1 00:00:00,758 --> 00:00:04,500 I'm going to first tell you something that in my grandmother 2 00:00:04,524 --> 00:00:07,261 would've elicited a five-oy alarm: 3 00:00:07,286 --> 00:00:08,548 "Oy-oy-oy-oy-oy." 4 00:00:08,572 --> 00:00:09,722 (Laughter) 5 00:00:09,746 --> 00:00:13,031 And here it is ... are you ready? 6 00:00:13,522 --> 00:00:14,672 OK. 7 00:00:15,730 --> 00:00:19,466 I have stage IV lung cancer. 8 00:00:20,269 --> 00:00:21,571 Oh, I know, "poor me." 9 00:00:21,595 --> 00:00:22,837 I don't feel that way. 10 00:00:22,861 --> 00:00:24,912 I'm so OK with it. 11 00:00:25,380 --> 00:00:27,519 And granted, I have certain advantages -- 12 00:00:27,543 --> 00:00:30,200 not everybody can take so cavalier an attitude. 13 00:00:30,224 --> 00:00:31,748 I don't have young children. 14 00:00:32,355 --> 00:00:36,043 I have a grown daughter who's brilliant and happy and wonderful. 15 00:00:36,674 --> 00:00:39,696 I don't have huge financial stress. 16 00:00:40,711 --> 00:00:42,721 My cancer isn't that aggressive. 17 00:00:42,745 --> 00:00:44,965 It's kind of like the Democratic leadership -- 18 00:00:44,989 --> 00:00:48,672 (Laughter) 19 00:00:48,696 --> 00:00:50,562 not convinced it can win. 20 00:00:50,586 --> 00:00:52,236 It's basically just sitting there, 21 00:00:52,260 --> 00:00:54,596 waiting for Goldman Sachs to give it some money. 22 00:00:54,620 --> 00:00:55,635 (Laughter) 23 00:00:55,659 --> 00:01:00,548 (Applause) 24 00:01:00,572 --> 00:01:03,405 Oh, and the best thing of all -- 25 00:01:03,429 --> 00:01:06,897 I have a major accomplishment under my belt. 26 00:01:06,921 --> 00:01:08,072 Yes. 27 00:01:08,096 --> 00:01:12,000 I didn't even know it until someone tweeted me a year ago. 28 00:01:12,024 --> 00:01:14,246 And here's what they said: 29 00:01:14,270 --> 00:01:16,491 "You are responsible 30 00:01:16,515 --> 00:01:19,574 for the pussification of the American male." 31 00:01:20,039 --> 00:01:21,869 (Laughter) 32 00:01:21,893 --> 00:01:25,744 (Applause) 33 00:01:25,768 --> 00:01:28,570 Not that I can take all the credit, but ... 34 00:01:28,594 --> 00:01:32,832 (Laughter) 35 00:01:32,856 --> 00:01:36,785 But what if you don't have my advantages? 36 00:01:36,809 --> 00:01:40,483 The only advice I can give you is to do what I did: 37 00:01:40,507 --> 00:01:43,203 make friends with reality. 38 00:01:43,634 --> 00:01:47,406 You couldn't have a worse relationship with reality than I did. 39 00:01:48,003 --> 00:01:50,491 From the get-go, 40 00:01:50,515 --> 00:01:52,837 I wasn't even attracted to reality. 41 00:01:53,376 --> 00:01:56,083 If they'd had Tinder when I met reality, 42 00:01:56,107 --> 00:01:57,297 I would have swiped left 43 00:01:57,321 --> 00:01:59,314 and the whole thing would have been over. 44 00:01:59,338 --> 00:02:01,004 (Laughter) 45 00:02:01,028 --> 00:02:03,017 And reality and I -- 46 00:02:03,041 --> 00:02:06,436 we don't share the same values, the same goals -- 47 00:02:06,460 --> 00:02:07,467 (Laughter) 48 00:02:07,491 --> 00:02:10,190 To be honest, I don't have goals; 49 00:02:10,214 --> 00:02:11,815 I have fantasies. 50 00:02:12,388 --> 00:02:16,078 They're exactly like goals but without the hard work. 51 00:02:16,102 --> 00:02:18,052 (Laughter) 52 00:02:18,076 --> 00:02:19,505 (Applause) 53 00:02:19,529 --> 00:02:22,775 I'm not a big fan of hard work, 54 00:02:22,799 --> 00:02:24,697 but you know reality -- 55 00:02:24,721 --> 00:02:27,690 it's either push, push, push, push, push 56 00:02:27,714 --> 00:02:32,027 through its agent, the executive brain function -- 57 00:02:32,051 --> 00:02:33,596 one of the "yays" of dying: 58 00:02:33,620 --> 00:02:37,243 my executive brain function won't have me to kick around anymore. 59 00:02:37,267 --> 00:02:41,313 (Laughter) 60 00:02:41,337 --> 00:02:44,642 But something happened 61 00:02:44,666 --> 00:02:48,871 that made me realize 62 00:02:48,895 --> 00:02:53,229 that reality may not be reality. 63 00:02:53,566 --> 00:02:55,088 So what happened was, 64 00:02:55,112 --> 00:02:59,572 because I basically wanted reality to leave me alone -- 65 00:02:59,596 --> 00:03:02,589 but I wanted to be left alone in a nice house 66 00:03:02,613 --> 00:03:06,379 with a Wolf range and Sub-Zero refrigerator ... 67 00:03:06,403 --> 00:03:08,754 private yoga lessons -- 68 00:03:08,778 --> 00:03:12,503 I ended up with a development deal at Disney. 69 00:03:12,527 --> 00:03:15,986 And one day I found myself in my new office 70 00:03:16,010 --> 00:03:18,325 on Two Dopey Drive -- 71 00:03:18,349 --> 00:03:21,339 (Laughter) 72 00:03:21,363 --> 00:03:24,443 which reality thought I should be proud of ... 73 00:03:24,467 --> 00:03:25,617 (Laughter) 74 00:03:25,641 --> 00:03:30,047 And I'm staring at the present they sent me to celebrate my arrival -- 75 00:03:30,071 --> 00:03:35,165 not the Lalique vase or the grand piano I've heard of other people getting, 76 00:03:35,189 --> 00:03:38,546 but a three-foot-tall, stuffed Mickey Mouse 77 00:03:38,570 --> 00:03:39,585 (Laughter) 78 00:03:39,609 --> 00:03:42,467 with a catalog, in case I wanted to order some more stuff 79 00:03:42,491 --> 00:03:44,495 that didn't jibe with my aesthetic. 80 00:03:44,519 --> 00:03:45,556 (Laughter) 81 00:03:45,580 --> 00:03:47,326 And when I looked up in the catalog 82 00:03:47,350 --> 00:03:51,708 to see how much this three-foot-high mouse cost, 83 00:03:51,732 --> 00:03:54,556 here's how it was described ... 84 00:03:55,603 --> 00:03:57,931 "Life-sized." 85 00:03:57,955 --> 00:04:02,793 (Laughter) 86 00:04:02,817 --> 00:04:04,476 And that's when I knew. 87 00:04:04,878 --> 00:04:07,273 Reality wasn't "reality." 88 00:04:07,297 --> 00:04:09,255 Reality was an imposter. 89 00:04:09,937 --> 00:04:14,438 So I dived into quantum physics and chaos theory 90 00:04:14,462 --> 00:04:16,608 to try to find actual reality, 91 00:04:16,632 --> 00:04:18,277 and I've just finished a movie -- 92 00:04:18,301 --> 00:04:20,501 yes, finally finished -- 93 00:04:20,525 --> 00:04:21,703 about all that, 94 00:04:21,727 --> 00:04:23,032 so I won't go into it here, 95 00:04:23,056 --> 00:04:25,522 and anyway, it wasn't until after we shot the movie, 96 00:04:25,546 --> 00:04:27,608 when I broke my leg and then it didn't heal, 97 00:04:27,632 --> 00:04:30,073 so then they had to do another surgery a year later, 98 00:04:30,097 --> 00:04:31,468 and then that took a year -- 99 00:04:31,492 --> 00:04:32,749 two years in a wheelchair, 100 00:04:32,773 --> 00:04:38,723 and that's when I came into contact with actual reality: 101 00:04:38,747 --> 00:04:40,112 limits. 102 00:04:40,598 --> 00:04:43,628 Those very limits I'd spent my whole life denying 103 00:04:43,652 --> 00:04:45,965 and pushing past and ignoring 104 00:04:47,466 --> 00:04:49,033 were real, 105 00:04:49,057 --> 00:04:51,394 and I had to deal with them, 106 00:04:51,418 --> 00:04:57,109 and they took imagination, creativity and my entire skill set. 107 00:04:57,461 --> 00:05:01,842 It turned out I was great at actual reality. 108 00:05:02,289 --> 00:05:04,004 I didn't just come to terms with it, 109 00:05:04,028 --> 00:05:05,622 I fell in love. 110 00:05:05,646 --> 00:05:07,107 And I should've known, 111 00:05:07,131 --> 00:05:11,113 given my equally shaky relationship with the zeitgeist ... 112 00:05:12,167 --> 00:05:16,363 I'll just say, if anyone is in the market for a Betamax -- 113 00:05:16,387 --> 00:05:18,381 (Laughter) 114 00:05:18,784 --> 00:05:22,632 I should have known that the moment I fell in love with reality, 115 00:05:22,656 --> 00:05:25,939 the rest of the country would decide to go in the opposite direction. 116 00:05:25,963 --> 00:05:28,272 (Laughter) 117 00:05:28,296 --> 00:05:32,841 But I'm not here to talk about Trump or the alt-right or climate-change deniers 118 00:05:32,865 --> 00:05:35,255 or even the makers of this thing, 119 00:05:35,279 --> 00:05:37,145 which I would have called a box, 120 00:05:37,169 --> 00:05:40,054 except that right here, it says, 121 00:05:40,078 --> 00:05:42,765 "This is not a box." 122 00:05:42,789 --> 00:05:47,305 (Laughter) 123 00:05:47,329 --> 00:05:49,467 They're gaslighting me. 124 00:05:49,491 --> 00:05:51,153 (Laughter) 125 00:05:51,177 --> 00:05:53,813 (Applause) 126 00:05:54,701 --> 00:05:59,432 But what I do want to talk about 127 00:05:59,456 --> 00:06:04,574 is a personal challenge to reality 128 00:06:04,598 --> 00:06:07,245 that I take personally, 129 00:06:07,269 --> 00:06:13,946 and I want to preface it by saying that I absolutely love science. 130 00:06:14,316 --> 00:06:15,697 I have this -- 131 00:06:15,721 --> 00:06:17,685 not a scientist myself -- 132 00:06:17,709 --> 00:06:22,527 but an uncanny ability to understand everything about science, 133 00:06:22,551 --> 00:06:24,434 except the actual science -- 134 00:06:24,458 --> 00:06:25,459 (Laughter) 135 00:06:25,483 --> 00:06:26,681 which is math. 136 00:06:26,705 --> 00:06:30,980 But the most outlandish concepts make sense to me. 137 00:06:32,968 --> 00:06:34,357 The string theory; 138 00:06:34,381 --> 00:06:38,549 the idea that all of reality emanates from the vibrations of these teeny -- 139 00:06:38,573 --> 00:06:40,485 I call it "The Big Twang." 140 00:06:40,509 --> 00:06:41,768 (Laughter) 141 00:06:42,405 --> 00:06:44,402 Wave-particle duality: 142 00:06:44,426 --> 00:06:48,067 the idea that one thing can manifest as two things ... 143 00:06:48,091 --> 00:06:49,242 you know? 144 00:06:49,266 --> 00:06:53,088 That a photon can manifest as a wave and a particle 145 00:06:53,112 --> 00:06:55,473 coincided with my deepest intuitions 146 00:06:55,497 --> 00:06:57,180 that people are good and bad, 147 00:06:57,204 --> 00:06:59,294 ideas are right and wrong. 148 00:06:59,318 --> 00:07:01,598 Freud was right about penis envy 149 00:07:01,622 --> 00:07:04,202 and he was wrong about who has it. 150 00:07:04,226 --> 00:07:07,815 (Laughter) 151 00:07:07,839 --> 00:07:10,363 (Applause) 152 00:07:10,387 --> 00:07:11,630 Thank you. 153 00:07:11,654 --> 00:07:12,661 (Applause) 154 00:07:12,685 --> 00:07:16,076 And then there's this slight variation on that, 155 00:07:16,100 --> 00:07:18,783 which is reality looks like two things, 156 00:07:18,807 --> 00:07:22,965 but it turns out to be the interaction of those two things, 157 00:07:22,989 --> 00:07:25,137 like space -- time, 158 00:07:25,161 --> 00:07:26,802 mass -- energy 159 00:07:26,826 --> 00:07:30,076 and life and death. 160 00:07:30,444 --> 00:07:31,973 So I don't understand -- 161 00:07:31,997 --> 00:07:35,067 I simply just don't understand 162 00:07:35,091 --> 00:07:39,456 the mindset of people who are out to "defeat death" and "overcome death." 163 00:07:39,480 --> 00:07:41,072 How do you do that? 164 00:07:41,096 --> 00:07:43,932 How do you defeat death without killing off life? 165 00:07:44,539 --> 00:07:46,754 It doesn't make sense to me. 166 00:07:46,778 --> 00:07:48,710 I also have to say, 167 00:07:48,734 --> 00:07:52,502 I find it incredibly ungrateful. 168 00:07:52,526 --> 00:07:55,291 I mean, you're given this extraordinary gift -- 169 00:07:55,315 --> 00:07:56,701 life -- 170 00:07:56,725 --> 00:08:01,383 but it's as if you had asked Santa for a Rolls-Royce Silver Shadow 171 00:08:01,407 --> 00:08:04,119 and you had gotten a salad spinner instead. 172 00:08:04,672 --> 00:08:07,020 You know, it's the beef -- 173 00:08:07,044 --> 00:08:10,865 the beef with it is that it comes with an expiration date. 174 00:08:10,889 --> 00:08:12,683 Death is the deal breaker. 175 00:08:13,954 --> 00:08:15,105 I don't get that. 176 00:08:15,129 --> 00:08:16,280 I don't understand -- 177 00:08:16,304 --> 00:08:17,948 to me, it's disrespectful. 178 00:08:17,972 --> 00:08:19,855 It's disrespectful to nature. 179 00:08:20,404 --> 00:08:22,877 The idea that we're going to dominate nature, 180 00:08:22,901 --> 00:08:25,083 we're going to master nature, 181 00:08:25,107 --> 00:08:28,987 nature is too weak to withstand our intellect -- 182 00:08:29,884 --> 00:08:32,680 no, I don't think so. 183 00:08:33,055 --> 00:08:36,475 I think if you've actually read quantum physics as I have -- 184 00:08:36,499 --> 00:08:39,371 well, I read an email from someone who'd read it, but -- 185 00:08:39,395 --> 00:08:43,268 (Laughter) 186 00:08:43,292 --> 00:08:44,539 You have to understand 187 00:08:44,563 --> 00:08:48,396 that we don't live in Newton's clockwork universe anymore. 188 00:08:48,420 --> 00:08:51,625 We live in a banana peel universe, 189 00:08:51,649 --> 00:08:55,329 and we won't ever be able to know everything 190 00:08:55,353 --> 00:08:56,999 or control everything 191 00:08:57,023 --> 00:08:58,506 or predict everything. 192 00:08:58,530 --> 00:09:00,737 Nature is like a self-driving car. 193 00:09:00,761 --> 00:09:04,094 The best we can be is like the old woman in that joke -- 194 00:09:04,118 --> 00:09:05,940 I don't know if you've heard it. 195 00:09:06,252 --> 00:09:08,575 An old woman is driving 196 00:09:08,599 --> 00:09:12,828 with her middle-aged daughter in the passenger seat, 197 00:09:12,852 --> 00:09:15,251 and the mother goes right through a red light. 198 00:09:15,275 --> 00:09:19,451 And the daughter doesn't want to say anything that makes it sound like, 199 00:09:19,475 --> 00:09:21,169 "You're too old to drive," 200 00:09:21,193 --> 00:09:23,004 so she didn't say anything. 201 00:09:23,028 --> 00:09:25,752 And then the mother goes through a second red light, 202 00:09:25,776 --> 00:09:28,150 and the daughter, as tactfully as possible, 203 00:09:28,174 --> 00:09:30,329 says, "Mom, are you aware 204 00:09:30,353 --> 00:09:32,591 that you just went through two red lights?" 205 00:09:32,615 --> 00:09:34,610 And the mother says, "Oh, am I driving?" 206 00:09:34,634 --> 00:09:38,815 (Laughter) 207 00:09:38,839 --> 00:09:43,203 (Applause) 208 00:09:43,227 --> 00:09:44,584 So ... 209 00:09:46,004 --> 00:09:50,156 and now, I'm going to take a mental leap, 210 00:09:50,180 --> 00:09:54,069 which is easy for me because I'm the Evel Knievel of mental leaps; 211 00:09:54,093 --> 00:09:55,888 my license plate says, 212 00:09:55,912 --> 00:09:58,552 "Cogito, ergo zoom." 213 00:09:59,072 --> 00:10:02,439 I hope you're willing to come with me on this, 214 00:10:02,463 --> 00:10:08,083 but my real problem with the mindset that is so out to defeat death 215 00:10:08,107 --> 00:10:11,867 is if you're anti-death, 216 00:10:11,891 --> 00:10:14,288 which to me translates as anti-life, 217 00:10:14,312 --> 00:10:18,173 which to me translates as anti-nature, 218 00:10:18,197 --> 00:10:21,328 it also translates to me as anti-woman, 219 00:10:21,352 --> 00:10:25,658 because women have long been identified with nature. 220 00:10:25,682 --> 00:10:27,924 And my source on this is Hannah Arendt, 221 00:10:27,948 --> 00:10:31,575 the German philosopher who wrote a book called "The Human Condition." 222 00:10:32,170 --> 00:10:35,609 And in it, she says that classically, 223 00:10:35,633 --> 00:10:38,299 work is associated with men. 224 00:10:38,323 --> 00:10:40,533 Work is what comes out of the head; 225 00:10:40,557 --> 00:10:41,833 it's what we invent, 226 00:10:41,857 --> 00:10:43,388 it's what we create, 227 00:10:43,412 --> 00:10:46,052 it's how we leave our mark upon the world. 228 00:10:47,434 --> 00:10:51,876 Whereas labor is associated with the body. 229 00:10:51,900 --> 00:10:54,691 It's associated with the people who perform labor 230 00:10:54,715 --> 00:10:56,343 or undergo labor. 231 00:10:56,915 --> 00:10:59,638 So to me, 232 00:10:59,662 --> 00:11:03,790 the mindset that denies that, 233 00:11:03,814 --> 00:11:08,127 that denies that we're in sync with the biorhythms, 234 00:11:08,151 --> 00:11:11,238 the cyclical rhythms of the universe, 235 00:11:11,262 --> 00:11:16,916 does not create a hospitable environment for women 236 00:11:16,940 --> 00:11:19,374 or for people associated with labor, 237 00:11:19,398 --> 00:11:20,912 which is to say, 238 00:11:20,936 --> 00:11:24,355 people that we associate as descendants of slaves, 239 00:11:24,379 --> 00:11:26,726 or people who perform manual labor. 240 00:11:27,838 --> 00:11:33,552 So here's how it looks from a banana-peel-universe point of view, 241 00:11:33,576 --> 00:11:36,911 from my mindset, which I call "Emily's universe." 242 00:11:37,808 --> 00:11:38,983 First of all, 243 00:11:40,323 --> 00:11:45,568 I am incredibly grateful for life, 244 00:11:45,592 --> 00:11:47,659 but I don't want to be immortal. 245 00:11:48,132 --> 00:11:52,150 I have no interest in having my name live on after me. 246 00:11:52,174 --> 00:11:54,353 In fact, I don't want it to, 247 00:11:54,377 --> 00:11:56,031 because it's been my observation 248 00:11:56,055 --> 00:11:58,780 that no matter how nice and how brilliant 249 00:11:58,804 --> 00:12:00,416 or how talented you are, 250 00:12:00,440 --> 00:12:03,052 50 years after you die, they turn on you. 251 00:12:03,076 --> 00:12:04,552 (Laughter) 252 00:12:04,576 --> 00:12:07,091 And I have actual proof of that. 253 00:12:07,115 --> 00:12:10,347 A headline from the Los Angeles Times: 254 00:12:10,371 --> 00:12:13,502 "Anne Frank: Not so nice after all." 255 00:12:13,526 --> 00:12:18,796 (Laughter) 256 00:12:18,820 --> 00:12:22,182 Plus, I love being in sync 257 00:12:22,206 --> 00:12:24,725 with the cyclical rhythms of the universe. 258 00:12:24,749 --> 00:12:27,018 That's what's so extraordinary about life: 259 00:12:27,042 --> 00:12:29,239 it's a cycle of generation, 260 00:12:29,263 --> 00:12:30,669 degeneration, 261 00:12:30,693 --> 00:12:32,292 regeneration. 262 00:12:32,316 --> 00:12:36,214 "I" am just a collection of particles 263 00:12:36,238 --> 00:12:39,117 that is arranged into this pattern, 264 00:12:39,141 --> 00:12:41,903 then will decompose and be available, 265 00:12:41,927 --> 00:12:44,474 all of its constituent parts, to nature, 266 00:12:44,498 --> 00:12:46,652 to reorganize into another pattern. 267 00:12:47,779 --> 00:12:50,238 To me, that is so exciting, 268 00:12:50,262 --> 00:12:54,670 and it makes me even more grateful to be part of that process. 269 00:12:55,331 --> 00:12:57,051 You know, 270 00:12:57,075 --> 00:13:03,117 I look at death now from the point of view of a German biologist, 271 00:13:03,141 --> 00:13:04,596 Andreas Weber, 272 00:13:04,620 --> 00:13:08,222 who looks at it as part of the gift economy. 273 00:13:08,246 --> 00:13:11,024 You're given this enormous gift, life, 274 00:13:11,048 --> 00:13:13,391 you enrich it as best you can, 275 00:13:13,415 --> 00:13:15,475 and then you give it back. 276 00:13:16,019 --> 00:13:19,352 And, you know, Auntie Mame said, "Life is a banquet" -- 277 00:13:19,376 --> 00:13:21,487 well, I've eaten my fill. 278 00:13:22,126 --> 00:13:24,397 I have had an enormous appetite for life, 279 00:13:24,421 --> 00:13:25,644 I've consumed life, 280 00:13:25,668 --> 00:13:28,303 but in death, I'm going to be consumed. 281 00:13:28,327 --> 00:13:31,778 I'm going into the ground just the way I am, 282 00:13:31,802 --> 00:13:34,753 and there, I invite every microbe 283 00:13:34,777 --> 00:13:36,133 and detritus-er 284 00:13:36,157 --> 00:13:38,307 and decomposer 285 00:13:38,331 --> 00:13:39,497 to have their fill. 286 00:13:39,521 --> 00:13:42,077 I think they'll find me delicious. 287 00:13:42,101 --> 00:13:43,303 (Laughter) 288 00:13:43,327 --> 00:13:44,577 I do. 289 00:13:45,584 --> 00:13:50,623 So the best thing about my attitude, I think, is that it's real. 290 00:13:50,647 --> 00:13:51,973 You can see it. 291 00:13:51,997 --> 00:13:53,148 You can observe it. 292 00:13:53,172 --> 00:13:54,638 It actually happens. 293 00:13:54,662 --> 00:13:58,377 Well, maybe not my enriching the gift, 294 00:13:58,401 --> 00:14:00,156 I don't know about that -- 295 00:14:00,180 --> 00:14:03,748 but my life has certainly been enriched by other people. 296 00:14:03,772 --> 00:14:04,977 By TED, 297 00:14:05,001 --> 00:14:08,160 which introduced me to a whole network of people 298 00:14:08,184 --> 00:14:10,863 who have enriched my life, 299 00:14:10,887 --> 00:14:14,080 including Tricia McGillis, my website designer, 300 00:14:14,104 --> 00:14:16,469 who's working with my wonderful daughter 301 00:14:16,493 --> 00:14:20,031 to take my website and turn it into something 302 00:14:20,055 --> 00:14:21,946 where all I have to do is write a blog. 303 00:14:21,970 --> 00:14:24,466 I don't have to use the executive brain function ... 304 00:14:24,490 --> 00:14:28,069 Ha, ha, ha, I win! 305 00:14:28,093 --> 00:14:29,192 (Laughter) 306 00:14:29,216 --> 00:14:31,874 And I am so grateful to you. 307 00:14:32,853 --> 00:14:35,373 I don't want to say "the audience," 308 00:14:35,397 --> 00:14:39,802 because I don't really see it as we're two separate things. 309 00:14:39,826 --> 00:14:45,451 I think of it in terms of quantum physics, again. 310 00:14:46,001 --> 00:14:51,298 And, you know, quantum physicists are not exactly sure what happens 311 00:14:51,322 --> 00:14:53,920 when the wave becomes a particle. 312 00:14:53,944 --> 00:14:55,483 There are different theories -- 313 00:14:55,507 --> 00:14:57,128 the collapse of the wave function, 314 00:14:57,152 --> 00:14:58,303 decoherence -- 315 00:14:58,327 --> 00:15:00,043 but they're all agreed on one thing: 316 00:15:00,067 --> 00:15:03,136 that reality comes into being through an interaction. 317 00:15:06,408 --> 00:15:07,821 (Voice breaking) So do you. 318 00:15:08,628 --> 00:15:10,968 And every audience I've ever had, 319 00:15:10,992 --> 00:15:12,546 past and present. 320 00:15:13,508 --> 00:15:17,489 Thank you so much for making my life real. 321 00:15:17,513 --> 00:15:18,625 (Applause) 322 00:15:18,649 --> 00:15:19,800 Thank you. 323 00:15:19,824 --> 00:15:21,284 (Applause) 324 00:15:21,308 --> 00:15:22,477 Thank you. 325 00:15:22,501 --> 00:15:23,554 (Applause) 326 00:15:23,578 --> 00:15:24,737 Thank you. 327 00:15:24,761 --> 00:15:25,786 (Applause) 328 00:15:25,810 --> 00:15:26,991 Thank you.