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Dialogue: 0,0:00:09.03,0:00:11.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Imagine it's one year from today,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:12.15,0:00:15.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and we all agree that we're going\Nto come back for a reunion.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:15.00,0:00:16.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Not maybe, absolutely;
Dialogue: 0,0:00:16.12,0:00:18.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we'll all come back,\Nexactly the same group of us,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:18.71,0:00:20.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and we're to come back for a reunion.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:20.65,0:00:23.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Only we're going to share the things\Nthat have happened in our life
Dialogue: 0,0:00:23.85,0:00:25.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,during the last 12 months of our life.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:26.47,0:00:29.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We're going to share\Nwhat it is that we dreamed up
Dialogue: 0,0:00:29.14,0:00:32.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when we were here\Nat TEDx in October of 2016,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:32.93,0:00:34.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and what's happening\Nin our lives now,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:34.70,0:00:36.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,365 days later.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:36.89,0:00:39.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What would you love\Nto be saying about your life?
Dialogue: 0,0:00:39.97,0:00:42.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What would you love to say\Nin the four areas
Dialogue: 0,0:00:42.59,0:00:45.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,where humans actually do create results?
Dialogue: 0,0:00:45.66,0:00:47.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We live in a spiral universe.\N
Dialogue: 0,0:00:48.04,0:00:49.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In a spiral,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:49.05,0:00:51.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there's an ever upward pull\Nof becomingness.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:51.64,0:00:54.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,A little blade of grass feels it\Nas it presses through cement
Dialogue: 0,0:00:54.55,0:00:57.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to become more of itself\Ntoday than yesterday.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:57.65,0:00:59.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,A tree presses to the edges of itself
Dialogue: 0,0:00:59.43,0:01:02.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to become more of itself\Ntoday than yesterday.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:02.63,0:01:05.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And humans feel the same thing; \Nwe just feel it a little differently.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:05.92,0:01:08.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We feel it through longing,\Nand we feel it through discontent.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:08.82,0:01:10.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We feel a longing for greater freedom,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:10.64,0:01:14.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we feel a discontent with\Ncertain circumstances and situations.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:14.87,0:01:19.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And if we just keep breathing\Nanother 365 days,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:19.53,0:01:21.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we will create results,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:21.73,0:01:23.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because that's what humans do.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:23.74,0:01:25.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now, we create results in four areas.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:25.60,0:01:28.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We create results\Nin health and well-being.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:28.10,0:01:31.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You could look at your own results\Nright now in health and well-being,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:31.38,0:01:33.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but what'll you love a year from now?
Dialogue: 0,0:01:33.14,0:01:36.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because if you keep breathing,\Nyou'll have results in that area.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:36.14,0:01:38.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Humans create results in relationships.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:38.49,0:01:39.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Some of them are wonderful,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:39.84,0:01:40.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,some of them are deep,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:40.89,0:01:43.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,some of them are supportive,\Nsome of them are not.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:43.22,0:01:45.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What would you love \Nin the area of your relationships?
Dialogue: 0,0:01:45.85,0:01:47.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,To bring someone special in your life?
Dialogue: 0,0:01:47.66,0:01:50.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Would you love to transform\Na relationship you're in?
Dialogue: 0,0:01:50.44,0:01:54.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Maybe a relationship is on auto-pilot,\Nand you'd love to have it go deeper.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:54.92,0:01:56.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Humans create results in vocation.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:56.79,0:01:58.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What we do with our time and talent,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:58.53,0:02:01.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,whether we earn income doing it or not,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:01.10,0:02:03.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because just by our beingness,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:03.10,0:02:05.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we're doing something\Nwith our time and talent.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:05.30,0:02:07.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Even if we think,\N"I've made so many mistakes,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:07.44,0:02:10.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm going to crawl in bed\Nand put the covers over my head."
Dialogue: 0,0:02:10.21,0:02:13.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What I create that day\Nis "covers-over-my-head day in bed."
Dialogue: 0,0:02:13.25,0:02:16.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I don't get to not create\Nout of my experience.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:17.06,0:02:18.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And humans create results -
Dialogue: 0,0:02:18.94,0:02:21.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,here we go - humans create results -
Dialogue: 0,0:02:21.81,0:02:22.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,humans create results
Dialogue: 0,0:02:22.88,0:02:25.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in time and money, freedom or constraint.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:25.96,0:02:28.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So if you think about next year\Nwhen we come to the reunion,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:28.76,0:02:30.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,what would you love to be saying?
Dialogue: 0,0:02:30.36,0:02:32.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You know, on my calendar\Nthe last 12 months,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:32.41,0:02:36.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,here's what were the evidences\Nof more freedom for me, and time.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:36.69,0:02:40.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,More freedom for me\Nin the economic freedom
Dialogue: 0,0:02:40.45,0:02:43.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,where I could go where I wanted to go,\Ndo what I wanted to do,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:43.35,0:02:45.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but maybe even more importantly,\Nand I believe it is,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:45.84,0:02:48.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,actually give to the things\Nthat matter to you.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:48.03,0:02:52.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Provide some of the things\Nfor those that matter to you as well.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:52.98,0:02:55.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now, about 40 years ago,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:55.80,0:02:58.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I got very, very interested\Nin transformation.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:59.15,0:03:01.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I was getting my undergraduate degree,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:01.84,0:03:04.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I cared deeply about kids.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:04.08,0:03:07.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I longed for quite a while\Nto become a schoolteacher.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:07.08,0:03:09.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,While I was getting\Nmy undergraduate degree
Dialogue: 0,0:03:09.13,0:03:12.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I wanted to study everything I could\Nin the field of transformation.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:12.32,0:03:15.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And the purpose was to help\Nchildren discover a kind of self-esteem
Dialogue: 0,0:03:15.50,0:03:18.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so no matter what their circumstances\Nor their situations,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:18.48,0:03:20.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they could actually believe
Dialogue: 0,0:03:20.15,0:03:22.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that they could become\Nthe person they wanted to be,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:22.58,0:03:24.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and achieve the things\Nthey wanted to achieve.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:24.80,0:03:27.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I went on a got a graduate degree\Nin counseling psychology;
Dialogue: 0,0:03:27.99,0:03:29.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I earned an honorary doctorate;
Dialogue: 0,0:03:30.35,0:03:34.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,my first book, "Building Your Field\Nof Dreams," became a PBS special;
Dialogue: 0,0:03:34.57,0:03:37.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I had the privilege of working\Nwith His Holiness the Dalai Lama
Dialogue: 0,0:03:37.52,0:03:39.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,over the course of seven years,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:39.47,0:03:41.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,creating week-long conversations.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:41.97,0:03:45.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I could just sit right next to him\Nfor a week at a time over seven years,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:45.43,0:03:46.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,three different times.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:46.53,0:03:50.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Conversations with world leaders about\Nhow to transform our world's results.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:51.01,0:03:53.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I got very interested\Nin how results happened,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:53.22,0:03:54.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and how to transform results.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:55.40,0:03:58.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I had the privilege of speaking\Nat the United Nations
Dialogue: 0,0:03:58.91,0:04:02.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with the Martin Luther King kids\Nand Ghandi's grandkids
Dialogue: 0,0:04:02.59,0:04:06.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and creating a 64-day season\Nfor nonviolence,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:06.56,0:04:08.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,particularly teaching junior high kids
Dialogue: 0,0:04:08.55,0:04:13.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,about how to solve problems\Nthrough acts of nonviolence and caring.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:13.68,0:04:15.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I spoke at the UN\Nthree different times,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:15.72,0:04:17.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,one of them with Rosa Parks.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:17.51,0:04:20.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I was building my dreams;\Nthey mattered to me.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:20.18,0:04:24.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I had the privilege of working\Nand flying to Cape Town, South Africa,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:24.33,0:04:26.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and meeting with Nelson Mandela.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:26.43,0:04:29.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I had a deep dream\Nto ask him the question,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:29.07,0:04:31.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"How did you transform your results?
Dialogue: 0,0:04:31.21,0:04:35.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How did you be a man\Nwho gets sentenced to life in prison -
Dialogue: 0,0:04:35.30,0:04:37.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you served 27 years in hard prison -
Dialogue: 0,0:04:37.67,0:04:40.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and then not only do you get\Nout of prison before you die,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:40.99,0:04:42.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but you actually then become
Dialogue: 0,0:04:42.50,0:04:45.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,president of the country\Nthat sentences you to life.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:45.62,0:04:48.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Who on our planet does this?
Dialogue: 0,0:04:48.56,0:04:49.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How did you do that?
Dialogue: 0,0:04:49.82,0:04:51.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What was going on inside of you?"
Dialogue: 0,0:04:51.75,0:04:55.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And that has been my quest\Nand my interest and my deep longing
Dialogue: 0,0:04:55.75,0:04:57.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so that I could transfer that
Dialogue: 0,0:04:57.21,0:05:00.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and offer that to the people\Nthat I had the privilege of working with,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:00.53,0:05:03.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,working with tens of thousands\Nof people around the world
Dialogue: 0,0:05:03.24,0:05:04.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,around changing their results.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:05.10,0:05:08.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Does it mean that because\Nevery time I've studied this
Dialogue: 0,0:05:08.17,0:05:10.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and worked with my own life and others,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:10.14,0:05:12.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that every time for me\Nmy dreams came true?
Dialogue: 0,0:05:12.31,0:05:16.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,No. Does it mean\Neverything I did worked out? No.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:16.11,0:05:19.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,My first business \Nthat I spent 23 years building -
Dialogue: 0,0:05:19.15,0:05:20.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I took my eye off the ball,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:20.46,0:05:24.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I hired somebody to run the finances,\Nit was totally mismanaged.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:24.23,0:05:26.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I lost everything I had built.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:26.44,0:05:28.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It was heartbreaking to me.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:28.93,0:05:30.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But there are three steps
Dialogue: 0,0:05:30.45,0:05:34.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that dream builders use\Neither consciously or unconsciously
Dialogue: 0,0:05:34.06,0:05:36.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to transform their results
Dialogue: 0,0:05:36.23,0:05:39.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so that the dream wins over conditions;
Dialogue: 0,0:05:39.36,0:05:41.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so that the dream wins over time;
Dialogue: 0,0:05:41.82,0:05:45.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so that the dream wins over\Nall kinds of circumstances, situations,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:45.92,0:05:49.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and even our history,\Nno matter how long it's been there,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:49.04,0:05:52.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and sometimes\Nit's been there for decades.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:52.59,0:05:56.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,About 150 years ago, a man decided\Nto do an experiment with his life.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:56.55,0:05:59.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That's what we're invited to do\Nover the next 12 months.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:59.84,0:06:02.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Keep breathing and do\Nan experiment with life.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:02.86,0:06:05.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He went to the woods, Henry David Thoreau,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:05.52,0:06:09.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and he said, prior to his - this quote\Nthat's up here, he said,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:09.35,0:06:13.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"I wanted to learn to suck\Nthe marrow out of aliveness.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:13.10,0:06:16.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I wanted to live a life\NI loved living while I was living it.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:16.63,0:06:17.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I went to the woods
Dialogue: 0,0:06:17.64,0:06:21.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because I wished to deliberately front\Nthe only essential facts of life
Dialogue: 0,0:06:21.35,0:06:25.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and see if life could not teach me\Nwhat it had to teach,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:25.14,0:06:27.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and not when I came to die
Dialogue: 0,0:06:27.18,0:06:30.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,discover that I had not\Neven really lived."
Dialogue: 0,0:06:31.73,0:06:35.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now, Henry did this two-year,\Ntwo-month, two-day experiment,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:35.18,0:06:37.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and then he wrote an essay about it.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:37.13,0:06:39.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In the conclusion of that essay,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:39.51,0:06:42.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,he writes a quote that is worldwide known:
Dialogue: 0,0:06:42.56,0:06:45.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"If one advances confidently\Nin the direction of their dream
Dialogue: 0,0:06:45.41,0:06:47.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and endeavors to live\Nthe life they've imagined,"
Dialogue: 0,0:06:47.81,0:06:50.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,he said, "I learned this\Nat least by my experiment,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:50.28,0:06:53.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if one advances confidently\Nin the direction of their dream."
Dialogue: 0,0:06:53.93,0:06:57.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Well, you can't advance in a direction\Nyou don't already have an idea of.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:57.91,0:07:02.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And the first thing dream builders\Nor people who evolve their results do
Dialogue: 0,0:07:02.36,0:07:06.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is they have an idea of what they\Nwould really love their life to be like.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:06.00,0:07:07.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If I say to you "your front door";
Dialogue: 0,0:07:07.76,0:07:10.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if I say to you "the kitchen sink\Nwhere you live";
Dialogue: 0,0:07:10.10,0:07:12.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if I say to you "the bed\Nyou sleep in most often";
Dialogue: 0,0:07:12.44,0:07:15.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you did not see the letters\NB E D or S I N K or D O O R,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:15.96,0:07:17.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you saw pictures.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:17.18,0:07:20.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You saw a picture of a door,\Na picture of a sink, a picture of a bed.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:20.42,0:07:23.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is important for us to know\Nas building a dream,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:23.52,0:07:26.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because most of us dream dreams,\Nand we're vague.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:26.07,0:07:27.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We don't really see a dream.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:27.43,0:07:30.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We say, "I want it to be better,\NI want it to be easier.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:30.07,0:07:31.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'd love to travel,"
Dialogue: 0,0:07:31.58,0:07:33.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and there's no picture\Nfor where we would travel.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:33.100,0:07:37.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The more specific you are\Nand the more specific you are right now,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:37.11,0:07:41.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,this talk will mean way more to you\Nover the course of this next year.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:41.53,0:07:43.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What would you really love?
Dialogue: 0,0:07:43.10,0:07:44.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Most of us ask this question:
Dialogue: 0,0:07:44.51,0:07:45.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What do I think I can do?
Dialogue: 0,0:07:45.71,0:07:47.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What does the economy say I can do?
Dialogue: 0,0:07:47.39,0:07:50.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What do you think I can do?\NWhat does my mother think I can do?
Dialogue: 0,0:07:50.35,0:07:52.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What would you love?\Nis the right question.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:52.70,0:07:55.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You'll have different thoughts\Non the frequency of that question
Dialogue: 0,0:07:55.74,0:07:58.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,than you will have\Non the "What do I think?" question.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:58.56,0:07:59.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What would you really love?
Dialogue: 0,0:08:00.11,0:08:03.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because you're going to have results\Nin those four areas anyway.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:03.64,0:08:07.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now, I knew nothing about this in 1966.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:07.04,0:08:11.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In 1966, I had grown up\Nin a very, very happy family.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:11.76,0:08:14.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,My mom and dad,\Nmy sister, eight years older.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:15.72,0:08:16.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This was 1966.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:16.81,0:08:18.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I was a junior in high school,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:18.27,0:08:19.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I was homecoming princess,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:19.100,0:08:21.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,had a lead in the junior play.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:22.20,0:08:25.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I was my class vice president,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:25.75,0:08:28.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,had three best friends\Nfrom the time I was 10 years old,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:28.46,0:08:31.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and we'd hung out together,\Nand done many, many things together.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:32.07,0:08:35.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In spring break of 1966,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:35.17,0:08:37.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,my high school sweetheart\Nhad gone off to college,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:37.50,0:08:38.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,came home on spring break,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:38.85,0:08:40.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I got pregnant.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:40.56,0:08:42.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,May 1, I tell my mom and dad\NI'm now pregnant.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:42.72,0:08:45.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,My mother wept for me as if I had died.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:45.54,0:08:48.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We had a very hasty\N10-person wedding middle of May.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:48.31,0:08:50.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The high school principal\Ncalls me in, says,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:50.38,0:08:51.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Are these rumors true?"
Dialogue: 0,0:08:51.56,0:08:55.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I said, "If the rumors are I'm pregnant,\Nmarried, in that order, then yes."
Dialogue: 0,0:08:55.10,0:08:57.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He just put his head\Nin his hands and said,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:57.10,0:09:00.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Mary, you will not allowed\Nto return here for your senior year.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:00.15,0:09:01.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It would be totally inappropriate
Dialogue: 0,0:09:01.76,0:09:05.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for a pregnant girl to get mixed in\Nwith the normal girls,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:05.21,0:09:07.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but we have a place for people like you.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:07.13,0:09:09.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's a high school\Nnot held during daylight.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:09.18,0:09:11.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's across the river -\Nin a part of Portland
Dialogue: 0,0:09:11.29,0:09:13.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I hadn't been allowed\Nto drive in after dark -
Dialogue: 0,0:09:13.45,0:09:16.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and it's where the pregnant girls\Nand delinquent boys go to high school."
Dialogue: 0,0:09:16.89,0:09:18.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So that's where I began my senior year,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:18.80,0:09:21.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and my first son was born\Nin December of 1966.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:21.08,0:09:23.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Only now, the mothers\Nof my best girlfriends
Dialogue: 0,0:09:23.13,0:09:26.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,would no longer let them see me\Nbecause I was married, I was pregnant.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:26.53,0:09:28.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It was as if what I had was contagious.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:29.52,0:09:33.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I graduated from Washington\NEvening High School in May of 1967,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:33.38,0:09:37.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and in July of 1967,\NI was in a Portland hospital,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:37.31,0:09:40.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,having been diagnosed\Nwith fatal kidney disease.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:40.20,0:09:42.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,One kidney was totally\Ndestroyed with nephritis,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:42.45,0:09:45.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the other kidney was 50% destroyed\Nin active nephritis.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:45.86,0:09:48.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And in 1967, this is a death sentence.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:48.72,0:09:51.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We don't have dialysis,\Nwe don't have transplants,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:51.68,0:09:55.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and every medical physician,\Ndoctor, specialist, surgeon
Dialogue: 0,0:09:55.32,0:09:56.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,all said the same thing:
Dialogue: 0,0:09:56.49,0:09:59.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"The best we can do\Nis maybe give you six months
Dialogue: 0,0:09:59.18,0:10:02.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if we can get the blood toxin level\Nin your body reduced enough
Dialogue: 0,0:10:02.18,0:10:03.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to remove that surgery,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:03.29,0:10:05.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,then maybe you'll have six months."
Dialogue: 0,0:10:05.01,0:10:06.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I was terrified.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:07.41,0:10:12.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And my belief system at that time\Nwas this was happening to me.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:12.45,0:10:16.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I was being punished for being a bad girl,\Nand I was being punished.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:16.87,0:10:18.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Well, the night before the surgery,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:18.55,0:10:20.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a woman walked in my room at 10 pm
Dialogue: 0,0:10:20.17,0:10:22.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who identified herself\Nas a chaplain offering prayer
Dialogue: 0,0:10:22.60,0:10:25.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for people who'll have surgeries\Nthe next day - did I want prayer?
Dialogue: 0,0:10:25.73,0:10:28.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I'm thinking, you know,\Nwell, the God of my upbringing
Dialogue: 0,0:10:28.95,0:10:31.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,probably needed to have\Nsome anger management classes.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:31.82,0:10:32.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:10:32.82,0:10:35.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's the only God I knew at the time,\Nand I said, "Well, maybe."
Dialogue: 0,0:10:35.83,0:10:38.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She didn't do anything\Nthat looked like prayer.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:38.04,0:10:40.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She talked to me,\Nand she asked me to tell her
Dialogue: 0,0:10:40.24,0:10:43.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,what had been going on in my life\Nthe last year or two, which I did,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:43.43,0:10:46.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and when I was finished, she said,\N"Mary, everything's created twice."
Dialogue: 0,0:10:46.92,0:10:47.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"What do you mean?"
Dialogue: 0,0:10:47.98,0:10:50.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She said, "You know this.\NIn fact, everybody knows it.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:50.51,0:10:53.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Almost nobody knows\Nthe power of knowing this.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:54.80,0:10:57.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The bed you're on, your nightgown,\Nthe sheet covering you,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:57.55,0:11:00.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the walls, ceiling, floor,\Nall the machinery you're hooked up to
Dialogue: 0,0:11:00.59,0:11:03.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,first had to be a thought\Nbefore it could be a thing.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:04.06,0:11:05.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You know this."
Dialogue: 0,0:11:05.74,0:11:08.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Then she said, "I hear\Nhow much you love your little boy,
Dialogue: 0,0:11:08.42,0:11:10.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but I also hear how much\Nyou've been hating yourself.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:10.91,0:11:14.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You feel like you shamed yourself,\Nyou shamed your school, your family.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:14.34,0:11:17.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And now that you're thinking\Nhow everything's created twice,
Dialogue: 0,0:11:17.17,0:11:19.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,could you consider\Nthat there could be a correlation
Dialogue: 0,0:11:19.67,0:11:20.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because, notice this Mary,
Dialogue: 0,0:11:20.96,0:11:24.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if you think embarrassing thoughts,\Nyour cheeks get red;
Dialogue: 0,0:11:24.08,0:11:27.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if you think scary enough thoughts,\Nyour heart beats faster.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:27.49,0:11:29.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It doesn't mean\Nanything scary is going on;
Dialogue: 0,0:11:29.49,0:11:32.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it doesn't even mean anything\Nembarrassing is going on;
Dialogue: 0,0:11:32.09,0:11:35.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it means you think those thoughts,\Nand your body responds.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:35.44,0:11:39.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Could it be that if you think\Nenough toxic thoughts about yourself,
Dialogue: 0,0:11:39.42,0:11:43.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there could be a correlative, a toxicity,\Nthat goes on in your body
Dialogue: 0,0:11:43.52,0:11:45.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that actually could threaten your life?"
Dialogue: 0,0:11:45.59,0:11:46.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Well, this was so beyond
Dialogue: 0,0:11:46.80,0:11:49.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,anything that I had\Nany framework for at that point.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:50.17,0:11:53.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Could you believe it's possible\Nthat we could do a prayer or say words
Dialogue: 0,0:11:53.54,0:11:55.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and this could completely\Nbe eliminated from you,
Dialogue: 0,0:11:55.84,0:11:57.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and when they come\Nto get you for surgery,
Dialogue: 0,0:11:57.79,0:11:59.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they say, 'Get up, go home. You're fine.'
Dialogue: 0,0:11:59.74,0:12:00.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Could you believe that?"
Dialogue: 0,0:12:00.90,0:12:02.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I told her the truth: "No."
Dialogue: 0,0:12:02.52,0:12:04.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I didn't believe that\Nwas going to happen for me.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:04.86,0:12:06.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There was not one part\Nof me that believed.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:06.88,0:12:09.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I was way more belief\Nin my pain at that point.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:09.36,0:12:11.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She said: "Alright,\Nif you can't believe this,
Dialogue: 0,0:12:11.51,0:12:14.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,remember there's an infinite\Nnumber of possibilities.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:14.16,0:12:16.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There has to be one\Nwhere instead of - we do this prayer,
Dialogue: 0,0:12:16.83,0:12:22.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we pull all the genesis of this dis-ease\Nthat's going on in you
Dialogue: 0,0:12:22.24,0:12:24.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and put it in the kidney\Nthat's going to be removed.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:24.69,0:12:26.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And when it's removed, you get better.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:26.54,0:12:28.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Could you believe that's possible?"
Dialogue: 0,0:12:28.71,0:12:30.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I didn't know if it was possible,
Dialogue: 0,0:12:30.32,0:12:32.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but I could tell\Nshe believed it was possible,
Dialogue: 0,0:12:32.60,0:12:34.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I believe it was the first time
Dialogue: 0,0:12:34.31,0:12:37.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I ever chose to believe on the frequency\Nof someone else's belief,
Dialogue: 0,0:12:37.40,0:12:39.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who was operating at a higher domain.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:39.16,0:12:40.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I said, "Maybe it's possible."
Dialogue: 0,0:12:40.60,0:12:44.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Remember, this is before Sheldrake\Nand David Bohm, and quantum field science,
Dialogue: 0,0:12:44.23,0:12:46.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and all the things -
Dialogue: 0,0:12:46.72,0:12:49.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,at this point, there was\Nno mind-body clinic at Harvard.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:49.34,0:12:52.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I mean, in the last 40 years,\Nso much has happened.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:52.86,0:12:55.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So she said, "Alright,\Nlet's work with that.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:55.07,0:12:56.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,One idea," she says,
Dialogue: 0,0:12:56.07,0:12:59.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"one part of you open to the idea;\Nlet's work with that."
Dialogue: 0,0:12:59.39,0:13:01.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She said some words.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:01.06,0:13:05.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She gave me a prescriptive for how to use\Nmy thinking and my emotion,
Dialogue: 0,0:13:05.33,0:13:06.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and then she left,
Dialogue: 0,0:13:07.01,0:13:08.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and they did the surgery,
Dialogue: 0,0:13:08.99,0:13:10.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and about a week or two later,
Dialogue: 0,0:13:10.98,0:13:13.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,my numbers were stable -\Nenough that they said,
Dialogue: 0,0:13:13.78,0:13:16.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"You might have a bit more time.\NYou can go home."
Dialogue: 0,0:13:16.12,0:13:18.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I went to my parents' house\Nin an ambulance,
Dialogue: 0,0:13:18.22,0:13:20.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,where my son and husband were staying.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:20.20,0:13:22.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I could hardly get my head off the pillow.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:22.20,0:13:25.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But subtly - I was in many times a week\Nat first, and over time, less time
Dialogue: 0,0:13:25.69,0:13:27.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as being checked,\Nhaving my numbers checked.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:27.82,0:13:31.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And subtly over time, my numbers\Nnot only stabilized, but improved.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:31.74,0:13:34.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And four or five months later,\NI'm sitting in a doctor's office
Dialogue: 0,0:13:34.71,0:13:37.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with a surgeon and a specialist\Nand my regular GP,
Dialogue: 0,0:13:37.44,0:13:39.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and they're scratching\Ntheir heads, saying,
Dialogue: 0,0:13:39.44,0:13:42.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"We have no science\Nfor why your one kidney
Dialogue: 0,0:13:42.15,0:13:43.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is not only getting [better]
Dialogue: 0,0:13:43.48,0:13:46.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it seems to be functioning\Nas a perfectly whole fine kidney.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:46.86,0:13:49.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We don't have any science for this.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:49.51,0:13:51.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We'll put medical anomaly on your chart.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:51.49,0:13:53.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Whatever you've been doing,\Nkeep doing it."
Dialogue: 0,0:13:53.50,0:13:54.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:13:54.98,0:13:58.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That's when I began to do the things\Nthat I've told you about.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:58.38,0:14:01.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I got into undergraduate school,\NI got into graduate school,
Dialogue: 0,0:14:01.20,0:14:03.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and over time as I reflected\Nabout what happened,
Dialogue: 0,0:14:03.79,0:14:06.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I studied people\Nwho transform their results -
Dialogue: 0,0:14:07.33,0:14:09.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,people who transform their results,
Dialogue: 0,0:14:09.40,0:14:13.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,not just wish for a better result,\Nbut actually transform their results -
Dialogue: 0,0:14:13.41,0:14:15.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there are three things they do,\Nevery one of them,
Dialogue: 0,0:14:15.96,0:14:18.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,whether they do it\Nconsciously or unconsciously.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:18.59,0:14:22.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When I transformed my health result,\NI was totally an unconscious competent.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:22.16,0:14:23.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I just did what she told me to do.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:23.79,0:14:25.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She said: "Here's what's going to happen.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:25.77,0:14:29.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When you have that surgery, yet your mind\Nis very much like a rubber band,
Dialogue: 0,0:14:29.51,0:14:31.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you thought those thoughts so much,
Dialogue: 0,0:14:31.19,0:14:33.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,your mind is going to want\Nto think those toxic thoughts.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:33.86,0:14:35.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They're going to remove that one kidney.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:35.80,0:14:38.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Every time you notice yourself\Nstarting to think of toxic thoughts,
Dialogue: 0,0:14:38.97,0:14:40.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,say, "No, that left with the kidney,"
Dialogue: 0,0:14:40.76,0:14:43.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and then immediately imagine yourself -
Dialogue: 0,0:14:43.54,0:14:46.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,like you're walking in\Nand getting into your own bed -
Dialogue: 0,0:14:46.08,0:14:46.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,imagine yourself."
Dialogue: 0,0:14:46.95,0:14:49.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I wanted my two big dreams:
Dialogue: 0,0:14:49.03,0:14:51.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I want to be a teacher,\Nand I want to raise my son.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:51.56,0:14:55.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Imagine you're walking into a school\Nwith a five-year-old's hand in yours.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:55.11,0:14:57.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Feel the warmth of his hand in yours.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:57.02,0:14:59.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He goes into his kindergarten class.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:59.10,0:15:00.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You hear the click-click of your heels.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:00.96,0:15:03.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Around the corner, there's your classroom,
Dialogue: 0,0:15:03.00,0:15:04.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and you're a teacher, and he's five.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:04.72,0:15:05.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Imagine yourself.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:05.81,0:15:08.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Then fast forward: imagine\Nyou're sitting in a big auditorium.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:08.78,0:15:10.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There's caps and gowns down there.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:10.43,0:15:14.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Your son's 18; he's graduating\Nfrom high school, and you're there,
Dialogue: 0,0:15:14.09,0:15:15.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and your teaching career is growing.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:15.82,0:15:19.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Then fast forward and imagine\Nyou're in the front row of a wedding.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:19.24,0:15:20.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You're the mother of the groom.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:20.75,0:15:22.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Your son's marrying the love of his life.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:22.73,0:15:24.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And your teaching career is flourishing.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:24.63,0:15:26.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Keep repeating that."
Dialogue: 0,0:15:26.45,0:15:27.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I had done that unconsciously.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:27.89,0:15:30.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Every time I would start\Nto think, "Oh my gosh!"
Dialogue: 0,0:15:30.14,0:15:33.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and start to generate\Nthat wavelength of self-loathing,
Dialogue: 0,0:15:33.57,0:15:35.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I said: "No, that left with the kidney."
Dialogue: 0,0:15:35.48,0:15:36.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Then I saw myself,
Dialogue: 0,0:15:36.49,0:15:39.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I imagined being the person\Ntaking him into kindergarten,
Dialogue: 0,0:15:39.40,0:15:41.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,being the person seeing him graduate,
Dialogue: 0,0:15:41.58,0:15:44.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,being the person sitting\Nin the front row of his wedding.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:44.64,0:15:46.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I had no idea the power of that.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:46.80,0:15:50.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But after 45 years of studying\Nand tens of thousands of people,
Dialogue: 0,0:15:50.80,0:15:52.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,what I know are these three things.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:53.20,0:15:56.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That if when we get together\Nnext year for our reunion,
Dialogue: 0,0:15:56.83,0:16:00.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and if you would love\Nto be able to share results,
Dialogue: 0,0:16:00.44,0:16:02.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in particularly\None or two areas of your life
Dialogue: 0,0:16:02.60,0:16:06.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,where you feel the greatest longing\Nand the most discontent,
Dialogue: 0,0:16:06.28,0:16:08.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,then these three things will help you.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:08.72,0:16:13.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Number one, you want to create\Nwith clarity a specific dream.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:13.78,0:16:17.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Imagine yourself: health,\Nwhat would you love? relationships.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:18.06,0:16:21.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,As clear the dream you can design,
Dialogue: 0,0:16:21.07,0:16:23.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the more your brain\Ncan work on that frequency.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:23.53,0:16:26.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You know if you want to change\Nyour television channel,
Dialogue: 0,0:16:26.12,0:16:27.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you have to change the frequency.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:27.78,0:16:30.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You know if you want\Nto change the radio station,
Dialogue: 0,0:16:30.08,0:16:31.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you've got to change the frequency.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:31.91,0:16:33.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We're not really different.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:34.21,0:16:36.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We think on frequencies.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:36.42,0:16:39.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Our ability to see\Nand not see opportunities
Dialogue: 0,0:16:39.09,0:16:41.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,are on the frequencies we think from.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:41.48,0:16:43.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Create a specific dream.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:43.31,0:16:44.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,See yourself in it.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:45.22,0:16:47.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Refuse to stay discouraged.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:47.17,0:16:50.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I didn't say refuse to get discouraged;\Nwe're all going to get discouraged.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:50.69,0:16:52.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Not everything we try\Nis going to work out.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:52.84,0:16:57.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We learned to walk by falling down;\Nwe just didn't stay down.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:57.12,0:16:58.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We were little kids.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:58.53,0:17:01.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It was normal to explore, experiment.
Dialogue: 0,0:17:01.17,0:17:02.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We got older,
Dialogue: 0,0:17:02.17,0:17:04.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and we thought every step\Nwe take has got to work out.
Dialogue: 0,0:17:04.78,0:17:06.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So decline to stay discouraged.
Dialogue: 0,0:17:06.92,0:17:08.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Okay, that was feedback.
Dialogue: 0,0:17:08.59,0:17:12.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When Edison was asked\N"How did you survive 10,000 failures?"
Dialogue: 0,0:17:12.88,0:17:16.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He said: "I never had a failure;\Nit was all feedback."
Dialogue: 0,0:17:16.35,0:17:18.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You'll have some feedback this year.
Dialogue: 0,0:17:18.50,0:17:20.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Decline to stay discouraged,
Dialogue: 0,0:17:20.89,0:17:24.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and then be more interested\Nin the growth that will happen for you
Dialogue: 0,0:17:24.44,0:17:26.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,by means of having a dream.
Dialogue: 0,0:17:26.54,0:17:30.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yes, many, many wonderful things\Nwill happen if you become a dream builder,
Dialogue: 0,0:17:30.94,0:17:32.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,not a dreamer, a dream builder,
Dialogue: 0,0:17:32.89,0:17:35.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because you're going\Nto create results anyway.
Dialogue: 0,0:17:35.33,0:17:37.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But to stay in the comfort zone
Dialogue: 0,0:17:37.29,0:17:39.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,means you're going\Nto keep having what you've had -
Dialogue: 0,0:17:39.69,0:17:41.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that's where you're comfortable.
Dialogue: 0,0:17:41.22,0:17:44.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you want something you've never had,\Ndo something you've never done -
Dialogue: 0,0:17:44.61,0:17:45.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that's growth.
Dialogue: 0,0:17:45.60,0:17:48.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We'll get a little unstable\Nin that part of our life.
Dialogue: 0,0:17:48.09,0:17:52.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So if you're more interested\Nin growth than comfort,
Dialogue: 0,0:17:52.71,0:17:56.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you're willing to be interested\Na little bit in growth
Dialogue: 0,0:17:56.11,0:17:59.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because it's more for you\Nthan what's been,
Dialogue: 0,0:17:59.23,0:18:01.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and do that in service of your dream.
Dialogue: 0,0:18:01.99,0:18:03.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So those three things:
Dialogue: 0,0:18:03.19,0:18:04.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,be specific about your dream;
Dialogue: 0,0:18:04.64,0:18:06.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,decline to stay discouraged;
Dialogue: 0,0:18:06.33,0:18:09.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,be in service of your dream\Nthrough the growth that happens,
Dialogue: 0,0:18:09.15,0:18:13.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and you can have that every single day\Nduring this 365-day experiment
Dialogue: 0,0:18:13.49,0:18:16.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,before we have our reunion next year.
Dialogue: 0,0:18:16.90,0:18:20.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now, not one of us can go back\Nand change what's back there,
Dialogue: 0,0:18:20.45,0:18:24.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but every single one of us can decide\Nwhat's going to be out there.
Dialogue: 0,0:18:24.81,0:18:26.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Thank you.
Dialogue: 0,0:18:26.15,0:18:27.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Applause)