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Cultivating and Attaining Humility - Mack Tomlinson

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    Well, it's a joy to be back here with you.
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    And I ask you to turn to Psalm 131.
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    I want to speak on something this morning
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    that if this is real in our life
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    and in the lives of our churches,
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    we will never go wrong.
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    We will not fall into deception.
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    We will not go astray and apostatize.
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    But this is one of the deepest realities
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    that can ever be produced
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    in a Christian's life
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    and in a church's life.
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    Cultivating and attaining humility.
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    Cultivating it and attaining it.
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    And you say, well, that sounds strange.
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    Can you attain humility?
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    Well, apparently so,
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    because this psalm says that it's true.
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    It doesn't mean you perfect it,
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    but the difference is
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    if you're living your life as a pattern,
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    and you're proud, arrogant, unteachable,
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    and then once in a while
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    you humble yourself and you have
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    a moment of humility
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    and then you start again,
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    that's not what's in view here.
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    The opposite is what's in view here.
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    Living a life that's marked by humility.
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    And then when you stumble
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    and you're proud, you're arrogant,
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    you repent and humility is engaged again.
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    A lifestyle of cultivating true humility.
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    I wrote beside this psalm
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    in my morning Bible that
    I normally read from,
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    I wrote beside this psalm not long ago
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    these words:
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    "It takes great grace to have this."
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    So let's read the psalm.
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    And let's let the
    implications of it sink in.
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    Because, brethren, every Christian here
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    can have a life of humility.
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    It's attainable.
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    It's doable by the work
    of God in our hearts.
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    Psalm 131.
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    "Lord, my heart is not haughty..."
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    It means pride. Proud.
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    "My heart is not proud,
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    nor are my eyes lofty.
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    Neither do I exercise myself..."
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    That is, pursue; try to regularly do.
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    "Neither do I exercise
    myself in great matters
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    or in things too high or lofty for me.
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    Surely, I have behaved..."
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    I have taken control of myself,
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    in other words.
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    "And quieted myself..."
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    The word is: I've hushed myself.
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    Self, just be quiet.
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    Just be quiet.
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    "I have quieted myself
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    as a child that is weaned of its mother.
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    My soul is even as a weaned child.
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    Let Israel hope in the Lord
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    from henceforth and forever."
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    Let's pray.
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    Father, this is Your Word.
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    We ask for Your speaking voice
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    to make it a living Word.
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    We give ourselves to You.
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    Give us Your Holy Spirit now to speak
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    and to hear and to receive
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    and to be changed
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    for the glory of the Lord Jesus,
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    Amen.
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    Cultivating and attaining humility.
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    Another title might be:
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    "The Truly Humble Man."
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    Or, another way you could say it is:
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    "Overcoming the Proud Heart."
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    Overcoming the proud heart.
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    James Montgomery Boice said this,
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    "It is hard to imagine anyone
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    living with Jesus for a full three years
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    and still wanting to be important himself
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    instead of just letting
    Jesus be important."
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    But the disciples even at the last,
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    they hadn't gotten it.
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    He's on His way to Jerusalem,
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    and they're arguing about what?
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    Who's going to be the greatest.
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    "Being self-important,
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    or being someone significant
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    is of zero importance.
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    But Jesus Christ being supremely important
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    is of infinite importance."
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    That's what this psalm is about.
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    Three verses.
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    Sixty-one words.
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    The second shortest psalm.
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    Which is the shortest?
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    Psalm 117. Two verses.
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    Psalm 131 - three verses.
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    Spurgeon said, "Psalm 131
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    is a short letter that
    reaches great heights."
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    And it really does.
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    It's a short, easy psalm to read,
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    but it's a very hard lesson to learn.
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    Going from having a proud heart
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    by nature and by practice
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    and by culture, influence,
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    and being shaped with human pride,
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    success,
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    be all that you can be,
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    dream your dreams,
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    nothing's impossible
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    for whoever will work hard -
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    the culture drips with self-driven pride.
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    This psalm is one of the
    greatest gems in all the psalms.
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    And the irony is it's so small,
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    it's so seemingly insignificant,
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    it's easy to read through the Psalms
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    and you quickly read it and you finish it
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    and as I said earlier this morning,
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    you don't let it be a wake-up call.
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    Who among us can say today,
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    "Lord, my heart is not proud"?
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    The fact is, many of us can't say that,
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    should not say that.
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    But here's the real amazing thing:
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    Some of you could say it
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    and it would be true.
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    But you'd never say it.
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    But David says it.
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    Like Moses writing
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    that Moses was the
    meekest man in the earth.
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    That's a hard one, isn't it?
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    It's a brief personal testimony
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    about something so deep,
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    so transforming,
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    in the depth of what it's teaching.
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    No psalm is more personal than this one.
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    It's a little autobiographical picture
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    of David's heart.
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    Now, if it is David,
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    and some Old Testament scholars
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    question whether David
    is actually the author,
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    the best commentators really think
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    that it was him,
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    and certainly when you
    peruse his whole life,
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    and you look at David's life,
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    and you look at what faults he had -
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    think about this -
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    was pride as a pattern one of them?
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    I would say no. It wasn't.
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    Pride did not mark
    David's life continually
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    where his pride was a besetting sin.
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    No, he didn't.
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    We'll talk more about that in a minute.
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    But this psalm gives us a glimpse
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    into David's soul of deep experience
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    and genuine freedom
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    from pride and arrogance.
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    If you have had a problem with pride
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    all your life and it's a problem today,
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    this psalm gives you hope
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    that you can be changed
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    from a proud person
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    to a humble saint.
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    Now, how I wish every preacher and pastor
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    could say what David says here,
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    because many of them are
    the worst bunch about this.
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    What if every elder, every deacon,
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    every church leader,
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    every Christian lady and Christian man,
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    every young Christian in every church
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    had the reality of what Psalm 131 says?
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    Not proud, not haughty,
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    not lofty eyes,
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    not trying to be what I'm not;
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    being what I am,
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    being a weaned child before the Lord
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    and hoping in Him.
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    What if we all lived that reality?
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    How amazing it would be!
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    Psalm 130, the one before,
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    is a psalm of forgiveness.
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    Psalm 131 is a psalm of humility.
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    Humility. How rare that often is!
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    How important it is!
    How essential it is!
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    How beautiful it is!
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    How attractive and how fragrant it is!
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    Pride stinks.
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    But humility smells beautiful.
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    And if the first one's on you,
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    others smell it.
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    And if the second one's on you,
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    they smell that too.
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    And it's pleasant.
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    These three verses reveal
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    the blessedness of a man
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    with a meek and a quiet spirit.
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    And actually, this psalm is an
    Old Testament commentary
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    on Jesus' words:
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    "Blessed are the..." who? The meek.
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    Blessed are the meek.
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    It's marked by a tone
    of childlike simplicity.
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    David's just saying
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    my heart's not like this,
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    it's not like this.
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    Here's what I've experienced,
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    and I'm like this now.
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    Israel, hope in the Lord.
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    Childlike simplicity.
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    But the depth of the reality
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    of the experience is profound.
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    Answer this question:
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    When did you last say
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    about your Christian life,
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    "I have become more like a child"?
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    We don't talk like that.
    We don't even think like that.
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    But didn't Jesus use that
    picture about greatness?
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    Unless you become like a child
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    you won't even get in the kingdom.
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    But He went on and said true greatness -
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    He took up a child.
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    And here, David the king,
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    the greatest in Israel,
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    says I have become like a weaned child.
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    This is a testimony by David
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    that God has worked in him
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    a consistent, humble heart
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    that is not dominated by pride.
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    Eyes that are not lofty or haughty
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    or ego-driven.
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    He's not pursuing intellectual arrogance
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    about things that he
    is not to meddle into;
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    things that are not to be pursued,
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    that are beyond him,
    that he's not called to.
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    He's not pursuing them anymore.
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    A humble man consistently,
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    contented to be who he truly is.
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    Would to God every one of us
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    would be given the grace
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    to be contented with who God made us
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    and not try to be like anybody else.
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    You talk about getting free.
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    You talk about coming into usefulness
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    and fruitfulness,
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    when you become content
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    with who God made you
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    and you don't try to be like anybody else.
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    Genuine consistent humility.
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    Has this psalm ever become real to you
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    and really gripped you?
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    Have you ever read it
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    and suddenly, were stopped and gripped
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    with the power of what
    David actually says here?
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    It's amazing.
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    David was truly changed,
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    and he was not what
    verse 1 says about pride.
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    He had come to the place where pride
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    was not ruling his heart.
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    But he was truly stating
    what is true of him now.
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    When we really see what he's saying,
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    it's remarkable and it's radical.
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    Because this psalm says
    there's three things
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    that were not
    representative of David's life
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    as a general rule.
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    Now was he ever proud?
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    Yeah, it tried to get him and he
    would overcome it at times.
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    But there are three things
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    that were not representative
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    of David's life as a general rule.
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    In other words, whatever he was,
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    he was not like this normally.
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    Number one: A proud man.
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    Number two: An ambitious man.
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    Number three: An intellectually arrogant
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    high-minded man.
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    He wasn't those things.
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    Meaning, he didn't try
    to be like a "brainiac,"
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    or a big shot.
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    That motive was eliminated from his heart.
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    So there's three things to see in verse 1.
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    There's one thing to see in verse 2.
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    And there's one exhortation in verse 3.
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    So let's just work our
    way through this psalm.
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    You apply it.
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    And may God shape our lives with it
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    by His Spirit.
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    Number one: What David was inwardly.
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    Humble. Humility.
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    My heart is not proud.
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    My heart is not lifted up.
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    My eyes are not raised too high.
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    This is completely something
    of the inner heart.
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    Something inward.
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    And Psalm 51 says,
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    "...wisdom in the secret heart."
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    Where no one sees but God.
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    An inner heart change.
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    What David actually
    claims here and affirms
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    under the inspiration of the Holy Spirit,
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    is that I am now not a proud man
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    in normally living out my life.
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    Now, if he says that,
    is he instantly proud?
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    Has he lost his humility?
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    In claiming humility, do you lose it?
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    Apparently not here.
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    Or this wouldn't be in the Bible.
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    And we know that could be the case.
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    It's normal and it's popular to think,
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    if you think you're humble, you're not.
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    And if you say it out loud,
    that's really proud.
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    And if you write in the Bible forever,
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    you're really prideful.
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    Like the guy who wrote a
    two-volume autobiography.
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    Number one: "Humility
    and How I Attained it."
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    And the second volume was:
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    "The Ten Most Humble People in the World
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    and How I Trained the Other Nine."
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    Well, you know that guy's probably proud.
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    Flaunting his humility.
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    But if a man is truly humble,
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    and God has worked that in him,
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    can a Christian see God has humbled him
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    and produced humble
    dependence in his heart
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    where he's honest with himself,
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    and they see themselves accurately,
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    and thank God for humility
    that He's worked in them?
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    Yes.
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    You can.
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    Can we acknowledge it in our lives?
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    Well, David did.
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    We think to claim
    humility is to forfeit it,
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    but David with a humble heart says,
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    "my heart is not proud."
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    In other words, if pride has been
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    dominant in my past, in my life,
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    it's not now dominant.
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    A change has been brought.
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    That's not in my heart anymore.
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    If it has filled my heart and my eyes
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    and ambitions in the past,
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    it's not doing that now.
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    Humility was cultivated
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    and became a mark of David's life.
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    This means this:
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    We're to cultivate it.
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    And we'll talk more about that.
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    It's not something we don't
    have responsibility in.
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    It was a reality that David possessed.
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    He was unpretentious.
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    What does that mean?
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    What does it mean to be pretentious?
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    Or unpretentious?
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    Here's a good definition:
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    Unpretentious means
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    you're not attempting to
    impress others anymore
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    with an appearance of importance,
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    talent, knowledge, or spirituality.
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    You're not attempting to impress others
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    with your greatness.
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    You're unpretentious.
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    You're not trying to portray
    an image that you're not.
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    You're not trying to make people
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    think more highly of you
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    than they really should.
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    Being free of motives
    and desires to impress,
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    to be great, or to be known.
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    In 1996, the British author and preacher
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    Iain Murray came to Texas
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    and he came to my church
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    for five days to do a conference.
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    And they stayed in our home
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    and our children were - I don't remember -
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    10, 8, 6, and two of them were two?
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    I don't remember their age.
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    But anyway, he was there.
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    The first thing he did when
    he came in our house,
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    he went out in the backyard
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    and he was playing
    soccer with all of them.
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    Running around, kicking the ball,
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    playing soccer.
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    And I thought that's reality;
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    that's humility.
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    It was an example to me.
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    Free of motives and desires
    to impress anyone.
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    Now think about it, when you
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    read the Old Testament,
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    a close reading of David's life
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    shows that his life was not dominated
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    by self-importance and pride.
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    Yes, passions at times.
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    Anger, impulsiveness at times.
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    But not arrogance and self-importance.
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    It did not dominate his life.
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    Pride blinds us
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    and then it binds us
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    and puts us in bondage.
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    A proud heart is a heart
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    that was in bondage,
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    that won't let you function in humility
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    and even respond rightly.
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    And remember this:
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    it's amazing when you read through
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    the Old Testament,
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    every single time, whether it was Ahab,
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    or wicked kings - every time
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    someone humbled themselves before God,
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    God had mercy on them.
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    He showed them mercy.
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    And every time someone who was proud
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    hardened their heart and
    wouldn't humble themselves,
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    God judged them - every single time.
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    Because He always resists pride,
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    and He always gives grace to who?
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    To the humble.
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    The evidence of David's active humility -
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    just stay with me and think about this -
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    you read his life.
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    There was constant evidence
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    that David walked in humility.
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    Remember he was a warring king.
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    In fact, he was told,
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    you can't build Me a temple
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    because you're a bloody king.
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    So, God didn't let him do that.
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    But he did not greedily aspire
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    to attack nations
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    and pick fights with other kings.
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    His warring was always defensive.
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    Every time.
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    Every time, he was protecting Israel.
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    And that shows that he was not
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    just in pursuit in his arrogance
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    to try to unnecessarily conquer.
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    He didn't kill Saul when he could have
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    and seize the throne.
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    Even after Samuel anointed him,
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    David waited for God
    to fulfill His promise
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    to make him king.
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    He didn't scheme or
    manipulate like Jacob did.
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    And for ten years, he had to run from Saul
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    and did not once raise
    his hand against him.
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    That is self-control.
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    That's humility to wait before God.
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    That's being spiritually minded
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    to wait on the Lord
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    and to not take matters into
    your own hands carnally.
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    When Shemaiah came out cursing David,
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    remember when David was coming out
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    with his men?
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    Shemaiah comes throwing dust at him
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    and cursing him.
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    One of David's right hand men said
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    I'm going to go take his head off.
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    David said no, God's letting him curse me.
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    Let him do it.
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    Self-control.
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    Self-control.
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    When David's bringing the ark
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    back into Jerusalem,
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    and Saul's daughter, his wife Michal
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    sees him dancing, she gets embarrassed.
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    What does David say?
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    Well, I'll be yet more vile.
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    I'll keep doing it.
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    He was rejoicing before God
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    and he didn't care if people saw him
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    in his royal dignity
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    dancing before the
    Lord with all his might.
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    He would rather rejoice.
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    He would have quenched the Holy Spirit
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    if he had listened to her
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    to save his royal face and his dignity.
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    He maintained humility.
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    When David in his anger was coming
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    to wipe out wicked Nabal,
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    he gained self-control
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    through Abigail's intercession,
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    and he humbled himself to not do
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    what his flesh would have done.
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    That's humility.
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    I'm not going to do it.
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    In summary, David showed
    a nobility of humility.
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    A willingness to wait on God
    and not exalt himself.
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    Now he had his faults,
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    but those were not self-centeredness
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    and egotism and ambition.
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    H.C. Leupold -the best commentator
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    in my opinion on all the Psalms.
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    If you can get his book on the Psalms,
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    it's incredible how good it is.
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    Leupold said this about David:
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    "There may have been a time
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    when great plans and ambitions
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    surged through David's heart
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    and drove him down the road of ambition,
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    but he exited that road
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    and he never got on it again."
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    Some of us need to exit the road
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    of self-ambition, and start driving
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    on Humility Boulevard.
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    Who can say, "Lord,
    my heart is not proud"?
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    David could and it was true.
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    Now secondly, he says this:
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    Read on - verse 1.
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    "My eyes are not lofty
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    and I do not exercise
    myself in great matters
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    or things too high for me."
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    How many of you think
    I should run for president?
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    Think how people exercise themselves
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    in things too high for them.
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    Try to get on with some blogger
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    in some long discussion,
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    and you're going to
    straighten them all out.
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    David said first, I
    don't have a proud heart.
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    Secondly, I don't have lofty eyes
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    or carnal ambition.
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    That has to do with high-minded conceit
  • 25:34 - 25:37
    to pursue big self-goals and big plans
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    for self-exaltation.
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    I'm going to be somebody for Jesus.
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    Seekest thou great things for thyself?
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    Seek them not Scripture says.
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    But see, that's the
    current view in this world.
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    Let no one tell you that
    you can't accomplish
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    whatever you can dream.
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    The sky's the limit.
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    You should try to be the next Paul Washer,
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    the next Lebron James,
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    the next Texas governor,
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    the president.
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    Envision it. Pursue it.
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    Let nothing stop you from
    your dream that you have.
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    You can live your dream.
    You can be your dream.
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    You can have your dream.
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    So says schools and higher education
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    and the media and famous people.
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    Lofty eyes.
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    David says I don't have them anymore.
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    My eyes - what I envision,
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    what I want and what I want to pursue
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    has been mortified,
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    has been changed, has been sanctified.
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    I'm not trying to be someone
    important anymore.
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    I'm not trying to accomplish something
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    that God really is not calling me to do.
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    I'm going to be who I am
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    and I'm going to do what
    He's called me to do.
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    That's all that's important.
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    Human high-minded intellectual
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    self-ambition.
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    Be something great.
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    Accomplish something big.
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    Be famous. Be known. Be respected.
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    David would no longer aim for fame.
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    But how often in even a Christian's heart
  • 27:26 - 27:29
    is there an aim for fame?
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    I'd like to be in a real position.
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    I'd like to have a ministry.
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    I'd like to be this or do that.
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    And you want to do things
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    out of love for Christ,
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    and you want to be more fruitful,
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    but you see, the fine line
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    can become in what the true motives are.
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    Is it really because God
    is shaping your life
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    and you see that He's
    calling you to something
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    and others in the church
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    or in the body of Christ
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    see that and they recognize it?
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    If any man desires the office of an elder,
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    he desires a good thing, but then,
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    look out among you
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    and recognize those that God's hand is on.
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    You see the balance there.
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    David did not position himself,
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    thrust himself forward for self-greatness.
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    Rather, great position and leadership
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    was thrust upon him by God
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    in the purpose of God.
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    David's here saying
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    let high ambitions be abandoned.
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    Let them be gone from our hearts.
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    You and I don't have to be someone
    that God hasn't made us.
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    And David came to the place
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    he's saying I don't want to be somebody
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    that God hasn't made me.
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    I don't want to pursue things
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    even that are too lofty
    and too high for me.
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    Consider the second half of verse 1.
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    "I do not exercise myself in great matters
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    or things too high and beyond me."
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    Now just picture this.
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    A professor from the
    University of North Texas -
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    I took a class in graduate
    history of philosophy
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    there at the University of North Texas.
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    And the class started out with 80,
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    and in about two weeks,
    there were about 10.
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    And I said I've got to stick with it.
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    I'm going to learn something.
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    So, it was advanced philosophy -
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    history of philosophy.
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    What if the professor had come to me,
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    and he said, "Mr. Tomlinson,
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    I see you're a lot older than
    some of these students.
  • 29:51 - 29:53
    So, I've got to be gone tomorrow.
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    Would you do the lecture tomorrow
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    on the philosophy of Spinoza?"
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    What do you think I should choose to do?
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    What an opportunity!
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    No, what a fool I would be if I did it!
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    I'd be taking on
    something too high for me,
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    too lofty, that I'm not equipped for,
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    that I couldn't do.
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    You have to say no.
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    I had a friend two weeks ago call me.
  • 30:19 - 30:22
    He's in another church in Denton County.
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    And he said brother, can I come by?
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    I need you to teach me Revelation 8
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    because the pastor is sick
  • 30:29 - 30:33
    and they've asked me to teach the class.
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    I said, no, I won't do that, brother.
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    Don't do it.
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    Do not do that.
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    You're not ready.
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    You're not equipped.
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    You're not a teacher.
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    You don't have what it takes.
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    They shouldn't have put that on you.
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    You would be trying to
    do what's beyond you,
  • 30:51 - 30:53
    beyond your experience,
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    your ability, your calling,
    and your giftedness.
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    Don't do it.
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    And he listened to me.
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    If he had done that,
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    too high, too lofty, beyond him,
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    he would have probably been embarrassed
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    and discouraged a long time in the future.
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    Exercising myself in great matters
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    or things too high for me.
  • 31:14 - 31:18
    Causing myself to choose to not pursue
  • 31:18 - 31:23
    and go after things that
    I don't have the goods for
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    intellectually,
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    domestically,
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    business-wise.
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    Living in the armor that God's given me
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    and not trying to put on Saul's armor.
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    David said it won't work.
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    Give me my sling and my stones
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    and the power of God.
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    Here's how some have
    translated this phrase:
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    "I do not seek out and try to walk
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    in matters that are too high for me."
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    "I do not let proud thoughts
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    and lofty views cause me
  • 32:00 - 32:04
    to try to be or do what's
    truly beyond me."
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    Matthew Poole - the commentator -
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    said it this way:
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    "It has not been my course to attempt
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    to take on things beyond my capacity,
  • 32:13 - 32:14
    beyond my abilities
  • 32:14 - 32:18
    because of ambition for
    selfish accomplishment."
  • 32:18 - 32:20
    Edwards said it this way:
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    "I do not have an ambitious heart
  • 32:23 - 32:27
    to try to converse in
    or function in things
  • 32:27 - 32:30
    where I should not go."
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    Now we must realize it's not sinful
  • 32:32 - 32:35
    to hold an honored position
  • 32:35 - 32:37
    in ministry or public service.
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    But God should put a person there,
  • 32:40 - 32:42
    and a person should not seek it.
  • 32:42 - 32:47
    Let each of us be aware of ambition.
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    It's foolish to meddle in matters
  • 32:49 - 32:51
    and intellectual discussion
  • 32:51 - 32:55
    beyond our capacity and beyond our growth.
  • 32:55 - 32:58
    Self-control, self-discipline,
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    self-humbling are great attainments
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    and must be sought
    diligently and earnestly.
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    Blessed is the one who is a weaned child.
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    Someone said, "Great men
    never think they're great,
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    and small men never think they're small."
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    Elisha Cole said, "It is one of the
    hardest matters under the sun
  • 33:23 - 33:27
    to become nothing in ourselves."
  • 33:27 - 33:30
    I wasn't ready for preach for 20 years
  • 33:30 - 33:32
    when I started preaching.
  • 33:32 - 33:33
    And half the time now,
  • 33:33 - 33:37
    I don't even think I'm ready.
  • 33:37 - 33:39
    If one wants to please the devil,
  • 33:39 - 33:42
    let him begin to admire himself.
  • 33:42 - 33:44
    Well, I've got gifts that they don't have.
  • 33:44 - 33:47
    Why do they get to do that?
  • 33:47 - 33:49
    Admiring ourselves.
  • 33:49 - 33:52
    Let anyone, if he thinks
    more highly of himself
  • 33:52 - 33:54
    than he ought to think...
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    Now how did this process happen in David?
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    If verse 1 is true,
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    that he doesn't have a proud heart;
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    doesn't have lofty eyes,
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    and he's not trying to exercise himself
  • 34:05 - 34:06
    in things beyond him,
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    how did this happen?
  • 34:09 - 34:10
    How did he get from A to B?
  • 34:10 - 34:13
    How did he go from
    pride not being an issue
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    to humility being real in his heart?
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    The process is verse 2.
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    "Surely I have behaved
    and quieted myself."
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    What does he mean?
  • 34:31 - 34:33
    He means he took control
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    of his heart and his thoughts and his mind
  • 34:35 - 34:39
    and he says, "Calm down, boy.
  • 34:39 - 34:42
    You're not great. Don't try to be great."
  • 34:42 - 34:44
    He told himself.
  • 34:44 - 34:47
    He hushed himself.
  • 34:47 - 34:48
    Thoughts would come. Desires come.
  • 34:48 - 34:54
    "Shhh... shhh... no, that's not right.
  • 34:54 - 34:55
    That's not godly.
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    I'm not going there.
  • 34:57 - 34:59
    I'm not going to pursue that.
  • 34:59 - 35:00
    I'm not going to put myself forward.
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    I'm going to take the back seat,
    and let them call me up to the front.
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    I'm not going to take the front seat
    and asked to move back."
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    He calmed himself.
  • 35:08 - 35:14
    He told himself, "Shut up."
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    It's okay to tell yourself to shut up.
  • 35:16 - 35:19
    You don't use that word in my house
  • 35:19 - 35:21
    when my wife's around.
  • 35:21 - 35:25
    The grandchildren never
    say that to one another.
  • 35:25 - 35:28
    Well, it's okay to tell yourself that.
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    David did that.
  • 35:29 - 35:31
    He calmed himself.
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    He settled himself down.
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    He evaluated the situation.
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    (Incomplete thought)
  • 35:39 - 35:40
    This was a battle.
  • 35:40 - 35:42
    This was picturing a real battle
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    and a real process.
  • 35:46 - 35:48
    It was a possible long conflict
  • 35:48 - 35:50
    where he reduced the temptation
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    of self-exaltation -
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    thinking more highly of
    himself than he should -
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    and he mortified his
    thoughts of self-greatness.
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    He stilled his soul.
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    He took himself by the collar of his heart
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    and he said, "no, I won't go there."
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    "I refuse to put myself forward
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    or engage myself in things I shouldn't."
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    It was a weaning process.
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    I guess some babies are harder
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    to wean off the breast than others.
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    And so, it's a fight.
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    And it's hard.
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    Once a baby truly gets weaned,
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    there's contentment to sit in mom's lap
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    and not have to demand it.
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    David said I am like a weaned child.
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    Contented.
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    I have no desire to be great.
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    I have no desire to traffic in things
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    I'm not called to.
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    I'll be me and I'll do what
    God wants me to do.
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    A contented heart is a blessed thing.
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    Oh, the blessedness of
    a weaned child of God.
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    Brethren, we've got to
    learn to wean our hearts
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    from carnal ambition,
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    from pride that tries to get us.
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    We have to learn to desire
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    only the Lord Jesus
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    and not something great for ourselves.
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    God can entrust great opportunity
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    to those He can trust
    with those opportunities.
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    So, he weaned himself.
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    And then, he says,
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    my soul, right now,
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    is a weaned, contented heart.
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    Where these things that were issues
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    aren't in my life anymore.
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    And then he exhorts us.
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    Look at verse three.
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    The humble man's exhortation... to us.
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    He takes it to the church.
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    He takes his autobiographical,
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    personal, intimate experience
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    and he applies it pastorally
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    to all of God's people.
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    You know what he says?
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    "Hope in the Lord."
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    Just hope in Him.
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    Hope in the Lord your God.
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    This is an all-inclusive exhortation.
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    Pride? Not before God, church.
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    Let all your glory be in Him.
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    Let all your glory be in the cross.
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    Let all your glory be in what He's done.
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    He gets the credit for everything.
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    Without Him, we can do nothing.
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    Lofty, selfish ambitions,
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    your goals, your gifts, your ministry,
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    your future, your longings -
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    hope in the Lord.
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    A man's gift makes room for him.
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    It doesn't say a man
    makes room for his gifts.
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    A man's gift makes room for him
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    and brings him before kings.
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    Promotion is from who?
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    The Lord.
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    He brings up one. He puts down another.
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    Hope in the Lord.
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    Everything in the Christian life
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    and in ministry and in fruitfulness
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    and in usefulness and in service
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    and in a life pleasing God -
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    everything is from Him
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    and of Him and through Him
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    and for Him and by Him,
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    so hope in the Lord alone.
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    I love that old chorus they used to sing:
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    "In the Lord; the Lord alone
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    is righteousness and peace."
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    Well, let me apply this a little bit.
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    Number one,
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    how does this really fit us?
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    What are we to do?
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    Number one: humility must be
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    cultivated by daily choices.
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    Paul said, "I die daily."
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    Humility must be
    cultivated by daily choices.
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    Regularly, quietly, with wisdom
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    down in the secret recesses of our heart
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    saying no to prideful thoughts.
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    Giving no place.
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    Cutting out lofty eyes.
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    Killing high ambitions,
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    self-exalting goals.
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    Learning to hush your heart regularly.
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    That's mortifying the flesh.
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    Self-important stinks,
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    so don't be smelly to other people.
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    Because they'll smell it.
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    Humility - think of this -
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    humility is not to be a momentary victory
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    in the midst of a pattern
    of a prideful life.
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    Humility is the life that we're normally
  • 41:09 - 41:12
    to be governed by
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    and pride and ambition ought to be
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    the little speed bumps
    (incomplete thought),
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    and then we repent
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    and then we return to a lifestyle
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    of humility.
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    Humility is not to be a
    once in a while occurrence.
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    But it's to rule in our hearts continually
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    as a reality in the Holy Spirit.
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    So, we must cultivate this.
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    Let ambitions be abandoned.
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    Let lofty eyes be put out and blinded.
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    Let high thoughts die.
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    Be a weaned child because David was.
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    Number two: we must continually
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    cultivate within our church
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    an atmosphere and a culture
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    of church humility.
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    I often think about this,
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    about our church in Denton.
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    Does our church have any appearance
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    to the community, to others,
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    to those who visit -
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    does our church have any appearance
  • 42:28 - 42:34
    of superiority or pride?
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    Do we give off any aroma of arrogance?
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    Do we relate to the lost
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    in our evangelism with kindness,
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    humility, listening and caring,
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    or, harshly, judgmentally,
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    argumentatively?
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    We are a city set on a hill
    that cannot be hidden.
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    So what's being seen and heard?
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    What's sounding forth from us?
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    Humility or superiority?
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    What shines forth?
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    How is our church known?
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    What are we known for
    among the world around us?
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    And when you think about this, beloved,
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    think about this -
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    the Lord Jesus, He is the supreme example
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    of Psalm 131.
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    As a man, He was not proud.
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    He didn't have lofty eyes.
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    He could have cured hunger and poverty
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    in the country totally.
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    He could have healed everybody
  • 43:44 - 43:46
    with a word.
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    But He didn't exercise Himself
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    in things the Father
    had not called Him to.
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    He was on a mission -
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    a singular mission -
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    to do what the Father had called Him to do
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    and to accomplish His work.
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    And think about this:
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    He was willing to be ignorant
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    in His humanity.
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    Was the Lord Jesus
    ignorant in His humanity?
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    Yes, He was.
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    Self-imposed choice of being ignorant
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    about things in His humanity.
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    He said I don't know the day
    or the hour of My coming.
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    And you know what governed that?
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    One consideration:
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    "Even so, Father, it seemed
    good in Your sight."
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    So the Lord Jesus Christ emulates for us
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    in His life and death and His example,
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    and in His headship of the church,
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    His being our Great High Priest,
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    He evidences Psalm 131 to us.
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    And He calls us and says,
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    hey, I want you to have
    no pride in your heart.
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    I don't want you to have lofty eyes.
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    I don't want you to be about
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    what you're not supposed to be about.
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    I want you to be a weaned
    child on My breast.
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    Hope in Me.
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    Israel, hope in Me.
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    Hope in Me.
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    Cultivate and attain true humility.
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    Go for it.
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    You can do it.
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    It's life in the Spirit.
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    It's our inheritance.
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    What a blessedness if someone
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    can look at your life
    or mine in the future
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    and they can read Psalm 131
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    and they can say, hey,
    that's not just David,
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    that's her; that's him.
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    Do you want that?
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    Blessed be God, the reality,
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    God can work it in our hearts.
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    Never again read quickly past Psalm 131
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    without stopping and saying,
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    "Lord, am I more this way
    than I was last week?"
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    My heart is not proud.
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    My eyes aren't lofty.
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    Make me a weaned child.
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    Let's pray.
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    Father, work in us a
    heart that is not proud.
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    Remove from us lofty eyes.
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    Remove from us the tendency
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    and temptation to exercise ourselves
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    in matters that are too high for us.
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    Help us to quiet ourselves
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    as a child that is weaned from its mother.
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    Cause our soul and our life, Lord,
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    to be a weaned child,
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    and cause us increasingly
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    to just hope in the Lord.
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    Oh God, work these realities in us
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    that we would be more
    and more like our Savior.
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    Hear us, we ask.
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    And work in us to will and to do
  • 47:08 - 47:11
    of Your good pleasure.
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    In Jesus' name we pray,
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    Amen.
Title:
Cultivating and Attaining Humility - Mack Tomlinson
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