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Personally,
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I feel there are only a few
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The first one
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I can appreciate time
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I can appreciate time
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Then the second one
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I can please others more
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Especially to parents
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In my community
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I see that
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Among fellow members of the community
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They are more open to each other
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So, between one community
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with other communities
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They are more open to each other
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Second, they are also more sensitive
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More respect for each other
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Both from men to women
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And women to men
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It feels like the same
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Nothing is different
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So, respect each other
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In the community itself
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That is the change
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We take one another
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Become an alarm
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or a reminder for others
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If there is an error
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Or misunderstanding in the community
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Or turn from what we learned
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Like positive values
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In our lives
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We are from one another
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Remind each other
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Then
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there are certainly many obstacles
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And the challenges we will face
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And especially myself
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As the leader
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Where should I continue
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Give a good example
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For its own constraints, namely
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Most come from within me
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I sometimes can't control myself
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I can't sometimes be
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good examples for friends
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But there I continued to study
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And I keep reminding friends
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For us together
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Achieving something good
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In our lives
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We must continue together
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We must remind each other
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Between one another
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First time
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I am involved in the LLB (Laki - laki Baru) community
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This New Men's Movement
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From church youth
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Incidentally at that time LLB
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Working directly with church youth
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And communities are formed
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In the youth of the church
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I am also involved in it
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Which is the background
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Why do I have to
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involved in it
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Mindset
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About the purpose of the LLB itself
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That is about gender equality
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And violence against women
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More specifically
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I am interested in gender itself
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Because in my mind
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Gender is actually
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An act of crime
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And
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Apparently
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After being in this community
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The mindset that is in my mind
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That is still wrong
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New Men's Movement
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In a community
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Occurs in Mata Air Village
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Organized by the CIS
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Very useful for
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Not only for the church
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But it also has an impact on society
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Especially in Mata Air Village
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We feel helped by this movement
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Because at least
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There are paradigm changes
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Changing mindsets
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From the youth
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Parents
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Problem living side by side
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With his wife and children
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Because that is what happens in society
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And also to the church
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Specifically
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This New Men's Movement
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in this region
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Especially young people
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Who follows it
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He has a positive impact
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In the church specifically
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They have already begun to show
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Who are they
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Young people who think positively
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But also young people
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Not only
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Keep quiet
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But has a role
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In their particular church
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When given space
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They work responsibly
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There are new creations
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What they met
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Even they provide solutions
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In a problem
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I am personally
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As a priest in this place
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Feeling helped
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Why
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Because it's almost mostly
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Youth
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Feeling that they are no longer
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Give responsibility, then they act
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But they have started to have
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Sort of their past work
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Start doing activities
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In church life
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But also society
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About how
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Difficult
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Difficult
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Sad
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sad
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Odd
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Odd
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Worry
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Worry
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Means that communication is important
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Here it's said communication is important
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In building relationships
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My biggest challenge is
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Comes from within myself
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And also the closest people
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Where do I invite people
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Around me
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Even people
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Don't know me
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For them don't do violence
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But at least
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We have great hope
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As a woman
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We don't want more than men
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But we want to be the same as men
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We don't want to
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Higher than men
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But we want to be appreciated
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I hope in the future
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This movement
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can be maintained continuously
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Then don't just be limited to the community
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But if there can be programs
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That touches up outside the community
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With help
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From members of the community
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It certainly can strengthen information
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Keep strengthening
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Actions which is
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Characterizing this LLB
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I hope
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That not only in the church
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But they have more access
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To the community
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Especially us in the Mata Air Village, right?
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There are several churches
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Not only ...
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But there is Catholicism
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There is a GBI
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This group must have more access
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For that
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So not only
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Here in the village ...
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Desa Mata Air
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But overall to other hamlets
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The embryo starts from the church
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Not questioned
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But they must access
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Must jump
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In the midst of the community
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So that this community develops forward
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And don't keep quiet
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I have one hope
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I hope so
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I hope so
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communities that I have built
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We have built it together
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Keep standing, stay strong
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We want to stay together
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To keep fighting
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To keep voicing
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Stop violence against women
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Wherever we are
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I also hope that
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Other friends from other regions
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Good friends of SIO
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Or other communities
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Let us support one another
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We motivate each other for
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in the same destination
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So that we speak the same thing
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And I believe that
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When we move
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For something good
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Then that will come true
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Then my last hope is
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I hope to friends from CIS
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More specifically
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which handles this New Male program
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To always give us motivation
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Always give us support
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In the future we try
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Better
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Maybe that's all
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I have a poem
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For this New Men's movement
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That is this
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Go to the market to buy fish
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Don't forget to buy basil
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Life without violence
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Is a real man
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Thank you