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Dialogue: 0,0:00:08.30,0:00:11.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Narrator] AJ MacDonald\Nis expecting baby number 3...
Dialogue: 0,0:00:11.48,0:00:13.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...in just 4 weeks.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:13.71,0:00:15.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She's a confident, practical mom.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:15.76,0:00:18.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But with each child,\NAJ has had to adapt...
Dialogue: 0,0:00:18.49,0:00:20.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...and learn new skills.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:20.82,0:00:22.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,AJ is going blind.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:22.85,0:00:24.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Oh, I'll stay really close\Nto Zayb...
Dialogue: 0,0:00:24.85,0:00:26.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...within reaching distance \Nof his hand.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:26.65,0:00:30.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I will grab him sometimes\Nand pull him back by me.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:30.11,0:00:32.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's scary.\NIt is hard work.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:32.19,0:00:35.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yeah, it's not easy.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:35.21,0:00:38.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Narrator] AJ has the condition\Nmacular edema.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:38.32,0:00:40.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's a complicated \Nauto-immune disorder...
Dialogue: 0,0:00:40.40,0:00:43.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...where her immune system\Nattacks her eyes.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:44.17,0:00:46.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Her sight has gradually\Ndeteriorated.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:46.55,0:00:48.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She's now completely blind\Nin one eye...
Dialogue: 0,0:00:48.100,0:00:52.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...and only has around 30 percent\Nvision in the other.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:52.26,0:00:54.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When I look out there\NI can just see waves...
Dialogue: 0,0:00:54.58,0:00:56.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...and the beach,\NI can't see.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:56.18,0:01:00.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If it's like just Jayden,\Nand he's coming in close...
Dialogue: 0,0:01:00.20,0:01:01.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...I'll see him.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:01.10,0:01:04.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But, yeah, I can mostly\Njust see waves.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:13.24,0:01:15.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Who's that? \NHe's home!
Dialogue: 0,0:01:15.99,0:01:17.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Hi, son!
Dialogue: 0,0:01:18.05,0:01:20.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,AJ's oldest boy, Jayden\Nis eight...
Dialogue: 0,0:01:20.83,0:01:22.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...the same age she was\Nwhen she discovered..
Dialogue: 0,0:01:22.63,0:01:24.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...she was losing her sight.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:26.61,0:01:28.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- Hi!\N- Mwah!
Dialogue: 0,0:01:30.26,0:01:33.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,$$[AJ MacDonald] Like, I don't remember it\Nbeing one day I woke up...
Dialogue: 0,0:01:33.21,0:01:34.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...and couldn't see.\NIt was really slow.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:35.74,0:01:38.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I just remember thinking,\N"I can't read that now."...
Dialogue: 0,0:01:38.16,0:01:42.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...or "I can't see that far."
Dialogue: 0,0:01:42.48,0:01:44.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Or I would mistake things,\Nyou know.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:44.95,0:01:46.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I would say...
Dialogue: 0,0:01:46.29,0:01:48.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,My stepdad always laughs,\Nbecause one time...
Dialogue: 0,0:01:48.28,0:01:50.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...I...there was a white rock\Nand I said...
Dialogue: 0,0:01:50.21,0:01:52.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,..."Oh, look at that duck!"\NYou know. It was a rock!
Dialogue: 0,0:01:52.79,0:01:54.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And things like that.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:54.21,0:01:57.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And it wasn't like you go\N"Oh, I can't see now."
Dialogue: 0,0:01:57.47,0:02:00.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It was, like, just little things\Nthat got worse and worse.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:01.77,0:02:05.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They did surgery on my left eye,\Nremoved the lens, so...
Dialogue: 0,0:02:05.22,0:02:07.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...that there's no sight,\NI get light and dark...
Dialogue: 0,0:02:07.73,0:02:09.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...and some shadows.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:09.32,0:02:10.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The other eye, I see \Nsome movement...
Dialogue: 0,0:02:10.91,0:02:13.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...but absolutely no focus.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:13.76,0:02:16.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I can read things,\Nfor a few seconds...
Dialogue: 0,0:02:16.64,0:02:19.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...or for a bit. But then\Nthe focus goes on me.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:19.85,0:02:22.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,A short distance, I can see\Nif I hold things really close...
Dialogue: 0,0:02:22.89,0:02:23.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...to me.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:23.99,0:02:26.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But long distance is really gone.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:26.30,0:02:29.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Within...if people are a meter\Naway, or two meters...
Dialogue: 0,0:02:29.80,0:02:31.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...I won't know\Nwho the are.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:34.76,0:02:36.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Wee!
Dialogue: 0,0:02:42.40,0:02:44.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[AJ] I don't see my kids' faces\Nreally clearly...
Dialogue: 0,0:02:44.95,0:02:48.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...but I can see where they are.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:48.30,0:02:50.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I can hear them and I know\Nwhat they're doing...
Dialogue: 0,0:02:50.13,0:02:53.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I know when Jayden jumps\Nout of that tree.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:56.73,0:02:59.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I know when Zayb's coming up\Nfrom underneath him and that.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:00.72,0:03:03.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yeah, I listen to them play\Nand that's...
Dialogue: 0,0:03:03.27,0:03:06.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...that's how I see them play.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:08.39,0:03:11.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Narrator] Eventually AJ \Nwill lose all her vision.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:11.25,0:03:14.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Surgery is an option,\Nbut it comes with risks.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:16.26,0:03:18.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[AJ] I'm a bit scared about\Nhaving surgery...
Dialogue: 0,0:03:18.75,0:03:20.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...especially on my 'good' eye.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:20.47,0:03:23.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because if it comes out worse,\Nthen you know...
Dialogue: 0,0:03:23.44,0:03:25.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...or do I stay happy \Nwith what it's at now?
Dialogue: 0,0:03:25.99,0:03:29.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Do I try and make it better\Nand risk it getting worse?
Dialogue: 0,0:03:29.25,0:03:31.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I mean, the risks\Nare pretty high.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:32.64,0:03:34.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There's definitely a chance\Nof putting a lens...
Dialogue: 0,0:03:34.39,0:03:37.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...in that left eye, which\Nwould give me a bit more sight.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:37.35,0:03:40.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And also, there's cataracts\Nin the right eye...
Dialogue: 0,0:03:40.82,0:03:43.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...which is taking away\Nquite a lot of sight.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:43.30,0:03:46.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Which, cataracts are easy to fix,\Nbut you have to have...
Dialogue: 0,0:03:46.78,0:03:49.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...no inflammation, is what\Nthey call it...
Dialogue: 0,0:03:49.38,0:03:51.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...and that's the condition\Nthat I have.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:51.24,0:03:53.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The uvulitis is what causes \Nthe inflammation.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:53.88,0:03:56.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So, I have to be \Non heavy medications...
Dialogue: 0,0:03:56.72,0:03:58.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...for a period of time...
Dialogue: 0,0:03:58.84,0:04:00.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...to make sure there's no\Ninflammation in that eye.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:00.98,0:04:03.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So they could do that operation.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:04.74,0:04:06.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Narrator] And with a new baby\Non the way...
Dialogue: 0,0:04:06.39,0:04:09.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...AJ has decided to stick\Nwith the status quo.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:12.59,0:04:14.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- Hi!\N- Hi! How're you doing?
Dialogue: 0,0:04:14.18,0:04:16.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Good, come in!
Dialogue: 0,0:04:16.66,0:04:17.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[AJ] We've got four weeks to go.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:17.73,0:04:20.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Baby's due in four weeks.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:20.17,0:04:21.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I've got worries, you know,\Nhaving a toddler...
Dialogue: 0,0:04:21.83,0:04:24.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...and a new baby, it's going\Nto be tricky...
Dialogue: 0,0:04:24.99,0:04:26.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...but it's cool.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:26.52,0:04:28.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You know, lots of people do it\Nand, yeah, I'm excited...
Dialogue: 0,0:04:28.80,0:04:30.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...about it.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:30.34,0:04:32.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ok, so do you think we should\Nhave a feel and a listen...
Dialogue: 0,0:04:32.39,0:04:33.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...to this little poppet?
Dialogue: 0,0:04:33.70,0:04:35.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- Yeah.\N- ok!
Dialogue: 0,0:04:35.17,0:04:37.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Narrator] Macular edema\Nis known to be hereditary.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:38.65,0:04:41.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In AJ's case, it simply\Ndeveloped...
Dialogue: 0,0:04:41.00,0:04:43.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...from the auto-immune\Ndisease.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:44.94,0:04:46.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ok, they're nice and warm\Ntoday!
Dialogue: 0,0:04:46.32,0:04:48.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That's good!
Dialogue: 0,0:04:48.22,0:04:50.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Narrator] Her eyesight is \Nchangeable.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:50.36,0:04:51.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When she's sick, \Nshe has less vision...
Dialogue: 0,0:04:51.96,0:04:53.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...than when she's well.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:54.66,0:04:56.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Her pregnancy could have\Naffected her sight...
Dialogue: 0,0:04:56.81,0:04:58.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...but luckily it hasn't.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:58.73,0:05:00.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Either way, I just hope\Nfor a healthy baby.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:00.89,0:05:02.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But yeah, a girl \Nwould be nice.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:02.87,0:05:04.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,A girl would be nice,\Nbut three boys...
Dialogue: 0,0:05:04.96,0:05:08.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...would be loud and ruckus\Nand cool as well.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:08.20,0:05:11.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You know, it will be \Nwhat it's meant to be.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:11.74,0:05:19.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Baby's heartbeat pulses\Non ultrasound]
Dialogue: 0,0:05:22.77,0:05:24.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That's a happy baby!
Dialogue: 0,0:05:24.54,0:05:25.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[They laugh]
Dialogue: 0,0:05:25.70,0:05:28.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,140s... 150s
Dialogue: 0,0:05:29.40,0:05:31.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And we'll do your\Nblood pressure.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:31.42,0:05:33.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Narrator] AJ has a younger \Nbrother...
Dialogue: 0,0:05:33.00,0:05:35.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...living in the same town,\Nbut she's always managed...
Dialogue: 0,0:05:35.30,0:05:38.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...on her own. And doesn't expect\Nany help with this baby either.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:40.53,0:05:42.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Even though her partner, Lionel,\Nworks long hours...
Dialogue: 0,0:05:42.84,0:05:46.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...often commuting away \Nfrom AJ and the kids.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:46.30,0:05:47.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Mum, what's for tea?
Dialogue: 0,0:05:47.61,0:05:50.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- Mince.\N- Yummy! Garlic?
Dialogue: 0,0:05:50.70,0:05:52.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- And potatoes.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:52.28,0:05:53.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yep, garlic.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:53.38,0:05:54.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Do you want to help?
Dialogue: 0,0:05:54.54,0:05:56.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Err, can I go\Nand play outside?
Dialogue: 0,0:05:56.74,0:05:59.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- Yeah.\N- Ok.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:59.36,0:06:01.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Narrator] Eight year old Jayden \Nis well aware...
Dialogue: 0,0:06:01.43,0:06:04.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...of mom's limited vision,\Nand naturally helps her.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:04.78,0:06:06.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But AJ just wants him\Nto be a kid...
Dialogue: 0,0:06:06.77,0:06:08.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...as much as possible too.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:09.22,0:06:11.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[AJ] He knows my condition.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:11.14,0:06:12.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He knows what my sight's like.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:12.59,0:06:14.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He probably knows better than \Nanyone, what I can...
Dialogue: 0,0:06:14.46,0:06:16.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...and can't see.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:20.26,0:06:22.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Zayb, what are you doing?
Dialogue: 0,0:06:23.94,0:06:27.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Zayb? What are you doing,\Nmate?
Dialogue: 0,0:06:28.34,0:06:31.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Can you pass me a potato?\NPlease?
Dialogue: 0,0:06:31.70,0:06:33.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ah!
Dialogue: 0,0:06:37.06,0:06:39.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That's been my new year's\Nresolution....
Dialogue: 0,0:06:39.13,0:06:41.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...to be better in the kitchen\Nand find ways of doing things...
Dialogue: 0,0:06:41.86,0:06:43.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...you know, like, \Nwith the baking...
Dialogue: 0,0:06:43.36,0:06:45.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...to find ways of doing it.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:45.64,0:06:48.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's the same with cooking\Nyou find ways of doing it.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:48.98,0:06:51.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's not always great, \Nbut... you know.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:51.10,0:06:54.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm sure my kids probably eat\Na bit more dirt...
Dialogue: 0,0:06:54.31,0:06:57.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...on the edge of the potatoes\Nthan other kids, but yeah.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:00.00,0:07:01.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jayden, can you see \Nwhat the dog...
Dialogue: 0,0:07:01.37,0:07:03.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...is choking on, please?
Dialogue: 0,0:07:03.35,0:07:05.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Jayden] Ok, hang on.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:07.45,0:07:10.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,With using knives, it's like\Nyou feel the potato...
Dialogue: 0,0:07:10.40,0:07:11.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...you feel where it is.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:11.85,0:07:13.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And then you know\Nwhere to cut.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:13.78,0:07:18.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's just using intuition\Nmore than your sight.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:23.29,0:07:25.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Things like cooking chicken,\NI don't cook chicken...
Dialogue: 0,0:07:25.69,0:07:27.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...if I'm by myself.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:27.62,0:07:30.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'll cook it if I know Lionel's \Ngoing to be home in time.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:30.27,0:07:33.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And then he can check it\Nmake sure it's not pink.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:37.21,0:07:39.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You all right? Come here.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:39.58,0:07:41.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Come on, we're going \Nto wash the potatoes.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:43.51,0:07:44.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Oh!
Dialogue: 0,0:07:45.56,0:07:46.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Oh, ta. Can you\Npick it up?
Dialogue: 0,0:07:48.49,0:07:50.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Here's your grapes.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:51.25,0:07:51.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Oh no.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:51.98,0:07:54.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That's Karen's stuff!
Dialogue: 0,0:08:04.78,0:08:07.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Narrator] Even though she's \N36 weeks pregnant...
Dialogue: 0,0:08:07.36,0:08:10.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...AJ is still helping others\Nin her community.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:10.100,0:08:12.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She recognizes that her \Nloss of sight...
Dialogue: 0,0:08:12.88,0:08:15.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...played a part\Nin tough teenage years.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:16.78,0:08:18.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[AJ] I did drop out of school,\Nschool was hard...
Dialogue: 0,0:08:18.77,0:08:20.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...when you can't read, \Nyou can't see.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:20.96,0:08:23.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You know there's lots of reasons\Nwhy kids don't function...
Dialogue: 0,0:08:23.54,0:08:24.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...well in school.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:24.68,0:08:26.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And mine was just\Nthat I couldn't see.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:26.85,0:08:30.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So I dropped out early\Nand I did get into trouble...
Dialogue: 0,0:08:30.67,0:08:32.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...as a teenager.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:33.22,0:08:37.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And when Jayden was one,\NI decided that this...
Dialogue: 0,0:08:37.54,0:08:39.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...wasn't the kind of life\Nthat I wanted...
Dialogue: 0,0:08:39.15,0:08:40.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...to bring my child up in.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:40.90,0:08:44.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Lots of drugs, and yeah, \Nlots of trouble.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:44.15,0:08:47.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So, I thought, no.\NThis isn't for my son.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:47.74,0:08:50.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Traffic noises]
Dialogue: 0,0:08:51.17,0:08:53.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Tell us when we're good, eh?
Dialogue: 0,0:08:54.65,0:08:56.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jayden's really, really good.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:56.16,0:08:58.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He's been taught road safety\Nfrom real young.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:58.43,0:09:00.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And he will cross us \Nover roads...
Dialogue: 0,0:09:00.40,0:09:03.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...because I actually can't\Nsee the cars.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:07.38,0:09:09.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When it's quiet streets,\NI can hear cars...
Dialogue: 0,0:09:09.70,0:09:11.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...and you do know \Nwhen the road's clear.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:11.43,0:09:13.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But when it's a really, really\Nbusy street...
Dialogue: 0,0:09:13.61,0:09:16.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...and you've got to look\Nfor a gap and rush over...
Dialogue: 0,0:09:16.68,0:09:18.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...that's...I will walk \Na long way...
Dialogue: 0,0:09:18.88,0:09:20.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...to get to a crossing,\Nand then backtrack...
Dialogue: 0,0:09:20.88,0:09:23.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...if I need to.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:24.16,0:09:25.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- Are we good?\N- Yeah.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:38.22,0:09:40.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Narrator] When AJ was a teenager\Nnobody helped her...
Dialogue: 0,0:09:40.63,0:09:43.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...with career opportunities\Nand she became lost.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:44.46,0:09:47.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She had her first baby\Nwhen she was seventeen.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:53.53,0:09:55.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In June last year, \NAJ graduated...
Dialogue: 0,0:09:55.94,0:09:58.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...with a diploma in\Napplied social science.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:59.11,0:10:01.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She now works as a social\Nworker and is studying...
Dialogue: 0,0:10:01.25,0:10:03.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...for her degree.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:04.84,0:10:07.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She works here with young moms\Nattending a course...
Dialogue: 0,0:10:07.25,0:10:11.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...at the YMCA, and elsewhere\Nwith teenagers at risk.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:12.40,0:10:14.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And she's a youth mentor.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:15.49,0:10:17.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ok, so are you keen to do\Nsome baking this afternoon?
Dialogue: 0,0:10:17.84,0:10:23.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We're going to bake\Nfor Sandy's farewell, I think.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:24.99,0:10:27.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Narrator] AJ passes on\Nthe knowledge she's built up...
Dialogue: 0,0:10:27.18,0:10:29.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...through her own experiences.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:30.82,0:10:32.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She's a voice of reason\Nfor the young moms...
Dialogue: 0,0:10:32.42,0:10:34.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...and their babies.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:35.50,0:10:37.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[AJ] And people can be so\Njudgmental with young moms.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:37.81,0:10:39.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I know what it's like.\NI've been there.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:39.96,0:10:42.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And it is tough.\NAnd you do need help..
Dialogue: 0,0:10:42.75,0:10:45.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and you do need teaching\Nall of that.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:45.23,0:10:47.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I just, I love\Nwatching them go...
Dialogue: 0,0:10:47.19,0:10:49.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...from being pregnant \Nto having their babies...
Dialogue: 0,0:10:49.13,0:10:51.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...to just being \Nbeautiful moms.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:52.59,0:10:54.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What happened?
Dialogue: 0,0:10:54.27,0:10:57.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Oh, the slide was \Non your toe!
Dialogue: 0,0:10:58.14,0:11:00.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Baby cries]
Dialogue: 0,0:11:00.78,0:11:02.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Narrator] Last year AJ \Nreceived the prestigious...
Dialogue: 0,0:11:02.86,0:11:05.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...Leslie Pearce Woman \Nof Courage award...
Dialogue: 0,0:11:05.34,0:11:08.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...for her outstanding work\Nas a mentor...
Dialogue: 0,0:11:08.43,0:11:10.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...and her influence\Non young people.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:11.95,0:11:13.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[AJ] Winning the Leslie Pearce \Naward was...
Dialogue: 0,0:11:13.49,0:11:15.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...it was huge, really.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:15.75,0:11:19.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because I'm quite a quiet,\Nprivate person...
Dialogue: 0,0:11:19.68,0:11:21.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...and to have it out \Nin the public...
Dialogue: 0,0:11:21.36,0:11:24.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...that you, you know, I\Ncan't see, um...
Dialogue: 0,0:11:24.16,0:11:28.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...to have it, you know, it was\Nin a magazine, it was on TV...
Dialogue: 0,0:11:28.96,0:11:31.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...it was kind of this thing\Nwhere you have to go...
Dialogue: 0,0:11:31.15,0:11:32.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,..."Ok, I'm going to \Ngo public about it..."
Dialogue: 0,0:11:32.85,0:11:34.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"...or I'm going to hide away."
Dialogue: 0,0:11:34.25,0:11:37.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And you had to make that decision\Nof, "Yeah I want to talk..."
Dialogue: 0,0:11:37.31,0:11:39.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"...about what it's like to be \Nblind, what it's like..."
Dialogue: 0,0:11:39.57,0:11:41.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"...to bring up kids."
Dialogue: 0,0:11:41.10,0:11:43.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You know, all of that stuff.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:43.78,0:11:45.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'll bring some food down\Nactually and just...
Dialogue: 0,0:11:45.25,0:11:46.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...put it on the table\Nfor him.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:46.49,0:11:47.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ok.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:47.56,0:11:49.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Thank you!
Dialogue: 0,0:11:49.49,0:11:52.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Nice meeting you, Fay.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:54.87,0:11:55.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,All right.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:55.99,0:11:57.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Narrator] AJ knew she needed\Nqualifications...
Dialogue: 0,0:11:57.90,0:12:01.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...to give herself and her\Nchildren a better future.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:01.93,0:12:04.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[AJ] Because for me, I couldn't\Njust work on a checkout.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:04.45,0:12:07.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I couldn't do admin, I couldn't\Ndo those jobs...
Dialogue: 0,0:12:07.61,0:12:09.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...that we can kind of \Nwalk into.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:09.77,0:12:10.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You know, cleaning....
Dialogue: 0,0:12:10.89,0:12:13.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,A lot of that stuff, I couldn't\Ndo, because I couldn't see.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:13.58,0:12:16.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Lots of jobs, you have to \Nhave a driver's license.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:17.59,0:12:19.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And so, for me, it was\Nwhat can I do?
Dialogue: 0,0:12:19.72,0:12:21.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What am I good at...
Dialogue: 0,0:12:21.58,0:12:25.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...enough that will counter\Nthe eyesight thing?
Dialogue: 0,0:12:26.50,0:12:29.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So grab out the ingredients\Nthat you need.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:29.60,0:12:32.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Umm.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:33.36,0:12:35.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ok, guys, take your \Nbutter out...
Dialogue: 0,0:12:35.27,0:12:37.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...and put it in your golden\Nsyrup, pre-melted.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:37.44,0:12:38.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Oh, ok. Uh...
Dialogue: 0,0:12:40.52,0:12:43.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Honey, don't put your butter\Nin there dry.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:44.64,0:12:45.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[AJ] I taught myself \Nhow to cook.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:45.85,0:12:47.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I learnt a lot\Nfrom friends and family....
Dialogue: 0,0:12:47.43,0:12:51.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...because you need to be able\Nto cook and feed your kids.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:51.61,0:12:55.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That's something that's really\Nimportant with the young moms.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:55.60,0:12:59.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And if I can cook, when I can't\Nsee anything, then they can cook.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:59.48,0:13:02.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ok, Court, can you \Nturn this on?
Dialogue: 0,0:13:02.22,0:13:03.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What do you want it to?
Dialogue: 0,0:13:03.46,0:13:06.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Umm, bake 180 degrees.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:14.80,0:13:16.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Narrator] But even attending\Npolytech...
Dialogue: 0,0:13:16.39,0:13:18.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...put her out\Nof her comfort zone.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:18.75,0:13:20.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[AJ] Seven years ago, when I \Nfirst started...
Dialogue: 0,0:13:20.59,0:13:22.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...my sight wasn't \Nthat bad...
Dialogue: 0,0:13:22.19,0:13:24.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...so I got to know\Nmy way around.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:25.83,0:13:27.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We count the steps.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:27.26,0:13:29.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You know how many steps \Nthere are.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:29.50,0:13:31.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I think too, you use\Nyour other senses.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:31.86,0:13:36.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And it's not like it's not\Na conscious thing...
Dialogue: 0,0:13:36.30,0:13:38.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...that you do.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:38.97,0:13:42.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You sort of, you feel things,\Nyou know that things are there.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:45.45,0:13:46.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When they change stuff\Nit's hard.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:46.94,0:13:49.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Like, this space was all open\Nthen they put in these...
Dialogue: 0,0:13:49.40,0:13:51.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...lovely gardens.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:51.60,0:13:53.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And that kind of mixes\Nme up for a bit.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:53.45,0:13:56.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But once you know it,\Nyou know it.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:03.60,0:14:05.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Finding my class was difficult.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:05.26,0:14:07.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Sometimes if we were in\Na different classroom...
Dialogue: 0,0:14:07.36,0:14:08.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...and I couldn't see\Nthe number on the door...
Dialogue: 0,0:14:08.84,0:14:12.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...and if I looked in,\NI was never sure...
Dialogue: 0,0:14:12.22,0:14:14.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...if it was my class\Nor not.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:15.50,0:14:16.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Narrator] With baby number three\Non the way...
Dialogue: 0,0:14:16.92,0:14:20.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...she needs to put her studies\Non hold, for now.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:28.13,0:14:30.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Oh, come on.\NIt's time to go home!
Dialogue: 0,0:14:31.64,0:14:33.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Come on!
Dialogue: 0,0:14:34.84,0:14:36.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Good boy.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:36.100,0:14:38.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Thanks, Sandy!
Dialogue: 0,0:14:38.84,0:14:41.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Thank you girls,\Nsee you later!
Dialogue: 0,0:14:55.82,0:14:57.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- Hi! You guys ready?\N- Yep!
Dialogue: 0,0:14:58.70,0:15:00.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Narrator] It's a busy life\Nand every week...
Dialogue: 0,0:15:00.78,0:15:04.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...Lionel's daughter, Jade,\Nalso comes to stay for the weekend.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:04.76,0:15:06.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Pop in that side.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:14.17,0:15:17.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Pop in your seat.\NThere's Jaja!
Dialogue: 0,0:15:19.63,0:15:25.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jayden, Jayden!
Dialogue: 0,0:15:26.60,0:15:28.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Good boy, I'll plug you in.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:29.33,0:15:32.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Have you got your belts on?
Dialogue: 0,0:15:32.73,0:15:34.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Jade] I've got my belt on.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:34.49,0:15:36.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Narrator] AJ likes a busy\Nhousehold...
Dialogue: 0,0:15:36.37,0:15:39.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...but sometimes it's the \Neveryday practicalities...
Dialogue: 0,0:15:39.60,0:15:41.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...that can get her down.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:42.23,0:15:44.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[AJ] The one thing that gets me\Nis not being able to drive.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:44.54,0:15:46.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That's the tough thing.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:46.85,0:15:50.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,With the kids, with working\Nand studying and...
Dialogue: 0,0:15:50.16,0:15:51.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...you know, trying to do\Nall of that...
Dialogue: 0,0:15:51.87,0:15:55.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...it just adds a big extra\Npressure onto your day...
Dialogue: 0,0:15:55.18,0:15:57.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...trying to either walk there\Nor find a ride...
Dialogue: 0,0:15:57.64,0:16:00.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...or if it's raining.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:00.10,0:16:03.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Or just when you need to go\Nto the shop or something.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:03.36,0:16:05.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You have to pack the kids up\Nand walk there.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:05.69,0:16:07.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You know, that's a mission.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:13.63,0:16:16.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[AJ] I don't struggle along with \Nthis condition on my own.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:16.51,0:16:22.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I have beautiful friends\Nand family that support us...
Dialogue: 0,0:16:22.39,0:16:25.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...that love my kids and love\Nus and help us every day.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:27.08,0:16:29.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There's never a time when I'm\Nsitting there on my own...
Dialogue: 0,0:16:29.57,0:16:33.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...going "Oh my gosh, \NI can't cope with this."
Dialogue: 0,0:16:57.60,0:16:59.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Narrator] AJ is fiercely\Nindependent...
Dialogue: 0,0:16:59.41,0:17:02.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...but she needs help\Nwith supermarket shopping.
Dialogue: 0,0:17:02.27,0:17:04.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[AJ] I don't think anyone\Nloves the supermarket that much...
Dialogue: 0,0:17:04.52,0:17:07.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...but for me it is a lot\Nharder.
Dialogue: 0,0:17:07.32,0:17:09.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I do it with Lionel, or with\Nmy friend, Gina.
Dialogue: 0,0:17:11.48,0:17:13.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Narrator] She finds the noise\Nand the maze of shelves...
Dialogue: 0,0:17:13.43,0:17:15.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...disorienting.
Dialogue: 0,0:17:17.90,0:17:21.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[AJ] Lots of people, lots of stuff\Nand lots of movement.
Dialogue: 0,0:17:21.74,0:17:24.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And that I feel a bit...\NI can't see much.
Dialogue: 0,0:17:31.33,0:17:32.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ok, do you see plums\Non there?
Dialogue: 0,0:17:32.87,0:17:34.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ummm...no!
Dialogue: 0,0:17:34.76,0:17:37.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ok, go search, push 'P'...
Dialogue: 0,0:17:40.80,0:17:43.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Are pears the same as the\Nother ones?
Dialogue: 0,0:17:45.22,0:17:46.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Umm...
Dialogue: 0,0:17:48.92,0:17:51.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[AJ] Just trying to get the \Ncheapest thing...
Dialogue: 0,0:17:51.16,0:17:55.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...you can't see the \Nsmall prices is hard.
Dialogue: 0,0:18:07.17,0:18:10.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Checkout beeps]
Dialogue: 0,0:18:15.47,0:18:16.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Nah.
Dialogue: 0,0:18:16.13,0:18:18.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Oh yeah, it did it,\Nit did it!
Dialogue: 0,0:18:25.49,0:18:27.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Thank you! You too!
Dialogue: 0,0:18:29.56,0:18:31.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Take the trolley, baby.
Dialogue: 0,0:18:31.25,0:18:33.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Good girl.
Dialogue: 0,0:18:42.35,0:18:43.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Zayb gurgles]
Dialogue: 0,0:18:43.31,0:18:45.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Change your bum!
Dialogue: 0,0:18:46.73,0:18:47.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Lie down.
Dialogue: 0,0:18:52.76,0:18:55.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[AJ] I worry about other things\Nlike practical things.
Dialogue: 0,0:18:55.53,0:18:59.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Like, I worry that now, I do\Na lot of stuff with me...
Dialogue: 0,0:18:59.29,0:19:01.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...and my friend and their child,\Nyou know...
Dialogue: 0,0:19:01.32,0:19:03.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...and now we're not\Ngoing to fit in one car!
Dialogue: 0,0:19:03.27,0:19:05.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That's the kind of stuff \NI worry about.
Dialogue: 0,0:19:05.94,0:19:08.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm going to have three kids\Nand if I'm with...
Dialogue: 0,0:19:08.21,0:19:11.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...one of my friends who has a kid,\Nyeah, I won't fit in the car...
Dialogue: 0,0:19:11.50,0:19:12.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...with them.
Dialogue: 0,0:19:17.18,0:19:19.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Zayb shouts]
Dialogue: 0,0:19:19.24,0:19:21.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[AJ] You know, taking three kids\Non a bus is a lot tougher...
Dialogue: 0,0:19:21.27,0:19:23.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...than taking one or two.
Dialogue: 0,0:19:24.63,0:19:26.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So I worry about that kind of\Npractical stuff...
Dialogue: 0,0:19:26.57,0:19:29.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...but I try not to worry\Nabout the future...
Dialogue: 0,0:19:29.45,0:19:31.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...and whether I'm going to\Nbe able to see them or not.
Dialogue: 0,0:20:06.58,0:20:09.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Narrator] Baby Eli arrives \Nright on cue.
Dialogue: 0,0:20:10.24,0:20:13.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Are you hungry?
Dialogue: 0,0:20:21.82,0:20:24.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Zayb screams]
Dialogue: 0,0:20:24.25,0:20:25.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Quietly!
Dialogue: 0,0:20:25.22,0:20:28.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Narrator] Having boy number three\Nbrings new challenges.
Dialogue: 0,0:20:29.70,0:20:33.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Don't hit! No hitting, man,\Ncome on!
Dialogue: 0,0:20:34.13,0:20:36.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Narrator] Life just got\Na whole lot busier...
Dialogue: 0,0:20:36.42,0:20:38.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...yet AJ's making light\Nor her load.
Dialogue: 0,0:20:38.69,0:20:41.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[AJ] It's going to be tough,\NI mean, three boys!
Dialogue: 0,0:20:41.72,0:20:43.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's a lot of testosterone.
Dialogue: 0,0:20:43.51,0:20:46.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I think, yeah, it's cool.
Dialogue: 0,0:20:46.97,0:20:48.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We'll just have to get out\Nand about...
Dialogue: 0,0:20:48.77,0:20:53.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...take them for walks, it'll be\NZayb that needs to be taken...
Dialogue: 0,0:20:53.10,0:20:55.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...out of the house, and \Nenergized.
Dialogue: 0,0:20:55.27,0:20:57.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He's, oh, he's got a lot \Nof energy to get rid of.
Dialogue: 0,0:20:59.44,0:21:07.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Boys shout and play]
Dialogue: 0,0:21:11.40,0:21:13.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Narrator] Her younger brother Ben\Nhas been helping out...
Dialogue: 0,0:21:13.39,0:21:15.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...while Lionel's away.
Dialogue: 0,0:21:17.19,0:21:20.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I suppose she's come a long way.\NAJ has done a lot of things, eh?
Dialogue: 0,0:21:20.99,0:21:23.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And didn't really notice it\Nat the time.
Dialogue: 0,0:21:23.24,0:21:26.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because she's sort of, \NI don't know...
Dialogue: 0,0:21:27.56,0:21:31.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...never really given her the,\Nwhat's the word for it?
Dialogue: 0,0:21:34.28,0:21:36.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- Help me out, man!\N- I don't know!
Dialogue: 0,0:21:37.17,0:21:41.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Respect for doing really well\Nand that.
Dialogue: 0,0:21:41.03,0:21:43.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- Yeah.\N- Because she's done a fair bit.
Dialogue: 0,0:21:43.41,0:21:45.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I've sort of always\Njust seen her...
Dialogue: 0,0:21:45.37,0:21:47.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...as my sister, AJ.
Dialogue: 0,0:21:47.24,0:21:50.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Like, her eyesight and that\Ndoesn't really come...
Dialogue: 0,0:21:50.49,0:21:53.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...into our lives \Nwhen I'm around.
Dialogue: 0,0:21:53.46,0:21:57.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- Woke up.\N- Yeah, he's...
Dialogue: 0,0:21:58.20,0:22:00.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Makes kissing sounds]
Dialogue: 0,0:22:01.93,0:22:03.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You hot?
Dialogue: 0,0:22:04.52,0:22:06.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'll go check on Zayb.
Dialogue: 0,0:22:08.35,0:22:10.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Can't climb up that fence \Nany more, so that's good.
Dialogue: 0,0:22:12.45,0:22:14.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Oh!
Dialogue: 0,0:22:14.86,0:22:16.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Man, is it ready?
Dialogue: 0,0:22:16.18,0:22:17.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yeah, we can serve it up,\Nman!
Dialogue: 0,0:22:17.40,0:22:18.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ah, awesome.
Dialogue: 0,0:22:18.16,0:22:20.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Can you grab a tea towel\Nand put it down?
Dialogue: 0,0:22:20.38,0:22:22.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Oh, it's all right, I'll\Nput that chopping board down.
Dialogue: 0,0:22:24.00,0:22:26.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Thank you!
Dialogue: 0,0:22:27.99,0:22:32.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Been home bodies since last...\Nsince he was born.
Dialogue: 0,0:22:33.23,0:22:35.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's good having Jayden\Nso much older...
Dialogue: 0,0:22:35.81,0:22:40.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...so he's sort of responsible\Nand Zayb kind of is learning.
Dialogue: 0,0:22:40.52,0:22:43.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Good boy, Zayb.\NGo wash your hands.
Dialogue: 0,0:22:43.32,0:22:45.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's all ready!\NJayden will help you.
Dialogue: 0,0:22:45.72,0:22:48.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Good boy!
Dialogue: 0,0:22:48.55,0:22:50.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[AJ] I haven't been out by myself\Nwith all three of them.
Dialogue: 0,0:22:50.47,0:22:53.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's been me and Lionel\Ntaking them out.
Dialogue: 0,0:22:53.19,0:22:54.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[AJ] It's going to be hot, ok?
Dialogue: 0,0:22:55.55,0:22:57.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[I don't know] Is that for Jayden?
Dialogue: 0,0:22:57.22,0:22:59.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ok, you hop over there then.
Dialogue: 0,0:22:59.92,0:23:01.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Auntie will pass that \Nover the table...
Dialogue: 0,0:23:01.66,0:23:03.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...you hop over there.
Dialogue: 0,0:23:07.02,0:23:08.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,All right, are you \Ngetting drinks?
Dialogue: 0,0:23:08.40,0:23:10.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,OJ for Zayb.
Dialogue: 0,0:23:13.53,0:23:15.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Let me help you.
Dialogue: 0,0:23:15.41,0:23:16.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Ben] Do you want to feed \Nnow then?
Dialogue: 0,0:23:16.85,0:23:20.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Right then, your plate, \Nplease.
Dialogue: 0,0:23:20.95,0:23:22.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Here's your fork.
Dialogue: 0,0:23:23.27,0:23:27.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,- But not the noodle.\N- Careful.
Dialogue: 0,0:23:29.56,0:23:34.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Conversation fades]
Dialogue: 0,0:23:51.10,0:23:54.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Come on, mate.
Dialogue: 0,0:23:56.38,0:23:58.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Have your bath.
Dialogue: 0,0:24:06.60,0:24:08.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Narrator] Young Jayden eagerly\Ntakes on the role...
Dialogue: 0,0:24:08.38,0:24:10.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...of mother's helper.
Dialogue: 0,0:24:10.30,0:24:11.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He's her second \Npair of eyes.
Dialogue: 0,0:24:11.72,0:24:13.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Son, can you please grab me\Na towel?
Dialogue: 0,0:24:14.49,0:24:15.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[AJ] I think that sometimes\Nhappens with kids...
Dialogue: 0,0:24:15.48,0:24:17.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...when you have a disability.
Dialogue: 0,0:24:17.28,0:24:20.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You know, it's things like\N"Jayden can you look at this rash?"
Dialogue: 0,0:24:20.66,0:24:22.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"What does it look like?"
Dialogue: 0,0:24:22.11,0:24:23.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Can you tell me\Nwhat it looks like?"
Dialogue: 0,0:24:23.87,0:24:25.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"What does he have in his \Nmouth?"
Dialogue: 0,0:24:25.30,0:24:28.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Um, just those extra kind of\Nthings that kids don't usually...
Dialogue: 0,0:24:28.44,0:24:30.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...have to worry about.
Dialogue: 0,0:24:30.36,0:24:32.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Narrator] Eli's been diagnosed \Nwith hip displacia...
Dialogue: 0,0:24:32.77,0:24:34.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...or clicky hips.
Dialogue: 0,0:24:34.72,0:24:37.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's a relatively common\Ncondition...
Dialogue: 0,0:24:37.14,0:24:39.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...but he has to wear a brace\Nfor the next few months.
Dialogue: 0,0:24:40.36,0:24:41.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[AJ] It is hard with\Nhis brace...
Dialogue: 0,0:24:41.47,0:24:43.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...because I can't bath him\Nand I've always...
Dialogue: 0,0:24:43.67,0:24:46.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...bathed my babies a lot\Nin case I've missed...
Dialogue: 0,0:24:46.14,0:24:47.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...a bit of poo, you know?
Dialogue: 0,0:24:47.77,0:24:50.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In case they're dirty\Nand I can't see it.
Dialogue: 0,0:24:50.62,0:24:52.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And just keeping an eye \Non his skin...
Dialogue: 0,0:24:52.57,0:24:54.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...because he can get rashes\Nand stuff from his brace.
Dialogue: 0,0:24:54.92,0:24:57.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So yeah, that's been tough.
Dialogue: 0,0:24:57.52,0:24:58.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Narrator] Never one to sit around\Nfor long...
Dialogue: 0,0:24:58.83,0:25:01.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...AJ has already decided\Non a new way...
Dialogue: 0,0:25:01.55,0:25:04.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...to support other moms \Nin her community.
Dialogue: 0,0:25:04.62,0:25:07.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She's training as a breastfeeding\Nmentor.
Dialogue: 0,0:25:07.96,0:25:09.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[AJ] It's something that they're\Nputting in place...
Dialogue: 0,0:25:09.23,0:25:11.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...over New Zealand, I think,\Nto try and encourage...
Dialogue: 0,0:25:11.82,0:25:14.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...or support women\Nto breastfeed.
Dialogue: 0,0:25:14.41,0:25:17.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yeah, that's something that I'm\Nquite passionate about too.
Dialogue: 0,0:25:17.72,0:25:20.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I think if women can get that\Nsupport and help...
Dialogue: 0,0:25:20.63,0:25:22.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...that they need and can \Ndo it well...
Dialogue: 0,0:25:22.85,0:25:25.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...then it's an amazing thing.
Dialogue: 0,0:25:27.06,0:25:28.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yeah, I am an advocate\Nfor breastfeeding...
Dialogue: 0,0:25:28.57,0:25:32.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...but I'm not a pushy\N"breast is best" person...
Dialogue: 0,0:25:32.93,0:25:34.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...you know!
Dialogue: 0,0:25:36.48,0:25:39.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I do worry sometimes that\Nif my eyesight goes completely...
Dialogue: 0,0:25:39.29,0:25:41.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...then how will I cope\Nwith that?
Dialogue: 0,0:25:41.80,0:25:46.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I do sometimes think, y'know,\Nif I couldn't see my kids...
Dialogue: 0,0:25:46.00,0:25:48.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...I can still see their faces\Nnow and I think...
Dialogue: 0,0:25:48.50,0:25:51.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...that's something that makes me\Nfeel sad, thinking what if..
Dialogue: 0,0:25:51.94,0:25:54.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...I couldn't see\Ntheir little facial expressions?
Dialogue: 0,0:25:54.45,0:25:56.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Or see what they're doing.
Dialogue: 0,0:25:59.99,0:26:03.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Zayb is going to climb up\Nonto the tree!
Dialogue: 0,0:26:06.29,0:26:07.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[AJ] But then I think of the\Nother side of it...
Dialogue: 0,0:26:07.94,0:26:11.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...and I can still kiss them\Nand hug them...
Dialogue: 0,0:26:11.56,0:26:13.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...and hold them.
Dialogue: 0,0:26:13.16,0:26:15.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I think I'll always be close\Nto my babies...
Dialogue: 0,0:26:15.84,0:26:18.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,...whether I can see them\Nor not, I think.
Dialogue: 0,0:26:18.56,0:26:19.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Do you want it\Non or off?
Dialogue: 0,0:26:19.91,0:26:21.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Zayb whinges]
Dialogue: 0,0:26:21.63,0:26:23.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You want it off?