0:00:00.089,0:00:04.110 I've had an obsession basically for 30 0:00:01.829,0:00:05.940 years and that obsession has been what 0:00:04.110,0:00:07.529 makes the difference in the quality of 0:00:05.940,0:00:08.910 people's lives what makes the difference 0:00:07.529,0:00:09.990 in their performance because that's what 0:00:08.910,0:00:11.370 I got hired to do I got to produce the 0:00:09.990,0:00:13.769 result now that's what I've done for 30 0:00:11.370,0:00:15.509 years I get the phone call when the 0:00:13.769,0:00:17.670 athlete is burning down on national 0:00:15.509,0:00:19.380 television and they were ahead by five 0:00:17.670,0:00:20.939 strokes and now they can't get back on 0:00:19.380,0:00:22.170 the course and I got to do something 0:00:20.939,0:00:24.240 right now I get the results of nothing 0:00:22.170,0:00:26.130 matters I get the phone call when the 0:00:24.240,0:00:28.800 child is gonna commit suicide I go do 0:00:26.130,0:00:29.699 something right now and in 29 years I'm 0:00:28.800,0:00:31.650 very grateful to tell you I've never 0:00:29.699,0:00:33.630 lost one in 29 years it doesn't mean I 0:00:31.650,0:00:34.829 won't someday but I've done it and the 0:00:33.630,0:00:36.239 reason is an understanding of these 0:00:34.829,0:00:38.129 human needs that I want to talk to you 0:00:36.239,0:00:40.050 them I look at life and say there's two 0:00:38.129,0:00:41.370 master lessons one is there's the 0:00:40.050,0:00:42.600 science of achievement which almost 0:00:41.370,0:00:44.399 every in this room is mastered - an 0:00:42.600,0:00:45.809 amazing step that's how do you take the 0:00:44.399,0:00:46.920 invisible and make it visible right how 0:00:45.809,0:00:48.030 you take what you're dreaming out and 0:00:46.920,0:00:50.309 make it happen whether it be your 0:00:48.030,0:00:51.870 business your contribution society money 0:00:50.309,0:00:54.149 whatever it is for you your body your 0:00:51.870,0:00:55.800 family but the other lesson of life that 0:00:54.149,0:00:57.989 is rarely mastered is the art of 0:00:55.800,0:00:59.340 fulfillment because science is easy 0:00:57.989,0:01:01.199 right we know the rules you write the 0:00:59.340,0:01:02.609 code you follow those and you get the 0:01:01.199,0:01:05.489 result once you know the game you just 0:01:02.609,0:01:07.470 up the ante don't you but when it comes 0:01:05.489,0:01:09.090 to fulfillment that's in a part and the 0:01:07.470,0:01:10.890 reason is it's about appreciation and 0:01:09.090,0:01:13.830 it's about contribution you can only 0:01:10.890,0:01:15.659 feel so much by yourself so what shape 0:01:13.830,0:01:20.189 Lance what shapes you two invisible 0:01:15.659,0:01:21.720 forces very quickly one state we all 0:01:20.189,0:01:22.979 have had time saved at a time you did 0:01:21.720,0:01:24.210 something and after you did you thought 0:01:22.979,0:01:25.950 to yourself I can't believe I said that 0:01:24.210,0:01:27.299 I can't believe I did that that was so 0:01:25.950,0:01:29.520 stupid who's been that it wasn't your 0:01:27.299,0:01:31.549 ability with your state your model of 0:01:29.520,0:01:34.130 the world is what shapes you long time 0:01:31.549,0:01:35.960 your ma the world is the filter that's 0:01:34.130,0:01:37.399 what's shaping us that's what makes 0:01:35.960,0:01:38.689 people make decisions we want to get us 0:01:37.399,0:01:40.880 on somebody we have to know what all of 0:01:38.689,0:01:43.130 the influence and it's made up of three 0:01:40.880,0:01:45.319 parts I believe first what's your target 0:01:43.130,0:01:46.939 what are you after which I believe is 0:01:45.319,0:01:49.090 not your desires you get your desires 0:01:46.939,0:01:50.930 and goals I've never got a goal desire 0:01:49.090,0:01:52.130 so it needs me 0:01:50.930,0:01:54.410 I believe there are six unit names 0:01:52.130,0:01:56.460 second what you know with the target 0:01:54.410,0:01:58.290 that's driving 0:01:56.460,0:01:59.790 but the true guilt format you uncover it 0:01:58.290,0:02:02.450 and then you find out what term outlook 0:01:59.790,0:02:03.680 a belief systems that are talking 0:02:02.450,0:02:05.240 some people be the way to get those 0:02:03.680,0:02:07.159 needs is destroy the world some people's 0:02:05.240,0:02:09.170 to build something create something love 0:02:07.159,0:02:10.519 someone and then there's the fuel you 0:02:09.170,0:02:11.840 pick so very quickly 0:02:10.519,0:02:14.209 six needs let me tell you what there are 0:02:11.840,0:02:15.769 first one certainty now these are not 0:02:14.209,0:02:17.150 goals or desires either Universal 0:02:15.769,0:02:19.190 everyone needs certainty that they can 0:02:17.150,0:02:20.450 avoid pain at least be comfortable now 0:02:19.190,0:02:23.120 how do you get it control everybody 0:02:20.450,0:02:25.730 develop a skill give up smoke a 0:02:23.120,0:02:26.930 cigarette if you got totally certain 0:02:25.730,0:02:28.130 ironically even though we all need that 0:02:26.930,0:02:30.860 like you're not certain about your 0:02:28.130,0:02:31.730 health or your children or money you 0:02:30.860,0:02:33.019 don't think about much or you're not 0:02:31.730,0:02:35.780 sure the ceilings can hold up here 0:02:33.019,0:02:37.280 listen any speaker but while we go for 0:02:35.780,0:02:39.260 certain differently if we get total 0:02:37.280,0:02:40.069 certainty we get what do you feel if 0:02:39.260,0:02:41.120 you're certain you know what's gonna 0:02:40.069,0:02:43.099 happen what's gonna happen how it's 0:02:41.120,0:02:45.200 gonna happen what would you feel bored 0:02:43.099,0:02:48.110 out of your mind so God in her infinite 0:02:45.200,0:02:51.069 wisdom gave us a second human need which 0:02:48.110,0:02:51.069 is uncertainty