Fisting 101 feat. Jessica Luxury & Majestic Legay

In this video Jessica and I get caught in the middle of one of our favorite activities, fisting! We answer all of the hot burning questions people have about fisting safety, how to and basics. Then we show you it all goes down in a sexy and informative demonstration!

Sexy music playing, orgasm noises

Majestic Legay: How's that feel?

Jessica Luxury: Harder

Laughing

J: Deeper

M:Okay

J: Oh yeah, like that

M: Yeah?

J: Where are we?

M: We're in Canada baby

Things falling

M: It's okay, damages are to be expected

M: We didn't see you come in

J: We were just doing our favorite thing...fisting.

You want to know more?

We'll get cleaned up. We'll be right back

M: Hi I'm Majestic Legay

J: And I'm Jessica Luxury

M: And we want to make a video for you guys today about fisting. Like safety basics and techniques

M: This video is primarily focused on fisting people who have pussies

We want to take about anal fisting practices but they're a little bit different and we don't have a ton

time so we're going to post some awesome resources for fisting people with pussies and anal fisting at the end of the video

M: So uh, Jessica why is fisting amazing?

J: Well, it feels fucking FABULOUS, the orgasm's are really intense, um it's a great way to connect between you and your partner

and your own body and it feels good giving and receiving. It just feels great

J: It's the best

M: I think it also feels amazing. I love to pitch, I love to catch

J: Do they ever

M: but like it's really important to remember fisting is not for everyone

M: I think that like, a lot of people don't like penetration or deep penetration

M: Or maybe they aren't really interested in fisting and that's okay

M: This video is for people who are really interested in fisting

J: Or those who are curious

M: Fist curious

J: Are you fist curious? This video's for you

J: So what do you need to fist? Or be fisted?

M: Well the first thing you need is gloves.

These gloves are really really wonderful. Not everyone can handle latex

A lot of people are allergic. I like to have latex because I like the way that they feel

But I also like to have, well a box, a giant box of nitrile gloves that are powder free

And I like black because it's just hot. You can get these at any home improvement store

And they're really important for any kind of like queer sex

J: And speaking of gloves, femmes and long nailed folks you can pad the tips of the gloves with cotton balls

So you don't have to ruin your manicure. Also it's just best

for your pussy that you're not putting nail polish or whatever you've been touching

previously, into someone's body's cavities. So you want to protect them

with cotton balls in the tips of the gloves and your manicure's not ruined

and you're giving your partner pleasure. Also LUBE, lots and lots and lots of LUBE

M: A particular favorite in this house is Gun Oil.

J: You can never have enough lube. When you think you have enough lube

maybe just add some more lube

J: Because remember, you're putting your fist inside someone

J: It's best to always keep it wet

M: Water based is best. I personally find.

Gun Oil is good. The pumps are better for easy access

But you know this is all we have right now

And another thing that's really important again, is consent.

Find someone willing to do this with you and you need to have open communication with someone

And if a person is not willing to be there with you, they're not somebody you should be engaging in fisting with

J: Since we're talking about communication, let's talk about fisting safety

J: Maybe you should talk more about communication

M: So it's really important, it needs to be a conversation.

M: The person who's getting fisted, who is having a hand inserted into their pussy is the boss of the situation

M: They need to be communicating with the other person

M: Or else they could get really hurt so you know, lots of conversation

J: Have some back and forth, let's give an example

M: Yeah so like, "How does that feel?"

M: "Is that okay?" "Do you need more clitoral stimulation?"

J: "Is it okay if I add a little?"

M: "Can I keep going?" Things like that

M: And I think that as a rule of thumb, a lot of people think it's really important to not being engaging in fisting

or other kinky sex practices, I don't know if fisting is really kinky

but while you are under the influence of drugs or alcohol just because it's really important to have

those clear lines of communication open and to feel really solid in your self and your body

and if you're high or really wasted, it makes it a little bit more dangerous

J: Fisting is not the time to have that shield of bravery that booze or drugs will give you

J: You want to feel clear and always conscious of what's happening so you're ready

J: Also if you've recently had an abortion, miscarriage or any other kind of...big to do in your pussy

you're going to want to wait 6 weeks before going at fisting, just as a rule of thumb

M: And I think in general it's just really important to think about how your pussy is feeling

and if it's feeling a little bit tender or like, raw, maybe it's not the time to try fisting you know?

Just wait it out. Fisting is all about patience and it's a process

It's not something that happens in one night usually

J: Explain that a little bit more

M: Okay. Fisting, like, it's often like something that can take a long time.

J: Depending on the pussy

M: You can work at it for like, two weeks and then it finally happens

Depends on the size of your fist. And like, the size of your pussy

J: You explained it to me, like the pussy is sort of like a Memory Foam mattress

J: in the way, that's not a nompliment..um, in the way that the pussy

M: I don't remember saying that

J: Well...I remember

J: Your pussy will remember the fist that has recently been inside you

J: and it is a process. So maybe you only get to this set of knuckles.

and then you get to, this is the serious business zone

Be, for everyone watching at home, this is the worst of it and it will feel..

different here. Be patient. Take it slow. Then it will just, literally, slide right in

M: Yeah, I think..

J: I mean, not all of us knew that

M: Every time you'll be able to do a little bit more

One thing helps is to have a couple of orgasms first

J: Just a couple

M: But we'll talk about that in the next part of our video

M: So you may have noticed that we have switched sides

That's because we kind of wanted to do a little demo for you

J: I will be playing the pussy

M: So the first thing to remember if you're going to fist is to just relax

Take a deep breath

J: I'm ready

M: Loosen yourself up

M: One thing that really helps is to have a bunch of orgasms first.

I mean it's good to have a bunch of orgasms anyway

J: Check

M: Yeah so you know, do those. And you'll find that it's a little bit easier.

Another thing to remember, you might be able to answer this question.

Who's the boss?

J: I'M THE BOSS!

Because I'm the one receiving the fist.

M: And I think that it's really important to remember that you can really fucking hurt someone if you don't listen

to what they're saying and their body language

Often someone's body language can tell you so much

If they're tensing up and you can tell they're not interested, they're maybe feeling a little uncomfortable

Listen to that

Talk to them. "Is this okay?"

J: But also receiving the fist, make sure you communicate if it hurts too much

If you need it to slow down. Communicate that to your partner

You are also responsible for how this plays out

M: And another thing is that we're going to post a bunch of resources at the end of this video

I have found that the resources available that teach you about fisting are really really helpful

but often very very cissexist which I found to be very frustrating

So that's just one thing to be vary of if you're checking these books out

M: So we're going to do a hyper speedy demonstration

M: So. You've had a couple of orgasms.

J: I have!

M: You're feeling really good.

There's lots of lube. Lots of consent

J: Lots of relaxing

M: How are you feeling about this?

J: I'm feeling great. I want to be fisted

M: Yeah yeah okay great

M: I'm just going to put so much lube all over my hand

J: Maybe even put more lube on their

M: Yeah you know what? I'm just going to put more lube

J: Lube this also. My pussy.

M: Oh yeah. How does that feel? Oh yeah on your clitoris

J: Oh yeah more clit

M: Okay and then I would just start with a couple of fingers.

M: How does that feel? Does that feel good?

J: Yeah that feels really good

J: Yeah you know I'm ready for another

M: Okay three fingers

J: Please Sir, may I have another?

M: That feel great. You feel so good to me

J: Yeah this feels great for me, thank you

M: Okay I'm going to add another one if that's okay with you?

J: I'm ready

M: Okay great

J: You know what, maybe could you just take it a little slower?

M: Yeah great. More clit?

J: Yes, more clitoris please

J: This feels really nice. I'm really liking this.

You know what?

M: What?

J: I think I'm ready for a little bit more

M: alright. Oooh good girl

M: How does that feel?

J: There's a lot of pressure....and I LOVE IT

M: Okay okay. I'm going to stay here for a minute until you tell me to move forward

M: Is that okay?

J: Yeah that sounds good.

J: You know what? I'm ready

M: Okay I'm going to slowly wiggle my hand and more forward into it a little bit

J: I'm going to remember to breathe

M: Good job. Everyone is doing a really good job

J: Yeah this feels really nice, really consensual and a lot of pleasure

M: What I'm seeing here from between your legs is that I am at the biggest part of my hand

and I am about to, if I keep going, I will be fisting you. How does that feel for you?

J: It feels good. I'm going to need some time

M: Okay. You know else you might need?

Both: MORE LUBE!!!

J: This feels great!!

J: This really changed things for me!

M: Really get in there, get the lube in there.

M: It's also really important to remember if you touch your partner's asshole or you touch yourself

that you change this glove because you can give them a bacterial infection

you can really hurt yourself, you can give somebody an STI and that's not what we want

M: We just want to have lots of orgasms

J: Right. And I'm going to

M: How does that feel?

J:It feels really good. I think that we can go a little bit further

M: Do you want to maybe. Yeah okay. Ooooh yeah

J: Oooh yeeaaaahhh that feels really nice

M: It feels really good for me too

J: Do you feel my pussy contracting?

M: Yes, it's like a vice grip

J: Oh my god, you are inside of me

M: Oh my god, I am inside of you

J:And that feels fabulous

M: So as you guys can see, once you're inside, keep with the stimulation

Some people might need a vibrator, some people might prefer

J: They might prefer a vibrator

M: So maybe don't wear glasses, they might fog up

J: Because it's so hot in here

M: Once you're fist is inside, you'll find it naturally kind of closes

so when you're in there, I think that a lot of people need to just kind of sit with that for a minute

and like feel what that feels like and that's okay

so that's what we're doing

J: And this is going to be intense

M: Yeah, how does this feel?

J: It feels really intense...I'm loving it

M: Yeah, okay

J: Maybe would you mind moving around a little in there?

M: I mean, if you're ready to have the most intense orgasm of your entire fucking life

J: Oh, I'm ready

M: alright so I'm going to just keep touching your clit or move my hand up just a little like that

Kind of like I'm just clenching my fist. You don't want to move around too much unless the person is

really experienced or you, I don't have tiny fists so

J: Not that there's a hierarchy but you know

M: Also you can rotate your fist, if you want to do that.

You can also do a gentle in and out motion. Gentle though, very gentle

M: How does that feel?

J: That feels really good. I like that the best

M: How does this feel?

J: That also feels good. But I like that the best

M: Yeah? You like that? You like that?

J: Oh I think that I'm coming

M: Oooh yeah

J: I'm coming

M: Once you're done, don't pull out of the person that you're fucking

or fisting. Because if you just pull out without asking or thinking about it

you can really hurt them and it would just be really unhot because what you're doing in this situation

is trying to make someone feel really good and often, like, people just need to sit

Or maybe someone wants to have like, five more orgasms and I think that's like really fine

J: Take the time

M: Yeah, you know. So how do you feel?

J: I feel really good

M: Yeah?

J: Yeah maybe take it out slowly

M: Yeah really slowly. How's that?

J: That feels good. That's feels good. Maybe wait right there

J: I'm ready

M: Okay yeah

J: Maybe can you keep touching my clit because this is.. interesting

J: Don't forget about the clit

M: Okay

J: That was nice.

M: That was really nice

M: Thank you guys for watching.

We'll post resources and we hope that in the spirit of International Fisting Day

that you guys all, at least, talk about fisting, think about it

think about exploding normative ideas about pleasure

and um, that can mean anything

J: Don't be afraid

M: Don't be afraid. Love not fear