1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:01,360 ♪♪ 2 00:00:01,360 --> 00:00:03,860 ♪♪ 3 00:00:03,860 --> 00:00:05,460 ♪♪ 4 00:00:05,460 --> 00:00:08,030 ♪♪ 5 00:00:08,030 --> 00:00:19,050 ♪♪ 6 00:00:19,050 --> 00:00:23,420 ( applause ) 7 00:00:23,420 --> 00:00:26,550 My students often ask me, 8 00:00:26,550 --> 00:00:31,380 "What is sociology?" and I tell them it's the study of the way 9 00:00:31,380 --> 00:00:35,620 in which human beings are shaped by things that they don't see. 10 00:00:35,620 --> 00:00:39,400 And they say "So, how can I be a sociologist?" 11 00:00:39,400 --> 00:00:41,800 "How can I understand those invisible forces?" 12 00:00:41,800 --> 00:00:43,450 and I say, "Empathy." 13 00:00:43,450 --> 00:00:45,440 Start with empathy. 14 00:00:45,440 --> 00:00:50,520 It all begins with empathy. Take yourself out of your shoes and put yourself 15 00:00:50,520 --> 00:00:52,700 into the shoes of another person. 16 00:00:52,700 --> 00:00:55,370 Here, I'll give you an example. 17 00:00:55,370 --> 00:00:59,410 So I imagine my life if a hundred years ago, China had been 18 00:00:59,410 --> 00:01:01,490 the most powerful nation in the world, 19 00:01:01,490 --> 00:01:05,100 and they came to the United States in search of coal. 20 00:01:05,100 --> 00:01:08,050 And they found it, and in fact they found lots of it right here. 21 00:01:08,050 --> 00:01:13,730 And pretty soon they began shipping that coal ton by ton, 22 00:01:13,730 --> 00:01:18,090 rail car by rail car, boat load by boat load back to China 23 00:01:18,090 --> 00:01:21,150 and elsewhere around the world. 24 00:01:21,150 --> 00:01:23,390 And they got fabulously weatlthy in doing so. 25 00:01:23,390 --> 00:01:30,680 They built beautiful cities all powered on that coal. 26 00:01:30,680 --> 00:01:38,680 And back here in the United States we saw economic despair, depravation. 27 00:01:38,680 --> 00:01:42,910 This is what I saw. I saw people struggling to get by, 28 00:01:42,910 --> 00:01:46,280 not knowing what was what and what was next. 29 00:01:46,280 --> 00:01:48,980 And I asked myself a question. 30 00:01:48,980 --> 00:01:52,420 I say, "How is it possible that we can be so poor in the United States, 31 00:01:52,420 --> 00:01:56,580 because the coal is such a wealthy resource. It's so much money?" 32 00:01:56,580 --> 00:02:01,120 And I realize because the Chinese ingratiated themselves 33 00:02:01,120 --> 00:02:03,760 with a small ruling class here in the United States 34 00:02:03,760 --> 00:02:08,200 who stole all of that money and all of that wealth for themselves. 35 00:02:08,200 --> 00:02:11,920 And the rest of us, the vast majority of us struggle to get by. 36 00:02:11,920 --> 00:02:15,800 And the Chinese gave this small ruling elite loads 37 00:02:15,800 --> 00:02:20,230 of military weapons and sophisticated technology in order to insure 38 00:02:20,230 --> 00:02:25,340 that people like me would not speak out against this relationship. 39 00:02:25,340 --> 00:02:28,220 Does this sound familiar? 40 00:02:28,220 --> 00:02:33,200 And they did things like train Americans to help protect the coal. 41 00:02:33,200 --> 00:02:36,420 And everywhere were symbols of the Chinese. 42 00:02:36,420 --> 00:02:40,010 Everywhere a constant reminder. 43 00:02:40,010 --> 00:02:44,120 And back in China? What do they say in China? Nothing. 44 00:02:44,120 --> 00:02:47,170 They don't talk about us. They don't talk about the coal. 45 00:02:47,170 --> 00:02:49,900 If you ask them they'll say, "Well, you know, the coal? 46 00:02:49,900 --> 00:02:51,290 We need the coal. I mean, come on." 47 00:02:51,290 --> 00:02:56,550 "I'm not going to turn down my thermostat. You can't expect that." 48 00:02:56,550 --> 00:03:00,460 And so I get angry and I get pissed, 49 00:03:00,460 --> 00:03:04,820 as do lots of average people, and we fight back. 50 00:03:04,820 --> 00:03:10,360 And it gets really ugly and the Chinese respond in a very ugly way. 51 00:03:10,360 --> 00:03:12,690 And before we know it they've sent in the tanks 52 00:03:12,690 --> 00:03:17,410 and they've sent in the troops and lots of people are dying. 53 00:03:17,410 --> 00:03:22,250 And it's a very, very difficult situation. 54 00:03:22,250 --> 00:03:28,550 So, can you feel me? Can you imagine what you would feel 55 00:03:28,550 --> 00:03:30,690 if you were in my shoes? 56 00:03:30,690 --> 00:03:34,020 Can you imagine walking out of this building and seeing a tank 57 00:03:34,020 --> 00:03:38,680 sitting out there or a truck full of soldiers. 58 00:03:38,680 --> 00:03:41,770 Just imagine what you would feel because you know why they're here 59 00:03:41,770 --> 00:03:44,300 and you know what they're doing here, and you just feel the anger 60 00:03:44,300 --> 00:03:48,760 and you feel the fear. Okay? If you can, that's empathy. 61 00:03:48,760 --> 00:03:54,010 That's empathy. You've left your shoes and stood in mine. 62 00:03:54,010 --> 00:03:58,760 And you gotta feel that. Okay, so that's the warmup. That's the warmup. 63 00:03:58,760 --> 00:04:02,760 Now we're going to have the real radical experiment. 64 00:04:02,760 --> 00:04:06,420 And so for the remainder of my talk what I want you to do 65 00:04:06,420 --> 00:04:11,010 is put yourselves in the shoes of an ordinary Arab Muslim 66 00:04:11,010 --> 00:04:16,060 living in the Middle East, in particular in Iraq. 67 00:04:16,060 --> 00:04:19,020 And so to help you-- 68 00:04:19,020 --> 00:04:23,340 perhaps you're a member of this middle class family in Baghdad. 69 00:04:23,340 --> 00:04:26,110 And what you want is the best for your kids. 70 00:04:26,110 --> 00:04:27,950 You want your kids to have a better life. 71 00:04:27,950 --> 00:04:30,990 And you watch the news. You pay attention. You read the newspaper. 72 00:04:30,990 --> 00:04:32,980 You go down to the coffee shop with your friends. 73 00:04:32,980 --> 00:04:34,780 And you read the newspapers from around the world, 74 00:04:34,780 --> 00:04:39,050 and sometimes you even watch satellite CNN from the United States 75 00:04:39,050 --> 00:04:41,350 so you have a sense of what the Americans are thinking. 76 00:04:41,350 --> 00:04:44,640 But really you just want a better life for yourself. 77 00:04:44,640 --> 00:04:49,410 That's what you want. You're Arab Muslim living in Iraq. 78 00:04:49,410 --> 00:04:51,940 You want a better life for yourself. So here, let me help you. 79 00:04:51,940 --> 00:04:55,730 Let me help you with some things that you might be thinking. 80 00:04:55,730 --> 00:05:01,430 Number one, this incursion into your land these past twenty years and before? 81 00:05:01,430 --> 00:05:04,500 The reason anyone's interested in your land in particular the United States? 82 00:05:04,500 --> 00:05:05,760 It's oil. 83 00:05:05,760 --> 00:05:08,900 But it's all about oil. You know that. Everybody knows that. 84 00:05:08,900 --> 00:05:12,190 People here back in the United States know it's about oil. 85 00:05:12,190 --> 00:05:17,190 It's because somebody else has a design for your resource. 86 00:05:17,190 --> 00:05:21,370 It's your resource. It's not somebody else's, right? It's your land. 87 00:05:21,370 --> 00:05:25,510 It's your resource. Somebody else has a design for it. 88 00:05:25,510 --> 00:05:28,960 And you know why they have a design? You know why they have their eyes set on it? 89 00:05:28,960 --> 00:05:33,410 Because they have an entire economic system that's dependent on that oil. 90 00:05:33,410 --> 00:05:37,630 Foreign oil. Oil from other parts of the world that they don't own. 91 00:05:37,630 --> 00:05:40,840 And what else do you think about these people? 92 00:05:40,840 --> 00:05:44,770 Well, the Americans, they're rich! Come on, they live in big houses, they have big cars, 93 00:05:44,770 --> 00:05:48,360 they have blonde hair, blue eyes. They're happy. You think that. 94 00:05:48,360 --> 00:05:52,790 It's not true, of course, but that's the media impression. That's like what you get? 95 00:05:52,790 --> 00:05:58,870 And they have big cities and the cities are all dependent on oil. 96 00:05:58,870 --> 00:06:01,340 And back home what do you see? 97 00:06:01,340 --> 00:06:06,360 Poverty, despair, struggle. Look, you don't live in a wealthy country. 98 00:06:06,360 --> 00:06:10,690 I mean this is Iraq. 99 00:06:10,690 --> 00:06:15,200 This is what you see -- you see people struggling to get by. 100 00:06:15,200 --> 00:06:18,500 I mean it's not easy. You see a lot of poverty and you feel something about this. 101 00:06:18,500 --> 00:06:23,070 These people have designs for your resource, and this is what you see? 102 00:06:23,070 --> 00:06:29,120 It doesn't feel good. But here, a couple other things? 103 00:06:29,120 --> 00:06:31,340 Something else you see that you talk about. 104 00:06:31,340 --> 00:06:32,730 Americans don't talk about this, but you do. 105 00:06:32,730 --> 00:06:37,870 There's this thing this militarization of the world, and it's centered right in the United States. 106 00:06:37,870 --> 00:06:45,800 And the United States is responsible for almost one half of the world's military spending. 107 00:06:45,800 --> 00:06:50,230 Four per cent of the world's population and you feel it, you see it every day. 108 00:06:50,230 --> 00:06:54,160 It's part of your life and you talk about it with your friends. 109 00:06:54,160 --> 00:06:59,850 You read about it. And back when Sadaam Hussein was in power? 110 00:06:59,850 --> 00:07:02,670 The Americans didn't care about his crimes. 111 00:07:02,670 --> 00:07:06,530 When he was gassing the Kurds and gassing Iran they didn't care about it. 112 00:07:06,530 --> 00:07:13,910 When oil was at stake, somehow suddenly things mattered. 113 00:07:13,910 --> 00:07:16,270 And what you see? Something else? 114 00:07:16,270 --> 00:07:19,980 The United States, the hub of democracy around the world? 115 00:07:19,980 --> 00:07:25,740 They don't seem to really be supporting democratic countries all around the world. 116 00:07:25,740 --> 00:07:29,430 There are a lot of countries, oil-producing countries, that aren't very democratic 117 00:07:29,430 --> 00:07:32,480 but supported by the United States. 118 00:07:32,480 --> 00:07:33,280 That's odd. 119 00:07:33,280 --> 00:07:37,380 Oh, these incursions. Here, let me help you. 120 00:07:37,380 --> 00:07:41,880 These incursions? These two years wars? The ten years of sanctions? 121 00:07:41,880 --> 00:07:45,550 The eight years of occupation? 122 00:07:45,550 --> 00:07:49,170 The insurgency that's been unleashed on your people? 123 00:07:49,170 --> 00:07:57,410 The tens of thousand, the hundreds of thousands of civilian deaths 124 00:07:57,410 --> 00:08:00,080 all because of oil. 125 00:08:00,080 --> 00:08:04,150 You can't help but think that. You talk about it. 126 00:08:04,150 --> 00:08:07,150 It's in the forefront of your mind always. 127 00:08:07,150 --> 00:08:13,380 You say, "How is that possible? Come on." 128 00:08:13,380 --> 00:08:14,550 And this man? 129 00:08:14,550 --> 00:08:19,500 He's every man. Your grandfather, your uncle your father, 130 00:08:19,500 --> 00:08:23,270 your son, your neighbor, your professor, your student -- 131 00:08:23,270 --> 00:08:30,630 wants a life of happiness and joy and suddenly pain and sorrow. 132 00:08:30,630 --> 00:08:36,900 Everyone in your country has been touched by the violence, 133 00:08:36,900 --> 00:08:39,850 the bloodshed, the pain, the horror. Everybody. 134 00:08:39,850 --> 00:08:45,600 Not a single person in your country has not been touched. 135 00:08:45,600 --> 00:08:47,210 So here, but there's something else. 136 00:08:47,210 --> 00:08:51,260 There's something else about these people, these Americans who are there. 137 00:08:51,260 --> 00:08:54,190 There's something else about them that you see. They don't see themselves. 138 00:08:54,190 --> 00:08:58,090 And what do you see? They're Christians. 139 00:08:58,090 --> 00:09:00,560 They're Christians. They worship the Christian God. 140 00:09:00,560 --> 00:09:02,580 They have crosses, they carry bibles. 141 00:09:02,580 --> 00:09:08,840 Their Bibles have a little insignia that says U.S. Army on them. 142 00:09:08,840 --> 00:09:14,230 And their leaders, their leaders, before they send their sons and 143 00:09:14,230 --> 00:09:17,860 daughters off to war in your country, and you know the reason, 144 00:09:17,860 --> 00:09:20,660 before they send them off, they go to a Christian church 145 00:09:20,660 --> 00:09:22,200 and they pray to their Christian God 146 00:09:22,200 --> 00:09:25,320 and they ask for protection and guidance from that god. 147 00:09:25,320 --> 00:09:26,400 Why? 148 00:09:26,400 --> 00:09:32,970 Well, obviously so that when people die in the war they are Muslims. 149 00:09:32,970 --> 00:09:33,840 They are Iraqis. 150 00:09:33,840 --> 00:09:35,500 They're not Americans. 151 00:09:35,500 --> 00:09:38,450 You don't want Americans to die. Protect our troops. 152 00:09:38,450 --> 00:09:42,140 And you feel something about that. Of course you do? 153 00:09:42,140 --> 00:09:45,730 And they do wonderful things, beautiful humanitarian things, 154 00:09:45,730 --> 00:09:48,870 but these humanitarians, I mean because these people, they're there 155 00:09:48,870 --> 00:09:52,600 you read about it, you hear about it, they're there to build schools 156 00:09:52,600 --> 00:09:54,120 and help people and that's what they want to do. 157 00:09:54,120 --> 00:09:57,330 They do wonderful things, but they also do the bad things 158 00:09:57,330 --> 00:09:58,960 and you can't tell the difference. 159 00:09:58,960 --> 00:10:00,020 And so you don't. 160 00:10:00,020 --> 00:10:03,310 And this guy, you got a guy like Lieutenant General William Boykin. 161 00:10:03,310 --> 00:10:06,530 I mean, here's a guy that says that your god is a false god. 162 00:10:06,530 --> 00:10:10,570 Your god is an idol. His god is the true god. The solution to the problem in the Middle East 163 00:10:10,570 --> 00:10:13,710 according to him is to convert you all to Christianity. 164 00:10:13,710 --> 00:10:15,830 Just get rid of your religion. 165 00:10:15,830 --> 00:10:16,640 And you know that. 166 00:10:16,640 --> 00:10:18,520 Americans don't read about this guy. 167 00:10:18,520 --> 00:10:20,470 They don't know anything about him, but you do. 168 00:10:20,470 --> 00:10:22,900 You pass it around, you pass his words around. 169 00:10:22,900 --> 00:10:25,340 I mean this is serious. You're afraid. 170 00:10:25,340 --> 00:10:28,910 He was one of the leading commanders in the second invasion of Iraq, 171 00:10:28,910 --> 00:10:31,360 and you're thinking "My god, if this guy is saying that, 172 00:10:31,360 --> 00:10:34,130 then all the soldiers must be saying that." 173 00:10:34,130 --> 00:10:34,630 Right? 174 00:10:34,630 --> 00:10:37,470 This word here. George Bush called this war a "crusade." 175 00:10:37,470 --> 00:10:41,440 Man, the Americans they're just like, "Crusade, whatever, I don't know what that means." 176 00:10:41,440 --> 00:10:45,080 But you know what it means. It's a Holy War against Muslims. 177 00:10:45,080 --> 00:10:51,680 Look, invade, subdue them, take their resources. If they won't submit, kill them. 178 00:10:51,680 --> 00:10:53,020 That's what this is about. 179 00:10:53,020 --> 00:10:56,580 And you're thinking "My god, these Christians are coming to kill us." 180 00:10:56,580 --> 00:10:58,830 This is frightening. You feel frightened. 181 00:10:58,830 --> 00:11:02,090 Of course you feel frightened? 182 00:11:02,090 --> 00:11:07,480 Of course you feel frightened. 183 00:11:07,480 --> 00:11:09,880 Why wouldn't you feel frightened. 184 00:11:09,880 --> 00:11:15,160 And this man, Terry Jones, I mean here's a guy wants to burn Korans, right? 185 00:11:15,160 --> 00:11:19,210 And the Americans, "Oh what, he's a knucklehead, he's a former hotel manager, 186 00:11:19,210 --> 00:11:20,870 he's got three dozen members of his church", 187 00:11:20,870 --> 00:11:23,590 they laugh him off. You don't laugh him off. 188 00:11:23,590 --> 00:11:26,660 Because in the context of everything else, all the pieces fit. 189 00:11:26,660 --> 00:11:28,730 I mean of course this is how the Americans think, 190 00:11:28,730 --> 00:11:32,300 and so people all over the Middle East, not just in your country are protesting. 191 00:11:32,300 --> 00:11:35,160 He wants to burn Korans, our holy book. 192 00:11:35,160 --> 00:11:39,050 These Christians, Who are these Christians? They're so evil, they're so mean. 193 00:11:39,050 --> 00:11:40,880 I mean this is what they're about? 194 00:11:40,880 --> 00:11:44,860 This is what you're thinking as an Arab Muslim, as an Iraqi. 195 00:11:44,860 --> 00:11:48,730 Of course you're going to think this. How can you not think this? 196 00:11:48,730 --> 00:11:52,810 And then your cousin says "Hey, cuz, check out this website. 197 00:11:52,810 --> 00:11:55,360 You gotta see this Christian, this Bible Boot Camp. 198 00:11:55,360 --> 00:11:59,810 These Christians are nuts. They're training their little kids to be soldiers for Jesus." 199 00:11:59,810 --> 00:12:01,990 And they take these little kids, and they run them through these things 200 00:12:01,990 --> 00:12:05,450 and they teach them how to say "Sir, yes, sir!", and play games like grenade toss, 201 00:12:05,450 --> 00:12:07,590 and weapons care and maintenance. 202 00:12:07,590 --> 00:12:10,800 And go to the website. It says U.S. Army right on it. 203 00:12:10,800 --> 00:12:12,700 I mean these Christians they're nuts! 204 00:12:12,700 --> 00:12:14,200 How would they do this to their little kids? 205 00:12:14,200 --> 00:12:16,250 And you're reading this website and of course Christians 206 00:12:16,250 --> 00:12:18,690 back in the United States or anybody says 207 00:12:18,690 --> 00:12:21,300 "Aw, this is a little tiny church in the middle of nowhere." 208 00:12:21,300 --> 00:12:23,100 You don't know that. 209 00:12:23,100 --> 00:12:25,570 For you, this is all Christians. 210 00:12:25,570 --> 00:12:28,030 It's all over the web -- Bible Boot Camp. 211 00:12:28,030 --> 00:12:31,190 And look at this. They even teach their kids. 212 00:12:31,190 --> 00:12:34,530 They train them in the same way the U.S. Marines train. 213 00:12:34,530 --> 00:12:36,020 Isn't that interesting? 214 00:12:36,020 --> 00:12:38,100 And it scares you and it frightens you. 215 00:12:38,100 --> 00:12:40,350 So these guys? You see them? 216 00:12:40,350 --> 00:12:43,470 You see I, Sam Richards, I know who these guys are. 217 00:12:43,470 --> 00:12:45,990 They're my students, my friends. I mean I know what they're thinking. 218 00:12:45,990 --> 00:12:47,970 You don't know. 219 00:12:47,970 --> 00:12:53,310 When you see them they're something else. They're something else. 220 00:12:53,310 --> 00:12:56,140 That's what they are to you. (Christian Invaders) 221 00:12:56,140 --> 00:12:58,300 We don't see it that way in the United States. 222 00:12:58,300 --> 00:13:03,910 But you see it that way? 223 00:13:03,910 --> 00:13:07,720 So here. Of course, you got it wrong. 224 00:13:07,720 --> 00:13:10,500 You're generalizing, it's wrong. 225 00:13:10,500 --> 00:13:14,190 You don't understand the Americans. It's not a Christian invasion. 226 00:13:14,190 --> 00:13:16,390 We're not just there for oil. We're there for lots of reasons. 227 00:13:16,390 --> 00:13:19,360 I mean, you have it wrong. You've missed it. 228 00:13:19,360 --> 00:13:22,000 And of course most of you don't support the insurgency, 229 00:13:22,000 --> 00:13:25,790 you don't support killing Americans, you don't support the terrorists. 230 00:13:25,790 --> 00:13:31,200 Of course you don't. Very few people do. But some of you do? 231 00:13:31,200 --> 00:13:33,020 And this is a perspective. 232 00:13:33,020 --> 00:13:35,730 Okay, so now, so here's what we're going to do. 233 00:13:35,730 --> 00:13:39,670 Step outside of your shoes that you're in right now 234 00:13:39,670 --> 00:13:44,450 and step back into your normal shoes, so everyone's back in the room, okay? 235 00:13:44,450 --> 00:13:45,900 Now here comes the radical experiment. 236 00:13:45,900 --> 00:13:50,330 So we're all back home. 237 00:13:50,330 --> 00:13:52,490 This photo. This woman? 238 00:13:52,490 --> 00:13:55,930 Man, I feel her. I feel her. 239 00:13:55,930 --> 00:14:01,680 She's my sister, my wife, my cousin, my neighbor, she's anybody. 240 00:14:01,680 --> 00:14:04,350 These guys standing there, everybody in the photo? 241 00:14:04,350 --> 00:14:07,960 I feel this photo, man. 242 00:14:07,960 --> 00:14:09,620 So here's what I want you to do. 243 00:14:09,620 --> 00:14:13,710 Let's go back to my first example of the Chinese, okay? 244 00:14:13,710 --> 00:14:16,570 So I want you to go there, so it's all about coal 245 00:14:16,570 --> 00:14:18,410 and the Chinese are here in the United States. 246 00:14:18,410 --> 00:14:23,300 And I want you to picture her as a Chinese woman receiving a Chinese flag 247 00:14:23,300 --> 00:14:28,770 because her loved one has died in America in the coal uprising. 248 00:14:28,770 --> 00:14:31,990 And the soldiers are Chinese and everybody else is Chinese. 249 00:14:31,990 --> 00:14:38,200 Okay? As an American, how do you feel about this picture? 250 00:14:38,200 --> 00:14:42,740 What do you think about that scene? 251 00:14:42,740 --> 00:14:44,240 Okay, try this. 252 00:14:44,240 --> 00:14:47,600 Bring it back. This is the scene, here. It's an American, 253 00:14:47,600 --> 00:14:51,710 American soldiers, American woman who lost her loved one in the Middle East, 254 00:14:51,710 --> 00:14:53,850 in Iraq or Afghanistan? 255 00:14:53,850 --> 00:14:55,990 Now put yourself in the shoes 256 00:14:55,990 --> 00:15:02,210 of an Arab Muslim living in Iraq. 257 00:15:02,210 --> 00:15:06,970 What are you feeling and thinking about this photo, 258 00:15:06,970 --> 00:15:10,170 about this woman? 259 00:15:10,170 --> 00:15:17,090 260 00:15:17,090 --> 00:15:20,860 Okay, now follow me on this. 261 00:15:20,860 --> 00:15:22,910 Because I'm taking a big risk here. 262 00:15:22,910 --> 00:15:28,910 And so I'm going to invite you to take a risk with me, okay? 263 00:15:28,910 --> 00:15:32,520 Okay so these gentlemen here, they're insurgents. 264 00:15:32,520 --> 00:15:36,510 They were caught by the American soldiers trying to kill Americans. 265 00:15:36,510 --> 00:15:40,830 And maybe they succeeded. Maybe they succeeded? 266 00:15:40,830 --> 00:15:46,530 Put yourself in the shoes of the Americans who caught them. 267 00:15:46,530 --> 00:15:48,600 Can you feel the rage? 268 00:15:48,600 --> 00:15:52,410 Can you feel that you just want to take these guys and wring their necks? 269 00:15:52,410 --> 00:15:56,720 I mean, can you go there? It shouldn't be that difficult. 270 00:15:56,720 --> 00:16:00,810 You know you just feel, "Aw, man!" 271 00:16:00,810 --> 00:16:10,870 Okay, now, put yourself in their shoes. 272 00:16:10,870 --> 00:16:12,890 Are they brutal killers 273 00:16:12,890 --> 00:16:16,760 or patriotic defenders? 274 00:16:16,760 --> 00:16:18,550 Which one? 275 00:16:18,550 --> 00:16:25,930 Can you feel their anger, their fear, their rage 276 00:16:25,930 --> 00:16:27,990 at what has happened in their country? 277 00:16:27,990 --> 00:16:32,540 Can you imagine that maybe one of them in the morning 278 00:16:32,540 --> 00:16:36,100 bent down to their child and hugged their child and said, 279 00:16:36,100 --> 00:16:43,100 "Dear, I'll be back later. I'm going out to defend your freedom, your lives." 280 00:16:43,100 --> 00:16:49,190 "I'm going out to look out for us, the future of our country." 281 00:16:49,190 --> 00:16:53,250 Can you imagine that? Can you imagine saying that? 282 00:16:53,250 --> 00:16:57,850 Can you go there? 283 00:16:57,850 --> 00:17:00,650 What do you think they're feeling? 284 00:17:00,650 --> 00:17:07,960 285 00:17:07,960 --> 00:17:09,400 You see that's empathy. 286 00:17:09,400 --> 00:17:12,740 It's also understanding. 287 00:17:12,740 --> 00:17:18,170 Now, you might ask, "Okay, Sam, so why do you do this sort of thing?" 288 00:17:18,170 --> 00:17:20,620 "Why would you use this example of all examples?" 289 00:17:20,620 --> 00:17:27,070 And I say because you're allowed to hate these people. 290 00:17:27,070 --> 00:17:32,080 You're allowed to just hate them with every fiber of your being. 291 00:17:32,080 --> 00:17:35,840 aAd if I can get you to step into their shoes 292 00:17:35,840 --> 00:17:40,120 and walk in inch, one tiny inch, 293 00:17:40,120 --> 00:17:44,150 then imagine the kind of sociological analysis that you can do 294 00:17:44,150 --> 00:17:47,580 in all other aspects of your life. 295 00:17:47,580 --> 00:17:51,170 You can walk a mile when it comes to understanding 296 00:17:51,170 --> 00:17:55,640 why that person is driving 40 miles per hour in the passing lane, 297 00:17:55,640 --> 00:17:59,600 or your teenage son, or your neighbor 298 00:17:59,600 --> 00:18:02,360 who annoys you by cutting his lawn on Sunday mornings. 299 00:18:02,360 --> 00:18:07,930 Whatever it is, you can go so far -- and this is what I tell my students. 300 00:18:07,930 --> 00:18:11,440 Step outside of your tiny little world. 301 00:18:11,440 --> 00:18:16,210 Step inside of the tiny little world of somebody else. 302 00:18:16,210 --> 00:18:19,410 And then do it again, and do it again, and do it again 303 00:18:19,410 --> 00:18:21,380 and suddenly all of these tiny little worlds 304 00:18:21,380 --> 00:18:23,700 they come together in this complex web 305 00:18:23,700 --> 00:18:26,650 and they build a big complex world. 306 00:18:26,650 --> 00:18:31,550 And suddenly without realizing it you're seeing the world differently. 307 00:18:31,550 --> 00:18:33,300 Everything has changed. 308 00:18:33,300 --> 00:18:36,100 Everything in your life has changed. 309 00:18:36,100 --> 00:18:39,220 And that's of course what this is about. 310 00:18:39,220 --> 00:18:43,700 Attend to other lives, other visions. 311 00:18:43,700 --> 00:18:48,150 Listen to other people. Enlighten ourselves. 312 00:18:48,150 --> 00:18:57,420 And so what I will say here is, I'm not saying that I support the terrorists in Iraq. 313 00:18:57,420 --> 00:19:05,380 But as a sociologist, what I am saying is I understand. 314 00:19:05,380 --> 00:19:09,590 And now perhaps, perhaps, you do too. 315 00:19:09,590 --> 00:19:10,610 Thank you. 316 00:19:10,610 --> 99:59:59,999 ( applause )