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Good morning
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dear Thay dear sangha, Today is the 9th,
Sunday, the 9th of December, 2018.
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We are in the Assembly of Stars
meditation hall in Lower Hamlet,
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and this is the last of the Dharma talks
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before the end of our three month
retreat together .
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So I feel a special sense of
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speaking to that.
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Most of us have been here
for the three month retreat together.
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We've been
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those of you who came
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to Plum Village for three months
have experienced
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going through ups and downs.
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And maybe,
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some of the time you wondered,
'Why did I come?'
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I don't know. Excuse me.
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It's a loud blow.
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(Laughter)
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Maybe you felt, 'Yeah, I'd be better off
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in a cave somewhere'.
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Maybe in the Pole, or somewhere,
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in some mountain.
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When we practice together,
we really
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have to meet each other,
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and get along together.
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If we don't get along together,
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because we are living together 24/7,
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it really shows up.
It is difficult to stay calm and to enjoy.
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So actually, a lot of the practice that
you've been learning these three months
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is how to live in harmony,
how to get along.
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How to practice loving speech,
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but also you have to communicate
when there is a difficulty,
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but with loving speech.
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How to let go
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of your preference
and maybe of your irritation.
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How to see the other person
is also suffering.
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Maybe see that
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try to understand them
so you can let go of judgment.
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And we have practices, like Beginning Anew
that we do regularly.
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We do that formally, we sit down
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and practice expressing gratitude,
noticing the good things in each other,
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and also expressing when we have a regret
towards each other.
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It is very renewing practice.
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We had - It is also,
we call it the season of Shining Light.
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So because we see each other,
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we are rooming together, eating together,
working together,
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we see each other and we have
something called the sangha eye.
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Because, ourselves, if we are just
practising alone,
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there is a number of things that we miss
from practising in a community.
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One is that because
we are not interacting,
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things don't maybe come up
in the same way.
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So when we are interacting we get to see
ourselves,
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but also we have blind spots.
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And so the it's very helpful for us,
for the people we trust,
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we open ourselves up,
we allow ourselves to be
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open to receiving their view about us.
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And that view is expressed
with all of the love and appreciation also
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for the whole of us
not just pointing to the difficulty.
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So we also practice this
in the three months retreat,
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shining light on each other's practice,
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in order to help the other person
have more freedom,
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more growth in themselves,
and more happiness.
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Sometimes it can be a bit scary
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to allow ourselves
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to have people share like that.
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I've known people run away.
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But when they allow themselves to
they only experience the love.
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I'm sure there are
some exceptions to that.
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Sometimes people can get hurt also,
and then we also have compassion
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that we are learning the practice.
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So living together is
a practice in itself.
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And in a sense, it is -
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you can say that
learning to live together,
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learning to get along is also the fruit
of the practice.
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Thay has said, brotherhood, sisterhood,
there is no religion
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that is higher than that.
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So we are generating
brotherhood and sisterhood.
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We are going in that spirit.
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There was a Harvard study
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done, it was one of the longest ever
studies, 75 years.
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It is still going on, I think.
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And they interview
and get also self-information
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from standardised groups of men
in the States.
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Essentially the point is that
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they were looking to see
what are the conditions
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for happiness and health
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looking right through the life.
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And what they found was
if you want to know
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what makes a happy octogenarian,
that means, if you are 80 years or over,
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because these groups they've been
following since they were boys,
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and now they are in their 80's.
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You look back when they are 50 years old,
which is my age,
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you can determine whether
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the conditions that seem to be common,
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like the ones that are happy,
the ones that are healthy,
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the result is only one factor.
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It is not how much cholesterol
in the blood,
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it is not many things you might think,
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but the one factor that comes out
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is those people report that they have
good relationships.
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Relationships they can trust.
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And that seems to be
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an essential requisite for a happy life.
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So in community,we are blessed with having
.many deep connections to each other.
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There is a lot of trust of each other
in the community,
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which allows us to be open,
and allows us to be
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free to express.
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And, of course, relationships,
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when we talk about relationships,
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what came to my mind when I
heard about this study is,
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what about the relationship
we have to ourselves?
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Do we trust ourselves?
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This must also be important.
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And the relationship we have to society,
to Mother Earth.
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This must also count
as a relationship.
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And it is also clear
we know from our experience
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That to the extend that we are
in a good relationship with ourselves,
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our relationship with others goes well.
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And when our relationship with ourselves
is not so good,
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we find, things seem
to get reflected to us.
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The sangha is like a hall of mirrors.
We keep seeing ourselves reflected.
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So when we have a difficult interaction,
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it's always helpful to ask
what is going on in me
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that is connected with
that difficult interaction,
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as well as, you know,
because there is a tendency maybe
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to blame or put it on the other person.
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We may see interesting things
when we do that.
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We may see that,
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'Ah! This reaction I had in the meeting,
or in this interaction,
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brought about
quite a strong emotion in me.
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It seems a bit more than,
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kind of disproportionated
to what actually happened.
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Why did I get so angry?
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Why did I feel so anxious?'
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I myself found myself in a situation
where some anxiety and fear came,
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and it started actually that anger.
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I was,
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I was feeling somehow slightly let down
about something, and then
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this anxiety came.
And I ask the question to myself,
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what does this remind me of?
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I should ask it to my store consciousness.
What does this remind me of?
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I just waited for something to come,
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and I suddenly had an image of myself
in kindergarten.
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A memory that I didn't have before.
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It is not one I could remember,
but it's suddenly a flash
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of waiting to be picked up.
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But my mother was late that day.
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And there was a fear in me, I guess.
And it was amazing how that
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I made the connection just
by asking that question.
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So it allowed me to, just having
that interaction with the other person
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allowed me to touch something
that needed healing.
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And the healing is maybe a continuous
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path of healing that we are on.
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We are not going to heal
everything overnight,
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or with one insight.
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But we, each time we have a small healing,
we get more energy and more confidence.
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And we feel, wow!
Okay, this is a good path.
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And actually,
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just understanding ourselves,
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understanding that this is
where it is coming from,
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in a sense it can help so much
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knowing that we have a practice
that also embraces
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ourselves in that moment,
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embraces maybe the little boy,
the little girl in us,
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when we see that coming up,
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we recognize that there is
some suffering there relating to that age
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when we were very young,
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we have the opportunity to embrace,
to smile and with our solidity,
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that we generate through the practice,
we can breathe with that emotion.
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So knowing we have a path,
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we have a lot of kind of
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we have happiness and we have
a sense that the suffering
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doesn't need to be so much now,
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because the biggest suffering
is not having a way, having a path.
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So we have a lot of gratitude also
for having the practice.
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Even before we've applied it, but when
we apply it, and we get the experience,
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every time we are so grateful.
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I also had an opportunity in this winter,
this three month retreat,
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we don't call it the winter retreat now
because for the very first time
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is more the autumn period. I also had
an experience this three month retreat
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of connecting with my 14 year old in me.
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And, yeah. At that time
when he felt very isolated
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and not enjoying school,
and feeling
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pretty in a bit of a hostile environment
he found.
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And I knew, I know about this time, and I
know t somehow shows up in my interactions
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but I took sometime to try to talk
with the boy. And he showed up.
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And I, he said,
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he asked, I asked, 'Would you like
to spend time with me?
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Now I'm an adult'. And he said,
'You are too busy'.
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(Laughter)
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'You got too many things going on.
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And I cause you
all sorts of problems anyway,
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so I don't want to cause you
any more problems.
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I don't want to take up your time.'
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It was very fascinating
to hear this response.
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And actually, it gave me quite
some insight into myself.
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Because, of course, that is part of me.
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So I share that because
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it is part of our journey
that we are on to
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heal all the parts of ourselves.
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Inside as well as outside.
Inside we also have a kind of sangha.
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Different voices.
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And we also need to bring harmony to
those different voices inside ourselves.
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But when I was deciding to become a monk,
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I remember
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the Dharma teacher
from the UK Martin Pitt,
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he gave me that advice, he said,
'In making the decision,
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check with your internal sangha, and
make sure everybody -'
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So it's a real sangha, a real decision.
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Because there are
these many voices in you.
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Some other voices of doubt,
I had to say, 'Please, I hear you, but
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we've touched something deeper
than doubt at this moment',
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and the doubt had to agree.
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The Christians say, the doubting Thomas.
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So,
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isn't a fascinating journey, isn't it?
The spiritual path.
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And we do it together.
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And somehow, being together as a community
brings so much joy and insight,
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it is so rich.
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Some others are going away,
going back to the real world.
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I always find slightly ironic
to use that term,
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because it seems like out
in the real world
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is where people are busy, very busy,
running away from reality.
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Whereas the idea here in Plum Village
is we touch reality
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within us and in nature.
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But we go back out, and
we want to maintain our practice.
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One of the things we need to draw on is
the connections we made here,
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to keep them in our heart, and know
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when we think we are isolated,
and all around out there,
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remember that is not true.
Because the connections we make
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that are real,
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they are not subject to dissolving simply
because we are in a different place,
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they are non local.
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So we always remember
the sangha has our back.
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They are behind us.
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People visualize it in different ways.
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Connected with the Harvard study
I mentioned,
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loneliness is the biggest killer. That is
a medical fact, that loneliness kills.
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And we are so blessed that we don't -
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We have so many conditions
to not be lonely
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through the practice of
being there for ourselves,
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and learning how to be there with
other people and the connections we make.
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The relationships we make.
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Because even you can be in a relationship,
you can be in a family,
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you can be with many people,
but, as the 14 year old boy,
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in a boarding school,
lots and lots of people.
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They are not dissimilar to Plum Village's.
Living in a dormitory,
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sharing rooms. But I felt isolated
and lonely at that particular time.
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So it's not exactly
that you are next to people
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that you don't feel lonely.
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It can also be that you can feel lonely
even in Plum Village.
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Again, if you
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somehow are not in good relationship
with what is going on in you.
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And in those cases, where
that is happening in Plum Village,
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the encouragement is to stay.
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And you may feel
you don't have
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your smile anymore.
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I'll always remember reading
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Thay saying,
'The dandelion keeps your smile.'
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You know, the flower you see all alone,
it has your smile for you.
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And like so in the sangha we can feel
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not doing well, but we should try
to become aware
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that there is a lot of love
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and care. People are giving us space,
but they care.
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And sometimes the care comes
in a way we don't want,
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maybe somebody comes into our space,
and tries to shake us up a bit.
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And we don't want that.
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Maybe it wasn't so skilful of them.
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But nevertheless we can recognize it
as good intention, as care.
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So we may have taken different themes
for this three month period,
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as well. I know some of the brothers in
Upper Hamlet were studying the Anapanasati
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for instance.
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Some brothers were studying
the 40 tenets of Plum Village.
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The Manifestation Only teachings
was one subject I was engaged with.
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And I think many other topics.
But them all, somehow,
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connect to the same point
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of how to come into relationship
with myself, to be there,
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and really understand what is going on
in my body, in my mind.
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And see my nature of interbeing.
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And Thay has said that even just
practising the first 4 of the Anapanasati,
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awareness of the breath,
awareness of the body,
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we touch all of the other aspects,
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because of the nature of interbeing.
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So in connection when we are
just aware of our body,
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as we really realize that,
oh, here is my body
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and I'm really get to be in my body,
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experiencing it with the breath,
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I also naturally become aware
of my feelings.
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They are part of what is going on,
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and there is a correspondence in the body.
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And also mental formations,
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perceptions and consciousness.
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I remember,
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yes, we'll have one sound of the bell.
Thank you.
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I was just reflecting
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that one of the earliest winter retreat
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I can recall, I can't remember
specifically which one it was,
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but Thay said at the very opening talk
of the retreat,
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'This retreat as an opportunity
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and we should practice to be there
for every mental formation
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as it arises.'
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And this was,
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I just remember being astounded
by the possibility of that.
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Every mental formation that will arise,
I will be there,
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and embrace, and take care, and recognize.
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And I guess that was
a very wonderful thing to set
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as an aim for myself.
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To try to be there for what is going on.
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Always being aware
what mental formations come and go
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and watching the impermanence of them,
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and watching them in relation to
what is happening in me,
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around me.
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And in my interactions.
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But we sometimes get forgetful and lost,
so just like on the cushion,
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we recognize and
we have to keep coming back.
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One of the themes
of the three month retreat
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has been the 14 mindfulness trainings.
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And the ones that were left to me
to share about
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were concerning
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right compassion and action, it has to do
with right livelihood, reverence for life
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and generosity.
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So it is 11, 12 and 13.
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The 14 mindfulness trainings,
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Thay wrote then in 1964.
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And it seems to me
they are as relevant today
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as they could ever had been.
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They were written
in the time of the Vietnam War.
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And they have been revised.
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So we try to make them more and more
relevant and skilful, appropriate
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to our time and with the insight
that we have.
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Ethics
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is a big subject, and in a sense,
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the trainings, be they
the 5 mindfulness trainings or the 14,
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they are a contribution to what we hope
is a good contributions to a global ethic.
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And they don't need to be
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religious or include Buddhist -
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Kind of, things specific to Buddhism.
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They can be put into the language that
is for anybody can feel comfortable with.
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But hopefully, they are universal.
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They speak to the universal.
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And they are about
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they are about love,
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they are about the actions
and interactions
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that come about when we are
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coming from a place of true love.
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True love we know
has a number of ingredients.
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True love has brotherhood and sisterhood,
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kindness in it, loving kindness.
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It has that friendship element.
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Spiritual friendship,
being there for each other.
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True love also has compassion.
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We really can have empathy
for the other person,
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but we don't get overwhelmed
by the suffering,
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so we can truly be there.
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Even when somebody is suffering,
we can maintain our stability
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and be there for that person
and help them.
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True love also has joy.
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Without joy, we can () so ().
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Joy is something very important.
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And it arises
from unusual places sometimes.
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Sometimes it is the joy that comes
when we are able to
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be there with our suffering in such a way
that we think, oh!
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This is a kind of joy,
because I get to be with -
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I'm in the most important place,
where I need to be.
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And there is a sort of
underlying joy to that,
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even though you are maybe
experiencing the suffering.
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So I'm using that example to show
joy doesn't always show up,
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it's not always what we think
in terms of excitement, joy,
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although expressions of joy and smiles
is also
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very good.
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I said to a brother before I came
to the talk this morning,
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'I need to have a laugh before I go.'
I need to generate that joyful energy.
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Sometimes we need to -
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Sometimes I think of something funny
just to generate that joy.
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But the real joy coming from friendship,
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from insight,
from our mindfulness practice,
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that is a very deep kind of joy.
And we need that.
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And then there is inclusiveness.
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We include all that is in us and
we take care of what is going on,
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but we don't set up
an internal battle field.
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So even we see part of ourselves
is seemingly
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causing us suffering, maybe
doing something which brings us -
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makes us feel ashamed,
or it is a bad habit,
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or we've spoken to somebody in a bad way,
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we somehow have to still have compassion
for that part of us too, and say,
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Okay, I accept.
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I accept everything that is there,
I love and accept myself just as I am.
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I know that there are
causes and conditions
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for why it is like this right now.
Maybe I'm frustrated with myself.
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I also accept my frustration with myself.
Okay, I'm frustrated with myself.
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So whatever is there, you say, Okay,
I get it. If you are there,
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you are there for a reason.
And I accept you.
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It doesn't mean we have to be
again overwhelmed, or pushed,
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but we accept and we smile to that.
An d we try to generate stability
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so we can be with that part of ourselves
without being carried away.
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And so too with our relationships
with other people,
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and when we get frustrated and upset
with other people,
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to have this capacity to include and
to stay with, to be there for each other.
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And there is
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in the Discourse on Love, we are invited
to extend our love to all beings
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across the entire cosmos.
It's very grand.
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A new chant that Thay Phap Linh
has been doing with a group of us
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is on the CD, a new chanting CD.
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I'm very embarrassed with the video
they made to go with that, by the way.
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I don't know if anybody saw it, but
I got very self-conscious seeing myself,
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To look like very, very sincere.
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Anyway, on this chant,
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there is the line,
'showing love and concern for
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as for our very own family'.
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So bringing that spirit of
being concerned for
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anybody we meet
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as if they were our own family.
That is the spirit.
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And it's not totally beyond our capacity.
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We know when we are in a good place
we can have that openness of heart.
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There is a quote I heard about
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a husband whose wife came back
after being on a Buddhist retreat.
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And the husband was asked, 'Sorry,
have you seen any change in your wife
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since she came back? - Yes, she is in love
with the whole universe,
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but nobody in particular.'
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(Laughter)
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And I think that ment
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we have to be careful to just be
in this place of thinking about
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the grand love for everything, but then
we don't actually apply it to
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what is this relationship
going on right now.
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Yes, I can't deal with this one, but,
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(Laughter)
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I love - I feel so much for
all the suffering in the world,
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but I can't deal with you.
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So that is also why a sangha is important.
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We meet the - It is where the rubber hits
the world, hits the real, we rub it.
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The expression is, the chopsticks we use,
to clean chopsticks
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you get a bunch
and you rub them all together,
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rub and then clean them individually.
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It is a good image.
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Yes, I was going to share something.
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I have emailed Christiana Figueres.
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She is the lady
that brought together 195 countries
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for the Paris Climate Change Agreement.
Do you remember her?
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She has been to Plum Village
quite a few times,
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and she has spoken quite a few times
to young Wake Up groups
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that were here
when we had a Wake Up retreats.
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She has come with her daughter.
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And she loves Plum Village.
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But when she was doing the work,
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I emailed her to just check
if she was Okay that I share this story.
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Because when she was
in the middle of her work
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of bringing together these countries
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for the Paris, they call it,
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is it COP 21? Yes.
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COP 24 is going on right now in Poland.
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So it is a momentous thing
that she achieved, and it sets,
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gave everybody quite a sense of Okay,
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at least these countries coming together,
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there is a certain sangha harmony
in the world to take climate change
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as an issue to really do something.
And it was a great start that was -
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In all of the other previous times,
we couldn't get to the starting block.
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So it was a wonderful thing
she was able to achieve,
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and she did it with Thay's teachings.
And she practised listening.
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She said that was the main factor
that helped to get to that.
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This listening to really understanding
what was the situation,
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what was the obstacles
for these countries,
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be they Saudi Arabia, China, etcetera.
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But there was a period in that build up
of five years leading up to
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2015 Paris,
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when she had a crisis,
a personal crisis.
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And she was in Bonn at that time,
in Germany,
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and she somehow, miraculously
found out about Plum Village.
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She knew nothing before
about Plum Village.
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And she knew she needed to go somewhere.
She was very, very -
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Yeah, in a crisis.
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And she found the EIAB,
our centre in Germany, it was close enough
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and she made an emergency booking.
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And she just went.
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Nobody knew who she was.
She said to us that it saved her.
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It really saved her.
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And that the Vietnamese sisters,
with their kindness, that were there,
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she was staying in the sister's place,
they don't know what they did for me.
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They didn't know who I was. She is a
retreatant. What else do you need to know?
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It's probably good sometimes
we don't know who is here.
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I may get scared.
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(Laughter)
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But it-
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So just the simple kindness,
and the joy,
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was enough to support and
get her back into a good place.
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And the she was able to bring
this amazing result.
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Part of -
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So we never know, it is part of the story.
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We never know our simple connection
to people, every action
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we don't know what ripple effect
there may be.
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On the - On one level,
we would just being here
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and welcoming, and doing our thing,
doing our practice.
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But that can save somebody.
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And it is just everybody,
not just Christiana Figueres of course
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that is important. Everybody, each person
that comes
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is precious that they come here
and that we can support them.
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And we do for them,
we also do for ourselves.
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Another element of love is
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trust.
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Really knowing that
we are there for each other.
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So even we do have times
when we bicker and fall out.
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Finally we know that
we are there for each other.
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That is the important thing.
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Sometimes we can't help, we get a bit
angry, we say the words that we regret.
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We are not perfect.
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And in a sense, we shouldn't
try to be too perfect.
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Sometimes
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it's when you lose it a little bit
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that you get a real conversation with
the person that you needed to have.
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Sometimes life is messy like that.
It is not always going to go perfectly,
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with a loving speech. But we have
as the background,
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the basic intention is loving speech
as the support for our community.
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Without that we fail.
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And listening, being there for each other.
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And reverence is the other one,
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which is also the name of the training
that I was given.
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Reverence is this quality of wonder,
this quality of awe.
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If we are to act for Mother Earth,
we should be in love with Mother Earth.
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We should have that sense of connection
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which gives us a feeling of
wonder and respect.
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And that is
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something I hope we all have
and we all experience,
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but when we are out of connection
with Mother Earth,
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we may realize I need to give more time,
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like my 14 year-old child said to me,
'Ah! But you are too busy!'
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If we say - Just Mother Earth says,
'It seems you are too busy'.
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I walked the other day, I had this sense,
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I was walking around the lake at Son Ha,
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and it was lovely and muddy.
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And it was raining, and it reminded me
of when I used to walk in Scotland,
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it is often raining in Scotland.
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But it is a kind of nice memory.
And the Earth was there.
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And it's like she said to me,
'I'm still here!'.
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Like if you've gotten -
I'm still here,
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patient. I'm here for you.
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The question is whether we
make ourselves available.
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So,
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building our connection is so important.
With Mother Earth.
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It is -
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For me in Scotland,
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I had such a great feeling sometimes
hiking in the hills there,
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and I would sometimes
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really feel like, 'Oh! This is really
a relationship,
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this really is a non verbal thing',
but it really felt like connection,
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like there was a -
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And I also experienced that in Deer Park.
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I sometimes experience it here
but maybe a bit less. I don't know.
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I think it is -
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That is also my responsibility. Because
it is also very beautiful here.
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But sometimes I made
very profound connections
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and I think it was also because
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there was a sense of wilderness,
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when I would be really in the wilderness.
I could touch it.
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That is something we need a bit more of,
a bit more wilderness in the world.
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Since I was born,
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half the wild animals have disappeared
in terms of biomass.
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This is the World Wildlife
Fund's statistic.
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But it is a very sad situation
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that we are losing our wilderness,
we are losing our wild animals.
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And
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this is
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while it is very inspiring to see this -
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A couple that had a fairly sizeable part
of big land in England,
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and for 17 years they tried to do
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the regular intensive
agriculture and dairy on this farm.
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But they couldn't make it a profit.
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And then they came across this method,
this idea,
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this way to rewild their land
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introducing old animals that used to roam.
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In England there used to be
all sorts of animals, and bisons,
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and oryxes, and even lions
used to be.
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It was more like the Serengeti
in England.
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Or a kind of -
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It's amazing when you study these things.
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You find that there was lions
in Trafalgar Square, real ones.
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So she set about rewilding, basically
letting Mother Nature do its thing,
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and introducing these animals that also
added dynamism and shaped the landscape.
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And then there would be water features
naturally appearing
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and it was a very muddy ground.
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It was beautiful to see
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the change from intensive agriculture
to returning to this wilderness area.
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And now I think she runs safaris.
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It's actually right where my mother lives,
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so I think I'm going to take my mother
on a safari to see this place.
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But the regeneration of the soil
and the land by this,
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contributes so much back to the health
of the country.
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I think we need to do more of that.
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And they actually
do make a living from the land as well.
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If we continue the way we are going
with the land use,
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in the UK they estimate there will only be
a hundred harvests left
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because all of the top soil
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and all of the richness of the soil is
being depleted by the intensive farming.
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So this rewilding thing is becoming more
and more understood to be a good thing.
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So, we look at the 14 mindfulness
trainings these three months,
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and we see that they all inter-relate.
We have to practise them together.
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They inter-are. They arise
from the insight of interbeing,
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and when we practise them
we practise them with that spirit.
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When we have the awakened kind of view,
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naturally we want to go in this direction.
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And we practise then from
being right in the heart of life,
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and also being in love,
as I was describing.
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So they are also an expression
of love and insight.
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When we look at the ones
that are concerned concerned with
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reverence for life and generosity,
and right livelihood,
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we are also touching a lot of suffering.
The damage to the environment,
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the suffering caused by war and conflict,
by exploitation and social injustice.
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And it can be overwhelming
when we touch this kind of suffering,
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because it seems so vast.
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And with the latest report from the
Intergovernmental Panel on Climate Change
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saying the next 12 years
is very , very crucial
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if we are to prevent catastrophic
effects of climate change.
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We have this - The aim is would be
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they propose to try to keep
the temperature from rising too much,
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keep to 1,5 ºC above the
preindustrial levels.
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But the effort we need to do that,
the transformation of society
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going, switching all the way to renewables
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it seems like a massive task.
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Actually, technology-wise,
we probably can do it.
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I saw Elon Musk the guy
that makes the Tesla cars saying that
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quite easily, for instance China, because
it has a lot of free land,
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could meet all its energy supplies
with solar easily, he said.
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So I don't know, but he seems to know.
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And I think - But when we get
this kind of reports,
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there is a sense of urgency
that comes up.
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And a sense of
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we have to name it,
there is fear that arises.
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Maybe despair.
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Because we feel like it is not possible.
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And certainly the way the politics are,
it doesn't feel so possible,
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because the real problem seems to be
that the politicians are not able to
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take hold of the situation.
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In Poland they met, the COP24,
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and they couldn't agree to take on
this report and act on it.
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So if we can't rely on the politicians,
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we have to come to a more
regional level, perhaps.
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And more local level, even in Plum Village
we need to go solar.
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We need to also be the change
that needs to happen.
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And we already do one of the main things
that is recommended,
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that can make a massive difference
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to empower us as individuals
and communities.
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But if it is done at societal level
all the better,
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that is individuals to go vegan.
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It's being said to be the plant based diet
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is really the biggest contribution
we can make as individuals
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to reducing
the amount of emissions of CO2.
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It turns out that the -
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The impact of the animal industry,
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the livestock is huge.
And it's not really surprising
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when you consider the numbers involved.
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70 billion animals a year.
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Our human population is 7.6 billion,
but 70 billion is 10 times that.
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And it is rising. The demand is rising.
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So we really need to bring it
in the other direction.
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I don't think that the meat industry
will disappear,
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but without a collective awakening
and insight
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which needs to be global,
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but we do our part.
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If you are a meat eater,
and you come to Plum Village for say,
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10 days, it is a rough calculation,
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you save -
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Suppose you are eating a steak every night,
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I think you would.
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But by coming to Plum Village and
being eating a vegan diet,
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for ten days you would save a ton
of carbon dioxide.
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That is how signigicant it is.
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We do more by going to the vegan diet than
for instance, changing our travel methods.
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I was talking with a brother, joking about
how do we stop Plum Village monks
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the flying thing. Because we do
fly to places.
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But we are doing a very good things.
So we don't want to stop.
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There is a trip going to Uganda
in January.
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They are going to be dealing with
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some serious things going on there
with violence in schools
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and things like these.
So we want to go.
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And I was discussing, maybe we -
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People that invite us should plant trees
for every time monks and nuns go out.
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And the brother said, ' Maybe the people
invite us out,
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they have to go vegan for 10 days'.
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But we can get creative, we can look
how can we become
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zero carbon by 2025, Plum Village.
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We can look. See what we can do.
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But this sense of fear and urgency
is very real.
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And it generates a kind of energy,
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even those who are already
wanting to do something active,
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which isn't always
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sustainable. There may be
anger and fear,
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and always helpful.
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Because if we want to practice
compassionate action,
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we also have to include those who are
currently doing harm,
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and not excluding them
from our compassion.
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We know that actually this is a tragedy
being played out.
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And everybody involved is in the tragedy.
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If you are on a flight,
and the plain is going to crush,
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sorry for this example,
it just came to my mind.
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But it doesn't matter if you are
in a business class or first class,
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you are too going to crush.
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So everybody, even the ones that are
creating that problem,
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we would see.
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We have to have compassion and there are
always causes and conditions
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why people are in that situation.
And maybe with our loving kindness
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as oposed to our anger,
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we can touch their hearts.
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Apparently, a brother told me that
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there was a lawyer
from the animal industry, a top lawyer,
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he came to Plum Village,
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and he spent time with him,
and by the end of the time,
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he didn't want to be a lawyer
for the animal industry any more.
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I don't know, I mean, just saying,
you know?
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You come to Plum Village,
you touch some seed inside,
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maybe that can be enough
to touch the human heart.
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I thought it was maybe good
that I didn't get to meet him,
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because I'd be
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quizzing him about all sort of things.
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It is better that he came
and he just experienced like
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nobody knew who he was, but
he just got to touch
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peace and touch happiness
of real connection.
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And he no longer wanted to be
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defending something that he knew
was causing harm.
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But yes,
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we know that
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a big change has to happen.
And it can be scary.
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And we know that we don't know
if we are going to make it,
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in the sense of keeping everything Okay.
Maybe it is not Okay.
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And we have to face a lot of difficulties
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in the future and some scary times ahead
for ourselves, for our children,
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for our grandchildren,
for different generations we know
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will experience unless
we can act very strongly right now.
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And this is only on the subject
of climate change,
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not to mention other subjects.
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But this urgency feeling could be good,
but we need to put it into practise also.
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I remember Thay when he was in Singapore,
and trying to help the boat people,
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and the story there was that
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the authorities found out about
what he was doing,
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trying to help 700, 800 people in boats
to go to Australia, I think.
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And they told him
he had to leave in 24 hours.
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And at that time, the sense of urgency
of what he could do came up.
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And he knew the most important thing
he needed at that moment was peace.
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So he practised through the night
walking meditation,
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and he said to himself, 'If I cannot
have peace in this moment,
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then all the peace that I experienced
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on the cushion, in the meditation hall,
what does it mean?
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I need it now.'
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And from that, he wrote the calligraphy
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'If you want peace,
peace is with you immediately.'
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Because right in the heart of the urgency,
he was able to touch his peace.
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And from that peace, he was able to act.
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Act with compassion, act with lucidity,
from a calm place.
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So, because the situation is so urgent,
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because the fear is there,
we really need to practise.
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And we need to come from a place of peace.
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And act.
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And, of course, we need to come
from a place of love.
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In terms of the mindfulness training on
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suffering caused by war and conflict,
somehow we are all touched by that.
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And I also mention by way of example
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Annie Nushann is a woman of Liberia
who during the Liberian Civil War -
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She was from a very poor society herself.
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Her family was very poor,
she had 10 children.
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She was a refugee,
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she was, I think, in the Ivory Coast
during the civil war.
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But she came back into the country by foot
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there having being -
Her house was burned down
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and also so terrible things,
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but she came back with this intention
to call for peace in Liberia.
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She became a big part
of a mouvement of women
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which included Muslims, and Christians.
They got together.
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And though they were poor,
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they didn't have any resources, they had
their voices and they chanted for peace.
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And eventually they got
international recognition
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and were actually able to catalyse peace
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after 15 years of civil war.
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A seemingly endless situation.
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And of course the peace work has continued
after the war.
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And she has done so many amazing actions.
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And one of the recents I mention
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she didn't know the practise at that time,
but somehow, through her Christian roots,
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going to church she got in touch with,
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asked God for peace in her heart.
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For courage
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and peace.
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And she went to face situations
including boys with guns high on drugs,
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and all sorts of situations
where she was able to
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meet them as a mother. That is what
she would say,
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'I went to them as a mother energy.'
As a mother loves her only child
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at the risk of her own life.
So we cultivate boundless love
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for each and everyone of us.
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So she went with that spirit.
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And she didn't experience fear.
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In those times.
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So it is another example of how,
in a very crazy situation,
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when we can touch non-fear and peace
we are somehow also,
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and there is compassion,
we are somehow protected.
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Let have one sound of the bell
and then I'll wrap up.
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(Bell)
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So there is also the suffering
caused by exploitation.
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We are aware of the great poverty
many people experience.
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And just to mention the connection
with the vegan diet,
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if all of the land
that is used to feed livestock
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was to feeding people,
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it could feed three billion people.
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It is the land that can cover
the whole of the European Union.
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So, we think there
is a pressure on the land
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and also water resources.
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Many aspects can be helped if we do this.
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So I want to emphasize that.
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When we go out, we maybe carry the light
we've found.
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We know that our actions are important.
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Mother Teresa said, it is not that
you do a great act of love,
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like that heroic moment
where you save the day,
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Superman's suit on,
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but she said, it is the small acts
but with great love.
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So the spirit of bringing a lot of love
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into our actions of body,
speech and mind.
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And trusting that,
and letting that lead us
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so as we go out into the world,
I'm not going to say the real world,
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but as we go out from Plum Village,
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remember the importance of
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spiritual friendship,
stay in touch with your heart,
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and find a sangha.
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Come back when you need,
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and know that your actions
make a difference.
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Even you have one thought that is maybe
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hopeless in some situation,
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but you do it anyway.
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But you do it from love
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and from a sense of this is what I want,
this is how I want to be.
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Because ultimately it is
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how we are is
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the real thing.
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If we -
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We don't actually know
the ripple effects.