1 00:00:13,295 --> 00:00:16,925 What's the most important part of your health? 2 00:00:16,925 --> 00:00:18,846 What do you think? 3 00:00:18,846 --> 00:00:25,019 Is it eating a balanced, mostly plant-based diet, 4 00:00:25,071 --> 00:00:31,692 balancing your hormones, daily exercise, getting enough sleep - 5 00:00:31,692 --> 00:00:33,993 What do you guys think? 6 00:00:33,993 --> 00:00:37,762 Taking your vitamins, seeing your doctor for regular check ups? 7 00:00:37,762 --> 00:00:40,423 (Laughter) 8 00:00:40,430 --> 00:00:45,143 These things might all seem like important, even critical, factors 9 00:00:45,143 --> 00:00:50,170 to living a healthy life, but what if I told you 10 00:00:50,202 --> 00:00:55,679 that caring for your body was the least important part of your health? 11 00:00:55,679 --> 00:00:58,860 What do you think? 12 00:00:58,863 --> 00:01:01,808 I'm a physician, so if you'd told me that five years ago, 13 00:01:01,813 --> 00:01:03,906 that would have been total sacrilege. 14 00:01:03,908 --> 00:01:07,311 I mean, I spent 12 years training, 15 00:01:07,311 --> 00:01:12,558 because the body is supposed to be the foundation for everything in life. 16 00:01:12,558 --> 00:01:17,682 But what if I told you that the medical profession had it all backwards, 17 00:01:17,705 --> 00:01:23,317 if the body doesn't shape how we live our lives? 18 00:01:23,317 --> 00:01:29,404 What if the body is actually a mirror of how we live our lives? 19 00:01:29,408 --> 00:01:32,911 Think about it for a minute. Think about a time in your life 20 00:01:32,911 --> 00:01:37,129 where you weren't living the life you were supposed to be living. 21 00:01:37,129 --> 00:01:40,211 Maybe you were in the wrong relationship; 22 00:01:40,240 --> 00:01:42,389 or you were in some hostile work environment 23 00:01:42,394 --> 00:01:45,283 doing what you thought you should do; 24 00:01:45,320 --> 00:01:51,207 or you were creatively thwarted, you felt spiritually disconnected. 25 00:01:51,207 --> 00:01:54,757 And what if you started getting little inklings from the body, 26 00:01:54,757 --> 00:01:57,501 little physical symptoms? 27 00:01:57,501 --> 00:02:00,789 You know, the body's trying to tell you something and you ignore it, 28 00:02:00,789 --> 00:02:03,391 because you're supposed to do what you're doing. 29 00:02:03,391 --> 00:02:05,975 And then the body totally decompensates. 30 00:02:05,975 --> 00:02:09,809 Can you think about a time in your life where something like that has happened? 31 00:02:09,809 --> 00:02:11,570 Yeah, I see a lot of noddings. 32 00:02:11,570 --> 00:02:14,901 Yeah, me too. Same thing happened to me. 33 00:02:14,901 --> 00:02:18,501 So this is what the body does, the body is brilliant this way, 34 00:02:18,512 --> 00:02:20,850 the body speaks to us in whispers. 35 00:02:20,850 --> 00:02:25,754 And if we ignore the whispers of the body, the body starts to yell. 36 00:02:25,754 --> 00:02:30,621 Millions of people in this country are ignoring the whispers of the body. 37 00:02:30,621 --> 00:02:33,042 We are suffering from an epidemic 38 00:02:33,042 --> 00:02:36,451 that modern medicine has no idea what to do with. 39 00:02:36,451 --> 00:02:40,953 People suffering from this epidemic are fatigued, 40 00:02:40,953 --> 00:02:47,100 they're anxious and depressed, they toss and turn at night, 41 00:02:47,116 --> 00:02:50,876 they've lost their libido. 42 00:02:50,882 --> 00:02:55,260 They suffer from a whole variety of aches and pains, 43 00:02:57,886 --> 00:03:00,804 so they go to the doctor, 'cause something is wrong. 44 00:03:00,808 --> 00:03:05,574 And the doctor runs a whole battery of tests, 45 00:03:05,574 --> 00:03:09,946 and the tests all come back normal, so the patient gets diagnosed as "well". 46 00:03:09,962 --> 00:03:12,149 Only the patient does not feel well. 47 00:03:12,149 --> 00:03:15,758 So she goes to another doctor and she starts the whole process over again, 48 00:03:15,758 --> 00:03:17,679 because something is clearly wrong. 49 00:03:17,682 --> 00:03:21,216 And it is wrong, it's just not what she thinks. 50 00:03:23,322 --> 00:03:26,273 I used to work in a really busy managed care practice, 51 00:03:26,274 --> 00:03:28,577 I was seeing 40 patients a day. 52 00:03:28,594 --> 00:03:31,470 And I would get so freaking frustrated with these patients. 53 00:03:31,477 --> 00:03:35,013 They would come in and it was so obvious they were really suffering. 54 00:03:35,027 --> 00:03:37,824 And I'd run the tests, everything would come back normal, 55 00:03:37,824 --> 00:03:40,363 I'd diagnose them well, and they'd look at me like: 56 00:03:40,363 --> 00:03:42,771 No, I'm not well, something's wrong. 57 00:03:42,779 --> 00:03:46,674 And I felt so frustrated because I couldn't come up with a diagnosis. 58 00:03:46,674 --> 00:03:49,667 And they just wanted, please God, give me a pill. 59 00:03:49,667 --> 00:03:52,677 And there was no pill, there's no pill to treat it, 60 00:03:52,685 --> 00:03:56,299 there's no lab test to diagnose this epidemic, 61 00:03:56,299 --> 00:04:00,652 there's no vaccine to prevent it, no surgery to cut it out. 62 00:04:00,652 --> 00:04:03,542 It wasn't until years later that I realized I was suffering 63 00:04:03,542 --> 00:04:06,354 from the same epidemic my patients were. 64 00:04:06,354 --> 00:04:09,112 By the time I was 33 years old, 65 00:04:09,112 --> 00:04:10,623 I was your typical physician. 66 00:04:10,623 --> 00:04:14,456 I had succeeded in everything I ever wanted to achieve in my life, I thought. 67 00:04:14,456 --> 00:04:18,009 I had all the trappings of success, the ocean front house in San Diego, 68 00:04:18,018 --> 00:04:22,244 the vacation home, the boat, the big fat retirement account, 69 00:04:22,252 --> 00:04:26,666 so I could be happy one day in the future. 70 00:04:27,123 --> 00:04:30,569 I was twice divorced by that point. 71 00:04:30,569 --> 00:04:32,923 I had been diagnosed with high blood pressure. 72 00:04:32,923 --> 00:04:36,351 I was taking three medications that failed to control my blood pressure 73 00:04:36,351 --> 00:04:37,853 and I had just been diagnosed 74 00:04:37,853 --> 00:04:41,783 with precancerous cells of my cervix that needed surgery. 75 00:04:42,229 --> 00:04:48,259 Even more importantly I was so disconnected from who I was, 76 00:04:48,260 --> 00:04:55,763 so totally disillusioned with my job, so completely spiritually tapped out, 77 00:04:57,810 --> 00:04:59,942 that I didn't even know who I was any more. 78 00:04:59,942 --> 00:05:03,228 I'd covered myself up with a whole series of masks. 79 00:05:03,228 --> 00:05:06,126 I had the doctor mask, like when you put on the white coat, 80 00:05:06,126 --> 00:05:08,860 stand up on a pedestal, pretend you got it all together, 81 00:05:08,860 --> 00:05:10,702 you know it all. 82 00:05:10,702 --> 00:05:13,701 And I am also a professional artist, so I had the artist mask, 83 00:05:13,701 --> 00:05:16,230 where you've got to be, you know, dark and brooding, 84 00:05:16,230 --> 00:05:22,329 mysterious - starving, that wasn't me either. 85 00:05:22,329 --> 00:05:24,384 And then I had gotten married a third time, 86 00:05:24,385 --> 00:05:26,058 you know, third time is a charm. 87 00:05:26,058 --> 00:05:28,698 So now I've got this dutiful wife mask I've gotta wear, 88 00:05:28,698 --> 00:05:30,802 where I've got to get dinner on the table 89 00:05:30,802 --> 00:05:33,409 and make sure that I've got the right sexy lingerie on. 90 00:05:33,410 --> 00:05:35,470 And then I got pregnant and all of sudden 91 00:05:35,470 --> 00:05:38,365 there's this huge mummy mask you're supposed to wear, right? 92 00:05:38,365 --> 00:05:39,780 You guys know the mummy mask. 93 00:05:39,780 --> 00:05:41,999 You're supposed to instantly inherit the gene 94 00:05:41,999 --> 00:05:46,712 that makes you capable of baking the perfect cupcake. 95 00:05:47,616 --> 00:05:50,225 That's where I was, wearing all those masks, 96 00:05:50,240 --> 00:05:53,218 when my perfect storm hit. 97 00:05:54,224 --> 00:05:59,543 And at this point in my life, it was January 2006, 98 00:05:59,543 --> 00:06:02,565 and I gave birth to my daughter by C-section, 99 00:06:02,565 --> 00:06:05,191 my sixteen-year-old dog died, 100 00:06:05,202 --> 00:06:08,203 my healthy young brother wound up in full-blown liver failure 101 00:06:08,203 --> 00:06:10,505 from the antibiotic Zithromax, 102 00:06:10,505 --> 00:06:17,637 and my beloved father passed away from a brain tumor, all in two weeks. 103 00:06:17,639 --> 00:06:21,325 I had just started to take a breath, when my husband, 104 00:06:21,330 --> 00:06:23,164 who was the stay home for my newborn, 105 00:06:23,164 --> 00:06:28,571 cut two fingers off his left hand with the table saw. 106 00:06:31,696 --> 00:06:33,676 Yeah - 107 00:06:33,676 --> 00:06:41,687 They say when your life falls apart, you either grow, or you grow a tumor. 108 00:06:41,687 --> 00:06:46,971 Fortunately for me I decided to grow, there was something in me. 109 00:06:46,971 --> 00:06:53,762 SARK called it my "Inner Wise Self", which I call your Inner Pilot Light. 110 00:06:53,762 --> 00:07:00,065 It said, "It's time to take the masks off. It's time to stop the madness. 111 00:07:00,065 --> 00:07:06,904 It's time to stop doing what you should, and start doing what you feel." 112 00:07:06,909 --> 00:07:09,242 And in that moment I knew I had to quit my job. 113 00:07:09,242 --> 00:07:13,952 Now, this was a huge deal, right? I spent 12 years training to be a doctor 114 00:07:13,956 --> 00:07:16,312 and hundreds of thousands of dollars 115 00:07:16,320 --> 00:07:19,372 and we had all the trappings, you know, the house, the mortgage, 116 00:07:19,372 --> 00:07:20,897 all the doctor stuff, right? 117 00:07:20,897 --> 00:07:24,951 My husband was not employed and I had a newborn. 118 00:07:24,951 --> 00:07:28,706 I also had to pay a malpractice tail to buy my freedom, 119 00:07:28,712 --> 00:07:32,207 a six-figure malpractice tail, in case I ever got sued in the future. 120 00:07:32,207 --> 00:07:36,519 So I decided to do it, and God bless my husband, who said let's jump together. 121 00:07:36,519 --> 00:07:39,252 And I quit my job and I had to sell my house 122 00:07:39,262 --> 00:07:42,151 and liquidate my retirement account and move to the country; 123 00:07:42,151 --> 00:07:47,071 and I spent a few months painting and writing and licking my wounds. 124 00:07:47,079 --> 00:07:52,852 (Laughter) (Applause) 125 00:07:52,852 --> 00:07:56,533 It wasn't until about nine months later, everybody was like - nine months! 126 00:07:56,557 --> 00:07:58,141 I'm an OB/GYN! 127 00:07:58,152 --> 00:08:02,144 Nine months later I realized you can quit your job but you can't quit your calling. 128 00:08:02,144 --> 00:08:05,239 And I had been called at a very young age, I was seven years old, 129 00:08:05,239 --> 00:08:08,752 to the service, the practice, the spiritual practice of medicine; 130 00:08:08,752 --> 00:08:10,742 and that calling hadn't gone away. 131 00:08:10,750 --> 00:08:15,530 I had gotten so wounded by the system that I didn't even notice it anymore; 132 00:08:15,530 --> 00:08:20,245 but it came back after I had rested and healed after a little while. 133 00:08:20,245 --> 00:08:23,707 But I knew I couldn't go back, I couldn't be seeing 40 patients a day, 134 00:08:23,707 --> 00:08:27,341 7,5 minutes with my patients, that wasn't why I went to medical school. 135 00:08:27,341 --> 00:08:32,927 So it began this quest, that turned into an almost five-year quest now, 136 00:08:32,927 --> 00:08:36,449 to rediscover what I loved about medicine. 137 00:08:36,454 --> 00:08:39,735 So that also meant I had to figure out what I hated about medicine. 138 00:08:39,735 --> 00:08:41,474 So I started by blaming everybody: 139 00:08:41,474 --> 00:08:43,962 it was the ambulance chasing malpractice attorneys; 140 00:08:43,962 --> 00:08:47,709 it's big pharma; it's managed care medicine; 141 00:08:47,710 --> 00:08:50,208 it's the insurance company's fault. 142 00:08:50,208 --> 00:08:53,046 Then I thought, oh no, it's the reductionist medical system, 143 00:08:53,046 --> 00:08:55,805 we're so, so sub-specialized, you know? 144 00:08:55,805 --> 00:08:59,299 I'm an OB/GYN, so I was seeing these patients that had pelvic problems. 145 00:08:59,299 --> 00:09:02,344 But I knew that there was something bigger than the pelvis 146 00:09:02,345 --> 00:09:04,920 that was causing their issues. 147 00:09:04,920 --> 00:09:07,960 But I hadn't been trained to really look at that. 148 00:09:07,960 --> 00:09:10,865 So I thought that's the problem, like you go to your doctor, 149 00:09:10,865 --> 00:09:14,168 your pinky finger hurts and he says, "I'm sorry, I'm a thumb doctor." 150 00:09:14,168 --> 00:09:16,013 (Laughter) 151 00:09:16,013 --> 00:09:18,814 Nobody's looking at the whole picture. 152 00:09:18,814 --> 00:09:21,545 So I thought integrative medicine was the answer. 153 00:09:21,545 --> 00:09:24,331 And so I joined an integrative medicine practice, 154 00:09:24,347 --> 00:09:28,647 and it was so much better; I got a whole hour with my patients. 155 00:09:28,680 --> 00:09:30,646 I really got to listen to my patients, 156 00:09:30,646 --> 00:09:33,171 we didn't accept managed care medical insurance, 157 00:09:33,171 --> 00:09:35,448 so it was really so much better. 158 00:09:35,448 --> 00:09:38,301 And then I still kept bumping up against something though, 159 00:09:38,301 --> 00:09:40,668 because now if you came in and you were depressed 160 00:09:40,668 --> 00:09:43,760 we were giving you herbs and amino acids instead of Prozac. 161 00:09:43,760 --> 00:09:45,789 If you had other physical symptoms - 162 00:09:45,789 --> 00:09:48,024 but it was still this allopathic model, 163 00:09:48,024 --> 00:09:49,805 where the answer was outside of you, 164 00:09:49,805 --> 00:09:52,320 and I had to give you something that you could take. 165 00:09:52,320 --> 00:09:56,202 So I thought maybe that's not the problem, maybe I need to look outside of that 166 00:09:56,202 --> 00:09:58,650 and find new tools for my healing toolbox. 167 00:09:58,650 --> 00:10:00,997 So I started working with all these complementary 168 00:10:00,997 --> 00:10:02,918 and alternative health care providers, 169 00:10:02,918 --> 00:10:05,713 whom I love, acupuncturists, naturopaths and nutritionists. 170 00:10:05,713 --> 00:10:09,208 And I started treating my patients with needles in their energy meridians 171 00:10:09,210 --> 00:10:11,684 and raw foods, and that was great. 172 00:10:11,684 --> 00:10:14,783 But I kept bumping up against the same thing: 173 00:10:14,783 --> 00:10:17,303 patients would get better from one symptom 174 00:10:17,303 --> 00:10:19,799 and if we didn't treat the root cause 175 00:10:19,799 --> 00:10:22,510 of why they had that physical symptom in first place, 176 00:10:22,550 --> 00:10:24,935 they just wound up getting a new symptom. 177 00:10:25,068 --> 00:10:28,634 So at this point I was both really frustrated and really curious, 178 00:10:28,636 --> 00:10:31,590 and I started down this path of trying to figure out 179 00:10:31,590 --> 00:10:34,120 what really makes a body healthy, 180 00:10:34,136 --> 00:10:36,763 and what really makes us sick. 181 00:10:36,841 --> 00:10:40,371 And I dug into the medical literature and spent a year researching 182 00:10:40,432 --> 00:10:44,021 all of the randomized controlled clinical trials out there. 183 00:10:44,227 --> 00:10:46,803 And I decided this is it, I'm going to figure it out, 184 00:10:46,803 --> 00:10:48,477 I'm going to find the answer. 185 00:10:48,477 --> 00:10:52,507 And I spent hours in the library, researching, reading, studying. 186 00:10:52,544 --> 00:10:56,151 What I found blew my frigging mind, 187 00:10:56,179 --> 00:10:59,833 stuff nobody ever taught me in medical school. 188 00:10:59,952 --> 00:11:03,815 All the things we think of as health, all the things we think matter, they do. 189 00:11:04,103 --> 00:11:06,973 It matters that you exercise, it matters that you eat well, 190 00:11:06,973 --> 00:11:08,824 it matters that you see the doctor. 191 00:11:08,824 --> 00:11:16,513 But nobody taught me that what really matters is healthy relationships, 192 00:11:16,779 --> 00:11:22,408 having a healthy professional life, 193 00:11:22,591 --> 00:11:27,125 expressing yourself creatively, 194 00:11:27,264 --> 00:11:29,410 being spiritually connected, 195 00:11:35,192 --> 00:11:37,412 having a healthy sex life, 196 00:11:40,492 --> 00:11:42,726 being healthy financially, 197 00:11:44,984 --> 00:11:47,590 living in a healthy environment, 198 00:11:50,567 --> 00:11:52,955 being mentally healthy, 199 00:11:54,984 --> 00:11:58,205 and of course all the things we traditionally associate with health, 200 00:11:58,205 --> 00:12:01,441 also matter, all the things that nurture the body. 201 00:12:01,544 --> 00:12:04,470 The data on this is unbelievable. 202 00:12:04,471 --> 00:12:09,430 Lots of it is not in the traditional journals that you read, 203 00:12:09,451 --> 00:12:13,020 that doctors read, a lot of it's in the psychological literature, 204 00:12:13,020 --> 00:12:14,808 the sociological literature. 205 00:12:14,824 --> 00:12:18,286 But if you look deep, this is in The New England Journal of Medicine, 206 00:12:18,286 --> 00:12:20,906 it's in The Journal of the American Medical Association, 207 00:12:20,906 --> 00:12:23,576 it's coming out of Harvard and Yale and Johns Hopkins. 208 00:12:23,576 --> 00:12:28,194 This is real data proving that these things are just as important, 209 00:12:28,206 --> 00:12:30,251 if not more. 210 00:12:30,256 --> 00:12:32,351 I had this patient, she's a raw vegan, 211 00:12:32,357 --> 00:12:35,345 she runs marathons, she takes 20 supplements a day, 212 00:12:35,451 --> 00:12:38,915 she sleeps eight hours a night, she does everything her doctor tells her, 213 00:12:38,915 --> 00:12:42,454 she's got a chart this fat, and she's still got multiple health problems. 214 00:12:42,454 --> 00:12:46,718 So she had heard about my philosophy, I had started practicing with my patients, 215 00:12:46,793 --> 00:12:49,684 and I had an intake form that's about 20 pages long 216 00:12:49,684 --> 00:12:54,069 and it asks about all those things, relationships, work life, spiritual life, 217 00:12:54,134 --> 00:12:57,727 creative life, sex life, all of these things that make you whole. 218 00:12:57,824 --> 00:13:00,307 So she came and she filled out her form and she said, 219 00:13:00,307 --> 00:13:01,887 "Doctor, what's my diagnosis?" 220 00:13:01,887 --> 00:13:05,787 And I said, "Honey, your diagnosis is you're in a freaking abusive marriage. 221 00:13:05,824 --> 00:13:10,392 You hate your job, you feel creatively thwarted, 222 00:13:10,407 --> 00:13:13,703 you're spiritually disconnected, 223 00:13:13,824 --> 00:13:17,230 and you haven't let go of that resentment you have against your father 224 00:13:17,230 --> 00:13:18,682 who molested you as a child. 225 00:13:18,682 --> 00:13:23,042 Your body is never gonna get well until you heal that." 226 00:13:23,205 --> 00:13:27,347 So if taking care of the body isn't the most important part of being healthy, 227 00:13:27,427 --> 00:13:29,806 what is? 228 00:13:29,910 --> 00:13:34,845 It's caring for the mind, caring for the heart, 229 00:13:34,932 --> 00:13:38,123 caring for the soul, 230 00:13:38,264 --> 00:13:41,674 tapping into what I call your Inner Pilot Light. 231 00:13:42,015 --> 00:13:44,664 Now your pilot light is that part of you, that essence, 232 00:13:44,695 --> 00:13:50,158 that authentic, deep, true part of you, that spiritual, divine spark 233 00:13:50,158 --> 00:13:52,158 that always knows what's right for you. 234 00:13:52,200 --> 00:13:55,634 You're born with it, it goes with you when you die, 235 00:13:55,637 --> 00:13:59,044 and it always knows the truth about you and your body. 236 00:13:59,139 --> 00:14:02,295 It comes to you in whispers; it's your intuition; 237 00:14:02,326 --> 00:14:06,429 it's that beautiful part of you that is your biggest fan; 238 00:14:06,473 --> 00:14:09,685 the part that writes you love letters. 239 00:14:09,731 --> 00:14:12,499 And that is the biggest healer you can tap into, 240 00:14:12,499 --> 00:14:16,190 better than any medicine, better than any doctor. 241 00:14:16,233 --> 00:14:20,983 So based on everything that I learned, I developed a new wellness model. 242 00:14:21,046 --> 00:14:23,593 And it was based, not on the pie charts and pyramids 243 00:14:23,593 --> 00:14:26,534 that many of the wellness models I had studied were based on. 244 00:14:26,534 --> 00:14:28,324 I based it on the cairn. 245 00:14:28,324 --> 00:14:31,378 Have you guys seen these things around San Francisco? 246 00:14:31,389 --> 00:14:34,721 These stacks of balanced stones, I love them, I've always loved them. 247 00:14:34,721 --> 00:14:36,785 I'm an artist, so it appeals to me visually. 248 00:14:36,785 --> 00:14:40,835 But I love the interdependence. Every stone is dependent on the other; 249 00:14:40,887 --> 00:14:44,196 you can't just pull one stone out without the whole thing crumbling. 250 00:14:44,264 --> 00:14:47,471 And the stone that's most precarious is the one on top. 251 00:14:47,544 --> 00:14:49,908 That's the body, that's where I think of the body. 252 00:14:49,949 --> 00:14:52,949 The body is the stone on top. 253 00:14:53,046 --> 00:14:57,017 When any of the facets of what makes you whole get out of balance, 254 00:14:57,108 --> 00:15:00,000 the body is the first to start whispering, 255 00:15:00,046 --> 00:15:02,748 and the foundation stone is your Inner Pilot Light, 256 00:15:02,797 --> 00:15:07,385 that true essence of you, that vulnerable, transparent part of you. 257 00:15:07,513 --> 00:15:12,939 So based on that, I created this model, that I call the Whole Health Cairn. 258 00:15:13,009 --> 00:15:15,428 And this is what my next book is about. 259 00:15:15,485 --> 00:15:19,407 An it's taking all of the facets of what makes you whole; 260 00:15:19,420 --> 00:15:24,647 it's about self-healing from the core, and once you recognize this, 261 00:15:24,700 --> 00:15:28,953 then you have all the tools you need to start your own healing journey. 262 00:15:29,015 --> 00:15:32,054 So all of the facets of what makes you whole are surrounded 263 00:15:32,054 --> 00:15:34,407 by what I call the healing bubble. 264 00:15:34,482 --> 00:15:37,731 This is love and gratitude and pleasure. 265 00:15:37,731 --> 00:15:40,120 And science proves that all of those things 266 00:15:40,120 --> 00:15:45,125 are good for your health as well; they are the glue that hold everything together. 267 00:15:45,249 --> 00:15:50,481 So I challenge you. If you have any physical symptom, 268 00:15:50,575 --> 00:15:54,858 if you're suffering from the epidemic that plagues the developed world, 269 00:15:54,921 --> 00:15:58,634 I want you to ask yourself, "What's the real reason I'm sick 270 00:15:58,635 --> 00:16:05,066 or suffering, what's out of balance in my whole health cairn?" 271 00:16:05,108 --> 00:16:11,545 What's the real diagnosis and what can you do about it? 272 00:16:11,614 --> 00:16:13,911 How can you be more transparent? 273 00:16:13,934 --> 00:16:17,044 How can you open yourself up to more possibility? 274 00:16:17,108 --> 00:16:22,152 How can you be more honest with yourself about what you need and who you are? 275 00:16:22,233 --> 00:16:25,603 If any of you were lucky enough to see Brene Brown's awesome TEDTalk 276 00:16:25,603 --> 00:16:27,287 about the power of vulnerability - 277 00:16:27,319 --> 00:16:29,954 I see a lot of nodding heads, I love it - 278 00:16:30,046 --> 00:16:33,990 it's so fabulous, but it talks about the science behind being true, 279 00:16:34,139 --> 00:16:37,141 being vulnerable, being transparent. 280 00:16:37,173 --> 00:16:41,862 It generates love and intimacy which increases oxytocin and endorphins, 281 00:16:41,980 --> 00:16:46,199 and reduces harmful stress hormones like cortisol and adrenaline. 282 00:16:46,326 --> 00:16:51,664 When we let our true self be seen, when we let our Inner Pilot Light radiate, 283 00:16:51,855 --> 00:16:53,329 we heal from the inside out 284 00:16:53,330 --> 00:16:57,885 and it's more powerful than anything medicine can give you from the outside. 285 00:16:57,886 --> 00:17:01,418 So I challenge you to write the prescription for yourself. 286 00:17:01,418 --> 00:17:03,983 No doctor can do this for you. We can give you drugs, 287 00:17:03,983 --> 00:17:06,793 we can give you surgery, and sometimes you need that, 288 00:17:06,793 --> 00:17:10,553 that's the jump-start of the self-healing process. 289 00:17:10,607 --> 00:17:14,332 But to heal to the core, so that you don't develop new symptoms, 290 00:17:14,332 --> 00:17:18,901 so you don't need another surgery -- you gotta write your own prescription. 291 00:17:18,933 --> 00:17:26,582 So I ask you, "What is it that you need, what does your body need to get healthy? 292 00:17:26,825 --> 00:17:32,172 What is it that you need to change, What needs to be tweaked in your life?" 293 00:17:32,357 --> 00:17:34,722 If you knew that stripping off all of your masks 294 00:17:34,722 --> 00:17:37,265 and letting us see that beautiful light within you, 295 00:17:37,265 --> 00:17:41,611 was the solution to your health problems, would you be willing to do it? 296 00:17:41,658 --> 00:17:44,031 I dare you. 297 00:17:44,264 --> 00:17:48,143 It just might make your body ripe for miracles. 298 00:17:48,201 --> 00:17:49,737 Thank you. 299 00:17:49,739 --> 00:17:52,148 (Applause)