of 0:03:49.510,0:03:53.650 your life is gonna look like and so I 0:03:50.829,0:03:56.549 live by that like I let myself sort of 0:03:53.650,0:03:58.629 feel the pain and the difficulty of 0:03:56.549,0:03:59.650 being not where I want to be in whatever 0:03:58.629,0:04:02.139 that areas were those would be my 0:03:59.650,0:04:04.209 spirituality my relationships my money I 0:04:02.139,0:04:05.349 let myself feel that pain because as you 0:04:04.209,0:04:07.299 know there's two motivators right 0:04:05.349,0:04:08.980 there's the gaining of pleasure right 0:04:07.299,0:04:10.959 wanting to go get something chasing the 0:04:08.980,0:04:13.599 dream but then there's the avoidance of 0:04:10.959,0:04:15.579 pain and for a lot of champions that's a 0:04:13.599,0:04:17.650 pretty big driving force for them and so 0:04:15.579,0:04:19.299 at least for me I I leveraged both of 0:04:17.650,0:04:22.840 those things on me to get myself to take 0:04:19.299,0:04:26.979 action one of the reasons I'm relatively 0:04:22.840,0:04:28.570 fit is not just peak State I have an 0:04:26.979,0:04:29.680 uncle and my family that died at 50 0:04:28.570,0:04:31.659 years old of a heart attacks my 0:04:29.680,0:04:34.630 godfather my dad's only brother I kind 0:04:31.659,0:04:37.479 of resemble him and I look like a plan 0:04:34.630,0:04:39.909 so on the way back from his funeral my 0:04:37.479,0:04:41.530 reticular activating art attacks on the 0:04:39.909,0:04:43.120 TV screen on the airplane I listen to 0:04:41.530,0:04:45.009 music is the Oprah Winfrey Show she's 0:04:43.120,0:04:46.809 going through a new heart scan 0:04:45.009,0:04:49.270 I've unplugged my headphones plug into 0:04:46.809,0:04:51.460 this airplane one I scheduled it I went 0:04:49.270,0:04:53.110 in I had a world-class doctor who 0:04:51.460,0:04:54.550 understood reasons and levers instead of 0:04:53.110,0:04:55.659 just prescribing coolant only coach well 0:04:54.550,0:04:57.279 you need to do this you need to do this 0:04:55.659,0:04:57.699 like doctors do it take his pill take 0:04:57.279,0:05:00.789 this 0:04:57.699,0:05:01.930 he understood leverage and reasons what 0:05:00.789,0:05:03.969 you do is to take the scan then you go 0:05:01.930,0:05:06.610 to lunch you come back I took the scan I 0:05:03.969,0:05:08.680 went those I had a burrito I came back 0:05:06.610,0:05:12.419 and I'm in the LA when I walk in I sit 0:05:08.680,0:05:12.419 down the doctor comes up and he says 0:05:13.380,0:05:20.970 oh my I can't believe these arteries are 0:05:17.190,0:05:22.620 in that young body got my attention we 0:05:20.970,0:05:24.990 walk back in we sit down he could still 0:05:22.620,0:05:26.220 go you need Crestor eat clean get out of 0:05:24.990,0:05:28.950 here is know what an average doctor does 0:05:26.220,0:05:30.720 right No wired me with huge reasons he 0:05:28.950,0:05:31.950 goes let me ask you a question I heard 0:05:30.720,0:05:33.930 your wife's pregnant you have I said I 0:05:31.950,0:05:34.950 have a son and he says do you want to be 0:05:33.930,0:05:37.590 there when he graduates from high school 0:05:34.950,0:05:39.900 to be there for that day I said yes sir 0:05:37.590,0:05:41.190 yeah he goes your wife's pregnant what 0:05:39.900,0:05:43.230 do you have it I said a daughter this is 0:05:41.190,0:05:45.270 where you get a dad he goes she was six 0:05:43.230,0:05:46.560 months pregnant he goes do you um would 0:05:45.270,0:05:48.000 you like to walk her down the aisle on 0:05:46.560,0:05:49.790 her wedding day are you okay that it's 0:05:48.000,0:05:57.200 some other man 0:05:49.790,0:05:58.790 I went what the zahn this skin right 0:05:57.200,0:06:00.050 like and he goes I want to be very clear 0:05:58.790,0:06:01.820 with you if you keep going down the road 0:06:00.050,0:06:03.590 you're going there'll be some other man 0:06:01.820,0:06:05.570 with your son at graduation high school 0:06:03.590,0:06:06.860 and a strangers walking your daughter 0:06:05.570,0:06:09.380 down the aisle that's not even born yet 0:06:06.860,0:06:11.180 on her wedding day and I went to him and 0:06:09.380,0:06:14.060 he goes but if you do exactly what I 0:06:11.180,0:06:16.040 tell you to do you'll be there and so to 0:06:14.060,0:06:17.390 this day brother there are mornings when 0:06:16.040,0:06:18.730 I wake up not every morning I don't want 0:06:17.390,0:06:21.710 to go to the gym I go Bella's wedding 0:06:18.730,0:06:23.900 Bella's wedding Bella's wedding so my 0:06:21.710,0:06:26.120 standards are high because of my big old 0:06:23.900,0:06:27.260 reasons other dudes may miss the gym 0:06:26.120,0:06:28.520 that day cuz they're not gonna miss 0:06:27.260,0:06:30.590 their daughter's wedding if they don't 0:06:28.520,0:06:33.040 go but I've convinced myself I will get 0:06:30.590,0:06:33.040 emotional 0:06:33.800,0:06:37.550 I've convinced myself on this my 0:06:35.659,0:06:39.050 daughter's wedding so I will get my ass 0:06:37.550,0:06:40.580 out of bed at 4 o'clock in the morning 0:06:39.050,0:06:42.620 and I will get to that gym because my 0:06:40.580,0:06:45.379 reasons are bigger so my standards are 0:06:42.620,0:06:49.270 higher so that's what I think causes us 0:06:45.379,0:06:49.270 to have great standards as huge reasons 0:06:49.409,0:06:56.540 when you're inspired by something or 0:06:51.629,0:07:00.890 someone in your life you feel the magic 0:06:56.540,0:07:03.680 now's the time to be the magic what are 0:07:00.890,0:07:07.220 you going to do are you going to let the 0:07:03.680,0:07:09.710 Masters inspire you to feel it or are 0:07:07.220,0:07:11.400 you going to strive to be a master 0:07:09.710,0:07:14.520 [Music] 0:07:11.400,0:07:17.310 it's your choice the magic is waiting 0:07:14.520,0:07:19.250 not only for you just a feeling but so 0:07:17.310,0:07:23.699 be it 0:07:19.250,0:07:26.550 nobody can take this away in your life 0:07:23.699,0:07:28.949 you can't escape anything that goes 0:07:26.550,0:07:30.350 along with life you know we are not 0:07:28.949,0:07:37.220 immune to problems 0:07:30.350,0:07:37.220 drama trauma the tragedy you know we all 0:07:37.699,0:07:42.780 here as human beings so you know when 0:07:41.790,0:07:44.430 you're going through some sort of 0:07:42.780,0:07:46.020 difficulties you know first fighting or 0:07:44.430,0:07:48.600 whatever that difficulty may be you know 0:07:46.020,0:07:51.510 you know we do with within your power in 0:07:48.600,0:07:53.250 terms of how to start slowly you know 0:07:51.510,0:07:56.010 get yourself out of that situation 0:07:53.250,0:07:59.310 and you believe you'd be optimistic 0:07:56.010,0:08:02.430 about you know being negative about a 0:07:59.310,0:08:04.789 situation stand in that place it never 0:08:02.430,0:08:07.050 helps you know it's nothing wrong with 0:08:04.789,0:08:09.120 understanding that place feeling bad 0:08:07.050,0:08:12.510 about it looking at it for what it is 0:08:09.120,0:08:14.130 but don't stay there you've got to get 0:08:12.510,0:08:17.340 back on that other side and start 0:08:14.130,0:08:20.849 looking at the resolved resolution of 0:08:17.340,0:08:23.789 how can I get back to feeling good and 0:08:20.849,0:08:27.320 feeling prosperous again to where I'm 0:08:23.789,0:08:27.320 not dealing with this obstacle 0:08:30.210,0:08:35.219 words are very powerful very powerful so 0:08:33.390,0:08:37.649 the thing is about getting within 0:08:35.219,0:08:39.959 yourself and understand who you are to 0:08:37.649,0:08:41.250 kind of you know what off those negative 0:08:39.959,0:08:43.050 comments that's coming towards my 0:08:41.250,0:08:44.760 virtually always prepared you know you 0:08:43.050,0:08:47.760 have to go for those things in order to 0:08:44.760,0:08:49.350 see it in light of the light at the end 0:08:47.760,0:08:51.720 of the tunnel you know I don't think 0:08:49.350,0:08:53.160 anything is going to just be like this 0:08:51.720,0:08:54.750 throughout your life and then you have 0:08:53.160,0:08:57.570 to go through that difficult overcome 0:08:54.750,0:08:59.070 obstacle because it's a testament of 0:08:57.570,0:09:01.080 your character of who you are in high 0:08:59.070,0:09:03.029 gear to deal with certain things you 0:09:01.080,0:09:07.950 know to get yourself back on it playing 0:09:03.029,0:09:10.589 field everything happened for a reason 0:09:07.950,0:09:12.720 no regrets all the negative things that 0:09:10.589,0:09:14.790 happened I'm thankful for it because I 0:09:12.720,0:09:17.040 learned hopefully I learned from those 0:09:14.790,0:09:20.130 situations and all the positive things 0:09:17.040,0:09:22.770 I'm humbly grateful that those was able 0:09:20.130,0:09:25.140 to take place and still striving to be 0:09:22.770,0:09:27.330 the best I can be and you know going 0:09:25.140,0:09:30.660 forward people didn't care at some kid 0:09:27.330,0:09:33.779 to be the best they could be you know 0:09:30.660,0:09:38.480 anything is possible positive thinking 0:09:33.779,0:09:38.480 is also translating them you know so 0:09:38.850,0:09:44.160 when you have something that's positive 0:09:41.579,0:09:46.380 up there you can be you know the best 0:09:44.160,0:09:48.000 you can be you know any negative out 0:09:46.380,0:09:51.779 there and you could bring down the worst 0:09:48.000,0:09:54.630 person misery loves company misery loves 0:09:51.779,0:09:57.060 company so we are not debbie down as we 0:09:54.630,0:09:59.220 more uplifters you know we always no 0:09:57.060,0:10:02.190 matter what the situation with the 0:09:59.220,0:10:04.949 situation is we're gonna try to look for 0:10:02.190,0:10:10.170 the outcome the better of that situation 0:10:04.949,0:10:12.180 you know if we can't find a resolution 0:10:10.170,0:10:14.279 to get out of it you know we're gonna 0:10:12.180,0:10:16.529 keep on searching the continue to try to 0:10:14.279,0:10:18.810 find a resolution to get out of because 0:10:16.529,0:10:20.220 that's what you do you know that's how 0:10:18.810,0:10:23.639 you get to the bottom of that's how you 0:10:20.220,0:10:25.829 get to the facts of Nass are you willing 0:10:23.639,0:10:28.620 to breath are you willing to be the 0:10:25.829,0:10:31.589 warrior bring your shield bring your 0:10:28.620,0:10:34.050 sword stand up and fight today will be 0:10:31.589,0:10:36.540 the day where you can take control take 0:10:34.050,0:10:39.360 control of your power become this power 0:10:36.540,0:10:42.120 because now is the time to fight you're 0:10:39.360,0:10:45.649 a warrior warriors don't give up and 0:10:42.120,0:10:48.779 they don't back down become the warrior 0:10:45.649,0:10:51.569 transform your life transform yourself 0:10:48.779,0:10:52.560 head out into battle step on to the 0:10:51.569,0:10:55.439 battlefield 0:10:52.560,0:10:58.800 use your weapons to fight through this 0:10:55.439,0:11:02.339 pain fight through the rejection learn 0:10:58.800,0:11:06.120 from the bruises the blood scars because 0:11:02.339,0:11:09.760 this time you can rise to become the 0:11:06.120,0:11:13.780 step on to the Plainfield because now is 0:11:09.760,0:11:18.760 the time to change now is the time to 0:11:13.780,0:11:20.200 rise with the crown on your head you 0:11:18.760,0:11:22.570 know you want to be a little bit better 0:11:20.200,0:11:24.820 in some way tomorrow than you are today 0:11:22.570,0:11:27.550 but it's not gonna be in a linear path 0:11:24.820,0:11:30.850 again these go through cycles of stress 0:11:27.550,0:11:33.330 and recovery so it's just kind of being 0:11:30.850,0:11:36.100 able to surf the flow of that and know 0:11:33.330,0:11:37.780 again it really comes down to balance so 0:11:36.100,0:11:39.940 it's the practices that you need to know 0:11:37.780,0:11:42.610 what to do for sure and then you need to 0:11:39.940,0:11:45.010 know how to apply those things in the 0:11:42.610,0:11:47.560 right way so when you when to push and 0:11:45.010,0:11:49.120 when to take the pressure off the gas as 0:11:47.560,0:11:51.100 well and I think that's really 0:11:49.120,0:11:52.450 understanding that so part of it is the 0:11:51.100,0:11:53.710 knowledge and then part of it is the 0:11:52.450,0:11:56.620 follow-through and then part of it is 0:11:53.710,0:11:58.680 the discipline to know not only when you 0:11:56.620,0:12:02.710 need to go but when you need to rest I 0:11:58.680,0:12:05.430 think it's important to really trust 0:12:02.710,0:12:08.260 that what you're doing is going to work 0:12:05.430,0:12:10.750 what's a day that makes life awesome and 0:12:08.260,0:12:14.140 and makes you again a little bit better 0:12:10.750,0:12:16.690 tomorrow from having done it today you 0:12:14.140,0:12:18.790 have to really do the work like you have 0:12:16.690,0:12:20.320 to back it with hard work you know any 0:12:18.790,0:12:23.380 of you ask Conor McGregor like what's 0:12:20.320,0:12:25.210 the secret to his success hard work hard 0:12:23.380,0:12:27.010 work hard work I don't know if he 0:12:25.210,0:12:28.960 actually worked harder than anybody but 0:12:27.010,0:12:30.280 he believes he does you know he has no 0:12:28.960,0:12:32.980 doubts in his mind that he's actually 0:12:30.280,0:12:34.490 working harder and and that's I think 0:12:32.980,0:12:36.980 important so 0:12:34.490,0:12:38.930 really making sure that you really do 0:12:36.980,0:12:41.390 your best to get the goods you know and 0:12:38.930,0:12:42.770 to in to practice that and go out there 0:12:41.390,0:12:45.020 and put yourself out there and then on 0:12:42.770,0:12:46.399 the other side what is the thing what is 0:12:45.020,0:12:48.529 the antagonist of belief well the 0:12:46.399,0:12:51.320 antagonist of belief is fear you know 0:12:48.529,0:12:52.910 fear is a belief that something negative 0:12:51.320,0:12:54.440 is going to happen rather than something 0:12:52.910,0:12:56.149 positive is going to happen so it's like 0:12:54.440,0:12:58.700 that's on the other side you're almost 0:12:56.149,0:13:00.200 believing in your failure right rather 0:12:58.700,0:13:03.200 than believing in your success so you 0:13:00.200,0:13:05.180 have to go attack and collapse these 0:13:03.200,0:13:07.760 different fears and part of that is 0:13:05.180,0:13:10.279 going to be sucking out the the penalty 0:13:07.760,0:13:11.839 if if you fail right because like a lot 0:13:10.279,0:13:13.459 of the fear comes because we're afraid 0:13:11.839,0:13:15.410 that we're gonna judge ourselves harshly 0:13:13.459,0:13:16.850 or whatever so you got to realize like 0:13:15.410,0:13:18.770 there is no such thing as failure 0:13:16.850,0:13:20.810 there's just learning right so you 0:13:18.770,0:13:22.850 collapse the penalty for failure so that 0:13:20.810,0:13:24.830 collapses the fear which allows you to 0:13:22.850,0:13:26.240 believe even more so that's one way to 0:13:24.830,0:13:27.410 do it and the other way is to just look 0:13:26.240,0:13:29.029 at fear itself 0:13:27.410,0:13:31.279 and play out the different scenarios 0:13:29.029,0:13:34.490 know that you're gonna be fine again 0:13:31.279,0:13:37.490 forgive yourself always and and really 0:13:34.490,0:13:39.260 also just attack fear wherever you see 0:13:37.490,0:13:41.089 it even when it's trivial even when it's 0:13:39.260,0:13:42.380 some kind of we were just before the 0:13:41.089,0:13:44.779 before we got on here we talked about 0:13:42.380,0:13:46.520 the fear of the number 13 true God trick 0:13:44.779,0:13:48.290 a phobia like if you're afraid of 13 you 0:13:46.520,0:13:51.110 know what you need to do you put 13s all 0:13:48.290,0:13:52.970 of you in house you know you need to 0:13:51.110,0:13:55.040 like sit in Thirteen's you need to go to 0:13:52.970,0:13:57.560 the 13th demand to be on the 13th floor 0:13:55.040,0:13:59.029 of every hotel in every airplane because 0:13:57.560,0:14:01.190 you got to get over that shit because 0:13:59.029,0:14:04.100 that is telling yourself that there's 0:14:01.190,0:14:05.900 something irrational that should control 0:14:04.100,0:14:07.250 you and if you believe there's something 0:14:05.900,0:14:09.410 that's irrational that should control 0:14:07.250,0:14:11.630 you that will apply universally so 0:14:09.410,0:14:13.670 wherever you find fear specifically 0:14:11.630,0:14:15.440 that's out of balance with actual danger 0:14:13.670,0:14:16.970 like I'm not saying touch a hot stove or 0:14:15.440,0:14:19.220 put your hand in a rattlesnake cage like 0:14:16.970,0:14:22.910 there's danger there that's not fear but 0:14:19.220,0:14:25.610 13 no danger you know that's not real 0:14:22.910,0:14:27.620 so go collapse that the fear of crickets 0:14:25.610,0:14:30.130 like I have a fear of like whatever it 0:14:27.620,0:14:33.560 is collapse fear wherever you see it and 0:14:30.130,0:14:36.820 that specific collapse will help with 0:14:33.560,0:14:36.820 the universal collapses 0:14:37.339,0:14:40.829 you just got to understand the only 0:14:39.570,0:14:43.440 thing that you're responsible for is 0:14:40.829,0:14:45.810 your best but he can't do better than 0:14:43.440,0:14:47.639 your best you just do your best and if 0:14:45.810,0:14:48.720 you try to obsess too much you're not 0:14:47.639,0:14:50.820 doing your best you're gonna be 0:14:48.720,0:14:52.440 paralyzed right so you have to get as 0:14:50.820,0:14:53.970 much information as you can make the 0:14:52.440,0:14:56.160 most educated choice make sure that 0:14:53.970,0:14:59.550 you're not choosing based on ego or 0:14:56.160,0:15:01.680 emotion or you know greed or these other 0:14:59.550,0:15:03.899 forces that delude you and prevent you 0:15:01.680,0:15:06.060 from thinking clearly but if you do your 0:15:03.899,0:15:07.500 best and you fail like what do you do 0:15:06.060,0:15:09.269 beat yourself up for that like that 0:15:07.500,0:15:10.589 doesn't make any sense if you're doing 0:15:09.269,0:15:12.630 your best if you're really laying it out 0:15:10.589,0:15:15.269 there there's nothing nothing more you 0:15:12.630,0:15:16.589 can do and and that's I think that 0:15:15.269,0:15:19.680 that's really the key is just to 0:15:16.589,0:15:22.139 constantly rest and rely on that fact 0:15:19.680,0:15:25.040 that I'm just I'm doing my best and 0:15:22.139,0:15:27.329 there's nothing nothing more than that 0:15:25.040,0:15:29.370 you know you have to really appreciate 0:15:27.329,0:15:31.350 where you are in the journey and say 0:15:29.370,0:15:33.180 yeah where you are is awesome but you 0:15:31.350,0:15:36.120 could be better cuz that's the the 0:15:33.180,0:15:38.339 process is becoming better right so it's 0:15:36.120,0:15:40.709 not it's not judging it externally by 0:15:38.339,0:15:42.990 any other criteria because every step is 0:15:40.709,0:15:45.480 good but the process of striving for 0:15:42.990,0:15:47.579 more in a process to really unfailing 0:15:45.480,0:15:50.130 who you are to an even greater degree to 0:15:47.579,0:15:52.410 getting cleaner and clearer and more 0:15:50.130,0:15:55.199 full and more robust and the best 0:15:52.410,0:15:56.730 version of yourself like that process is 0:15:55.199,0:15:58.470 a beautiful process I think it's one of 0:15:56.730,0:16:00.480 the reasons why we're here it feels the 0:15:58.470,0:16:02.610 best it feels the best to be continuing 0:16:00.480,0:16:04.230 on the path but that doesn't mean that 0:16:02.610,0:16:06.209 you look forward to a point in the past 0:16:04.230,0:16:08.190 say when I get there I'll love myself 0:16:06.209,0:16:10.319 when I get there I'll I made it like 0:16:08.190,0:16:13.350 love yourself where you are wherever you 0:16:10.319,0:16:15.329 are that's awesome let's still strive 0:16:13.350,0:16:18.740 for more because the striving is the 0:16:15.329,0:16:22.110 journey it's always the striving 0:16:18.740,0:16:23.790 if we were able to do like even a 0:16:22.110,0:16:26.640 fraction of the things we know we should 0:16:23.790,0:16:28.410 we would all be badasses you know but 0:16:26.640,0:16:30.090 there's so many things you talk to me 0:16:28.410,0:16:31.410 yeah I should be doing that yeah I 0:16:30.090,0:16:33.150 should be doing I know I should be I 0:16:31.410,0:16:34.530 should be meditating yeah I know I 0:16:33.150,0:16:36.330 should be doing this I should be eating 0:16:34.530,0:16:39.840 better I should be doing this and we all 0:16:36.330,0:16:41.040 know what we want to do to be the best 0:16:39.840,0:16:43.170 version of ourselves but for whatever 0:16:41.040,0:16:45.240 reason we don't do it you know and 0:16:43.170,0:16:47.040 there's a lot of reasons why but we're 0:16:45.240,0:16:49.950 not doing it and so the ability to 0:16:47.040,0:16:51.570 choose and actually decide what you're 0:16:49.950,0:16:54.300 going to do to be the not well to be the 0:16:51.570,0:16:55.680 art and say oh well if I believe I 0:16:54.300,0:16:58.440 should meditate then I'll meditate and 0:16:55.680,0:17:01.320 just collapsing that I know I should 0:16:58.440,0:17:03.560 with actually doing it you know that is 0:17:01.320,0:17:07.020 a superpower that's what defines the 0:17:03.560,0:17:08.460 greatest performers from the people who 0:17:07.020,0:17:10.500 haven't quite made it yet it's really 0:17:08.460,0:17:11.970 their ability to say oh if I should 0:17:10.500,0:17:13.560 train now I will know if I should eat 0:17:11.970,0:17:15.750 like this I will oh if I should do this 0:17:13.560,0:17:17.790 okay then I will it's collapsing that 0:17:15.750,0:17:20.070 knowing what knowing what you should do 0:17:17.790,0:17:22.740 and actually doing and making that one 0:17:20.070,0:17:24.100 and that's ultimately a choice 0:17:22.740,0:17:27.789 [Music] 0:17:24.100,0:17:29.169 we have way more power than we recognize 0:17:27.789,0:17:31.570 and what people will tell us that we 0:17:29.169,0:17:33.970 have so stepping into that power and 0:17:31.570,0:17:36.270 deciding for ourselves what we want to 0:17:33.970,0:17:36.270 do with it 0:17:37.990,0:17:41.920 what time is it right now look at it 0:17:40.870,0:17:45.910 face it 0:17:41.920,0:17:48.670 stand up to it what do you see what did 0:17:45.910,0:17:51.929 that number say to you how much of this 0:17:48.670,0:17:56.170 number have you wasted wasted on waiting 0:17:51.929,0:17:58.780 waiting for what what is it that you're 0:17:56.170,0:18:01.380 waiting for how much do you want ask 0:17:58.780,0:18:05.410 yourself this what's more valuable 0:18:01.380,0:18:08.500 waiting or your time your power and your 0:18:05.410,0:18:12.220 action this is where your journey starts 0:18:08.500,0:18:15.160 this is where you grow grow adapt 0:18:12.220,0:18:20.170 improve to become the person you admire 0:18:15.160,0:18:24.220 this is you this can be you stop failing 0:18:20.170,0:18:27.730 to respond to react this is how you 0:18:24.220,0:18:31.150 shape your life how you construct your 0:18:27.730,0:18:34.030 future make this what it is your success 0:18:31.150,0:18:37.220 all this work now are the steps before 0:18:34.030,0:18:40.010 you break the ribbon at the finish 0:18:37.220,0:18:43.010 this is your opportunity to change 0:18:40.010,0:18:45.230 change towards a better life towards a 0:18:43.010,0:18:47.690 life where you are the director where 0:18:45.230,0:18:50.330 you are the power the power that drives 0:18:47.690,0:18:53.000 you forward to success the power that 0:18:50.330,0:18:56.420 defines your life now that defines your 0:18:53.000,0:18:58.300 legacy your future this is the time to 0:18:56.420,0:19:01.370 become something more than or do 0:18:58.300,0:19:04.220 something outside the realm of expected 0:19:01.370,0:19:06.740 because you're more than you always have 0:19:04.220,0:19:09.710 been but in order for you to become this 0:19:06.740,0:19:12.560 you need to work you need to want it so 0:19:09.710,0:19:15.290 much it pushes you it pushes you outside 0:19:12.560,0:19:17.360 your comfort zone this is where it 0:19:15.290,0:19:19.640 starts this is where you become 0:19:17.360,0:19:23.060 something something better than now 0:19:19.640,0:19:25.670 where you build a life with yourself one 0:19:23.060,0:19:28.630 where you hold the reins where you make 0:19:25.670,0:19:32.570 the final cut where you have that power 0:19:28.630,0:19:35.750 you deserve this you deserve to feel 0:19:32.570,0:19:39.110 fulfilled proud and excited for this 0:19:35.750,0:19:43.820 newfound success you will and can embody 0:19:39.110,0:19:46.160 your future your legacy your life can 0:19:43.820,0:19:49.670 transform into the paradise you've 0:19:46.160,0:19:52.400 always imagined it could be your life 0:19:49.670,0:19:55.850 can change your life can be more than 0:19:52.400,0:19:59.840 just a place it can be your future your 0:19:55.850,0:20:02.570 success this change this change takes 0:19:59.840,0:20:04.820 courage it takes courage to stand up and 0:20:02.570,0:20:07.779 break down the aspects of your life that 0:20:04.820,0:20:11.799 you know is holding you back 0:20:07.779,0:20:15.099 let your progress be idolized let it 0:20:11.799,0:20:19.210 speak for itself let it leave a mark so 0:20:15.099,0:20:21.879 deep it can never be erased this den can 0:20:19.210,0:20:24.460 have such a positive influence on your 0:20:21.879,0:20:27.099 life that it can transform your future 0:20:24.460,0:20:30.820 transform your life using the potential 0:20:27.099,0:20:34.269 you know you've always had make your 0:20:30.820,0:20:36.849 life worth remembering make it worth the 0:20:34.269,0:20:40.960 pain it took the hours it used the 0:20:36.849,0:20:43.950 effort put in know to take pride in your 0:20:40.960,0:20:46.599 work know that your life can break all 0:20:43.950,0:20:49.749 possibilities break all boundaries and 0:20:46.599,0:20:53.169 become something beyond any expectations 0:20:49.749,0:20:56.710 human letdown you face rejection and you 0:20:53.169,0:21:01.059 failed fortunately when you hit that 0:20:56.710,0:21:02.499 point the only place to go is up I want 0:21:01.059,0:21:05.169 you to imagine that your life is a tree 0:21:02.499,0:21:07.809 the failure that you've just faced is 0:21:05.169,0:21:10.269 actually a seed and it's a seed that's 0:21:07.809,0:21:13.450 gonna grow your potential the light you 0:21:10.269,0:21:16.119 need is your mindset and the water is 0:21:13.450,0:21:18.879 your strength because the rejection you 0:21:16.119,0:21:22.029 feel right now is sprouting your success 0:21:18.879,0:21:24.279 and in order for you to grow you need to 0:21:22.029,0:21:26.830 feel the pain the pain of the struggle 0:21:24.279,0:21:28.719 is more than just some dark place you go 0:21:26.830,0:21:31.179 to it's actually a starting place a 0:21:28.719,0:21:33.820 place to begin trying and a place you 0:21:31.179,0:21:35.859 start to improve and that improvement 0:21:33.820,0:21:37.629 can be the start of the making of your 0:21:35.859,0:21:39.789 success look at me you're not five feet 0:21:37.629,0:21:41.810 under you're five feet higher than any 0:21:39.789,0:21:44.930 position you've ever been it 0:21:41.810,0:21:46.580 man stop bringing yourself down start 0:21:44.930,0:21:50.000 learning that you are more than just 0:21:46.580,0:21:51.800 your mistakes in fact they make you they 0:21:50.000,0:21:53.300 make you grow and they make you branch 0:21:51.800,0:21:56.480 out into a stronger and more courageous 0:21:53.300,0:21:58.580 person give yourself the space to grow 0:21:56.480,0:22:00.620 give yourself the space to grow into a 0:21:58.580,0:22:02.750 better in a more successful person to 0:22:00.620,0:22:04.310 see your potential is sprouting you've 0:22:02.750,0:22:06.200 got a better foundation now because 0:22:04.310,0:22:08.990 those roots are dug deep into the ground 0:22:06.200,0:22:10.550 and if something breaks you down know 0:22:08.990,0:22:12.950 that you can grow further past the point 0:22:10.550,0:22:15.170 you were at before because this tree can 0:22:12.950,0:22:17.420 only grow taller bigger and stronger 0:22:15.170,0:22:18.710 because you are stronger now so you've 0:22:17.420,0:22:21.230 got to know that this isn't a setback 0:22:18.710,0:22:22.880 this is just another ingredient that you 0:22:21.230,0:22:26.450 need for the success that's coming your 0:22:22.880,0:22:29.240 way it really is 0:22:26.450,0:22:32.870 stop making excuses take control of your 0:22:29.240,0:22:34.460 situation and rise to your potential man 0:22:32.870,0:22:35.930 I don't think that we would be here if 0:22:34.460,0:22:37.400 we didn't have a purpose I can tell you 0:22:35.930,0:22:39.440 that 0:22:37.400,0:22:42.500 it's our job to develop that purposes 0:22:39.440,0:22:44.150 I've dealt with find and hone in and 0:22:42.500,0:22:46.160 craft that purpose and the purpose is 0:22:44.150,0:22:47.810 usually crafted through some level of 0:22:46.160,0:22:50.660 suffering it's the hero's journey right 0:22:47.810,0:22:53.330 like in film you know the hero he's down 0:22:50.660,0:22:55.520 and out and he loses the girl in the in 0:22:53.330,0:22:57.230 the house and he goes on this journey 0:22:55.520,0:22:58.460 and he finds strength and wisdom and 0:22:57.230,0:23:01.280 knowledge and comes back and is now the 0:22:58.460,0:23:06.590 hero we have to go through that level of 0:23:01.280,0:23:16.040 suffering there's this hunger that 0:23:06.590,0:23:20.480 everyone has and it's always neutered my 0:23:16.040,0:23:21.500 family my teachers my culture and I 0:23:20.480,0:23:23.900 believe you wouldn't be put on this 0:23:21.500,0:23:26.180 planet if you didn't have this hunger 0:23:23.900,0:23:28.940 and if you explore this hunger and for 0:23:26.180,0:23:30.230 me it was done being a fat kid than 0:23:28.940,0:23:32.330 being a being a foreigner and then a fat 0:23:30.230,0:23:33.710 kid and then fixing my problems and then 0:23:32.330,0:23:36.080 realizing I have the solution to other 0:23:33.710,0:23:38.720 peoples weight-loss problems for someone 0:23:36.080,0:23:40.010 else it might be a financial thing you 0:23:38.720,0:23:42.410 know they fix their financial problems 0:23:40.010,0:23:43.850 and they realize they can help everyone 0:23:42.410,0:23:46.700 else's financial problems but you have 0:23:43.850,0:23:48.470 to go through the suffering you have to 0:23:46.700,0:23:51.620 be hungry enough to deal with the pain 0:23:48.470,0:23:53.630 and come out the other side with some 0:23:51.620,0:23:58.280 scars because scar tissue is infinitely 0:23:53.630,0:23:59.900 more resilient than regular tissue but 0:23:58.280,0:24:01.340 again goes back to most people feel like 0:23:59.900,0:24:03.530 yeah I think there's something great in 0:24:01.340,0:24:04.790 me but I don't want to explore it I want 0:24:03.530,0:24:07.550 to play it safe I'm gonna stay bubble 0:24:04.790,0:24:08.630 wraps I don't want to risk it but we 0:24:07.550,0:24:10.370 wouldn't be put on this planet if we 0:24:08.630,0:24:12.350 didn't have this greater thing to 0:24:10.370,0:24:13.820 accomplish now some of us are going to 0:24:12.350,0:24:16.370 be Elon Musk and were going to shoot a 0:24:13.820,0:24:17.810 Tesla to the Mars right and that's okay 0:24:16.370,0:24:20.120 and others are gonna create a fitness 0:24:17.810,0:24:21.770 franchise or a or a supplement company 0:24:20.120,0:24:24.020 that actually delivers you know great 0:24:21.770,0:24:28.670 nutrients that help people in eyes their 0:24:24.020,0:24:30.530 performance whatever your purpose is 0:24:28.670,0:24:32.750 you've got to develop it you got to 0:24:30.530,0:24:34.220 develop it but you wouldn't be put on 0:24:32.750,0:24:38.960 this planet if you didn't have it I'm 0:24:34.220,0:24:40.880 convinced of that not enough people are 0:24:38.960,0:24:43.550 willing to build that mental emotional 0:24:40.880,0:24:47.960 toughness and the moment they do they'll 0:24:43.550,0:24:50.450 go perseverance nothing happens until 0:24:47.960,0:24:51.950 you get done everyone's got a great idea 0:24:50.450,0:24:53.540 it'll make me this many millions and 0:24:51.950,0:24:56.570 it'll help this many people nothing 0:24:53.540,0:24:57.830 happens so you get that done put 0:24:56.570,0:24:59.450 yourself in a position where you're 0:24:57.830,0:25:03.049 gonna thrive not where it's gonna be 0:24:59.450,0:25:06.889 comfortable right get done 0:25:03.049,0:25:09.369 I believe we all are raised this fighter 0:25:06.889,0:25:11.989 jets just we get neutered by parents by 0:25:09.369,0:25:14.360 grandparents because of the filters they 0:25:11.989,0:25:16.489 had and viewed life through the 0:25:14.360,0:25:17.809 experiences they had teachers who go you 0:25:16.489,0:25:19.309 don't want to disappoint yourself just 0:25:17.809,0:25:21.889 go to college go get a good job go to 0:25:19.309,0:25:23.450 college don't go to college today don't 0:25:21.889,0:25:24.440 go to college it's the worst thing you 0:25:23.450,0:25:28.009 can do and that's going to be a doctor 0:25:24.440,0:25:29.539 or an attorney or accountant or you know 0:25:28.009,0:25:31.159 some kind of an architect don't go to 0:25:29.539,0:25:33.049 college you can do a lot more in life 0:25:31.159,0:25:34.309 with that go to college and so again 0:25:33.049,0:25:36.019 teachers professors will end up 0:25:34.309,0:25:37.789 neutering us and when they take they 0:25:36.019,0:25:40.359 take that fighter jet that hunger the 0:25:37.789,0:25:42.799 claws and fangs they've defamed us 0:25:40.359,0:25:44.119 alright so now we're crop dusters I 0:25:42.799,0:25:45.379 don't want to take too many risks I just 0:25:44.119,0:25:46.970 want to live a good life and they want 0:25:45.379,0:25:49.789 to be average and mediocre that's the 0:25:46.970,0:25:52.100 crop duster yet everyone inside has this 0:25:49.789,0:25:53.330 hunger see the fighter jet didn't go 0:25:52.100,0:25:56.239 away it's just been suppressed 0:25:53.330,0:25:57.950 you've been neutered and that was me 0:25:56.239,0:25:59.330 like hey don't take big Ridge just go 0:25:57.950,0:26:00.379 get a good job go be a smog technician 0:25:59.330,0:26:02.029 like that was the advice I was given 0:26:00.379,0:26:04.159 gonna be a smog technician Society 0:26:02.029,0:26:06.590 parents who ever have set the standard 0:26:04.159,0:26:09.049 for you to not play it safe it risks 0:26:06.590,0:26:10.039 what if you lose what have you lose you 0:26:09.049,0:26:12.889 care as long as you don't die you can 0:26:10.039,0:26:14.899 come right back and so the fighter jet 0:26:12.889,0:26:17.840 mentality is that someone who is just 0:26:14.899,0:26:20.029 determined relentlessly obsessed and 0:26:17.840,0:26:23.809 achieving an outcome in the face of all 0:26:20.029,0:26:25.039 adversity the crop duster is someone 0:26:23.809,0:26:27.440 who's always looking for the easiest 0:26:25.039,0:26:29.119 path to loophole which what I used to be 0:26:27.440,0:26:30.409 a severe crop duster the composter hits 0:26:29.119,0:26:31.639 the snooze button every day because 0:26:30.409,0:26:33.619 they'd rather take 10 more minutes of 0:26:31.639,0:26:35.539 mediocre sleep than getting up and 0:26:33.619,0:26:37.249 dominating their path every morning on 0:26:35.539,0:26:39.769 my nightstand there's two stacks of 0:26:37.249,0:26:41.929 dominoes lined up and at the top of this 0:26:39.769,0:26:43.639 stack says you're a loser the top of 0:26:41.929,0:26:45.769 this one says you're a winner if I hit 0:26:43.639,0:26:47.450 the snooze button I've hit that first 0:26:45.769,0:26:48.559 domino in the loser stack the rest of my 0:26:47.450,0:26:50.119 day is gonna suck now with that 0:26:48.559,0:26:52.730 mentality am I gonna ever hit snooze 0:26:50.119,0:26:55.519 again absolutely not because I've sold 0:26:52.730,0:26:57.529 myself on the idea that when I hit the 0:26:55.519,0:27:00.409 snooze button I'm an absolute loser I'm 0:26:57.529,0:27:01.999 scum of the earth I am my day is 0:27:00.409,0:27:02.830 destined to be shitty now some people 0:27:01.999,0:27:05.110 are you being off 0:27:02.830,0:27:06.549 yourself more people should be hard on 0:27:05.110,0:27:08.830 themselves we go around bubble wrapping 0:27:06.549,0:27:10.720 ourselves right we lead the training 0:27:08.830,0:27:12.070 bills on for too long like be hard on 0:27:10.720,0:27:14.200 yourself take up the bubble wrap off 0:27:12.070,0:27:15.909 take the tikki training wheels out no 0:27:14.200,0:27:18.190 one did that for me man to be a fighter 0:27:15.909,0:27:20.200 jet me a fighter jet go to battle every 0:27:18.190,0:27:22.929 day take risks that's what a fighter jet 0:27:20.200,0:27:30.070 does a crop duster as a routine life and 0:27:22.929,0:27:34.059 it's been boring every day is a new 0:27:30.070,0:27:36.460 opportunity to change your life every 0:27:34.059,0:27:39.850 day is a new opportunity to make your 0:27:36.460,0:27:40.929 life a better place to live in your life 0:27:39.850,0:27:43.029 is at stake 0:27:40.929,0:27:44.559 think right now what you've done 0:27:43.029,0:27:45.630 differently from the things you did 0:27:44.559,0:27:48.580 yesterday 0:27:45.630,0:27:50.470 perhaps you got up an hour earlier 0:27:48.580,0:27:53.380 maybe you meditated or you went to the 0:27:50.470,0:27:54.639 gym if you know that you haven't made 0:27:53.380,0:27:57.269 any change today 0:27:54.639,0:28:01.210 then make this your day take this 0:27:57.269,0:28:03.760 opportunity change you're better than 0:28:01.210,0:28:06.519 you were yesterday because you know that 0:28:03.760,0:28:09.820 today and the day after that you will 0:28:06.519,0:28:12.039 make progress you will know that you put 0:28:09.820,0:28:15.039 in the work that you earned the 0:28:12.039,0:28:17.049 improvement you need to push yourself so 0:28:15.039,0:28:19.539 you feel the satisfaction that you've 0:28:17.049,0:28:22.149 made further and further past your 0:28:19.539,0:28:25.690 original routine further and further 0:28:22.149,0:28:29.380 past your failure there is nothing else 0:28:25.690,0:28:32.769 you can do but work to work harder and 0:28:29.380,0:28:35.380 harder the struggle is the only way you 0:28:32.769,0:28:37.360 know you're going to succeed and take 0:28:35.380,0:28:40.559 this new opportunity and make this 0:28:37.360,0:28:45.669 change in your life you will be better 0:28:40.559,0:28:47.590 take this risk take this opening this is 0:28:45.669,0:28:50.320 the time to make your life a better 0:28:47.590,0:28:52.220 place to make your future a place where 0:28:50.320,0:28:54.830 you can see yourself achieve 0:28:52.220,0:28:57.409 a future where your life is somewhere 0:28:54.830,0:29:00.830 where you can create your own Empire 0:28:57.409,0:29:03.980 know that not all of your successes has 0:29:00.830,0:29:06.530 to be exposed or flaunted be humble 0:29:03.980,0:29:08.409 that's even more important than the 0:29:06.530,0:29:12.730 progress you've made 0:29:08.409,0:29:16.490 use your success for you and only you 0:29:12.730,0:29:18.770 use your success to boost your life into 0:29:16.490,0:29:21.230 the next level use your success to make 0:29:18.770,0:29:25.250 you grow into a more courageous and 0:29:21.230,0:29:28.340 stronger person you are you for one 0:29:25.250,0:29:31.100 reason to be yourself to use the 0:29:28.340,0:29:34.370 potential you have as a person and make 0:29:31.100,0:29:37.429 this your future use this as your first 0:29:34.370,0:29:40.580 step into success change the way you 0:29:37.429,0:29:44.110 view life switch your perspective of 0:29:40.580,0:29:46.179 success and use it in the right place 0:29:44.110,0:29:48.309 confident to stand up and take 0:29:46.179,0:29:51.080 responsibility for your mistakes and 0:29:48.309,0:29:55.460 courageous enough to make mistakes in 0:29:51.080,0:29:57.919 the first place educate yourself be this 0:29:55.460,0:30:01.610 person become the person you've always 0:29:57.919,0:30:04.309 wanted to be you need to make this 0:30:01.610,0:30:08.179 transition for your future to make your 0:30:04.309,0:30:11.210 life better and bigger you will be who 0:30:08.179,0:30:11.809 you need to be motivate yourself with 0:30:11.210,0:30:15.499 that 0:30:11.809,0:30:18.909 the vision of your future the future of 0:30:15.499,0:30:18.909 a successful life 0:30:19.980,0:30:23.820 what's the favorite lesson you've ever 0:30:21.690,0:30:26.070 learned what is your biggest achievement 0:30:23.820,0:30:28.919 you've ever accomplished and then what 0:30:26.070,0:30:31.139 is your greatest success I want you to 0:30:28.919,0:30:33.510 think about it think about how you got 0:30:31.139,0:30:35.820 there where you needed to be in order to 0:30:33.510,0:30:38.940 get there in order for you to make that 0:30:35.820,0:30:40.769 kind of progress what challenges did you 0:30:38.940,0:30:42.330 have to pass what limits did you have to 0:30:40.769,0:30:45.659 crush what hurdles that you have to 0:30:42.330,0:30:47.549 overcome now I want you to think about 0:30:45.659,0:30:50.460 that satisfaction that overcame you when 0:30:47.549,0:30:53.039 you accomplish these things how did you 0:30:50.460,0:30:56.100 feel and how do you need to feel right 0:30:53.039,0:30:57.600 now feel like you have the opportunity 0:30:56.100,0:30:58.980 to repeat those actions that you once 0:30:57.600,0:31:03.450 did because let me tell you right now 0:30:58.980,0:31:05.220 you do make the progress now make your 0:31:03.450,0:31:08.130 progress for the better for you to make 0:31:05.220,0:31:10.169 more progress you have that potential 0:31:08.130,0:31:13.350 now go ahead and spark your success and 0:31:10.169,0:31:15.360 spark your inspiration that inspiration 0:31:13.350,0:31:18.990 it yields the progress that you need to 0:31:15.360,0:31:20.909 make use the tools you have use your 0:31:18.990,0:31:23.789 tools because no one can do it like you 0:31:20.909,0:31:26.279 can all right use this inspiration while 0:31:23.789,0:31:29.399 you have the opening stop living in the 0:31:26.279,0:31:33.299 past start thinking about your future 0:31:29.399,0:31:35.940 the future where you can succeed that 0:31:33.299,0:31:36.750 future is actually happening around you 0:31:35.940,0:31:39.450 right now 0:31:36.750,0:31:42.630 so take control of your future now by 0:31:39.450,0:31:45.440 living in the present living for now 0:31:42.630,0:31:48.139 because that at the end of the day 0:31:45.440,0:31:52.250 is the only thing that mattered boost 0:31:48.139,0:31:56.059 your life make your life and live your 0:31:52.250,0:31:58.190 life it's this time in history that most 0:31:56.059,0:31:59.659 people are wasting on the wrong stuff 0:31:58.190,0:32:00.950 they're spending it on Netflix or 0:31:59.659,0:32:02.360 fortnight or going out with their 0:32:00.950,0:32:03.799 friends are drinking and if you want to 0:32:02.360,0:32:05.870 do that that's fine you know enjoy your 0:32:03.799,0:32:08.419 can mediocre ship life but like there's 0:32:05.870,0:32:12.379 so much more that you can do with weird 0:32:08.419,0:32:13.940 knowledge and studying you make a 0:32:12.379,0:32:14.990 mistake it's a part of life it's part of 0:32:13.940,0:32:17.299 the journey you know you have to 0:32:14.990,0:32:19.519 appreciate the lows you have to respect 0:32:17.299,0:32:20.929 the lows celebrate the highs but respect 0:32:19.519,0:32:22.610 the lows don't block them out and don't 0:32:20.929,0:32:23.929 ignore them in order to be successful I 0:32:22.610,0:32:26.690 think this is the biggest thing you have 0:32:23.929,0:32:28.909 to be so dedicated to your craft and so 0:32:26.690,0:32:30.980 passionate about it so single-minded 0:32:28.909,0:32:33.139 focus on that 0:32:30.980,0:32:34.519 you know tasks and most people just 0:32:33.139,0:32:35.929 don't take you that seriously they're 0:32:34.519,0:32:38.419 like yeah I want to be a millionaire 0:32:35.929,0:32:39.830 yeah like well I meet people and they're 0:32:38.419,0:32:41.779 like oh you're that millionaire and it 0:32:39.830,0:32:43.730 like a smile comes on their face like oh 0:32:41.779,0:32:44.809 how do I become a millionaire but they 0:32:43.730,0:32:47.059 don't really believe it they're not 0:32:44.809,0:32:49.610 asking seriously they don't they're not 0:32:47.059,0:32:51.409 willing to put in the thousands of hours 0:32:49.610,0:32:53.389 requires like there's no magic formula 0:32:51.409,0:32:54.860 this isn't like get-rich-quick and those 0:32:53.389,0:32:56.570 people who do get rich like the lotto 0:32:54.860,0:32:57.799 winners like they're tough because they 0:32:56.570,0:32:59.740 didn't earn it they don't don't 0:32:57.799,0:33:03.169 appreciate it they don't understand it I 0:32:59.740,0:33:05.840 think that going through the ups and the 0:33:03.169,0:33:07.280 downs is what makes you appreciate 0:33:05.840,0:33:08.899 everything 0:33:07.280,0:33:11.419 [Music] 0:33:08.899,0:33:13.309 you have to find meaning and for me and 0:33:11.419,0:33:14.509 a lot of people like you know you're on 0:33:13.309,0:33:16.519 this journey like I want to be 0:33:14.509,0:33:18.289 successful I want to be rich that's what 0:33:16.519,0:33:20.599 I want but what about when you get there 0:33:18.289,0:33:22.190 you don't have a plan for that so now 0:33:20.599,0:33:23.899 I'm trying to teach you know all about 0:33:22.190,0:33:25.309 charity and giving back in the lessons 0:33:23.899,0:33:27.109 that I've learned now from being rich 0:33:25.309,0:33:29.149 for several years and it's not what you 0:33:27.109,0:33:30.739 might think there's a lot of stuff that 0:33:29.149,0:33:34.749 comes with being rich and you don't 0:33:30.739,0:33:34.749 realize it and you know that's life 0:33:36.480,0:33:40.140 because the world and even school 0:33:38.130,0:33:43.740 teaches you teaches us in so many ways 0:33:40.140,0:33:46.500 to you know work on our weaknesses to 0:33:43.740,0:33:48.270 get stronger and I think that's a huge 0:33:46.500,0:33:49.350 flaw I think we just get great at what 0:33:48.270,0:33:51.390 we're good at we only need to be good at 0:33:49.350,0:33:54.049 one or two things and we can make an 0:33:51.390,0:33:54.049 impact on the world 0:33:54.980,0:33:59.570 everybody's in a vehicle like your 0:33:57.410,0:34:01.400 wealth creation vehicle whether that's a 0:33:59.570,0:34:03.080 job you don't like or a job you do like 0:34:01.400,0:34:04.820 or business you started or business 0:34:03.080,0:34:06.590 that's crushing or business it's not 0:34:04.820,0:34:09.500 doing great you have this vehicle and 0:34:06.590,0:34:11.060 when this vehicle is not working we're 0:34:09.500,0:34:13.280 looking on the road of all the other 0:34:11.060,0:34:15.080 shiny cars and it's like oh man I tried 0:34:13.280,0:34:16.550 selling stuff on Amazon that's not 0:34:15.080,0:34:18.200 working I'm gonna go in the car business 0:34:16.550,0:34:20.330 the real estate business I'm gonna go in 0:34:18.200,0:34:21.679 a speaking business the the nutrition 0:34:20.330,0:34:24.409 business the suppli and you're looking 0:34:21.679,0:34:26.750 for another car to jump in and I realize 0:34:24.409,0:34:28.580 people jump from car to car to car their 0:34:26.750,0:34:30.350 whole life looking for satiation looking 0:34:28.580,0:34:32.060 for satisfaction looking to make more 0:34:30.350,0:34:34.429 money if you can stop jumping from 0:34:32.060,0:34:36.320 vehicle to vehicle the vehicle you're in 0:34:34.429,0:34:37.369 might be the right vehicle but you don't 0:34:36.320,0:34:38.929 have the right habits or the right 0:34:37.369,0:34:40.850 beliefs or the right rules whatever you 0:34:38.929,0:34:42.290 want to call it my books habit so I call 0:34:40.850,0:34:44.210 them habits but it's really the 0:34:42.290,0:34:46.129 foundation for success so you can 0:34:44.210,0:34:48.169 overcome the obstacles you don't like 0:34:46.129,0:34:49.760 negative people in your life steer you 0:34:48.169,0:34:52.369 in different directions it doesn't you 0:34:49.760,0:34:54.500 know even people who ask me about 0:34:52.369,0:34:56.060 productivity people say how do you get 0:34:54.500,0:34:57.560 so much done how do you run a business 0:34:56.060,0:34:58.850 and still coach the little league in 0:34:57.560,0:35:01.310 baseball and saw how do you do all those 0:34:58.850,0:35:04.730 things it's because of just simple 0:35:01.310,0:35:06.590 success habits like I just wrote 0:35:04.730,0:35:08.480 something on this recently I said you 0:35:06.590,0:35:10.400 have to treat your decisions for 0:35:08.480,0:35:12.380 productivity like binary thinking which 0:35:10.400,0:35:14.840 is X's and O's black and black or white 0:35:12.380,0:35:16.400 yes or no is this moving me toward a 0:35:14.840,0:35:21.530 better version of myself a wealthier 0:35:16.400,0:35:23.570 version a happier person or is it not we 0:35:21.530,0:35:25.340 never give ourselves credit we'd never 0:35:23.570,0:35:26.990 treat a friend the way we treat 0:35:25.340,0:35:28.340 ourselves it's like I know I've had days 0:35:26.990,0:35:30.380 I've gone till 10 o'clock at night go 0:35:28.340,0:35:32.240 man I got nothing done today the biggest 0:35:30.380,0:35:34.340 lie like we beat ourselves up we just 0:35:32.240,0:35:35.720 were like these racehorses we wouldn't 0:35:34.340,0:35:37.520 even treat a racehorse that we owned as 0:35:35.720,0:35:39.530 bad as we treat ourselves right so I 0:35:37.520,0:35:41.000 wake up and I'll do a quick little 0:35:39.530,0:35:42.920 gratitude and they'll say what was one 0:35:41.000,0:35:44.960 win yesterday that I accomplished I'm 0:35:42.920,0:35:47.000 like wow you didn't do that yes and then 0:35:44.960,0:35:48.680 I'll think of one win I want to do that 0:35:47.000,0:35:50.270 day like what I'm gonna need a million 0:35:48.680,0:35:53.410 things done thing what's a must today 0:35:50.270,0:35:53.410 that would be a great win 0:35:54.789,0:35:59.380 I don't think we should drive for money 0:35:57.039,0:36:01.329 I think we should drive to be a better 0:35:59.380,0:36:03.729 version of ourselves when money was no 0:36:01.329,0:36:06.009 longer a worry for me I drove into me 0:36:03.729,0:36:07.809 and I have been ignoring and tucking 0:36:06.009,0:36:11.349 down a lot of crap for a lot of years 0:36:07.809,0:36:12.549 and I was surface-level I look like the 0:36:11.349,0:36:14.049 guy that had it all going on but 0:36:12.549,0:36:16.150 businesses are doing good I'm amazing 0:36:14.049,0:36:18.369 children company thriving I live in the 0:36:16.150,0:36:20.429 right neighborhood Drive do I have the 0:36:18.369,0:36:24.339 right friends I thinking looked great 0:36:20.429,0:36:26.859 but it was all masked and when money got 0:36:24.339,0:36:29.199 out of the way I was able to find 0:36:26.859,0:36:30.729 digging to me and do my own personal 0:36:29.199,0:36:33.579 development and my own personal growth 0:36:30.729,0:36:34.779 and really find the things that I wanted 0:36:33.579,0:36:38.829 to fix so I could become a better 0:36:34.779,0:36:40.390 version there might be something that 0:36:38.829,0:36:42.609 makes you a lot of money but it robs 0:36:40.390,0:36:44.199 your soul so there's that balance and I 0:36:42.609,0:36:46.299 think that doesn't happen oh that 0:36:44.199,0:36:47.979 doesn't happen in your 20s and maybe not 0:36:46.299,0:36:49.599 in your 30s at least been for me I was 0:36:47.979,0:36:51.579 just fighting to be successful in my 20s 0:36:49.599,0:36:53.219 and 30s but this face I wish someone 0:36:51.579,0:36:55.119 would have grabbed me at 25 and said 0:36:53.219,0:36:56.469 you're gonna make all the money you want 0:36:55.119,0:36:58.809 you'll have all the success you want 0:36:56.469,0:36:59.289 make sure your soul is aligned with that 0:36:58.809,0:37:01.209 money 0:36:59.289,0:37:03.849 and every time I don't know about you 0:37:01.209,0:37:05.140 every time I align my values my soul my 0:37:03.849,0:37:08.259 purpose whatever it is you want to call 0:37:05.140,0:37:10.029 it with my businesses and my profits 0:37:08.259,0:37:14.609 they always soar without having to 0:37:10.029,0:37:14.609 obsess on the you know on the numbers 0:37:16.020,0:37:21.570 great people don't have anything magic 0:37:18.720,0:37:25.050 they worked relentlessly for years and 0:37:21.570,0:37:27.120 years they decided that they were going 0:37:25.050,0:37:29.280 to be great they decided that they 0:37:27.120,0:37:31.590 didn't want to sit back and hide they 0:37:29.280,0:37:33.480 decided that they wanted to shine they 0:37:31.590,0:37:35.970 decided that their name would be in 0:37:33.480,0:37:40.650 lights and people would admire what they 0:37:35.970,0:37:43.740 do if not for you decide to be great for 0:37:40.650,0:37:46.590 the world success never stops never 0:37:43.740,0:37:49.380 stops to breathe never takes a day off 0:37:46.590,0:37:51.480 never looks to take a break we already 0:37:49.380,0:37:53.640 have enough problems on this planet be 0:37:51.480,0:37:55.980 different be a person who makes a 0:37:53.640,0:37:58.980 difference be a person who makes a 0:37:55.980,0:38:01.860 change for good be a person who has an 0:37:58.980,0:38:04.410 impact on the world you need to become 0:38:01.860,0:38:06.780 someone and you need to become your 0:38:04.410,0:38:10.260 future you're gonna handle your power 0:38:06.780,0:38:12.900 and feel your potential you gotta feel 0:38:10.260,0:38:15.570 this pain to progress to change to feel 0:38:12.900,0:38:17.730 fulfilled to feel satisfaction this is 0:38:15.570,0:38:22.980 where everything can and trust me it all 0:38:17.730,0:38:26.730 will fall into place stop denying the 0:38:22.980,0:38:29.870 world of your greatness you need to see 0:38:26.730,0:38:33.120 every single day as a bank account 0:38:29.870,0:38:36.180 nobody is poor nobody is rich 0:38:33.120,0:38:39.060 everyone has 24 hours each and how you 0:38:36.180,0:38:43.200 spend your balance each day will decide 0:38:39.060,0:38:46.380 who you become now pay attention to 0:38:43.200,0:38:49.260 every detail take every day like it's a 0:38:46.380,0:38:52.140 brand new spankin opportunity take every 0:38:49.260,0:38:53.340 risk as if it's a stepping stone into 0:38:52.140,0:38:55.650 the future you're carving out for 0:38:53.340,0:38:58.050 yourself because you have control you 0:38:55.650,0:39:00.560 have the control to change in the 0:38:58.050,0:39:04.710 control to improve the action and 0:39:00.560,0:39:07.650 improvement spend your time wisely 0:39:04.710,0:39:08.160 do not waste it on things out of your 0:39:07.650,0:39:12.090 control 0:39:08.160,0:39:15.150 if the weather is bad do not waste time 0:39:12.090,0:39:18.060 feeling down about it if it is out of 0:39:15.150,0:39:21.750 your control move past it look for the 0:39:18.060,0:39:24.150 things that you can control it all takes 0:39:21.750,0:39:26.160 resilience resilience to push past any 0:39:24.150,0:39:28.560 boundaries and push through every risk 0:39:26.160,0:39:32.370 every hardship every wrong 0:39:28.560,0:39:35.130 turn right now right here is an open 0:39:32.370,0:39:39.510 door the door that puts you on the path 0:39:35.130,0:39:42.590 towards success losing 24 hours because 0:39:39.510,0:39:45.720 of the bad 10 minutes is like throwing 0:39:42.590,0:39:49.590 $10,000 away because you dropped a few 0:39:45.720,0:39:51.510 pennies you have control you have 0:39:49.590,0:39:53.400 control over your future a future fueled 0:39:51.510,0:39:55.050 by your success constructed by your 0:39:53.400,0:39:57.360 progress it all begins right here and it 0:39:55.050,0:39:59.040 all starts right now don't waste one 0:39:57.360,0:40:00.980 more minute sitting and thinking I want 0:39:59.040,0:40:03.120 you to spend your next minute acting 0:40:00.980,0:40:05.160 take your own direction and write your 0:40:03.120,0:40:07.170 own rules you need to write the next 0:40:05.160,0:40:09.270 chapter the next chapter that pushes you 0:40:07.170,0:40:13.380 through towards a story and a story that 0:40:09.270,0:40:16.380 you can finally be proud of now is the 0:40:13.380,0:40:20.220 time to become someone you believe in 0:40:16.380,0:40:23.100 someone with purpose don't stop now 0:40:20.220,0:40:35.370 don't stop until you know you can make 0:40:23.100,0:40:38.820 it stand up to your success stand up to 0:40:35.370,0:40:42.210 your power this is your opportunity take 0:40:38.820,0:40:49.230 it take it like you own it because you 0:40:42.210,0:40:52.380 do be sure know your purpose your worth 0:40:49.230,0:40:57.150 your intention your drive to strive 0:40:52.380,0:41:01.190 towards success life is in your hands it 0:40:57.150,0:41:01.190 has always been in your hands 0:41:01.470,0:41:08.040 this is the time this is the time to 0:41:04.870,0:41:11.410 make it past your fears your boundaries 0:41:08.040,0:41:14.740 this is the time you break them shatter 0:41:11.410,0:41:17.650 them make them a part of you build your 0:41:14.740,0:41:22.540 future from the remains this is where it 0:41:17.650,0:41:26.080 starts now is the time to succeed the 0:41:22.540,0:41:28.000 power is in your hands the power to be 0:41:26.080,0:41:31.810 something more something that has 0:41:28.000,0:41:35.260 potential you know that you've always 0:41:31.810,0:41:37.690 had it take the opportunity take the 0:41:35.260,0:41:44.500 risk take the risk now before it's too 0:41:37.690,0:41:49.140 late it's never too late never stop this 0:41:44.500,0:41:52.870 is where you can begin work hard work 0:41:49.140,0:41:55.750 become the person you admire you know 0:41:52.870,0:41:59.800 that you can be the best all it takes is 0:41:55.750,0:42:03.580 power drive and work work until it hurts 0:41:59.800,0:42:09.220 this is where you succeed this is how 0:42:03.580,0:42:11.650 you succeed you can be you can be so 0:42:09.220,0:42:14.190 much more start thinking about what 0:42:11.650,0:42:14.190 you're actually doing 0:42:14.220,0:42:18.670 like you're gonna only be so pretty 0:42:16.660,0:42:20.410 you're only gonna be so smart like you 0:42:18.670,0:42:21.940 like there's there's things are gonna be 0:42:20.410,0:42:24.880 natural and there's things that you can 0:42:21.940,0:42:26.050 actually control I do believe and I 0:42:24.880,0:42:29.350 don't know if I'm right or wrong I don't 0:42:26.050,0:42:31.660 but I do believe that work ethic is a 0:42:29.350,0:42:34.130 taught behavior it's something you do 0:42:31.660,0:42:36.470 have more control over 0:42:34.130,0:42:38.839 I feel like there's a shift that can 0:42:36.470,0:42:42.140 make people work harder the big one that 0:42:38.839,0:42:44.059 I push is you're gonna die like like if 0:42:42.140,0:42:45.769 your complaint like to me life is broken 0:42:44.059,0:42:47.839 down into complaining and not so if 0:42:45.769,0:42:50.299 you're not complaining well then I know 0:42:47.839,0:42:54.589 I have no advice for you but I'm pumped 0:42:50.299,0:42:56.809 like you did it great people don't have 0:42:54.589,0:43:01.490 anything magic they worked relentlessly 0:42:56.809,0:43:03.710 for years and years they decided that 0:43:01.490,0:43:05.299 they were going to be great they decided 0:43:03.710,0:43:07.579 that they didn't want to sit back and 0:43:05.299,0:43:10.099 hide they decided that they wanted to 0:43:07.579,0:43:12.289 shine they decided that their name would 0:43:10.099,0:43:16.730 be in lights and people would admire 0:43:12.289,0:43:19.990 what they do if not for you decide to be 0:43:16.730,0:43:19.990 great for the world 0:43:20.230,0:43:24.820 I think so many people are keyboard 0:43:22.480,0:43:26.890 activists right everybody's good at 0:43:24.820,0:43:28.720 sending a tweet about how the world 0:43:26.890,0:43:30.310 should be and nobody's doing anything 0:43:28.720,0:43:32.600 about it and that just that is just very 0:43:30.310,0:43:33.760 much human nature 0:43:32.600,0:43:36.070 [Music] 0:43:33.760,0:43:38.320 but let's not be naive I mean people 0:43:36.070,0:43:40.630 literally complain when somebody gives 0:43:38.320,0:43:45.130 them the wrong amount of like extra 0:43:40.630,0:43:47.500 cream in a Starbucks $6 coffee my lack 0:43:45.130,0:43:49.780 of interest in complaining is so high 0:43:47.500,0:43:51.910 and when I watch what people complain 0:43:49.780,0:43:53.890 about it breaks my heart because they 0:43:51.910,0:43:55.570 completely lack perspective and i 0:43:53.890,0:43:58.030 genuinely believe my happiness and 0:43:55.570,0:44:00.340 optimism comes from my perspective even 0:43:58.030,0:44:01.690 in political unrest times like right now 0:44:00.340,0:44:04.270 a lot of people very bent out of shape 0:44:01.690,0:44:06.730 but the reality is is that it just never 0:44:04.270,0:44:08.230 been better to be a human being it's 0:44:06.730,0:44:11.530 that's just the truth that's just data 0:44:08.230,0:44:14.950 that's that's reality and yeah I mean 0:44:11.530,0:44:19.300 it's just a very fun time to be alive so 0:44:14.950,0:44:21.100 much going on be prepared in life for a 0:44:19.300,0:44:22.900 lot of rejection because if you're 0:44:21.100,0:44:24.880 prepared for a lot of rejection it comes 0:44:22.900,0:44:26.200 you don't get turned off you don't get 0:44:24.880,0:44:27.460 disappointed like well I'm not gonna do 0:44:26.200,0:44:29.800 this anymore no one thinks it's a good 0:44:27.460,0:44:31.420 idea it's like I say selling 0:44:29.800,0:44:34.270 encyclopedias not kinda hundred doors 0:44:31.420,0:44:36.940 they slab them you're faced you must be 0:44:34.270,0:44:39.960 just as enthusiastic on door number 101 0:44:36.940,0:44:39.960 as door number one 0:44:42.430,0:44:46.760 [Music] 0:44:44.060,0:44:47.420 we're all worth far more than anyone can 0:44:46.760,0:44:50.570 imagine 0:44:47.420,0:44:52.040 our power honestly is endless in our 0:44:50.570,0:44:54.250 potential has the power and make 0:44:52.040,0:44:58.730 something real out of the life you live 0:44:54.250,0:45:02.090 that's crazy but your life is now you 0:44:58.730,0:45:04.370 can alter your future this is where you 0:45:02.090,0:45:08.600 begin to and this is where you start to 0:45:04.370,0:45:09.580 succeed now this moment around you right 0:45:08.600,0:45:12.220 now 0:45:09.580,0:45:16.190 that's the secret power that you have 0:45:12.220,0:45:18.470 time is your power this time you have 0:45:16.190,0:45:22.880 the potential to succeed to be something 0:45:18.470,0:45:25.190 with purpose someone with power there's 0:45:22.880,0:45:26.600 so many people there talking about how 0:45:25.190,0:45:28.400 big of an entrepreneur they're gonna be 0:45:26.600,0:45:31.700 and how much they're gonna achieve and 0:45:28.400,0:45:33.740 they don't work on weekends 0:45:31.700,0:45:36.050 you know I worked every Saturday of my 0:45:33.740,0:45:38.540 20s like and I talk to 20 year old 0:45:36.050,0:45:39.770 entrepreneurs every single day lately 0:45:38.540,0:45:41.720 I've been saying to them this Saturday 0:45:39.770,0:45:44.420 you're gonna have more time off than 0:45:41.720,0:45:46.430 I've had in my entire 20s on a Saturday 0:45:44.420,0:45:47.390 so like before you tell me how you're 0:45:46.430,0:45:49.250 gonna be bigger than me 0:45:47.390,0:45:51.640 start thinking about what you're 0:45:49.250,0:45:51.640 actually doing 0:45:53.790,0:46:00.340 we're beating ourselves up like 0:45:56.890,0:46:02.590 everybody sucks at something right like 0:46:00.340,0:46:04.750 we all have shortcomings and we all have 0:46:02.590,0:46:06.730 strengths and for me it's like why don't 0:46:04.750,0:46:08.200 we just audit that like why don't we 0:46:06.730,0:46:09.490 just look at it that way and be like 0:46:08.200,0:46:11.650 alright well I'm good at this but I'm 0:46:09.490,0:46:13.210 not good at that like and then and then 0:46:11.650,0:46:15.820 and then I only focus what I'm good at 0:46:13.210,0:46:17.800 right like I don't dwell that I can't 0:46:15.820,0:46:19.540 fix it around the house I call somebody 0:46:17.800,0:46:21.430 to fix it like I'm not like I'm not a 0:46:19.540,0:46:23.290 man I don't give a fuck like you know 0:46:21.430,0:46:25.600 like like you know like I don't I don't 0:46:23.290,0:46:27.130 get it like we all like I also think 0:46:25.600,0:46:29.350 it's awesome that I'm so emotionally 0:46:27.130,0:46:30.790 stable and I'm the emotional backbone of 0:46:29.350,0:46:32.590 everybody is that what a dude's supposed 0:46:30.790,0:46:34.120 to do like like these cliches these 0:46:32.590,0:46:36.670 stereotypes they're so silly 0:46:34.120,0:46:39.790 you're exactly right man I don't judge 0:46:36.670,0:46:41.110 myself I'm fully in love with myself but 0:46:39.790,0:46:43.180 I'm also fully in love with everybody 0:46:41.110,0:46:44.080 else too right it's not like like it 0:46:43.180,0:46:46.360 goes both ways 0:46:44.080,0:46:48.190 like I tell people to buy into me that 0:46:46.360,0:46:52.870 work for me it's cuz I buy into them 0:46:48.190,0:46:59.380 first like I don't need anybody to gain 0:46:52.870,0:47:03.360 trust with me I've it's they're like I 0:46:59.380,0:47:07.390 believe if the human race is so grossly 0:47:03.360,0:47:09.340 underrated we are good of course we have 0:47:07.390,0:47:11.710 some bad there's and seven billion of us 0:47:09.340,0:47:14.230 but like when you look at our net score 0:47:11.710,0:47:16.360 it's bonger like you know any damage we 0:47:14.230,0:47:19.330 can be doing to each other on a hourly 0:47:16.360,0:47:22.210 basis and we don't like we're still here 0:47:19.330,0:47:23.950 like we won were the Alpha being and 0:47:22.210,0:47:26.290 we've figured out how to stay together 0:47:23.950,0:47:28.840 this is insane when you think about it 0:47:26.290,0:47:35.590 and yet everybody wants to dwell on like 0:47:28.840,0:47:37.690 somebody said something mean we already 0:47:35.590,0:47:39.850 have enough problems on this planet be 0:47:37.690,0:47:42.190 different be a person who makes a 0:47:39.850,0:47:45.190 difference be a person who makes a 0:47:42.190,0:47:47.810 change for good be a person who has an 0:47:45.190,0:47:51.760 impact on the world 0:47:47.810,0:47:55.160 stop denying the world of your greatness 0:47:51.760,0:47:56.530 you need to see every single day as a 0:47:55.160,0:47:59.780 bank account 0:47:56.530,0:48:02.870 nobody is poor nobody is rich 0:47:59.780,0:48:05.720 everyone has 24 hours each and how you 0:48:02.870,0:48:10.400 spend your balance each day will decide 0:48:05.720,0:48:13.310 who you become spend your time wisely 0:48:10.400,0:48:17.660 do not waste it on things out of your 0:48:13.310,0:48:19.580 control be prepared for a lot of 0:48:17.660,0:48:21.500 rejection whether it's in their personal 0:48:19.580,0:48:22.880 life that someone says you're too old 0:48:21.500,0:48:24.950 you're too fat you're too young you're 0:48:22.880,0:48:26.450 not going to do anything other than yes 0:48:24.950,0:48:27.590 you've got holes in your nose you got 0:48:26.450,0:48:29.360 these coming out your ears 0:48:27.590,0:48:31.340 whatever is other than yes this is 0:48:29.360,0:48:33.950 wonderful realize this can happen in 0:48:31.340,0:48:35.870 life as soon as people know that when 0:48:33.950,0:48:40.060 something goes wrong they look at a 0:48:35.870,0:48:40.060 piece of paper oh yeah that reminds me 0:48:40.300,0:48:45.920 but the best thing that happened to me 0:48:42.380,0:48:48.140 no one helped me no one felt sorry for 0:48:45.920,0:48:50.420 me no one looked at me and said like 0:48:48.140,0:48:52.280 this day and age though they'll take you 0:48:50.420,0:48:55.880 in and it'll tell you bye stop picking 0:48:52.280,0:48:57.440 on this person back then any care the 0:48:55.880,0:48:59.600 only person that's to turn this person 0:48:57.440,0:49:01.970 around it's me you don't reckon 0:48:59.600,0:49:04.970 turnaround is put myself through the 0:49:01.970,0:49:07.130 worst things possible a human being 0:49:04.970,0:49:10.010 could ever endure and I'd be the only 0:49:07.130,0:49:11.600 way that I can build this brain to 0:49:10.010,0:49:13.910 handle anything that comes in front of 0:49:11.600,0:49:16.380 him callus in my mind through pain and 0:49:13.910,0:49:18.450 suffering 0:49:16.380,0:49:20.640 don't be afraid to step up to your fears 0:49:18.450,0:49:22.769 don't be afraid to even become your 0:49:20.640,0:49:24.779 fears take this opportunity now to be 0:49:22.769,0:49:27.089 worthy of the success you want to be the 0:49:24.779,0:49:29.039 person that you admire someone who takes 0:49:27.089,0:49:31.109 extra steps to be more than they could 0:49:29.039,0:49:34.250 ever imagine those extra steps putting 0:49:31.109,0:49:34.250 in those extra hours 0:49:35.080,0:49:41.680 as humans we we want to find out how to 0:49:38.320,0:49:44.710 be someone else what we don't do is we 0:49:41.680,0:49:46.930 don't go inside so literally turn 0:49:44.710,0:49:48.220 yourself inside out read the book that 0:49:46.930,0:49:50.320 says like like we're writing a book 0:49:48.220,0:49:52.540 every day for life but we never read 0:49:50.320,0:49:54.070 that book so what I would challenge this 0:49:52.540,0:49:56.590 young man or or you don't want me to do 0:49:54.070,0:49:58.060 is you have to look inside of here so if 0:49:56.590,0:50:00.040 you see what you really want what are 0:49:58.060,0:50:02.230 you passionate about we use these words 0:50:00.040,0:50:04.480 and these little phrases of only the 0:50:02.230,0:50:10.890 strong survive and also the crap they're 0:50:04.480,0:50:13.930 all just fucking words take this as your 0:50:10.890,0:50:17.710 opportunity to change your life for the 0:50:13.930,0:50:20.530 better to enjoy the life you deserve to 0:50:17.710,0:50:23.740 have the future you've worked for the 0:50:20.530,0:50:26.530 future you know you can have use this as 0:50:23.740,0:50:30.940 a tool a tool to motivate your life 0:50:26.530,0:50:31.810 through your success this is where it 0:50:30.940,0:50:34.420 all starts 0:50:31.810,0:50:37.990 kick off your life in the direction that 0:50:34.420,0:50:40.750 pushes you towards a life a life where 0:50:37.990,0:50:42.570 you can take control make sure you know 0:50:40.750,0:50:46.030 which direction you're headed in 0:50:42.570,0:50:49.530 organize your world in your favor your 0:50:46.030,0:50:52.620 favor for your purpose for your future 0:50:49.530,0:50:56.070 this is the opening to take you towards 0:50:52.620,0:50:58.580 a life full of success you have this 0:50:56.070,0:51:03.780 control you have always had this power 0:50:58.580,0:51:06.660 unleash the animal the only way you're 0:51:03.780,0:51:09.960 ever going to get to the other side of 0:51:06.660,0:51:15.750 this journey is you have got to suffer 0:51:09.960,0:51:17.700 to grow to grow you must suffer and some 0:51:15.750,0:51:19.230 people will get it something wrong but 0:51:17.700,0:51:20.700 they have to see what their journey is 0:51:19.230,0:51:22.260 to start their journey several people 0:51:20.700,0:51:23.550 live to be 100 years old 0:51:22.260,0:51:25.230 they have great lives and they have 0:51:23.550,0:51:27.150 great kids the kids go to college long 0:51:25.230,0:51:29.730 sort of stuff but somewhere in their 0:51:27.150,0:51:32.640 life there was a point where they had a 0:51:29.730,0:51:35.510 decision to make they can go left or 0:51:32.640,0:51:35.510 right on this path 0:51:36.440,0:51:41.010 left was the easy route right was a hard 0:51:39.589,0:51:44.630 rock 0:51:41.010,0:51:47.280 [Music] 0:51:44.630,0:51:48.990 allows you to take the easy route and 0:51:47.280,0:51:50.940 they had a good life that way 0:51:48.990,0:51:54.540 but the better life was going to the 0:51:50.940,0:51:57.060 right side and you may have 20 years of 0:51:54.540,0:51:59.040 pain and suffering to get past it but a 0:51:57.060,0:52:02.220 lot of us die never truly starting our 0:51:59.040,0:52:03.840 journey and I would tell this to a 0:52:02.220,0:52:06.840 person you got to start your journey it 0:52:03.840,0:52:08.220 may suck but it will it will come out 0:52:06.840,0:52:10.080 the other side where you're coasting 0:52:08.220,0:52:14.340 just keep doing the right thing and the 0:52:10.080,0:52:19.290 good thing it'll happen the reason 0:52:14.340,0:52:22.850 people change is because of pain my 0:52:19.290,0:52:29.700 relationship with pain runs deep and 0:52:22.850,0:52:33.920 it's complicated on the one hand I love 0:52:29.700,0:52:37.830 pain I love trying to push the outer 0:52:33.920,0:52:41.940 edges of envelope of what the pain 0:52:37.830,0:52:45.000 experience is in a physical sense and 0:52:41.940,0:52:47.190 it's also been my greatest teacher in 0:52:45.000,0:52:50.220 terms of things that I've accomplished 0:52:47.190,0:52:52.350 but also my errant ways as well 0:52:50.220,0:52:57.870 pain is truly the only thing that's ever 0:52:52.350,0:53:00.030 gotten me to change so it's been my 0:52:57.870,0:53:05.010 growth accelerator as well as my 0:53:00.030,0:53:06.390 reminder of when I've gone astray okay 0:53:05.010,0:53:08.130 so there's a difference between pain and 0:53:06.390,0:53:10.620 suffering there's a difference between 0:53:08.130,0:53:13.830 there were we're all suffering we all 0:53:10.620,0:53:16.590 have suffering we all have an emptiness 0:53:13.830,0:53:18.450 or a dark place or corners inside of our 0:53:16.590,0:53:20.580 spirit in our mind that are not 0:53:18.450,0:53:23.580 fulfilled and watered and full like we 0:53:20.580,0:53:25.290 all can relate to that and when I'm 0:53:23.580,0:53:27.570 talking about pain I'm not necessarily 0:53:25.290,0:53:29.910 talking about suffering but 0:53:27.570,0:53:32.190 acknowledging our suffering being in 0:53:29.910,0:53:34.440 touch with the pain that's enough to say 0:53:32.190,0:53:35.720 when you're really honest that's enough 0:53:34.440,0:53:38.510 to say I 0:53:35.720,0:53:40.819 I don't want to do the same like this is 0:53:38.510,0:53:43.400 not the person I want to become and be 0:53:40.819,0:53:45.680 on a regular basis if that's the case if 0:53:43.400,0:53:48.430 that assumption is right then as a loved 0:53:45.680,0:53:51.710 one my job is to help you get real and 0:53:48.430,0:53:55.250 experience those places as often as you 0:53:51.710,0:53:58.190 can so that you make the declaration to 0:53:55.250,0:54:02.260 say no no no that's not okay for me to 0:53:58.190,0:54:05.450 feel and be this way on a regular basis 0:54:02.260,0:54:08.660 you know we're so conditioned to avoid 0:54:05.450,0:54:10.670 pain every message that we see every 0:54:08.660,0:54:13.809 billboard we see every advertisement 0:54:10.670,0:54:16.220 that we're exposed to is telling us that 0:54:13.809,0:54:19.880 happiness can be can be purchased 0:54:16.220,0:54:22.789 through comfort luxury through ease and 0:54:19.880,0:54:25.190 that's sort of implicit in that is that 0:54:22.789,0:54:27.380 that's how we find happiness and I can 0:54:25.190,0:54:29.930 tell you that I'm happiest and most 0:54:27.380,0:54:32.599 alive when I'm butting up against the 0:54:29.930,0:54:35.450 outer edges of my pain threshold and I'm 0:54:32.599,0:54:38.089 not afraid of it and so when I start to 0:54:35.450,0:54:39.859 feel that sensation rather than shirk 0:54:38.089,0:54:44.510 away from it I realize that's an 0:54:39.859,0:54:48.470 opportunity to experience a heightened 0:54:44.510,0:54:51.920 sense of myself in my environment to 0:54:48.470,0:54:54.500 really be in a position where everything 0:54:51.920,0:54:57.460 else falls away and it's just you and 0:54:54.500,0:55:01.069 your ability to take one step forward 0:54:57.460,0:55:03.740 there's a purity to that that again 0:55:01.069,0:55:06.079 isn't another great feature and so in 0:55:03.740,0:55:08.569 terms of techniques I've just learned 0:55:06.079,0:55:11.569 through experience that just like David 0:55:08.569,0:55:14.390 Goggin says when the signals that you're 0:55:11.569,0:55:15.650 receiving are telling you to stop that 0:55:14.390,0:55:17.420 you don't necessarily have to pay 0:55:15.650,0:55:21.170 attention to that that that you are 0:55:17.420,0:55:24.859 capable of so much more if you can 0:55:21.170,0:55:27.440 develop the acuity the presence of mind 0:55:24.859,0:55:29.539 and the wherewithal to then take that 0:55:27.440,0:55:31.940 next step and when you're on the other 0:55:29.539,0:55:34.279 side of it to realize you're still okay 0:55:31.940,0:55:37.369 and you can take another step and a 0:55:34.279,0:55:38.930 whole your horizon extends and you 0:55:37.369,0:55:41.630 realize that there's a whole world of 0:55:38.930,0:55:44.910 potential and possibility available to 0:55:41.630,0:55:53.480 you that you weren't previously aware of 0:55:44.910,0:55:56.490 [Music] 0:55:53.480,0:55:59.670 never should never exist in your world 0:55:56.490,0:56:02.250 if you want to improve if you can see 0:55:59.670,0:56:05.460 yourself being better never should even 0:56:02.250,0:56:07.800 be in the picture you have the power to 0:56:05.460,0:56:10.110 do anything possible the power to 0:56:07.800,0:56:13.440 transform into somebody capable of 0:56:10.110,0:56:16.470 anything you can imagine this this is 0:56:13.440,0:56:22.170 the power you deserve let your success 0:56:16.470,0:56:24.540 let your mindset be the beginning the 0:56:22.170,0:56:26.730 journey doesn't in here this journey 0:56:24.540,0:56:29.250 doesn't end when the Sun goes up when 0:56:26.730,0:56:31.620 the sun goes down it doesn't end when 0:56:29.250,0:56:33.930 you close your eyes doesn't end for one 0:56:31.620,0:56:39.780 second because hard work waits for 0:56:33.930,0:56:41.430 nobody let yourself be heard let your 0:56:39.780,0:56:44.130 power speak for itself 0:56:41.430,0:56:46.470 let your beginning be the potential to 0:56:44.130,0:56:48.780 take you further and further along your 0:56:46.470,0:56:51.360 path to success you are the only 0:56:48.780,0:56:54.420 inspiration you need you are the only 0:56:51.360,0:56:57.510 force it takes to be someone more to 0:56:54.420,0:57:00.120 have so much more remember your worth as 0:56:57.510,0:57:02.490 a person remember the possibilities of 0:57:00.120,0:57:05.880 your power the fruitful future that 0:57:02.490,0:57:08.430 lingers over your shoulders this is 0:57:05.880,0:57:10.740 where you never say never never say 0:57:08.430,0:57:13.710 never to any possibility to any 0:57:10.740,0:57:17.850 opportunity to any mistakes to any fear 0:57:13.710,0:57:20.140 you say yes this this is the only way to 0:57:17.850,0:57:23.440 grow 0:57:20.140,0:57:25.060 I think that that most people set the 0:57:23.440,0:57:26.530 wrong goals for themselves and it's 0:57:25.060,0:57:28.450 because they're disconnected from who 0:57:26.530,0:57:30.160 they are they are living someone else's 0:57:28.450,0:57:32.500 life or they're living a life that's so 0:57:30.160,0:57:34.030 disconnected from who they are it 0:57:32.500,0:57:37.690 becomes very difficult to set the right 0:57:34.030,0:57:40.990 goal so I think in order to reconcile 0:57:37.690,0:57:42.460 that you have to look inward you know 0:57:40.990,0:57:44.650 and that can be different for everybody 0:57:42.460,0:57:46.510 that can mean a consistent meditation 0:57:44.650,0:57:50.770 practice that can mean therapy that can 0:57:46.510,0:57:54.160 mean you know starting to do yoga 0:57:50.770,0:57:59.920 it can mean many many things but I think 0:57:54.160,0:58:03.550 there's no and run around the very 0:57:59.920,0:58:06.100 difficult long process of really trying 0:58:03.550,0:58:08.800 to be honest with yourself about who you 0:58:06.100,0:58:11.530 are what's important to you what you 0:58:08.800,0:58:14.860 care about and then beginning to breathe 0:58:11.530,0:58:19.090 life into those things as frivolous as 0:58:14.860,0:58:20.770 they may seem to bring expression to the 0:58:19.090,0:58:23.230 things that that you do care about that 0:58:20.770,0:58:24.640 that that get you excited in the morning 0:58:23.230,0:58:28.770 and that doesn't mean you quit your job 0:58:24.640,0:58:31.870 tomorrow but the more you can foster 0:58:28.770,0:58:35.440 something that has personal importance 0:58:31.870,0:58:37.250 to you I think that's the first step in 0:58:35.440,0:58:40.530 trying to 0:58:37.250,0:58:41.280 move past whatever it is that's holding 0:58:40.530,0:58:42.599 you back 0:58:41.280,0:58:45.900 whether it's professionally or 0:58:42.599,0:58:49.790 personally to being a more integrated 0:58:45.900,0:58:49.790 authentic version of yourself 0:58:51.700,0:58:57.740 let this be the moment you remember 0:58:54.860,0:59:00.950 show yourself as the rocket in your own 0:58:57.740,0:59:03.140 life this is the journey you're on you 0:59:00.950,0:59:05.270 control the progress you make you 0:59:03.140,0:59:06.860 strengthen the path that transforms you 0:59:05.270,0:59:09.050 into the person you've been waiting to 0:59:06.860,0:59:11.930 become the person that allows you to 0:59:09.050,0:59:14.330 become someone new you have the skills 0:59:11.930,0:59:16.520 to be bold the strengths to grow faster 0:59:14.330,0:59:19.040 the power to be stronger the journey 0:59:16.520,0:59:21.950 you've waited for is here here for you 0:59:19.040,0:59:24.170 to be something better this is the 0:59:21.950,0:59:26.800 opportunity in front of you this is your 0:59:24.170,0:59:29.360 future staring at you face to face 0:59:26.800,0:59:32.840 waiting for the power to be granted to 0:59:29.360,0:59:35.420 you your power is welcomed welcomed by 0:59:32.840,0:59:39.020 your progress your progress that guide 0:59:35.420,0:59:41.510 you towards your future be someone you 0:59:39.020,0:59:44.420 can take pride in become someone you 0:59:41.510,0:59:47.260 know that you can become this is the 0:59:44.420,0:59:50.690 journey you have the journey you're on 0:59:47.260,0:59:53.060 take the first step towards success take 0:59:50.690,0:59:56.030 the first movie of faith into the risks 0:59:53.060,0:59:58.790 of your life push past the limits move 0:59:56.030,1:00:03.910 toward a future you can imagine a future 0:59:58.790,1:00:03.910 use design this is your power 1:00:06.250,1:00:11.690 self-reliance is everything don't don't 1:00:09.740,1:00:13.880 expect anybody to do anything for you 1:00:11.690,1:00:15.530 I'm the only one who can get it done and 1:00:13.880,1:00:18.560 if you just buckle down and go the extra 1:00:15.530,1:00:21.700 mile you will solve the problem and you 1:00:18.560,1:00:21.700 will make your way in the world 1:00:23.020,1:00:28.670 you know we all have a unique song and I 1:00:26.330,1:00:31.220 think most people to echo the words of 1:00:28.670,1:00:33.560 Henry David Thoreau are leading lives of 1:00:31.220,1:00:35.270 quiet desperation and go to the grave 1:00:33.560,1:00:37.480 with the song still in them and I find 1:00:35.270,1:00:42.020 that tragic and so if there's anything 1:00:37.480,1:00:44.360 that that that my work is about it's 1:00:42.020,1:00:46.820 about helping people become cognizant of 1:00:44.360,1:00:50.090 that and to take action so that they 1:00:46.820,1:00:52.670 don't become that person leading a life 1:00:50.090,1:00:54.380 of quiet desperation which I think I 1:00:52.670,1:00:57.110 don't know I wouldn't want to say most 1:00:54.380,1:01:00.040 people but a lot of people are and I 1:00:57.110,1:01:00.040 found out heartbreaking 1:01:02.370,1:01:06.090 you know what's your major malfunction 1:01:03.990,1:01:08.700 right now what's the thing that keeps 1:01:06.090,1:01:11.670 you up at night do you resent the most 1:01:08.700,1:01:12.930 what are you afraid of what do you want 1:01:11.670,1:01:14.250 to achieve what's in it 1:01:12.930,1:01:16.200 what's in it what do you think is in 1:01:14.250,1:01:21.360 your way you know I think just by asking 1:01:16.200,1:01:25.650 people questions and and and and then 1:01:21.360,1:01:29.220 holding a vision for that better life 1:01:25.650,1:01:30.600 for them to say I believe in you I'm not 1:01:29.220,1:01:33.420 here to tell you what to do or how to 1:01:30.600,1:01:35.820 live your life but I believe in your 1:01:33.420,1:01:36.890 greatest expression and I'm gonna hold 1:01:35.820,1:01:39.810 space for you 1:01:36.890,1:01:41.850 to give people permission to be honest 1:01:39.810,1:01:43.760 to be vulnerable we're so afraid of 1:01:41.850,1:01:47.760 being vulnerable 1:01:43.760,1:01:49.770 we're terrified of being honest we're so 1:01:47.760,1:01:52.860 used to being judged and being held to a 1:01:49.770,1:01:54.330 standard that society sets for us that 1:01:52.860,1:01:56.130 we don't give ourselves permission to 1:01:54.330,1:01:58.790 even ask these questions let alone 1:01:56.130,1:01:58.790 answer them 1:01:59.680,1:02:04.839 what have you done today to be different 1:02:02.400,1:02:06.390 what have you done to step outside the 1:02:04.839,1:02:09.069 conventions that you set for yourself 1:02:06.390,1:02:12.460 the conventions and the rules set by 1:02:09.069,1:02:14.770 your past today you have the power to 1:02:12.460,1:02:16.690 move on today you have the power to move 1:02:14.770,1:02:19.710 away from your past and move towards a 1:02:16.690,1:02:19.710 successful future 1:02:21.520,1:02:26.210 this is your decision your call to make 1:02:24.859,1:02:28.160 in your future 1:02:26.210,1:02:30.049 this is how your life can gain its own 1:02:28.160,1:02:32.869 direction and this is where your life 1:02:30.049,1:02:35.420 can be so much more so much better you 1:02:32.869,1:02:37.460 can make it better you have always had 1:02:35.420,1:02:39.799 the potential to take one more step the 1:02:37.460,1:02:41.780 potential to take the risks others are 1:02:39.799,1:02:44.180 too scared to take because you are more 1:02:41.780,1:02:46.640 and you are stronger and you have the 1:02:44.180,1:02:49.089 determination and the courage to be so 1:02:46.640,1:02:49.089 much more