0:00:24.831,0:00:28.895 My students often ask me,[br]"What is sociology?" 0:00:29.458,0:00:33.810 And I tell them it's the study of the way[br]in which human beings are shaped 0:00:33.834,0:00:35.587 by things that they don't see. 0:00:36.401,0:00:39.725 And they say, "So,[br]how can I be a sociologist? 0:00:40.560,0:00:42.678 How can I understand[br]those invisible forces?" 0:00:42.702,0:00:44.230 And I say, "Empathy. 0:00:44.254,0:00:46.354 Start with empathy. 0:00:46.378,0:00:49.160 It all begins with empathy. 0:00:49.184,0:00:50.940 Take yourself out of your shoes, 0:00:50.964,0:00:53.608 put yourself into the shoes[br]of another person." 0:00:53.632,0:00:55.262 Here, I'll give you an example. 0:00:56.163,0:00:59.567 So I imagine my life[br]if, a hundred years ago, 0:00:59.591,0:01:02.441 China had been the most powerful[br]nation in the world 0:01:02.465,0:01:05.952 and they came to the United States[br]in search of coal. 0:01:05.976,0:01:09.167 And they found it, and, in fact,[br]they found lots of it right here. 0:01:09.191,0:01:12.717 And pretty soon,[br]they began shipping that coal, 0:01:12.741,0:01:14.517 ton by ton, 0:01:14.541,0:01:17.979 railcar by railcar, boatload by boatload, 0:01:18.003,0:01:21.088 back to China and elsewhere[br]around the world. 0:01:21.969,0:01:24.219 And they got fabulously[br]wealthy in doing so. 0:01:24.243,0:01:26.576 And they built beautiful cities 0:01:26.600,0:01:29.700 all powered on that coal. 0:01:31.512,0:01:34.933 And back here in the United States, 0:01:36.314,0:01:37.314 back here 0:01:37.357,0:01:39.504 we saw economic despair, deprivation. 0:01:39.528,0:01:40.976 This is what I saw. 0:01:41.000,0:01:43.631 I saw people struggling to get by, 0:01:43.655,0:01:46.750 not knowing what was what[br]and what was next. 0:01:48.074,0:01:50.341 And I asked myself the question: 0:01:50.365,0:01:53.695 How is it possible that we could[br]be so poor here in the United States, 0:01:53.719,0:01:57.424 because coal is such a wealthy[br]resource; it's so much money? 0:01:57.448,0:01:58.608 And I realize: 0:01:58.632,0:02:02.037 because the Chinese ingratiated themselves 0:02:02.061,0:02:04.820 with a small ruling class[br]here in the United States, 0:02:04.844,0:02:08.382 who stole all of that money[br]and all of that wealth for themselves. 0:02:09.030,0:02:11.196 And the rest of us,[br]the vast majority of us, 0:02:11.220,0:02:12.485 struggle to get by. 0:02:12.989,0:02:16.093 And the Chinese[br]gave this small ruling elite 0:02:16.117,0:02:19.486 loads of military weapons[br]and sophisticated technology 0:02:19.510,0:02:22.276 in order to ensure that people like me 0:02:22.300,0:02:25.300 would not speak out[br]against this relationship. 0:02:26.173,0:02:27.609 Does this sound familiar? 0:02:29.045,0:02:32.406 And they did things like train Americans[br]to help protect the coal. 0:02:34.056,0:02:37.294 And everywhere, there were[br]symbols of the Chinese -- 0:02:37.318,0:02:40.294 everywhere, a constant reminder. 0:02:40.831,0:02:42.974 And back in China, 0:02:42.998,0:02:44.324 what do they say in China? 0:02:44.348,0:02:47.947 Nothing! They don't talk about us.[br]They don't talk about the coal. 0:02:47.971,0:02:49.161 If you ask them, 0:02:49.185,0:02:51.576 they'll say, "Well, you know,[br]we need the coal. 0:02:51.600,0:02:54.798 I mean, come on, I'm not going[br]to turn down my thermostat. 0:02:55.322,0:02:56.727 You can't expect that." 0:02:58.074,0:03:01.249 And so, I get angry, and I get pissed, 0:03:01.273,0:03:03.586 as do lots of average people. 0:03:03.610,0:03:06.152 And we fight back,[br]and it gets really ugly. 0:03:06.176,0:03:09.105 And the Chinese respond[br]in a very ugly way. 0:03:11.120,0:03:13.515 And before we know it,[br]they send in the tanks 0:03:13.539,0:03:15.236 and they send in the troops. 0:03:15.882,0:03:17.530 And lots of people are dying. 0:03:18.200,0:03:21.951 And it's a very, very difficult situation. 0:03:24.641,0:03:25.707 Can you feel me? 0:03:26.176,0:03:29.223 Can you imagine what you would feel 0:03:29.247,0:03:31.412 if you were in my shoes? 0:03:31.436,0:03:33.761 Can you imagine[br]walking out of this building 0:03:33.785,0:03:35.603 and seeing a tank sitting out there, 0:03:35.627,0:03:37.954 or a truck full of soldiers? 0:03:39.400,0:03:42.620 Just imagine what you would feel,[br]because you know why they're here; 0:03:42.644,0:03:44.290 you know what they're doing here. 0:03:44.314,0:03:46.933 And you just feel the anger[br]and you feel the fear. 0:03:47.874,0:03:50.640 If you can, that's empathy.[br]That's empathy. 0:03:50.664,0:03:53.843 You've left your shoes,[br]and you've stood in mine. 0:03:54.638,0:03:56.453 And you've got to feel that. 0:03:56.477,0:03:58.176 OK, so that's the warm-up. 0:03:58.556,0:03:59.728 That's the warm-up. 0:03:59.752,0:04:03.486 Now we're going to have[br]the real radical experiment. 0:04:03.510,0:04:07.176 So, for the remainder of my talk,[br]what I want you to do 0:04:07.200,0:04:11.788 is put yourselves in the shoes[br]of an ordinary Arab Muslim 0:04:11.812,0:04:13.541 living in the Middle East -- 0:04:13.565,0:04:15.691 in particular, in Iraq. 0:04:17.843,0:04:19.125 And so to help you, 0:04:19.771,0:04:23.747 perhaps you're a member[br]of this middle-class family in Baghdad. 0:04:24.104,0:04:26.798 What you want is the best for your kids. 0:04:26.822,0:04:28.799 You want your kids to have a better life. 0:04:28.823,0:04:30.910 And you watch the news, you pay attention. 0:04:30.934,0:04:34.488 You read the newspaper, you go down[br]to the coffee shop with your friends, 0:04:34.512,0:04:36.733 you read the newspapers[br]from around the world. 0:04:36.757,0:04:39.793 Sometimes you even watch satellite,[br]CNN, from the United States. 0:04:39.817,0:04:42.304 You have a sense of what[br]the Americans are thinking. 0:04:42.328,0:04:45.376 But really, you just want[br]a better life for yourself. 0:04:45.400,0:04:46.588 That's what you want. 0:04:46.945,0:04:50.009 You're Arab Muslim living in Iraq. 0:04:50.033,0:04:51.780 You want a better life for yourself. 0:04:51.804,0:04:53.018 So here, let me help you. 0:04:53.042,0:04:56.533 Let me help you with some things[br]that you might be thinking. 0:04:56.557,0:04:57.826 Number one: 0:04:57.850,0:05:02.176 this incursion into your land[br]these past 20 years and before -- 0:05:02.200,0:05:04.319 the reason anyone[br]is interested in your land, 0:05:04.343,0:05:06.487 and particularly[br]the United States, is oil. 0:05:06.511,0:05:09.620 It's all about oil; you know that,[br]everybody knows that. 0:05:09.644,0:05:12.744 People back in the United States[br]know it's about oil. 0:05:13.359,0:05:18.457 It's because somebody else[br]has a design for your resource. 0:05:18.481,0:05:21.034 It's your resource --[br]it's not somebody else's. 0:05:21.058,0:05:24.036 It's your land; it's your resource. 0:05:24.060,0:05:25.733 Somebody else has a design for it. 0:05:26.378,0:05:28.231 And you know why they have a design? 0:05:28.255,0:05:30.352 You know why they have[br]their eyes set on it? 0:05:30.376,0:05:32.450 Because they have[br]an entire economic system 0:05:32.474,0:05:35.683 that's dependent[br]on that oil -- foreign oil, 0:05:35.707,0:05:38.333 oil from other parts of the world[br]that they don't own. 0:05:39.347,0:05:41.914 And what else do you think[br]about these people? 0:05:41.938,0:05:43.545 The Americans, they're rich. 0:05:43.570,0:05:46.091 Come on, they live in big houses,[br]they have big cars. 0:05:46.115,0:05:48.515 They all have blond hair,[br]blue eyes. They're happy. 0:05:48.539,0:05:52.048 You think that. It's not true, of course,[br]but that's the media impression. 0:05:52.072,0:05:53.268 And that's what you get. 0:05:53.592,0:05:54.800 And they have big cities, 0:05:54.824,0:05:58.184 and the cities are all dependent on oil. 0:06:00.200,0:06:02.176 And back home, what do you see? 0:06:02.200,0:06:04.224 Poverty, despair, struggle. 0:06:04.716,0:06:07.108 Look, you don't live in a wealthy country. 0:06:07.132,0:06:09.704 I mean -- this is Iraq. 0:06:11.975,0:06:13.267 This is what you see. 0:06:13.312,0:06:15.626 You see people struggling to get by. 0:06:15.973,0:06:18.042 It's not easy; you see a lot of poverty. 0:06:18.066,0:06:19.733 And you feel something about this. 0:06:19.757,0:06:21.854 These people have designs[br]for your resource, 0:06:21.878,0:06:23.183 and this is what you see? 0:06:23.818,0:06:25.218 It doesn't feel good. 0:06:25.501,0:06:28.326 But here, couple other things. 0:06:29.882,0:06:31.994 Something else you see[br]that you talk about -- 0:06:32.018,0:06:34.228 Americans don't talk[br]about this, but you do -- 0:06:34.252,0:06:36.779 there's this thing,[br]this militarization of the world, 0:06:36.803,0:06:38.947 and it's centered[br]right in the United States. 0:06:38.971,0:06:40.845 And the United States is responsible 0:06:40.869,0:06:45.524 for almost one half[br]of the world's military spending. 0:06:46.364,0:06:48.356 Four percent of the world's population! 0:06:48.380,0:06:50.924 And you feel it; you see it every day. 0:06:50.948,0:06:52.270 It's part of your life. 0:06:52.294,0:06:55.072 And you talk about it with your friends. 0:06:55.096,0:06:56.684 You read about it. 0:06:56.708,0:06:59.939 And back when Saddam Hussein was in power, 0:07:00.586,0:07:03.487 the Americans didn't care[br]about his crimes. 0:07:03.511,0:07:05.928 When he was gassing[br]the Kurds and gassing Iran, 0:07:05.952,0:07:07.427 they didn't care about it. 0:07:07.451,0:07:09.530 When oil was at stake, 0:07:09.554,0:07:13.014 somehow, suddenly, things mattered. 0:07:14.585,0:07:16.987 And what you see, something else: 0:07:17.011,0:07:18.797 the United States, 0:07:18.821,0:07:20.930 the hub of democracy around the world -- 0:07:20.954,0:07:24.593 they don't seem to really be supporting[br]democratic countries 0:07:24.617,0:07:26.504 all around the world. 0:07:26.528,0:07:29.247 There are a lot of countries,[br]oil-producing countries, 0:07:29.271,0:07:32.499 that aren't very democratic,[br]but supported by the United States. 0:07:33.230,0:07:34.393 That's odd. 0:07:34.417,0:07:38.117 Oh -- these incursions -[br]here, let me help you 0:07:39.042,0:07:42.054 these two wars,[br]the 10 years of sanctions, 0:07:42.378,0:07:46.196 the eight years of occupation, 0:07:46.473,0:07:50.127 the insurgency that's been[br]unleashed on your people, 0:07:50.151,0:07:52.976 the tens of thousands,[br]the hundreds of thousands 0:07:53.000,0:07:55.464 of civilian deaths? 0:07:58.214,0:08:00.060 All because of oil. 0:08:00.928,0:08:02.444 You can't help but think that. 0:08:02.888,0:08:04.269 You talk about it. 0:08:05.000,0:08:07.476 It's in the forefront[br]of your mind, always. 0:08:08.000,0:08:10.015 You say, "How is that possible?" 0:08:10.324,0:08:11.324 Come on. 0:08:14.207,0:08:16.628 And this man, he's everyman -- 0:08:17.700,0:08:19.751 your grandfather, your uncle, 0:08:19.775,0:08:21.838 your father, your son, your neighbor, 0:08:21.862,0:08:23.507 your professor, your student. 0:08:24.092,0:08:26.971 Once a life of happiness and joy 0:08:27.295,0:08:29.312 and suddenly, pain and sorrow. 0:08:31.400,0:08:37.614 Everyone in your country[br]has been touched by the violence, 0:08:37.638,0:08:40.722 the bloodshed, the pain,[br]the horror -- everybody. 0:08:40.746,0:08:45.920 Not a single person in your country[br]has not been touched. 0:08:46.424,0:08:47.976 But there's something else. 0:08:48.000,0:08:51.976 There's something else about these people,[br]these Americans who are there. 0:08:52.000,0:08:54.201 There's something else[br]about them that you see 0:08:54.225,0:08:55.799 that they don't see themselves. 0:08:55.823,0:08:58.310 And what do you see? They're Christians! 0:08:58.599,0:09:00.067 They're Christians. 0:09:00.091,0:09:03.592 They worship the Christian God,[br]they have crosses, they carry Bibles. 0:09:03.616,0:09:05.774 Their Bibles have a little insignia 0:09:05.798,0:09:08.573 that says "US Army" on them. 0:09:09.600,0:09:12.696 And their leaders, their leaders: 0:09:13.100,0:09:17.393 before they send their sons and daughters[br]off to war in your country -- 0:09:17.417,0:09:18.755 and you know the reason -- 0:09:18.779,0:09:20.346 before they send them off, 0:09:20.370,0:09:23.672 they go to a Christian church,[br]and they pray to their Christian God, 0:09:23.696,0:09:26.480 and they ask for protection[br]and guidance from that god. 0:09:26.504,0:09:27.681 Why? 0:09:27.705,0:09:31.758 Well, obviously,[br]when people die in the war, 0:09:31.782,0:09:36.361 they are Muslims, they are Iraqis --[br]they're not Americans. 0:09:36.385,0:09:39.205 You don't want Americans to die --[br]"Protect Our Troops." 0:09:39.229,0:09:41.560 And you feel something about that -- 0:09:41.584,0:09:42.787 of course you do. 0:09:42.811,0:09:44.738 And they do wonderful things, 0:09:45.173,0:09:46.863 beautiful humanitarian things. 0:09:46.887,0:09:50.196 But these humanitarians,[br]I mean these people, they're there - 0:09:50.862,0:09:52.676 You read about it, you hear about it. 0:09:52.700,0:09:54.918 They're there to build schools[br]and help people. 0:09:54.942,0:09:56.311 That's what they want to do. 0:09:56.335,0:09:59.103 They do wonderful things,[br]but they also do the bad things, 0:09:59.127,0:10:00.762 and you can't tell the difference. 0:10:00.786,0:10:04.045 And this guy, you get a guy[br]like Lt. Gen. William Boykin. 0:10:04.277,0:10:07.373 Here's a guy who says[br]that your god is a false god. 0:10:07.398,0:10:09.476 Your god's an idol;[br]his god is the true god. 0:10:09.500,0:10:12.596 The solution to the problem[br]in the Middle East, according to him, 0:10:12.620,0:10:14.554 is to convert you all to Christianity -- 0:10:14.578,0:10:16.034 just get rid of your religion. 0:10:16.600,0:10:19.311 And you know that.[br]Americans don't read about this guy. 0:10:19.335,0:10:21.576 They don't know anything[br]about him, but you do. 0:10:21.600,0:10:23.791 You pass it around.[br]You pass his words around. 0:10:23.815,0:10:26.387 I mean, this is serious. You're afraid. 0:10:26.411,0:10:29.651 He was one of the leading commanders[br]in the second invasion of Iraq. 0:10:29.675,0:10:32.389 And you're thinking,[br]"My God, if this guy is saying that, 0:10:32.413,0:10:34.520 then all the soldiers[br]must be saying that." 0:10:35.012,0:10:36.497 And this word here -- 0:10:36.521,0:10:38.434 George Bush called this war a crusade. 0:10:38.458,0:10:40.936 Man, the Americans,[br]they're just like, "Ah, crusade. 0:10:40.960,0:10:42.906 Whatever. I don't know what that means." 0:10:42.930,0:10:45.955 You know what it means --[br]it's a holy war against Muslims. 0:10:45.979,0:10:49.808 Look, invade, subdue them,[br]take their resources. 0:10:49.832,0:10:51.809 If they won't submit, kill them. 0:10:52.405,0:10:53.756 That's what this is about. 0:10:53.780,0:10:57.408 And you're thinking, "My God,[br]these Christians are coming to kill us." 0:10:57.432,0:10:58.876 This is frightening. 0:10:58.900,0:11:01.654 You feel frightened.[br]Of course you feel frightened. 0:11:02.804,0:11:04.804 Of course you feel frightened. 0:11:08.291,0:11:10.491 Why wouldn't you feel frightened. 0:11:10.678,0:11:13.375 And this man, Terry Jones: 0:11:13.399,0:11:16.146 I mean here's a guy[br]who wants to burn Qurans, right? 0:11:16.170,0:11:18.823 And the Americans:[br]"Ah, he's a knucklehead. 0:11:18.847,0:11:22.476 He's a former hotel manager; he's got[br]three dozen members of his church ..." 0:11:22.500,0:11:23.667 They laugh him off. 0:11:23.691,0:11:26.877 You don't laugh him off,[br]because in the context of everything else, 0:11:26.901,0:11:28.052 all the pieces fit. 0:11:28.076,0:11:29.960 Of course this is how Americans think. 0:11:29.984,0:11:32.987 So people all over the Middle East,[br]not just in your country, 0:11:33.011,0:11:34.167 are protesting. 0:11:34.191,0:11:36.122 "He wants to burn Qurans, our holy book. 0:11:36.146,0:11:38.274 These Christians --[br]who are these Christians? 0:11:38.298,0:11:41.713 They're so evil, they're so mean --[br]this is what they're about?" 0:11:41.737,0:11:44.352 This is what you're thinking[br]as an Arab Muslim, 0:11:44.376,0:11:45.785 as an Iraqi. 0:11:45.809,0:11:47.786 Of course you're going to think this. 0:11:47.811,0:11:49.545 How can you not think this? 0:11:49.610,0:11:53.534 And then your cousin says,[br]"Hey coz, check out this website. 0:11:53.558,0:11:56.131 You've got to see this -- Bible Boot Camp. 0:11:56.156,0:11:57.434 These Christians are nuts! 0:11:57.458,0:12:00.325 They're training their little kids[br]to be soldiers for Jesus. 0:12:00.749,0:12:03.334 They take little kids[br]and run them through these things 0:12:03.358,0:12:05.660 till they teach them[br]how to say, 'Sir! Yes, sir!' 0:12:05.684,0:12:08.796 and things like 'grenade toss'[br]and 'weapons care and maintenance.' 0:12:08.820,0:12:11.852 And go to the website --[br]it says 'US Army' right on it. 0:12:11.876,0:12:13.786 I mean, these Christians, they're nuts. 0:12:13.810,0:12:15.820 How can they do this[br]to their little kids?" 0:12:15.844,0:12:17.375 And you're reading this website. 0:12:17.399,0:12:20.220 And of course, Christians[br]in the United States, or anybody, 0:12:20.244,0:12:23.125 says, "This is some little church[br]in the middle of nowhere." 0:12:23.149,0:12:24.300 You don't know that. 0:12:24.324,0:12:26.733 For you, this is like, all Christians. 0:12:26.757,0:12:29.059 It's all over the Web: "Bible Boot Camp." 0:12:29.083,0:12:30.412 And look at this. 0:12:30.657,0:12:32.052 They even teach their kids -- 0:12:32.076,0:12:34.889 they train them in the same way[br]the US Marines train. 0:12:35.307,0:12:36.774 Isn't that interesting. 0:12:36.798,0:12:39.076 And it scares you, and it frightens you. 0:12:39.100,0:12:41.076 So these guys, you see them. 0:12:41.100,0:12:44.284 You see, I, Sam Richards --[br]I know who these guys are. 0:12:44.308,0:12:47.241 They're my students, my friends;[br]I know what they're thinking. 0:12:47.265,0:12:48.473 You don't know. 0:12:48.497,0:12:51.042 When you see them, they're something else. 0:12:52.426,0:12:53.700 They're something else. 0:12:54.130,0:12:55.866 That's what they are to you. 0:12:56.908,0:12:59.375 We don't see it that way[br]in the United States, 0:12:59.399,0:13:00.835 but you see it that way. 0:13:04.700,0:13:05.867 So here. 0:13:06.501,0:13:08.533 Of course, you've got it wrong. 0:13:08.557,0:13:11.040 You're generalizing. It's wrong. 0:13:11.064,0:13:13.351 You don't understand the Americans. 0:13:13.375,0:13:15.055 It's not a Christian invasion. 0:13:15.079,0:13:18.052 We're not just there for oil;[br]we're there for lots of reasons. 0:13:18.076,0:13:20.089 You have it wrong. You've missed it. 0:13:20.113,0:13:22.890 And of course, most of you[br]don't support the insurgency; 0:13:22.914,0:13:24.672 you don't support killing Americans; 0:13:24.696,0:13:26.676 you don't support the terrorists. 0:13:26.700,0:13:28.676 Of course you don't. Very few people do. 0:13:28.700,0:13:30.964 But -- some of you do. 0:13:31.972,0:13:33.394 And this is a perspective. 0:13:33.781,0:13:36.513 OK. So now, here's what we're going to do. 0:13:36.537,0:13:40.498 Step outside of your shoes[br]that you're in right now, 0:13:40.522,0:13:42.312 and step back into your normal shoes. 0:13:42.336,0:13:44.311 So everyone's back in the room. OK? 0:13:45.265,0:13:47.166 Now here comes the radical experiment. 0:13:47.190,0:13:48.547 So we're all back home. 0:13:51.116,0:13:53.208 This photo: this woman -- 0:13:53.232,0:13:55.105 man, I feel her. 0:13:55.129,0:13:56.702 I feel her. 0:13:56.726,0:13:58.206 She's my sister, 0:13:58.230,0:14:01.414 my wife, my cousin, my neighbor. 0:14:01.438,0:14:02.834 She's anybody to me. 0:14:02.858,0:14:05.565 These guys standing there,[br]everybody in the photo -- 0:14:05.589,0:14:07.306 I feel this photo, man. 0:14:08.732,0:14:10.367 So here's what I want you to do. 0:14:10.391,0:14:13.443 Let's go back to my first[br]example, of the Chinese. 0:14:14.400,0:14:16.222 I want you to go there. 0:14:16.246,0:14:19.476 It's all about coal, and the Chinese[br]are here in the United States. 0:14:19.500,0:14:21.246 What I want you to do is picture her 0:14:21.270,0:14:24.198 as a Chinese woman[br]receiving a Chinese flag 0:14:24.222,0:14:28.891 because her loved one has died[br]in America in the coal uprising. 0:14:29.512,0:14:31.141 And the soldiers are Chinese, 0:14:31.165,0:14:33.040 and everybody else is Chinese. 0:14:33.520,0:14:36.520 As an American, how do you feel[br]about this picture? 0:14:38.830,0:14:40.726 What do you think about that scene? 0:14:43.600,0:14:46.122 OK, try this. Bring it back. 0:14:46.146,0:14:47.576 This is the scene here. 0:14:47.600,0:14:49.466 It's an American, American soldiers, 0:14:49.490,0:14:52.545 American woman who lost[br]her loved one in the Middle East, 0:14:52.569,0:14:54.772 in Iraq or Afghanistan. 0:14:54.796,0:14:56.772 Now, put yourself in the shoes, 0:14:56.796,0:15:00.651 go back to the shoes[br]of an Arab Muslim living in Iraq. 0:15:02.905,0:15:07.703 What are you feeling and thinking[br]about this photo, 0:15:07.727,0:15:09.540 about this woman? 0:15:17.901,0:15:19.576 OK, 0:15:19.600,0:15:21.576 now follow me on this, 0:15:21.600,0:15:23.731 because I'm taking a big risk here. 0:15:23.755,0:15:26.494 And so I'm going to invite you[br]to take a risk with me. 0:15:27.040,0:15:28.040 Okay? 0:15:31.318,0:15:33.295 These gentlemen here, they're insurgents. 0:15:33.319,0:15:37.328 They were caught by the American soldiers,[br]trying to kill Americans. 0:15:37.352,0:15:40.762 And maybe they succeeded.[br]Maybe they succeeded. 0:15:42.086,0:15:46.460 Put yourself in the shoes[br]of the Americans who caught them. 0:15:47.207,0:15:49.287 Can you feel the rage? 0:15:49.311,0:15:51.693 Can you feel that you just want[br]to take these guys 0:15:51.717,0:15:53.167 and wring their necks? 0:15:53.191,0:15:54.441 Can you go there? 0:15:55.335,0:15:57.010 It shouldn't be that difficult. 0:15:57.389,0:16:00.081 You just -- oh, man. 0:16:02.474,0:16:07.645 Now, put yourself in their shoes. 0:16:11.671,0:16:13.648 Are they brutal killers 0:16:13.672,0:16:15.625 or patriotic defenders? 0:16:17.601,0:16:18.754 Which one? 0:16:19.391,0:16:22.576 Can you feel their anger, 0:16:22.600,0:16:24.031 their fear, 0:16:24.055,0:16:26.031 their rage 0:16:26.724,0:16:28.921 at what has happened in their country? 0:16:28.945,0:16:33.348 Can you imagine that maybe[br]one of them, in the morning, 0:16:33.372,0:16:36.504 bent down to their child[br]and hugged their child 0:16:36.528,0:16:40.505 and said, "Dear, I'll be back later. 0:16:40.529,0:16:43.858 I'm going out to defend[br]your freedom, your lives. 0:16:43.882,0:16:46.355 I'm going out to look out for us, 0:16:47.369,0:16:48.893 the future of our country." 0:16:49.980,0:16:51.277 Can you imagine that? 0:16:51.301,0:16:52.804 Can you imagine saying that? 0:16:54.028,0:16:55.444 Can you go there? 0:16:58.600,0:17:00.335 What do you think they're feeling? 0:17:08.623,0:17:10.028 You see, that's empathy. 0:17:11.281,0:17:12.726 It's also understanding. 0:17:12.750,0:17:14.377 [understand] 0:17:14.402,0:17:15.710 Now, you might ask, 0:17:15.733,0:17:19.001 "OK, Sam, so why do you[br]do this sort of thing? 0:17:19.025,0:17:21.385 Why would you use[br]this example of all examples?" 0:17:21.409,0:17:24.076 And I say, because. 0:17:25.800,0:17:27.601 You're allowed to hate these people. 0:17:27.625,0:17:32.776 You're allowed to just hate them[br]with every fiber of your being. 0:17:32.800,0:17:36.577 And if I can get you[br]to step into their shoes 0:17:36.601,0:17:40.158 and walk an inch -- one tiny inch -- 0:17:40.980,0:17:43.694 then imagine the kind[br]of sociological analysis 0:17:43.718,0:17:47.336 that you can do in all other[br]aspects of your life. 0:17:48.368,0:17:49.776 You can walk a mile 0:17:49.800,0:17:54.871 when it comes to understanding why[br]that person's driving 40 miles per hour 0:17:54.895,0:17:56.292 in the passing lane; 0:17:57.093,0:17:58.764 or your teenage son; 0:17:59.474,0:18:03.117 or your neighbor who annoys you[br]by cutting his lawn on Sunday mornings. 0:18:03.141,0:18:05.997 Whatever it is, you can go so far. 0:18:06.601,0:18:08.696 And this is what I tell my students: 0:18:08.720,0:18:12.212 step outside of your tiny, little world. 0:18:12.236,0:18:16.748 Step inside of the tiny,[br]little world of somebody else. 0:18:16.989,0:18:18.430 And then do it again 0:18:18.454,0:18:20.153 and do it again and do it again. 0:18:20.177,0:18:22.286 And suddenly, all these tiny,[br]little worlds, 0:18:22.310,0:18:24.562 they come together in this complex web. 0:18:24.586,0:18:27.656 And they build a big, complex world. 0:18:27.680,0:18:30.059 And suddenly, without realizing it, 0:18:30.083,0:18:32.260 you're seeing the world differently. 0:18:32.284,0:18:34.047 Everything has changed. 0:18:34.071,0:18:35.814 Everything in your life has changed. 0:18:36.921,0:18:39.994 And that's, of course, what this is about. 0:18:40.018,0:18:43.140 Attend to other lives, 0:18:43.164,0:18:44.522 other visions. 0:18:44.546,0:18:46.971 Listen to other people, 0:18:47.011,0:18:48.856 enlighten ourselves. 0:18:48.915,0:18:51.048 Abd so, what I will say here is, 0:18:53.909,0:18:57.536 I'm not saying that I support[br]the terrorists in Iraq. 0:18:58.179,0:19:01.410 But as a sociologist, what I am saying is: 0:19:02.100,0:19:04.849 I understand. 0:19:06.100,0:19:10.328 And now perhaps -- perhaps -- you do, too. 0:19:10.352,0:19:11.504 Thank you. 0:19:11.528,0:19:14.896 (Applause)