How to revive your belief in democracy

I bring you greetings

from the 52nd-freest nation on Earth.

As an American, it irritates me
that my nation keeps sinking

in the annual rankings
published by Freedom House.

I'm the son of immigrants.

My parents were born in China
during war and revolution,

went to Taiwan and then came
to the United States,

which means all my life

I've been acutely aware just how fragile
an inheritance freedom truly is.

That's why I spend my time teaching,
preaching and practice democracy.

I have no illusions.

All around the world now,

people are doubting
whether democracy can deliver.

Autocrats and demagogues seem emboldened,

even cocky.

The free world feels leaderless.

And yet, I remain hopeful.

I don't mean optimistic.

Optimism is for spectators.

Hope implies agency.

It says I have a hand in the outcome.

Democratic hope requires faith

not in a strongman
or a charismatic savior

but in each other,

and it forces us to ask:
how can we become worthy of such faith?

I believe we are a moment
of moral awakening,

the kind that comes
when old certainties collapse.

At the heart of that awakening
is what I call civic religion,

and today I want to talk about
what civic religion is,

how we practice it,

and why it matters now more than ever.

Let me start with the what.

I define civic religion as a system
of shared beliefs and collective practices

by which the members
of a self-governing community

choose to live like citizens.

Now, when I say citizen here,
I'm not referring to papers or passports.

I'm talking about a deeper,
broader ethical conception

of being a contributor to community,
a member of the body.

To speak of civic religion as religion
is not poetic license.

That's because democracy

is one of the most faith-fueled
human activities there is.

Democracy works only when enough of us
believes democracy works.

It is at once a gamble and a miracle.

Its legitimacy comes not from
the outer frame of constitutional rules,

but from the inner workings
of civic spirit.

Civic religion, like any religion,

contains a sacred creed,
sacred deeds and sacred rituals.

My creed includes words like
"equal protection of the laws"

and "we the people."

My roll call of hallowed deeds
includes abolition, women's suffrage,

the Civil Rights Movement,

the Allied landing at Normandy,

the fall of the Berlin Wall.

And I have a new civic ritual
that I'll tell you about in a moment.

Wherever on Earth you're from,

you can find or make
your own set of creed, deed and ritual.

The practice of civic religion
is not about worship of the state

or obedience to a ruling party.

It is about commitment to one another

and our common ideals.

And the sacredness of civic religion
is not about divinity or the supernatural.

It is about a group of unlike people

speaking into being our alikeness,

our groupness.

Perhaps now you're getting
a little worried

that I'm trying to sell you on a cult.

Relax, I'm not.

I don't need to sell you.

As a human, you are always
in the market for a cult,

for some variety of religious experience.

We are wired to seek
cosmological explanations,

to sacralize beliefs
that unite in transcendent purpose.

Humans make religion
because humans make groups.

The only choice we have is whether
to activate that groupness for good.

If you are a devout person, you know this.

If you are not,

if you no longer go to prayer services

or never did,

then perhaps you'll say
that yoga is your religion

or Premier League Football

or knitting or coding or TED Talks.

But whether you believe in a God
or in the absence of gods,

civic religion does not require you
to renounce your beliefs.

It requires you only
to show up as a citizen.

And that brings me to my second topic:

how we can practice
civic religion productively.

Let me tell you now
about that new civic ritual.

It's called "Civic Saturday,"

and it follows the arc
of a faith gathering.

We sing together,

we turn to the strangers next to us
to discuss a common question,

we hear poetry and scripture,

there's a sermon that ties those texts

to the ethical choices
and controversies of our time,

but the song and scripture and the sermon

are not from church
or synagogue or mosque.

They are civic,

drawn from our shared civic ideals

and a shared history of claiming
and contesting those ideals.

Afterwards, we form up in circles
to organize rallies, register voters,

join new clubs, make new friends.

My colleagues and I
started organizing Civic Saturdays

in Seattle in 2016.

Since then, they have spread
across the continent.

Sometimes hundreds attend,
sometimes dozens.

They happen in libraries
and community centers

and coworking spaces,

under festive tents
and inside great halls.

There's nothing high-tech
about this social technology.

It speaks to a basic human yearning
for face-to-face fellowship.

It draws young and old, left and right,

poor and rich, churched and unchurched

of all races.

When you come to a Civic Saturday
and are invited to discuss a question

like, "Who are you responsible for?"

or "What are you willing to risk
or to give up for your community?"

When that happens, something moves.

You are moved.

You start telling your story.

We start actually seeing one another.

You realize that homelessness,
gun violence, gentrification,

terrible traffic, mistrust of newcomers,

fake news, these things
aren't someone else's problem,

they are the aggregation
of your own habits and omissions.

Society becomes how you behave.

We are never asked

to reflect on the content
of our citizenship.

Most of us are never invited to do more

or to be more,

and most of us have no idea
how much we crave that invitation.

We've since created a civic seminary

to start training people from all over
to lead Civic Saturday gatherings

on their own in their own towns.

In the community of Athens, Tennessee,

a feisty leader named Whitney Kimball Coe

leads hers is an art and framing shop

with a youth choir
and lots of little flags.

A young activist named [?]

led his Civic Saturday on a street corner

in the Back of the Yards
neighborhood of Chicago.

Berto was once involved with gangs.

Now, he's keeping the peace

and organizing political campaigns.

In Honolulu, Rafael Bergstrom,

a former pro baseball player
turned photographer and conservationist,

leads his under the banner
"Civics Is Sexy."

It is.

(Laughter)

Sometimes I'm asked,
even by our seminarians,

isn't it dangerous
to use religious language?

Won't that just make our politics
even more dogmatic and self-righteous?

But this view assumes that all religion
is fanatical fundamentalism.

It is not.

Religion is also moral discernment,

an embrace of doubt,

a commitment to detach from self
and serve others,

a challenge to repair the world.

In this sense, politics could stand
to be a little more like religion,

not less.

Thus, my final topic today:

why civic religion matters now.

I want to offer two reasons.

One is to counter the culture
of hyper-individualism.

Every message we get
from every screen and service

of the modern marketplace

is that each of us is on our own,

a free agent,

free to manage our own brands,

free to live under bridges,

free to have side hustles,

free to die alone without insurance.

Market liberalism tells us,

we are masters beholden to none,

but then it enslaves us

in the awful isolation
of consumerism and status anxiety.

Millions of us are on to the con now.

We are realizing now

that a free-for-all is not the same
as freedom for all.

(Applause)

What truly makes us free
is being bound to others

in mutual aid and obligation,

having to work things out the best we can
in our neighborhoods and towns,

as if our fates were entwined,

because they are,

as if we could not secede
from one another,

because in the end we cannot.

Binding ourselves this way

actually liberates us.

It reveals that we are equal in dignity.

It reminds us that rights
come with responsibilities.

It reminds us, in fact,

that rights properly understood
are responsibilities.

The second reason
why civic religion matters now

is that it offers the healthiest
possible story of us and them.

We talk about identity politics today

as if it were something new,

but it's not.

All politics is identity politics,

a never-ending struggle
to define who truly belongs.

Instead of noxious myth of blood and soil
that mark some as forever outsiders,

civic religion offers everyone
a path to belonging

based only a universal creed
of contribution, participation,

inclusion.

In civic religion, the us
is those who wish to serve,

volunteer, vote, listen, learn,
empathize, argue better,

circulate power rather than hoard it.

The them is those who don't.

It is possible to judge the them hardly,

but it isn't necessary,

for at any time one of them
can become one of us

simply by choosing to live like a citizen.

So let's welcome them in.

Whitney and Berto and Rafael
are gifted welcomers.

Each has a distinctive, locally rooted way

to make faith in democracy
relatable to others.

Their slang might be Appalachian
or South Side or Hawaiian.

Their message is the same:

civic love, civic spirit,
civic responsibility.

Now you might think
that all this civic religion stuff

is just for over-zealous
second generation Americans like me,

but actually it is for anyone anywhere

who wants to kindle the bonds of trust,

affection, and joint action

needed to govern ourselves in freedom.

Now maybe Civic Saturdays aren't for you.

That's OK.

Find your own ways to foster
civic habits of the heart.

Many forms of beloved
civic community are thriving now

in this age of awakening,

groups like Community Organizing Japan,

which uses creative performative
rituals of storytelling

to promote equality for women.

In Iceland, civil confirmations,

where young people are led by an elder

to learn the history
and civic traditions of their society,

culminating in a rite of passage ceremony

akin to church confirmation.

Ben Franklin circles in the United States,

where friends meet monthly

to discuss and reflect upon the virtues
that Franklin codified

in his autobiography

like justice and gratitude
and forgiveness.

I know civic religion is not enough

to remedy the radical
inequities of our age.

We need power for that.

But power without character
is a cure worse than the disease.

I know civic religion alone
can't fix corrupt institutions,

but institutional reforms
without new norms will not last.

Culture is upstream of law.

Spirit is upstream of policy.

The soul is upstream of the state.

We cannot unpollute our politics

if we clean only downstream.

We must get to the source.

The source is our values,

and on the topic of values,
my advice is simple: have some.

(Laughter)

(Applause)

Make sure those values are pro-social.

Put them into practice,

and do so in the company of others

with a structure of creed,
deed and joyful ritual

that'll keep all of you coming back.

Those of us who believe in democracy
and believe it is still possible,

we have the burden of proving it.

but remember,

it is no burden at all

to be in a community where you
are seen as fully human,

where you have a say
in the things that affect you,

where you don't need
to be connected to be respected.

That is called a blessing,

and it is available to all who believe.

Thank you.

(Applause)