0:00:09.034,0:00:11.641 I grew up with my identical twin, 0:00:12.056,0:00:15.374 who was an incredibly loving brother. 0:00:15.374,0:00:19.555 Now, one thing about being a twin[br]is it makes you an expert 0:00:20.053,0:00:22.140 at spotting favoritism. 0:00:22.778,0:00:28.500 If his cookie was even slightly bigger[br]than my cookie, I had questions. 0:00:28.800,0:00:31.271 And clearly I wasn't starving. 0:00:32.564,0:00:35.235 (Laughter) 0:00:35.235,0:00:37.360 When I became a psychologist, 0:00:37.360,0:00:40.434 I began to notice favoritism[br]of a different kind. 0:00:41.146,0:00:45.817 And that is how much more[br]we value the body than we do the mind. 0:00:46.283,0:00:51.448 I spent nine years at University[br]earning my doctorate in Psychology, 0:00:52.340,0:00:56.554 and I can't tell you how many people[br]look at my business card and say, 0:00:56.554,0:01:00.483 "Oh, a psychologist,[br]so not a real doctor." 0:01:02.778,0:01:05.454 As if it should say that on my card. 0:01:05.501,0:01:08.307 (Laughter) 0:01:09.372,0:01:13.621 This favoritism we show[br]the body over the mind, 0:01:13.621,0:01:15.417 I see it everywhere.[br] 0:01:15.691,0:01:18.077 I recently was at a friends' house, 0:01:18.077,0:01:20.559 and their five-year-old[br]was getting ready for bed. 0:01:20.559,0:01:23.982 He was standing on a stool[br]by the sink brushing his teeth, 0:01:23.982,0:01:27.661 when he slipped, and scratched his leg[br]on the stool when he fell. 0:01:27.874,0:01:30.797 He cried for a minute,[br]but then he got back up, 0:01:30.797,0:01:34.743 got back on the stool[br]and reached out for a box of Band-Aids 0:01:34.743,0:01:37.256 to put one on his cut. 0:01:37.573,0:01:41.392 Now this kid could barely[br]tie his shoelaces, 0:01:41.392,0:01:45.590 but he knew you have to cover a cut,[br]so it doesn't become infected, 0:01:45.590,0:01:49.425 and you have to care for your teeth[br]by brushing twice a day. 0:01:49.425,0:01:52.605 We all know how to maintain[br]our physical health 0:01:52.605,0:01:55.658 and how to practice dental hygiene, right? 0:01:55.658,0:01:58.998 We've known it[br]since we were five years old. 0:01:58.998,0:02:03.905 But what do we know about maintaining[br]our psychological health? 0:02:04.056,0:02:06.178 Well, nothing. 0:02:06.178,0:02:09.568 What do we teach our children[br]about emotional hygiene? 0:02:10.920,0:02:12.402 Nothing. 0:02:12.967,0:02:15.639 How is it we spend more time 0:02:15.639,0:02:19.087 taking care our teeth[br]than we do our minds? 0:02:20.385,0:02:24.762 Why is it our physical health[br]is so much more important to us 0:02:24.762,0:02:27.599 than our psychological health? 0:02:27.913,0:02:30.703 You know we sustain psychological injuries[br][br] 0:02:30.703,0:02:33.249 even more often than we do physical ones. 0:02:33.249,0:02:36.930 Injuries like failure or rejection,[br]or loneliness, 0:02:36.930,0:02:39.804 and they can also[br]get worse if we ignore them. 0:02:40.055,0:02:43.266 And they can impact our lives[br]in dramatic ways. 0:02:43.266,0:02:47.750 And yet, even though there are[br]scientifically proven techniques 0:02:47.750,0:02:52.656 we could use to treat these kinds[br]of psychological injuries, we don't. 0:02:53.377,0:02:56.715 It doesn't even occur to us[br]that we should. 0:02:56.966,0:03:01.517 "Oh, you're feeling depressed,[br]just shake it off, it's all in your head." 0:03:01.517,0:03:04.555 Can you imagine saying that[br]to somebody with a broken leg, 0:03:04.555,0:03:07.759 "Just walk it off, it's all in your leg." 0:03:07.759,0:03:10.008 (Laughter) 0:03:10.008,0:03:15.208 It is time we close the gap between[br]our physical and our psychological health. 0:03:15.271,0:03:18.310 It's time we made them more equal. 0:03:18.310,0:03:20.513 More like twins. 0:03:21.349,0:03:24.999 Speaking of which,[br]my brother is also a psychologist. 0:03:25.013,0:03:28.096 So he's not a real doctor, either. 0:03:28.096,0:03:29.952 (Laughter) 0:03:29.952,0:03:31.963 We didn't study together, though. 0:03:31.963,0:03:35.822 In fact, the hardest thing I've ever done[br]in my life 0:03:36.190,0:03:39.012 is move across the Atlantic[br]to New York city 0:03:39.012,0:03:41.756 to get my doctorate in psychology. 0:03:41.756,0:03:44.690 We were apart then,[br]for the first time in our lives, 0:03:44.690,0:03:48.071 and the separation[br]was brutal for both of us. 0:03:48.447,0:03:51.542 But while he remained[br]among family and friends, 0:03:51.542,0:03:54.185 I was alone in a new country. 0:03:54.185,0:03:56.453 We missed each other terribly, 0:03:56.453,0:03:59.473 but international phone calls[br]were really expensive then, 0:03:59.473,0:04:03.778 and we could only afford[br]to speak for 5 minutes a week. 0:04:04.738,0:04:06.456 When our birthday rolled around, 0:04:06.456,0:04:08.826 it was the first[br]we wouldn't be spending together, 0:04:08.826,0:04:10.216 we decide to splurge, 0:04:10.216,0:04:13.575 and that week[br]we would talk for ten minutes. 0:04:13.575,0:04:16.250 I spent the morning pacing around my room, 0:04:16.250,0:04:18.043 waiting for him to call, 0:04:18.043,0:04:19.771 and waiting, 0:04:20.415,0:04:22.045 and waiting, 0:04:22.045,0:04:23.985 but the phone didn't ring. 0:04:23.985,0:04:26.136 Given the time difference, I assumed 0:04:26.136,0:04:28.808 "OK, he's out with friends,[br]he will call later." 0:04:28.808,0:04:31.456 There were no cell phones then. 0:04:31.456,0:04:33.271 But he didn't. 0:04:33.271,0:04:38.082 And I began to realize,[br]after being away for over ten months, 0:04:38.082,0:04:41.421 he no longer missed me[br]the way I missed him. 0:04:42.173,0:04:44.525 And I knew he would call in the morning, 0:04:44.525,0:04:49.602 but that night was one of the saddest[br]and longest nights of my life. 0:04:50.580,0:04:52.678 I woke up the next morning, 0:04:52.678,0:04:54.874 I glanced down at the phone, 0:04:54.874,0:04:57.621 and I realized[br]I had kicked it off the hook 0:04:57.621,0:04:59.959 when pacing the day before. 0:05:00.850,0:05:02.657 I stumbled out of bed, 0:05:02.657,0:05:04.428 I put the phone[br]back on the receiver, 0:05:04.428,0:05:06.012 and it rang a second later, 0:05:06.012,0:05:09.331 and it was my brother,[br]and, boy, was he pissed. 0:05:09.331,0:05:11.528 (Laughter) 0:05:11.528,0:05:14.968 It was the saddest and longest [br]night of his life as well. 0:05:14.968,0:05:17.560 I tried to explain what happened,[br]but he said, 0:05:17.560,0:05:20.650 "I don't understand,[br]if you saw I wasn't calling you, 0:05:20.718,0:05:24.892 why didn't you just pick up the phone[br]and call me?" 0:05:25.399,0:05:27.031 He was right. 0:05:27.031,0:05:29.038 Why didn't I call him? 0:05:29.397,0:05:34.518 I didn't have an answer then,[br]but I do today, and it's a simple one. 0:05:35.298,0:05:37.411 Loneliness. 0:05:38.082,0:05:41.926 Loneliness creates[br]a deep psychological wound. 0:05:42.069,0:05:44.225 One that distorts our perceptions 0:05:44.225,0:05:46.652 and scrambles our thinking, 0:05:46.652,0:05:48.002 It makes us believe 0:05:48.002,0:05:51.892 those around us care much less[br]than they actually do. 0:05:51.892,0:05:54.476 It makes us really afraid to reach out, 0:05:54.476,0:05:58.613 because why set yourself up[br]for rejection and heartache, 0:05:58.613,0:06:02.268 when your heart is already aching[br]more than you can stand? 0:06:02.473,0:06:05.538 I was in the grips of real loneliness[br]back then, 0:06:05.538,0:06:08.203 but I was surrounded by people all day, 0:06:08.203,0:06:10.345 so it never occurred to me. 0:06:10.345,0:06:14.051 But loneliness, is defined purely,[br]subjectively. 0:06:14.657,0:06:17.932 It depends solely on whether you feel 0:06:17.932,0:06:21.415 emotionally or socially disconnected[br]from those around you. 0:06:21.415,0:06:23.226 And I did. 0:06:23.689,0:06:26.322 There's a lot research on loneliness[br] 0:06:26.322,0:06:28.822 and all of it is horrifying. 0:06:29.863,0:06:34.128 Loneliness won't just make you miserable,[br]it will kill you. 0:06:34.139,0:06:35.463 I am not kidding. 0:06:35.463,0:06:38.687 Chronic loneliness increases your[br]likelihood of an early death 0:06:38.687,0:06:40.792 by 14 percent. 0:06:41.102,0:06:42.913 Fourteen percent. 0:06:43.074,0:06:46.756 Loneliness causes high blood pressure,[br]high cholesterol, 0:06:46.876,0:06:50.559 it even suppresses[br]the functioning of your immune system, 0:06:50.615,0:06:54.672 making you vulnerable to all kinds[br]of illnesses and diseases. 0:06:54.672,0:06:58.167 In fact, scientist have concluded[br]that taken together, 0:06:58.167,0:07:01.990 chronic loneliness poses[br]a significant a risk 0:07:01.990,0:07:06.488 for your longterm health and longevity[br]as cigarette smoking. 0:07:06.991,0:07:11.061 Now, cigarette packs come with warnings[br]saying, "This could kill you." 0:07:11.103,0:07:13.290 But loneliness doesn't. 0:07:13.290,0:07:15.232 And that's why it's so important 0:07:15.232,0:07:18.564 we prioritize our psychological health. 0:07:18.564,0:07:21.444 That we practice emotional hygiene. 0:07:21.896,0:07:24.611 Because you can't treat[br]a psychological wound 0:07:24.611,0:07:26.733 if you don't even know you are injured. 0:07:26.733,0:07:28.806 [Pay attention to emotional pain] 0:07:28.806,0:07:31.303 Loneliness isn't the only[br]psychological wound 0:07:31.303,0:07:34.178 that distorts our perceptions[br]and misleads us. 0:07:34.185,0:07:35.713 [Failure] 0:07:35.713,0:07:38.128 Failure does that as well. 0:07:38.128,0:07:42.110 I once visited a daycare center[br]where I saw three toddlers 0:07:42.110,0:07:44.782 play with identical plastic toys. 0:07:45.186,0:07:49.494 You had to slide the red button,[br]and a cute doggy would pop out. 0:07:49.905,0:07:54.535 One little girl tried pulling[br]the purple button, then pushing it, 0:07:54.535,0:07:57.358 and then she just sat back[br]and looked at the box 0:07:57.358,0:07:59.450 with her lower lip trembling. 0:07:59.450,0:08:02.346 The little boy next to her,[br]watched this happen, 0:08:02.346,0:08:04.786 then turned to his box,[br]and burst into tears 0:08:04.786,0:08:06.839 without even touching it. 0:08:07.132,0:08:10.778 Meanwhile, another little girl[br]tried everything she could think of 0:08:10.778,0:08:12.747 until she slid the red button, 0:08:12.747,0:08:17.429 the cute doggy popped out,[br]and she squealed with delight. 0:08:17.429,0:08:20.619 So three toddlers[br]with identical plastic toys 0:08:20.619,0:08:23.609 but with very different[br]reactions to failure. 0:08:24.227,0:08:28.468 The first two toddlers were perfectly[br]capable of sliding a red button. 0:08:29.016,0:08:32.176 The only thing that prevented them[br]from succeeding 0:08:32.176,0:08:36.473 was their mind tricked them[br]into believing they could not. 0:08:36.473,0:08:40.599 Now, adults get tricked this way[br]as well all the time. 0:08:40.970,0:08:45.453 In fact we all have a default set[br]of feelings and beliefs 0:08:45.828,0:08:50.024 that gets triggered whenever[br]we encounter frustrations and setbacks. 0:08:50.024,0:08:53.168 Are you aware of how[br]your mind reacts to failure? 0:08:53.418,0:08:54.890 You need to be. 0:08:54.890,0:08:57.483 Because if your mind tries to convince you 0:08:57.483,0:08:59.290 you're incapable of something 0:08:59.290,0:09:00.770 and you believe it, 0:09:00.770,0:09:04.130 then like those two toddlers,[br]you'll begin to feel helpless, 0:09:04.130,0:09:07.894 and you'll stop trying too soon[br]or you won't even try at all. 0:09:07.894,0:09:11.617 And then you will be even more convinced[br]you can't succeed. 0:09:11.617,0:09:13.328 You see, that's why so many people 0:09:13.328,0:09:15.865 function below their actual potential. 0:09:15.865,0:09:19.349 Because somewhere along the way,[br]sometimes a single failure 0:09:19.349,0:09:21.889 convinced them they couldn't succeed, 0:09:21.893,0:09:23.483 and they believed it. 0:09:23.483,0:09:26.016 Once we become convinced of something, 0:09:26.016,0:09:28.626 it's very difficult to change our mind. 0:09:28.626,0:09:30.626 I learned that lesson the hard way. 0:09:30.626,0:09:32.901 When I was a teenager with my brother. 0:09:32.901,0:09:36.510 We were driving with friends[br]down a dark road at night, 0:09:36.510,0:09:38.262 when the police car stopped us. 0:09:38.262,0:09:41.544 There had been a robbery in the area,[br]they were looking for suspects. 0:09:41.544,0:09:43.050 The officer approached the car, 0:09:43.050,0:09:45.595 and he shined his flashlight[br]on the driver. 0:09:45.595,0:09:49.134 Then on my brother in the front seat,[br]and then on me. 0:09:49.134,0:09:51.736 And his eyes opened wide, and he said, 0:09:51.736,0:09:54.375 "Where have I seen your face before?" 0:09:54.375,0:09:56.463 (Laughter) 0:09:56.463,0:09:59.615 And I said, "In the front seat." 0:10:00.439,0:10:03.157 (Laughter) 0:10:03.157,0:10:05.510 But that made no sense to him whatsoever. 0:10:05.510,0:10:07.629 So now he thought I was on drugs. 0:10:07.629,0:10:09.010 (Laughter) 0:10:09.010,0:10:11.413 So he drags me out of the car,[br]he searches me, 0:10:11.413,0:10:13.603 he marches me over to the police car, 0:10:13.603,0:10:16.913 and only when he verified[br]I don't have a police record, 0:10:16.913,0:10:20.841 could I show him I had a twin[br]in the front seat. 0:10:20.931,0:10:24.761 But even as we were driving away,[br]you could see by the look on his face, 0:10:24.761,0:10:28.254 he was convinced[br]I was getting away with something. 0:10:29.625,0:10:33.575 Our mind is hard to change[br]once we become convinced. 0:10:33.575,0:10:38.525 So it might be very natural to feel[br]demoralized and defeated after you fail. 0:10:38.714,0:10:42.451 But you cannot allow yourself[br]to become convinced you can't succeed. 0:10:43.161,0:10:46.037 You have to fight[br]feelings of helplessness. 0:10:46.037,0:10:49.039 You have to gain control[br]over the situation, 0:10:49.073,0:10:53.132 and you have to break this kind[br]of negative cycle before it begins. 0:10:53.134,0:10:55.228 [Stop emotional bleeding] 0:10:55.228,0:10:57.371 Our minds and our feelings, 0:10:57.371,0:11:01.059 they are not the trustworthy friends[br]we thought they were. 0:11:01.059,0:11:03.863 They are more like a really moody friend, 0:11:03.863,0:11:09.027 who can be totally supportive one minute,[br]and really unpleasant the next. 0:11:09.027,0:11:11.015 I once worked with this woman 0:11:11.015,0:11:14.836 who after 20 years of marriage[br]and an extremely ugly divorce, 0:11:14.836,0:11:17.383 was finally ready for her first date. 0:11:17.383,0:11:21.580 She had met this guy online,[br]he seemed nice and successful, 0:11:21.580,0:11:24.706 and most importantly,[br]he seemed really into her. 0:11:25.052,0:11:28.078 So she was very excited,[br]and she bought a new dress, 0:11:28.078,0:11:31.878 and they met at an upscale[br]New York City bar for a drink. 0:11:31.878,0:11:35.795 Ten minutes into the date,[br]the man stands up and says, 0:11:35.795,0:11:38.903 "I'm not interested", and walks out. 0:11:38.903,0:11:40.867 [Rejection] 0:11:40.867,0:11:43.523 Rejection is extremely painful. 0:11:44.110,0:11:46.442 The woman was so hurt,[br]she could't move. 0:11:46.442,0:11:48.662 All she could do is call a friend. 0:11:48.662,0:11:53.176 And here's what the friend said,[br]"Well, what do you expect, 0:11:53.176,0:11:56.722 you have big hips,[br]you have nothing interesting to say, 0:11:56.722,0:11:59.683 why would a handsome,[br]successful man like that 0:11:59.683,0:12:02.296 ever go out with a loser like you?" 0:12:03.743,0:12:07.239 Shocking, right,[br]that a friend could be so cruel. 0:12:07.239,0:12:09.747 But it would be much less shocking 0:12:09.747,0:12:12.651 if I told you it wasn't[br]the friend who said that. 0:12:12.651,0:12:15.528 It's what the woman said to herself. 0:12:15.528,0:12:18.153 And that's something we all do. 0:12:18.153,0:12:20.200 Especially after a rejection. 0:12:20.200,0:12:23.603 We all start thinking of all our faults[br]and all our shortcomings 0:12:23.603,0:12:25.951 what we wish we were,[br]what we wish we weren't, 0:12:25.951,0:12:27.438 we call ourselves names. 0:12:27.438,0:12:29.809 Maybe not as harshly,[br]but we all do it. 0:12:29.839,0:12:34.419 It's interesting that we do, because[br]our self-esteem is already hurting. 0:12:34.953,0:12:38.381 Why would we want to go[br]and damage it even further? 0:12:38.381,0:12:41.017 We wouldn't make a physical injury[br]worse on purpose. 0:12:41.017,0:12:43.523 You wouldn't get a cut on your arm[br]and decide, 0:12:43.523,0:12:47.409 "Oh, I know, I am going to take a knife[br]and see how much deeper I can make it." 0:12:47.409,0:12:50.943 But we do that with psychological injuries[br]all the time. 0:12:50.943,0:12:54.168 Why? Because of poor emotional hygiene. 0:12:54.168,0:12:57.619 Because we don't prioritize[br]our psychological health. 0:12:57.619,0:12:59.396 We know from dozens of studies, 0:12:59.396,0:13:01.379 that when your self-esteem is lower, 0:13:01.379,0:13:04.473 you are more vulnerable[br]to stress and to anxiety, 0:13:04.473,0:13:07.630 that failures and rejections hurt more, 0:13:07.630,0:13:10.348 and it takes longer to recover from them. 0:13:10.348,0:13:13.434 So when you get rejected,[br]the first thing you should be doing 0:13:13.434,0:13:15.911 is to revive your self-esteem, 0:13:15.911,0:13:19.001 not join Fight Club[br]and beat it into a pulp. 0:13:20.005,0:13:22.456 When you are in emotional pain, 0:13:22.456,0:13:25.296 treat yourself with the same compassion 0:13:25.296,0:13:28.211 you would expect from a truly good friend. 0:13:28.211,0:13:30.357 [Protect your self-esteem] 0:13:30.357,0:13:34.042 We have to catch our unhealthy[br]psychological habits and change them. 0:13:34.128,0:13:38.380 One of the unhealthiest and most common[br]is called rumination. 0:13:39.108,0:13:41.499 To ruminate, means to chew over. 0:13:41.499,0:13:43.640 It's when your boss yells at you, 0:13:43.640,0:13:46.522 or your professor makes you[br]feel stupid in class, 0:13:46.522,0:13:49.113 or you have a big fight with a friend, 0:13:49.113,0:13:52.929 and you just can't stop replaying[br]the scene in your head for days, 0:13:52.929,0:13:55.072 sometimes for weeks on end. 0:13:55.072,0:13:58.394 Now ruminating[br]about upsetting events in this way 0:13:58.394,0:14:01.865 can easily become a habit,[br]and it's a very costly one. 0:14:01.865,0:14:03.941 Because by spending so much time 0:14:03.941,0:14:06.815 focused on upsetting[br]and negative thoughts, 0:14:06.815,0:14:10.552 you are actually putting yourself[br]at significant risk for developing 0:14:10.580,0:14:13.631 clinical depression, alcoholism, 0:14:13.631,0:14:17.081 eating disorders[br]and even cardiovascular disease. 0:14:17.081,0:14:20.337 The problem is, the urge to ruminate 0:14:20.337,0:14:24.429 can feel really strong, really important,[br]so it's a difficult habit to stop. 0:14:25.115,0:14:27.179 I know this for a fact. 0:14:27.179,0:14:31.300 Because little over a year ago,[br]I developed the habit myself. 0:14:31.300,0:14:34.128 You see my twin brother was diagnosed 0:14:34.128,0:14:37.451 with stage III non-Hodgkin's lymphoma. 0:14:37.451,0:14:39.786 His cancer was extremly aggressive, 0:14:39.786,0:14:43.037 he had visible tumors all over his body. 0:14:43.631,0:14:47.355 And he had to start a harsh course[br]of chemotherapy. 0:14:48.494,0:14:52.577 And I couldn't stop thinking[br]about what he was going through, 0:14:52.762,0:14:56.054 I could't stop thinking[br]about how much he was suffering. 0:14:57.255,0:15:00.785 Even though he never complained, not once. 0:15:01.072,0:15:03.820 He had this incredibly positive attitude. 0:15:03.820,0:15:06.918 His psychological health was amazing. 0:15:06.918,0:15:11.345 I was physically healthy,[br]but psychologically I was a mess. 0:15:12.014,0:15:13.563 But I knew what to do. 0:15:13.563,0:15:16.933 Studies tell us[br]that even a two minute distraction 0:15:16.933,0:15:20.867 is sufficient to break the urge[br]to ruminate in that moment. 0:15:21.055,0:15:24.305 And so each time I had a worrying,[br]upsetting, negative thought, 0:15:24.305,0:15:28.664 I forced myself to concentrate[br]on something else until the urge passed. 0:15:28.698,0:15:33.263 And within one week,[br]my whole outlook changed, 0:15:33.263,0:15:36.251 and became more positive[br]and more hopeful. 0:15:36.693,0:15:38.505 [Battle negative thinking] 0:15:38.505,0:15:42.649 Nine weeks after he started chemotherapy,[br]my brother had a CAT scan, 0:15:42.744,0:15:45.880 and I was by his side[br]when he got the results. 0:15:45.880,0:15:48.497 All the tumors were gone. 0:15:48.497,0:15:51.654 He still had three more rounds[br]of chemotherapy to go. 0:15:51.654,0:15:53.731 But we knew he would recover. [br] 0:15:54.306,0:15:57.716 This picture was taken two weeks ago. 0:16:00.682,0:16:03.587 By taking action when you're lonely, 0:16:03.595,0:16:06.595 by changing your responses to failure, 0:16:06.595,0:16:09.157 by protecting yourself-esteem, 0:16:09.157,0:16:11.649 by battling negative thinking, 0:16:11.649,0:16:14.957 you won't just heal[br]your psychological wounds, 0:16:14.957,0:16:18.174 you will build emotional resilience,[br]you will thrive. 0:16:19.673,0:16:23.704 A hundred years ago,[br]people began practicing personal hygiene. 0:16:23.768,0:16:28.423 And life expectancy rates rose[br]by over fifty percent 0:16:28.423,0:16:30.584 in just a matter of decades. 0:16:30.584,0:16:34.468 I believe our quality of life[br]could rise just as dramatically 0:16:34.468,0:16:38.272 if we all began practicing[br]emotional hygiene. 0:16:38.841,0:16:42.182 Can you imagine,[br]what the world would be like 0:16:42.182,0:16:44.476 if everyone was psychologically healthier? 0:16:44.476,0:16:48.427 If there were less loneliness,[br]and less depression? 0:16:48.427,0:16:51.099 If people knew how to overcome failure? 0:16:51.099,0:16:54.413 If they felt better about themselves,[br]and more empowered? 0:16:54.413,0:16:57.652 if they were happier, and more fulfilled? 0:16:57.652,0:17:00.826 I can, because that's the world[br]I want to live in, 0:17:02.226,0:17:06.021 and that's the world[br]my brother wants to live in as well. 0:17:06.021,0:17:10.654 If you just become informed,[br]and change a few simple habits, 0:17:10.654,0:17:14.352 well that's the world we can all live in. 0:17:15.071,0:17:16.813 Thank you very much. 0:17:16.813,0:17:19.568 (Applause)