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Dialogue: 0,0:01:41.32,0:01:42.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm entering into the world of
Dialogue: 0,0:01:42.91,0:01:44.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,shidduchim (dating for marriage) for
Dialogue: 0,0:01:44.67,0:01:45.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,my sons.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:45.39,0:01:47.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Your name is, Yael? --Yael
Dialogue: 0,0:01:47.66,0:01:49.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yael Mizrachi
Dialogue: 0,0:01:49.17,0:01:51.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I have quadruplet sons
Dialogue: 0,0:01:51.73,0:01:52.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ah, mazal tov
Dialogue: 0,0:01:52.80,0:01:54.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And they are 21 now
Dialogue: 0,0:01:56.14,0:01:57.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,this is when they were born
Dialogue: 0,0:01:57.71,0:01:59.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Rav Ovadia Yosef was their sandak
Dialogue: 0,0:01:59.57,0:02:00.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Wow
Dialogue: 0,0:02:01.14,0:02:01.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We are neighbors
Dialogue: 0,0:02:01.96,0:02:04.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Oh, how fun, what a privilege
Dialogue: 0,0:02:04.82,0:02:07.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is how they look today
Dialogue: 0,0:02:07.07,0:02:09.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ben Tsion, Yosef, Shlomo, and Yishai
Dialogue: 0,0:02:09.35,0:02:11.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What sweethearts
Dialogue: 0,0:02:11.01,0:02:12.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They're very sweet
Dialogue: 0,0:02:12.26,0:02:14.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I've been praying for their marriages
Dialogue: 0,0:02:14.18,0:02:15.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,since the day they were born
Dialogue: 0,0:02:15.64,0:02:18.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I went through each stage, but shidduchim
Dialogue: 0,0:02:18.78,0:02:20.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,always scared me
Dialogue: 0,0:02:20.25,0:02:22.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and with God's help, I want to marry off
Dialogue: 0,0:02:22.80,0:02:24.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,all 4 of them
Dialogue: 0,0:02:24.36,0:02:26.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Just like their brises were together...
Dialogue: 0,0:02:26.77,0:02:28.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Maybe you'll find me quadruplet girls
Dialogue: 0,0:02:32.42,0:02:34.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The whole topic of shidduchim is very hard
Dialogue: 0,0:02:34.81,0:02:37.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for me. Their attitude towards
Dialogue: 0,0:02:37.02,0:02:41.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"older singles," meaning that a guy or
Dialogue: 0,0:02:41.18,0:02:44.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,young woman, who are actually a boy and
Dialogue: 0,0:02:44.02,0:02:47.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a girl, who are over 21 are past their
Dialogue: 0,0:02:47.72,0:02:50.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,prime. We need to mourn and pray
Dialogue: 0,0:02:50.70,0:02:53.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as though...what are you talking about?!
Dialogue: 0,0:02:53.32,0:02:56.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I need somebody...her priority needs
Dialogue: 0,0:02:56.59,0:02:58.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to be "I'm marrying a man of Torah"
Dialogue: 0,0:02:58.79,0:03:01.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of sacrificing for the Torah. These are
Dialogue: 0,0:03:01.36,0:03:03.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,young men for whom Torah is of supreme
Dialogue: 0,0:03:03.52,0:03:05.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,value. Do you want to start?
Dialogue: 0,0:03:05.37,0:03:06.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Let's start with Ben Tsion
Dialogue: 0,0:03:06.85,0:03:07.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Where does he study?
Dialogue: 0,0:03:07.98,0:03:09.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He studies at Hebron Yeshiva
Dialogue: 0,0:03:09.37,0:03:13.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yes? --A boy who's clever, cute, very
Dialogue: 0,0:03:13.02,0:03:14.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,smart. Learns very nicely
Dialogue: 0,0:03:14.86,0:03:16.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He's the heart of the home
Dialogue: 0,0:03:16.82,0:03:18.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Wherever you need him, he's there
Dialogue: 0,0:03:18.86,0:03:20.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Then we come to Shlomo, who studies in
Dialogue: 0,0:03:20.77,0:03:21.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,TIfrach.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:22.36,0:03:26.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Marriage market. The mother is trying to
Dialogue: 0,0:03:26.19,0:03:27.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,sell her sons.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:27.46,0:03:30.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Why is this the parents' decision at all?
Dialogue: 0,0:03:30.40,0:03:33.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You take such a sensitive matter, marriage
Dialogue: 0,0:03:33.87,0:03:37.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Which is a beautiful, romantic thing
Dialogue: 0,0:03:37.45,0:03:39.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And they make it into a kind of commerce
Dialogue: 0,0:03:40.58,0:03:42.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You're helping to marry them off?
Dialogue: 0,0:03:42.28,0:03:44.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Look, what do you mean by "helping"? We're
Dialogue: 0,0:03:44.29,0:03:48.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,not people of financial abundance.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:48.29,0:03:49.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What should I match you up with?
Dialogue: 0,0:03:50.31,0:03:52.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,For example, I'll call somebody "Listen,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:52.36,0:03:54.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I have a suggestion." So she'll say,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:54.25,0:03:55.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"OK, I'm prepared to give this
Dialogue: 0,0:03:55.78,0:03:57.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"What are they giving?" I need answers
Dialogue: 0,0:03:57.68,0:03:59.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They talk about this matter right away?
Dialogue: 0,0:03:59.60,0:04:01.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They get to it. That's the reality. You
Dialogue: 0,0:04:01.56,0:04:02.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,can't get around it. --Right
Dialogue: 0,0:04:02.97,0:04:05.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Look, of course we'll commit to...and
Dialogue: 0,0:04:05.27,0:04:06.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we'll take loans, but this...
Dialogue: 0,0:04:06.76,0:04:09.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But we're talking about minor sums
Dialogue: 0,0:04:09.61,0:04:10.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I understand
Dialogue: 0,0:04:10.73,0:04:12.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm not talking about an apartment at all
Dialogue: 0,0:04:12.77,0:04:14.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm talking about helping them
Dialogue: 0,0:04:14.67,0:04:17.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I don't think there can be a connection
Dialogue: 0,0:04:17.60,0:04:18.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,between Yael and me.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:18.72,0:04:20.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She's a stranger, whom I don't know
Dialogue: 0,0:04:20.58,0:04:23.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Who represents in my eyes everything that
Dialogue: 0,0:04:23.83,0:04:25.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,caused my being cut off from my son
Dialogue: 0,0:04:25.60,0:04:28.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Who represents the society that I am so
Dialogue: 0,0:04:28.94,0:04:32.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,angry at. And I question whether this is
Dialogue: 0,0:04:32.94,0:04:35.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the woman who can help me get Omer back
Dialogue: 0,0:04:35.99,0:04:38.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'll think about several possibilities.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:38.22,0:04:39.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,With God's help
Dialogue: 0,0:04:39.04,0:04:41.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I've challenged you, huh? --Yes, totally
Dialogue: 0,0:04:41.65,0:04:44.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Fascinating--great.-Thanks very much
Dialogue: 0,0:04:44.57,0:04:46.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Let's see if it's really possible
Dialogue: 0,0:04:46.27,0:04:48.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to create a real conversation between
Dialogue: 0,0:04:48.59,0:04:50.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,2 extremely different worlds