[Script Info] Title: [Events] Format: Layer, Start, End, Style, Name, MarginL, MarginR, MarginV, Effect, Text Dialogue: 0,0:00:00.52,0:00:01.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there is a bug Dialogue: 0,0:00:01.95,0:00:05.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I can not realy on clicking on the terminal to open a link in a browser Dialogue: 0,0:00:05.65,0:00:08.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because there is currently a bug in konsole with a k Dialogue: 0,0:00:08.87,0:00:12.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that opens link in random browsers Dialogue: 0,0:00:14.76,0:00:19.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and i learned that i have a browser installed that i didnt know existed Dialogue: 0,0:00:19.01,0:00:22.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,its called eric6 Dialogue: 0,0:00:22.62,0:00:30.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and if you have the eric python\Ngraphical development environment installed Dialogue: 0,0:00:31.04,0:00:38.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it contains a browser and it maps it to mine Dialogue: 0,0:00:38.24,0:00:43.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and if you have a terminal that for some reason open browsers at random Dialogue: 0,0:00:43.00,0:00:47.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you get links to open in that Dialogue: 0,0:00:47.10,0:00:49.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so ill copy and paste the urls Dialogue: 0,0:00:49.49,0:00:51.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it will be slighly slower Dialogue: 0,0:00:51.22,0:00:53.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i think i have 5 minutes still to go Dialogue: 0,0:00:58.04,0:01:01.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,time passes quickly when you have fun Dialogue: 0,0:01:04.60,0:01:07.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,audience: install terminator! Dialogue: 0,0:01:07.60,0:01:09.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,enrico: no Dialogue: 0,0:01:09.01,0:01:14.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if look at my blog, there is a list of my\Nrequirements for terminal emulators Dialogue: 0,0:01:14.04,0:01:17.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and the reason they all suck Dialogue: 0,0:01:17.08,0:01:20.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,all the bits that do not work Dialogue: 0,0:01:20.06,0:01:24.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,now terminator is in that list,\Nit has things that dont work for me Dialogue: 0,0:01:24.42,0:01:27.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but we have the upstream for\Nlxterminal at the conference Dialogue: 0,0:01:27.86,0:01:31.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that has seen the list and went like Dialogue: 0,0:01:31.10,0:01:33.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that i implemented 2 days ago Dialogue: 0,0:01:33.78,0:01:35.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that is in my todo list now Dialogue: 0,0:01:35.54,0:01:39.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that, let me have a look at the code,\Nyes i can do it Dialogue: 0,0:01:39.32,0:01:41.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,im working on it Dialogue: 0,0:01:41.21,0:01:44.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and so thank you Dialogue: 0,0:01:59.27,0:02:01.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,3 minutes i believe Dialogue: 0,0:02:01.88,0:02:02.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,2 Dialogue: 0,0:02:06.89,0:02:09.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,well, in the meantime, i will read something Dialogue: 0,0:02:09.60,0:02:13.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that i guess everyone \Nshould had read before entering Dialogue: 0,0:02:13.92,0:02:17.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,which is, i will ramble freely\Nabout debian Dialogue: 0,0:02:17.87,0:02:20.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and everything else i care about Dialogue: 0,0:02:20.18,0:02:23.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and you are going to have the misfortune Dialogue: 0,0:02:24.04,0:02:27.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of figuring out what it is that \Ni also care about Dialogue: 0,0:02:29.63,0:02:32.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i will cover topics including Dialogue: 0,0:02:33.00,0:02:35.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but specially, not limited to, Dialogue: 0,0:02:36.02,0:02:39.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,anarchism, relationships, sex, violence Dialogue: 0,0:02:39.04,0:02:42.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,society, stereotypes and expectations Dialogue: 0,0:02:42.35,0:02:46.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and i will always be talking about debian Dialogue: 0,0:02:47.44,0:02:49.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,really Dialogue: 0,0:02:49.21,0:02:51.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i expect that this talks will be both Dialogue: 0,0:02:51.78,0:02:54.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,unsuitable and insightful for pretty much Dialogue: 0,0:02:55.21,0:02:58.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,any kind of audience that i can think of Dialogue: 0,0:02:58.69,0:03:03.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and first 3 minutes of it are\Nabout making sure Dialogue: 0,0:03:03.36,0:03:06.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you understand what will be\Nthe remaining 27 Dialogue: 0,0:03:07.04,0:03:11.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and have a chance to leave Dialogue: 0,0:03:20.60,0:03:23.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,after 3 minutes if you leave Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you are kinda seen by everyone or something Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but some shy people might Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i dont know Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,no, at any point in the talk Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if anybody want to safe word out Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and ill explain what the safe word is Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but if anybody want out and Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,lalala i dont want to hear anymore Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,raise your hand, i will stop Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,black the screen Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,?? my ?? file will show up in my clumsy attempt Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to black the screen, and waiting for you to leave Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the room before resuming, so Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,?? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,quotations that are famous anarchists have said Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,hundreds of years ago about debian Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,like this could be about mailing list discussions Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for example Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i guess i can begin Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,chapter one: disclaimers Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,sorry, I was supposed to be introduced Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I was born... Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is it on? okay Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it gives me great pleasure to introduce a man that Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that pushed me into the maintainers process about Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,seven years ago Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Enrico Zini Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so, chapter one: disclaimers Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i will let people know my better introducer Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Aida: anyhow if you are still a little dark Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in the end, just ask a young person or google Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i mean, dont take your computer for a ?? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i mean ?? afterwards Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Enrico: that songs talks about dogging Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,which is an interesting topic to kind of give Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,an idea about the rest of the thing Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,its good to give you an idea about the level Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of the rest of the discussion Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so you know what is going to happen Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,dogging redirect to public sex Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,its one of the famous Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,anyone safewording outs? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you okay? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,its a british thing apparently Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a british are famous for steam engines Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and dogging and a bunch of other things Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,hot and cold water, ?? but dogging in this case Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and dogging like debian has Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a code of conduct Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,its good that we found a liquor tap Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,which people who are doing things seriously Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there is more if you goggle Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but yeah, its always sex in public spaces Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,its usually done with cars Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in cars, im not sure someone might Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but i personally wouldnt recommend it Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,its not my thing Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,theres a code that if you would like to be seen Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,while you do it, you leave the light on Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,inside the car Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if you want to be followed into another's place Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you flash your lights Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i think there was a thing about raising the windows Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but im not sure about that Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,theres a wonderful documental from BBC Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,where you can find Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ask the british Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so this set Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Aida: theres a sense of dispossition Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,leave now Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,right, we can begin Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,about the debian social contract Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and Emma Goldman said once that Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Every daring attempt to make a great change Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in existing conditions, every lofty vision of Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,new possibilities for the human race Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,has been labeled Utopian Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we do Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,im going to talk about many topics Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that we all know have so much in common Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Anarchism, poliamory, BSDM and free software Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and after all, they are about people Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,consensually, doing things together, right? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,people consensually doing things together Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so its different communities, with some overlaps Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they are different communities of people Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,consensually doing things together and Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there a lot to talk, theres a lot to learn Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,from each other, because for a reason Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or another all this communities are focus on Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,different aspects of aspects of consensually Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,doing things together Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,anarchism might focus more on the political side Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,BDSM might focus more on the consensual side Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and on the things that you do, free software Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and poliamory have a lot of focus on the political Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the doing things, the consensual and ?? everything else Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,chapter 2: BDSM Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Lysander Spooner talking about proprietary cloud Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,service providers said that Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,A person is no less a slave because they are allowed Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to choose a new master once in a term of years Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so, BDSM Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we freesoftware people think that we are clever Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because we have recursive acronyms Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,BDSM stands for Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Bondage disco is an interesting concept Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we could expanded later im sure it can go somewhere Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who was in the debian contributors this afternoon Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,has worked on code that submits debian developers Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,sorry, submit debian contributors to the site Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but its not the same thing Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so its a chained acronym Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,BD, DS, SM (Bondage Discipline, Dominance Submission, Sado Masochism) Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so thats the first thing we have in common Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,clever acronyms Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so its about some of those things Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i think BDSM is really interesting not just because Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of whips but also for having develop over the years Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a lot of awareness about power relationships Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,its in the acronym, dominance-submission-discipline Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with that in mind i have a BDSM freesoftware definition Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i refuse to be bound by software Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i cannot negotiate with Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and how i negotiate with software Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,well, if i have the source code i can come to terms Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with it and nogiating my interaction and if i dont Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the source code or i dont have the ability to change it Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,then im stuck, right? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so i think thats a pretty good definition of freesoftware Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,im very proud of that Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so thats another way to coceptualize freesoftware that Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i think that can be understood really well by people Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who may struggle with the four freedoms or the 10 points Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of the ?? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so thats one thing that could be carried across Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,theres another acronym that i would like to submit Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to your consideration which is this Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Your Kink Is Not My Kink But Your Kink Is Okay (YKINMKBYKIOK) Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,which i said but i should expand it for those that dont Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,find it obvious Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,kink is something people do Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and something that some other people might not want to do Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in the BSDM community is costumary to say Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,your kink is not my kink but your kink is okay Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the idea is to be non judgamental but at the same time Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to pull oneself out from somebody that one doesnt want to do Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in my opinion, this is the final solution Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for the VI vs EMACS problem Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,im really eager to carry this into the freesoftware Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,community, it would solve a lot of things Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,other interesting things about BDSM is awareness about Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,confort zones i know when im doing something im confortable with Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i know my limits i know the limits i have i do not want to push Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i learned to communicate all this Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,otherwise dissaster happens Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there are safewords to prevent dissater to happen Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,safeword means a word that means stop everything right now Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,no matter what Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there is even level of safe words Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,common standard traffic lights green, yellow, red Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,green means yeah, bring it on Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,yellow means this is getting intense, but do go on Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,red means stop right now or i will call the police Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,once i manage to manage to wiggle free of this Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,incidentally safe words are something we dont have in debian Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and i would be interested to have Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there are things that i see in mailing lists that i would like Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to safeword out Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there is the clause the mail browser option yes Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it works pretty well, but then some people might take decisions Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and then... well, its a concept i think should be explored Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,theres this nice gift that tell me that i can zoom, yes Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"No means no", unless there has been a long discussion first, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and a safeword is in place, in which case "Fuzzy purple unicorn" means "no" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,thats the idea of safewords and "no means no" is an important Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,concept in most of the BSDM community Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,theres the some fringes in there but i think is unimportant Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,theres an interesting thing coming from the BDSM comunity Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is the awereness that really, when no means no Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is easier to say yes Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if im around a person that says, would you like to have tea Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and i say mmm nooo? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and i go like: but do have tea, tea is good Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and im like no Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and it goes: but its really good tea Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,then i start feeling really unconfortable and chances are Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i dont want to drink anymore tea in my whole life Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,which is a shame, because i might like tea Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,incidentally, you can have consent explain with tea Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,video: if you are still struggling with consent Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,just imagine instead of iniciating sex, you are making them a cup of tea Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you said: hey, would you like a cup of tea? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they go: omg, fuck yes, i would fucking love a cup of tea Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,thank you Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,then you know they want a cup of tea Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if you say: hey would you like a cup of tea? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they are like: hmmm, you know, im not really sure Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but you could make him a cup of tea or not Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you could make him a cup of tea... or not Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but be aware they might not drink it Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and if they dont drink it, then if they dont drink it Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,then, and this is the important part, dont make them drink it Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,just because you made it, doenst mean you are entitled to watch them Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,drink it Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and if they say: no thank you Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,then, dont make them tea. That is all Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,enrico: i highly recommend this video Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,consent is important, ill come back to it later Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,theres another thing that i really like about BDSM Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,its a concept wich is aftercare Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the idea is that after you are having a person, bound... whatever Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and you both have push your comfort\Nzones a little further than usual Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when the whole thing ends, there's a\Nmoment of recovering Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,getting back inside the comfort zones of love,\Nof celebration Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,which is called aftercare, which is\Nsomething Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that we dont do much in debian Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we do debian release parties. Aftercare for release Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we are out of the bindings of the free spirit Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and then we get back into the comfort zone Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of freedom and gcc transition and breaking\Nunstable Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but there could be moments of celebration Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,after each vote on something Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there could be solidarity towards the people Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that werent represented on the results\Nof the election Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or high fives after springs and\Nlots of efforts Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,thats another thing that, in part we do, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but could do more, because more hacks\Nis nice Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,except if one does not like hacks Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,at first, approach people at front\Nif you want to hug Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and signal that you want a hug, \Nbefore entering their personal space Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,do not hug people from the back,\Nthat short of things Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,chapter previous + 1: poliamory Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Emma Goldman said: Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If love does not know how to give and\Ntake without restrictions, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it is not love, but a transaction\Nthat never fails to lay stress Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,on a plus and a minus Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,poliamory is according to wikipedia Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the practice, desire or acceptance\Nof intimate relationships Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that are not exclusive with respect to Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,other sexual intimate relationships,\Nand, this is important, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with knowledge and consent from\Neveryone involved Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so, a fling on the side dont ask, dont tell Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,its generally not considered poliamory Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,unless, theres knowledge and consent about\Nthe dont ask dont tell part of it Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that is the concept Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the poliamory community has some\Ninteresting things for us to learn Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,one was pointed out in Vaumarcus\Na couple of years ago Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,nod if you want to be credited Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that wasnt a nod, i can take it as a ??\Nconsense Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Rhonda pointed out something along\Nthe line of Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if somebody takes good care of one\Nof your packages Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you should be happy, rather than angry Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the poliamorous community uses the word\Ncompersion a lot Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,which is exactly the feeling you get when\Nsomebody else also takes good care Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of one of your packages Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,talking about that Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we currently allow only one value\Nin the maintainer field in debian control Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,which means that packages takes over\Nare traumatic experiences Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because the previous maintainer is dump\Nin favor of a new one Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and values can only be replaced Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if values could be added instead and\Nremoved when they dont make sense anymore Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,then the whole concept of somebody not\Nmaintaining a packages ?? and so on Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,could be solved by other people joining in\Nand relationships evolving, right?\N Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so thats a proposal for policy Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,another interesting thing that comes out of\Nthe poliamorous greater cloud of people Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is that different people have different\Ndefinitions of love Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,different needs, different definitions of love\Neven Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so it happened to me to have a conversation\Nwith a person and say Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so, how do you define love?\Nwhats love for you? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,oh, great you asked me\Nthat is fantastic because Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,its not an standard thing Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if you ask a random person what is love\Noften the result is... its love, right? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so, the definition ive adopted recently\Nand im still very happy about is this Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[I love you:]\N[my world is better with you in it] Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with and idea like that, you can see\Nhow it is possible Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to love several people at once Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it does not mean that one has\Nspecific expectations Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,towards the people one loves Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,otherwise, life becomes difficult and\Ntheres only 24h in a day Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there are people that makes my world better\Nbut they dont smell in a way that i like Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and stuff like that Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[laughs] Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and the distinction between romantic love\Nand sexual love could be made Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you can see how the whole concept of relationship\Ngets deconstructed Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and one can have sexual, romantic\Nsexual and romantic Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,no sexual, no romantic but plans for life Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,?? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,life gets really interesting Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and fortunately theres only 24h in a day\Nand i like ?? every night Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but we were talking about anarchism as well Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so i have done my ?? as well Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the readical idea than relationships can\Nbe something that is negotiated Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,between the people involved Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,thats so radical Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,why isnt like that all the time? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to me is a big problem if a relationship\Nis something that is bound by rules Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that are not mutually agreed on\Nby the people involved, right? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but, some call it, relationship anarchy Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so, going on, im 4 minutes behind Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Voltairine de Cleyre about\Nnew debian contributors Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and trusting lintian warmings said: Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,anarchism, to me, means not only the denial\Nof authority, not only a new economy, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but a revision of the principles of morality Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It means the development of the individual\Nas well as the assertion of the individual Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It means self-responsible, and not leader\Nwhorship Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so self-reponsability before blinding\Ntrusting lintian warmings Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,back to consent, i thought a lot about consent\Nbecause, having a person mildly say yes Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,does not feel like right Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when things get complicated\Nyou need to know what you are doing Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,what situation you are putting yourself into Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,which isnt often easy. Especially, if you\Ndont know the person Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you have in front of you. And if you dont\Nknow the person you have in front of you Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you might not know what situation\Nyou are putting yourself into Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and you deny consent until\Nyou feel some trust Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you need to know that the person asking\Na question really is able to acept Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,any answer and take it seriously Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that is not necessarily true if you have\Nan application manager Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that asks a question to an applicant\Nsome applicants go... [i dont know] Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,what do you think of the social contract\Nand the applicant goes like... Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,its perfect! i have no problem with it\Nbut... can you trust that? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and you need to feel that you have\Nalternatives, because if an applicant thinks Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if they say, i really do not understand why\Nin the DFSG we have an article about ?? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they might feel like if they say that\Nthey will not become debian developers Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because something Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so if one doesnt feel theres\Nan alternative Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if things go wrong, there is ways out\Nand so on Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,then consent is hard Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,sometime ago, i came up with the idea of Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,be selfish when you ask, honest when\Nyou reply, and when others reply Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,take them seriously, and if any of this\Ndoes not stand, i find it hard to trust Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that we are in a consensual situation Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and unfortunately i see little education\Nfor consent Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in standard education, there is not much\Nconsent Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,dear child, this is\Nwhat you would like to do today Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,this is what is important for you today Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,otherwise, bad things happen Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or in the workplace, there is often\Nlittle consensuality Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the whole thing begins with, i need\Nto buy part of your consent with money Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,some people are lucky to get paid\Nfor what they really want to do Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,some people not Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we will be followed by the cheese and wine\NBOF, so there will be alcohol Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,alcohol is not an excuse for breaking\Nconsent Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and incidentally i heard reports of\Nborderline situations happening Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,at debconf, if something makes you\Nuncomfortable, you can talk to people Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,at frontdesk Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if people in frontdesk makes you\Nuncomfortable, you can talk to me Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if both me and frontdesk makes you\Nuncomfortable, call the police Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,audience: [inaudible]\Ngood point Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,thats a very good point Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,can i have 5 more minutes? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,practical advice Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,suppose you want relationship advice\Nor work advice Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they are pretty much the same,\Nlike this is a nice article about Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,how to deal with abusive relationship\Nor bad work places Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,keep them tired,\Nkeep them too busy to think Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,keep them emotionally involved\Nreward intermittently Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,keep the crises rolling,\Nthings will be better when... Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we figured some time ago that if you go on\Na situation thinking, it will be better Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it never will Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,keep real rewards distant, and so on Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,more practical advice\Ni can give links later Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,this is an excellent article Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[what technical recruiters\Ncan learn from online dating] Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i highly recommend it, because then\Nyou can really see the recruiter email Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,very similar to some shady person\Nsomewhere coming from behind Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and saying: do you come here often? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,more relationship advice from\N99 ways to ruin an open source project Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,how to ruin the trust of the community Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,exert excessive control Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,never give anyone else commit access Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i dont know what that was,\Nrequire an unparseable unicode character Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ignore concerns voiced in issues Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,do any of this in a relationship and\Nit wont last long, right? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and so on Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i highly also recommend this thing\Nmaking relationships suck Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,its a wonderful read, i can provide links\Nsomehow later Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i dont know where to publish them\Nbut we can work it out Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,theres also this Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,BSDM advice, tips for new dominants Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so, tips for new packages maintainers Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you will fuck up Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and so on Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i guess is time to close, i hope\Ni gave an idea on how to carry across Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,advise thought quite a lot over the years\Nbetween one domain to another Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when theres an interesting point\Nthat will overlap Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and id like to close recalling\Nmy definition of love Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,dear debian and dear everyone contributing\Nto debian Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,my world is better with you in it\N<3 Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,thank you, thank you, thank you Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,talkmaister: any questions?