1 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Imagine its one year from today 2 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and we all agree that we're going to 3 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 come back for a reunion 4 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Not maybe, absolutely. We're all going to 5 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 come back exactly the same group of us 6 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 And we're going to come back for a reunion 7 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Only want to share the things that has 8 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 happened in our lives, during the last 9 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 12 months of our lives. 10 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 We're going to share what it is we've 11 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 dreamed up when we were here at TEDX 12 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 in October of 2016 and what's happening 13 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 in our lives right now 365 days later. 14 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 What would you love to be saying about 15 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 your life? What would you love to say 16 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 in the four areas where humans actually do 17 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 create results? 18 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 We live in a spiral universe. 19 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 In a spiral there's an ever upward pole of becomingness. 20 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 A little blade of grass feels it as it presses through cement to 21 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 become more of its self today than yesterday 22 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 A tree presses to the edges of itself to become more of its self today than yesterday 23 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 And humans feel the same thing, we just feel a little differently 24 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 We feel it through longing and we feel through discontent 25 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 We feel a longing for greater freedom. 26 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 We feel a discontent with certain circumstances and situations. 27 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 And if we just keep breathing another 365 days,we will create results. 28 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Because that's what humans do. 29 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Now we create results in four areas. 30 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 We create results in health and well-being 31 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 You could look at your results in health and well-being 32 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 but what would you love a year from now? 33 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Because if you keep breathing you're going to have results in that area. 34 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Humans create results in relationships. Some of them are wonderful, 35 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 some of them are deep, some of them are supportive, some of them are not. 36 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 What would you love in the area of your relationships? 37 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Would you love to bring that someone special in your life? 38 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Would you like to transform a relationship you are in? 39 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Maybe a relationship is on an auto-pilot and you'd love to have it go deeper 40 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Humans create results in vocation. 41 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 What we do with our time and talent. 42 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Whether we earned income doing it or not. 43 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Because just by our beingness we're doing something with our time and talent. 44 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Even if we think we've done so many mistakes and want to go under the covers 45 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 What I create that day is "Covers over my head day in bed" 46 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I don't get to not create out of my experience 47 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 And humans create results in time and money, freedom or constraint 48 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 So if you think about next year when we come to the reunion 49 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 What would you love to be saying? 50 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 You know in my calendar the last twelve months here are the evidences 51 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 More freedom for me and time 52 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 More freedom for me in the economic freedom 53 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 where I could go where I wanted to go, do what I wanted to do 54 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 but maybe even more importantly and I believe it is 55 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 actually give to the things that matter to you 56 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 provide some of the things for those that matter to you as well 57 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 Now...about fourty years ago 58 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I got very interested in transformation 59 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I was getting my undergraduate degree 60 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 and I cared deeply about kids 61 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 This has been a longing of mine for quite a while to become a school teacher 62 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 And while I was getting my undergraduate degree I wanted to study everything 63 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I could in the field of transformation 64 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 And the purpose at that point was to help children discover a kind of self-esteem 65 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 So no matter what their circumstances, no matter what their situations 66 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 They could actually believe that they could actually become the person 67 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 they wanted to be and achieve the things they wanted to achieve 68 99:59:59,999 --> 99:59:59,999 I went on a got a graduate degree in