Kamma without Belief
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0:00 - 0:05Because we're doing live-streaming
internationally now I'll try and aim -
0:05 - 0:09for slightly shorter talks,
maybe 45-50 minutes -
0:09 - 0:13so we can give more
opportunities for questions, -
0:13 - 0:19especially when they come from overseas.
So it'll be a bit shorter this time. -
0:19 - 0:23But first of all please if everyone can come in,
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0:23 - 0:31sitting outside or standing outside,
again there's lots of space in the front. -
0:42 - 0:48And the subject of the talk is another
suggestion which was sent to me on the internet, -
0:48 - 0:54but please if we can stop more suggestions
on the internet because we've got enough -
0:54 - 1:00suggestions now for talks for the next year.
[laughs] -
1:00 - 1:07So maybe we can stop it for at least a month or so,
but I've added that because it makes it possible -
1:07 - 1:13to give talks for people which are relevant,
and the topic which, the first one which -
1:13 - 1:22came through was they wanted me to talk on
the Buddhist idea of karma but how we can -
1:22 - 1:26understand that, not just through belief,
but through some experience -
1:26 - 1:32or some deeper understanding,
because the problem with modern life, -
1:32 - 1:38you are asked to believe in so many things
and sometimes what we are asked to believe in -
1:38 - 1:44doesn't make much sense, and you may say
the same with the Law of Karma. -
1:44 - 1:49Do we have to believe in that or if it's
something we just have to believe in then -
1:49 - 1:55you're not going to get involved in such things,
because beliefs are very uncertain. -
1:55 - 2:01But can we really understand it much more
deeper without the need to rely upon belief? -
2:01 - 2:07And of course the first thing I always like
to impress with this Law of Karma is the -
2:07 - 2:11usual simplistic idea that kamma means if
-
2:11 - 2:15you punch your mother when you were young,
you're going to have to have, you know, -
2:15 - 2:19hay fever in your nose for the
rest of your life. [laughter] -
2:19 - 2:23Or, you know, that simplistic idea that
whatever you're experiencing now it means -
2:23 - 2:28because you've done something similar to
somebody else in the past. -
2:28 - 2:35That idea of like action and punishment is
something which never made sense to me at all. -
2:35 - 2:44So don't even just not believe in that, reject that,
because that is far too naive and simplistic. -
2:44 - 2:52And in fact, you know, when we try and find out
why this is happening to me? What did I do? -
2:52 - 2:57Or why does this always happen to me?
Is this some kamma I did in the past? -
2:57 - 3:05It's not very helpful because you can't
work out why these things are happening to you.. -
3:05 - 3:10Actually you’ll probably find out they happen
to me as well and to the person sitting next to you. -
3:10 - 3:15This is just the nature of life - these things happen!
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3:15 - 3:23So you’ve seen that on the back of the posters.
There's a lot of wisdom you see when you're -
3:23 - 3:28driving down the freeway on the back of
other people's cars, you know, that shit happens, -
3:28 - 3:35but it mostly comes from assholes
as they say [laughter]. -
3:35 - 3:42But yeah it happens and we've all got
an asshole, haven't we? [laughter] -
3:42 - 3:44It's all part of us which is
nasty and mean sometimes.. -
3:44 - 3:50But - just thinking about that,
it doesn't really help.. -
3:50 - 3:53It may for some people think
-
3:53 - 3:59“oh, why this happens is because I must’ve
done something bad in the past”. -
3:59 - 4:06That gets very negative and gets into this
thing about being bad, and so it gets into -
4:06 - 4:12the guilt trips and that's something which
I've tried to get out of my life and try to -
4:12 - 4:15encourage other people to get rid of.
-
4:15 - 4:19I'm going to say another story which is
very similar, which you've heard before, -
4:19 - 4:24but which I'm going to bring back into
this whole idea of karma, -
4:24 - 4:29about what happens when you think you’ve
got some trouble or difficulty, -
4:29 - 4:38and that was every time I went to the doctor
I felt guilty. -
4:38 - 4:43Years and years and years ago, I had,
I think, some sort of sickness and never -
4:43 - 4:47found out exactly what it was about,
over 20 years ago now, -
4:47 - 4:52the last time I was really sick..
And I went to the doctors and I was sitting -
4:52 - 4:56there in the doctor's surgery in Byford
waiting for the doctor to call me in, -
4:56 - 5:03and somebody who knew me came into the
doctor's surgery and they saw me, -
5:03 - 5:08this monk, who meditates,
who lives a nice peaceful lifestyle, -
5:08 - 5:13who doesn't get involved in the stresses
of normal life, and they looked at me and they said -
5:13 - 5:18“I never expected to see you in here!”
[laughter]. -
5:18 - 5:23And I felt really guilty - maybe I wasn't
eating enough brown rice, -
5:23 - 5:25maybe I wasn't exercising..
-
5:25 - 5:28I'm supposed to be a monk!
I'm supposed to be healthy, -
5:28 - 5:33living a good lifestyle, and he made me
feel guilty about being in a doctor's surgery. -
5:33 - 5:39Okay, if I was in a pub or a brothel
or something then and I should feel guilty [laughter], -
5:39 - 5:44but what's wrong with being in a
doctor's surgery!? It's part of life. -
5:44 - 5:51And that was the situation, the incident
where I started to teach people: -
5:51 - 5:57look there is nothing wrong with being sick!
And to make that point, -
5:57 - 6:04I've done this exercise in all these talks
I’ve been giving, asking people can you -
6:04 - 6:09please put your hand up right now
if you've never been sick in your life, -
6:09 - 6:11not once been sick.
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6:11 - 6:15Is there anybody right now who has never
been sick in their life so far? -
6:15 - 6:20And you may not see this on the internet
but there's not one person in this crowd -
6:20 - 6:26of about three hundred who’s got their hand up.
The reason is because you've all been sick in life. -
6:26 - 6:32And imagine if you've never been sick,
you've been a human being and all these years -
6:32 - 6:36you've lived you've never had a day of
sickness in your life, you would be weird, -
6:36 - 6:43you'd be so strange that the medical
establishment will get you into their -
6:43 - 6:46universities and do all sorts of tests on you.
-
6:46 - 6:49“What's wrong with you?
You haven't been sick.” -
6:49 - 6:58So the point of that simile is that
sickness is natural, sickness is ordinary, -
6:58 - 7:04in fact there must be something right
with you - you're sick again. -
7:04 - 7:10And I've been teaching that for such a
long time there are many doctors here in -
7:10 - 7:14Perth who come and tell me
“yes somebody came into our surgery today -
7:14 - 7:18and they said ‘doctor there's something
right with me, I'm sick again’, -
7:18 - 7:20it must be one of your disciples Ajahn Brahm”.
[laughter] -
7:20 - 7:27But look, the reason why we do that,
we say “doctor there's something right with me, -
7:27 - 7:36I'm sick” is to take this negativity away
from the difficulties and problems of life. -
7:36 - 7:44There's nothing wrong with being sick,
there's nothing wrong with having a problem in life. -
7:44 - 7:50But if we think it's something wrong,
that I'm being punished for a bad thing -
7:50 - 7:58I did and that's Karma. No no no.
It's not a punishment thing, -
7:58 - 8:03it's not that something's wrong.
This is part of human life. -
8:03 - 8:10You'll be sick sometimes even if you do
eat brown rice, if you are totally vegetarian, -
8:10 - 8:15if you exercise and you eat..
how many vegetables are you supposed to eat every day? -
8:15 - 8:19And pieces of fruit? Five vegetables?
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8:19 - 8:22Even if you eat six vegetables every day,
you can still get sick! -
8:22 - 8:26So the point is
there's nothing wrong with being sick, -
8:26 - 8:31even if you're a really really really
good wife, you do all the right things, -
8:31 - 8:33still your husband argues with you
[chuckles]. -
8:33 - 8:43If you bring up your kids and do all
the right things, still they drive you crazy. -
8:43 - 8:48So is there something wrong with your kids?
Is there something wrong with youth today? -
8:48 - 8:52There is nothing wrong with youth today,
that's what they're like! -
8:52 - 8:58That's what marriage is like,
there's nothing wrong with your marriage! -
8:58 - 9:06Even if you're getting divorced this weekend
[laughter], this is part of life. -
9:06 - 9:11So we don't say “there's something wrong
with me lawyer, I'm getting divorced today”, -
9:11 - 9:13“there's something right with me,
I'm getting divorced!” -
9:13 - 9:140:09:13.600,0:09:22.500
So what we're doing there is we’re accepting
these things are part of life. -
9:22 - 9:30When we say there's something wrong,
whether our marriage is broken up, what happens? -
9:30 - 9:36Guilt, anger, blame, fighting and those are
the things which I'm trying to dismantle, -
9:36 - 9:39take away from life.
No guilt, no anger, -
9:39 - 9:48to say that this is happening to me right now,
this is part of life, no more than -
9:48 - 9:51“there’s something wrong with me,
I'm sick again doctor”, -
9:51 - 9:55“there's something right with me,
I'm sick”, -
9:55 - 9:57“there's something right with me,
there's a problem in my life”, -
9:57 - 10:02“there's something right with me,
it's a difficulty of my finances.” -
10:02 - 10:08So this is taking that law of karma and
seeing it in a far deeper, much better way. -
10:08 - 10:13Not that we're blaming ourselves because
something bad we did in the past, -
10:13 - 10:19yeah it's got its causes, but the point is
when we say there's something right with me, -
10:19 - 10:23I'm having a problem in my life,
it takes away the guilt, -
10:23 - 10:26it takes away the anger
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10:26 - 10:32and why is it right - because
when it's right it gives you -
10:32 - 10:36the opportunity, embracing it,
learning from it, growing from it. -
10:36 - 10:380:10:38.200,0:10:44.500The other karma simile,
which is a very important one, -
10:44 - 10:51it was so important that the book, you know,
which I just saw the Buddhist Society, -
10:51 - 10:56what was it… the Korean edition,
it just got a $5,000 cheque this week -
10:56 - 10:59from the Korean edition of
“Opening the Door of your Heart”. -
10:59 - 11:01You're making a fortune out of me!
[laughter] -
11:01 - 11:09But in the American edition of that book
it was called -
11:09 - 11:13“Who ordered this truckload of dung?”
Instead of “Opening the Door of your Heart” -
11:13 - 11:18it had a different title,
which is important because it means that -
11:18 - 11:23people buy both books,
not realizing they're the same [laughter]. -
11:23 - 11:27Excellent marketing, but doesn’t matter,
it's all good charity work. -
11:27 - 11:33But that simile on the front of that book
which is suggesting that these things -
11:33 - 11:37which happen to us in life,
yeah there's something right with me, -
11:37 - 11:42I've got more dung now,
I've got more shit, -
11:42 - 11:51I've got more to learn from, to grow from,
and this is one of the most important things -
11:51 - 11:53about the Law of Karma -
when you're having a good time, -
11:53 - 11:55marvelous, enjoy it,
-
11:55 - 11:58there's nothing wrong with enjoying
yourself and being happy. -
11:58 - 12:04Even last week somebody came to the
monastery in Serpentine and I had to spend -
12:04 - 12:09a long time counselling them because
there was nothing going wrong in their life, -
12:09 - 12:13they're having a wonderful life and
they felt so guilty, they felt so bad, -
12:13 - 12:18they were just having a wonderful relationship,
a nice job, plenty of money, good health, -
12:18 - 12:21enjoying themselves in a peaceful country,
they felt so bad about that. -
12:21 - 12:26Come on!
I've been working hard to -
12:26 - 12:29get you into that state and now you get there,
you’re having a good life and everything -
12:29 - 12:34is going well and then you still complain!
[laughter] -
12:34 - 12:38And so I said,
“look, it's alright to be happy”, -
12:38 - 12:45and in fact some years ago I was
counseling another person having a -
12:45 - 12:50very good time but they felt guilty about it,
so on our monastery letterhead, -
12:50 - 12:53you know, nice letterhead,
Bodhinyana Monastery Serpentine, -
12:53 - 12:58I typed out a letter and I signed it,
and it was a license. -
12:58 - 13:02I said this is a happiness license
-
13:02 - 13:06“I, Ajahn Brahm, Spiritual Director of
the Buddhist Society of Western Australia -
13:06 - 13:09hereby grant you permission to be happy”
and I signed that for her [laughs], -
13:09 - 13:16so they could put it on their wall and
they can remind themselves -
13:16 - 13:22actually there’s nothing wrong with being happy.
Don't feel guilty about that. -
13:22 - 13:28So the happiness, it’s karma or something,
whatever, here it is, enjoy it, -
13:28 - 13:35have fun with it, don't worry about it.
And if you can enjoy that happiness then -
13:35 - 13:40you maybe also be able to say the same thing
about giving yourself permission -
13:40 - 13:42to have a problem as well.
-
13:42 - 13:49There's nothing wrong with that either,
both are this wonderful thing called life, -
13:49 - 13:53they're part of life, so we love the
whole lot - having happiness - great. -
13:53 - 13:57When you're having difficulty -
learn from it, grow from it. -
13:57 - 14:02It is shit, it smells, it stinks,
that's what some people think, -
14:02 - 14:08but it's great for your fertilizer
for your garden. -
14:08 - 14:14We have a big compost pile in our monastery.
All the excess food which doesn't -
14:14 - 14:20get eaten we put it in that compost pile
and we get some manure from the prison farm -
14:20 - 14:25up the road and we dig it in there,
and some of these people they love getting -
14:25 - 14:29in the compost, digging all the shit up
and they stink for days but they love it, -
14:29 - 14:36so it must be something about shit which
is quite lovable, and adorable, -
14:36 - 14:42and they love it because they know that
that's going to make this beautiful garden -
14:42 - 14:48and that was the whole point of
that truckload of dung simile. -
14:48 - 14:52That when things actually happen in life,
instead of blaming, -
14:52 - 14:57“oh it's my kamma, I've done terrible things,
stupid me, why did I do this?” -
14:57 - 15:04and getting depressed,
in other words getting guilt and -
15:04 - 15:09shoving it all on yourself,
or the other one, getting angry and bitter, -
15:09 - 15:14“it's his fault, it's her fault,
it's the government’s fault, -
15:14 - 15:16it's a system fault,
down with the system!” -
15:16 - 15:20No, that's not part of Buddhism.
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15:20 - 15:23We don't believe in suicide bombers.
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15:23 - 15:25Actually there's a joke about suicide bombers.
-
15:25 - 15:32In the suicide bomber training camp,
somewhere in this sort of the Middle East, -
15:32 - 15:38on the last lesson the instructor called
all these potential suicide bombers together -
15:38 - 15:43and said “I'm now going to demonstrate
the suicide vest and please listen carefully -
15:43 - 15:52because I'm only going to tell you this once”.
[laughter] -
15:52 - 15:57Anyway if you don't understand then ask
a person who laughed sitting next to you. -
15:57 - 16:04Can only do a practical demonstration once, okay.
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16:04 - 16:09Anyway back to the...what was I telling anyway,
I just got lost in my jokes.. -
16:09 - 16:16But yeah back to the story about the shits,
the difficulties in life, instead of just -
16:16 - 16:21getting angry at yourself or angry at others
which causes all this violence in this world, -
16:21 - 16:28we accept this and the real law of karma,
the one you don't have to have faith in, -
16:28 - 16:33you don't have to believe in,
the one you can try out and my goodness -
16:33 - 16:37it really works, say
“Here I am with this difficult problem, -
16:37 - 16:42it's shitty, it's difficult
but what can I do about it? -
16:42 - 16:47What can I do with it?”
And you'll find out once you embrace -
16:47 - 16:49the problems in life
and the happiness in life -
16:49 - 16:54and embrace both, this is life,
enjoy the problems and -
16:54 - 16:57work with the difficulties,
dig them in, make something happen, -
16:57 - 17:04and you'll find that the difficulties
and problems in life that is where you -
17:04 - 17:09really really grow and become this
incredibly powerful wise compassionate being. -
17:09 - 17:14And it's not just for others,
it's for yourself as well. -
17:14 - 17:19It's the shit which grows the flowers and
which gives the sweetness to the fruit and -
17:19 - 17:23gives all the scents in a garden.
That's what happens. -
17:23 - 17:31So the Law of Karma means
“what am I doing with what I've got”? -
17:31 - 17:34And the other nice thing about the
law of karma which I've been really -
17:34 - 17:41pushing recently is
where is karma made? -
17:41 - 17:47The whole idea of karma is a cause-and-effect,
it gives you a sense of control, -
17:47 - 17:52especially your past you can’t do much
about your past, it’s finished, -
17:52 - 17:56it's done, you all know that,
but your future lies ahead of you and -
17:56 - 18:01you've got this whole vista of possibilities.
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18:01 - 18:09Now some of you think oh, not me,
I can't do this, I've stuffed up all my life, -
18:09 - 18:13I'm going to stuff up again,
that is not the law of karma. -
18:13 - 18:17The law of karma is
“here I am, come to this particular spot -
18:17 - 18:24and the law of karma means you can make
anything out of what you've got”. -
18:24 - 18:26Out of shit you can make a garden,
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18:26 - 18:30out of happiness you can make
so many other people happy. -
18:30 - 18:36Whatever you have to deal with,
the future is totally open to you. -
18:36 - 18:39When I realised that,
I realised that my goodness, -
18:39 - 18:42I am not restricted or limited at all.
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18:42 - 18:48The possibilities of your life are
totally open and free. -
18:48 - 18:53And sometimes I've collected stories
of amazing things which happen to people. -
18:53 - 18:59One of these stories that I was talking
about to some of the monks earlier -
18:59 - 19:04about a week or two ago,
because it was this story of this young -
19:04 - 19:09guy who was run away when he was very very young,
and he reminded me of this story which -
19:09 - 19:16I read in a newspaper or magazine about
this little kid in Los Angeles who ran away -
19:16 - 19:23when he was only five years of age.
And he ran away because he was being sort of -
19:23 - 19:30hurt by his friends and he'd been beaten
by the people supposed to be looking after him. -
19:30 - 19:35He ran away and he lived on the streets of
Los Angeles from the time he was 5 years of age. -
19:35 - 19:42He was a survivor and obviously to survive,
you know, he had to get into petty crime -
19:42 - 19:47and he went into some juvenile detention
many times and one thing led to another - -
19:47 - 19:55he became a career criminal and in and out
of jail on petty crimes and the event which -
19:55 - 20:01totally turned his life around,
he was at the end of one sentence in one of -
20:01 - 20:08the terrible prisons in California and
he had a case officer who was preparing him -
20:08 - 20:14for his parole, trying to find him a job.
You know, what sort of job can you get to -
20:14 - 20:18a person's been in and out of jail
for such a long time? -
20:18 - 20:20You can understand why,
five years of age, -
20:20 - 20:24no sort-of family to look after him,
and he survived. -
20:24 - 20:30But anyway,
that his case officer was trying to find a -
20:30 - 20:34job for him and she knew a friend,
now this was Los Angeles, -
20:34 - 20:40who was trying to make a movie,
and it was like most of these movies, -
20:40 - 20:43this director was not,
or the producer was not well known at -
20:43 - 20:47the time and he wanted to make a movie,
gangster movie, -
20:47 - 20:54but they wanted to make it authentic,
so that she talked this producer into hiring -
20:54 - 20:58this guy as a consultant about
how real gangsters speak. -
20:58 - 21:04You know that was one thing he really knew,
he'd been a gangster all his life, -
21:04 - 21:08lived on the streets,
so he knew the language, authentic. -
21:08 - 21:15So he was released from jail and he advised
in this movie about the language of gangsters, -
21:15 - 21:19the producer was quite impressed with him
and actually gave him a part in the movie. -
21:19 - 21:26The director was called Quentin Tarantino,
it was his first big break “Reservoir Dogs”, -
21:26 - 21:29apparently a very violent movie,
I've never seen it obviously, -
21:29 - 21:38but this guy came out of prison,
made a few million dollars out of that movie -
21:38 - 21:44and about six months after he was released from jail,
was living in Malibu, in this big mansion -
21:44 - 21:47and he married this beautiful parole officer
and he said he can't believe it, -
21:47 - 21:54sort of six months ago he was in jail with
absolutely nothing, now he’s a millionaire -
21:54 - 21:57living with other film stars
with a beautiful wife and he said just how -
21:57 - 21:59life can turn around so quickly.
-
21:59 - 22:05He was obviously in the right place at
the right time but he made use of what he knew, -
22:05 - 22:12and I kind of like that story because that
was actually showing just how, you know, -
22:12 - 22:16your career, your life can just turn
on a dime as they say, -
22:16 - 22:20you just don't know what's going to happen next.
-
22:20 - 22:24You can't predict it,
amazing things happen in life. -
22:24 - 22:31So that is what the law of karma means -
keep all options open. -
22:31 - 22:34You can do anything with
what you've got right now. -
22:34 - 22:42The point is because it's possible,
that's why you do the very best you can, -
22:42 - 22:44there's no such thing as hopelessness.
-
22:44 - 22:49Incredibly powerful, positive,
you can do anything. -
22:49 - 23:00So where do you do your karma? Right now.
This is a place your future is being made, -
23:00 - 23:05and probably most people they worry
about the future, they're anxious about it, -
23:05 - 23:11they go to fortune tellers trying to predict
the future and while they're going to -
23:11 - 23:15a fortune-teller, while they're being anxious,
while they're worrying about the future, -
23:15 - 23:22they're not doing anything about their future,
which is why we keep stuffing up. -
23:22 - 23:30So what I understand about the law of karma is,
karma is what I am doing right now about my future. -
23:30 - 23:38So what can I do about my future?
I can right now, as a monk, be peaceful, -
23:38 - 23:45be kind, be compassionate, be caring,
be friendly, be soft, get rid of all this -
23:45 - 23:50negativity which is going to create
a terrible future for myself if I'm negative, -
23:50 - 23:54blaming, and sort of angry at people,
if I keep thinking -
23:54 - 23:59“Why do I always have to come and give
a talk on a Friday night?? -
23:59 - 24:07Why do I have to work during the holidays??
Everybody else is having time off.. -
24:07 - 24:12Every time since I landed on Christmas Eve
I've been working every day, -
24:12 - 24:17answering people's problems..
Why me?? Moan moan moan.” -
24:17 - 24:22People can do that!
-
24:22 - 24:27“Why can't I retire?? I'm over 60 now,
I've worked long enough as a monk, -
24:27 - 24:31but I'm going to have to keep working
till I'm 70, till I'm 80, -
24:31 - 24:36that's when life really starts for
a holy person.” [laughs] -
24:36 - 24:41So it's very easy to moan isn't it
and get negative? -
24:41 - 24:46And I can do negativity if you really want to,
but no, I'm not going to ruin -
24:46 - 24:51my present moment and my future by looking
at it with these dark glasses. -
24:51 - 24:56So instead, I realised that I am making
my future right now. -
24:56 - 25:01If I wanna have a happy future,
if I'm gonna have a happy weekend, -
25:01 - 25:04the weekend starts now,
right now in this moment, -
25:04 - 25:09so I'm going to be peaceful,
I'm going to be kind, compassionate. -
25:09 - 25:13Compassion is a beautiful things because
once you start it now, it's like a fire, -
25:13 - 25:17like one of these wildfires,
it takes off, you know, -
25:17 - 25:19all these bushfires you see in Australia,
it starts from a little spark, -
25:19 - 25:25one little spark of kindness
and it takes off this whole bushfire, -
25:25 - 25:31information of kindness in society,
now this bushfire is international, -
25:31 - 25:36the bush fire of compassion spreading,
and being kind to yourself, -
25:36 - 25:38being kind to others,
being forgiving for goodness sake. -
25:38 - 25:44Why am I going to destroy my future by
carrying around the pain of the past? -
25:44 - 25:50I'm not going to do that.
Right now in this moment, -
25:50 - 25:55this is a time I'm going to let go and forgive,
right now this is the only time I've got, -
25:55 - 26:00all that shit of the past bye-bye,
down the toilet where it belongs, -
26:00 - 26:06flush gurgle gurgle bye-bye -
to be free and I do this right now because -
26:06 - 26:11now is the place my future's being made,
that's karma. -
26:11 - 26:17Karma means work, it's making things happen.
You don't make things happen tomorrow or -
26:17 - 26:22next week - now - and understanding
the power of that, -
26:22 - 26:26this is the time to transform,
this is the time you let go, -
26:26 - 26:29this is the time you're free.
-
26:29 - 26:31And once you are free,
once you walk out of jail, -
26:31 - 26:35you're out of jail forever.
So get out of jail tonight, right now, -
26:35 - 26:39at twenty seven minutes past eight
Western Standard Time. [laughs] -
26:39 - 26:41Now.
When you learn how to do this, -
26:41 - 26:50now that is Karma and if you try that
you know that works, -
26:50 - 26:55your future gets happier and happier,
-
26:55 - 26:59and it's also, problem comes, great!
Shit, let's learn from this. -
26:59 - 27:04So whatever happens in your life,
whatever occurs to you, -
27:04 - 27:08instead of saying there's something wrong
and getting negative, -
27:08 - 27:12it’s something right with me,
I've got a problem again, -
27:12 - 27:16there’s something right with me,
I have to come and give a talk -
27:16 - 27:19on another Friday night,
there's something right with me, -
27:19 - 27:24someone's coming to ask me this counselling,
there’s something right with me, -
27:24 - 27:29after the talk people line up,
“Ajahn Brahm, can you please help on my marriage”. -
27:29 - 27:35I say “Why me? I’ve become a monk,
I've never been married, -
27:35 - 27:42why'd you ask me these silly questions?”
[laughter] I mean come on! I don't mind. -
27:42 - 27:47So that way, whatever, that's actually how
I learn, listen to all your problems. -
27:47 - 27:53You know, I learn much more about marriage
than if I ever got married [laughter], -
27:53 - 27:58without the suffering and the pain.
So you learn a lot that way. -
27:58 - 28:01So this way whatever happens to you
in life, you accept. -
28:01 - 28:09So be wary the next time you use the word “wrong”,
stop and say “no, there's something right.” -
28:09 - 28:16“I made a mistake.”
That's the other thing, making mistakes in life, -
28:16 - 28:22how many of you have never made a mistake?
Many people who say they've never made -
28:22 - 28:27a mistake are either liars or they’re
demented, they've forgotten. [laughter] -
28:27 - 28:31Yeah we've all made mistakes.
-
28:31 - 28:35What happens when you make a mistake?
When you do something really stupid? -
28:35 - 28:39Do you feel embarrassed?
No, when you make a mistake, -
28:39 - 28:43something’s right, you’re a human being.
-
28:43 - 28:48Isn't that wonderful that when you make a
mistake and other people make a mistake, -
28:48 - 28:52you think “Wow! They're the same as me.”
Isn't that great. -
28:52 - 28:59We're allowed to make mistakes.
That takes away a lot of guilt -
28:59 - 29:05and more importantly fear.
-
29:05 - 29:09At work if you make a mistake
what happens to you? -
29:09 - 29:13You get told off, you lose your job.
Not in Bodhinyana Monastery where I live, -
29:13 - 29:14when people make a mistake,
-
29:14 - 29:18“Well done, you’ve made a mistake,
you're human.” -
29:18 - 29:22That's actually why the place is a mess,
too many monks. [laughter] -
29:22 - 29:24It’s not a mess, it’s a very happy place,
but sometimes it could be cleaner, -
29:24 - 29:30it could be more painted,
it could be this.. -
29:30 - 29:36A lot of people always give us advice on
just how to make the compost this way, -
29:36 - 29:37and make this that way, and that way.
-
29:37 - 29:41But you know the thing which I'm
most proud about, -
29:41 - 29:44and I am proud about monasteries which
we have here in the Buddhist Society, -
29:44 - 29:51the thing I'm most proud about this place
is that people feel welcome. -
29:51 - 29:53You don't have to be perfect,
-
29:53 - 29:57you don't have to sit like Buddhists
in the correct posture. -
29:57 - 30:01Oh look, stop it,
as soon as I mentioned posture a few -
30:01 - 30:05people started to lean up..
No, why do you feel so guilty about -
30:05 - 30:09not being in the right posture?
-
30:09 - 30:13Or they don't bow.
Please if you don't want to bow don't bow, -
30:13 - 30:13don't feel guilty about anything,
there’s nothing wrong with not bowing, -
30:13 - 30:18there’s nothing wrong with whatever you do,
there’s nothing wrong with the kids sort of crying. -
30:18 - 30:22There was one time here,
I will never forget this, -
30:22 - 30:24there was a lady over in the corner there
fell asleep during one of my talks -
30:24 - 30:32and started snoring. [laughter]
Is there something wrong about that? -
30:32 - 30:36The thing which was a mistake was when
somebody tried to wake her up, -
30:36 - 30:42and I told them afterwards, that woman,
because, you know, she told me that she -
30:42 - 30:48was one of these unfortunate victims of
domestic abuse and she was so afraid -
30:48 - 30:54in her house, you know, she was not sleeping,
so tense, and she came here in this room -
30:54 - 31:01here and this was the first place in weeks
where she felt safe. -
31:01 - 31:06I thought that's great, it's not just the talks,
it's the atmosphere you create here, -
31:06 - 31:11that's even more important than whatever we say.
The fact that she could feel safe here and -
31:11 - 31:14she could lay down and
she could actually fall asleep, -
31:14 - 31:18I thought wow what a great achievement of
the Buddhist Society of Western Australia, -
31:18 - 31:23that you could give that feeling of
safety and kindness and she could fall asleep, -
31:23 - 31:27and somebody woke her up,
that was a mistake, never do that again, -
31:27 - 31:30let her sleep, she needed it.
-
31:30 - 31:38Now that's what I call like making good karma.
There's nothing wrong and if you think -
31:38 - 31:42there’s something wrong, you disturb
a person who really needs to sleep. -
31:42 - 31:46Sometimes you make what people call mistakes,
and how many times you've been told off -
31:46 - 31:49and then “what did I do wrong?
-
31:49 - 31:54I was just...okay, I just made an error,
made a slip but that's who I am.” -
31:54 - 32:00And it's so nice to be actually accepted
and loved and realise, -
32:00 - 32:03no you haven't made anything wrong,
you made a mistake, -
32:03 - 32:07but there's nothing wrong
with making a mistake. -
32:07 - 32:11So number one we don't hide our mistakes,
we face up to them and learn from them. -
32:11 - 32:14We don't think “no no that wasn't me,
I didn't do that.” -
32:14 - 32:16How many times,
we got this thing in our monastery, -
32:16 - 32:18when something goes wrong or
something goes missing -
32:18 - 32:21we blame the kangaroos.
Those kangaroos again, -
32:22 - 32:26they’ve stolen my cloth,
they’ve taken it... [laughs] -
32:26 - 32:30That's why they've got these big pockets,
you know, that's what happens, -
32:30 - 32:36you should look in those pockets sometimes.
[laughter] -
32:36 - 32:41There was a time, years ago..
You know, your shoes you leave outside, -
32:41 - 32:44you know the advice we always give you,
you bring shoes to a Buddhist temple, -
32:44 - 32:49don't bring expensive designer shoes,
because somebody's going to look at theirs -
32:49 - 32:53and look at yours and think
“no I'll take yours thank you.” [laughter] -
32:53 - 33:00But there was the time here when people
were losing shoes but it was really weird, -
33:00 - 33:07it was only one, one shoe of the pair.
And this was happening for weeks, -
33:07 - 33:11it's a true story,
we wondered what was going on? -
33:11 - 33:14Was it a one-legged man?
We're looking at all the people with one leg -
33:14 - 33:17coming in here stealing shoes…
[laughter] -
33:17 - 33:19And then we found out the answer,
it was actually the dog next door. [laughter] -
33:19 - 33:24You were in here, the dog was coming in,
he had some fetish for shoes, -
33:24 - 33:30because the owner looked in its kennel and
the kennel was half full of shoes from you people. -
33:30 - 33:34[laughter]
Look, the dog had just snuck up, -
33:34 - 33:37taken a shoe back every Friday night and
after only a couple of months of that, -
33:37 - 33:38had a kennel full of shoes.
So was that wrong? -
33:38 - 33:48Ah, that’s just a dog
that was a bit screwed up, -
33:48 - 33:53I don't know, but it's just a dog being a dog,
collecting things, you know, -
33:53 - 33:56you collect things,
dogs collects things, -
33:56 - 33:58but you can't, can you blame the dog?
-
33:58 - 34:02There's nothing wrong,
it's just a dog being weird that's all. -
34:02 - 34:06Humans, you guys are weird,
so I don't see why dogs can't be weird. -
34:06 - 34:09But what we’re actually doing there is
realising that yeah, it's okay to make mistakes. -
34:09 - 34:18And the psychology of that is actually
people make less mistakes when they're allowed to. -
34:18 - 34:23When you're so terrified of making mistakes,
we call it walking on eggshells. -
34:23 - 34:29When you walk on eggshells you're not relaxed,
you can't perform to your highest and -
34:29 - 34:31that is why people make so many mistakes.
-
34:31 - 34:36So look, and I know I’ve said it before,
that sometimes the Buddhist Society -
34:36 - 34:38of Western Australia on a Friday night
is the best singles club in Western Australia, -
34:38 - 34:44people come up to find somebody to date.
But if you are, [laughs], -
34:44 - 34:50if you are sort of going out with the person,
please tell each other -
34:50 - 34:55“look, you know, girlfriend, boyfriend,
you're allowed to make a mistake.” -
34:55 - 34:59Tell them that from the beginning
so they can relax okay. -
34:59 - 35:02And when you relax you have
a much better time together. -
35:02 - 35:06You can be yourself.
-
35:06 - 35:08When you're so so uptight and
you don't want to make a mistake, -
35:08 - 35:10you don't want to say the wrong thing,
do the wrong thing, -
35:10 - 35:13ah that's just such a terrible time out together.
-
35:13 - 35:18And when you get married,
tell your darling husband, -
35:18 - 35:23“husband you are allowed to make a mistake,
promise. Ajahn Brahm told me.” -
35:23 - 35:27Even get a piece of paper,
you’re allowed to, and the wife, -
35:27 - 35:32you’re allowed to make mistakes,
so you can really relax in life and understand. -
35:32 - 35:34Trust people,
they're trying to do their best. -
35:34 - 35:38Each one of you, come on,
you really are trying hard -
35:38 - 35:41to do your best in life.
When you go to work you try -
35:41 - 35:44to do the best for the company,
sometimes you make mistakes, -
35:44 - 35:47but trust people,
they really want to do their best -
35:47 - 35:52and most people are like that,
-
35:52 - 35:57even these guys I’ve seen in jail,
in prison, give them a chance. -
35:57 - 36:02They want to do good,
they’re trying to do the best in life -
36:02 - 36:04but sometimes the odds are stacked against them,
and it's so difficult but underneath -
36:04 - 36:06they really want to do good,
they want to be nice people. -
36:06 - 36:10It’s just so tough doing it,
the whole society is pushing them, -
36:10 - 36:13you know, in the opposite direction.
-
36:13 - 36:17So when you actually trust a person,
allow them to make mistakes, -
36:17 - 36:19they don't make so many,
they're not afraid. -
36:19 - 36:27It's that fear, guilt, punishment,
that's the sort of stuff which messes up -
36:27 - 36:32your life and other people's lives.
That is bad karma, -
36:32 - 36:38making mistakes is not bad karma,
being afraid is. -
36:38 - 36:44Getting angry is bad karma,
getting guilty that is bad karma, -
36:44 - 36:46blaming is bad karma.
-
36:46 - 36:50Accepting, embracing, compassion, learning,
looking at these things as shit, -
36:50 - 36:54digging them in, that's good kamma.
-
36:54 - 37:01And I don't think you need to have faith in that,
I think you can all understand it, -
37:01 - 37:06and you can try it out.
And my goodness, it really really works. -
37:06 - 37:11Try that out with your kids, I don't know,
they may have got their results from their -
37:11 - 37:16year 12 exams or other exams,
please don't ever sort-of blame your kids, -
37:16 - 37:21“stupid kid, terrible kid, bad kid,
you made too many mistakes in your exams.” -
37:21 - 37:27Oh, come on! That just makes them really
feel so guilty and so terrible. -
37:27 - 37:31That may have happened to you in your life,
well how does that feel? -
37:31 - 37:36You feel so rejected, you feel a failure
and you're only sort of 17 years of age, -
37:36 - 37:41you're already a failure in life..
Terrible thing. -
37:41 - 37:46No, just really build them up,
that's why I give you tricks to build them up. -
37:46 - 37:51If your kid in year 12 who just got
their exam results, -
37:51 - 38:01if they came in the top 5% or the bottom 5%,
they're bad Buddhists, [laughs] -
38:01 - 38:06they're not good Buddhists,
because what do Buddhists believe in? -
38:06 - 38:10Middle Way. Yeah.
so they come in the middle somewhere, -
38:10 - 38:15you're a really good Buddhist. [laughter]
In the middle, you know, -
38:15 - 38:23the big ordinary people in the middle there,
they are the best. -
38:23 - 38:27The people who’ve come in the top 5%
are a bit weird aren’t they? -
38:27 - 38:30The bottom 5%,
a bit weird.. -
38:30 - 38:32No they’re not, whatever, well done,
you worked really hard. -
38:32 - 38:36If you've got all those good marks well done,
enjoy it, you deserve it. -
38:36 - 38:40If you haven't got those good marks,
well done, -
38:40 - 38:44sort of more shit for your garden.
[laughter] -
38:44 - 38:46Embrace everything.
-
38:46 - 38:51So when we say it’s mistakes of course
that is where the problem comes. -
38:51 - 38:54Guilt, fear,
“I don't want to make the mistake again”, -
38:54 - 38:57makes you tense which means
you can't perform well. -
38:57 - 39:05So the real calm I'm talking about is
understanding it's not what you're experiencing, -
39:05 - 39:09the difficulties, the problems,
the happiness, the joy, -
39:09 - 39:13whatever you're experiencing in life,
it's how you're experiencing it, -
39:13 - 39:18that is the source of karma,
that is where karma lives. -
39:18 - 39:23So you're going through a divorce,
that's part of life, it happens, -
39:23 - 39:27how are you going through that divorce,
how are you doing this? -
39:27 - 39:32With anger, with guilt,
thinking this is a big mistake in life, -
39:32 - 39:39no no it's just, this is part of life,
it's part of your life.. -
39:39 - 39:43By being sick,
there's nothing wrong with this, -
39:43 - 39:47it happens, learn from it, grow from it,
become better but don't get -
39:47 - 39:51into guilt and anger,
that is the bad karma. -
39:51 - 39:53You're going through
another problem in life, -
39:53 - 39:59you're getting a cancer or
you have some death in the family, -
39:59 - 40:03that's not bad karma
but if you really get into solid grief -
40:03 - 40:07about this, into denial, into anger,
“why did this happen”, -
40:07 - 40:09looking for somebody to blame,
blaming yourself, -
40:09 - 40:13“I should have looked after my mum,
maybe I should've gone and called a doctor earlier”, -
40:13 - 40:15that sort of stuff,
that's bad karma. -
40:15 - 40:23It's the way you relate to life,
not life itself. -
40:23 - 40:27Because the way life happens,
you just have to do a survey, -
40:27 - 40:32you know, people die.
Is there anything wrong with dying? -
40:32 - 40:41Is there anything wrong with cancer?
It’s part of life, we accept, embrace. -
40:41 - 40:45If it hurts, shit,
we're going to make something out of this. -
40:45 - 40:50If you're having a great time, wonderful,
we enjoy it. -
40:50 - 40:56But guilt, anger, denial, blaming,
especially blaming ourselves, -
40:56 - 41:00that is a problem,
that is the bad karma, -
41:00 - 41:04that is a cause for most of
the misery in this life. -
41:04 - 41:09Look, when you think it's bad,
that's why people don't get checked up in time, -
41:09 - 41:13because they're afraid, they think it's bad,
it's terrible, -
41:13 - 41:17that's why people just get so into denial
when someone's close to death, -
41:17 - 41:22we think “no no they can't die,
they're too young to die, -
41:22 - 41:27they're only 90!”
[laughter] -
41:27 - 41:30I collect all these quotes.
There’s this quote of a person -
41:30 - 41:33who was 90 years of age,
never had much sickness in their life, -
41:33 - 41:34in the United States.
-
41:34 - 41:36I mean these are the quotes
which I always collect, -
41:36 - 41:40one of the healthiest people you could imagine,
they went to have a check-up when -
41:40 - 41:43they were in their early 90s,
they discovered a tumor, -
41:43 - 41:49and they came out of the hospital saying
“why me?” [laughter] -
41:49 - 41:5290 years of age!
You got away with it and now you say -
41:52 - 41:55“why me?”
But that's actually what we'd all say, -
41:55 - 41:57isn't it, if we don't really understand
the law of Karma. -
41:57 - 42:04The law of karma is happening right now,
you are making your future, right now, -
42:04 - 42:10by the attitude you have to
what's happening in your life. -
42:10 - 42:12You say this is wrong,
-
42:12 - 42:14there’s something wrong with me,
I'm sick. -
42:14 - 42:17There’s something wrong with me,
the relationship is not working out, -
42:17 - 42:21there’s something wrong with me,
my career is not going well. -
42:21 - 42:27That is the bad karma there,
the attitude you have to what happens in life. -
42:27 - 42:30The good karma,
“yeah this is happening, -
42:30 - 42:32now how can I learn with this,
how can I deal with this, -
42:32 - 42:33let's make something out of this.”
-
42:33 - 42:38It's like a very simple saying which when I read it,
I think as a student, -
42:38 - 42:42it’s an old Chinese saying,
I wrote it down and I remembered this -
42:42 - 42:47for the rest of my life,
the old Chinese saying -
42:47 - 42:52“it's better to light a candle
than complain about darkness”. -
42:52 - 42:56It's a very beautiful,
very simple saying which encapsulates -
42:56 - 42:58all which I've taught this evening.
-
42:58 - 43:03It's better to light a candle
than complain about darkness. -
43:03 - 43:07So whatever you want to complain about
in life: your husband, -
43:07 - 43:10your wife, your kids,
your mother-in-law, -
43:10 - 43:12people actually do point this out,
-
43:12 - 43:13your father-in-law,
I can't be sexist anymore, -
43:13 - 43:14not just mothers-in-law,
fathers-in-law, -
43:14 - 43:22monks, nuns, whatever it is,
instead of complaining, -
43:22 - 43:28light a candle and that's amazing thing,
there's always many candles around to light, -
43:28 - 43:32there's always something you can do,
something positive, -
43:32 - 43:35and sometimes just embracing and learning.
-
43:35 - 43:39Sometimes people ask you
what is the meaning of life? -
43:39 - 43:45Such a simple answer to a very deep question:
it's learning, it’s growing. -
43:45 - 43:55Life is work in progress.
Your life, your progress, how are you growing? -
43:55 - 44:02I don't mean just growing in size
or in your bank account or whatever, -
44:02 - 44:09I'm growing in size, [laughter]
but I have to grow in size to accommodate -
44:09 - 44:16my heart which is growing and growing
and growing, [laughter], the compassion. -
44:16 - 44:20So now I’m talking about you growing
your wisdom, you growing your compassion, -
44:20 - 44:22you’re growing your understanding of life,
and of course that is the meaning of life. -
44:22 - 44:27And I think you don't need to believe that,
you understand that. -
44:27 - 44:33So in the past year how much have you learnt?
How much have you grown? -
44:33 - 44:36How much a wiser,
kinder person have you become? -
44:36 - 44:42That's the meaning of life.
So how do you become wise, -
44:42 - 44:46how do you become kind,
how do you understand things? -
44:46 - 44:49Right now is where you do this.
-
44:49 - 44:55This is where you build the happiness,
even the health, -
44:55 - 44:59and the compassion,
the wisdom and everything in life, -
44:59 - 45:05this is where karma is made,
right now. -
45:05 - 45:09And understanding that you don't only know
the meaning of life, -
45:09 - 45:14you know the secret of life,
where it's hidden. -
45:14 - 45:19People look for the secret of life
in the future with all your plans and -
45:19 - 45:22expectations and what you're going to
achieve next, where you're going to go, -
45:22 - 45:25you look for the secret there,
you never find anything. -
45:25 - 45:30You look for the secret in the past,
searching over all the things which have -
45:30 - 45:35ever happened to try to find meaning
from the mistakes of the past - -
45:35 - 45:39you never find anything except just
anger and guilt and negativity. -
45:39 - 45:46You only find the meaning of life right now,
this is where the secret is. -
45:46 - 45:52The secret is not a book,
the secret is in this moment here, -
45:52 - 45:53absolutely for free.
-
45:53 - 46:00I remember this Zen teacher,
she wrote this book and I love the cover, -
46:00 - 46:04the title of the book, she called it
“Selling Water by the River” [laughter]. -
46:04 - 46:08It's a very beautiful title
“selling water by the river”. -
46:08 - 46:13I think it's an old Zen story.
It's stupid isn’t it? -
46:13 - 46:16You know, it's a river there,
get your own water, but still, you know, -
46:16 - 46:20sharp people: “Do you want some water?
You want some water?” -
46:20 - 46:24That's why we don't sell anything here
because I feel terrible selling things, -
46:24 - 46:26because it’s all for free, it’s right here,
right now, available for you. -
46:26 - 46:31Truth is like the air,
no one could own it. -
46:31 - 46:35Not Buddhism,
not Christianity, -
46:35 - 46:38not Islam,
not philosophy, -
46:38 - 46:40not atheism,
no one can own the air. -
46:40 - 46:45We all share it.
You can pollute the air, -
46:45 - 46:50and people can pollute truth,
but still there's enough truth out there, -
46:50 - 46:54just needs to be breathed in,
it's right there, -
46:54 - 46:58in front of your nose,
the truth of now. -
46:58 - 47:00That is how I understand karma.
-
47:00 - 47:05So thank you for listening to this talk.
-
47:05 - 47:13Now all those people in the far reaches of
the universe, any questions please SMS them. -
47:13 - 47:19But first of all our local crowd,
is there any questions about the talk this evening? -
47:19 - 47:28Okay we're going to get some questions
from the Internet, from Ian Ternet. -
47:28 - 47:33Okay, and we can see where this is from.
That’s why I finished a bit earlier -
47:33 - 47:37so we can get the international questions
and also from you guys as well. -
47:37 - 47:40Denis Shephard: Okay if there's anybody
here who’d like to ask a question, -
47:40 - 47:43certainly encourage you to do that,
but if you wouldn't mind just to wait for -
47:43 - 47:47the roving microphone that'll come to you,
but if you just put your hand up, -
47:47 - 47:50if you've got a question and we'll come
to you with the microphone and then -
47:50 - 47:51everything will run seamlessly.
-
47:51 - 47:55Ajahn Brahm, Agnes from Dubai has asked
how do you motivate people who have no will to live? -
47:55 - 48:03Ajan Brahm: How do you motivate people
who have no will to live? -
48:03 - 48:10Well look, if you want to teach them about
reincarnation, so like you live here, -
48:10 - 48:13if you die here you
just get reborn again anyway, -
48:13 - 48:19so you can't get out of life that easy..
[laughter] -
48:19 - 48:24So if there was an easy way
I'd have taken it years ago. [laughter] -
48:24 - 48:30So here you are,
instead of having the will to live, -
48:30 - 48:36just having the will to
be compassionate, to be kind. -
48:36 - 48:41So if you could actually state about life and say..
because will to live is -
48:41 - 48:44the fear of the future and
they’ve just had enough, -
48:44 - 48:49and they can't see any positivity or any hope,
and hopefully the talk which I've given -
48:49 - 48:54this evening was actually saying there's
nothing wrong with life. -
48:54 - 48:58Life has always been like this,
you know, if you read history, -
48:58 - 49:02it's always been pretty much the same.
-
49:02 - 49:06You know, years ago I hadn’t read a newspaper
for a couple of years when I was in Thailand, -
49:06 - 49:09actually longer than that, about four or
five years I hadn't seen any newspaper. -
49:09 - 49:12When I saw my first newspaper after
four or five years break, -
49:12 - 49:15I realised all the stories were exactly the same.
-
49:15 - 49:20They just changed the names of the countries,
the names of the people, -
49:20 - 49:26but the storylines were always the same -
violence, wars, sex, corruption, exactly the same. -
49:26 - 49:31So the world does never change,
it’s just people's attitudes. -
49:31 - 49:36So see if we can change our attitude
towards our life and then -
49:36 - 49:44we can find it very rich.
It's so rich we never really want to give it away. -
49:44 - 49:50So I don't know if that answers
your question in Dubai, but you know, -
49:50 - 49:55certainly that the will to live
is actually the will to be kind. -
49:55 - 50:00Sometimes they ask, what actually motivates
you Ajahn Brahm, and it’s just.. -
50:00 - 50:05Actually there’s hardly any motivation
there at all, it’s just ‘being’. -
50:05 - 50:10Because the will to live,
you know, what do you mean “the will to live”, -
50:10 - 50:13just take away the will to live,
the will to die, -
50:13 - 50:16the will to go anywhere and just be.
-
50:16 - 50:22It's much more fun when you don't have any plans.
Anyway, hopefully that makes some sense. -
50:22 - 50:28Denis: Thank you Ajahn Brahm
I hope that satisfies Agnes. -
50:28 - 50:34And Reinbart from Germany,
this is a little bit of a curly one for -
50:34 - 50:40you Ajahn and a bit off the topic but
how can animals improve their kamma? -
50:40 - 50:46Ajahn: How can animals improve their karma,
there's one of my friends over in Melbourne, -
50:46 - 50:50now that's Priya Mendes [?] and she’s got
this big dog and it was Labrador wasn’t it, -
50:50 - 50:59and when I saw it, I said “what's its name”
and she gave it the name, she's a doctor, -
50:59 - 51:03she gave it the name “Chemo”.
Chemo the dog, -
51:03 - 51:05that's a really weird name,
why do you name it Chemo? -
51:05 - 51:11She said “because I'm training this dog to
be one of these dogs who goes into wards -
51:11 - 51:17with people who are very, very sick,
because we all know that if you take a -
51:17 - 51:22little dog or a cat or a rabbit into a
ward where people are very sick, -
51:22 - 51:27just being able to pet that dog, to stroke it,
have this beautiful soft animal in there, -
51:27 - 51:32the compassion which a small animal or
even a big animal generates amongst -
51:32 - 51:38human beings has a very strong positive
effect on people's recovery. -
51:38 - 51:41They actually get better.
-
51:41 - 51:46Having a beautiful dog to play with in the ward,
it makes you sort of, gets up all your, -
51:46 - 51:50what's it called, the, not serotonin,
all these endomorphines, -
51:50 - 51:53all this beautiful health things in your body,
you all know better than I do... -
51:53 - 51:57but you know it really works.
-
51:57 - 52:01So that's why she called her dog Chemo
because it was short for chemotherapy, -
52:01 - 52:06that was a little joke,
she's a good student of mine, -
52:06 - 52:10has got a stupid sense
of humor just like me. [laughter] -
52:10 - 52:13So Chemo, Chemo the dog,
and of course that dog went into so many -
52:13 - 52:16wards in its life,
healing people, -
52:16 - 52:19helping people,
that dog must have made huge amounts of -
52:19 - 52:24good karma just by generating compassion
in other beings. -
52:24 - 52:32So that is how animals made good kamma,
they can be just so kind and -
52:32 - 52:35so loving and so trusting,
these beautiful qualities, -
52:35 - 52:42and you see that in the little dog or in
a cat and they remind you how to be kind. -
52:42 - 52:47The dog never gets angry at you or upset at you.
Usually. [laughter] -
52:47 - 52:54And why is it you have a dog and they're
just so nice, -
52:54 - 53:01and you get a wife, [laughter]
there's so much trouble. -
53:01 - 53:07I said that because I said husbands before
so now it’s wives. -
53:07 - 53:15Why can't human beings be much more like
animals in that sense, totally trusting. -
53:15 - 53:20Your dog, your cat, trusts you 100%
and it's so forgiving of you. -
53:20 - 53:24Now if you miss a meal or something,
yeah the dog would be a bit upset but he -
53:24 - 53:30will forgive you and still will come and
sit on your lap afterwards. -
53:30 - 53:35Now, can your wife or your husband do that?
Wouldn’t it be wonderful if that was it. -
53:35 - 53:43So that's how animals can make really good karma,
teaching about kindness, about love, about trust. -
53:43 - 53:50And I used to teach people in Thailand,
I said “look, at least dogs they keep -
53:50 - 53:56three of the five precepts, they keep three.”
-
53:56 - 54:02Dogs don't usually kill, stealing, no no,
adultery no no, they can't stop themselves [laughter]. -
54:02 - 54:07But have you ever seen a dog lie?
-
54:07 - 54:12And have you ever seen a dog drink alcohol?
[laughter] -
54:12 - 54:17So I said at least dogs keep three precepts.
-
54:17 - 54:22There's some human beings who can't keep
any of the five precepts! -
54:22 - 54:27So you see the dogs can actually make
much better good karma than many other people. -
54:27 - 54:32[laughs] So I've never seen a dog lie,
I’ve never seen a dog get drunk and -
54:32 - 54:35dogs don’t kill things.
-
54:35 - 54:41So dogs keep some precepts,
so they can make good karma. -
54:41 - 54:45And also have you ever seen dogs meditating, or cats?
Sometimes they sit next to you and -
54:45 - 54:52they're incredibly peaceful.
And some of those cats, -
54:52 - 54:58they could sit for hours and hours and hours
and hours, much longer than you can, -
54:58 - 55:03so maybe those cats are closer to
enlightenment than we really think. [laughter] -
55:03 - 55:08Okay carry on, before I get into more trouble.
-
55:08 - 55:11Dennis: Thank you Ajahn Brahm,
now Sati from Boulder Colorado -
55:11 - 55:18asks what are some basic
daily practices a layperson should do? -
55:18 - 55:24Ajahn: A daily practice is start now!
So yeah just be kind, be compassionate. -
55:24 - 55:28It doesn't matter what you do,
how you do it is really important. -
55:28 - 55:33So you may be just driving to work in the morning,
how are you driving to work? -
55:33 - 55:38Are you listening to the radio and
getting yourself all upset? -
55:38 - 55:42When you’re on the way to work
is your mind already at work? -
55:42 - 55:48A daily practice when you drive to work is
every time you get to the stop sign, -
55:48 - 55:50remember that's the Buddha teaching you.
-
55:50 - 55:58Stop, be peaceful,
come into the present moment, be here. -
55:58 - 56:05So all the stop signs which you see around
the cities of the world, that is the Dhamma, -
56:05 - 56:12that is the teaching reminding you -
stop and be here rather than -
56:12 - 56:16always moving moving moving.
So that's one of the nice daily practices. -
56:16 - 56:20And the other daily practice -
Emperor’s Three Questions - -
56:20 - 56:23now is always the most important time,
-
56:23 - 56:25the person in front of you is always
the most important person. -
56:25 - 56:30So in Boulder Colorado,
the person right in front of you right now -
56:30 - 56:34and every moment of your life,
give them importance. -
56:34 - 56:39And the only thing to do is to care.
-
56:39 - 56:43The Emperor’s Three Questions -
that's all you really need to know about life. -
56:43 - 56:46Now is the most important time,
-
56:46 - 56:48the one you're with is
the most important person, -
56:48 - 56:50and the only thing to do in life
is to care. -
56:50 - 56:56Doesn't matter what you're doing,
working at home by yourself, -
56:56 - 56:59if you’re by yourself,
you are the most important person because -
56:59 - 57:00that's the one you're with.
-
57:00 - 57:04Caring for yourself and caring for others
and caring for life, -
57:04 - 57:10that's all we really need,
that is your daily practice. -
57:10 - 57:16You can say I'll just sit meditating
for half an hour, to do chanting, -
57:16 - 57:21to do charity work for half an hour,
that doesn't really sort of cut much ice. -
57:21 - 57:25The thing to do… is that right “cut much ice”?
I don't know, but it doesn't really work. -
57:25 - 57:27What really does work is developing the
-
57:27 - 57:32right attitude to whatever you have to do
in life, that should be your daily practice, -
57:32 - 57:35developing the right attitude to
whatever you have to do. Okay. -
57:35 - 57:42Dennis: So is there any further questions
from the room here? -
57:42 - 57:48Ajahn: Okay where are you from? [laughter]
We’ve already got from Boulder, -
57:48 - 57:54we've got from Dubai and we got from Germany,
and this is Eddie from Willetton. [laughter] -
57:54 - 58:00Eddie: Shelley.
-
58:00 - 58:06Ajahn: Oh Shelley, close enough,
Shelley is a suburb of Perth. -
58:06 - 58:10Eddie: Ajahn Brahm you know this karma,
it could be like God's judgment, -
58:10 - 58:14you can call it too..
you see there's a tendency for people when -
58:14 - 58:19there's problem to blame it on,
when there's no way, -
58:19 - 58:22like they can’t think of anything,
they blame it on karma... -
58:22 - 58:27But there are certain instances..
yourself okay, -
58:27 - 58:32it's a personal thing, you can link it.
-
58:32 - 58:36Could it be that I've done this,
something wrong in my earlier life? -
58:36 - 58:40You only yourself would know,
but most people -
58:40 - 58:44“oh punishment by God
this thing or my karma”, -
58:44 - 58:48it’s easy to blame on that isn’t it?
-
58:48 - 58:52But in certain instances
only you will know that you can link it, -
58:52 - 58:56could it be that,
and that’s also a learning process. -
58:56 - 58:56Ajahn: It's always a learning process;
-
58:56 - 59:02the word which really
rankles with me is punishment. -
59:02 - 59:07If there ever was a God
they wouldn't punish anybody. -
59:07 - 59:10High beings would never punish anybody.
-
59:10 - 59:14Why? Because high beings have just got
love and compassion. -
59:14 - 59:22Love and compassion forgives,
it would never be able to punish anybody. -
59:22 - 59:28It's really hard for me sometimes as an abbot,
I just can't get my head around punishing anybody, -
59:28 - 59:32so I'm pretty slack sometimes and I shouldn't be,
“you’re stupid, get out”, -
59:32 - 59:36you just can't do it.
-
59:36 - 59:38And I'm not sort of God but you know,
a high being there's no way -
59:38 - 59:42you could ever punish anybody, impossible.
-
59:42 - 59:46The whole idea of punishment
goes against compassion, -
59:46 - 59:50it is antithetic towards
compassion and kindness. -
59:50 - 59:56It's love which teaches people,
forgiveness which makes them grow. -
59:56 - 60:01Punishment creates fear,
hides the problem, -
60:01 - 60:06people never admit to what they've done,
they deny anything which has happened, -
60:06 - 60:12they spin, they just don't admit to the truth.
Fear of punishment. -
60:12 - 60:19And there is never any truth.
Punishment actually hides the truth. -
60:19 - 60:26Forgiveness brings the truth up
so we can understand it and learn from it. -
60:26 - 60:31So that's why even it may be connected
to something you've done in the past but -
60:31 - 60:37it's not punishment for what you've done in the past,
it’s just cause and effect. -
60:37 - 60:41Yeah, this has led to this, so it means
there's still things you have to learn. -
60:41 - 60:43You still need some more shit in your garden,
-
60:43 - 60:49that's why you get another delivery.
[laughter] -
60:49 - 60:53So that's actually how I understand it,
but please the main point is, -
60:53 - 60:55think about it,
if you’re really kind, -
60:55 - 60:58if you’ve really got compassion,
how can you punish anybody? -
60:58 - 61:01And it does not work.
-
61:01 - 61:04Ask any psychologist,
someone's made a mistake, -
61:04 - 61:08I've made a mistake,
I just want someone to understand me. -
61:08 - 61:13I was trying, please believe in me,
trust in me, I'm trying, I made a mistake okay. -
61:13 - 61:18When somebody comes and believes in me
and they trust me, -
61:18 - 61:20and say “never mind”, you notice.
-
61:20 - 61:22“I'm behind you,
I'm there to support you, -
61:22 - 61:26other people might sort of
put you down and criticize you, but not me”, -
61:26 - 61:32and you feel just at last somebody
understands and that makes you try even -
61:32 - 61:34harder to be better.
-
61:34 - 61:40You actually do grow from forgiveness.
Try it and see, forgive your kids, -
61:40 - 61:44forgive your partner in life,
no matter what they've done. -
61:44 - 61:51They will grow, as you would hope to be
forgiven by the people who love you. -
61:51 - 61:58That's what we have lovers for.
A lover is someone who understands us -
61:58 - 62:02very deeply and profoundly,
understands us enough -
62:02 - 62:04to know the importance of forgiveness.
-
62:04 - 62:12So there’s somebody I can go to,
who loves me so much that whatever I've done -
62:12 - 62:16the door to their heart
is always open to me. -
62:16 - 62:21I had a father like that,
that's why I loved him so much, -
62:21 - 62:24that's why I, hopefully,
became a really good person because -
62:24 - 62:27he trusted me
hundred and fifty thousand million percent. -
62:27 - 62:30Okay..
- Title:
- Kamma without Belief
- Description:
-
In this talk Ajahn Brahm takes a non-traditional approach in explaining kamma (actions and their results). The widespread idea that one's actions will result in punishment and retribution is too simplistic. So if you want to know more about kamma, listen on...
- Video Language:
- English
- Team:
- Buddhist Society of Western Australia
- Project:
- Friday Night Dhamma Talks
- Duration:
- 01:02:38
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