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Hi everyone,[br]welcome to Shanghai Share Life.

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So this group of roommates[br]has cohabited for 21 days so far.

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Because it takes a long time

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to document their life[br]authentically,

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we haven't checked in [br]on them for a while.

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Have we forgotten what happened?

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Let's recap[br]what happened in week 6.

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Binshen went to Carmon's[br]coffee festival to help with odd jobs.

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The two's interactions at the [br]festival were like a teen drama.

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That night Carmon brought [br]Binshen some waffles.

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Binshen replied with a "Thanks"[br]on the blackboard.

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So did he mean just "thanks"[br]or, "I love you too"?

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It's just a simple thank you.

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"Thanks"

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It feels like he just[br]shut her down in one word.

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The relationship --

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He's slow to warm up.

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As for our fast-to-warm-up [br]friend, Tianqi,

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Too warmed up.[br]And one sided!

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Would you like to be my girlfriend?

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I feel like right now we wouldn't

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be in the most stable position.

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If I agreed to be with you[br]right now, it might...

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[panelist] He was rejected.

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Great, let's see what new developments

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will happen this week.

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Let's stop talking about it.

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Talking about your situation[br]is getting us all down.

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Binshen, how are you lately?

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How's it going?

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Is this like, you using me [br]to cheer him up?

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Not using you to cheer up,

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just checking in on you, right?

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That night we were grilling,[br]you also had some

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...romantic developments.

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I knew you were going to bring it up.

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Why not bring that up?

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I think Carmon is pretty great.[br]Yeah?

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She's so forward with you.

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I feel like

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In that moment I was kind of at a loss

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I didn't know what to do.

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It's all your fault.

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How is it my fault?

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Just that you didn't have to

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make that dare, or say whatever.

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No, I just...[br]that was the only thing I said.

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That's pretty impressive honestly.

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Nice, nice, nice, nice.

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No, I just think that we, like,[br]feel like just roommates still.

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We're all just living together[br]having a good time, I think.

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We're not at that next step yet.

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- And you?[br]- Me?

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There's nothing with me.

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Didn't I just do the whole making[br]amends ordeal with Yujie?

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Getting intimate.

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No, not getting intimate.

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We're just regular friends[br]right now.

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We hang out sometimes.

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Look at that guy.

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He's nodding, he [br]definitely likes Yujie.

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What were you up to today?

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My coffee festival.

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Oh, and Binshen[br]came by to help out.

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He went with you?

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Though he had something after so he[br]left early.

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To be honest, this was kind [br]of my first time alone

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One-on-one with him --[br]oh no, the second time.

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And... I sensed that there[br]does seem to be a little sense of

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distance between us.

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Maybe because of the age gap,[br]I'm not really sure.

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It just feels a bit...

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It feels like I'm maybe [br]quite a bit older than him.

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I'm older, about like[br]six years.

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No...

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No, why should that matter?

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Age is just a number.

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Age is not a big deal.

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But sometimes with him,[br]I can't parse out his intentions.

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Is it possibly because[br]I'm an older girl

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I'm his senior and I'm a girl[br]so he's trying to

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help me out because he's a[br]gentleman, or what?

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Just like, helping a[br]sister out?

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It's hard for me to work out.

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This is getting...[br]they're getting really deep.

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Yujie, just say it!

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Honestly I think

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it's not a big deal, right?

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Don't overthink it.

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Right?

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Chu Mengna (NaNa)[br]Student, 22 years old

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Chen Xiaowei (Binshen)[br]Professional gamer, 23 years old

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Jin Yujie[br]Model, 22 years old

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Liu Keli (Curry)[br]Entrepreneur, 29 years old

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Wu Kawen (Carmon)[br]Designer, 29 years old

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Wang Tianqi[br]Salesperson, 26 years old

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Episode 7, Week 4[br]"How Do I Get Close to You?"

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Here's a big one.

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When does filming start?

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I'm not sure, but he already [br]gave me the script.

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I skimmed it, it's[br]just...

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a little bland.[br]- A little bland.

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Maybe because his script[br]isn't fully formed yet.

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It's just that the whole [br]premise...

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because it starts [br]off with Szechuan dialect--

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Hey

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You're home?[br]I thought you were gone.

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What're you guys eating?

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There's more over there.

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So you're saying it starts

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with a general background and intro?

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No, It just jumps straight into it.

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The characters aren't fleshed out.

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The general plot is about[br]two guys fighting over a girl.

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Right?

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I'm done.

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- So fast.[br]- Can you guys help clean up later?

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- You're not having more?[br]- Nope.

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[panelist] She's getting out.[br]She doesn't want to be near him.

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And she didn't say a word to him.

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Water?

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Thanks.

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[panelist] He's actually[br]taking initiative.

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What're you up to?

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Just skimming.

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[panelist] He can't get the [br]conversation going.

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It's over.

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It's over.

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So are you going...[br]out today?

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Or what?

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I'm going out.

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I should go back to practice.

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Just now at breakfast,

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you ate so fast, and then left.

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Are you in a bad mood today?

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I'm fine, just so so.

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Not good, not bad.

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Just normal.

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[panelist] She seems mad.

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- Correct.[br]- Definitely.

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I'm going up.

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Ok.

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Is she that mad?

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- So mad?[br]- Of course!

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You drank my coffee and whatever

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and then you went to breakfast with[br]her behind my back?

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And then went to help her with whatever?

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Just get away from me then.[br]Just go.

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So she's returning his coffee?

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Yes, give his coffee back.

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I'm leaving this coffee.

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[panelist] He got paid.[br]- How much?

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[panelist] 3,500[br]- His balance is a little over 4,000.

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When are you getting here?

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Sure, sure.

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I'll take you out.

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Work is...

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pretty miserable.

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No money, no girl.[br]I can't catch a break.

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Anyways

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I didn't make much.

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They docked two or three thousand.

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[panelist] They docked that much?

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- Hey.[br]- Hey.

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- Hi everyone![br]- Hi.

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You're all busy?

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Yeah, the work never ends.[br]I brought it home to do.

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I'm chilling. I'm lying here.

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- Hi.[br]- You're back?

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- You're back![br]- Hey.

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The vibe in this house is

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kind of tense.

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What's with him?

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Don't know.

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[panelist] In love and career,

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two failed crops (an idiom).

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So discouraging.

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Get in here, hurry up.

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So tired.

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What's up with you?

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I'll tell you, but don't tell the others.

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What is it? So mysterious.

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It's not. It's not a big deal.[br]Just...

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I got paid today.

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And...

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I feel like they basically [br]docked my entire pay.

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Well not all, but still[br]it was a lot.

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And wasn't Nana just saying how

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right now both of us aren't

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super stable, career-wise.

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She wanted us to accomplish things

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before we started dating.

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So I just don't really want[br]her to know about this.

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That's why I said to [br]not tell the others.

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How do I put this?

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I think when I first started my [br]career I was like you.

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When I came back to [br]Shanghai from abroad,

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I was the same way.

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My behaviors then,[br]including some of my work habits.

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weren't too good.

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You can try out [br]following their rules.

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And then when you find[br]a job that suits you better

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you'll feel like a fish in water.

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So what happened today is

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kind of a

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bad thing, but it's [br]also a good thing.

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If you think of this money[br]as the price you paid

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to learn good work habits,

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I think

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it's not a bad price.

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You're right.

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If I can really change [br]for the better

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from this, it is good [br]in the long run.

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Just think of

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this incident as

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the push you needed.

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I do really want

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to improve myself.

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And since you now [br]have this girl you like,

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you're also improving [br]yourself for her.

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So she can see it.

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[panelist] Not bad, Teacher Liu. Not bad.

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Yeah,

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thanks.

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Thanks for what?

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[panelist] I feel like it's [br]genuine gratitude.

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Tianqi got a talking to.

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Yes, he's good at taking it.

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He's gotten to the point where[br]he'll even listen to Teacher Liu.

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He really did listen.

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Because what Teacher Liu said

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Is actually common sense advice.

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- Yeah.[br]- But if you haven't gotten to that point

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you just can't process it.

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You would just think it's bullshit.

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But if you've been pushed to [br]that point, you'll realize

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that Teacher Liu is absolutely right.[br]- Yes.

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But there's a difference between

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understanding and changing.

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We have to watch his actions.

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I think we have to talk about

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Yujie ignoring Binshen.

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Is it jealous anger?

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Definitely.

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She's so jealous.

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She feels like, Binshen [br]had coffee with her

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and then he decided [br]to be with Carmon.

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"We just had one coffee together,"

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"but they went to [br]a whole coffee festival."

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And Carmon said they hung out twice.

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One-on-one, two times.

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So Yujie didn't even feel like talking[br]after that conversation.

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Yeah.

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She'd rather read Curry's shitty script.

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These things happen a lot.

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I think Binshen and Yujie,

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From what I see, are both[br]strong personalities.

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So it's a tragedy of personalities.

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We're also thinking,[br]why can't Binshen just

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express himself, or communicate?

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But the people in his life only [br]act this

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way because of his personality.

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Yujie tends to show her feelings.

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Just storms off.[br]I'm done.

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- I'm walking out![br]- Can't even be in the same room.

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If this were the other girl,[br]she wouldn't act like this.

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Before, we said Carmon was[br]single because she's not assertive.

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But actually that's not true. She's very [br]capable of going for her crush.

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Maybe she's suffered from own passivity[br]one too many times.

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- So now she's full steam ahead.[br]- But Yujie

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hasn't suffered like that before.

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So she can throw a tantrum [br]and make a scene.

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Yes.

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I think that girl will [br]totally ignore him now.

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- Yujie.[br]- Really?

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- Yujie?[br]- Yeah.

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Just one chance?

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I think -- I believe[br]she's through with him.

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- Maybe.[br]- She's through.

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She's already seen through him.[br]Seen his true colors.

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- She's dropping him.[br]- It was a lie all along.

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- No, give him a chance.[br]- Will she?

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Let's see.

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How are things over there?

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I feel like you seem

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kind of distracted lately.

0:16:41.420,0:16:43.040
There are some...

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romantic issues.

0:16:45.820,0:16:47.300
Really frustrating.

0:16:47.700,0:16:49.580
What romantic issues?

0:16:49.580,0:16:51.140
Come on, let's gossip.

0:16:53.420,0:16:54.840
There's this girl

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and whenever I look at her

0:16:56.560,0:16:58.960
I can just tell that

0:16:58.960,0:17:00.320
this other girl starts to

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act really weird.

0:17:02.920,0:17:04.579
So all of it feels

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off.

0:17:07.500,0:17:09.000
I can tell that they're both

0:17:10.220,0:17:12.929
- They care for you.[br]- Yes, they've made it clear.

0:17:13.500,0:17:16.610
Then as a man, you should[br]respond.

0:17:16.610,0:17:19.340
Have you responded?[br]As of now?

0:17:22.330,0:17:23.560
No.

0:17:24.220,0:17:25.140
Really?

0:17:27.260,0:17:28.940
You weren't like this before.

0:17:30.460,0:17:33.500
- It's different![br]- How is it different?

0:17:33.500,0:17:35.980
When it comes to our work,[br]or whatever,

0:17:35.980,0:17:37.940
I feel like I can be really decisive.

0:17:38.620,0:17:42.300
But with this kind of thing,[br]like, interpersonal things,

0:17:42.300,0:17:46.490
I can't seem to get the hang of[br]these relationship issues.

0:17:46.660,0:17:48.980
Just... what am I [br]supposed to do exactly

0:17:48.980,0:17:51.140
to make everyone stop[br]acting so

0:17:51.140,0:17:52.580
...like...

0:17:52.580,0:17:54.360
embarrassing, so awkward.

0:17:55.820,0:17:57.560
Well, what do you personally think?

0:17:57.560,0:17:59.060
Which one

0:17:59.540,0:18:01.000
do you like more?

0:18:03.020,0:18:04.220
The...

0:18:05.180,0:18:08.120
The one who came to my match.

0:18:08.900,0:18:10.240
Her name's Yujie,

0:18:10.500,0:18:12.120
I hang out with her more.

0:18:12.400,0:18:15.610
Then I feel like you can take [br]initiative and respond to her.

0:18:16.760,0:18:19.770
With Yujie, you can [br]ask her out to dinner.

0:18:20.040,0:18:23.940
And then how am I supposed to[br]express my... thoughts to her?

0:18:24.920,0:18:27.770
No, you're making it way [br]too complicated.

0:18:28.100,0:18:31.200
It's just friends having dinner.[br]Isn't that normal?

0:18:31.200,0:18:33.960
Just have a meal and chat.

0:18:36.200,0:18:38.040
I think you're right.

0:18:39.720,0:18:43.160
I should...I think I should[br]talk things out with both of them.

0:18:45.210,0:18:47.890
Clear the air and lay things out.

0:19:04.800,0:19:06.240
Hey

0:19:08.240,0:19:11.000
Weren't you going out?

0:19:11.000,0:19:13.070
- I'm back.[br]- Oh, you're back.

0:19:29.040,0:19:29.960
Do you

0:19:31.600,0:19:34.160
Do you have plans tonight?

0:19:36.300,0:19:38.900
I'm not sure yet.[br]I don't think so.

0:19:45.580,0:19:47.420
Then do you want to

0:19:47.420,0:19:48.900
grab a bite to eat

0:19:48.900,0:19:49.900
and walk around?

0:19:56.100,0:19:58.580
I'm not really hungry.

0:19:59.720,0:20:02.940
- [panelist] End of story.[br]- You could just eat two bites.

0:20:03.720,0:20:06.880
Maybe you'll feel hungry[br]when you see all the yummy food.

0:20:07.920,0:20:11.370
You shouldn't give up on[br]great food just because you're not hungry.

0:20:13.240,0:20:14.280
Does that make sense?

0:20:16.520,0:20:18.020
That's kind of twisted logic.

0:20:18.880,0:20:21.800
The food is waiting for you[br]to eat, or not to eat.

0:20:22.360,0:20:26.120
Like, you're deciding its fate.[br]To eat? Or not to eat?

0:20:26.120,0:20:28.200
- If you're hungry you can eat.[br]- Ok.

0:20:28.200,0:20:30.200
That makes a little sense.

0:20:38.400,0:20:40.320
Have you ever had beef stomach?

0:20:40.320,0:20:42.360
I've never had beef stomach.

0:20:42.360,0:20:45.160
This restaurant does[br]beef stomach, I've visited

0:20:45.160,0:20:48.200
before, it's not bad.[br]- Alright.

0:20:49.000,0:20:51.300
I'll have a bite.[br]What if it's not good?

0:20:51.440,0:20:53.690
Not good? Then we'll go[br]somewhere else.

0:21:08.680,0:21:10.940
[panelist] He can't open it, so awkward.

0:21:10.940,0:21:12.560
I can't open it.

0:21:13.380,0:21:14.620
Embarrassing.

0:21:17.220,0:21:18.380
I can do it.

0:21:34.660,0:21:37.300
How come you wanted to[br]eat with me suddenly tonight?

0:21:40.780,0:21:43.900
I felt like, recently, hasn't[br]something been

0:21:43.900,0:21:45.620
bothering you, maybe?

0:21:45.620,0:21:47.520
I feel like you've been off.

0:21:49.100,0:21:51.690
[panelist] Straight to the point.

0:21:53.180,0:21:55.220
I feel like you're intentionally

0:21:56.220,0:21:58.600
avoiding me or something.

0:21:59.540,0:22:01.760
I don't know if I'm imagining it.

0:22:04.780,0:22:06.920
Have I?

0:22:07.540,0:22:08.800
What makes you say that?

0:22:14.340,0:22:18.180
Because I feel like you're[br]different from you were at first.

0:22:18.620,0:22:20.900
It's not as easy to get along.

0:22:20.900,0:22:22.500
Just that kind of feeling.

0:22:23.940,0:22:25.560
It's fine. It's nothing.

0:22:26.700,0:22:28.580
If there's anything, you can tell me.

0:22:30.280,0:22:32.440
- He still wants her to say it.[br]- Right.

0:22:32.440,0:22:34.600
- Right?[br]- Why doesn't he just say it?

0:22:34.600,0:22:35.880
Just say it!

0:22:35.880,0:22:37.640
Always talking around things.

0:22:37.640,0:22:41.680
Is it really so hard to just say[br]"Me and Carmon aren't a thing"?

0:22:44.300,0:22:46.700
We're out so late together...

0:22:46.700,0:22:48.840
aren't you afraid what Carmon will think?

0:22:54.860,0:22:57.700
- What she'll think?[br]- Won't she get the wrong idea?

0:22:57.700,0:22:59.540
I'm scared she'll get the wrong idea

0:23:00.260,0:23:03.410
because you two have [br]been so close lately.

0:23:05.820,0:23:08.120
Not really. Like...

0:23:08.900,0:23:11.180
you're talking about the grilling night?

0:23:11.180,0:23:12.660
Just the last few days.

0:23:14.180,0:23:17.180
Actually I think the[br]whole truth or dare thing

0:23:17.180,0:23:21.220
I guess it was a coincidence[br]because Teacher Liu

0:23:21.220,0:23:24.510
just came up with it.[br]And it was out of the blue.

0:23:24.700,0:23:27.570
- It was awkward.[br]- I remember Teacher Liu asked

0:23:27.780,0:23:30.220
Right? He asked, like,[br]I'll just say it straight--

0:23:30.220,0:23:32.860
He asked her to gaze at her crush.

0:23:32.860,0:23:34.980
I think in the moment[br]I was surprised that

0:23:34.980,0:23:37.140
you two had gotten so[br]close all of a sudden.

0:23:37.140,0:23:39.540
Actually there were clues[br]from the start.

0:23:39.540,0:23:43.000
I feel like she gives me

0:23:43.940,0:23:47.220
the feeling of [br]being my older sister.

0:23:49.820,0:23:52.420
And she makes me feel

0:23:52.420,0:23:54.360
taken care of, that sort of thing.

0:23:55.820,0:23:56.540
I think

0:23:58.060,0:24:00.520
My feelings

0:24:01.100,0:24:02.820
for you are

0:24:03.700,0:24:05.420
more towards the romantic side.

0:24:06.540,0:24:07.620
Out of the

0:24:08.740,0:24:10.760
people in the house.

0:24:10.980,0:24:12.440
So sudden.

0:24:13.300,0:24:14.600
No, just

0:24:16.460,0:24:17.700
Like,

0:24:18.060,0:24:20.900
I'm also just feeling it out.[br]I want to get to know you.

0:24:20.900,0:24:21.800
Really?

0:24:23.660,0:24:26.420
Because I'm slow to warm up, so

0:24:26.420,0:24:27.980
I feel like

0:24:28.540,0:24:30.860
the way I'm treating you[br]will be

0:24:30.860,0:24:32.420
on the cautious side.

0:24:33.960,0:24:36.280
[panelist] Her mood's instantly better.

0:24:36.280,0:24:37.460
Seriously.

0:24:37.460,0:24:39.620
[Binshen] I do really like you.

0:24:40.540,0:24:43.250
For real?[br]So sudden...

0:24:48.020,0:24:52.210
When I first met Carmon[br]we did talk about our ideal types,

0:24:52.300,0:24:55.120
and as soon as she told me hers,[br]I did think

0:24:55.540,0:24:58.580
out of the three guys[br]she probably had a crush

0:24:58.580,0:25:00.720
on you, most likely.

0:25:02.260,0:25:06.420
So regardless of my feelings[br]or whatever towards you,

0:25:06.420,0:25:09.320
I do have to consider

0:25:10.140,0:25:13.490
Carmon's perspective[br]and her well-being.

0:25:16.580,0:25:21.460
My feelings for you and[br]my feelings about Carmon are different.

0:25:21.980,0:25:24.120
Then have you told her?

0:25:30.580,0:25:32.380
I haven't told her yet.

0:25:33.180,0:25:36.140
So do you want to tell her[br]or are you okay with just this?

0:25:36.140,0:25:37.540
I should tell her.

0:25:37.540,0:25:40.990
I feel like in this situation[br]I definitely have to talk to her.

0:25:41.340,0:25:44.430
Just...at least I should [br]tell her what I'm thinking.

0:25:51.460,0:25:54.400
In any case, you take care of[br]this thing with you and Carmon.

0:25:54.400,0:25:56.120
But don't hurt our Carmon.

0:26:02.040,0:26:04.240
Then let's not overthink it, [br]the two of us.

0:26:04.240,0:26:05.420
Go with the flow.

0:26:05.720,0:26:08.650
Like you said yourself,[br]you're slow to warm up.

0:26:10.720,0:26:12.860
Let's take it slow, I think.

0:26:13.400,0:26:14.860
One step at a time.

0:26:14.860,0:26:16.630
I'm so full.

0:26:17.960,0:26:21.150
Boys should eat a little more.[br]Eat some more.

0:26:23.120,0:26:24.100
Look,

0:26:25.880,0:26:27.580
I've got big cheeks.

0:26:32.040,0:26:32.960
Me too.

0:26:34.160,0:26:35.440
Yours aren't so obvious.

0:26:36.160,0:26:37.980
Your face is big, it's not obvious.

0:26:41.040,0:26:42.820
How come no one ate the chicken feet?

0:26:44.400,0:26:47.180
- You haven't.[br]- No, I have one here.

0:26:47.840,0:26:50.040
- It's not good?[br]- No, I'm scared to eat it.

0:26:50.040,0:26:53.240
- Why? Because I haven't?[br]- Because I'll look ugly.

0:26:53.240,0:26:55.730
I'm scared of looking ugly[br]at dinner with you.

0:26:56.080,0:26:58.480
- I can't even see it.[br]- Boys eat first!

0:27:05.100,0:27:08.120
- Do they have to be so cheesy?[br]- Do kids really date like this?

0:27:08.120,0:27:09.600
"Look! I've got big cheeks!"

0:27:11.400,0:27:15.503
Actually, a lot of girls would think[br]Yujie is being two-faced here.

0:27:15.800,0:27:18.320
- No! No![br]- How to put it...

0:27:18.320,0:27:21.870
Some people would say if she clearly[br]knew your friend likes this guy,

0:27:21.870,0:27:24.320
And then you say those words,[br]"Don't hurt her."

0:27:24.320,0:27:26.610
To a lot of people,[br]that's pretty two-faced.

0:27:27.040,0:27:29.080
Choice words. [br]"When you go reject her,

0:27:29.080,0:27:30.640
Be careful, don't hurt her."[br]-Yes.

0:27:30.640,0:27:31.980
- That sentence?[br]- Yeah!

0:27:31.980,0:27:33.160
I don't agree.

0:27:33.160,0:27:36.990
I think the definition of "two faced"[br]is, for example, if you say

0:27:37.040,0:27:39.760
"Don't hurt her". But then [br]intentionally do things

0:27:39.760,0:27:42.750
to get on Binshen's good side.[br]But Yujie didn't do that.

0:27:43.040,0:27:46.680
As soon as she knew Carmon liked him,[br]she completely walked away.

0:27:46.680,0:27:50.590
She completely withdrew. She [br]didn't set out to pursue anything.

0:27:50.640,0:27:52.960
To steal him away.

0:27:52.960,0:27:57.340
Especially after that boy said[br]he didn't like either of them.

0:27:57.360,0:27:59.680
He said "I'm slow to warm up",[br]she did nothing.

0:27:59.680,0:28:01.560
That's also a good point.

0:28:01.560,0:28:04.920
You can only judge her as[br]"one who advances by retreating" [br][an idiom].

0:28:04.920,0:28:07.640
If you want to judge her.[br]But she made a clean retreat.

0:28:07.640,0:28:09.120
- Yeah.[br]- But if I were Carmon

0:28:09.120,0:28:11.720
and found out they were [br]together, I'd be kind of mad.

0:28:11.720,0:28:13.660
- Not kind of.[br]- Very.

0:28:13.660,0:28:15.155
Especially when says, "Sister,

0:28:15.155,0:28:17.043
he and I are dating."[br]It will hurt.

0:28:17.043,0:28:21.280
Whether it's her age or because [br]he just doesn't see her that way,

0:28:21.280,0:28:23.040
She'll absolutely be hurt.

0:28:23.040,0:28:24.800
But it's 100% unavoidable.

0:28:24.800,0:28:27.480
The only way to not hurt her[br]would be to like her back.

0:28:28.000,0:28:29.540
He can reject her,[br]that's okay,

0:28:29.540,0:28:32.280
- But he'd better not say...[br]- The words, "Older sister."

0:28:32.280,0:28:34.920
- He shouldn't say that.[br]- That would really hurt.

0:28:34.920,0:28:38.160
But I actually think[br]he could tell Carmon,

0:28:38.160,0:28:41.420
Just, like if I were Binshen[br]I would run over there

0:28:41.420,0:28:43.240
and tell her like this.

0:28:43.240,0:28:45.860
"Hey, I want to confide about something.

0:28:45.860,0:28:48.000
I have a dilemma."[br]And then go ahead and say,

0:28:48.000,0:28:50.200
"I like Yujie. But I[br]don't know how to confess.

0:28:50.200,0:28:52.520
You two seem really close.[br]Can you help me?"

0:28:52.521,0:28:55.051
This wording[br]would give her a way out.

0:28:55.160,0:28:58.300
So it won't look like he's rejecting her.[br]And she'll also realize

0:28:58.300,0:29:01.010
he doesn't have feelings for her,[br]so she'll back off.

0:29:01.620,0:29:04.880
- This would be better.[br]- Really? Is this better?

0:29:04.880,0:29:07.880
- It's good.[br]- Wouldn't you call that "two-faced"?

0:29:07.880,0:29:10.560
- This is really the best way to do it.[br]- Yes.

0:29:10.940,0:29:13.160
It will lessen her pain.

0:29:13.360,0:29:15.720
Because if he does it that way,

0:29:15.720,0:29:18.520
It's like a tactful rejection.

0:29:18.520,0:29:21.720
From a girl's standpoint,[br]It's not an outright rejection.

0:29:21.720,0:29:23.690
Still, the problem is with Binshen.

0:29:24.440,0:29:25.240
Yeah.

0:29:25.240,0:29:27.920
Because the root of the issue is[br]this guy

0:29:27.920,0:29:30.280
- Yeah, this guy.[br]- He looks over here,

0:29:30.280,0:29:32.980
He looks over there, right,[br]and when he's finally chosen

0:29:32.980,0:29:36.310
to be with one girl, he should [br]take care of the other side.

0:29:36.320,0:29:39.840
- Make things clear.[br]- The kindest method is clarity.

0:29:39.840,0:29:42.560
If you drag things on,[br]it actually hurts more in the end.

0:29:42.560,0:29:44.420
What would you do in his shoes?

0:29:44.460,0:29:45.460
I feel like...

0:29:45.460,0:29:49.130
I feel like their options[br]are too limited.

0:29:49.920,0:29:54.240
Like, there's two women[br]fighting tooth and nail over a guy who

0:29:54.240,0:29:56.880
can't even open a bottle cap.

0:29:56.880,0:29:58.544
I don't know what to say.

0:29:59.960,0:30:01.600
Then I have a question for Ziqi.

0:30:01.600,0:30:04.040
What would you do if[br]you and your best girlfriend

0:30:04.040,0:30:05.160
liked the same guy?

0:30:05.160,0:30:07.520
I feel like it depends on the situation.

0:30:07.520,0:30:10.720
Like romantically. A [br]situation like this one.

0:30:10.720,0:30:12.360
But the thing is

0:30:12.360,0:30:14.820
are Yujie and Carmon [br]really best girlfriends?

0:30:14.820,0:30:16.400
Ok, not a close friend.

0:30:16.400,0:30:19.460
Say you and Keni [br]both fell in love with Daxun.

0:30:19.880,0:30:21.800
I'll go. I'll back down.

0:30:21.800,0:30:24.160
They both back down! Why?

0:30:24.160,0:30:27.620
Let's ask Teacher Chen about this.

0:30:28.400,0:30:30.870
But I don't have a best girlfriend.

0:30:32.560,0:30:34.760
I think this is actually common.

0:30:34.760,0:30:36.480
It happens a lot.

0:30:36.480,0:30:38.960
Two people, who are best friends,

0:30:38.960,0:30:41.160
having the same crush.[br]Or something.

0:30:41.160,0:30:43.720
I don't think this will affect things.

0:30:43.720,0:30:46.920
In that situation we would,[br]at least between guy friends, I think

0:30:46.920,0:30:48.660
it wouldn't affect the friendship.

0:30:49.280,0:30:52.790
Because he's made a choice[br]before things got really serious.

0:30:52.880,0:30:55.200
It's just that he's the type of guy

0:30:55.200,0:30:58.330
who gets people's attention,[br]whom everybody likes.

0:30:58.400,0:31:00.840
So whether it's best girlfriends[br]or regular friends

0:31:00.840,0:31:04.280
or whatever, it's very normal.[br]It still depends on who he chooses.

0:31:04.400,0:31:07.910
I think in this love triangle,[br]Carmon will be the one who can't take it.

0:31:07.910,0:31:10.790
She won't be able to handle it.[br]It's not as easy as you say.

0:31:10.790,0:31:15.150
Still "staying friends". Or like,[br]she can hang out normally the next day.

0:31:15.160,0:31:18.320
If he really said what Ziqi said,[br]"Carmon, I'm in love with Yujie."

0:31:18.320,0:31:21.160
"I want to confess to her."[br]Carmon's going to be

0:31:21.160,0:31:22.900
dragging her suitcase out the door

0:31:22.900,0:31:24.880
- in tears, the next day.[br]- Just gone.

0:31:24.880,0:31:28.160
I think he definitely will break up [br]with what's her name -- Yujie.

0:31:28.160,0:31:31.000
And then turn around and date[br]what's her name -- Carmon.

0:31:31.000,0:31:34.300
Carmon will be waiting for him.[br]He will definitely go looking for her.

0:31:35.280,0:31:37.200
That's the future I predict.

0:31:37.200,0:31:39.160
I'll bet with Teacher Chen,

0:31:39.160,0:31:41.950
That no matter what Binshen thinks,[br]Yujie will force him

0:31:41.950,0:31:44.560
to take care of this matter[br]today or tomorrow.

0:31:44.560,0:31:46.682
- ASAP.[br]- Let's take a look.

0:32:28.020,0:32:29.360
- Hey[br]- Hey

0:32:29.620,0:32:30.900
[panelist] Here we go. It's over.

0:32:30.900,0:32:32.700
Did you just get back?

0:32:32.700,0:32:34.820
- Have you eaten?[br]- I ate.

0:32:34.820,0:32:35.700
Ok.

0:32:36.160,0:32:39.300
[panelist] Just say one more thing.[br]"I ate with Yujie."

0:32:39.300,0:32:40.900
That day at the coffee festival,

0:32:44.340,0:32:47.060
Yeah, I feel like I didn't[br]help out very much.

0:32:47.060,0:32:49.160
- I feel really bad.[br]- No, you did help.

0:32:49.160,0:32:50.980
You did help.

0:32:50.980,0:32:53.340
Not really, I barely helped.

0:32:53.340,0:32:57.620
After you left, the others, you[br]know how we were hanging kites?

0:32:57.660,0:33:00.910
And, well, you hung all the [br]ones that were hard.

0:33:01.220,0:33:03.440
You did really well. You hung them well.

0:33:05.860,0:33:08.500
- And we sold all the pouches.[br]- They all sold out?

0:33:08.500,0:33:11.700
- The ones that you tied[br]- With my logo one them?

0:33:11.700,0:33:12.440
Yeah.

0:33:14.140,0:33:16.570
But, you also brought [br]me waffles that night.

0:33:16.940,0:33:17.860
Were they good?

0:33:18.980,0:33:20.780
I saw your note on the blackboard.

0:33:21.420,0:33:23.000
Yeah, they were tasty.

0:33:24.260,0:33:26.240
What are you eating right now?

0:33:28.660,0:33:29.600
This...

0:33:30.780,0:33:32.480
That white stuff, what is it?

0:33:33.220,0:33:35.300
- Milk.[br]- Milk?

0:33:35.300,0:33:36.460
Yeah.

0:33:36.460,0:33:39.440
Just, you know, that Cantonese soup

0:33:39.440,0:33:42.580
"Vegetable something soup"...[br]They put milk in that.

0:33:42.580,0:33:44.180
- Really?[br]- Yeah.

0:33:44.180,0:33:47.500
- I've never had that.[br]- Do you want to try?

0:33:47.500,0:33:50.700
- I've had dinner. I've eaten.[br]- You're embarrassing me.

0:33:50.700,0:33:53.160
- You made this yourself?[br]- Yes.

0:33:53.580,0:33:56.700
I'm blessed by my lucky chef's hat today.

0:33:57.060,0:33:58.960
- That hat?[br]- Yes.

0:33:59.780,0:34:02.480
- It's good! Do you want to try some?[br]- I won't.

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[panelist] He's finally learned [br]boundaries. No more eating.

0:34:07.800,0:34:08.920
Say it, brother.

0:34:13.280,0:34:16.830
[panelist] Stop dragging it on.[br]- I wanted to talk about something.

0:34:17.600,0:34:19.080
Do you have anywhere

0:34:19.080,0:34:21.560
you really want to visit?

0:34:21.560,0:34:23.620
Or like, somewhere you really want to eat?

0:34:24.239,0:34:26.000
- A restaurant? [br]- Or an attraction,

0:34:26.360,0:34:28.540
Attractions...

0:34:29.239,0:34:30.840
There are some [br]exhibitions

0:34:30.840,0:34:33.820
that I've always wanted to see[br]but because I was so busy with

0:34:33.820,0:34:36.120
the coffee festival, I haven't been [br]able to.

0:34:36.120,0:34:37.080
Sure.

0:34:42.239,0:34:43.520
Sure what?

0:34:44.679,0:34:48.220
Tell me about it after dinner, and[br]I'll get us tickets for the exhibition.

0:34:49.280,0:34:52.880
- Today?[br]- No, just confirm which exhibition.

0:34:52.880,0:34:55.760
What it's called, and tell me, [br]and I'll buy tickets.

0:34:55.760,0:34:57.320
- We'll go together?[br]- Yeah.

0:34:57.320,0:34:58.600
Just the two of us?

0:34:59.960,0:35:02.240
- Great.[br]- Then you keep eating, I'm heading in.

0:35:02.240,0:35:04.600
Then I'll keep eating.

0:35:23.020,0:35:25.340
Look at this guy. Giving her more hope.

0:35:25.340,0:35:28.180
Can't you just say it right there?

0:35:28.180,0:35:31.720
He's just this type of person![br]He's just this type of person.

0:35:31.720,0:35:34.760
No, he's, he definitely wants [br]to tell her at the exhibition.

0:35:34.760,0:35:35.880
But that's messed up.

0:35:35.880,0:35:37.980
Why would he wait until that day?

0:35:37.980,0:35:40.720
- Because he can't say it here.[br]- And he can say it there?

0:35:40.720,0:35:43.860
- He wants to get out of this space.[br]- How does that help though?

0:35:43.860,0:35:47.020
He won't say it even at the exhibition.

0:35:47.020,0:35:49.300
Teacher Chen!

0:35:49.300,0:35:51.100
And also, there's more, Teacher Chen.

0:35:51.100,0:35:52.720
He blew away my expectations.

0:35:54.420,0:35:56.380
There's more. We're not done yet.

0:36:02.660,0:36:03.820
Get over here.

0:36:04.420,0:36:05.560
Walk on this side.

0:36:09.380,0:36:10.380
Why the sighing?

0:36:10.820,0:36:12.420
Just tired, recently.

0:36:12.420,0:36:13.700
Work's hectic.

0:36:16.580,0:36:17.780
How are you?

0:36:17.780,0:36:20.300
My work has calmed down a lot.

0:36:22.860,0:36:23.640
Come here.

0:36:26.780,0:36:27.500
Sit.

0:36:29.420,0:36:31.640
But lately I have a new project

0:36:31.940,0:36:35.300
designing a new series[br]of loungewear, that kind of thing.

0:36:35.300,0:36:36.200
Loungewear?

0:36:36.580,0:36:38.180
You're making loungewear?

0:36:38.180,0:36:39.180
Yes.

0:36:40.220,0:36:41.380
What about you?

0:36:41.380,0:36:43.930
We're just busy lately.

0:36:44.020,0:36:46.460
You know we're producing our own[br]short film script?

0:36:46.460,0:36:49.800
And then there's some[br]business with the office space.

0:36:49.800,0:36:50.620
Ok.

0:36:50.860,0:36:52.900
I want to talk to you about something.

0:36:53.460,0:36:54.700
Is it good or bad?

0:36:55.740,0:36:57.960
Just listen to it first. Just...

0:36:58.700,0:37:01.540
You know how at the coffee festival[br]Binshen came to help me?

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And then he asked me to see an exhibition.

0:37:05.060,0:37:05.840
Right.

0:37:06.580,0:37:08.610
- That's great![br]- But...

0:37:09.140,0:37:11.400
It is great, but...

0:37:12.020,0:37:16.710
I feel like Binshen and I[br]have a little bit of an age gap.

0:37:17.820,0:37:21.600
What does an age gap have to do[br]with you guys going to an exhibition?

0:37:22.100,0:37:24.460
Those things aren't related, right?

0:37:24.460,0:37:26.740
- No---[br]- Do you think because you're older

0:37:27.660,0:37:31.260
I just don't know what Binshen[br]thinks about this whole age thing.

0:37:31.260,0:37:34.300
Have you ever talked to him about this?

0:37:36.700,0:37:40.460
Are you asking me this because you [br]hope that I'll give you advice

0:37:40.460,0:37:43.420
or is it that you're conflicted[br]and you need me to...like...

0:37:43.420,0:37:47.340
Just seeing if I can get some[br]insider info from you or anything.

0:37:47.900,0:37:50.100
It's kind of awkward for me to [br]ask Binshen,

0:37:50.780,0:37:54.220
I mean we've never specifically discussed [br]this. But he has more or less

0:37:54.220,0:37:55.240
told me his type.

0:37:56.020,0:37:58.100
He's kind of talked to me about it.

0:37:58.100,0:38:01.240
For one, he likes girls [br]with a Korean look.

0:38:01.700,0:38:03.550
- Korean...[br]- I think you're like that.

0:38:03.550,0:38:05.100
Like, more cutesy and adorable.

0:38:05.860,0:38:06.920
Right?

0:38:07.780,0:38:10.900
His favorite female Kpop idol...

0:38:10.900,0:38:13.180
- I think he's mentioned that.[br]- Yeah?

0:38:13.180,0:38:14.400
Who does he like?

0:38:14.980,0:38:16.240
I don't really remember.

0:38:18.500,0:38:19.400
Okay.

0:38:19.700,0:38:21.440
Wasn't it IU? [br][T/N: a Korean singer]

0:38:21.860,0:38:22.780
Probably.

0:38:23.940,0:38:24.880
Okay.

0:38:27.340,0:38:28.260
No, Popsicle.

0:38:29.200,0:38:30.320
Sit.

0:38:33.960,0:38:36.040
- Oh hell no, this is just--[br]- He messed up.

0:38:36.040,0:38:36.800
A tragedy.

0:38:37.320,0:38:40.050
- Carmon's trying so hard.[br]- But she's going to be so sad.

0:38:40.050,0:38:41.760
- Heartbroken.[br]- So hurt.

0:38:41.760,0:38:43.680
The more she tries the more it'll hurt.

0:38:43.680,0:38:45.480
Carmon definitely can't handle this.

0:38:45.480,0:38:48.680
And we have to address[br]the fact that there's a "shit-stirrer".

0:38:48.680,0:38:49.600
- This guy.[br]- Yeah.

0:38:49.600,0:38:50.800
This Curry!

0:38:50.800,0:38:52.660
"Korean-like"! What are you saying?

0:38:52.660,0:38:55.780
You literally said yourself[br]that Yujie looks Korean.

0:38:55.780,0:38:58.720
- They couldn't be more different.[br]- I just don't get it.

0:38:58.720,0:39:03.280
He said himself on camera that Yujie is[br]more of a "Korean" beauty.

0:39:03.280,0:39:06.720
But put yourself in Curry's shoes[br]and think about it.

0:39:06.720,0:39:09.600
Binshen asked her out. He thinks [br]it's a good thing. Right?

0:39:09.600,0:39:11.920
- Yes. It makes sense...[br]- "This all works out!"

0:39:11.920,0:39:14.520
"Perfect, everyone's paired up[br]so no one has to fight!"

0:39:14.520,0:39:17.480
Do you think Binshen asking her [br]to an exhibition was okay?

0:39:17.480,0:39:19.240
Is that right, that method?

0:39:19.760,0:39:20.520
It's really

0:39:21.680,0:39:23.360
a bit cowardly, I think.

0:39:24.200,0:39:25.710
- You can say it.[br]- I can't.

0:39:25.710,0:39:26.920
You can be harsher.

0:39:26.920,0:39:28.360
It's not "a bit cowardly".

0:39:28.360,0:39:29.780
Just "very cowardly".

0:39:30.720,0:39:34.160
Just, why do you have to make a whole[br]thing of asking someone out,

0:39:34.160,0:39:36.320
taking her to an exhibition[br]to hurt her there?

0:39:36.320,0:39:38.360
Do you think she won't be hurt?

0:39:38.360,0:39:40.370
Honestly it would be[br]better to ignore her.

0:39:40.370,0:39:42.480
- Just avoid her.[br]- Just say it!

0:39:42.480,0:39:44.320
"I had dinner with Yujie."

0:39:44.320,0:39:47.000
"We're getting really close."[br]That would be a better.

0:39:47.000,0:39:50.160
But I don't think he has it in [br]him to be that straightforward.

0:39:50.160,0:39:52.200
Is that too straightforward?

0:39:52.200,0:39:54.500
When he got back Carmon said,[br]have you eaten yet?

0:39:54.500,0:39:56.440
"I ate. I ate with Yujie."

0:39:56.440,0:39:59.460
To casually slide that in,[br]and gently sting her.

0:39:59.460,0:40:01.190
Gently give her the sting,

0:40:01.190,0:40:03.480
This is the most,[br]I think it's the most tactful.

0:40:03.480,0:40:04.480
Yes.

0:40:04.480,0:40:08.000
He actually is treating Carmon [br]like this weak, vulnerable, tender thing.

0:40:08.000,0:40:10.650
If he just said it directly,[br]she could actually bear it.

0:40:10.650,0:40:13.050
She would accept it, [br]there's not much between us,

0:40:13.050,0:40:14.280
just a few interactions.

0:40:14.280,0:40:16.200
But he has to make a mess of things

0:40:16.200,0:40:18.680
and send her the wrong message.

0:40:18.680,0:40:21.400
- Carmon thinks he wants to...[br]- To confess or something.

0:40:21.400,0:40:23.520
She asks Curry about it

0:40:23.520,0:40:27.360
because to her, the only [br]obstacle between them is age.

0:40:27.360,0:40:30.240
Actually, no. The obstacle is,[br]this guy doesn't like her.

0:40:30.240,0:40:31.480
But she doesn't know.

0:40:31.480,0:40:33.580
But she would think, if he[br]doesn't like me,

0:40:33.580,0:40:35.930
why would he be dumb[br]enough to ask me out?

0:40:37.560,0:40:40.000
If we give him benefit of the doubt,[br]Binshen thinks

0:40:40.000,0:40:44.240
everyone shares this living space,[br]and he doesn't want to make this house

0:40:44.240,0:40:47.280
feel awkward for everyone.[br]He wants to do it outside.

0:40:47.280,0:40:49.600
Why an exhibition though?[br]There's no good moment.

0:40:49.600,0:40:50.960
How could there be?

0:40:51.160,0:40:54.440
He's hinting to Carmon,[br]I want to pick your favorite place.

0:40:54.440,0:40:58.040
I want to take you to your favorite place[br]to dump you.

0:40:58.040,0:40:59.800
I don't think he plans to at all.

0:41:00.280,0:41:02.680
He has no plans to[br]really say those words there.

0:41:02.680,0:41:06.320
He's just going with[br]whatever that girl wants.

0:41:06.320,0:41:09.560
He doesn't want to hurt anyone.[br]Every person has

0:41:09.560,0:41:11.400
a great potential to hurt others.

0:41:11.400,0:41:14.540
And Binshen's hurt comes from his [br]inability to speak honestly.

0:41:14.540,0:41:16.960
He hurts Carmon deeply[br]and Yujie too, just because

0:41:16.960,0:41:20.770
he can't say no to people. [br]That's what I think.

0:41:22.040,0:41:24.760
Can we predict what will [br]happen on the date?

0:41:24.760,0:41:27.200
I think Binshen will

0:41:27.200,0:41:29.040
I think he'll say it.

0:41:29.040,0:41:31.430
I was actually [br]expecting good things from him.

0:41:31.430,0:41:33.560
And then he went home[br]and didn't say it.

0:41:33.560,0:41:36.080
And even asked her out.

0:41:36.080,0:41:39.120
- He had the perfect chance.[br]- Now I think he doesn't have the guts

0:41:39.120,0:41:41.760
to say it. He probably can't.[br]- He won't say it.

0:41:41.760,0:41:43.720
Binshen can't handle[br]hurting a girl.

0:41:43.720,0:41:45.840
Yes. Can't get the words out.

0:41:45.840,0:41:48.600
But he also can't quite give up Yujie.

0:41:48.600,0:41:50.900
Then he may as well date neither.

0:41:50.900,0:41:52.720
He might just decide to give up,

0:41:52.720,0:41:55.600
In order to avoid hurting them.[br]"Whatever, I'll date no one."

0:41:55.600,0:41:59.040
Ok, so this episode of[br]Shanghai Share Life ends here.

0:41:59.040,0:42:00.880
We can't wait for the next one.

0:42:00.880,0:42:02.320
See you next week!

0:42:02.320,0:42:04.440
- Goodbye![br]- Goodbye.

0:42:04.960,0:42:07.340
A netizen from Weibo says,

0:42:07.340,0:42:09.740
"I've been working [br]in a big city for 10 years."

0:42:09.740,0:42:12.520
But it's unlikely that I'll obtain[br]a hukou (resident permit).

0:42:12.520,0:42:15.680
I've seen old friends buy homes [br]and thrive in my hometown.

0:42:15.680,0:42:18.490
I've thought about moving back,[br]but I don't want to give up

0:42:18.490,0:42:21.540
so many years of hard work.[br]Should I keep struggling here?

0:42:21.540,0:42:23.500
Or go home while I'm still young?

0:42:23.500,0:42:25.720
And seek a more stable life?

0:42:26.060,0:42:28.340
I think every person has their own

0:42:28.340,0:42:29.740
way of life.

0:42:29.740,0:42:34.637
Different things make different people[br]feel at home.

0:42:35.140,0:42:38.380
If you feel most comfortable in[br]your hometown, more at ease,

0:42:38.380,0:42:41.720
there's no need to force yourself [br]into the city.

0:42:41.720,0:42:44.900
But if your dream is the big city,

0:42:44.900,0:42:47.720
and a city is the only way to fulfill you,

0:42:47.720,0:42:49.360
you have to go to the city.

0:42:49.878,0:42:54.978
[Translated and timed by cissy][br][Reviewed by liltong97]