meet again episode 3

I'm entering into the world of

shidduchim (dating for marriage) for

my sons.

Your name is, Yael? --Yael

Yael Mizrachi

I have quadruplet sons

Ah, mazal tov

And they are 21 now

this is when they were born

Rav Ovadia Yosef was their sandak

Wow

We are neighbors

Oh, how fun, what a privilege

This is how they look today

Ben Tsion, Yosef, Shlomo, and Yishai

What sweethearts

They're very sweet

I've been praying for their marriages

since the day they were born

I went through each stage, but shidduchim

always scared me

and with God's help, I want to marry off

all 4 of them

Just like their brises were together...

Maybe you'll find me quadruplet girls

The whole topic of shidduchim is very hard

for me. Their attitude towards

"older singles," meaning that a guy or

young woman, who are actually a boy and

a girl, who are over 21 are past their

prime. We need to mourn and pray

as though...what are you talking about?!

I need somebody...her priority needs

to be "I'm marrying a man of Torah"

of sacrificing for the Torah. These are

young men for whom Torah is of supreme

value. Do you want to start?

Let's start with Ben Tsion

Where does he study?

He studies at Hebron Yeshiva

Yes? --A boy who's clever, cute, very

smart. Learns very nicely

He's the heart of the home

Wherever you need him, he's there

Then we come to Shlomo, who studies in

TIfrach.

Marriage market. The mother is trying to

sell her sons.

Why is this the parents' decision at all?

You take such a sensitive matter, marriage

Which is a beautiful, romantic thing

And they make it into a kind of commerce

You're helping to marry them off?

Look, what do you mean by "helping"? We're

not people of financial abundance.

What should I match you up with?

For example, I'll call somebody "Listen,

I have a suggestion." So she'll say,

"OK, I'm prepared to give this

"What are they giving?" I need answers

They talk about this matter right away?

They get to it. That's the reality. You

can't get around it. --Right

Look, of course we'll commit to...and

we'll take loans, but this...

But we're talking about minor sums

I understand

I'm not talking about an apartment at all

I'm talking about helping them

I don't think there can be a connection

between Yael and me.

She's a stranger, whom I don't know

Who represents in my eyes everything that

caused my being cut off from my son

Who represents the society that I am so

angry at. And I question whether this is

the woman who can help me get Omer back

I'll think about several possibilities.

With God's help

I've challenged you, huh? --Yes, totally

Fascinating--great.-Thanks very much

Let's see if it's really possible

to create a real conversation between

2 extremely different worlds