1 00:00:01,995 --> 00:00:04,205 (Half bell) 2 00:00:09,256 --> 00:00:25,020 (Bell) 3 00:00:27,744 --> 00:00:37,504 (French) Why do I sometimes feel as if there is a heavy ball on my heart? 4 00:00:40,051 --> 00:00:44,282 Why do I sometimes feel as if there is a great, heavy ball 5 00:00:44,282 --> 00:00:46,795 weighing down in my heart? 6 00:00:50,862 --> 00:00:54,577 The practice of mindfulness may help 7 00:00:55,598 --> 00:01:06,547 us to find out why that feeling... comes...again 8 00:01:07,381 --> 00:01:12,095 Sometimes something has been transmitted to you 9 00:01:12,095 --> 00:01:15,795 by your mother, your father, your ancestors, 10 00:01:17,641 --> 00:01:19,676 some sorrow, 11 00:01:20,378 --> 00:01:22,572 some fear, 12 00:01:22,572 --> 00:01:24,432 some worries 13 00:01:34,002 --> 00:01:40,274 And it's good that you have encountered 14 00:01:40,274 --> 00:01:43,040 the practice of mindfulness 15 00:01:44,783 --> 00:01:48,322 because with the practice of mindfulness 16 00:01:48,322 --> 00:01:51,225 we can help transform that for our mother, 17 00:01:51,225 --> 00:01:52,235 for our father, 18 00:01:52,235 --> 00:01:55,833 for our ancestors 19 00:02:00,416 --> 00:02:02,670 Because we are the continuation of 20 00:02:02,670 --> 00:02:05,000 our father, our mother, our ancestors 21 00:02:05,000 --> 00:02:06,462 They are still in us 22 00:02:06,462 --> 00:02:09,508 with their happiness and their suffering, 23 00:02:09,899 --> 00:02:14,143 their talents and also their shortcomings 24 00:02:14,750 --> 00:02:19,316 So that feeling may be a result of... 25 00:02:20,766 --> 00:02:24,812 some worries, some fears, some anger 26 00:02:25,827 --> 00:02:27,511 by former generations 27 00:02:27,511 --> 00:02:29,931 We have to accept them 28 00:02:30,694 --> 00:02:33,219 We have to accept them 29 00:02:33,219 --> 00:02:36,059 So you practice breathing in 30 00:02:36,059 --> 00:02:38,050 and you accept it: 31 00:02:38,050 --> 00:02:40,910 "this is a feeling of heaviness.. 32 00:02:40,910 --> 00:02:42,681 "in my chest" 33 00:02:43,508 --> 00:02:45,710 And it can be transformed by 34 00:02:45,710 --> 00:02:48,002 the practice of mindfulness, 35 00:02:48,002 --> 00:02:51,625 by the practice of love and understanding 36 00:02:53,809 --> 00:02:57,005 And you are aware you are breathing in 37 00:02:57,005 --> 00:03:00,956 for your mother, for your father, 38 00:03:00,956 --> 00:03:02,535 for your ancestors 39 00:03:04,526 --> 00:03:10,594 And you know that the practice of smiling, 40 00:03:10,940 --> 00:03:12,949 of releasing, 41 00:03:13,550 --> 00:03:15,096 of compassion 42 00:03:15,096 --> 00:03:19,697 can very well transform that kind of sorrow, 43 00:03:19,697 --> 00:03:23,884 that kind of anxiety, that kind of fear 44 00:03:23,884 --> 00:03:25,939 And you do that out of love 45 00:03:25,939 --> 00:03:31,042 You do that for your mother, for your father 46 00:03:31,042 --> 00:03:34,332 for your grandfather, your grandmother and so on 47 00:03:37,758 --> 00:03:41,385 Many of us feel a kind of suffering 48 00:03:41,385 --> 00:03:44,809 that we do not understand 49 00:03:47,930 --> 00:03:50,953 We don't understand why we suffer like that 50 00:03:52,506 --> 00:03:54,406 We have not created that suffering, 51 00:03:54,406 --> 00:03:56,510 the reason why it is there 52 00:03:56,863 --> 00:04:00,396 The only answer is that it has been transmitted to us 53 00:04:00,396 --> 00:04:03,368 by society, by ancestors 54 00:04:04,709 --> 00:04:09,165 And we have to accept first 55 00:04:10,332 --> 00:04:13,962 And accepting makes it easier 56 00:04:14,849 --> 00:04:17,499 And then the next step is to 57 00:04:17,499 --> 00:04:20,052 breathe in and out mindfully 58 00:04:21,452 --> 00:04:23,258 and smile to it 59 00:04:25,241 --> 00:04:27,704 And realise that the practice 60 00:04:27,704 --> 00:04:30,556 of mindfulness, concentration and insight 61 00:04:30,556 --> 00:04:34,311 can help transform, 62 00:04:34,311 --> 00:04:39,413 because understanding and compassion 63 00:04:39,413 --> 00:04:45,773 these are two kind of energies that have the power to transform everything 64 00:04:49,079 --> 00:04:52,155 It is like the sunshine 65 00:04:52,155 --> 00:04:56,825 The sunshine can melt the snow 66 00:04:58,375 --> 00:05:00,174 and dry... 67 00:05:04,104 --> 00:05:08,133 and help...dry the tears 68 00:05:09,910 --> 00:05:16,188 So if we practice understanding suffering and compassion 69 00:05:16,188 --> 00:05:18,616 it can help transform the 70 00:05:18,616 --> 00:05:21,698 suffering of our father, our mother in us, 71 00:05:21,698 --> 00:05:23,661 our own suffering 72 00:05:24,795 --> 00:05:28,712 And sometimes it can be done very quickly 73 00:05:29,594 --> 00:05:31,635 provided that you don't worry, 74 00:05:31,635 --> 00:05:34,911 that you know it can be transformed 75 00:05:35,084 --> 00:05:40,497 And after five minutes of breathing, walking 76 00:05:40,497 --> 00:05:44,427 or resting, you may feel that it is gone 77 00:05:46,052 --> 00:05:48,961 And the next time when it comes, you do the same 78 00:05:48,961 --> 00:05:50,778 and if you continue like that, 79 00:05:50,778 --> 00:05:52,889 one day it will disappear 80 00:05:55,414 --> 00:05:57,578 and will not come back 81 00:05:58,640 --> 00:06:01,203 But we have to keep the practice 82 00:06:01,273 --> 00:06:04,926 We need someone to remind us to practice 83 00:06:05,906 --> 00:06:08,371 That is why it is wonderful 84 00:06:08,371 --> 00:06:11,124 to have co-practitioners 85 00:06:11,621 --> 00:06:15,426 in our neighbourhood, our family 86 00:06:15,638 --> 00:06:19,163 Everytime we feel that, we remember to practice 87 00:06:19,163 --> 00:06:22,154 and if we do not remember to practice 88 00:06:22,154 --> 00:06:24,502 someone else will tell us 89 00:06:24,502 --> 00:06:28,106 to go back to our in-breath and out-breath and practice 90 00:06:33,176 --> 00:06:35,023 Thank you for asking the question 91 00:06:35,023 --> 00:06:37,908 It helps many people 92 00:06:40,625 --> 00:06:44,776 (Half bell) 93 00:06:45,282 --> 00:06:56,024 (Bell)