[Script Info] Title: [Events] Format: Layer, Start, End, Style, Name, MarginL, MarginR, MarginV, Effect, Text Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Imagine its one year from today Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and we all agree that we're going to Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,come back for a reunion Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Not maybe, absolutely. We're all going to Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,come back exactly the same group of us Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And we're going to come back for a reunion Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Only want to share the things that has Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,happened in our lives, during the last Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,12 months of our lives. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We're going to share what it is we've Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,dreamed up when we were here at TEDX Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in October of 2016 and what's happening Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in our lives right now 365 days later. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What would you love to be saying about Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,your life? What would you love to say Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in the four areas where humans actually do Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,create results? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We live in a spiral universe.\N Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In a spiral there's an ever upward pole\Nof becomingness. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,A little blade of grass feels it as it \Npresses through cement to Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,become more of its self today than \Nyesterday Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,A tree presses to the edges of itself\Nto become more of its self\Ntoday than yesterday Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And humans feel the same thing, \Nwe just feel a little differently Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We feel it through longing\Nand we feel through discontent Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We feel a longing for greater freedom. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We feel a discontent with\Ncertain circumstances and situations. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And if we just keep breathing another\N365 days,we will create results. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because that's what humans do. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now we create results in four areas. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We create results in health and well-being Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You could look at your results in health\Nand well-being Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but what would you love a year from now? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because if you keep breathing you're going\Nto have results in that area. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Humans create results in relationships.\NSome of them are wonderful, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,some of them are deep, some of them\Nare supportive, some of them are not. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What would you love \Nin the area of your relationships? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Would you love to bring that someone\Nspecial in your life? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Would you like to transform a relationship\Nyou are in? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Maybe a relationship is on an auto-pilot\Nand you'd love to have it go deeper Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Humans create results in vocation. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What we do with our time and talent. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Whether we earned income doing it or not. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because just by our beingness we're doing\Nsomething with our time and talent. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Even if we think we've done so many\Nmistakes and want to go under the covers Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What I create that day is "Covers over my\Nhead day in bed" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I don't get to not create out of my\Nexperience Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And humans create results in time and\Nmoney, freedom or constraint Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So if you think about next year when we\Ncome to the reunion Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What would you love to be saying?\N Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You know in my calendar the last twelve\Nmonths here are the evidences Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,More freedom for me and time Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,More freedom for me in the economic\Nfreedom Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,where I could go where I wanted to go,\Ndo what I wanted to do Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but maybe even more importantly\Nand I believe it is Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,actually give to the things that matter\Nto you Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,provide some of the things for those that\Nmatter to you as well Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now...about fourty years ago Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I got very interested in transformation Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I was getting my undergraduate degree Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I cared deeply about kids Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This has been a longing of mine for\Nquite a while to become a school teacher Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And while I was getting my undergraduate\Ndegree I wanted to study everything Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I could in the field of transformation Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And the purpose at that point was to help\Nchildren discover a kind of self-esteem Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So no matter what their circumstances,\Nno matter what their situations Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They could actually believe that they\Ncould actually become the person Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they wanted to be and achieve the things\Nthey wanted to achieve Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I went on a got a graduate degree in\Ncounselling psychology, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I earned an honorary doctorate Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,My first book, 'Building your field\Nof dreams' became a PBS special Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I had the privilege of working with\Nhis holiness The Dalai Lama Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Over the course of seven years creating\Nweek long conversations Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Conversations with world leaders about how\Nto transform our worlds results Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I got very interested in how results\Nhappened and how to transform results Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I had the privilege of speaking at the\NUnited Nations Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with The Martin Luther King kids and Ghandi's grandkids Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,creating a 64 day season for non-violence\Nparticularly teaching junior high kids Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,about how to solve problems through acs of\Nnon-violence and caring Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I spoke at the UN three different\Ntimes, one of them with Rosa Parks Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I was building my dreams that mattered\Nto me Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I had the privilege of working and flying\Nto Cape Town, South Africa and meeting Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with Nelson Mandela. I had a deep dream to\Nask him the question Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"How did you transform your results?" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"How did you be a man that gets sentenced\Nto life in prison?" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"You served 27 years in hard prison and\Nthen not only do you get out of prison Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,before you die but you actually then\Nbecome president of the country that\Nsentences you to life?" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Who on our planet does this?\NHow did you do that? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And that has been my quest, my interest\Nand my deep longing Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so that I could transfer that and offer\Nthat to the people that I had the Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,privilege of working with Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I've had the privilege of working with\Ntens of thousands of people around the Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,world, around changing their results Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Does it mean that because every time I've \Nstudied this and worked with my own life Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and others, that every time for me Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,my dreams came true? No. Does it mean\Neverything I did worked out? No. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,My first business that I spent 23 years\Nbuilding. I took my eye of the ball, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I hired somebody to run the finances,\Nit was totally mismanaged Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Everything I had built.\NIt was heartbreaking to me. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But there are three straps that\Ndream builders use either consciously or Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,unconsciously. To transform their results Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so that the dream wins over conditions Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so that the dream wins over time Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so that the dream wins over all kinds of\Ncircumstances, situations, and even our Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,history and even no matter how long\Nit's been there Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And sometimes, it's been there for decades Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,About 150 years ago man decided to do an\Nexperiment with his life. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That's what we're invited to do over the\Nnext twelve months Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Keep breathing and do an experiment with life Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He went to the woods-Henry David Thoreau Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and he said "I wanted to learn to suck the\Nmarrow out of aliveness" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I wanted to live a life I loved living\Nwhile I was living it Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I went to the woods because I wished to\Ndelibrately front the only essential facts Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of life and see if life could not teach me\Nwhat it had to teach Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and not when I came to die\Ndiscover that I had not really lived Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now, Henry did this 2 month 2 day\Nexperiment and then he wrote an essay Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,about it. In the conclusion of that essay,\Nhe writes a quote that is world wide known Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,'If one advances confidently in the\Ndirection of their dream it endeavors to Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,live the life they imagined'. He said "I\Nlearned this at least by my experiment" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If one advances confidently in the\Ndirection of their dream- Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you can't advance in a direction you don't\Nalready have an idea of Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And the first thing dream builders or\Npeople who evolve their results do Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Is they have an idea of what they really\Nloved their life to be like Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If I say to you 'Your front door',\N'The kitchen sink', 'the bed you sleep in' Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You did not see the letters B, E, D or\NS,I,N,K or D,O,O,R Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You saw pictures. You saw picture of a\Ndoor, sink, bed.