The Silicon Valley and the internet
gave me superpowers,

tools to go to battle with,

a suit to take bullets with

and a giant signal in the sky
that told me when it was time to fight.

Now, I can't actually prove any of this.

I am not a "scientist,"

I don't have "facts."

In fact, my Rotten Tomato score
is running around 50 percent right now,

so I'm not sure why they let me in.

(Laughter)

But if we're talking
about colliding with a power

that's bigger than us,

then I'm in the right place,

because this last year,

I had an interesting year with a movie
called "Crazy Rich Asians" that I did --

(Applause and cheers)

Thank you, thank you.

And if we're talking about
connection specifically today,

then I know my story is only possible

because of a collection of connections
that happened throughout my life,

and so hopefully by telling
a little bit of my story,

it will help someone else find their path
a little sooner than I did.

My story begins when I opened
the holy book for the first time ...

The holy book of gadgets,
of course, "Sharper Image."

(Laughter)

Yes, those who know.

It was a magical magazine of dreams

and had things in there
that you knew could not possibly exist,

but it was right there.

You could order it -- come in the mail.

And some things that probably
should have never existed,

like "Gregory," a lifelike,
portable mannequin

who deters crime by his strong,
masculine appearance.

This is a real --

(Laughter)

This is a real thing, by the way.

(Laughter)

But my eyes were set
on the Sima Video Ed/it 2.

This thing was so cool at the age of 10.

You could connect
all your VHS players together

and cut something together,

so I called my parents
and convinced them to buy this for me.

But before I get into that,

let me give you a little rundown
about my parents.

They came to the United States
when they were young,

they're from Taiwan and China

and they settled
in Los Altos, California --

the Silicon Valley
before the Silicon Valley --

and they started a restaurant
called Chef Chu's.

50 years later, today,
they still work at the restaurant,

they're still there,

and I grew up there, so it was great.

Talk about connection --
this place was a hub of connection.

People coming there to celebrate
birthdays, anniversaries, business deals,

eating, drinking --

connection.

And I got to grow up in that environment.

And my parents always said America
is the greatest place in the world.

You can --

if you love anything, you can work hard
and you can accomplish anything you want.

So, they raised five all-American kids.

I am the youngest --

you can see I'm the one
with the eyes closed there --

and they named actually my sister and I,
Jennifer and Jonathan,

after Jennifer and Jonathan Hart
from that TV show "Hart to Hart."

(Laughter)

So that's how much
they loved America, apparently.

And they thought
that we were The Kennedys --

my mom specifically --

so she dressed us up
all the time like each other

and she put us in etiquette classes
and ballroom dance classes,

made sure that we had
the right dental plan --

(Laughter)

This is a real picture of me.
That is not fake.

Thank God for that one.

And I was in charge of the video camera
every time we went on vacations,

so I would collect all these videos
and had nothing to do with it.

Thus, the Sima Video Ed/it 2.

I convinced them to get it for me,

and I spent all night
trying to wrangle all the VCRs

from my brother's and sister's room,
tangled in wires,

and now I had something to show them.

So I brought them
into the living room one night,

it was probably 1991,
somewhere around there,

and I sit them down in the living room --

my heart was pounding,
my breaths were deep --

sort of like right now --

and I pressed play

and something extraordinary
happened actually.

They cried.

And cried.

They cried not because it was
the most amazing home video edit ever --

although it was pretty good --

(Laughter)

but because they saw our family
as a normal family that fit in

and belonged on the screen
in front of them,

just like the movies that they worshipped
and the TV shows that they named us after.

I remember as the youngest
of these five kids

feeling heard for the first time.

There was this place
where all these things in my head

could go into the great, electric
somewhere-out-there and exist and escape,

and I knew from this moment on,

I wanted to do this
for the rest of my life,

whether I was going
to get paid for it or not.

So I had this passion
and now I needed some tools,

and my dad went to work.

He continued to brag
about my home video editing skills

to the customers at Chef Chu's,

and luckily this is the Silicon Valley,

so they're working on stuff,
hardware and software --

these are all engineers.

And they offered to give me things
for digital video editing.

This is like the mid-'90s, early '90's,

where this stuff didn't exist
for kids like me.

So I'd get this beta software
and hardware from places like HP and Sun

and Russell Brown at Adobe.

And I had no manual,

so I'd figure it out
and I fell in love with it even more.

I went to USC School of Cinematic Arts
and started to go there,

and my mom and dad would always
call me randomly and remind me

that I've got to do movies
about my Chinese heritage.

That China was going to be
a huge market for movies one day.

I was like, "Yeah right, guys".

(Laughter)

Always listen to your parents.

(Laughter)

I wanted to be Zemeckis,
Lucas and Spielberg.

The last thing I wanted to talk about
was my own cultural identity,

my ethnicity.

And honestly, I had no one else to talk --

there was no one at school
that I could really open up to,

and even if I did, like, what would I say?

So I ignored it
and I moved on with my life.

Cut to 15 years later,

I made it in Hollywood.

I got discovered by Spielberg,

I worked with The Rock
and Bruce Willis and Justin Bieber.

I even came to the TED stage
to present my dance company LXD,

and it was great.

And then a couple years ago,

I felt a little bit lost, creatively.

The engine was going down a little bit,

and I got a sign ...

I heard from voices from the sky ...

or more it was like, birds.

OK, fine, it was Twitter.

And Twitter --

(Laughter)

It was Constance Wu on Twitter,

it was Daniel Dae Kim,

it was Jenny Yang, who's here today,

it was Alan Yang --

all of these people
who were writing their frustrations

with representation in Hollywood.

And it really hit me.

I thought these things
but never really registered --

I was really focused on --

and I felt lucky to be working,

and so then I realized --

yeah, what is wrong with Hollywood?

Why aren't they doing this?

And then I looked at myself in the mirror
and realized I am Hollywood.

I literally --

I popped my collar before I came out here,

that's how Hollywood I am.

(Laughter)

Is it still up? OK, good.

(Applause)

For all these years I felt
I had been given so much,

and what was I giving back
to the film business that I loved?

I felt lucky to be here,

but at this moment, I realized
that I was not just lucky to be here,

I had the right to be here.

No, I earned the right to be here.

All those sleepless nights,
all those parties I missed on Fridays,

every friend and girlfriend I lost
because I was editing --

I earned the right to be here not just
to have a voice but to say something,

and say something important,

and I had, actually, the power --

the superpower to change things
if I really, really wanted to.

When you try to tell
stories about yourself

and people who look like you
and look like your family,

it can be scary,

and all those feelings
of being alone came back.

But the internet is what told me --

sent the sign that there was going
to be a whole army waiting for me

to support me and to love me for it.

And so I found Kevin Kwan's
amazing novel "Crazy Rich Asians,"

and we went to work.

We put this movie together.

All-Asian cast --

the first all-Asian cast in 25 years
with a contemporary story --

(Applause and cheers)

But when we started
it was not a guarantee at all.

There was no comp for this kind of movie.

Every time we did surveys and stuff,

the audiences weren't going to show up.

In fact, even in our test screenings

where you give free tickets to people
to watch your movie,

we had a one to 25 ratio,

meaning after 25 asks,
only one person said yes,

which is super low
for these types of things.

Asian people who knew the book
didn't trust Hollywood at all,

Asian people who didn't know the book
thought the title was offensive

and other people who weren't Asian
just didn't think it was for them.

So we were pretty screwed.

Luckily, Warner Brothers
didn't turn away from us.

But then the electric
somewhere struck again,

and this army of Asian-American
writers, reporters, bloggers,

who over the years had worked their way up
through their respective publications,

went to work, unbeknownst to me.

And they started to post things.

Also, some tech founders out here
started to post stuff on social media,

write stuff about us
in articles in the "LA Times,"

in "The Hollywood Reporter"
and "Entertainment Weekly."

It was like this grassroots uprising
of making ourselves news.

What an amazing thing to witness.

And the swell of support
turned into this conversation online

between all these Asian Americans

where we could actually debate and discuss

what stories we wanted to tell,

what stories should be told or not,

what kind of --

are we allowed to make fun of ourselves?

What about casting?
What are we allowed to do?

And we didn't agree -- and we still don't,

but that wasn't the point.

The point was the conversation
was happening.

And this conversation stream
became an infrastructure.

It took all these different groups
that were trying to achieve the same thing

and put us all together
in this connective tissue.

And again, not perfect,

but the start of how we determine
our own representation on the big screen.

It became more physical
when I went to the movie theater.

I'll never forget going --
opening weekend,

and I went into the theater,
and it's not just Asians --

all types of people --

and I go in and sit down,

and people laughed, people cried,

and when I went into the lobby,

people stayed.

It's like they didn't want to leave.

They just hugged each other,

high-fived each other, took selfies,

they debated it, they laughed about it.

All these different things.

I had such an intimate
relationship with this movie,

but I didn't understand
when we were making it

what we were making
until it was happening --

that it was the same thing that my parents
felt when they watched our family videos

in that living room that day.

Seeing us on the screen has a power to it,

and the only way I can
describe it is pride.

I have always understood
this word intellectually --

I've probably talked about this word,

but to actually feel pride --

and those of you who have felt it know --

it's like you just want to like,
touch everybody and grab and run around.

It's like a very --

I can't explain --

it's just a very physical feeling,

all because of
a long pattern of connection.

Film was a gift given to me,

and through the years
I've learned a lot of things.

You can plan, you can write scripts,
you can do your storyboards,

but at a certain point,

your movie will speak back to you,

and it's your job to listen.

It's this living organism
and it sort of presents itself,

so you better catch it
before it slips through your hands,

and that's the most exciting part
about making movies.

When I look at life,
it's not that different actually.

I've been led through these
sort of breadcrumbs of connections

through people, through circumstances,

through luck.

And it changed when I realized
that once you start listening

to the silent beats
and the messy noises around you,

you realize that there's this beautiful
symphony already written for you.

A direct line to your destiny.

Your superpower.

Now, film was a gift given to me,

sort of spurred on by my parents
and supported by my community.

I got to be who I wanted to be
when I needed to be it.

My mom posted something
on Facebook the other day,

which is usually a really bad
thing to say out loud --

scary, she should not
have a Facebook, but --

(Laughter)

She posted this thing, and it was a meme,

you know, one of those funny things,

and it said, "You can't change
someone who doesn't want to change,

but never underestimate
the power of planting a seed."

And as I was doing
the finishing touches on this talk,

I realized that all the powerful
connections in my life

were through generosity and kindness
and love and hope.

So when I think about my movies
"Crazy Rich Asians" and "In the Heights"

which I'm working on right now --

(Applause and cheers)

Yes, it's a good one.

All I want to do
is show joy and hope in them,

because I refuse to believe
that our best days are behind us,

but in fact, around the corner.

Because you see love --

love is the superpower
that was given to me.

Love is the superpower
that was passed onto me.

Love is the only thing
that can stop a speeding bullet

before it even exits the chamber.

Love is the only thing
that can leap over a building

and have a whole community
look up into the sky,

join hands,

and have the courage to face something
that's impossibly bigger than themselves.

So I have a challenge for myself
and for anyone here.

As you're working on your thing,

on your company,

and you're forging this thing to life,
and you're making the impossible possible,

let's just not forget
to be kind to each other,

because I believe that is
the most powerful form of connection

we can give to this planet.

In fact, our future depends on it.

Thank you.

(Applause and cheers)

Thank you.

(Applause)