[Script Info]
Title: 
[Events]
Format: Layer, Start, End, Style, Name, MarginL, MarginR, MarginV, Effect, Text
Dialogue: 0,0:00:09.61,0:00:11.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,By show of hands,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:11.19,0:00:14.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How many of you have ever\Ngotten in a relationship
Dialogue: 0,0:00:14.50,0:00:17.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because you felt that you were in love?
Dialogue: 0,0:00:19.17,0:00:20.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Very good!
Dialogue: 0,0:00:21.57,0:00:25.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How many have ever broken up \Nand said to the person,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:26.30,0:00:27.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"You don't deserve me."
Dialogue: 0,0:00:30.48,0:00:31.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ah-ha!
Dialogue: 0,0:00:32.22,0:00:33.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"As a matter of fact,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:33.31,0:00:36.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I don't even know how I fell in love\Nwith you in the first place."
Dialogue: 0,0:00:37.73,0:00:38.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Oh, I know.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:38.92,0:00:40.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You were drunk in love, right?
Dialogue: 0,0:00:42.77,0:00:45.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In my line of field,\Nas a relationship coach,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:46.62,0:00:49.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,clients come to me\Nwith their love problems.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:50.90,0:00:54.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,One client wants me \Nto evaluate her relationship.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:55.84,0:00:59.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She's been with her boyfriend \Nfor over four years.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:00.33,0:01:04.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There is no promise ring, \Nno engagement ring,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:05.17,0:01:07.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,no conversation about wedding.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:08.11,0:01:09.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And on top of it,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:10.32,0:01:12.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,he is cheating on her.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:14.04,0:01:15.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She wants to know
Dialogue: 0,0:01:15.78,0:01:18.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if she should continue\Nwith the relationship
Dialogue: 0,0:01:18.61,0:01:20.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or kick the guy to the curb.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:21.82,0:01:26.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So, I ask her, "How many times\Nhas he cheated on you?"
Dialogue: 0,0:01:27.28,0:01:29.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She says, "At least four times."
Dialogue: 0,0:01:31.01,0:01:33.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When a lady says "at least four times,"
Dialogue: 0,0:01:34.18,0:01:35.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,multiply that by two.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:36.03,0:01:37.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's eight times.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:38.48,0:01:39.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Do you love him?"
Dialogue: 0,0:01:41.16,0:01:43.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Yes," she replies.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:43.81,0:01:45.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Does he love you?"
Dialogue: 0,0:01:45.96,0:01:47.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"He says he does,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:47.77,0:01:49.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but his action does not show it."
Dialogue: 0,0:01:50.46,0:01:52.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"What action specifically?"
Dialogue: 0,0:01:52.66,0:01:53.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"The cheating."
Dialogue: 0,0:01:55.36,0:01:57.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"If you loved someone,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:58.43,0:02:00.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,would you cheat on them?
Dialogue: 0,0:02:03.15,0:02:05.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you truly loved someone,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:05.84,0:02:07.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,would you cheat on them
Dialogue: 0,0:02:07.68,0:02:09.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,at least four times
Dialogue: 0,0:02:10.34,0:02:11.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,multiplied by two?"
Dialogue: 0,0:02:14.06,0:02:15.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She says, "No."
Dialogue: 0,0:02:16.26,0:02:19.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Well, if your answer is "no," \Nthen you know what to do.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:20.42,0:02:24.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,True love that is not\Nbacked up by the right action
Dialogue: 0,0:02:24.100,0:02:26.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is not true love.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:28.11,0:02:30.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Another client says
Dialogue: 0,0:02:30.31,0:02:32.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,he is happy in his relationship,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:33.56,0:02:35.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,he loves his girl,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:35.99,0:02:41.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but he is cheating on the side\Nwith a married woman,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:42.09,0:02:44.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and they are both in love together.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:44.65,0:02:48.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And he does not know\Nhow he got himself in this situation.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:49.19,0:02:52.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I say, "You know how \Nyou got yourself in this mess.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:53.07,0:02:57.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You shifted your focus\Nfrom your girl to someone else.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:58.54,0:03:01.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You divided your \Nattention and your emotions.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:02.48,0:03:05.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Someone who used to hold\Nthe first priority on your heart
Dialogue: 0,0:03:06.33,0:03:08.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,no longer holds that position.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:08.59,0:03:12.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That's how you got yourself in this mess.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:13.15,0:03:15.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So what do you want to do?"
Dialogue: 0,0:03:16.03,0:03:21.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He says he would like the married woman\Nto be able to manage the situation.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:22.09,0:03:24.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"What do you mean by this?"
Dialogue: 0,0:03:24.79,0:03:28.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Well, every time the woman\Nis with her husband,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:29.12,0:03:31.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,she always thinks about him,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:31.80,0:03:35.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and he does not want\Nthe husband to get suspicious
Dialogue: 0,0:03:35.94,0:03:38.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so that he does not stop the affair.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:39.25,0:03:41.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm like, "Wait a minute!
Dialogue: 0,0:03:41.36,0:03:44.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So you want to continue having\Nthis affair with this woman?"
Dialogue: 0,0:03:44.88,0:03:46.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He says, "Yes."
Dialogue: 0,0:03:46.28,0:03:47.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I say, "Really?
Dialogue: 0,0:03:49.75,0:03:53.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How would your girlfriend\Nfeel about this?
Dialogue: 0,0:03:54.46,0:03:57.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Put yourself in her shoes.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:58.13,0:04:02.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You have a boyfriend who says\Nhe is happy with you,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:03.00,0:04:04.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,he is in love with you,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:04.70,0:04:06.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but at the same time,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:06.77,0:04:11.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,he is cheating with someone else\Nthat he is falling in love with.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:12.20,0:04:15.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Can you actually love two people\Nat the same time?"
Dialogue: 0,0:04:16.53,0:04:17.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He says,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:17.45,0:04:19.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"I don't want any changes.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:19.40,0:04:21.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I just want the situation\Nto remain the same.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:21.74,0:04:24.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I want to keep both women in my life."
Dialogue: 0,0:04:24.75,0:04:26.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I say, "Wow!
Dialogue: 0,0:04:27.53,0:04:29.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You are just like McDonald's slogan:
Dialogue: 0,0:04:29.90,0:04:31.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you are lovin' it.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:31.24,0:04:32.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Aren't you?"
Dialogue: 0,0:04:34.50,0:04:36.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Love is powerful.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:36.92,0:04:39.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,According to a survey,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:39.89,0:04:42.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,about 9 out of 10 Americans
Dialogue: 0,0:04:42.81,0:04:46.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,cited love as an important\Nfactor to get married.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:48.82,0:04:55.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Past statistics show\Nthat 50% of first marriages,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:56.33,0:04:59.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,67% of second marriages
Dialogue: 0,0:05:00.10,0:05:05.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and a stagering high\Nof 73% of third marriages
Dialogue: 0,0:05:05.34,0:05:07.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,end in divorce.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:08.49,0:05:09.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The question is,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:10.22,0:05:13.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If love is an important factor
Dialogue: 0,0:05:13.42,0:05:16.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that influences people to get married,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:16.99,0:05:20.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,how come it does not hold the marriage?
Dialogue: 0,0:05:21.16,0:05:25.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How come it does not hold\Nthe relationship together?
Dialogue: 0,0:05:27.06,0:05:30.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When we examine love in a break up,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:31.34,0:05:33.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I believe one of three\Nthings has happened.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:34.86,0:05:36.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's either: one,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:36.60,0:05:40.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there was no love at the beginning\Nof the relationship to start with;
Dialogue: 0,0:05:41.54,0:05:42.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,two,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:42.79,0:05:46.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there was something bigger than the love\Nthat broke the relationship;
Dialogue: 0,0:05:47.83,0:05:48.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or three,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:48.85,0:05:50.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the love declined.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:51.77,0:05:56.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I can understand when you feel\Nlike your love is depreciating
Dialogue: 0,0:05:57.24,0:06:01.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and you tell your partner,\N"I just don't love you right now,"
Dialogue: 0,0:06:01.00,0:06:03.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,especially, when you are\Nhaving a meal together
Dialogue: 0,0:06:04.51,0:06:07.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and your partner becomes\Ninquisitive to ask why
Dialogue: 0,0:06:08.10,0:06:11.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because he just ate\Nthe last piece of the pie -
Dialogue: 0,0:06:11.96,0:06:14.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"If you loved me,\Nyou would let me have it."
Dialogue: 0,0:06:16.02,0:06:18.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That's what you say. Right, ladies?
Dialogue: 0,0:06:19.99,0:06:21.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,At the same token,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:22.40,0:06:26.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I believe there is nothing\Nbigger than love
Dialogue: 0,0:06:26.28,0:06:28.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that can break a relationship -
Dialogue: 0,0:06:28.48,0:06:30.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,absolutely nothing -
Dialogue: 0,0:06:30.44,0:06:35.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if the couple truly loves each other.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:36.20,0:06:38.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And that is what I want\Nto talk to you about today:
Dialogue: 0,0:06:38.59,0:06:40.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,true love.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:40.59,0:06:42.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There are different types\Nof love out there.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:43.43,0:06:45.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You have the philia love,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:45.45,0:06:47.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,which is brotherly love.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:47.68,0:06:52.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It is what you share with your family, \Nfriends or colleagues.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:53.05,0:06:55.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Another one is eros.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:56.11,0:06:58.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It is a sexual type of love.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:58.79,0:07:01.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It gives the feelings of arousal.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:02.10,0:07:04.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is what you feel
Dialogue: 0,0:07:04.18,0:07:08.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when you see a beautiful\Nsexy person just walking past,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:09.72,0:07:15.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and you are like,\N"Oh, oh ma ma ma ma ma."
Dialogue: 0,0:07:16.84,0:07:19.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You cannot stop looking at them.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:19.95,0:07:22.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You cannot hold yourself together.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:22.91,0:07:27.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You begin to fantasise and have all kinds\Nof imagination about that person.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:27.54,0:07:31.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You are having eros type of love.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:31.93,0:07:36.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The next one is what\NMary J. Blige calls "real love."
Dialogue: 0,0:07:37.14,0:07:42.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You all know the song! "Real love, \Noh I’m searching for a real love,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:42.58,0:07:46.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,someone to make\Nmy heart feel real love."
Dialogue: 0,0:07:48.10,0:07:52.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And we are still trying to understand\Nwhat she meant by "real love."
Dialogue: 0,0:07:53.02,0:07:57.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You see, all these types of love\Ncannot sustain a relationship.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:58.33,0:08:00.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They cannot hold a relationship together.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:01.17,0:08:03.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But true love,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:03.09,0:08:07.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,which the Bible also\Ndescribes as agape love,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:07.28,0:08:09.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,can hold a relationship together,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:09.67,0:08:12.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,can keep a relationship for a long haul.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:13.65,0:08:15.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What is true love?
Dialogue: 0,0:08:15.92,0:08:18.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,True love is passionate love.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:19.61,0:08:24.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You have two independent words,\Npassion and love,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:24.40,0:08:28.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,fused together to make\Na strong definition.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:29.30,0:08:35.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Passion is the force that drives\Nthe love for something;
Dialogue: 0,0:08:36.35,0:08:39.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it is the flow that keeps love going.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:40.57,0:08:45.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Love without passion is\Nlike a body without a soul.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:47.28,0:08:50.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It is like a car without an engine.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:50.86,0:08:53.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,No movement would happen.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:54.08,0:08:57.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And just in case you are wondering
Dialogue: 0,0:08:57.11,0:09:01.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,how you can tell\Nif someone truly loves you
Dialogue: 0,0:09:01.93,0:09:04.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or if you truly love someone:
Dialogue: 0,0:09:04.76,0:09:06.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,sacrifice.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:07.32,0:09:13.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Sacrifice for one another would indicate\Nif you truly loved each other.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:13.51,0:09:16.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And sacrifice is giving up something
Dialogue: 0,0:09:17.15,0:09:20.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for another thing\Nthat is far more important.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:20.90,0:09:26.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Just like giving up that piece of pie\Nfor your girl that is far more important.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:28.07,0:09:32.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Or it is the release\Nof something in your possession
Dialogue: 0,0:09:32.94,0:09:36.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in an exchange for another\Nthing that you love.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:36.77,0:09:39.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is exactly what God did
Dialogue: 0,0:09:39.45,0:09:43.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when he released and sacrificed\Nhis only son, Jesus,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:43.94,0:09:45.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,just to have us.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:46.15,0:09:50.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"For God so loved the world\Nthat He gave His only begotten Son,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:51.24,0:09:57.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that whoever believes in Him will not\Nperish but have everlasting life."
Dialogue: 0,0:09:58.26,0:10:02.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,God demostrated true love -
Dialogue: 0,0:10:03.20,0:10:04.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,agape love.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:04.71,0:10:08.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Love filled with passion and sacrifice.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:09.93,0:10:13.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I had an opportunity\Nto demonstrate my true love.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:14.38,0:10:15.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I was in college,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:16.95,0:10:20.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I enjoyed galvanizing\Npeople for networking,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:20.86,0:10:23.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I did this by throwing parties.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:24.05,0:10:26.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And if you know one thing\Nabout throwing parties,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:26.40,0:10:29.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the more women you have there, \Nthe more men want to come in,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:29.64,0:10:33.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,spend money at the bar,\Nbuy drinks, buy bottles.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:34.15,0:10:38.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So my goal, every time,\Nis to have as many ladies at the party.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:39.69,0:10:45.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This, however, opens the door\Nto always have women around me.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:46.93,0:10:49.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I remember after throwing a party,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:50.39,0:10:52.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,three women that do not know each other
Dialogue: 0,0:10:52.41,0:10:54.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,say they want to spend\Nthe night at my house.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:55.81,0:10:57.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They wake up in the morning,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:58.43,0:11:01.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,one begins to feed me breakfast.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:02.33,0:11:04.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The second one gets jealous.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:04.24,0:11:08.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She goes into the kitchen. Grabs food.\NComes back. She starts to feed me.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:08.89,0:11:11.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The third one looking like,\N"This is crazy.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:11.50,0:11:13.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Should I join the party or what?"
Dialogue: 0,0:11:14.50,0:11:17.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I am thinking to myself,\N"It's all a dream."
Dialogue: 0,0:11:18.06,0:11:20.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But no, it's a reality.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:20.47,0:11:23.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm like Hugh Hefner\Nup in my house with the bunnies.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:27.01,0:11:29.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But that reality was short-lived,
Dialogue: 0,0:11:29.97,0:11:33.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as I meet a girl\Nthat I am truly in love with,
Dialogue: 0,0:11:33.97,0:11:36.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and she is truly\Nin love with me as well.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:36.70,0:11:41.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But she does not like\Nthe lifestyle that I am living.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:42.17,0:11:45.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She does not want to compete\Nwith any other woman.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:45.85,0:11:47.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is a deal breaker for her,
Dialogue: 0,0:11:48.13,0:11:50.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and, of course, it is\Nan odd situation for me
Dialogue: 0,0:11:50.57,0:11:53.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because that means that I am going to have\Nto give up throwing parties
Dialogue: 0,0:11:53.86,0:11:55.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and spending time with other women
Dialogue: 0,0:11:55.87,0:11:59.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so that I can have and keep her.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:00.23,0:12:02.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So I begin to analyse the situation.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:03.24,0:12:04.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What am I going to do?
Dialogue: 0,0:12:05.01,0:12:06.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Who or what should I pick?
Dialogue: 0,0:12:06.73,0:12:10.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Her over them or them over her?
Dialogue: 0,0:12:12.31,0:12:14.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is my kairos moment.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:15.36,0:12:17.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,My moment of decision.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:17.89,0:12:24.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is where true love\Nand sacrifice come into play.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:30.30,0:12:34.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So I made a decision and a sacrifice
Dialogue: 0,0:12:35.24,0:12:40.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to give up both throwing parties\Nand spending time with other women
Dialogue: 0,0:12:41.45,0:12:46.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so that I can have and keep this girl\Nthat I am truly in love with.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:48.35,0:12:50.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,A few years later,
Dialogue: 0,0:12:50.32,0:12:55.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we got married and we have two beautiful\Namazing children together.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:56.89,0:13:00.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You see, true love\Nis the only type of love
Dialogue: 0,0:13:01.55,0:13:04.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that can keep and sustain a relationship.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:05.39,0:13:09.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It will help you to make\Nthe ultimate sacrifice,
Dialogue: 0,0:13:09.49,0:13:14.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to give up playing games, \Nquit destructive habits
Dialogue: 0,0:13:14.72,0:13:20.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and seek counselling when you can \Nto acquire tools and knowledge
Dialogue: 0,0:13:20.34,0:13:22.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in order for you to have \Na healthy relationship.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:23.73,0:13:27.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because of the love problems\Nthat people are having
Dialogue: 0,0:13:27.05,0:13:29.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is the reason why I wrote my book,
Dialogue: 0,0:13:29.96,0:13:32.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Revelations of Relationship -
Dialogue: 0,0:13:32.86,0:13:37.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What you don't know about finding true\Nlove and sustaining relationship."
Dialogue: 0,0:13:38.75,0:13:41.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I want to admonish you all
Dialogue: 0,0:13:41.24,0:13:46.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to find and practice true love \Nin your relationship.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:46.36,0:13:48.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Cheers to your improvement.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:48.84,0:13:51.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Applause)