RSA Shorts - The Power of Empathy
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0:01 - 0:02[slurp] [gasp]
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0:02 - 0:06♫ classical strings ♫
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0:09 - 0:11So what is empathy?
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0:11 - 0:14And why is it very different
than sympathy? -
0:15 - 0:17Empathy fuels connection,
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0:17 - 0:20sympathy drives disconnection.
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0:20 - 0:22Empathy, it's very interesting.
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0:22 - 0:27Teresa Wiseman is a nursing scholar
who studied professions -
0:27 - 0:29very diverse professions,
where empathy is relevant. -
0:30 - 0:32And came up with 4 qualities of empathy.
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0:32 - 0:33Perspective Taking.
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0:34 - 0:36The ability to take the perspective
of another person -
0:36 - 0:38or recognize their perspective
as their truth. -
0:38 - 0:40Staying Out of Judgement.
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0:40 - 0:42Not easy, when you enjoy it as
much as most of us do. -
0:42 - 0:43[quiet crowd laughter]
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0:44 - 0:46Recognizing Emotion in Other People.
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0:46 - 0:47And then communicating that.
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0:48 - 0:51Empathy is feeling with people.
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0:52 - 0:56And to me, I always think of empathy
as this kind of sacred space. -
0:56 - 0:59When someone's kind of in a deep hole,
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0:59 - 1:01and they shout out from the bottom,
and they say, -
1:01 - 1:04"I'm stuck, it's dark, I'm overwhelmed,"
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1:04 - 1:06and then, we look and we say.
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1:06 - 1:08"Hey. I'm down.
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1:08 - 1:10I know what it's like down here.
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1:10 - 1:12And you're not alone."
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1:12 - 1:14Sympathy is...
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1:14 - 1:16"Oh!" [crowd laughter]
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1:16 - 1:18"It's bad, uh huh..." [crowd laughter]
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1:18 - 1:21"Uuuuhhhh... no."
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1:21 - 1:22"You wanna sandwich?"
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1:22 - 1:24"Um..." [crowd laughter]
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1:24 - 1:27Empathy is a choice, and it's a vulnerable choice,
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1:27 - 1:33because in order to connect with you, I have to connect with something in myself that knows that feeling.
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1:34 - 1:39Rarely, if ever, does an empathic response begin with, "At least".
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1:41 - 1:43[crowd laughter] I had a, yeah,
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1:43 - 1:44and we do it all the time.
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1:44 - 1:49Because you know what? Somebody just shared something with us that's incredibly painful,
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1:49 - 1:51and we're trying to silver line-ing it.
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1:51 - 1:55I don't think that's a verb, but I'm using it as one.
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1:55 - 1:57We're trying to put the silver lining around it. So,
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1:57 - 1:58"I had a miscarrige."
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1:59 - 2:01"At least you know you can get pregnant."
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2:01 - 2:03"I think my marriage is falling apart."
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2:03 - 2:05"At least you have a marriage."
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2:05 - 2:07[crowd laughter]
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2:09 - 2:11"John's getting kicked out of school."
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2:11 - 2:13"At least Sarah is an A student."
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2:13 - 2:15But one of the things we do sometimes,
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2:15 - 2:20in the face of very difficult conversations,
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2:20 - 2:22is we try to make things better.
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2:22 - 2:26If I share something with you that's very difficult, I'd rather you say,
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2:26 - 2:27[breath]
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2:27 - 2:30"I don't even know what to say right now, I'm just so glad you told me."
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2:31 - 2:33Because the truth is,
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2:33 - 2:36rarely can a response make something better.
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2:36 - 2:38What makes something better is connection.
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2:45 - 2:47♪ ♫ ♪ classical strings ♪ ♫ ♪
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2:49 - 2:50♪ ♫ ♪ classical strings ♪ ♫ ♪
- Title:
- RSA Shorts - The Power of Empathy
- Description:
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(Subtitle Note: The audio seems to be taken from an event that Dr Brené Brown has spoken at, which is why there is crowd laughter.)
What is the best way to ease someone's pain and suffering? In this beautifully animated RSA Short, Dr Brené Brown reminds us that we can only create a genuine empathic connection if we are brave enough to really get in touch with our own fragilities.
Voice: Dr Brené Brown
Animation: Katy Davis (AKA Gobblynne) www.gobblynne.comWatch Dr Brené Brown's full talk 'The Power of Vulnerability' here:
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- Duration:
- 02:54
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