Domestic sex trafficking - a survivor's perspective | Karly Church | TEDxOshawaED
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0:16 - 0:17Hi, everybody.
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0:17 - 0:19I'm really excited to be here today
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0:19 - 0:21and grateful to speak to you all
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0:21 - 0:23about something
that I'm so passionate about. -
0:23 - 0:26I'm going to speak to you today
about domestic sex trafficking. -
0:26 - 0:28This is something I hold very dear -
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0:28 - 0:31being a survivor of domestic
sex trafficking myself. -
0:31 - 0:33This is something
I'm extremely passionate about, -
0:33 - 0:35and I've dedicated my life
to bringing awareness -
0:35 - 0:37to this ever-growing issue.
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0:38 - 0:42So today, what I want to focus on
in the time that I have -
0:42 - 0:45is I'd like to define
domestic sex trafficking for you. -
0:45 - 0:48I want to paint a picture
of what human trafficking looks like -
0:48 - 0:49in an Ontario context
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0:49 - 0:52and walk you through the stages
of commercial exploitation -
0:52 - 0:54to give you an idea
of what this really looks like. -
0:54 - 0:57Media and movies portray
human trafficking to look one way, -
0:57 - 0:59and it looks completely
different than that. -
0:59 - 1:03Then I want to end by talking
about how we can all ignite change. -
1:04 - 1:06I'm a huge believer
that education is power, -
1:06 - 1:07and I often wonder
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1:07 - 1:10if somebody came into my high school
when I was growing up, -
1:10 - 1:13would this have happened to me
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1:13 - 1:17or would I have been able to identify
those red flags before it was too late? -
1:17 - 1:18I'm not sure,
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1:18 - 1:21but I think I would have been equipped
with a lot more information -
1:21 - 1:25that would have helped me
when this started to happen to me. -
1:27 - 1:31I'm going to jump right in, and I really
want to start by defining those words: -
1:31 - 1:33domestic sex trafficking.
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1:33 - 1:36I'm going to differentiate
between domestic and international -
1:36 - 1:39so we can understand
that they look completely different. -
1:39 - 1:41The best way to differentiate
between the two -
1:41 - 1:44is to think of it the exact way you would
if you walked into an airport. -
1:44 - 1:46Really, you have two choices.
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1:46 - 1:48You can take a domestic flight
or an international flight. -
1:48 - 1:50If you take an international flight,
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1:50 - 1:53it means you get
on that plane in one country -
1:53 - 1:55and you land in a completely
different country. -
1:55 - 1:56if you take a domestic flight,
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1:56 - 1:58you're getting on that plane
in one country -
1:58 - 2:01and you land in the exact same country.
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2:01 - 2:04It means the same thing
when it comes to human trafficking. -
2:04 - 2:05International human trafficking
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2:05 - 2:08means you're from one country
and brought to another country -
2:08 - 2:11for the purpose of exploitation
or the purpose of trafficking. -
2:11 - 2:14Domestic human trafficking means
you are from one country. -
2:14 - 2:15Either born and raised
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2:15 - 2:18or have come to this country
for whatever reason - -
2:18 - 2:19nothing to do with trafficking.
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2:19 - 2:21Call this country your home
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2:21 - 2:23and then are trafficked
within that country. -
2:23 - 2:25The majority of human trafficking
that occurs in Canada -
2:25 - 2:27is domestic sex trafficking.
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2:27 - 2:32The UN's stat says that 71%
of all trafficking that occurs in Canada -
2:32 - 2:34is domestic sex trafficking.
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2:34 - 2:37That means this is happening
to our young people. -
2:37 - 2:40This is happening to people
in your schools, -
2:40 - 2:42in your communities,
in your neighborhoods. -
2:42 - 2:45It is not an issue
that is happening somewhere else; -
2:45 - 2:48it is happening to people here
that call Canada their home. -
2:51 - 2:54Next, I really want to give you that
definition of what human trafficking is. -
2:54 - 2:56Human trafficking is an umbrella term -
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2:56 - 2:58there's many forms of human trafficking -
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2:58 - 3:02but, again, today I'm only talking
about domestic sex trafficking. -
3:02 - 3:04The reason being
is that's my area of expertise, -
3:04 - 3:07and that's the majority
of what we see here in Canada. -
3:08 - 3:11So the UN has a definition
for human trafficking, -
3:11 - 3:14the Criminal Code has a definition
for human trafficking - -
3:14 - 3:17they're very long, they're wordy,
they're hard to remember. -
3:17 - 3:18I have a cheating definition -
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3:19 - 3:21it's super easy to remember,
so I use it all the time. -
3:21 - 3:23There's four elements
that have to be present -
3:23 - 3:25in order for human trafficking to exist.
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3:25 - 3:29If you have these four elements,
then you have human trafficking. -
3:29 - 3:32So there needs to be force,
there needs to be fraud, -
3:32 - 3:33there needs to be coercion,
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3:33 - 3:38and it all needs to be facilitated
by a third party or a group of people - -
3:38 - 3:41so somebody behind the scenes
doing it to you and profiting from you. -
3:41 - 3:45Force, fraud, coercion,
facilitated by a third party - -
3:45 - 3:47that is the definition
of human trafficking. -
3:47 - 3:50If all those elements are present,
then you have human trafficking. -
3:52 - 3:54So now that we understand
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3:54 - 3:56what human trafficking is,
by the definition, -
3:56 - 4:00I really want to paint a picture for you
of what it actually looks like -
4:00 - 4:02because what I said
when I first walked in here -
4:02 - 4:05is that movies and media
portray human trafficking to look one way -
4:05 - 4:07and they look completely different.
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4:07 - 4:10The education that I got growing up
around what human trafficking was -
4:10 - 4:11was from movies.
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4:11 - 4:13And I was taught wrong.
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4:13 - 4:16I'm going to walk you through
the stages of commercial exploitation. -
4:16 - 4:19This chart was developed
by listening to survivors' stories. -
4:19 - 4:21This is how it happens.
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4:21 - 4:24Every single young person
I have ever worked with -
4:24 - 4:26has been brought through these stages.
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4:26 - 4:29This is a thought-out
psychological process -
4:30 - 4:32that people are brought through
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4:32 - 4:35in order for somebody
to have control and manipulation over. -
4:35 - 4:38So I'm going to walk you
through stage by stage. -
4:38 - 4:39The first stage is the luring stage.
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4:39 - 4:40In this stage,
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4:40 - 4:43this is when your trafficker
begins to assess your vulnerabilities. -
4:43 - 4:46So somebody isn't just pointing out
somebody in a crowd, -
4:46 - 4:48being like "I'm going
to traffic this person." -
4:48 - 4:49It is thought out.
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4:49 - 4:51That's what that luring process is for.
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4:51 - 4:52In this luring process,
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4:52 - 4:55your trafficker is going to begin
to assess your vulnerabilities. -
4:55 - 4:58He's looking for somebody
who's vulnerable. -
4:58 - 4:59He's looking for somebody
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4:59 - 5:03who has both individual risk factors
and societal and systemic risk factors. -
5:03 - 5:07He is going to begin to test the waters
to figure out these vulnerabilities. -
5:07 - 5:09He's going to put feelers out.
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5:09 - 5:15He's going to see if you will be able
to buy what he's selling. -
5:15 - 5:19He does this by asking you
a million questions. -
5:19 - 5:21It does not feel
like you're being interrogated. -
5:21 - 5:23It does not feel
like you're being interviewed. -
5:23 - 5:25It feels incredibly, incredibly special
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5:26 - 5:28that for once somebody
has taken time out of their life -
5:28 - 5:30and asked you about yours.
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5:31 - 5:33For once, somebody stopped
and noticed you were struggling -
5:33 - 5:35and asked you about it.
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5:35 - 5:37He's going to ask you about your life.
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5:37 - 5:40He's going to ask you
about your family, your friends, -
5:40 - 5:43and ask you about your hopes
and dreams for the future, -
5:43 - 5:45the struggles you've been through.
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5:46 - 5:48And he's going to listen to everything.
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5:48 - 5:50What he's doing in this moment
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5:50 - 5:53is he's gathering information
he's later going to use against you, -
5:53 - 5:55but in that moment,
it feels incredibly good. -
5:55 - 5:59So you're going to tell them
anything and everything. -
5:59 - 6:00The other thing they do in this stage
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6:00 - 6:03is they're going to look
at every single one of your basic needs -
6:03 - 6:05that are not being met,
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6:05 - 6:08and very quickly, they're going
to begin to meet them. -
6:08 - 6:10So it moves to that next stage,
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6:10 - 6:13that grooming and gaming stage
also known as the honeymoon stage. -
6:13 - 6:18So they are going to begin to meet
every single one of your basic needs. -
6:18 - 6:19If you told them in that luring stage
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6:19 - 6:23that you didn't feel safe at home
or you didn't have a safe place to stay, -
6:23 - 6:25they're going to offer you
a safe place to stay. -
6:25 - 6:27They're going to take you shopping.
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6:27 - 6:29They're going to get
your hair done, your nails done. -
6:29 - 6:32They're going to wine and dine you.
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6:32 - 6:34They're going to shower you
with compliments, -
6:34 - 6:37boost your self-esteem,
boost your self-worth. -
6:37 - 6:39They're going to begin
to introduce you to all their friends. -
6:39 - 6:42They're going to make you
feel a part of something, -
6:42 - 6:44that sense of belonging,
that sense of family. -
6:44 - 6:47They're going to tell you things
like they're going to keep you safe, -
6:47 - 6:50that they're never going
to let anybody hurt you again. -
6:50 - 6:52No matter what, they're going
to be there for you. -
6:52 - 6:56They're continuing to ask you questions
and be interested in your life -
6:56 - 6:57during this stage as well.
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6:57 - 6:5985% of the young people I work with
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6:59 - 7:03identified their trafficker
to be their boyfriend or their girlfriend. -
7:03 - 7:06So we also know it's incredibly,
incredibly relational, -
7:06 - 7:08even that other 15%
is usually quite relational. -
7:08 - 7:10It's usually a companionship
or a friendship -
7:10 - 7:13or, in fact, a family member
that's doing it to you. -
7:15 - 7:18If drugs are involved in this stage,
they'll be given to you freely, -
7:18 - 7:19no questions asked.
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7:19 - 7:22If they're not involved,
they might keep it that way. -
7:22 - 7:24Or they could introduce them
in a very playful way: -
7:24 - 7:26"Whatever you need, I've got for you."
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7:26 - 7:28If you are in that loving relationship,
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7:28 - 7:31it feels as if you have met
your dream man. -
7:31 - 7:34It feels as if you have hit the jackpot,
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7:34 - 7:36as if finally your luck has turned around.
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7:36 - 7:38I cannot stress enough
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7:38 - 7:39that in this stage,
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7:39 - 7:43it feels as if this is the best
your life has ever been. -
7:43 - 7:45Even if your life was not that bad before,
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7:45 - 7:47they took the time in that luring stage
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7:47 - 7:51to get to know everything
that was lacking in your life. -
7:51 - 7:53And now they're providing it for you.
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7:53 - 7:57So this feels as if this is the best
your life has ever been. -
7:57 - 8:00There is little to no
red flags in this stage. -
8:00 - 8:02The biggest red flag
is it is too good to be true, -
8:02 - 8:05and who wants to believe
that this is too good to be true -
8:05 - 8:07if nobody has ever treated you
this way before? -
8:08 - 8:11The red flags don't come in
until the next stage. -
8:11 - 8:13So the next stage is the coercion
and manipulation stage. -
8:13 - 8:17This is when your trafficker begins
to give you all that love and affection - -
8:17 - 8:19and then pulls it all away.
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8:19 - 8:21Then gives you all that love
and attention - -
8:21 - 8:23and then pulls it all away.
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8:23 - 8:25It's like you're walking on eggshells.
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8:25 - 8:26You're wondering,
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8:26 - 8:28is he going to have
a good day today or a bad day? -
8:28 - 8:30You actually start to think in your mind,
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8:30 - 8:31"What did I do wrong?
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8:31 - 8:33I must have done something wrong.
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8:33 - 8:36Because I know he's capable
of treating me better -
8:36 - 8:37than anybody has ever treated me before.
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8:37 - 8:39So I must have done something."
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8:40 - 8:42You actually start to think in your mind -
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8:42 - 8:44you start to feel indebted
in the relationship: -
8:44 - 8:46"He's done so much for me
in this relationship, -
8:46 - 8:48what have I done to contribute?"
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8:48 - 8:51You might actually start
to think things in your mind -
8:51 - 8:53you can offer in that relationship.
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8:53 - 8:54But before you can do that,
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8:54 - 8:56he's going to start
to ask you to do things, -
8:56 - 8:59He's going to ask you to do things
you're probably not comfortable doing. -
8:59 - 9:01Or he'll ask you to do things
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9:01 - 9:03that you talked about in the luring stage
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9:03 - 9:05that you said you would never do.
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9:05 - 9:06Those are things that you held on to.
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9:06 - 9:08Those are your morals and your values -
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9:08 - 9:11that you were never willing
to step out of that comfort zone. -
9:11 - 9:14He's now going to ask you again,
in this coercion-manipulation stage. -
9:14 - 9:17You're going to be
much more likely to say yes -
9:17 - 9:20because you just want it
to go back to that honeymoon stage. -
9:20 - 9:22You want him to treat you in a way
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9:22 - 9:24that you know he's capable
of treating you, -
9:24 - 9:26which is better than anybody
has ever treated you before. -
9:27 - 9:29So as soon as you start
to do those things, -
9:29 - 9:31he's going to give you
all that love and attention back. -
9:31 - 9:33Then he's going to pull it away again,
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9:33 - 9:35and he'll ask you to do something else.
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9:35 - 9:36As soon as you do it,
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9:36 - 9:39he's going to give you
all that love and affection back. -
9:39 - 9:42He's breaking down
your boundaries, morals, and values, -
9:42 - 9:43and then he's rewarding you for them.
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9:43 - 9:46He could ask you to do things
that are sexual or not sexual. -
9:46 - 9:47If they're not sexual,
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9:47 - 9:51they might ask you to do things
like hold drugs for them, lie for them, -
9:51 - 9:54or look out while they commit
a crime or rob somebody. -
9:54 - 9:55And immediately after,
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9:55 - 9:57they give you the love and attention back.
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9:57 - 9:58Or it could be sexual.
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9:58 - 10:00They start to desensitize you
to certain sexual acts, -
10:00 - 10:02prepare you for the sex trade.
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10:02 - 10:03So they might ask you
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10:03 - 10:06to send that naked picture
they've been begging you for. -
10:06 - 10:08They might ask you
to make a video with them -
10:08 - 10:10or have sex with one of their friends.
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10:10 - 10:13Immediately after, they give you
the love and affection back - -
10:13 - 10:15it goes back to that honeymoon stage -
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10:15 - 10:17and then they pull it all the way again.
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10:17 - 10:20This is an incredibly confusing time.
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10:20 - 10:22The other thing
they're doing in this stage -
10:22 - 10:24is they might do something
called "conditioning," -
10:24 - 10:27where they have sex with you
and shortly after take you shopping, -
10:27 - 10:28or they have sex with you
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10:28 - 10:30and then take you
to get your hair or nails done. -
10:30 - 10:33Then that slowly gets replaced by cash.
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10:33 - 10:36They'll have sex with you,
then throw you 60 bucks and say, -
10:36 - 10:38"Oh, baby, that's amazing.
You're so good at that. -
10:38 - 10:40Go treat yourself,
do something nice for yourself." -
10:40 - 10:44Your brain actually starts to associate
sex with a reward, sex with money. -
10:45 - 10:48The last thing they do in this stage
is they're going to build a wedge -
10:48 - 10:52between you and anybody
who's healthy in your life. -
10:52 - 10:54So they'll pick fights with your friends.
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10:54 - 10:56They are going to blow up stories
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10:56 - 10:59that you maybe told them
way back in the luring stage -
10:59 - 11:02that's something that your family
or loved one did you that really hurt you. -
11:02 - 11:04They're going to blow it up
and amplify that. -
11:04 - 11:06They want to build that wedge.
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11:06 - 11:08They want when something
goes wrong in your life -
11:08 - 11:10that the first person
that you call is them. -
11:10 - 11:12They want you to be
a 100% dependent on them. -
11:12 - 11:14I used to work with a young woman
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11:14 - 11:16whose trafficker actually
used to go into her phone -
11:16 - 11:19and delete messages from loved ones
who were reaching out. -
11:19 - 11:22She actually started to believe
nobody else cared about her, -
11:22 - 11:24that he was the only one that loved her,
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11:24 - 11:27he was the only one
that she could depend on. -
11:27 - 11:29This is when he has you
exactly where they want you. -
11:30 - 11:32Now they bring up the idea
of working in the sex trade. -
11:32 - 11:35Then it moves to that
full-on exploitation stage. -
11:35 - 11:37They bring up that idea
of working in the sex trade -
11:37 - 11:38in a variety of different ways,
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11:38 - 11:42but it's usually either extremely direct
or the complete opposite - -
11:42 - 11:44incredibly, incredibly insidious.
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11:44 - 11:46So if it's direct, he'll literally say,
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11:46 - 11:48"You know all I've done for you -
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11:48 - 11:49the clothes I bought you,
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11:49 - 11:51the condo you've been
staying in, the drugs? -
11:51 - 11:52It's actually not free.
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11:52 - 11:54You owe me money,
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11:54 - 11:56and this is how you're going
to pay me back. -
11:56 - 11:57And if you don't do it,
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11:57 - 12:00I'm not going to love you,
I'm not going to be there for you, -
12:00 - 12:01I'm not going to take care of you.
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12:01 - 12:03I'll circulate that video we made."
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12:03 - 12:05He's got all the ammo
he needs to use against you -
12:05 - 12:07to get you to take your first trick.
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12:07 - 12:09And once you do, then again,
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12:09 - 12:11he's got even more ammo to keep you there.
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12:12 - 12:15If he goes the insidious route,
what he's going to do -
12:15 - 12:17is he'll bring up the idea
of working in the sex trade -
12:17 - 12:20by playing off information
he gained from you in the luring stage. -
12:20 - 12:22Maybe in that luring stage, you told him
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12:22 - 12:24that your dream for the future
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12:24 - 12:27was to one day create
your own loving, supportive family. -
12:27 - 12:29Maybe you told him growing up
you never had that, -
12:29 - 12:30and that was your dream.
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12:30 - 12:33You wanted to get married
and buy a house and have kids -
12:33 - 12:35and really create
that loving supportive family. -
12:35 - 12:39He's going to say something to you like,
"You know that life you want to have, -
12:39 - 12:43you know that wedding you want,
that house you want, those kids you want? -
12:43 - 12:46I love you so much,
and I don't want to wait any longer. -
12:46 - 12:48I can't picture my life without you.
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12:49 - 12:50I got this crazy idea.
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12:50 - 12:52We'll make stacks of cash.
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12:52 - 12:54We'll only have to do it
for a couple of months. -
12:54 - 12:57No matter what, I'm going to love you
and be there for you." -
12:57 - 12:59Of course, you're going to say yes.
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12:59 - 13:01He just sold you a dream,
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13:01 - 13:05your exact dream that you told him
way back in the luring stage. -
13:05 - 13:08This is what human trafficking looks like.
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13:08 - 13:10It does not look like the movies.
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13:10 - 13:12You're not kidnapped;
you're not moved from place to place; -
13:12 - 13:16you're not locked in a room;
you're not beaten every day. -
13:16 - 13:18This is what it looks like.
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13:18 - 13:22I want to touch on why it's not as simple
as asking somebody to leave - -
13:22 - 13:23because it is horrific.
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13:24 - 13:26Just because you believe
somebody loves you -
13:26 - 13:29doesn't mean you don't have to do things
you never thought you'd do. -
13:29 - 13:30You have absolutely no control.
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13:30 - 13:32I can tell you from my experience
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13:32 - 13:34my traffickers had taken
all control from me. -
13:35 - 13:37I hated every minute of it.
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13:37 - 13:40I had no idea who was coming
to my hotel room door, -
13:40 - 13:43and I had no idea what services
I was expected to provide. -
13:43 - 13:46I hated every minute of it.
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13:46 - 13:49It was the most traumatic
and horrific experience of my life, -
13:49 - 13:51but as crazy as it sounds,
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13:51 - 13:53my life was still better
than before I had met them. -
13:53 - 13:56I had a roof over my head,
I had food in my stomach, -
13:56 - 13:58I wasn't withdrawing on the streets
in the freezing cold. -
13:58 - 14:01I would have done
whatever it took to keep it there. -
14:01 - 14:04And I would have never walked out
of that hotel room door. -
14:04 - 14:06Physically, I could have.
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14:06 - 14:07I was not locked up.
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14:07 - 14:08I was not tied in a room.
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14:08 - 14:09My pimps were not there 24/7.
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14:09 - 14:12I could have opened my hotel room door,
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14:12 - 14:14I could have walked out,
and I could have asked for help - -
14:14 - 14:16I never would have.
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14:16 - 14:18There are three reasons
I wouldn't have left, -
14:18 - 14:21and after working with young people,
for years now, in similar situations, -
14:21 - 14:24these are the three reasons
why people don't just leave. -
14:24 - 14:26The first is the obvious: the fear.
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14:26 - 14:28I was afraid of them.
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14:28 - 14:30There was some physical
violence in my situation, -
14:30 - 14:34and all I could think was if I walk out,
what are they going to do to me? -
14:34 - 14:35That fear was real.
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14:35 - 14:37More so than that, though,
was the fear of the unknown. -
14:37 - 14:40If I walk out this door,
where am I going to go? -
14:40 - 14:42Where am I going to get my next meal?
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14:42 - 14:44Where am I going to sleep? get my fix?
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14:44 - 14:45Who is ever going to love me after this?
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14:45 - 14:47Who is ever going to take care of me?
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14:47 - 14:49That was much scarier than they were,
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14:49 - 14:51and the final reason I didn't leave
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14:51 - 14:53was the psychological hold
that they had on me - -
14:53 - 14:55the trauma bond.
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14:55 - 14:57It is unbelievable how strong that is.
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14:57 - 15:00They picked me up off the ground
when everybody else had given up on me. -
15:00 - 15:03They were there for me
when nobody else was. -
15:04 - 15:07They treated me better than anybody
had ever treated me before. -
15:08 - 15:10The best way I can explain
that trauma bond - -
15:10 - 15:12I'll tell you a very short story.
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15:12 - 15:14It happened to me
after I took my very first trick. -
15:14 - 15:17One of my pimps came in the room
and sat down on the bed beside me. -
15:17 - 15:20He looked at me in the eyes,
and it was so genuine. -
15:20 - 15:24Every time I tell this story,
I can in fact still picture the moment, -
15:24 - 15:26and it still feels just as genuine.
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15:26 - 15:29Logically, I know it's not, but that's
how strong it was in that moment. -
15:29 - 15:32He sat there and looked at me
in the eyes, and he said, -
15:32 - 15:34"Carly, I am so proud of you."
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15:34 - 15:37He said it because I told him,
way back in the luring stage, -
15:37 - 15:39that the only thing I'd ever
wanted to hear growing up -
15:39 - 15:41is that somebody was proud of me.
-
15:41 - 15:42Now, he said it.
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15:42 - 15:46Didn't matter anymore who was proud of me
or what they were proud of me for - -
15:46 - 15:47somebody was finally proud of me.
-
15:47 - 15:49I was finally good at something.
-
15:49 - 15:54I was going to do whatever it took
to hear that over and over and over again. -
15:55 - 15:57This is what human trafficking looks like.
-
15:58 - 16:02So really quickly, just to end,
what can everybody do today? -
16:02 - 16:04Starting today, how can we ignite change?
-
16:05 - 16:06And it's simple.
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16:06 - 16:08We need to educate others.
-
16:08 - 16:11You need to educate yourself
and educate others -
16:11 - 16:13on what you've heard today.
-
16:13 - 16:16Continue to look into
what human trafficking really looks like. -
16:16 - 16:17Know the signs.
-
16:17 - 16:20Know how to identify
who might be being trafficked. -
16:20 - 16:22Know where the resources
are in your community -
16:22 - 16:26and what to do if you identify somebody
who could be being trafficked. -
16:26 - 16:27You need to advocate.
-
16:27 - 16:29You need to advocate for change.
-
16:29 - 16:31You need to advocate for more resources.
-
16:31 - 16:37And you need to advocate for more funding
specialized in human trafficking. -
16:37 - 16:40And lastly, we need to -
I'm going to put these two together - -
16:40 - 16:42but we need to know consent
and we need to empower youth. -
16:42 - 16:45Get people to come
and talk in your schools -
16:45 - 16:46about what human trafficking is,
-
16:46 - 16:48talk about the true definition of consent.
-
16:48 - 16:50We were taught wrong growing up.
-
16:50 - 16:52You need to let people know
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16:52 - 16:55that consent has certain elements
that have to be present. -
16:55 - 16:57It must be clear, it must be coherent,
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16:57 - 16:59it must be willing,
and it must be ongoing. -
16:59 - 17:02And again, empower our youth.
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17:02 - 17:04Give them more
socioeconomic opportunities. -
17:04 - 17:08In fact, boost their self-esteem
and boost their self-worth. -
17:08 - 17:10If I can leave you with one thing today,
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17:11 - 17:13it's that if a young person is empowered,
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17:13 - 17:16it is incredibly difficult
to traffic them. -
17:16 - 17:17Thank you.
-
17:17 - 17:20(Applause)
- Title:
- Domestic sex trafficking - a survivor's perspective | Karly Church | TEDxOshawaED
- Description:
-
As she defines what domestic sex trafficking is, Karly talks about the stages of exploitation while drawing upon her personal experiences. Karly helps educators to understand how they can help to elicit change. Karly Church is a crisis intervention counselor, social service worker, and advocate for survivors of domestic sex trafficking. She has worked in the front line with youth in sex work and trafficking for over four years. Church works at Victim Services of Durham Region, where she provides specialized services and support to survivors of human trafficking. Church is a Canadore College graduate from two separate programs: mental health and addictions, and social service. As a survivor of domestic human trafficking, she harnesses her lived experience, extensive knowledge, and her passion to work with her fellow survivors. She meets individuals at their needs while providing support with a trauma-informed perspective. Church has delivered keynote speeches throughout Canada and has trained and presented to thousands of social service providers. She is dedicated to providing preventative education through youth symposiums, presentations, consultations, interviews, and panels on human trafficking.
This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx
- Video Language:
- English
- Team:
- closed TED
- Project:
- TEDxTalks
- Duration:
- 17:33
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