1 00:00:00,016 --> 00:00:03,166 Shah Rukh Khan: Courage, determination, and a single-minded vision. 2 00:00:03,190 --> 00:00:06,071 These are the qualities the biggest achievers have in common. 3 00:00:06,095 --> 00:00:10,609 These are those brave hearts for whom failure is not an option. 4 00:00:10,633 --> 00:00:13,167 What looks to us an unconquerable sea, 5 00:00:13,191 --> 00:00:16,069 to our next speaker is an irresistible stage 6 00:00:16,093 --> 00:00:17,696 she was born to perform on. 7 00:00:17,720 --> 00:00:20,657 So let's dive straight into the story of our fearless speaker, 8 00:00:20,681 --> 00:00:21,839 Bhakti Sharma, 9 00:00:21,863 --> 00:00:25,330 who's making waves in the world of long-distance swimming. 10 00:00:25,750 --> 00:00:27,183 Bhakti Sharma. 11 00:00:27,207 --> 00:00:34,132 (Applause) 12 00:00:39,592 --> 00:00:43,166 Bhakti Sharma: Imagine, in the scorching Rajasthan heat, 13 00:00:43,190 --> 00:00:45,127 on a hot summer afternoon, 14 00:00:45,151 --> 00:00:48,928 a two-and-a-half-year-old riding on a moped behind her mom, 15 00:00:48,952 --> 00:00:51,119 not knowing where they were headed. 16 00:00:51,143 --> 00:00:52,839 And 20 minutes later, 17 00:00:52,863 --> 00:00:55,324 that two-and-a-half-year-old finds herself 18 00:00:55,348 --> 00:00:57,712 completely submerged in water. 19 00:00:58,093 --> 00:00:59,299 Before I knew it, 20 00:00:59,323 --> 00:01:02,077 I would be kicking, splashing, screaming, 21 00:01:02,101 --> 00:01:03,553 gulping down water, 22 00:01:03,577 --> 00:01:06,276 holding onto my mom for my dear life. 23 00:01:06,300 --> 00:01:08,045 That's how I learned how to swim. 24 00:01:08,069 --> 00:01:10,586 I started pool-swimming when I was two and a half, 25 00:01:10,610 --> 00:01:13,144 and open water swimming when I was 14 years old. 26 00:01:13,881 --> 00:01:19,159 And so I have given over 25 years of my life to this sport, 27 00:01:19,183 --> 00:01:22,478 during which I have swum in all five oceans of the world, 28 00:01:23,800 --> 00:01:25,296 crossed the English Channel -- 29 00:01:25,320 --> 00:01:28,996 which is also known as the Mount Everest of swimming -- 30 00:01:29,020 --> 00:01:32,636 and set a world record in the freezing Antarctic ocean. 31 00:01:32,660 --> 00:01:35,939 (Applause) 32 00:01:35,963 --> 00:01:38,788 When you spend so much time with a sport, 33 00:01:38,812 --> 00:01:40,979 it ceases to be just that 34 00:01:41,003 --> 00:01:42,791 and becomes a mirror. 35 00:01:42,815 --> 00:01:45,082 And that shows who you really are. 36 00:01:45,657 --> 00:01:50,307 You see that your mettle as an athlete is not only tested on race day 37 00:01:50,331 --> 00:01:52,291 but every single day, 38 00:01:52,315 --> 00:01:56,094 when the sport demands that you get up at 4:30 in the morning, 39 00:01:56,118 --> 00:01:57,507 swim for two hours, 40 00:01:57,531 --> 00:02:00,490 go to school, come back, swim for three hours, 41 00:02:00,514 --> 00:02:02,561 go home, eat and sleep. 42 00:02:02,863 --> 00:02:05,633 When you win a medal or set a world record, 43 00:02:05,657 --> 00:02:09,981 this mirror shows the happiness that you and your loved ones feel, 44 00:02:10,005 --> 00:02:13,617 but also reflects the tears that you shed 45 00:02:13,641 --> 00:02:16,041 all by yourself, alone in the water. 46 00:02:16,673 --> 00:02:19,561 Open water swimming is a very lonely sport. 47 00:02:19,585 --> 00:02:21,426 I have spent hours 48 00:02:21,450 --> 00:02:26,180 looking into the infinite, seemingly bottomless ocean underneath me, 49 00:02:26,204 --> 00:02:29,466 with nothing to keep me company but my own thoughts. 50 00:02:29,815 --> 00:02:33,053 And so, I have not only been tested as a swimmer 51 00:02:33,077 --> 00:02:37,355 but also as a thinking, feeling, imaginative human being. 52 00:02:37,673 --> 00:02:40,363 Be it my first test as a marathon swimmer, 53 00:02:40,387 --> 00:02:44,974 when I decided to swim for 12 hours non-stop in a swimming pool 54 00:02:44,998 --> 00:02:49,251 or crossing the English Channel in 13 hours and 55 minutes. 55 00:02:49,728 --> 00:02:52,244 When you're swimming, you don't talk, 56 00:02:52,268 --> 00:02:53,934 you don't hear very well, 57 00:02:53,958 --> 00:02:57,228 and your vision is restricted to what's right in front of you 58 00:02:57,252 --> 00:02:58,452 or underneath you. 59 00:02:58,776 --> 00:03:02,982 This isolation has been my sport's biggest gift to me. 60 00:03:03,338 --> 00:03:04,768 Through open water swimming, 61 00:03:04,792 --> 00:03:09,186 I have come to know myself in ways that I could have never expected to. 62 00:03:09,540 --> 00:03:11,508 I remember, at the age of 14, 63 00:03:11,532 --> 00:03:15,381 when I jumped into an ocean for the first time for a swim, 64 00:03:15,405 --> 00:03:16,625 and throughout this swim, 65 00:03:16,649 --> 00:03:19,656 the waves were picking me up and throwing me down, 66 00:03:19,680 --> 00:03:23,759 I saw the child in me, who enjoys such adventures. 67 00:03:24,077 --> 00:03:25,799 While crossing the English Channel, 68 00:03:25,823 --> 00:03:28,577 after already having swam for 10 hours, 69 00:03:28,601 --> 00:03:31,306 when I got stuck in one place for one and a half hour 70 00:03:31,330 --> 00:03:32,815 because of the currents, 71 00:03:32,839 --> 00:03:36,339 I saw the strong and dedicated athlete in me, 72 00:03:36,363 --> 00:03:39,827 who did not want to disappoint her parents or her country. 73 00:03:39,851 --> 00:03:42,629 In an open water marathon held in Switzerland, 74 00:03:42,653 --> 00:03:45,661 when I won my first gold medal for India -- 75 00:03:45,685 --> 00:03:50,529 (Applause) 76 00:03:50,553 --> 00:03:52,941 I witnessed a proud Indian in me. 77 00:03:53,560 --> 00:03:55,592 While crossing the English Channel again, 78 00:03:55,616 --> 00:03:57,957 this time in a relay with my mother, 79 00:03:57,981 --> 00:04:00,799 not knowing that we were creating history, 80 00:04:00,823 --> 00:04:03,141 I saw the protective daughter in me, 81 00:04:03,165 --> 00:04:06,958 who just wanted to see her mom fulfill her own dreams. 82 00:04:06,982 --> 00:04:08,339 And four years ago, 83 00:04:08,363 --> 00:04:10,577 when I jumped into the Antarctic Ocean, 84 00:04:10,601 --> 00:04:14,109 wearing nothing but a swimsuit, cap and goggles, 85 00:04:14,133 --> 00:04:17,264 with an unwavering spirit of just doing, 86 00:04:17,288 --> 00:04:19,097 I saw a fighter in me. 87 00:04:19,121 --> 00:04:22,582 When I jumped into that zero-to-one-degree-Celsius water, 88 00:04:22,606 --> 00:04:26,887 I realized that I had prepared my body and mind for the cold, 89 00:04:26,911 --> 00:04:31,132 but what I wasn't prepared for was the density of the water. 90 00:04:31,577 --> 00:04:34,659 Every stroke felt like pulling through oil. 91 00:04:34,683 --> 00:04:36,136 And in the first five minutes, 92 00:04:36,160 --> 00:04:39,426 I had that paralyzing thought of just giving up. 93 00:04:39,953 --> 00:04:42,643 How nice it would be to just forget about all this, 94 00:04:42,667 --> 00:04:43,818 get on the boat, 95 00:04:43,842 --> 00:04:45,553 stand underneath the hot shower 96 00:04:45,577 --> 00:04:48,529 or wrap myself in a warm blanket? 97 00:04:48,553 --> 00:04:50,014 But with that thought, 98 00:04:50,038 --> 00:04:54,625 also came a stronger, a more willful voice from deep within. 99 00:04:54,649 --> 00:04:58,141 "You know you have it in you to just take one more stroke." 100 00:04:58,165 --> 00:05:00,514 So I lifted my arm and took a stroke. 101 00:05:00,538 --> 00:05:01,768 "Now one more." 102 00:05:01,792 --> 00:05:04,514 So I took a second and a third stroke. 103 00:05:05,197 --> 00:05:06,657 By the fourth one, 104 00:05:06,681 --> 00:05:09,625 I saw a penguin swimming underneath my stomach. 105 00:05:10,133 --> 00:05:13,455 It came up to my left and started swimming with me. 106 00:05:13,479 --> 00:05:15,543 "See? A penguin is cheering you on," 107 00:05:15,567 --> 00:05:17,000 said that voice within. 108 00:05:17,024 --> 00:05:20,471 (Applause and cheers) 109 00:05:20,495 --> 00:05:22,895 I looked up to my people on the boat. 110 00:05:23,395 --> 00:05:26,727 They had the same smile on their faces that I had on mine. 111 00:05:27,070 --> 00:05:29,268 The same smile that we all have 112 00:05:29,292 --> 00:05:31,681 when we are stuck in a difficult situation 113 00:05:31,705 --> 00:05:33,372 and we see a ray of hope. 114 00:05:33,720 --> 00:05:35,736 We take it as a sign from destiny, 115 00:05:35,760 --> 00:05:38,085 and we just keep pushing forward. 116 00:05:38,109 --> 00:05:39,474 Just as I did, 117 00:05:39,498 --> 00:05:41,188 and 41 minutes later, 118 00:05:41,212 --> 00:05:44,022 set the world record for swimming the longest distance 119 00:05:44,046 --> 00:05:45,347 in the Antarctic Ocean. 120 00:05:45,371 --> 00:05:49,211 (Applause) 121 00:05:49,235 --> 00:05:52,163 Imagine, it doesn't even snow in Rajasthan. 122 00:05:52,187 --> 00:05:53,536 (Laughter) 123 00:05:53,560 --> 00:05:57,219 That voice, which has accompanied me through all my difficult situations 124 00:05:57,243 --> 00:05:58,609 throughout my swims, 125 00:05:58,633 --> 00:06:00,323 would have never shown itself 126 00:06:00,347 --> 00:06:03,331 if I had not spent so much time alone, 127 00:06:03,355 --> 00:06:06,227 had not paid attention to every single thought 128 00:06:06,251 --> 00:06:07,651 that crossed my mind. 129 00:06:08,165 --> 00:06:12,625 When you find yourself alone in an ocean, with your thoughts, 130 00:06:12,649 --> 00:06:15,506 the dangers that you face are not just external, 131 00:06:15,530 --> 00:06:18,434 like whales, sharks, jellyfish 132 00:06:18,458 --> 00:06:20,325 or even demotivating people. 133 00:06:20,998 --> 00:06:23,672 But the more dangerous demons you face 134 00:06:23,696 --> 00:06:26,664 are the fear and negativity inside you 135 00:06:26,688 --> 00:06:29,244 that tell you, "You're not good enough. 136 00:06:29,268 --> 00:06:31,252 You will never reach the other shore. 137 00:06:31,276 --> 00:06:32,839 You haven't trained enough. 138 00:06:32,863 --> 00:06:35,649 What if you fail? What will people think? 139 00:06:35,673 --> 00:06:38,736 I'm sure everybody is thinking right now how slow you are." 140 00:06:39,053 --> 00:06:41,791 We all have our own internal demons, don't we? 141 00:06:42,379 --> 00:06:45,220 In a day-to-day life, you can hide from them, 142 00:06:45,244 --> 00:06:48,069 behind your work or many other distractions. 143 00:06:48,879 --> 00:06:50,529 But like I said, 144 00:06:50,553 --> 00:06:53,684 in the middle of the ocean, there is nowhere to hide. 145 00:06:54,371 --> 00:06:56,762 I have to face my internal demons, 146 00:06:56,786 --> 00:06:59,960 just as much as I have to taste the salt in the sea, 147 00:06:59,984 --> 00:07:02,063 feel the chafing on my skin, 148 00:07:02,087 --> 00:07:05,167 and acknowledge the whales swimming beside me. 149 00:07:05,191 --> 00:07:07,841 I hate it, and I love it. 150 00:07:08,926 --> 00:07:13,267 I hate it because this sport shows me the side of myself 151 00:07:13,291 --> 00:07:15,870 that I don't want to believe exists. 152 00:07:15,894 --> 00:07:18,886 The side of me that is human and not perfect. 153 00:07:19,276 --> 00:07:20,537 Like the part of me 154 00:07:20,561 --> 00:07:23,736 that can't get out of bed in the morning and make it to practice. 155 00:07:24,069 --> 00:07:27,761 The side of me that gets so burned out, so tired, 156 00:07:27,785 --> 00:07:29,698 that just wants to quit swimming. 157 00:07:29,722 --> 00:07:31,547 But I also love it, 158 00:07:31,571 --> 00:07:35,768 because this sport has given me moments that I can look back on 159 00:07:35,792 --> 00:07:37,539 when I feel unmotivated. 160 00:07:37,879 --> 00:07:40,204 And they bring me to my knees, 161 00:07:40,228 --> 00:07:42,028 because I feel so grateful. 162 00:07:42,855 --> 00:07:47,787 Many of you may not spend hours swimming non-stop. 163 00:07:48,224 --> 00:07:51,977 But who do you spend the most amount of your time with? 164 00:07:52,628 --> 00:07:56,022 You may share your external space with many others, 165 00:07:56,046 --> 00:07:59,565 but there is one constant companion that you all have: 166 00:08:00,204 --> 00:08:01,354 you. 167 00:08:01,792 --> 00:08:06,280 And yet, most of us may never come to knowing who we really are. 168 00:08:06,686 --> 00:08:10,384 I'm a daughter, an Indian, a swimmer, a student. 169 00:08:10,717 --> 00:08:12,336 But I am so much more. 170 00:08:13,249 --> 00:08:15,799 If you are not investing in yourself, 171 00:08:15,823 --> 00:08:19,601 not setting a path that brings you closer to you, 172 00:08:19,625 --> 00:08:24,761 no amount of "success" in life can bring you lasting joy or satisfaction. 173 00:08:25,419 --> 00:08:26,570 Even today, 174 00:08:26,594 --> 00:08:30,236 when I can't find motivation or joy in what I'm doing, 175 00:08:30,260 --> 00:08:32,030 all I ask myself is, 176 00:08:32,054 --> 00:08:34,454 "Is this the best I can do right now?" 177 00:08:34,938 --> 00:08:37,144 And the meaning of my "best" changes. 178 00:08:37,168 --> 00:08:40,096 On some days, it means not giving up, 179 00:08:40,120 --> 00:08:43,263 continuing to swim in freezing water and setting a world record. 180 00:08:43,605 --> 00:08:45,228 But on many other days, 181 00:08:45,252 --> 00:08:47,801 it means getting over my depressing thoughts, 182 00:08:47,825 --> 00:08:49,244 stepping out of the house 183 00:08:49,268 --> 00:08:51,942 and being able to do the daily chores. 184 00:08:51,966 --> 00:08:54,966 What does not change is that voice within. 185 00:08:54,990 --> 00:08:56,545 That internal compass 186 00:08:56,569 --> 00:08:59,369 which guides me to a better self every day. 187 00:09:00,117 --> 00:09:02,007 And I believe 188 00:09:02,031 --> 00:09:07,299 that a truly successful life is the one which is spent in the pursuit 189 00:09:07,323 --> 00:09:11,117 of becoming the best possible version of yourself 190 00:09:11,141 --> 00:09:13,219 when you take that last breath. 191 00:09:13,243 --> 00:09:14,393 Thank you. 192 00:09:14,417 --> 00:09:21,272 (Applause) 193 00:09:22,323 --> 00:09:24,979 SRK: I think the only sport I can't do is swim -- 194 00:09:25,003 --> 00:09:26,161 I sink like a rock. 195 00:09:26,185 --> 00:09:28,910 So standing next to the world's best swimmer 196 00:09:28,934 --> 00:09:30,609 makes me kind of feel -- 197 00:09:30,633 --> 00:09:32,093 if you can excuse my pun -- 198 00:09:32,117 --> 00:09:33,474 kind of at sea. 199 00:09:33,498 --> 00:09:34,679 But -- 200 00:09:34,703 --> 00:09:36,652 BS: (Laughs) No pun intended, of course. 201 00:09:36,676 --> 00:09:38,958 SRK: But what is your next goal as a swimmer? 202 00:09:38,982 --> 00:09:40,942 BS: I have a major fear of competition, 203 00:09:40,966 --> 00:09:44,065 so what better goal to set than aiming for the Olympics? 204 00:09:44,089 --> 00:09:46,827 Because open water swimming is an Olympic sport now. 205 00:09:46,851 --> 00:09:48,859 (Applause) 206 00:09:48,883 --> 00:09:51,580 Even saying it out loud gives me shivers, 207 00:09:51,604 --> 00:09:53,061 because it's such a huge goal 208 00:09:53,085 --> 00:09:55,630 that I don't want to accept that I have set that goal, 209 00:09:55,654 --> 00:09:58,188 but that's the thrill of it, that's the part of it. 210 00:09:58,212 --> 00:10:02,577 And my idea is that if I make it to the Olympics or I don't make it, 211 00:10:02,601 --> 00:10:03,752 that doesn't matter, 212 00:10:03,776 --> 00:10:05,641 but in the process of training for it, 213 00:10:05,665 --> 00:10:08,299 I will have become a better swimmer and a better person. 214 00:10:08,323 --> 00:10:10,640 SRK: Inshallah, you will make it to the Olympics. 215 00:10:10,664 --> 00:10:12,228 And I want to tell you 216 00:10:12,252 --> 00:10:14,664 a lot of people who are watching this show at home, 217 00:10:14,688 --> 00:10:18,207 there's lots of people, all of whom are thinking only positively for you, 218 00:10:18,231 --> 00:10:19,804 so when you go for the Olympics, 219 00:10:19,828 --> 00:10:23,381 imagine all of us will be wearing our penguin suits and swimming with you, 220 00:10:23,405 --> 00:10:25,709 and saying, "Go on, go on, Bhakti, go on, go on." 221 00:10:25,733 --> 00:10:27,431 BS: Can you be my personal penguin? 222 00:10:27,455 --> 00:10:29,161 SRK: I am your penguin now. 223 00:10:29,776 --> 00:10:32,645 It would have been cooler if you said, like, a shark and all, 224 00:10:32,669 --> 00:10:33,820 but penguin -- 225 00:10:33,844 --> 00:10:36,452 BS: Orcas are my spirit animal, but you can be my orca. 226 00:10:36,476 --> 00:10:37,698 (Applause) 227 00:10:37,722 --> 00:10:39,366 SRK: Ladies and gentleman, Bhakti. 228 00:10:39,390 --> 00:10:40,579 BS: Thank you. 229 00:10:40,603 --> 00:10:42,743 (Applause)