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Dialogue: 0,0:00:09.40,0:00:11.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Hi guys. How are you all doing?
Dialogue: 0,0:00:11.84,0:00:15.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I literally just flew from Muscat\Nto be here for you guys today.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:15.37,0:00:17.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Thank you for having me.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:17.38,0:00:20.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Applause) (Cheers)
Dialogue: 0,0:00:22.10,0:00:26.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So I want to start off \Nby asking you all a question.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:26.80,0:00:30.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Do you guys have\Na hard time being true to yourself?
Dialogue: 0,0:00:30.62,0:00:34.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Think about that for a minute,\Nand we will revisit this.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:36.31,0:00:42.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So over the years, I've had\Na very hard time being myself.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:43.12,0:00:47.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,To answer the question myself,\Nit would be a big "yes."
Dialogue: 0,0:00:47.59,0:00:52.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because first of all,\NI'm not your conventional Muslim woman.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:52.45,0:00:56.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Second of all, growing up, I didn't go\Nthrough anything that was conventional.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:56.100,0:00:59.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I came from a divorced family,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:00.06,0:01:01.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,multicultural,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:01.84,0:01:04.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,lived in a different country \Nthan I was born in.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:04.74,0:01:10.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So all of these aspects set me apart \Nfrom the groups that I would usually see.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:11.71,0:01:13.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,My name is Layla Al Siyabi,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:13.88,0:01:19.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and today, I would like to talk\Nto you guys about being beyond labels.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:23.99,0:01:29.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Let me take you guys back \Nto where I really felt very vulnerable
Dialogue: 0,0:01:29.45,0:01:31.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and very afraid of being myself.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:32.08,0:01:36.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It was the time when I first gave birth\Nto my first-born child.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:36.93,0:01:40.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I was twenty years old, and we had\Nother plans - me and my husband.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:40.78,0:01:42.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We said we'd travel together,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:42.83,0:01:46.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we'd do things together\Nbefore we really settled down with a kid,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:46.06,0:01:48.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but that was not the case.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:50.73,0:01:54.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So we had this baby,\Nand the first time I looked at her -
Dialogue: 0,0:01:55.22,0:01:59.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I know what they say,\Nyou feel this ecstatic feeling
Dialogue: 0,0:01:59.19,0:02:02.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when you look at your child,\Nand you feel overwhelmed,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:02.38,0:02:05.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and they show you in movies -\Nit's like a dream come true,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:05.54,0:02:07.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but it was nothing like that for me.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:07.95,0:02:10.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It was nothing like that for me\Nwhen I looked at her.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:10.99,0:02:13.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Applause)
Dialogue: 0,0:02:14.19,0:02:16.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There I was, a 20-year-old, young woman
Dialogue: 0,0:02:16.30,0:02:18.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,looking down at this baby,\Nlooking up at me crying,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:18.96,0:02:22.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I was like, "What did\NI just get myself into?
Dialogue: 0,0:02:22.82,0:02:25.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Am I going to be a good mother?
Dialogue: 0,0:02:25.37,0:02:28.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How am I going to balance out, \Nyou know, having a -
Dialogue: 0,0:02:28.36,0:02:30.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,am I even going to have a career?
Dialogue: 0,0:02:30.01,0:02:32.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Forget finishing my education."
Dialogue: 0,0:02:32.73,0:02:36.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I had all these dreams for myself,\Nwhich I felt like they were crumbling
Dialogue: 0,0:02:36.25,0:02:42.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because I just had this card dealt\Nin my life that I had no clue of.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:43.48,0:02:48.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So a couple of months went by, \NI settled into being a mom,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:48.33,0:02:51.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with the help of my family,\Nof course, and my husband.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:52.34,0:02:55.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I was still searching for answers;\NI was still looking around.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:55.30,0:02:58.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I was still thinking, "Okay,\NI need to get my education done
Dialogue: 0,0:02:58.22,0:03:00.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,while I have this baby at home."
Dialogue: 0,0:03:01.44,0:03:04.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Of course, I didn't go\Nthe conventional way
Dialogue: 0,0:03:04.40,0:03:06.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and go to university with my friends.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:06.67,0:03:09.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They were having so much fun -\NI would see it on Facebook -
Dialogue: 0,0:03:09.43,0:03:11.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I would be like,\N"Oh my God, are you serious?
Dialogue: 0,0:03:11.73,0:03:14.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You went partying here,\Nand then you went traveling there?"
Dialogue: 0,0:03:14.63,0:03:19.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And there I was, at home\Nwith a baby, and I was feeling terrible,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:19.14,0:03:20.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I didn't know who I was.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:20.79,0:03:26.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I didn't know at all, if I'm still\Nthe Layla that I was before my twenties,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:26.42,0:03:29.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or what is happening to me right now.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:29.67,0:03:34.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So it took me a while to figure out\Nall these questions I had.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:34.66,0:03:38.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But one day I just stopped \Nscrolling through Facebook,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:38.18,0:03:41.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,which is so bad for your health\Nwhen you're going through things,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:41.51,0:03:44.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and you're looking at other people\Nand other people's timelines.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:44.51,0:03:46.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I said, "I'm not going\Nto do this to myself.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:46.86,0:03:50.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm going to stop asking myself\Nall these questions,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:50.74,0:03:53.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and start doing things\Nbefore it's too late."
Dialogue: 0,0:03:53.27,0:03:58.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So I went on to get my business \Nand marketing degree, with a baby,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:58.02,0:04:00.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,which was really, really hard.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:00.07,0:04:04.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I stayed awake at night, doing my work,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:04.14,0:04:06.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,my essays, while in the morning,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:06.17,0:04:09.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I had to wake up with a baby\Nas my alarm clock.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:12.29,0:04:15.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Four years went on, I got my BBA,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:15.45,0:04:20.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and then I finally decided\Nthat I should look into doing other things
Dialogue: 0,0:04:20.97,0:04:23.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because the corporate world\Nwasn't really fitting
Dialogue: 0,0:04:23.35,0:04:26.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,into my picture with the mom life,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:26.08,0:04:29.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I wasn't really keeping up\Nwith all the timings,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:29.06,0:04:31.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I had a hard time finding a maid.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:31.96,0:04:35.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So I was like, "I'm just going\Nto try to do things my way
Dialogue: 0,0:04:35.85,0:04:38.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because I've been doing that \Nfor the past four years of my life,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:38.92,0:04:41.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and it has been working out great."
Dialogue: 0,0:04:41.57,0:04:45.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So I decided I'm going to try out\Nmy love for photography.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:45.49,0:04:49.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm going to touch base with makeup\Nbecause I loved doing all of these things
Dialogue: 0,0:04:49.20,0:04:52.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,before I had the baby,\Nso let's get back into the game.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:53.01,0:04:55.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And then finally, I decided\Nto come across fashion,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:55.98,0:04:59.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,where I did some courses\Non fashion design.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:59.12,0:05:02.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And then I went on ahead \Nand started styling people,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:02.40,0:05:04.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,my friends, my cousins.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:04.59,0:05:06.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And people liked it, the women loved it,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:06.75,0:05:10.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because I wasn't dressing\Nthe conventional women or the models.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:10.54,0:05:13.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I was dressing everyday women\Nthat are like me.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:13.53,0:05:17.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We're not a size zero,\Nwe're not tall, we're not blond,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:17.24,0:05:21.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and we're just everyday women with a job,\Nand it was going pretty well.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:21.53,0:05:25.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So I said, "You know what, it's about time\NI take it to the next level."
Dialogue: 0,0:05:26.44,0:05:30.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I looked into opening \Nmy own styling studio,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:30.14,0:05:33.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but things weren't looking very great\Nwith having a baby
Dialogue: 0,0:05:33.63,0:05:39.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and still no proper help,\Nand being here with no extended family.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:39.77,0:05:43.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So I decided I'm going \Nto do something from home.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:43.27,0:05:46.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So I started doing things from home,\Nwhich worked out in my favor
Dialogue: 0,0:05:46.69,0:05:50.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because most of my friends\Nwould be comfortable coming over,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:50.20,0:05:52.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I would start styling them.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:52.09,0:05:55.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Couple of years went on,\Nand I started feeling pressured
Dialogue: 0,0:05:55.02,0:05:56.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in the fashion industry.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:56.48,0:05:57.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I looked around.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:57.48,0:06:02.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Even though this is in Doha,\Nbut we have like a lot of cattiness
Dialogue: 0,0:06:02.10,0:06:05.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,going on in the fashion industry -\Nit's just like anywhere else.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:05.19,0:06:07.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I looked around and I felt completely odd.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:07.88,0:06:11.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I felt different, and I said, \N"You know what?"
Dialogue: 0,0:06:11.59,0:06:17.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And there was always a competition\Nbetween the people and the models,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:17.14,0:06:20.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and they always want to push\Npeople off, even as an adult.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:20.64,0:06:23.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They want to push people off\Nthat are different,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:23.04,0:06:24.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so that the more -
Dialogue: 0,0:06:26.08,0:06:30.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the more generic version\Nof the industry can go on.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:30.97,0:06:35.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So that is when I looked deep into myself,\Nand I said, "I'm not going to take this,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:35.70,0:06:39.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm going to put myself \Non a broader platform
Dialogue: 0,0:06:39.21,0:06:42.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,where I can connect with women\Njust like myself.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:42.19,0:06:47.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm pretty sure that there are many women\Nlike myself that I can reach out to."
Dialogue: 0,0:06:48.44,0:06:51.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So I decided to put myself online.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:51.42,0:06:55.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And that is when I started \Nmy platform "BeingLayla_A."
Dialogue: 0,0:06:55.08,0:06:57.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It is completely\Nabout being true to myself
Dialogue: 0,0:06:57.75,0:07:01.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and talking about fashion,\Nbeauty, lifestyle,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:01.74,0:07:05.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,along with the realness\Nthat comes with being a mom
Dialogue: 0,0:07:05.86,0:07:07.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and being an entrepreneur.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:07.26,0:07:09.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's not all happy, golden days.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:09.67,0:07:13.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There are days\Nthat I'm terribly off of plan.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:13.48,0:07:18.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Like today, I missed my flight \Nbecause my son, in the morning,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:18.46,0:07:22.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,had a really bad tummy ache,\Nand he was vomiting, and I said,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:22.76,0:07:26.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"You know what, I can't go like this\Nwithout knowing he's going to be okay."
Dialogue: 0,0:07:26.53,0:07:29.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So I had to push my flight, \Nand then come here,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:29.54,0:07:33.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I informed them \Nthat I cannot go on for the first bit.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:33.32,0:07:37.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So you see, I kept customizing\Nmy life until I'm here today.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:39.81,0:07:43.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And of course, along the way, \NI realized my daughter was the best thing
Dialogue: 0,0:07:43.62,0:07:47.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that ever happened to me\Nbecause she made me see life -
Dialogue: 0,0:07:47.89,0:07:50.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Applause)
Dialogue: 0,0:07:51.88,0:07:55.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She made me see life\Nin a completely different way.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:55.59,0:08:00.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She gave me a second chance to finding\Nthis Layla in front of you today.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:00.18,0:08:05.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If I denied myself the right \Nto feel vulnerable, feel pressured,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:05.26,0:08:10.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or to ask those questions, then\NI wouldn't be here in front of you today.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:10.33,0:08:14.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,My advice to anyone that feels\Nlike they're out-of-the-box,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:14.98,0:08:20.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I would say, being yourself doesn't mean\Nyou can just do one thing.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:20.76,0:08:26.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It means being different, \Nand sticking to the decisions you make.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:28.05,0:08:31.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you're on a journey\Non finding yourself,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:31.36,0:08:35.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,let me just tell you\Nit's not going to happen overnight,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:35.08,0:08:38.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it's not going to happen \Nmaybe even in a year,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:38.10,0:08:41.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but the key is - major key alert:
Dialogue: 0,0:08:41.36,0:08:47.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the key is to stay true to yourself\Nand stick to those decisions
Dialogue: 0,0:08:47.30,0:08:48.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because eventually,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:48.76,0:08:51.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you're going to practice,\Nand you're going to make it through,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:51.71,0:08:54.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and you're going to have a habit\Nof not giving a damn
Dialogue: 0,0:08:54.20,0:08:56.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,about what people say in the process.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:56.59,0:08:59.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Applause)
Dialogue: 0,0:09:03.22,0:09:06.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm sorry I forgot to change my slides.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:07.04,0:09:09.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I think I'm not going to go\Nwith the slides now.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:13.93,0:09:18.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So the other thing \Nabout finding yourself in this world
Dialogue: 0,0:09:18.48,0:09:23.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is also the fact that you always \Nhave to have a vision for yourself,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:23.10,0:09:26.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,set goals for yourself, and stick to them.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:26.03,0:09:29.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Don't let anything \Nor anyone push you aside.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:29.41,0:09:32.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You can always fall off the wagon,\Nbut then you can always get back on
Dialogue: 0,0:09:32.97,0:09:36.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because there are circumstances\Nthat you cannot -
Dialogue: 0,0:09:38.70,0:09:40.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that's beyond your control.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:41.13,0:09:45.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There are higher powers out there,\Nso you better be aware of that.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:45.72,0:09:52.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Just always make plan A, B, C, D, E, F,\Ngo up until Z, if you have to,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:53.73,0:09:56.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and that's going to help you\Nthrough your journey.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:56.59,0:09:59.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And some of the questions\Nthat I asked myself when I got started
Dialogue: 0,0:09:59.60,0:10:02.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,was, "Am I being true to myself?"
Dialogue: 0,0:10:03.06,0:10:05.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Being yourself doesn't mean that -
Dialogue: 0,0:10:06.10,0:10:08.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Everybody hears the term, \N"be yourself," these days,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:08.98,0:10:11.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but what does it really mean\Nto be yourself in this day and age.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:11.100,0:10:14.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I don't think there is one way to do it.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:14.52,0:10:19.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And also, the way to look at it\Nis to say, "being true to yourself,"
Dialogue: 0,0:10:19.62,0:10:22.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because each time\Nyou go through this journey,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:22.74,0:10:25.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you're just going\Nto be put against decisions
Dialogue: 0,0:10:25.23,0:10:26.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that are going to be -
Dialogue: 0,0:10:26.38,0:10:29.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,either you're comfortable with\Nor uncomfortable with.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:29.05,0:10:33.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you decide to take \Nthe comfortable bits,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:33.44,0:10:36.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,then know that it's not going to be easy.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:36.22,0:10:39.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You're going to feel vulnerable,\Nyou're going to feel out-of-the-box,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:39.64,0:10:43.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you're going to feel like \Npeople just don't get you.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:43.17,0:10:45.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And that's okay\Nbecause at the end of the day,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:45.88,0:10:49.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the price you pay is nothing\Ncompared to what you gained.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:50.03,0:10:54.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And lastly, I would like to leave you\Nwith the questions that I asked myself
Dialogue: 0,0:10:54.82,0:10:56.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when I got started:
Dialogue: 0,0:10:56.47,0:11:02.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"What am I doing to contribute to myself,\Nthe world around me?"
Dialogue: 0,0:11:02.88,0:11:07.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Am I being true to myself,\Ngenuinely because of my happiness,
Dialogue: 0,0:11:07.87,0:11:09.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or is it to please others?"
Dialogue: 0,0:11:09.88,0:11:15.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Am I living my life to the full potential\Nfor myself and my family,
Dialogue: 0,0:11:15.13,0:11:17.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or is it for others?"
Dialogue: 0,0:11:17.33,0:11:21.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,These are some of the questions\Nthat I asked when I got started,
Dialogue: 0,0:11:21.36,0:11:24.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I would love \Nfor you guys to get started.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:24.01,0:11:26.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's important that you get started\Nas soon as possible.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:26.96,0:11:32.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Do not doubt yourself,\Ndo not wait around for the right time.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:32.02,0:11:34.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There are always going to be haters.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:34.10,0:11:38.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It comes with a big load\Nwhere people don't understand you.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:38.31,0:11:40.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They just don't get what you're doing.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:40.27,0:11:43.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Some people are going to be\Nagainst what you do, against what you say,
Dialogue: 0,0:11:43.62,0:11:46.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but that doesn't mean\Nyou stop because of them.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:46.17,0:11:48.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You keep on going.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:48.17,0:11:53.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You build yourself up as you go along,\Nand you become brave.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:53.57,0:11:54.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So that's about it.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:54.86,0:11:56.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Thank you so much.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:56.13,0:11:59.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Applause) (Cheers)