A broken body isn't a broken person
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0:00 - 0:06Life is about opportunities --
creating them and embracing them. -
0:06 - 0:09And for me, that was the Olympic dream.
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0:09 - 0:12That's what defined me. That was my bliss.
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0:13 - 0:16As a cross-country skier
and member of the Australian ski team -
0:16 - 0:18headed towards the Winter Olympics,
-
0:18 - 0:21I was on a training bike ride
with my fellow teammates. -
0:22 - 0:26As we made our way up
towards the spectacular Blue Mountains -
0:26 - 0:27west of Sydney,
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0:27 - 0:29it was the perfect autumn day:
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0:29 - 0:33sunshine, the smell
of eucalypt and a dream. -
0:33 - 0:35Life was good.
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0:35 - 0:38We'd been on our bikes
for around five-and-a-half hours -
0:38 - 0:40when we got to the part
of the ride that I loved, -
0:40 - 0:43and that was the hills,
because I loved the hills. -
0:43 - 0:47I got up off the seat of my bike
and I started pumping my legs, -
0:47 - 0:51and as I sucked in the cold mountain air,
I could feel it burning my lungs, -
0:51 - 0:54and I looked up to see
the sun shining in my face. -
0:55 - 0:57And then everything went black.
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0:58 - 1:01Where was I? What was happening?
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1:01 - 1:04My body was consumed by pain.
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1:05 - 1:08I'd been hit by a speeding utility truck
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1:08 - 1:10with only 10 minutes
to go on the bike ride. -
1:11 - 1:14I was airlifted from the scene
of the accident by a rescue helicopter -
1:14 - 1:16to a large spinal unit in Sydney.
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1:16 - 1:19I had extensive
and life-threatening injuries. -
1:20 - 1:23I'd broken my neck
and my back in six places. -
1:24 - 1:26I broke five ribs on my left side.
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1:26 - 1:29I broke my right arm.
I broke my collarbone. -
1:29 - 1:31I broke some bones in my feet.
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1:31 - 1:34My whole right side was ripped open,
filled with gravel. -
1:34 - 1:37My head was cut open
across the front, lifted back, -
1:37 - 1:39exposing the skull underneath.
-
1:39 - 1:41I had head injures.
I had internal injuries. -
1:41 - 1:42I had massive blood loss.
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1:42 - 1:44In fact, I lost
about five liters of blood, -
1:44 - 1:47which is all someone my size
would actually hold. -
1:47 - 1:50By the time the helicopter arrived
at Prince Henry Hospital in Sydney, -
1:50 - 1:53my blood pressure was 40 over nothing.
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1:54 - 1:56I was having a really bad day.
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1:56 - 2:02(Laughter)
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2:03 - 2:07For over 10 days, I drifted
between two dimensions. -
2:08 - 2:10I had an awareness of being in my body,
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2:10 - 2:13but also being out of my body,
somewhere else, -
2:13 - 2:16watching from above,
as if it was happening to someone else. -
2:16 - 2:19Why would I want to go back
to a body that was so broken? -
2:20 - 2:22But this voice kept calling me:
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2:22 - 2:24"Come on, stay with me."
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2:25 - 2:27"No, it's too hard."
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2:28 - 2:30"Come on. This is our opportunity."
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2:30 - 2:34"No. That body is broken.
It can no longer serve me." -
2:35 - 2:38"Come on. Stay with me. We can do it.
We can do it together." -
2:40 - 2:41I was at a crossroads.
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2:42 - 2:46I knew if I didn't return to my body,
I'd have to leave this world forever. -
2:47 - 2:48It was the fight of my life.
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2:50 - 2:54After 10 days, I made the decision
to return to my body. -
2:55 - 2:57And the internal bleeding stopped.
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2:59 - 3:02The next concern
was whether I would walk again, -
3:02 - 3:04because I was paralyzed
from the waist down. -
3:05 - 3:08They said to my parents
that the neck break was a stable fracture, -
3:08 - 3:10but the back was completely crushed:
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3:10 - 3:13the vertebra at L1
was like you'd dropped a peanut, -
3:13 - 3:16stepped on it, smashed it
into thousands of pieces. -
3:16 - 3:18They'd have to operate.
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3:19 - 3:21They went in. They put me on a beanbag.
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3:21 - 3:23They cut me -- literally cut me in half.
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3:24 - 3:26I have a scar that wraps
around my entire body. -
3:27 - 3:30They picked as much
broken bone as they could -
3:30 - 3:31that had lodged in my spinal cord.
-
3:31 - 3:35They took out two of my broken ribs
and they rebuilt my back -- -
3:35 - 3:38L1, they rebuilt it,
they took out another broken rib, -
3:38 - 3:41they fused T12, L1 and L2 together.
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3:41 - 3:45Then they stitched me up;
they took an entire hour to stitch me up. -
3:45 - 3:46I woke up in intensive care,
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3:46 - 3:50and the doctors were really excited
that the operation had been a success, -
3:50 - 3:53because at that stage,
I had a little bit of movement -
3:53 - 3:54in one of my big toes,
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3:54 - 3:57and I thought, "Great,
because I'm going to the Olympics!" -
3:57 - 3:59(Laughter)
-
3:59 - 4:01I had no idea.
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4:01 - 4:04That's the sort of thing that happens
to someone else, not me, surely. -
4:04 - 4:06But then the doctor
came over to me and she said, -
4:06 - 4:09"Janine, the operation was a success,
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4:09 - 4:13and we've picked as much bone
out of your spinal cord as we could. -
4:13 - 4:14But the damage is permanent.
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4:14 - 4:18The central nervous system
nerves -- there is no cure. -
4:18 - 4:20You're what we call a partial paraplegic,
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4:20 - 4:23and you'll have all of the injuries
that go along with that. -
4:23 - 4:26You'll have no feeling
from the waist down, -
4:26 - 4:29and at most, you might get
10 or 20 percent return. -
4:30 - 4:33You'll have internal injuries
for the rest of your life. -
4:33 - 4:36You'll have to use a catheter
for the rest of your life. -
4:36 - 4:41And if you walk again, it will be
with calipers and a walking frame." -
4:41 - 4:42And then she said,
-
4:42 - 4:45"Janine, you'll have to rethink
everything you do in your life, -
4:45 - 4:49because you're never going to be able
to do the things you did before." -
4:49 - 4:50(Gasps)
-
4:50 - 4:52I tried to grasp what she was saying.
-
4:52 - 4:55I was an athlete. That's all I knew.
That's all I'd done. -
4:55 - 4:58If I couldn't do that,
then what could I do? -
4:58 - 5:00And the question I asked myself is:
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5:00 - 5:01If I couldn't do that,
-
5:02 - 5:03then who was I?
-
5:08 - 5:11They moved me from intensive care
to acute spinal. -
5:11 - 5:13I was lying on a thin, hard spinal bed.
-
5:13 - 5:15I had no movement in my legs.
-
5:15 - 5:18I had tight stockings on
to protect from blood clots. -
5:18 - 5:21I had one arm in plaster,
one arm tied down by drips. -
5:21 - 5:24I had a neck brace and sandbags
on either side of my head -
5:24 - 5:26and I saw my world through a mirror
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5:26 - 5:28that was suspended above my head.
-
5:29 - 5:33I shared the ward with five other people,
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5:33 - 5:34and the amazing thing is,
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5:34 - 5:37because we were all lying paralyzed
in a spinal ward, -
5:37 - 5:40we didn't know
what each other looked like. -
5:40 - 5:42How amazing is that?
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5:42 - 5:48How often in life do you get to make
friendships, judgment-free, -
5:48 - 5:50purely based on spirit?
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5:51 - 5:53And there were
no superficial conversations -
5:53 - 5:57as we shared our innermost
thoughts, our fears, -
5:57 - 5:59and our hopes for life
after the spinal ward. -
6:01 - 6:05I remember one night,
one of the nurses came in, Jonathan, -
6:05 - 6:08with a whole lot of plastic straws.
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6:08 - 6:10He put a pile on top
of each of us, and he said, -
6:10 - 6:13"Start threading them together."
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6:13 - 6:16Well, there wasn't much else to do
in the spinal ward, so we did. -
6:16 - 6:18(Laughter)
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6:18 - 6:20And when we'd finished,
he went around silently -
6:20 - 6:26and he joined all of the straws up
till it looped around the whole ward. -
6:26 - 6:27And then he said,
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6:27 - 6:30"OK everybody, hold on to your straws."
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6:30 - 6:33And we did. And he said, "Right ...
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6:34 - 6:36Now we're all connected."
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6:37 - 6:42And as we held on and we breathed as one,
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6:43 - 6:45we knew we weren't on this journey alone.
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6:47 - 6:51And even lying paralyzed
in the spinal ward ... -
6:52 - 6:55there were moments of incredible
depth and richness, -
6:55 - 6:57of authenticity and connection
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6:58 - 7:01that I had never experienced before.
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7:02 - 7:05And each of us knew
that when we left the spinal ward, -
7:07 - 7:09we would never be the same.
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7:12 - 7:15After six months, it was time to go home.
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7:16 - 7:19I remember Dad pushing me
outside in my wheelchair, -
7:19 - 7:22wrapped in a plaster body cast,
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7:22 - 7:26and feeling the sun on my face
for the first time. -
7:26 - 7:27I soaked it up and I thought,
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7:27 - 7:30"How could I ever
have taken this for granted?" -
7:31 - 7:34I felt so incredibly grateful for my life.
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7:35 - 7:37But before I left hospital,
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7:37 - 7:40the head nurse had said to me,
"Janine, I want you to be ready, -
7:40 - 7:42because when you get home,
something's going to happen." -
7:42 - 7:44And I said, "What?"
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7:44 - 7:46And she said, "You're going
to get depressed." -
7:46 - 7:49And I said, "Not me,
not Janine the Machine," -
7:49 - 7:51which was my nickname.
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7:51 - 7:54She said, "You are, because,
see, it happens to everyone. -
7:54 - 7:58In the spinal ward, that's normal.
You're in a wheelchair. That's normal. -
7:58 - 8:02But you're going to get home
and realize how different life is." -
8:03 - 8:04And I got home.
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8:05 - 8:07And something happened.
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8:09 - 8:11I realized Sister Sam was right.
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8:12 - 8:13I did get depressed.
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8:15 - 8:17I was in my wheelchair.
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8:17 - 8:19I had no feeling from the waist down,
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8:19 - 8:20attached to a catheter bottle.
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8:20 - 8:21I couldn't walk.
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8:22 - 8:24I'd lost so much weight in hospital,
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8:24 - 8:27I now weighed about 80 pounds.
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8:28 - 8:30And I wanted to give up.
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8:30 - 8:34All I wanted to do was put my running
shoes on and run out the door. -
8:34 - 8:37I wanted my old life back.
I wanted my body back. -
8:37 - 8:40And I can remember
Mom sitting on the end of my bed -
8:40 - 8:43and saying, "I wonder if life
will ever be good again." -
8:44 - 8:46And I thought, "How could it?
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8:46 - 8:50Because I've lost
everything that I valued, -
8:50 - 8:52everything that I'd worked towards.
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8:52 - 8:53Gone."
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8:55 - 8:59And the question I asked was,
"Why me? Why me?" -
9:00 - 9:01And then I remembered
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9:03 - 9:06my friends that were still
in the spinal ward, -
9:06 - 9:07particularly Maria.
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9:08 - 9:09Maria was in a car accident,
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9:09 - 9:11and she woke up on her 16th birthday
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9:11 - 9:14to the news that she was
a complete quadriplegic, -
9:14 - 9:17had no movement from the neck down,
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9:17 - 9:20had damage to her vocal chords,
and she couldn't talk. -
9:21 - 9:23They told me, "We're going
to move you next to her -
9:23 - 9:25because we think it will be good for her."
-
9:26 - 9:30I was worried. I didn't know
how I'd react to being next to her. -
9:31 - 9:35I knew it would be challenging,
but it was actually a blessing, -
9:35 - 9:39because Maria always smiled.
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9:39 - 9:44She was always happy,
and even when she began to talk again, -
9:44 - 9:49albeit difficult to understand,
she never complained, not once. -
9:50 - 9:55And I wondered how had she ever
found that level of acceptance. -
9:56 - 10:00And I realized
that this wasn't just my life; -
10:01 - 10:02it was life itself.
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10:02 - 10:07I realized that this wasn't just my pain;
it was everybody's pain. -
10:07 - 10:10And then I knew, just like before,
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10:10 - 10:14that I had a choice:
I could keep fighting this, -
10:15 - 10:20or I could let go
and accept not only my body, -
10:20 - 10:22but the circumstances of my life.
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10:23 - 10:26And then I stopped asking, "Why me?"
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10:26 - 10:29And I started to ask, "Why not me?"
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10:30 - 10:32And then I thought to myself,
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10:32 - 10:37maybe being at rock bottom
is actually the perfect place to start. -
10:41 - 10:44I had never before thought of myself
as a creative person. -
10:44 - 10:48I was an athlete; my body was a machine.
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10:49 - 10:53But now I was about to embark
on the most creative project -
10:53 - 10:55that any of us could ever do:
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10:55 - 10:57that of rebuilding a life.
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10:58 - 11:01And even though I had absolutely
no idea what I was going to do, -
11:01 - 11:05in that uncertainty came
a sense of freedom. -
11:06 - 11:08I was no longer tied to a set path.
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11:09 - 11:14I was free to explore
life's infinite possibilities. -
11:14 - 11:18And that realization
was about to change my life. -
11:21 - 11:25Sitting at home in my wheelchair
and my plaster body cast, -
11:25 - 11:27an airplane flew overhead.
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11:28 - 11:32I looked up, and I thought
to myself, "That's it! -
11:33 - 11:36If I can't walk,
then I might as well fly." -
11:36 - 11:37(Laughter)
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11:37 - 11:39I said, "Mom, I'm going
to learn how to fly." -
11:39 - 11:41She said, "That's nice, dear."
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11:41 - 11:43(Laughter)
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11:43 - 11:46I said, "Pass me the yellow pages."
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11:46 - 11:48She passed me the phone book,
I rang up the flying school, -
11:48 - 11:51I said I'd like to make a booking
to come out for a flight. -
11:51 - 11:54They said, "When do you want to come out?"
-
11:54 - 11:57I said, "Well, I have to get a friend
to drive me because I can't drive. -
11:57 - 12:00Sort of can't walk, either.
Is that a problem?" -
12:00 - 12:01I made a booking, and weeks later,
-
12:01 - 12:04my friend Chris and my mom
drove me out to the airport, -
12:04 - 12:06all 80 pounds of me covered
in a plaster body cast -
12:06 - 12:08in a baggy pair of overalls.
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12:08 - 12:09(Laughter)
-
12:09 - 12:12I can tell you, I did not
look like the ideal candidate -
12:12 - 12:13to get a pilot's license.
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12:13 - 12:15(Laughter)
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12:15 - 12:17I'm holding on to the counter
because I can't stand. -
12:17 - 12:19I said, "Hi, I'm here
for a flying lesson." -
12:19 - 12:23They took one look and ran
out the back to draw short straws. -
12:23 - 12:26"You get her." "No, no, you take her."
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12:26 - 12:29Finally a guy goes, "Hi, I'm Andrew.
I'm going to take you flying." -
12:29 - 12:30I go, "Great!"
-
12:30 - 12:32They get me out on the tarmac,
-
12:32 - 12:36and there was this red, white and blue
airplane -- it was beautiful. -
12:36 - 12:39They had to slide me up on the wing
to put me in the cockpit. -
12:39 - 12:42They sat me down. There are buttons
and dials everywhere. -
12:42 - 12:46I'm going, "Wow, how do you ever know
what all these buttons and dials do?" -
12:46 - 12:49Andrew got in the front,
started the plane, and said, -
12:49 - 12:51"Would you like to have a go at taxiing?"
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12:51 - 12:53That's when you use your feet
to control the rudder pedals -
12:53 - 12:55to control the airplane on the ground.
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12:55 - 12:57I said, "No, I can't use my legs."
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12:57 - 12:58He went, "Oh."
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12:58 - 13:01I said, "But I can use
my hands," and he said, "OK." -
13:01 - 13:04So he got over to the runway,
and he applied the power. -
13:04 - 13:06And as we took off down the runway,
-
13:06 - 13:10and the wheels lifted up off the tarmac,
and we became airborne, -
13:11 - 13:15I had the most incredible
sense of freedom. -
13:16 - 13:17And Andrew said to me,
-
13:18 - 13:20as we got over the training area,
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13:21 - 13:23"You see that mountain over there?"
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13:23 - 13:25And I said, "Yeah."
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13:25 - 13:29And he said, "Well, you take the controls,
and you fly towards that mountain." -
13:29 - 13:32And as I looked up, I realized
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13:32 - 13:35that he was pointing
towards the Blue Mountains, -
13:35 - 13:37where the journey had begun.
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13:38 - 13:40And I took the controls,
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13:41 - 13:42and I was flying.
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13:43 - 13:46And I was a long, long way
from that spinal ward. -
13:46 - 13:49I knew right then
that I was going to be a pilot. -
13:50 - 13:52Didn't know how on Earth
I'd ever pass a medical. -
13:52 - 13:53(Laughter)
-
13:54 - 13:57But I'd worry about that later,
because right now, I had a dream. -
13:57 - 14:00So I went home, I got a training
diary out, and I had a plan. -
14:01 - 14:04And I practiced my walking
as much as I could, -
14:04 - 14:07and I went from the point
of two people holding me up ... -
14:08 - 14:09to one person holding me up ...
-
14:10 - 14:12to the point where I could
walk around the furniture -
14:12 - 14:14as long as it wasn't too far apart.
-
14:14 - 14:16And then I made great progression,
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14:16 - 14:18to the point where I could walk
around the house, -
14:18 - 14:20holding onto the walls, like this.
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14:20 - 14:23And Mom said she was forever following me,
-
14:23 - 14:24wiping off my fingerprints.
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14:24 - 14:27(Laughter)
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14:27 - 14:29But at least she always knew where I was.
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14:29 - 14:31(Laughter)
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14:31 - 14:33So while the doctors continued to operate
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14:33 - 14:35and put my body back together again,
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14:35 - 14:37I went on with my theory study.
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14:38 - 14:42And then eventually, amazingly,
I passed my pilot's medical, -
14:42 - 14:45and that was my green light to fly.
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14:45 - 14:47And I spent every moment I could
out at that flying school, -
14:47 - 14:49way out of my comfort zone,
-
14:49 - 14:52all these young guys that wanted
to be Qantas pilots, you know, -
14:52 - 14:55and little old hop-along me
in first my plaster cast, -
14:55 - 14:58and then my steel brace,
my baggy overalls, -
14:58 - 15:01my bag of medication
and catheters and my limp. -
15:01 - 15:03They use to look at me and think,
-
15:03 - 15:06"Oh, who is she kidding?
She's never going to be able to do this." -
15:06 - 15:08And sometimes I thought that, too.
-
15:08 - 15:10But that didn't matter,
-
15:10 - 15:12because now there was something
inside that burned -
15:12 - 15:15that far outweighed my injuries.
-
15:16 - 15:19And little goals
kept me going along the way, -
15:19 - 15:22and eventually I got
my private pilot's license. -
15:22 - 15:26Then I learned to navigate,
and I flew my friends around Australia. -
15:27 - 15:30And then I learned to fly
an airplane with two engines -
15:30 - 15:32and I got my twin-engine rating.
-
15:33 - 15:36And then I learned to fly in bad weather
as well as fine weather, -
15:36 - 15:38and got my instrument rating.
-
15:39 - 15:41And then I got
my commercial pilot's license. -
15:41 - 15:43And then I got my instructor rating.
-
15:44 - 15:47And then I found myself
back at that same school -
15:47 - 15:50where I'd gone for that very first flight,
-
15:50 - 15:52teaching other people how to fly ...
-
15:53 - 15:57just under 18 months
after I'd left the spinal ward. -
15:57 - 16:04(Applause)
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16:07 - 16:09(Applause ends)
-
16:09 - 16:11And then I thought, "Why stop there?
-
16:11 - 16:13Why not learn to fly upside down?"
-
16:13 - 16:14(Laughter)
-
16:14 - 16:17And I did, and I learned
to fly upside down -
16:17 - 16:19and became an aerobatics
flying instructor. -
16:19 - 16:21(Laughter)
-
16:21 - 16:24And Mom and Dad? Never been up.
-
16:24 - 16:27(Laughter)
-
16:27 - 16:33But then I knew for certain
that although my body might be limited, -
16:33 - 16:35it was my spirit that was unstoppable.
-
16:38 - 16:41The philosopher Lao Tzu once said,
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16:42 - 16:44"When you let go of what you are,
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16:44 - 16:46you become what you might be."
-
16:47 - 16:52I now know that it wasn't until I let go
of who I thought I was -
16:52 - 16:56that I was able to create
a completely new life. -
16:56 - 17:01It wasn't until I let go
of the life I thought I should have ... -
17:02 - 17:05that I was able to embrace
the life that was waiting for me. -
17:06 - 17:09I now know that my real strength
-
17:09 - 17:11never came from my body.
-
17:12 - 17:17And although my physical capabilities
have changed dramatically, -
17:17 - 17:20who I am is unchanged.
-
17:21 - 17:25The pilot light inside of me
was still alight, -
17:25 - 17:28just as it is in each and every one of us.
-
17:30 - 17:32I know that I'm not my body.
-
17:33 - 17:36And I also know that you're not yours.
-
17:37 - 17:41And then it no longer matters
what you look like, -
17:41 - 17:44where you come from,
or what you do for a living. -
17:45 - 17:51All that matters is that we continue
to fan the flame of humanity -
17:51 - 17:55by living our lives
as the ultimate creative expression -
17:55 - 17:57of who we really are,
-
17:59 - 18:01because we are all connected
-
18:01 - 18:04by millions and millions of straws.
-
18:06 - 18:09And it's time to join those up
-
18:09 - 18:10and to hang on.
-
18:11 - 18:14And if we are to move
towards our collective bliss ... -
18:15 - 18:18it's time we shed our focus
on the physical -
18:18 - 18:21and instead embrace
the virtues of the heart. -
18:21 - 18:24So raise your straws if you'll join me.
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18:25 - 18:26(Applause)
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18:26 - 18:27Thank you.
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18:27 - 18:32(Applause)
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18:32 - 18:33Thank you.
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18:33 - 18:37(Applause)
- Title:
- A broken body isn't a broken person
- Speaker:
- Janine Shepherd
- Description:
-
Cross-country skier Janine Shepherd hoped for an Olympic medal -- until she was hit by a truck during a training bike ride. She shares a powerful story about the human potential for recovery. Her message: you are not your body, and giving up old dreams can allow new ones to soar.
- Video Language:
- English
- Team:
- closed TED
- Project:
- TEDTalks
- Duration:
- 18:57
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The English transcript was updated on 4/26/2017.