WEBVTT 00:00:02.610 --> 00:00:09.860 [Translated and captioned by ShibaSubs] 00:00:10.100 --> 00:00:12.620 Hi everyone, welcome to Shanghai Share Life. 00:00:12.620 --> 00:00:15.500 Sponsored by the exercise app KEEP. 00:00:16.780 --> 00:00:19.220 Keep Exercise App -- Burn Fat Better! 00:00:19.620 --> 00:00:22.640 So this group of roommates has cohabited for 21 days so far. 00:00:22.860 --> 00:00:25.220 Because it takes a long time 00:00:25.220 --> 00:00:27.370 to document their life authentically, 00:00:27.370 --> 00:00:30.320 we haven't checked in on them for a while. 00:00:30.320 --> 00:00:32.220 Have we forgotten what happened? 00:00:32.900 --> 00:00:35.700 Let's recap what happened in week 6. 00:00:35.700 --> 00:00:39.380 Binshen went to Carmon's coffee festival to help with odd jobs. 00:00:39.380 --> 00:00:42.380 The two's interactions at the festival were like a teen drama. 00:00:42.380 --> 00:00:44.930 That night Carmon brought Binshen some waffles. 00:00:45.340 --> 00:00:47.870 Binshen replied with a "Thanks" on the blackboard. 00:00:48.660 --> 00:00:52.220 So did he mean just "thanks" or, "I love you too"? 00:00:53.380 --> 00:00:55.060 It's just a simple thank you. 00:00:55.060 --> 00:00:55.860 "Thanks" 00:00:55.860 --> 00:00:58.410 It feels like he just shut her down in one word. 00:00:58.700 --> 00:00:59.860 The relationship -- 00:00:59.860 --> 00:01:01.260 He's slow to warm up. 00:01:01.900 --> 00:01:06.240 As for our fast-to-warm-up friend, Tianqi, 00:01:06.240 --> 00:01:08.790 Too warmed up. And one sided! 00:01:10.940 --> 00:01:12.920 Would you like to be my girlfriend? 00:01:13.020 --> 00:01:14.910 I feel like right now we wouldn't 00:01:14.910 --> 00:01:16.490 be in the most stable position. 00:01:16.490 --> 00:01:20.050 If I agreed to be with you right now, it might... 00:01:21.260 --> 00:01:23.040 [panelist] He was rejected. 00:01:23.330 --> 00:01:25.220 Great, let's see what new developments 00:01:25.220 --> 00:01:26.900 will happen this week. 00:01:41.240 --> 00:01:42.840 Let's stop talking about it. 00:01:42.840 --> 00:01:45.360 Talking about your situation is getting us all down. 00:01:45.360 --> 00:01:47.556 Binshen, how are you lately? 00:01:48.960 --> 00:01:50.400 How's it going? 00:01:50.400 --> 00:01:52.740 Is this like, you using me to cheer him up? 00:01:53.000 --> 00:01:54.680 Not using you to cheer up, 00:01:54.680 --> 00:01:56.480 just checking in on you, right? 00:01:56.480 --> 00:01:59.940 That night we were grilling, you also had some 00:02:01.000 --> 00:02:03.390 ...romantic developments. 00:02:08.340 --> 00:02:10.479 I knew you were going to bring it up. 00:02:10.919 --> 00:02:12.600 Why not bring that up? 00:02:12.600 --> 00:02:15.140 I think Carmon is pretty great. Yeah? 00:02:15.560 --> 00:02:17.600 She's so forward with you. 00:02:18.540 --> 00:02:19.940 I feel like 00:02:21.060 --> 00:02:23.300 In that moment I was kind of at a loss 00:02:23.300 --> 00:02:25.070 I didn't know what to do. 00:02:25.540 --> 00:02:26.900 It's all your fault. 00:02:26.900 --> 00:02:28.600 How is it my fault? 00:02:28.600 --> 00:02:30.320 Just that you didn't have to 00:02:30.320 --> 00:02:32.080 make that dare, or say whatever. 00:02:32.080 --> 00:02:34.400 No, I just... that was the only thing I said. 00:02:34.840 --> 00:02:36.860 That's pretty impressive honestly. 00:02:39.520 --> 00:02:41.660 Nice, nice, nice, nice. 00:02:44.140 --> 00:02:48.680 No, I just think that we, like, feel like just roommates still. 00:02:49.000 --> 00:02:51.770 We're all just living together having a good time, I think. 00:02:51.770 --> 00:02:53.720 We're not at that next step yet. 00:02:55.860 --> 00:02:57.730 - And you? - Me? 00:02:57.960 --> 00:02:59.200 There's nothing with me. 00:02:59.200 --> 00:03:02.890 Didn't I just do the whole making amends ordeal with Yujie? 00:03:03.480 --> 00:03:04.960 Getting intimate. 00:03:04.960 --> 00:03:06.480 No, not getting intimate. 00:03:06.480 --> 00:03:09.550 We're just regular friends right now. 00:03:11.000 --> 00:03:12.700 We hang out sometimes. 00:03:13.520 --> 00:03:14.800 Look at that guy. 00:03:14.800 --> 00:03:18.020 He's nodding, he definitely likes Yujie. 00:03:22.340 --> 00:03:23.930 What were you up to today? 00:03:23.930 --> 00:03:25.380 My coffee festival. 00:03:25.380 --> 00:03:28.700 Oh, and Binshen came by to help out. 00:03:28.861 --> 00:03:30.540 He went with you? 00:03:31.100 --> 00:03:33.780 Though he had something after so he left early. 00:03:35.940 --> 00:03:39.140 To be honest, this was kind of my first time alone 00:03:39.900 --> 00:03:42.590 One-on-one with him -- oh no, the second time. 00:03:43.020 --> 00:03:47.080 And... I sensed that there does seem to be a little sense of 00:03:47.080 --> 00:03:48.380 distance between us. 00:03:48.380 --> 00:03:51.300 Maybe because of the age gap, I'm not really sure. 00:03:51.300 --> 00:03:53.060 It just feels a bit... 00:03:57.020 --> 00:03:59.900 It feels like I'm maybe quite a bit older than him. 00:03:59.900 --> 00:04:02.860 I'm older, about like six years. 00:04:05.920 --> 00:04:07.340 No... 00:04:08.360 --> 00:04:10.640 No, why should that matter? 00:04:10.640 --> 00:04:13.160 Age is just a number. 00:04:16.040 --> 00:04:17.899 Age is not a big deal. 00:04:20.860 --> 00:04:24.860 But sometimes with him, I can't parse out his intentions. 00:04:24.860 --> 00:04:27.380 Is it possibly because I'm an older girl 00:04:27.380 --> 00:04:30.320 I'm his senior and I'm a girl so he's trying to 00:04:30.320 --> 00:04:33.810 help me out because he's a gentleman, or what? 00:04:33.980 --> 00:04:35.700 Just like, helping a sister out? 00:04:35.700 --> 00:04:38.850 It's hard for me to work out. 00:04:44.360 --> 00:04:46.550 This is getting... they're getting really deep. 00:04:46.680 --> 00:04:48.780 Yujie, just say it! 00:04:51.440 --> 00:04:53.480 Honestly I think 00:04:53.480 --> 00:04:54.860 it's not a big deal, right? 00:04:55.760 --> 00:04:58.306 Don't overthink it. 00:04:58.840 --> 00:05:00.220 Right? 00:05:09.520 --> 00:05:11.274 Chu Mengna (NaNa) Student, 22 years old 00:05:11.274 --> 00:05:13.072 Chen Xiaowei (Binshen) Professional gamer, 23 years old 00:05:13.072 --> 00:05:14.905 Jin Yujie Model, 22 years old 00:05:14.905 --> 00:05:16.935 Liu Keli (Curry) Entrepreneur, 29 years old 00:05:16.935 --> 00:05:19.201 Wu Kawen (Carmon) Designer, 29 years old 00:05:19.201 --> 00:05:20.708 Wang Tianqi Salesperson, 26 years old 00:05:33.594 --> 00:05:36.824 Episode 7, Week 4 "How Do I Get Close to You?" 00:05:44.840 --> 00:05:46.430 Here's a big one. 00:05:49.400 --> 00:05:51.120 When does filming start? 00:05:51.120 --> 00:05:53.430 I'm not sure, but he already gave me the script. 00:05:53.430 --> 00:05:55.570 I skimmed it, it's just... 00:05:56.000 --> 00:05:58.560 a little bland. - A little bland. 00:05:58.560 --> 00:06:01.080 Maybe because his script isn't fully formed yet. 00:06:01.080 --> 00:06:02.980 It's just that the whole premise... 00:06:02.980 --> 00:06:05.160 because it starts off with Szechuan dialect-- 00:06:05.160 --> 00:06:06.420 Hey 00:06:06.420 --> 00:06:09.686 You're home? I thought you were gone. 00:06:09.760 --> 00:06:11.220 What're you guys eating? 00:06:11.840 --> 00:06:13.140 There's more over there. 00:06:15.880 --> 00:06:17.890 So you're saying it starts 00:06:17.890 --> 00:06:20.440 with a general background and intro? 00:06:20.440 --> 00:06:22.320 No, It just jumps straight into it. 00:06:22.320 --> 00:06:24.080 The characters aren't fleshed out. 00:06:26.540 --> 00:06:30.460 The general plot is about two guys fighting over a girl. 00:06:30.460 --> 00:06:31.840 Right? 00:06:34.140 --> 00:06:35.680 I'm done. 00:06:36.140 --> 00:06:39.600 - So fast. - Can you guys help clean up later? 00:06:40.340 --> 00:06:42.440 - You're not having more? - Nope. 00:06:42.440 --> 00:06:45.440 [panelist] She's getting out. She doesn't want to be near him. 00:06:45.440 --> 00:06:47.880 And she didn't say a word to him. 00:07:08.820 --> 00:07:09.940 Water? 00:07:09.940 --> 00:07:10.960 Thanks. 00:07:11.620 --> 00:07:13.810 [panelist] He's actually taking initiative. 00:07:15.020 --> 00:07:16.480 What're you up to? 00:07:16.480 --> 00:07:17.960 Just skimming. 00:07:19.860 --> 00:07:22.260 [panelist] He can't get the conversation going. 00:07:22.260 --> 00:07:23.835 It's over. 00:07:24.420 --> 00:07:25.160 It's over. 00:07:28.180 --> 00:07:30.220 So are you going... out today? 00:07:30.220 --> 00:07:31.500 Or what? 00:07:32.500 --> 00:07:33.620 I'm going out. 00:07:34.300 --> 00:07:36.700 I should go back to practice. 00:07:44.640 --> 00:07:46.440 Just now at breakfast, 00:07:47.380 --> 00:07:49.840 you ate so fast, and then left. 00:07:50.720 --> 00:07:53.780 Are you in a bad mood today? 00:07:55.280 --> 00:07:57.200 I'm fine, just so so. 00:07:57.200 --> 00:07:58.980 Not good, not bad. 00:08:01.360 --> 00:08:03.120 Just normal. 00:08:05.220 --> 00:08:06.420 [panelist] She seems mad. 00:08:06.420 --> 00:08:07.890 - Correct. - Definitely. 00:08:10.940 --> 00:08:12.620 I'm going up. 00:08:12.620 --> 00:08:14.030 Ok. 00:08:26.060 --> 00:08:28.130 Is she that mad? 00:08:28.340 --> 00:08:31.340 - So mad? - Of course! 00:08:31.340 --> 00:08:33.500 You drank my coffee and whatever 00:08:33.500 --> 00:08:36.399 and then you went to breakfast with her behind my back? 00:08:36.659 --> 00:08:38.740 And then went to help her with whatever? 00:08:38.740 --> 00:08:40.700 Just get away from me then. Just go. 00:08:40.700 --> 00:08:42.659 So she's returning his coffee? 00:08:42.980 --> 00:08:44.740 Yes, give his coffee back. 00:08:44.740 --> 00:08:46.140 I'm leaving this coffee. 00:09:02.020 --> 00:09:04.140 [panelist] He got paid. - How much? 00:09:04.140 --> 00:09:06.940 [panelist] 3,500 - His balance is a little over 4,000. 00:09:22.820 --> 00:09:24.300 When are you getting here? 00:09:28.380 --> 00:09:30.100 Sure, sure. 00:09:30.100 --> 00:09:31.620 I'll take you out. 00:09:35.100 --> 00:09:36.420 Work is... 00:09:36.780 --> 00:09:38.020 pretty miserable. 00:09:38.020 --> 00:09:40.380 No money, no girl. I can't catch a break. 00:09:43.580 --> 00:09:44.740 Anyways 00:09:44.740 --> 00:09:46.140 I didn't make much. 00:09:46.140 --> 00:09:48.520 They docked two or three thousand. 00:09:49.540 --> 00:09:51.630 [panelist] They docked that much? 00:09:59.000 --> 00:10:00.320 - Hey. - Hey. 00:10:00.320 --> 00:10:02.590 - Hi everyone! - Hi. 00:10:02.660 --> 00:10:04.660 You're all busy? 00:10:04.660 --> 00:10:07.900 Yeah, the work never ends. I brought it home to do. 00:10:08.500 --> 00:10:10.920 I'm chilling. I'm lying here. 00:10:14.520 --> 00:10:16.200 - Hi. - You're back? 00:10:16.200 --> 00:10:18.200 - You're back! - Hey. 00:10:32.240 --> 00:10:33.680 The vibe in this house is 00:10:33.680 --> 00:10:34.880 kind of tense. 00:10:36.460 --> 00:10:37.940 What's with him? 00:10:37.940 --> 00:10:39.480 Don't know. 00:10:53.200 --> 00:10:54.680 [panelist] In love and career, 00:10:54.680 --> 00:10:56.380 two failed crops (an idiom). 00:10:57.420 --> 00:10:58.880 So discouraging. 00:11:02.920 --> 00:11:04.320 Get in here, hurry up. 00:11:08.500 --> 00:11:09.560 So tired. 00:11:23.720 --> 00:11:25.080 What's up with you? 00:11:27.920 --> 00:11:30.040 I'll tell you, but don't tell the others. 00:11:31.480 --> 00:11:33.280 What is it? So mysterious. 00:11:33.280 --> 00:11:35.110 It's not. It's not a big deal. Just... 00:11:35.460 --> 00:11:37.180 I got paid today. 00:11:37.780 --> 00:11:39.170 And... 00:11:39.900 --> 00:11:42.530 I feel like they basically docked my entire pay. 00:11:42.530 --> 00:11:45.140 Well not all, but still it was a lot. 00:11:48.620 --> 00:11:50.380 And wasn't Nana just saying how 00:11:51.460 --> 00:11:53.180 right now both of us aren't 00:11:54.100 --> 00:11:55.950 super stable, career-wise. 00:11:56.780 --> 00:11:58.720 She wanted us to accomplish things 00:11:59.740 --> 00:12:02.120 before we started dating. 00:12:02.120 --> 00:12:04.520 So I just don't really want her to know about this. 00:12:04.520 --> 00:12:06.890 That's why I said to not tell the others. 00:12:11.660 --> 00:12:13.060 How do I put this? 00:12:13.820 --> 00:12:16.600 I think when I first started my career I was like you. 00:12:16.660 --> 00:12:18.660 When I came back to Shanghai from abroad, 00:12:18.660 --> 00:12:19.680 I was the same way. 00:12:19.680 --> 00:12:22.220 My behaviors then, including some of my work habits. 00:12:22.220 --> 00:12:23.740 weren't too good. 00:12:23.740 --> 00:12:27.020 You can try out following their rules. 00:12:27.020 --> 00:12:30.140 And then when you find a job that suits you better 00:12:30.140 --> 00:12:32.280 you'll feel like a fish in water. 00:12:33.700 --> 00:12:35.780 So what happened today is 00:12:36.420 --> 00:12:37.820 kind of a 00:12:38.260 --> 00:12:40.690 bad thing, but it's also a good thing. 00:12:41.620 --> 00:12:44.750 If you think of this money as the price you paid 00:12:44.780 --> 00:12:46.220 to learn good work habits, 00:12:46.220 --> 00:12:47.580 I think 00:12:47.580 --> 00:12:49.720 it's not a bad price. 00:12:51.860 --> 00:12:52.900 You're right. 00:12:55.300 --> 00:12:57.820 If I can really change for the better 00:12:57.820 --> 00:12:59.920 from this, it is good in the long run. 00:13:00.500 --> 00:13:01.700 Just think of 00:13:01.700 --> 00:13:03.100 this incident as 00:13:03.100 --> 00:13:04.240 the push you needed. 00:13:05.860 --> 00:13:08.100 I do really want 00:13:08.100 --> 00:13:09.920 to improve myself. 00:13:12.060 --> 00:13:14.080 And since you now have this girl you like, 00:13:14.080 --> 00:13:16.100 you're also improving yourself for her. 00:13:16.100 --> 00:13:17.440 So she can see it. 00:13:18.540 --> 00:13:20.890 [panelist] Not bad, Teacher Liu. Not bad. 00:13:23.060 --> 00:13:24.200 Yeah, 00:13:24.540 --> 00:13:25.760 thanks. 00:13:26.540 --> 00:13:28.380 Thanks for what? 00:13:29.020 --> 00:13:32.050 [panelist] I feel like it's genuine gratitude. 00:13:39.100 --> 00:13:40.960 Tianqi got a talking to. 00:13:41.260 --> 00:13:42.860 Yes, he's good at taking it. 00:13:42.860 --> 00:13:46.160 He's gotten to the point where he'll even listen to Teacher Liu. 00:13:46.660 --> 00:13:48.160 He really did listen. 00:13:49.260 --> 00:13:51.020 Because what Teacher Liu said 00:13:51.020 --> 00:13:53.060 Is actually common sense advice. 00:13:53.060 --> 00:13:55.540 - Yeah. - But if you haven't gotten to that point 00:13:55.540 --> 00:13:56.820 you just can't process it. 00:13:56.820 --> 00:13:58.530 You would just think it's bullshit. 00:13:58.530 --> 00:14:01.150 But if you've been pushed to that point, you'll realize 00:14:01.150 --> 00:14:03.520 that Teacher Liu is absolutely right. - Yes. 00:14:03.700 --> 00:14:05.740 But there's a difference between 00:14:05.740 --> 00:14:07.180 understanding and changing. 00:14:07.180 --> 00:14:08.720 We have to watch his actions. 00:14:11.060 --> 00:14:12.620 I think we have to talk about 00:14:12.620 --> 00:14:14.500 Yujie ignoring Binshen. 00:14:14.500 --> 00:14:16.340 Is it jealous anger? 00:14:16.340 --> 00:14:17.180 Definitely. 00:14:17.180 --> 00:14:19.320 She's so jealous. 00:14:19.320 --> 00:14:21.900 She feels like, Binshen had coffee with her 00:14:21.900 --> 00:14:24.892 and then he decided to be with Carmon. 00:14:24.892 --> 00:14:26.980 "We just had one coffee together," 00:14:26.980 --> 00:14:29.250 "but they went to a whole coffee festival." 00:14:30.660 --> 00:14:32.460 And Carmon said they hung out twice. 00:14:32.460 --> 00:14:34.231 One-on-one, two times. 00:14:34.231 --> 00:14:37.922 So Yujie didn't even feel like talking after that conversation. 00:14:38.180 --> 00:14:39.020 Yeah. 00:14:39.020 --> 00:14:40.900 She'd rather read Curry's shitty script. 00:14:40.900 --> 00:14:43.048 These things happen a lot. 00:14:45.940 --> 00:14:48.300 I think Binshen and Yujie, 00:14:48.300 --> 00:14:50.900 From what I see, are both strong personalities. 00:14:50.900 --> 00:14:52.740 So it's a tragedy of personalities. 00:14:52.940 --> 00:14:55.540 We're also thinking, why can't Binshen just 00:14:55.540 --> 00:14:57.140 express himself, or communicate? 00:14:57.140 --> 00:14:59.190 But the people in his life only act this 00:14:59.190 --> 00:15:00.760 way because of his personality. 00:15:01.180 --> 00:15:03.220 Yujie tends to show her feelings. 00:15:03.220 --> 00:15:05.120 Just storms off. I'm done. 00:15:05.120 --> 00:15:07.760 - I'm walking out! - Can't even be in the same room. 00:15:08.220 --> 00:15:11.070 If this were the other girl, she wouldn't act like this. 00:15:12.060 --> 00:15:15.140 Before, we said Carmon was single because she's not assertive. 00:15:15.140 --> 00:15:18.840 But actually that's not true. She's very capable of going for her crush. 00:15:19.700 --> 00:15:22.580 Maybe she's suffered from own passivity one too many times. 00:15:22.820 --> 00:15:25.040 - So now she's full steam ahead. - But Yujie 00:15:25.040 --> 00:15:26.920 hasn't suffered like that before. 00:15:27.060 --> 00:15:29.540 So she can throw a tantrum and make a scene. 00:15:29.540 --> 00:15:30.420 Yes. 00:15:30.610 --> 00:15:32.860 I think that girl will totally ignore him now. 00:15:32.860 --> 00:15:34.060 - Yujie. - Really? 00:15:34.060 --> 00:15:34.980 - Yujie? - Yeah. 00:15:34.980 --> 00:15:35.940 Just one chance? 00:15:35.940 --> 00:15:38.420 I think -- I believe she's through with him. 00:15:38.420 --> 00:15:39.740 - Maybe. - She's through. 00:15:39.740 --> 00:15:42.340 She's already seen through him. Seen his true colors. 00:15:42.340 --> 00:15:44.700 - She's dropping him. - It was a lie all along. 00:15:44.700 --> 00:15:46.410 - No, give him a chance. - Will she? 00:15:46.410 --> 00:15:48.020 Let's see. 00:16:32.180 --> 00:16:35.060 How are things over there? 00:16:35.060 --> 00:16:37.260 I feel like you seem 00:16:37.260 --> 00:16:39.520 kind of distracted lately. 00:16:41.420 --> 00:16:43.040 There are some... 00:16:44.380 --> 00:16:45.820 romantic issues. 00:16:45.820 --> 00:16:47.300 Really frustrating. 00:16:47.700 --> 00:16:49.580 What romantic issues? 00:16:49.580 --> 00:16:51.140 Come on, let's gossip. 00:16:53.420 --> 00:16:54.840 There's this girl 00:16:54.840 --> 00:16:56.560 and whenever I look at her 00:16:56.560 --> 00:16:58.960 I can just tell that 00:16:58.960 --> 00:17:00.320 this other girl starts to 00:17:00.320 --> 00:17:01.840 act really weird. 00:17:02.920 --> 00:17:04.579 So all of it feels 00:17:05.040 --> 00:17:06.260 off. 00:17:07.500 --> 00:17:09.000 I can tell that they're both 00:17:10.220 --> 00:17:12.929 - They care for you. - Yes, they've made it clear. 00:17:13.500 --> 00:17:16.610 Then as a man, you should respond. 00:17:16.610 --> 00:17:19.340 Have you responded? As of now? 00:17:22.330 --> 00:17:23.560 No. 00:17:24.220 --> 00:17:25.140 Really? 00:17:27.260 --> 00:17:28.940 You weren't like this before. 00:17:30.460 --> 00:17:33.500 - It's different! - How is it different? 00:17:33.500 --> 00:17:35.980 When it comes to our work, or whatever, 00:17:35.980 --> 00:17:37.940 I feel like I can be really decisive. 00:17:38.620 --> 00:17:42.300 But with this kind of thing, like, interpersonal things, 00:17:42.300 --> 00:17:46.490 I can't seem to get the hang of these relationship issues. 00:17:46.660 --> 00:17:48.980 Just... what am I supposed to do exactly 00:17:48.980 --> 00:17:51.140 to make everyone stop acting so 00:17:51.140 --> 00:17:52.580 ...like... 00:17:52.580 --> 00:17:54.360 embarrassing, so awkward. 00:17:55.820 --> 00:17:57.560 Well, what do you personally think? 00:17:57.560 --> 00:17:59.060 Which one 00:17:59.540 --> 00:18:01.000 do you like more? 00:18:03.020 --> 00:18:04.220 The... 00:18:05.180 --> 00:18:08.120 The one who came to my match. 00:18:08.900 --> 00:18:10.240 Her name's Yujie, 00:18:10.500 --> 00:18:12.120 I hang out with her more. 00:18:12.400 --> 00:18:15.610 Then I feel like you can take initiative and respond to her. 00:18:16.760 --> 00:18:19.770 With Yujie, you can ask her out to dinner. 00:18:20.040 --> 00:18:23.940 And then how am I supposed to express my... thoughts to her? 00:18:24.920 --> 00:18:27.770 No, you're making it way too complicated. 00:18:28.100 --> 00:18:31.200 It's just friends having dinner. Isn't that normal? 00:18:31.200 --> 00:18:33.960 Just have a meal and chat. 00:18:36.200 --> 00:18:38.040 I think you're right. 00:18:39.720 --> 00:18:43.160 I should...I think I should talk things out with both of them. 00:18:45.210 --> 00:18:47.890 Clear the air and lay things out. 00:19:04.800 --> 00:19:06.240 Hey 00:19:08.240 --> 00:19:11.000 Weren't you going out? 00:19:11.000 --> 00:19:13.070 - I'm back. - Oh, you're back. 00:19:29.040 --> 00:19:29.960 Do you 00:19:31.600 --> 00:19:34.160 Do you have plans tonight? 00:19:36.300 --> 00:19:38.900 I'm not sure yet. I don't think so. 00:19:45.580 --> 00:19:47.420 Then do you want to 00:19:47.420 --> 00:19:48.900 grab a bite to eat 00:19:48.900 --> 00:19:49.900 and walk around? 00:19:56.100 --> 00:19:58.580 I'm not really hungry. 00:19:59.720 --> 00:20:02.940 - [panelist] End of story. - You could just eat two bites. 00:20:03.720 --> 00:20:06.880 Maybe you'll feel hungry when you see all the yummy food. 00:20:07.920 --> 00:20:11.370 You shouldn't give up on great food just because you're not hungry. 00:20:13.240 --> 00:20:14.280 Does that make sense? 00:20:16.520 --> 00:20:18.020 That's kind of twisted logic. 00:20:18.880 --> 00:20:21.800 The food is waiting for you to eat, or not to eat. 00:20:22.360 --> 00:20:26.120 Like, you're deciding its fate. To eat? Or not to eat? 00:20:26.120 --> 00:20:28.200 - If you're hungry you can eat. - Ok. 00:20:28.200 --> 00:20:30.200 That makes a little sense. 00:20:38.400 --> 00:20:40.320 Have you ever had beef stomach? 00:20:40.320 --> 00:20:42.360 I've never had beef stomach. 00:20:42.360 --> 00:20:45.160 This restaurant does beef stomach, I've visited 00:20:45.160 --> 00:20:48.200 before, it's not bad. - Alright. 00:20:49.000 --> 00:20:51.300 I'll have a bite. What if it's not good? 00:20:51.440 --> 00:20:53.690 Not good? Then we'll go somewhere else. 00:21:08.680 --> 00:21:10.940 [panelist] He can't open it, so awkward. 00:21:10.940 --> 00:21:12.560 I can't open it. 00:21:13.380 --> 00:21:14.620 Embarrassing. 00:21:17.220 --> 00:21:18.380 I can do it. 00:21:34.660 --> 00:21:37.300 How come you wanted to eat with me suddenly tonight? 00:21:40.780 --> 00:21:43.900 I felt like, recently, hasn't something been 00:21:43.900 --> 00:21:45.620 bothering you, maybe? 00:21:45.620 --> 00:21:47.520 I feel like you've been off. 00:21:49.100 --> 00:21:51.690 [panelist] Straight to the point. 00:21:53.180 --> 00:21:55.220 I feel like you're intentionally 00:21:56.220 --> 00:21:58.600 avoiding me or something. 00:21:59.540 --> 00:22:01.760 I don't know if I'm imagining it. 00:22:04.780 --> 00:22:06.920 Have I? 00:22:07.540 --> 00:22:08.800 What makes you say that? 00:22:14.340 --> 00:22:18.180 Because I feel like you're different from you were at first. 00:22:18.620 --> 00:22:20.900 It's not as easy to get along. 00:22:20.900 --> 00:22:22.500 Just that kind of feeling. 00:22:23.940 --> 00:22:25.560 It's fine. It's nothing. 00:22:26.700 --> 00:22:28.580 If there's anything, you can tell me. 00:22:30.280 --> 00:22:32.440 - He still wants her to say it. - Right. 00:22:32.440 --> 00:22:34.600 - Right? - Why doesn't he just say it? 00:22:34.600 --> 00:22:35.880 Just say it! 00:22:35.880 --> 00:22:37.640 Always talking around things. 00:22:37.640 --> 00:22:41.680 Is it really so hard to just say "Me and Carmon aren't a thing"? 00:22:44.300 --> 00:22:46.700 We're out so late together... 00:22:46.700 --> 00:22:48.840 aren't you afraid what Carmon will think? 00:22:54.860 --> 00:22:57.700 - What she'll think? - Won't she get the wrong idea? 00:22:57.700 --> 00:22:59.540 I'm scared she'll get the wrong idea 00:23:00.260 --> 00:23:03.410 because you two have been so close lately. 00:23:05.820 --> 00:23:08.120 Not really. Like... 00:23:08.900 --> 00:23:11.180 you're talking about the grilling night? 00:23:11.180 --> 00:23:12.660 Just the last few days. 00:23:14.180 --> 00:23:17.180 Actually I think the whole truth or dare thing 00:23:17.180 --> 00:23:21.220 I guess it was a coincidence because Teacher Liu 00:23:21.220 --> 00:23:24.510 just came up with it. And it was out of the blue. 00:23:24.700 --> 00:23:27.570 - It was awkward. - I remember Teacher Liu asked 00:23:27.780 --> 00:23:30.220 Right? He asked, like, I'll just say it straight-- 00:23:30.220 --> 00:23:32.860 He asked her to gaze at her crush. 00:23:32.860 --> 00:23:34.980 I think in the moment I was surprised that 00:23:34.980 --> 00:23:37.140 you two had gotten so close all of a sudden. 00:23:37.140 --> 00:23:39.540 Actually there were clues from the start. 00:23:39.540 --> 00:23:43.000 I feel like she gives me 00:23:43.940 --> 00:23:47.220 the feeling of being my older sister. 00:23:49.820 --> 00:23:52.420 And she makes me feel 00:23:52.420 --> 00:23:54.360 taken care of, that sort of thing. 00:23:55.820 --> 00:23:56.540 I think 00:23:58.060 --> 00:24:00.520 My feelings 00:24:01.100 --> 00:24:02.820 for you are 00:24:03.700 --> 00:24:05.420 more towards the romantic side. 00:24:06.540 --> 00:24:07.620 Out of the 00:24:08.740 --> 00:24:10.760 people in the house. 00:24:10.980 --> 00:24:12.440 So sudden. 00:24:13.300 --> 00:24:14.600 No, just 00:24:16.460 --> 00:24:17.700 Like, 00:24:18.060 --> 00:24:20.900 I'm also just feeling it out. I want to get to know you. 00:24:20.900 --> 00:24:21.800 Really? 00:24:23.660 --> 00:24:26.420 Because I'm slow to warm up, so 00:24:26.420 --> 00:24:27.980 I feel like 00:24:28.540 --> 00:24:30.860 the way I'm treating you will be 00:24:30.860 --> 00:24:32.420 on the cautious side. 00:24:33.960 --> 00:24:36.280 [panelist] Her mood's instantly better. 00:24:36.280 --> 00:24:37.460 Seriously. 00:24:37.460 --> 00:24:39.620 [Binshen] I do really like you. 00:24:40.540 --> 00:24:43.250 For real? So sudden... 00:24:48.020 --> 00:24:52.210 When I first met Carmon we did talk about our ideal types, 00:24:52.300 --> 00:24:55.120 and as soon as she told me hers, I did think 00:24:55.540 --> 00:24:58.580 out of the three guys she probably had a crush 00:24:58.580 --> 00:25:00.720 on you, most likely. 00:25:02.260 --> 00:25:06.420 So regardless of my feelings or whatever towards you, 00:25:06.420 --> 00:25:09.320 I do have to consider 00:25:10.140 --> 00:25:13.490 Carmon's perspective and her well-being. 00:25:16.580 --> 00:25:21.460 My feelings for you and my feelings about Carmon are different. 00:25:21.980 --> 00:25:24.120 Then have you told her? 00:25:30.580 --> 00:25:32.380 I haven't told her yet. 00:25:33.180 --> 00:25:36.140 So do you want to tell her or are you okay with just this? 00:25:36.140 --> 00:25:37.540 I should tell her. 00:25:37.540 --> 00:25:40.990 I feel like in this situation I definitely have to talk to her. 00:25:41.340 --> 00:25:44.430 Just...at least I should tell her what I'm thinking. 00:25:51.460 --> 00:25:54.400 In any case, you take care of this thing with you and Carmon. 00:25:54.400 --> 00:25:56.120 But don't hurt our Carmon. 00:26:02.040 --> 00:26:04.240 Then let's not overthink it, the two of us. 00:26:04.240 --> 00:26:05.420 Go with the flow. 00:26:05.720 --> 00:26:08.650 Like you said yourself, you're slow to warm up. 00:26:10.720 --> 00:26:12.860 Let's take it slow, I think. 00:26:13.400 --> 00:26:14.860 One step at a time. 00:26:14.860 --> 00:26:16.630 I'm so full. 00:26:17.960 --> 00:26:21.150 Boys should eat a little more. Eat some more. 00:26:23.120 --> 00:26:24.100 Look, 00:26:25.880 --> 00:26:27.580 I've got big cheeks. 00:26:32.040 --> 00:26:32.960 Me too. 00:26:34.160 --> 00:26:35.440 Yours aren't so obvious. 00:26:36.160 --> 00:26:37.980 Your face is big, it's not obvious. 00:26:41.040 --> 00:26:42.820 How come no one ate the chicken feet? 00:26:44.400 --> 00:26:47.180 - You haven't. - No, I have one here. 00:26:47.840 --> 00:26:50.040 - It's not good? - No, I'm scared to eat it. 00:26:50.040 --> 00:26:53.240 - Why? Because I haven't? - Because I'll look ugly. 00:26:53.240 --> 00:26:55.730 I'm scared of looking ugly at dinner with you. 00:26:56.080 --> 00:26:58.480 - I can't even see it. - Boys eat first! 00:27:05.100 --> 00:27:08.120 - Do they have to be so cheesy? - Do kids really date like this? 00:27:08.120 --> 00:27:09.600 "Look! I've got big cheeks!" 00:27:11.400 --> 00:27:15.503 Actually, a lot of girls would think Yujie is being two-faced here. 00:27:15.800 --> 00:27:18.320 - No! No! - How to put it... 00:27:18.320 --> 00:27:21.870 Some people would say if she clearly knew your friend likes this guy, 00:27:21.870 --> 00:27:24.320 And then you say those words, "Don't hurt her." 00:27:24.320 --> 00:27:26.610 To a lot of people, that's pretty two-faced. 00:27:27.040 --> 00:27:29.080 Choice words. "When you go reject her, 00:27:29.080 --> 00:27:30.640 Be careful, don't hurt her." -Yes. 00:27:30.640 --> 00:27:31.980 - That sentence? - Yeah! 00:27:31.980 --> 00:27:33.160 I don't agree. 00:27:33.160 --> 00:27:36.990 I think the definition of "two faced" is, for example, if you say 00:27:37.040 --> 00:27:39.760 "Don't hurt her". But then intentionally do things 00:27:39.760 --> 00:27:42.750 to get on Binshen's good side. But Yujie didn't do that. 00:27:43.040 --> 00:27:46.680 As soon as she knew Carmon liked him, she completely walked away. 00:27:46.680 --> 00:27:50.590 She completely withdrew. She didn't set out to pursue anything. 00:27:50.640 --> 00:27:52.960 To steal him away. 00:27:52.960 --> 00:27:57.340 Especially after that boy said he didn't like either of them. 00:27:57.360 --> 00:27:59.680 He said "I'm slow to warm up", she did nothing. 00:27:59.680 --> 00:28:01.560 That's also a good point. 00:28:01.560 --> 00:28:04.920 You can only judge her as "one who advances by retreating" [an idiom]. 00:28:04.920 --> 00:28:07.640 If you want to judge her. But she made a clean retreat. 00:28:07.640 --> 00:28:09.120 - Yeah. - But if I were Carmon 00:28:09.120 --> 00:28:11.720 and found out they were together, I'd be kind of mad. 00:28:11.720 --> 00:28:13.660 - Not kind of. - Very. 00:28:13.660 --> 00:28:15.155 Especially when says, "Sister, 00:28:15.155 --> 00:28:17.043 he and I are dating." It will hurt. 00:28:17.043 --> 00:28:21.280 Whether it's her age or because he just doesn't see her that way, 00:28:21.280 --> 00:28:23.040 She'll absolutely be hurt. 00:28:23.040 --> 00:28:24.800 But it's 100% unavoidable. 00:28:24.800 --> 00:28:27.480 The only way to not hurt her would be to like her back. 00:28:28.000 --> 00:28:29.540 He can reject her, that's okay, 00:28:29.540 --> 00:28:32.280 - But he'd better not say... - The words, "Older sister." 00:28:32.280 --> 00:28:34.920 - He shouldn't say that. - That would really hurt. 00:28:34.920 --> 00:28:38.160 But I actually think he could tell Carmon, 00:28:38.160 --> 00:28:41.420 Just, like if I were Binshen I would run over there 00:28:41.420 --> 00:28:43.240 and tell her like this. 00:28:43.240 --> 00:28:45.860 "Hey, I want to confide about something. 00:28:45.860 --> 00:28:48.000 I have a dilemma." And then go ahead and say, 00:28:48.000 --> 00:28:50.200 "I like Yujie. But I don't know how to confess. 00:28:50.200 --> 00:28:52.520 You two seem really close. Can you help me?" 00:28:52.521 --> 00:28:55.051 This wording would give her a way out. 00:28:55.160 --> 00:28:58.300 So it won't look like he's rejecting her. And she'll also realize 00:28:58.300 --> 00:29:01.010 he doesn't have feelings for her, so she'll back off. 00:29:01.620 --> 00:29:04.880 - This would be better. - Really? Is this better? 00:29:04.880 --> 00:29:07.880 - It's good. - Wouldn't you call that "two-faced"? 00:29:07.880 --> 00:29:10.560 - This is really the best way to do it. - Yes. 00:29:10.940 --> 00:29:13.160 It will lessen her pain. 00:29:13.360 --> 00:29:15.720 Because if he does it that way, 00:29:15.720 --> 00:29:18.520 It's like a tactful rejection. 00:29:18.520 --> 00:29:21.720 From a girl's standpoint, It's not an outright rejection. 00:29:21.720 --> 00:29:23.690 Still, the problem is with Binshen. 00:29:24.440 --> 00:29:25.240 Yeah. 00:29:25.240 --> 00:29:27.920 Because the root of the issue is this guy 00:29:27.920 --> 00:29:30.280 - Yeah, this guy. - He looks over here, 00:29:30.280 --> 00:29:32.980 He looks over there, right, and when he's finally chosen 00:29:32.980 --> 00:29:36.310 to be with one girl, he should take care of the other side. 00:29:36.320 --> 00:29:39.840 - Make things clear. - The kindest method is clarity. 00:29:39.840 --> 00:29:42.560 If you drag things on, it actually hurts more in the end. 00:29:42.560 --> 00:29:44.420 What would you do in his shoes? 00:29:44.460 --> 00:29:45.460 I feel like... 00:29:45.460 --> 00:29:49.130 I feel like their options are too limited. 00:29:49.920 --> 00:29:54.240 Like, there's two women fighting tooth and nail over a guy who 00:29:54.240 --> 00:29:56.880 can't even open a bottle cap. 00:29:56.880 --> 00:29:58.544 I don't know what to say. 00:29:59.960 --> 00:30:01.600 Then I have a question for Ziqi. 00:30:01.600 --> 00:30:04.040 What would you do if you and your best girlfriend 00:30:04.040 --> 00:30:05.160 liked the same guy? 00:30:05.160 --> 00:30:07.520 I feel like it depends on the situation. 00:30:07.520 --> 00:30:10.720 Like romantically. A situation like this one. 00:30:10.720 --> 00:30:12.360 But the thing is 00:30:12.360 --> 00:30:14.820 are Yujie and Carmon really best girlfriends? 00:30:14.820 --> 00:30:16.400 Ok, not a close friend. 00:30:16.400 --> 00:30:19.460 Say you and Keni both fell in love with Daxun. 00:30:19.880 --> 00:30:21.800 I'll go. I'll back down. 00:30:21.800 --> 00:30:24.160 They both back down! Why? 00:30:24.160 --> 00:30:27.620 Let's ask Teacher Chen about this. 00:30:28.400 --> 00:30:30.870 But I don't have a best girlfriend. 00:30:32.560 --> 00:30:34.760 I think this is actually common. 00:30:34.760 --> 00:30:36.480 It happens a lot. 00:30:36.480 --> 00:30:38.960 Two people, who are best friends, 00:30:38.960 --> 00:30:41.160 having the same crush. Or something. 00:30:41.160 --> 00:30:43.720 I don't think this will affect things. 00:30:43.720 --> 00:30:46.920 In that situation we would, at least between guy friends, I think 00:30:46.920 --> 00:30:48.660 it wouldn't affect the friendship. 00:30:49.280 --> 00:30:52.790 Because he's made a choice before things got really serious. 00:30:52.880 --> 00:30:55.200 It's just that he's the type of guy 00:30:55.200 --> 00:30:58.330 who gets people's attention, whom everybody likes. 00:30:58.400 --> 00:31:00.840 So whether it's best girlfriends or regular friends 00:31:00.840 --> 00:31:04.280 or whatever, it's very normal. It still depends on who he chooses. 00:31:04.400 --> 00:31:07.910 I think in this love triangle, Carmon will be the one who can't take it. 00:31:07.910 --> 00:31:10.790 She won't be able to handle it. It's not as easy as you say. 00:31:10.790 --> 00:31:15.150 Still "staying friends". Or like, she can hang out normally the next day. 00:31:15.160 --> 00:31:18.320 If he really said what Ziqi said, "Carmon, I'm in love with Yujie." 00:31:18.320 --> 00:31:21.160 "I want to confess to her." Carmon's going to be 00:31:21.160 --> 00:31:22.900 dragging her suitcase out the door 00:31:22.900 --> 00:31:24.880 - in tears, the next day. - Just gone. 00:31:24.880 --> 00:31:28.160 I think he definitely will break up with what's her name -- Yujie. 00:31:28.160 --> 00:31:31.000 And then turn around and date what's her name -- Carmon. 00:31:31.000 --> 00:31:34.300 Carmon will be waiting for him. He will definitely go looking for her. 00:31:35.280 --> 00:31:37.200 That's the future I predict. 00:31:37.200 --> 00:31:39.160 I'll bet with Teacher Chen, 00:31:39.160 --> 00:31:41.950 That no matter what Binshen thinks, Yujie will force him 00:31:41.950 --> 00:31:44.560 to take care of this matter today or tomorrow. 00:31:44.560 --> 00:31:46.682 - ASAP. - Let's take a look. 00:32:28.020 --> 00:32:29.360 - Hey - Hey 00:32:29.620 --> 00:32:30.900 [panelist] Here we go. It's over. 00:32:30.900 --> 00:32:32.700 Did you just get back? 00:32:32.700 --> 00:32:34.820 - Have you eaten? - I ate. 00:32:34.820 --> 00:32:35.700 Ok. 00:32:36.160 --> 00:32:39.300 [panelist] Just say one more thing. "I ate with Yujie." 00:32:39.300 --> 00:32:40.900 That day at the coffee festival, 00:32:44.340 --> 00:32:47.060 Yeah, I feel like I didn't help out very much. 00:32:47.060 --> 00:32:49.160 - I feel really bad. - No, you did help. 00:32:49.160 --> 00:32:50.980 You did help. 00:32:50.980 --> 00:32:53.340 Not really, I barely helped. 00:32:53.340 --> 00:32:57.620 After you left, the others, you know how we were hanging kites? 00:32:57.660 --> 00:33:00.910 And, well, you hung all the ones that were hard. 00:33:01.220 --> 00:33:03.440 You did really well. You hung them well. 00:33:05.860 --> 00:33:08.500 - And we sold all the pouches. - They all sold out? 00:33:08.500 --> 00:33:11.700 - The ones that you tied - With my logo one them? 00:33:11.700 --> 00:33:12.440 Yeah. 00:33:14.140 --> 00:33:16.570 But, you also brought me waffles that night. 00:33:16.940 --> 00:33:17.860 Were they good? 00:33:18.980 --> 00:33:20.780 I saw your note on the blackboard. 00:33:21.420 --> 00:33:23.000 Yeah, they were tasty. 00:33:24.260 --> 00:33:26.240 What are you eating right now? 00:33:28.660 --> 00:33:29.600 This... 00:33:30.780 --> 00:33:32.480 That white stuff, what is it? 00:33:33.220 --> 00:33:35.300 - Milk. - Milk? 00:33:35.300 --> 00:33:36.460 Yeah. 00:33:36.460 --> 00:33:39.440 Just, you know, that Cantonese soup 00:33:39.440 --> 00:33:42.580 "Vegetable something soup"... They put milk in that. 00:33:42.580 --> 00:33:44.180 - Really? - Yeah. 00:33:44.180 --> 00:33:47.500 - I've never had that. - Do you want to try? 00:33:47.500 --> 00:33:50.700 - I've had dinner. I've eaten. - You're embarrassing me. 00:33:50.700 --> 00:33:53.160 - You made this yourself? - Yes. 00:33:53.580 --> 00:33:56.700 I'm blessed by my lucky chef's hat today. 00:33:57.060 --> 00:33:58.960 - That hat? - Yes. 00:33:59.780 --> 00:34:02.480 - It's good! Do you want to try some? - I won't. 00:34:04.140 --> 00:34:07.120 [panelist] He's finally learned boundaries. No more eating. 00:34:07.800 --> 00:34:08.920 Say it, brother. 00:34:13.280 --> 00:34:16.830 [panelist] Stop dragging it on. - I wanted to talk about something. 00:34:17.600 --> 00:34:19.080 Do you have anywhere 00:34:19.080 --> 00:34:21.560 you really want to visit? 00:34:21.560 --> 00:34:23.620 Or like, somewhere you really want to eat? 00:34:24.239 --> 00:34:26.000 - A restaurant? - Or an attraction, 00:34:26.360 --> 00:34:28.540 Attractions... 00:34:29.239 --> 00:34:30.840 There are some exhibitions 00:34:30.840 --> 00:34:33.820 that I've always wanted to see but because I was so busy with 00:34:33.820 --> 00:34:36.120 the coffee festival, I haven't been able to. 00:34:36.120 --> 00:34:37.080 Sure. 00:34:42.239 --> 00:34:43.520 Sure what? 00:34:44.679 --> 00:34:48.220 Tell me about it after dinner, and I'll get us tickets for the exhibition. 00:34:49.280 --> 00:34:52.880 - Today? - No, just confirm which exhibition. 00:34:52.880 --> 00:34:55.760 What it's called, and tell me, and I'll buy tickets. 00:34:55.760 --> 00:34:57.320 - We'll go together? - Yeah. 00:34:57.320 --> 00:34:58.600 Just the two of us? 00:34:59.960 --> 00:35:02.240 - Great. - Then you keep eating, I'm heading in. 00:35:02.240 --> 00:35:04.600 Then I'll keep eating. 00:35:23.020 --> 00:35:25.340 Look at this guy. Giving her more hope. 00:35:25.340 --> 00:35:28.180 Can't you just say it right there? 00:35:28.180 --> 00:35:31.720 He's just this type of person! He's just this type of person. 00:35:31.720 --> 00:35:34.760 No, he's, he definitely wants to tell her at the exhibition. 00:35:34.760 --> 00:35:35.880 But that's messed up. 00:35:35.880 --> 00:35:37.980 Why would he wait until that day? 00:35:37.980 --> 00:35:40.720 - Because he can't say it here. - And he can say it there? 00:35:40.720 --> 00:35:43.860 - He wants to get out of this space. - How does that help though? 00:35:43.860 --> 00:35:47.020 He won't say it even at the exhibition. 00:35:47.020 --> 00:35:49.300 Teacher Chen! 00:35:49.300 --> 00:35:51.100 And also, there's more, Teacher Chen. 00:35:51.100 --> 00:35:52.720 He blew away my expectations. 00:35:54.420 --> 00:35:56.380 There's more. We're not done yet. 00:36:02.660 --> 00:36:03.820 Get over here. 00:36:04.420 --> 00:36:05.560 Walk on this side. 00:36:09.380 --> 00:36:10.380 Why the sighing? 00:36:10.820 --> 00:36:12.420 Just tired, recently. 00:36:12.420 --> 00:36:13.700 Work's hectic. 00:36:16.580 --> 00:36:17.780 How are you? 00:36:17.780 --> 00:36:20.300 My work has calmed down a lot. 00:36:22.860 --> 00:36:23.640 Come here. 00:36:26.780 --> 00:36:27.500 Sit. 00:36:29.420 --> 00:36:31.640 But lately I have a new project 00:36:31.940 --> 00:36:35.300 designing a new series of loungewear, that kind of thing. 00:36:35.300 --> 00:36:36.200 Loungewear? 00:36:36.580 --> 00:36:38.180 You're making loungewear? 00:36:38.180 --> 00:36:39.180 Yes. 00:36:40.220 --> 00:36:41.380 What about you? 00:36:41.380 --> 00:36:43.930 We're just busy lately. 00:36:44.020 --> 00:36:46.460 You know we're producing our own short film script? 00:36:46.460 --> 00:36:49.800 And then there's some business with the office space. 00:36:49.800 --> 00:36:50.620 Ok. 00:36:50.860 --> 00:36:52.900 I want to talk to you about something. 00:36:53.460 --> 00:36:54.700 Is it good or bad? 00:36:55.740 --> 00:36:57.960 Just listen to it first. Just... 00:36:58.700 --> 00:37:01.540 You know how at the coffee festival Binshen came to help me? 00:37:01.540 --> 00:37:04.140 And then he asked me to see an exhibition. 00:37:05.060 --> 00:37:05.840 Right. 00:37:06.580 --> 00:37:08.610 - That's great! - But... 00:37:09.140 --> 00:37:11.400 It is great, but... 00:37:12.020 --> 00:37:16.710 I feel like Binshen and I have a little bit of an age gap. 00:37:17.820 --> 00:37:21.600 What does an age gap have to do with you guys going to an exhibition? 00:37:22.100 --> 00:37:24.460 Those things aren't related, right? 00:37:24.460 --> 00:37:26.740 - No--- - Do you think because you're older 00:37:27.660 --> 00:37:31.260 I just don't know what Binshen thinks about this whole age thing. 00:37:31.260 --> 00:37:34.300 Have you ever talked to him about this? 00:37:36.700 --> 00:37:40.460 Are you asking me this because you hope that I'll give you advice 00:37:40.460 --> 00:37:43.420 or is it that you're conflicted and you need me to...like... 00:37:43.420 --> 00:37:47.340 Just seeing if I can get some insider info from you or anything. 00:37:47.900 --> 00:37:50.100 It's kind of awkward for me to ask Binshen, 00:37:50.780 --> 00:37:54.220 I mean we've never specifically discussed this. But he has more or less 00:37:54.220 --> 00:37:55.240 told me his type. 00:37:56.020 --> 00:37:58.100 He's kind of talked to me about it. 00:37:58.100 --> 00:38:01.240 For one, he likes girls with a Korean look. 00:38:01.700 --> 00:38:03.550 - Korean... - I think you're like that. 00:38:03.550 --> 00:38:05.100 Like, more cutesy and adorable. 00:38:05.860 --> 00:38:06.920 Right? 00:38:07.780 --> 00:38:10.900 His favorite female Kpop idol... 00:38:10.900 --> 00:38:13.180 - I think he's mentioned that. - Yeah? 00:38:13.180 --> 00:38:14.400 Who does he like? 00:38:14.980 --> 00:38:16.240 I don't really remember. 00:38:18.500 --> 00:38:19.400 Okay. 00:38:19.700 --> 00:38:21.440 Wasn't it IU? [T/N: a Korean singer] 00:38:21.860 --> 00:38:22.780 Probably. 00:38:23.940 --> 00:38:24.880 Okay. 00:38:27.340 --> 00:38:28.260 No, Popsicle. 00:38:29.200 --> 00:38:30.320 Sit. 00:38:33.960 --> 00:38:36.040 - Oh hell no, this is just-- - He messed up. 00:38:36.040 --> 00:38:36.800 A tragedy. 00:38:37.320 --> 00:38:40.050 - Carmon's trying so hard. - But she's going to be so sad. 00:38:40.050 --> 00:38:41.760 - Heartbroken. - So hurt. 00:38:41.760 --> 00:38:43.680 The more she tries the more it'll hurt. 00:38:43.680 --> 00:38:45.480 Carmon definitely can't handle this. 00:38:45.480 --> 00:38:48.680 And we have to address the fact that there's a "shit-stirrer". 00:38:48.680 --> 00:38:49.600 - This guy. - Yeah. 00:38:49.600 --> 00:38:50.800 This Curry! 00:38:50.800 --> 00:38:52.660 "Korean-like"! What are you saying? 00:38:52.660 --> 00:38:55.780 You literally said yourself that Yujie looks Korean. 00:38:55.780 --> 00:38:58.720 - They couldn't be more different. - I just don't get it. 00:38:58.720 --> 00:39:03.280 He said himself on camera that Yujie is more of a "Korean" beauty. 00:39:03.280 --> 00:39:06.720 But put yourself in Curry's shoes and think about it. 00:39:06.720 --> 00:39:09.600 Binshen asked her out. He thinks it's a good thing. Right? 00:39:09.600 --> 00:39:11.920 - Yes. It makes sense... - "This all works out!" 00:39:11.920 --> 00:39:14.520 "Perfect, everyone's paired up so no one has to fight!" 00:39:14.520 --> 00:39:17.480 Do you think Binshen asking her to an exhibition was okay? 00:39:17.480 --> 00:39:19.240 Is that right, that method? 00:39:19.760 --> 00:39:20.520 It's really 00:39:21.680 --> 00:39:23.360 a bit cowardly, I think. 00:39:24.200 --> 00:39:25.710 - You can say it. - I can't. 00:39:25.710 --> 00:39:26.920 You can be harsher. 00:39:26.920 --> 00:39:28.360 It's not "a bit cowardly". 00:39:28.360 --> 00:39:29.780 Just "very cowardly". 00:39:30.720 --> 00:39:34.160 Just, why do you have to make a whole thing of asking someone out, 00:39:34.160 --> 00:39:36.320 taking her to an exhibition to hurt her there? 00:39:36.320 --> 00:39:38.360 Do you think she won't be hurt? 00:39:38.360 --> 00:39:40.370 Honestly it would be better to ignore her. 00:39:40.370 --> 00:39:42.480 - Just avoid her. - Just say it! 00:39:42.480 --> 00:39:44.320 "I had dinner with Yujie." 00:39:44.320 --> 00:39:47.000 "We're getting really close." That would be a better. 00:39:47.000 --> 00:39:50.160 But I don't think he has it in him to be that straightforward. 00:39:50.160 --> 00:39:52.200 Is that too straightforward? 00:39:52.200 --> 00:39:54.500 When he got back Carmon said, have you eaten yet? 00:39:54.500 --> 00:39:56.440 "I ate. I ate with Yujie." 00:39:56.440 --> 00:39:59.460 To casually slide that in, and gently sting her. 00:39:59.460 --> 00:40:01.190 Gently give her the sting, 00:40:01.190 --> 00:40:03.480 This is the most, I think it's the most tactful. 00:40:03.480 --> 00:40:04.480 Yes. 00:40:04.480 --> 00:40:08.000 He actually is treating Carmon like this weak, vulnerable, tender thing. 00:40:08.000 --> 00:40:10.650 If he just said it directly, she could actually bear it. 00:40:10.650 --> 00:40:13.050 She would accept it, there's not much between us, 00:40:13.050 --> 00:40:14.280 just a few interactions. 00:40:14.280 --> 00:40:16.200 But he has to make a mess of things 00:40:16.200 --> 00:40:18.680 and send her the wrong message. 00:40:18.680 --> 00:40:21.400 - Carmon thinks he wants to... - To confess or something. 00:40:21.400 --> 00:40:23.520 She asks Curry about it 00:40:23.520 --> 00:40:27.360 because to her, the only obstacle between them is age. 00:40:27.360 --> 00:40:30.240 Actually, no. The obstacle is, this guy doesn't like her. 00:40:30.240 --> 00:40:31.480 But she doesn't know. 00:40:31.480 --> 00:40:33.580 But she would think, if he doesn't like me, 00:40:33.580 --> 00:40:35.930 why would he be dumb enough to ask me out? 00:40:37.560 --> 00:40:40.000 If we give him benefit of the doubt, Binshen thinks 00:40:40.000 --> 00:40:44.240 everyone shares this living space, and he doesn't want to make this house 00:40:44.240 --> 00:40:47.280 feel awkward for everyone. He wants to do it outside. 00:40:47.280 --> 00:40:49.600 Why an exhibition though? There's no good moment. 00:40:49.600 --> 00:40:50.960 How could there be? 00:40:51.160 --> 00:40:54.440 He's hinting to Carmon, I want to pick your favorite place. 00:40:54.440 --> 00:40:58.040 I want to take you to your favorite place to dump you. 00:40:58.040 --> 00:40:59.800 I don't think he plans to at all. 00:41:00.280 --> 00:41:02.680 He has no plans to really say those words there. 00:41:02.680 --> 00:41:06.320 He's just going with whatever that girl wants. 00:41:06.320 --> 00:41:09.560 He doesn't want to hurt anyone. Every person has 00:41:09.560 --> 00:41:11.400 a great potential to hurt others. 00:41:11.400 --> 00:41:14.540 And Binshen's hurt comes from his inability to speak honestly. 00:41:14.540 --> 00:41:16.960 He hurts Carmon deeply and Yujie too, just because 00:41:16.960 --> 00:41:20.770 he can't say no to people. That's what I think. 00:41:22.040 --> 00:41:24.760 Can we predict what will happen on the date? 00:41:24.760 --> 00:41:27.200 I think Binshen will 00:41:27.200 --> 00:41:29.040 I think he'll say it. 00:41:29.040 --> 00:41:31.430 I was actually expecting good things from him. 00:41:31.430 --> 00:41:33.560 And then he went home and didn't say it. 00:41:33.560 --> 00:41:36.080 And even asked her out. 00:41:36.080 --> 00:41:39.120 - He had the perfect chance. - Now I think he doesn't have the guts 00:41:39.120 --> 00:41:41.760 to say it. He probably can't. - He won't say it. 00:41:41.760 --> 00:41:43.720 Binshen can't handle hurting a girl. 00:41:43.720 --> 00:41:45.840 Yes. Can't get the words out. 00:41:45.840 --> 00:41:48.600 But he also can't quite give up Yujie. 00:41:48.600 --> 00:41:50.900 Then he may as well date neither. 00:41:50.900 --> 00:41:52.720 He might just decide to give up, 00:41:52.720 --> 00:41:55.600 In order to avoid hurting them. "Whatever, I'll date no one." 00:41:55.600 --> 00:41:59.040 Ok, so this episode of Shanghai Share Life ends here. 00:41:59.040 --> 00:42:00.880 We can't wait for the next one. 00:42:00.880 --> 00:42:02.320 See you next week! 00:42:02.320 --> 00:42:04.440 - Goodbye! - Goodbye. 00:42:04.960 --> 00:42:07.340 A netizen from Weibo says, 00:42:07.340 --> 00:42:09.740 "I've been working in a big city for 10 years." 00:42:09.740 --> 00:42:12.520 But it's unlikely that I'll obtain a hukou (resident permit). 00:42:12.520 --> 00:42:15.680 I've seen old friends buy homes and thrive in my hometown. 00:42:15.680 --> 00:42:18.490 I've thought about moving back, but I don't want to give up 00:42:18.490 --> 00:42:21.540 so many years of hard work. Should I keep struggling here? 00:42:21.540 --> 00:42:23.500 Or go home while I'm still young? 00:42:23.500 --> 00:42:25.720 And seek a more stable life? 00:42:26.060 --> 00:42:28.340 I think every person has their own 00:42:28.340 --> 00:42:29.740 way of life. 00:42:29.740 --> 00:42:34.637 Different things make different people feel at home. 00:42:35.140 --> 00:42:38.380 If you feel most comfortable in your hometown, more at ease, 00:42:38.380 --> 00:42:41.720 there's no need to force yourself into the city. 00:42:41.720 --> 00:42:44.900 But if your dream is the big city, 00:42:44.900 --> 00:42:47.720 and a city is the only way to fulfill you, 00:42:47.720 --> 00:42:49.360 you have to go to the city. 00:42:49.878 --> 00:42:54.978 [Translated and timed by cissy] [Reviewed by liltong97]