I'm entering into the world of shidduchim (dating for marriage) for my sons. Your name is, Yael? --Yael Yael Mizrachi I have quadruplet sons Ah, mazal tov And they are 21 now this is when they were born Rav Ovadia Yosef was their sandak Wow We are neighbors Oh, how fun, what a privilege This is how they look today Ben Tsion, Yosef, Shlomo, and Yishai What sweethearts They're very sweet I've been praying for their marriages since the day they were born I went through each stage, but shidduchim always scared me and with God's help, I want to marry off all 4 of them Just like their brises were together... Maybe you'll find me quadruplet girls The whole topic of shidduchim is very hard for me. Their attitude towards "older singles," meaning that a guy or young woman, who are actually a boy and a girl, who are over 21 are past their prime. We need to mourn and pray as though...what are you talking about?! I need somebody...her priority needs to be "I'm marrying a man of Torah" of sacrificing for the Torah. These are young men for whom Torah is of supreme value. Do you want to start? Let's start with Ben Tsion Where does he study? He studies at Hebron Yeshiva Yes? --A boy who's clever, cute, very smart. Learns very nicely He's the heart of the home Wherever you need him, he's there Then we come to Shlomo, who studies in TIfrach. Marriage market. The mother is trying to sell her sons. Why is this the parents' decision at all? You take such a sensitive matter, marriage Which is a beautiful, romantic thing And they make it into a kind of commerce You're helping to marry them off? Look, what do you mean by "helping"? We're not people of financial abundance. What should I match you up with? For example, I'll call somebody "Listen, I have a suggestion." So she'll say, "OK, I'm prepared to give this "What are they giving?" I need answers They talk about this matter right away? They get to it. That's the reality. You can't get around it. --Right Look, of course we'll commit to...and we'll take loans, but this... But we're talking about minor sums I understand I'm not talking about an apartment at all I'm talking about helping them I don't think there can be a connection between Yael and me. She's a stranger, whom I don't know Who represents in my eyes everything that caused my being cut off from my son Who represents the society that I am so angry at. And I question whether this is the woman who can help me get Omer back I'll think about several possibilities. With God's help I've challenged you, huh? --Yes, totally Fascinating--great.-Thanks very much Let's see if it's really possible to create a real conversation between 2 extremely different worlds