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Hello! On TikTok I'm getting recommended
a lot of dog grooming videos,

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which I would recommend.
[whoof]

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Also, I've been seeing a lot of people
who have done the Difficult Person Test.

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I always see that and I'm like,
why would I take that test?

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I'm an easy breezy guy.

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But then I thought, am I?

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Apparently, it judges you on callousness,
grandiosity, aggressiveness, suspicion,

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manipulativeness,
dominance and risk taking.

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Why am I setting myself up
to look like a massive ass?

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Why am I filming this video?

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I think out of those,
maybe I'm a bit grandiose, a bit dominant.

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I mean not that way.
I'm not getting the whips and chains out.

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Or am I?

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No, I mean if I'm hosting a party
and there's games or a movie,

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I'll be the one that's like, 
I want to play this game,

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I think this movie would be best,
we should play this music.

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So in that way, I'm a bit annoying. 
Maybe that could show up.

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Maybe you learn something
about yourself from this video.

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If you relate to it, is that a bad thing?

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I don't know.

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As a little appetizer, aperitif,
I asked you guys on Instagram

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with a little slidey poll,
how difficult you thought I'd be

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if you were my friend. 
Not that you're not my virtual friend.

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Oh! You were nice.

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Okay, you put me between
'not at all' and 'kinda'. I'll take that.

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Anyone who did that
and got 'not at all',

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I'm scared they're either
a robot or secretly a serial killer,

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so I'm happy I'm a little bit on the list.

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Before we find out if I'm difficult,

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Okay, it's time.

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Oh, my phone kind of matches my shirt.

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Let's find out, am I difficult?
Yes.

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[credit music]

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I'm quite nervous.

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Question 1: I've often been
described as cold or uncaring.

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I don't want to toot my own trumpet,

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or my horn, or any of my other
woodwind instruments,

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but I feel like I'm quite a caring person.

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I remember people's birthdays,
I think about them,

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I like to make people happy.

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No one has ever looked me in the eyes
and said, you are a cold-hearted bitch.

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But if I've been at a YouTube convention
like VidCon and surrounded by people

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and a bit overwhelmed and anxious,

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a YouTuber might've come up to me:
Hey Phil, how's it going? How's your day?

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And I might've been like,
Uhh, I got to go to a panel!

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and not been that friendly.
I've done that a few times.

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They might have been like:
He's a dick.

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But that's more anxiety
than being uncaring and horrible.

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I just want to be liked.

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So I'm going to give that
a double thumbs-down.

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Next: I think about hurting and/or
humiliating people who annoy me.

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Okay, right. [laughs]

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This is going to sound bad.

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I don't think about
actually hurting people,

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but I do fantasize about bad things
happening. [giggles]

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If someone's really pissed me off,
if they've really annoyed me, I'm like,

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I hope that ants crawl up your shorts
in the middle of the night. [gasp effect]

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I'll think about that,
and I'll fantasise about

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them hopping around
being bitten by ants.

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So yeah, I do that.
Everyone does that.

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You'd be lying if you don't.

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I'm going to give it a mostly yes.

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It'd be kinda disturbing
if I said, YES.

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I sometimes get into dangerous situations.

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I was about to say no,
but I'm so clumsy and accident-prone,

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I think it's probably a yes. [giggles]

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Me and Dan were trying to get a mirror
back on the wall the other day.

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He'd hooked his side on and was like:
Phil, have you hooked your side on?

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There were two hooks like this
and I was going like that.

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I was like:
Yeah, mine's in place as well.

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I let go. The entire mirror swung
like an axe pendulum towards Dan.

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It missed his head by about that much,

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and completely sliced a phone charger
in half with all of that force,

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and doing so ripped
one of the plug sockets down the wall

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and quacked all the plaster.

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That was a Final Destination moment
caused by me being like:

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Yeah, I got it. I'm fine.

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and not really thinking about
if I actually had it.

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I never have it.
I don't have it.

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This is the hit plug socket,

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and the crack that goes
all the way down the wall.

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Sorry landlord. I'm going to try
to be more careful in the future, okay?

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[futuristic effect]

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Hello from the future.

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You might've seen on Twitter
that after filming this,

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I walked crotch-first into a bollard.

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Now I can't really bend my knee
which also hit the floor.

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Don't worry, I'm not 
going too high.

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Here is where the bollard hit. Ow!

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Yeah, I'm not going outside again.

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Yeah, I do. I'm giving myself
a little green thumbs-up.

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People tell me I am out of control.

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No, my partying
[party popper]

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is quite mild to say the least.

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So I'm going to go [NO] on that one.

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I often feel suspicious of people,
even if they've acted loyally towards me.

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I think for everyone
the suspicious snake can rear its head,

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but generally, if someone's loyal to me,
I'm not suspicious of them.

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That's weird.
They're loyal. They're nice.

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I would say double no.

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[sawing]

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Why is someone revving up a chainsaw
outside the window?

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Time for death.

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People want to do-
People want to do me, is what I read.

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No. [laughs] I hope so.

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People do what I want them to
because they're afraid of me.

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No, I'm very meek.
If I'm in a business meeting,

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I'll be like,
[high] maybe we could think about

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perheps changing that
if it doesn't bother you too much.

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I'm not very good
at asserting myself.

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I do not think people are afraid of me,
so I'm going to say NO.

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I often say and do things
without stopping to think.

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Fully yes.
That is one of my worst qualities.

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I'm always spontaneously jumping
into an idea or a situation

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without fully thinking it through.
Hence the mirror swinging earlier.

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If we were choosing between two sofas
for the new house,

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I'd just sit on one and be like:
This is fine. This is the one.

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while Dan'd be like,

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no, we need to test both individually
with our asses, with our laptops,

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with our feet up, and fully know
that the ass is happy.

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Double fist.

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Other people's emotions
are their problem, not mine.

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Wow, quiz. I mean, everyone does
need to manage their own emotions,

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that's the thing, but if someone's upset
near me, I'm not like,

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ugh, gross, sort it out yourself.

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I definitely want to comfort them
or talk it through.

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So that's a full no.

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Uff. I exploit others toward my own ends.
That's very villain-y.

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[evil] I exploit you to my own ends.

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Exploiting people is gross,
but I am a bit of a blagger.

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If I go to a hotel, I might be really nice
to the person behind the desk and be like,

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Are there any upgrades going today?

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It never really worked for me,
[laughs] but it's worth the try.

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I'm going to give that a medium no.

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Generally speaking,
I am a superior person.

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At first, I was going to be like:
No, I'm not superior.

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But also, does that mean
I'm inferior to other people?

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Can we not all just be middle?

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I'm going to say middle.
I don't like it.

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I am a unique individual [laughs]
who deserves special treatment.

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Some YouTubers let their followers
and the fame go to their heads.

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I don't think I'm like that.
I don't think I deserve special treatment,

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but I do think everyone
deserves special treatment.

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Everyone is unique.
Everyone deserves a little cake.

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So I'm going to go a little bit of yes.

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I am unique and I deserve cake
every now and then. [giggles]

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People sometimes bother me
by just being around me.

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Full yes. [laughs]

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No offence to people, but I don't like
being around them that much.

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In small doses, that's fine.

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A music festival, I can do
for about an hour and then just be like,

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aah, get me away from all these people!

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I'm being honest. They do bother me.
Sorry world.

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Others have told me I am a hothead.

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When is the Incredi-Phil-Hulk coming out?

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No, I'm quite a coolhead. [laughs]
A cucumber head.

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The only thing that
irritates me is printers.

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That's why I went to
one of those wreck rooms.

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I just wanted to F up a printer.

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[Alliance effect]

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No, apart from printers,
I'm going to give that a no.

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Other people have not told me that.

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I enjoy coming out on top
after humiliating others.

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No, that's too mean.
I don't like that.

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Nah. Neh neh.

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People who don't do as I say
need to be criticised.

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If someone kicked a geese-
[giggles]

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a goose, and I was like,
don't kick the geese,

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then they didn't do what I said
and didn't say sorry to the goose,

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they deserve to be criticised.

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But I'm not a dictator that's like,

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[low voice] You must do what I say.
Everything I say is important.

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Neh. Medium no.

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I hold grudges.

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Yep. I am the grudge.
[goose noise]

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Is that the noise
in the horror film?

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It was like [goose noise].

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That was weird.

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Yeah, I do. That's a bad trait of me.

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If someone's crossed me
or annoyed me or upset me,

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and there's not been an apology
or we've not talked it out

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I will have arguments with them
over and over in my head.

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I will just think, urgh,
if anyone mentions their name.

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I do hold a grudge.
I need to learn to let things go.

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Let it go.

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There's some YouTubers
I muted five years ago,

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'cause they were rude to me.

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They're probably nice people.
They might've been having a bad day.

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But yeah, I'm bad.
I hold a grudge.

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[goose]

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Wow, oh my God.

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I keep track of sensitive information

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that can be used
to hurt people at a later time.

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[laughs] No! I don't do that.

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I'm a very good secret keeper actually.

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If you've got a secret,
tell me your secret.

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I won't tell anyone.

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It's like a steel box [cloink].
I know everything about all your faves.

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Shut up.

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I often hesitate to confide in others.

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Ooh, I feel called out.

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I'm not good at talking
about my feelings to someone

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unless I'm super close to them,
so I'm rarely like,

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I'm really upset about this
and I need to talk about it.

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I just store all of that inside my head.
I'm quite guarded.

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I've got a bit of a British
stiff upper lip, that I should lose.

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I should have a loose lip,
a wet, floppy lower lip.

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Yes, I would hesitate.

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I only obey those laws and rules
that seem sensible to me.

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No, I'm such a nerd
when it comes to laws and rules.

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No, the hotel might find out
if we move the sun lounger.

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Yeah, all the hands.

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Final questioné.
I don't really care if I offend others.

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Ooh. No, I do care.
I really care, probably too much.

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If I've upset a friend
and said something bad

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it goes over and over in my head.

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They hate me. What have I done?
I've ruined our friendship.

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It's probably not that bad and
they don't think about it anymore,

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but I'm still thinking about it.

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So sorry I said
your hair looked a bit weird.

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I didn't mean it.
I meant messy, okay? [laughs]

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That's not a specific example.
But it could be.

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The double negative is confusing me.

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No, I don't really care
if I offend others.

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No to that negative point.

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[game show music]

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Here we go mates.
My result is,

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You are a somewhat difficult person
to get along with. 47 percent, what!

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My biggest one is risk-taking.
I think that's because I was talking about

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how I almost killed Dan with the mirror
and how I do take risks.

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I feel like even though I'm clumsy,
when it's an important decision,

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I do think it over quite a lot.

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If it's something flippant like a sofa

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or Dan's head against a mirror,
it's fine. I'll just do it.

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But if it's something life-changingly
important, I will think about it.

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People high in this trait seek sensation
to overcome boredom, and get pleasure

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[laughs]
— sensations and pleasure —

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from shocking others
with their adventures and stunts.

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I'm not sure
if this is describing me that well.

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I wouldn't jump out of a plane,
but I am quite impulsive.

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Risk-takers can make
others around them feel ill at ease,

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since their actions may have consequences
for others as well as themselves.

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I did almost smash a mirror
into someone's head,

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so that made Dan feel ill at ease.

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My callousness is the smallest.
I'm like a little rabbit.

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Dominance is also low.

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I guess I'm submissive. [giggles]

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And aggression is also low.

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I'm basically a kind, submissive rabbit
that likes taking risks. [laughs]

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Grandiosity is my next highest one.

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People high in grandiosity tout
their abilities and their accomplishments,

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while downplaying
the contributions of others.

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I don't think that's true,
but I see how it was slightly raised,

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Because a lot of my answers were like,

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Yeah, but everyone
should think they're great. It's fine.

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So we should all be
a bit grandiose. It's okay.

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They tend to put themselves on a pedestal

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and have a sense of entitlement
about them.

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Wow. Bow down to me.

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If you look at the chart,
I'm only halfway.

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So just bow down to me
a little bit. [laughs]

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Callous people have no empathy,

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so that's shown that I have
a lot of empathy for people,

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'cause that's one of the traits
I value in myself.

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I should maybe be
a little bit more dominant.

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[imitates whip, laughs]

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If I'm in a meeting or with some friends

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and they all want to do something
that I don't want to,

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I should assert myself.
I should assert dominance and say,

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No, I don't like that.

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That was interesting. I didn't
expect risk-taking to be so high,

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but it made me think I should maybe
be a bit more open with my emotions

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and not care about
what people think about me as much.

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I shouldn't get in my head as much as I do
and just live life and see what happens.

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I mean, saying that out loud was hard,
so I got a long way to go, guys.

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So rather than saying
I'm a 47 percent difficult person,

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I'm a 63 percent easy-going guy.

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That sounds a lot better.

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My brain has been
poked and prodded enough today,

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