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Dialogue: 0,0:00:03.69,0:00:07.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Good evening, and welcome to the Boston University Huntington Theater,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:07.48,0:00:09.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for this, the second part of our course,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:09.86,0:00:12.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in elementary courting, for men.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:12.96,0:00:15.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,May I say how please I am with tonight's turnout,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:15.92,0:00:19.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,some eight hundred people, which is very gratifying.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:19.88,0:00:22.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Tonight, we look at the first date.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:22.03,0:00:26.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Obviously, taking out a girl for the first time, is a very complex issue.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:26.58,0:00:30.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The first crucial step is, having arranged to pick up your date,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:30.04,0:00:33.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,not to look like a complete idiot when she opens the door.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:40.87,0:00:45.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Best to look as though your attention has been momentarily distracted.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:49.72,0:00:54.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But when you do notice her, it is vital to say how pretty she is looking, straight away.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:55.37,0:00:57.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But don't over do it.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:04.76,0:01:07.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If at this point you are introduced to her parents,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:07.22,0:01:09.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,attitude is all important.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:09.48,0:01:11.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You can be too casual...
Dialogue: 0,0:01:14.28,0:01:16.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or you can be too keen.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:26.39,0:01:28.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When you said goodbye to the parents,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:28.70,0:01:30.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,again don't overdo it,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:33.12,0:01:34.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,lead her to your car,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:35.92,0:01:39.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and remember to open the door.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:41.24,0:01:44.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Once in the car, there are various ways of driving.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:44.06,0:01:45.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you drive like this...
Dialogue: 0,0:01:55.53,0:01:57.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you might lose her respect.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:57.94,0:01:59.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you drive like this...
Dialogue: 0,0:02:14.82,0:02:17.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you should have taken a taxi.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:17.39,0:02:19.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Before long, you'll arrive at the restaurant.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:19.70,0:02:21.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Get out of the car...
Dialogue: 0,0:02:26.59,0:02:29.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and escort her to your table.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:30.08,0:02:32.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Then tuck her into her seat, yourself...
Dialogue: 0,0:02:37.35,0:02:39.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and attract the waiter's attention.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:53.48,0:02:56.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Selecting from the wine list is important,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:56.10,0:02:58.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,complete ignorance is not good.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:01.66,0:03:04.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When the bottle arrives, there's much to be made in the tasting of it,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:04.65,0:03:06.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but don't be too professional.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:21.16,0:03:24.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,With eating, again, moderation is the order of the day.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:24.80,0:03:26.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Don't eat too fast...
Dialogue: 0,0:03:35.32,0:03:36.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but don't eat too slowly.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:46.63,0:03:48.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Next, is recieving the bill,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:48.57,0:03:50.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,this is a very important moment.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:50.03,0:03:52.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You must be sure not to lose your cool.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:52.44,0:03:53.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is right...
Dialogue: 0,0:03:58.38,0:04:00.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...this is wrong.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:16.55,0:04:18.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The girl, may of couse offer to pay herself,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:18.76,0:04:21.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in which case you should refuse...
Dialogue: 0,0:04:21.64,0:04:22.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for a while.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:24.87,0:04:27.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Next stop, is a fashionable discotheque.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:31.29,0:04:33.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Once inside, you might look slightly strange
Dialogue: 0,0:04:33.65,0:04:35.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if you try to talk over the music.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:35.16,0:04:38.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So just stand casually, and look sexy.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:43.64,0:04:54.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is good...this is better...this is starting to be misguided.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:55.83,0:04:58.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,After stance, dance technique is most important.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:58.54,0:05:00.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Most people don't know how to dance,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:00.55,0:05:01.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and so do too much...
Dialogue: 0,0:05:03.71,0:05:05.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Other people do too little.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:09.54,0:05:11.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Some people dance as if there's something up their bottom,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:16.84,0:05:19.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and other people dance as if there's something coming out of their bottom.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:24.25,0:05:27.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When all's said and done, it's best probably to not to dance at all.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:28.48,0:05:34.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,A well-mimed sporting injuring is always useful, and a good excuse for leaving the discotheque.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:34.37,0:05:36.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you don't utterly foul it up,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:36.96,0:05:40.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,20 minutes later, you should back at your place.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:42.49,0:05:45.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's important to relax, and make your guest feel at home.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:45.94,0:05:48.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She will probably feel as nervous as you do,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:48.17,0:05:50.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and there's no need to make any extra special effort.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:02.64,0:06:04.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Then, putting on the music.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:04.50,0:06:06.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We can't help you with the choice of CD,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:06.74,0:06:08.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,even though no matter what the circumstances,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:08.59,0:06:12.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Donny and Marie Osmond's greatest hits would be a mistake.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:19.04,0:06:22.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,At all cost, avoid the temptation to brag about your stereo.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:31.94,0:06:36.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now comes the moment you've been waiting for—the seduction.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:37.28,0:06:41.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is the subject of next week's lecture.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:45.40,0:06:49.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,However, as a rough guide, this is right...
Dialogue: 0,0:06:52.52,0:06:55.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...and this is, I think we all agree, disastrous.