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Dialogue: 0,0:00:04.73,0:00:08.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Bell)
Dialogue: 0,0:00:10.16,0:00:28.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Bell)
Dialogue: 0,0:00:35.79,0:00:44.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Asking question in foreign language)
Dialogue: 0,0:00:55.53,0:01:00.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If one of the basis\Nof the Buddhist religion,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:01.54,0:01:03.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is love for Mother Nature.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:03.66,0:01:06.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Why isn't this also\Nequally true of romantic love
Dialogue: 0,0:01:07.45,0:01:09.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,between two people
Dialogue: 0,0:01:10.46,0:01:14.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and their demonstration\Nof love for each other.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:21.84,0:01:24.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Can someone repeat?
Dialogue: 0,0:01:24.76,0:01:27.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Seems to be an interesting question.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:27.73,0:01:30.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:01:30.60,0:01:34.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She asks if Buddhism\Nsupports love for Mother Nature,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:34.42,0:01:39.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,why doesn't it also support \Nromantic love between two people
Dialogue: 0,0:01:39.78,0:01:44.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and demonstrations of affection\Nbetween two people.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:52.04,0:02:04.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The Buddha is a teacher of love,\Ntrue love.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:05.52,0:02:15.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Love for Mother Earth,\Nshould be true love.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:15.06,0:02:19.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And if it is true love\Nit can bring a lot of happiness
Dialogue: 0,0:02:19.28,0:02:23.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to you and to Mother Earth.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:23.34,0:02:27.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And romantic love,\Nif it is true love,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:27.86,0:02:31.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it can also bring a lot of happiness.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:33.43,0:02:40.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But if it is not true love, \Nit will make you suffer,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:40.21,0:02:43.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and make the other\Nsuffer as well.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:43.80,0:02:48.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In the teaching of the Buddha,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:49.59,0:02:54.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,true love needs four elements.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:55.56,0:03:00.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,First of all:\NMaitri - loving-kindness
Dialogue: 0,0:03:00.76,0:03:05.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that is the capacity to offer happiness.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:05.59,0:03:10.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you cannot offer happiness,\Nthat is not true love.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:10.30,0:03:12.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In romantic love,\N
Dialogue: 0,0:03:12.91,0:03:19.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if you are not able to help\Nthe other person to be happy,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:19.39,0:03:23.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that is not true love.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:23.30,0:03:25.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So you should train yourself\Nin order to be able
Dialogue: 0,0:03:25.94,0:03:27.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to offer happiness\N
Dialogue: 0,0:03:27.96,0:03:30.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to you and to him,\Nor to her.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:30.67,0:03:37.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Without that, both will suffer.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:38.11,0:03:43.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The second element of true love \Nis compassion.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:44.98,0:03:59.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Compassion is the kind of energy \Nthat can help remove suffering;
Dialogue: 0,0:03:59.29,0:04:06.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that can help transform suffering\Nin you and in the other person.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:07.16,0:04:12.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you cannot transform \N
Dialogue: 0,0:04:12.51,0:04:18.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and take care of the suffering\Nin you and the other person
Dialogue: 0,0:04:18.00,0:04:19.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that is not true love.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:19.94,0:04:24.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That is why "Karuna",\Nthe second element of true love,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:24.02,0:04:27.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,should be cultivated\Nby you and the other person.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:30.72,0:04:34.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Romantic and not romantic,\Nthat is not important.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:35.38,0:04:38.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What is important is\Nwhether it is true love,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:38.38,0:04:42.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or not true love, right?
Dialogue: 0,0:04:42.48,0:04:47.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The third element of true love
Dialogue: 0,0:04:47.06,0:04:50.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is Joy.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:50.06,0:04:51.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If by loving,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:51.41,0:04:53.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you make the other person\Ncry all the time,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:53.72,0:04:54.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and you cry all the time,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:54.92,0:04:58.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That is not true love.\N(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:04:58.08,0:05:01.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Romantic or not romantic.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:01.67,0:05:07.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,True love is inclusiveness.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:09.89,0:05:15.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You do not exclude,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:19.31,0:05:22.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,his suffering is your suffering,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:22.94,0:05:26.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,his happiness is your happiness,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:26.55,0:05:34.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There is no individual suffering\Nand happiness anymore.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:34.21,0:05:36.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In true love,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:36.55,0:05:41.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there is the element\Nof inclusiveness, non-discrimination.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:41.42,0:05:46.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There's no separation,\Nno barrier,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:46.24,0:05:50.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Between you and the other person.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:51.11,0:05:53.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In that spirit you cannot say,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:53.100,0:05:55.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"That's your problem!"\NNo.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:56.57,0:05:59.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Your problem is my problem
Dialogue: 0,0:06:00.22,0:06:05.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,My suffering is your suffering.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:05.27,0:06:13.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So this is the fourth element\Nof true love.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:14.70,0:06:19.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And if romantic love\Nhas all these four elements,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:19.83,0:06:22.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it can bring\Na lot of happiness also.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:22.62,0:06:27.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The Buddha did not say, never any\Nnegative things about true love
Dialogue: 0,0:06:35.53,0:06:40.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In romantic love\Nif you are successful.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:40.79,0:06:56.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You will cultivate a lot of \Nloving-kindness and compassion.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:56.97,0:07:04.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And very soon\Nyour love will be all-embracing.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:06.40,0:07:13.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The other person is no longer\Nthe only object of your love.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:13.16,0:07:15.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because your love\Nwill continue to grow.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:15.71,0:07:21.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Your love will embrace\Nall of us!
Dialogue: 0,0:07:21.80,0:07:26.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And happiness \Nwill become limitless.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:26.44,0:07:30.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That is the love\Nof the Buddha.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:30.04,0:07:33.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That is the meaning\Nof the fourth element
Dialogue: 0,0:07:33.08,0:07:36.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of true love:\NInclusiveness
Dialogue: 0,0:07:36.29,0:07:40.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If it is true love,\Nit will continue to grow,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:40.02,0:07:43.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and include more and more.\NNot only humans...
Dialogue: 0,0:07:43.70,0:07:47.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but also animals, vegetables,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:47.38,0:07:50.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and minerals.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:50.38,0:07:55.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And that is a great love.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:55.09,0:07:58.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Maha Karuna"\N"Maha Maitri"
Dialogue: 0,0:07:58.07,0:08:05.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And that is the love of the Buddha.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:07.41,0:08:27.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Bell)