[Script Info] Title: [Events] Format: Layer, Start, End, Style, Name, MarginL, MarginR, MarginV, Effect, Text Dialogue: 0,0:00:09.50,0:00:12.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Last week I wanted to lay down Dialogue: 0,0:00:12.15,0:00:15.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,some foundations for sexual sin Dialogue: 0,0:00:15.93,0:00:20.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,from the standpoint that, Dialogue: 0,0:00:20.67,0:00:23.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,basically, if you're justified, Dialogue: 0,0:00:23.67,0:00:28.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the faith that justifies, Dialogue: 0,0:00:28.69,0:00:32.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the faith that saves \Nfrom the wrath of God, Dialogue: 0,0:00:32.80,0:00:38.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,must be a faith Dialogue: 0,0:00:38.36,0:00:41.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that breaks the dominion \Nof sin in your life. Dialogue: 0,0:00:41.98,0:00:49.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The faith that saves us \Nfrom the wrath of God Dialogue: 0,0:00:49.42,0:00:52.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,must be a faith that saves us Dialogue: 0,0:00:52.33,0:00:54.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,from sexual immorality. Dialogue: 0,0:00:54.66,0:00:58.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And if that faith doesn't save Dialogue: 0,0:00:58.88,0:01:03.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,from the power of sexual \Ntemptation and lust, Dialogue: 0,0:01:03.75,0:01:06.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,then it will not save you \Nfrom the wrath of God. Dialogue: 0,0:01:06.83,0:01:10.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now as I said, obviously we're Dialogue: 0,0:01:10.73,0:01:13.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,never talking perfection; Dialogue: 0,0:01:13.09,0:01:18.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but we are talking about \Na faith that puts you Dialogue: 0,0:01:18.60,0:01:26.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,into all out battle \Nagainst sexual temptation. Dialogue: 0,0:01:26.25,0:01:28.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You know, we had a big \Ngroup with us last week; Dialogue: 0,0:01:28.68,0:01:31.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a bunch of visitors from \NAlabama and Georgia. Dialogue: 0,0:01:31.76,0:01:34.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I didn't know where \Nthey were coming from, Dialogue: 0,0:01:34.22,0:01:36.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I didn't know what kind \Nof churches they had, Dialogue: 0,0:01:36.63,0:01:41.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so I wanted to hit this thing \Nfrom that standpoint. Dialogue: 0,0:01:41.91,0:01:44.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But the purpose of this series all along Dialogue: 0,0:01:44.91,0:01:47.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,has been to equip the believer. Dialogue: 0,0:01:47.91,0:01:50.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It isn't so much that I want to come along Dialogue: 0,0:01:50.39,0:01:56.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and try to convince people \Nin this series that they're lost. Dialogue: 0,0:01:56.72,0:02:02.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I want to give the Christian \Ntools to fight the battle. Dialogue: 0,0:02:02.26,0:02:06.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Peter says in 1 Peter 2:11, Dialogue: 0,0:02:06.21,0:02:11.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"To abstain from these passions \N Dialogue: 0,0:02:11.14,0:02:15.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that wage war against the soul." Dialogue: 0,0:02:15.66,0:02:20.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I'll tell you, one of the \Npassions that wages war, Dialogue: 0,0:02:20.73,0:02:25.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,especially with men, is sexual lust. Dialogue: 0,0:02:25.64,0:02:28.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's sexual temptation. Dialogue: 0,0:02:28.28,0:02:33.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I mean, it is a sin that takes out Dialogue: 0,0:02:33.73,0:02:41.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,its thousands and its tens of thousands. Dialogue: 0,0:02:41.58,0:02:45.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So how do we abstain? \NHere's the commandment; Dialogue: 0,0:02:45.13,0:02:46.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,here's the imperative we are given Dialogue: 0,0:02:46.96,0:02:49.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,by the Lord through the apostle: Dialogue: 0,0:02:49.96,0:02:52.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Abstain from these passions." Dialogue: 0,0:02:52.90,0:02:55.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How do I do it? Dialogue: 0,0:02:55.17,0:02:57.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Okay, we know they're there. Dialogue: 0,0:02:57.62,0:03:02.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Look, men, by and large, it may be Dialogue: 0,0:03:02.77,0:03:06.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,sexual desire may be stronger. Dialogue: 0,0:03:06.60,0:03:09.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I mean it is, typically. Dialogue: 0,0:03:09.26,0:03:11.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Not in every case, but typically. Dialogue: 0,0:03:11.94,0:03:13.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That's just the reality. Dialogue: 0,0:03:13.54,0:03:16.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But it's not only a problem in men, Dialogue: 0,0:03:16.82,0:03:19.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,obviously it's a problem in women as well. Dialogue: 0,0:03:19.82,0:03:23.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And as my wife fills me in, Dialogue: 0,0:03:23.81,0:03:28.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that you know, men are visually driven, Dialogue: 0,0:03:28.63,0:03:32.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,their desires are visually stirred. Dialogue: 0,0:03:32.52,0:03:34.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,My wife tells me with ladies Dialogue: 0,0:03:34.81,0:03:44.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there's emotional satisfactions \Nin wanting to have a man, Dialogue: 0,0:03:44.70,0:03:46.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,wanting to be loved; Dialogue: 0,0:03:46.10,0:03:50.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and a willingness to put \Nthat body out there Dialogue: 0,0:03:50.10,0:03:52.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in an attempt to get the love, Dialogue: 0,0:03:52.42,0:03:58.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to get that kind of attention. Dialogue: 0,0:03:58.39,0:04:00.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Look, the passion that drives a man Dialogue: 0,0:04:00.100,0:04:02.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,may be a little bit different Dialogue: 0,0:04:02.45,0:04:04.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,than the passion that drives a woman. Dialogue: 0,0:04:04.44,0:04:06.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In other words, a man may be seeking Dialogue: 0,0:04:06.87,0:04:09.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,purely sexual gratification, Dialogue: 0,0:04:09.11,0:04:11.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,while a woman may not be seeking that Dialogue: 0,0:04:11.83,0:04:14.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so much as emotional gratification. Dialogue: 0,0:04:14.03,0:04:18.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And yet, she's willing to \Ntake the same course Dialogue: 0,0:04:18.31,0:04:20.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to try to come to that end. Dialogue: 0,0:04:20.02,0:04:23.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You have two people that \Nmaybe their ends are different, Dialogue: 0,0:04:23.47,0:04:26.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but they're willing to \Ngo about it the same way. Dialogue: 0,0:04:26.18,0:04:29.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And so, basically, what we have are Dialogue: 0,0:04:29.84,0:04:32.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,these things are fighting \Nagainst the soul. Dialogue: 0,0:04:32.84,0:04:34.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How do we abstain? Dialogue: 0,0:04:34.81,0:04:37.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Where does the battle rage? Dialogue: 0,0:04:37.57,0:04:40.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How do we fight it? Dialogue: 0,0:04:40.21,0:04:48.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now look, I know, increasingly, Dialogue: 0,0:04:48.03,0:04:53.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it's so obvious to me, \Nand I hope it is to you. Dialogue: 0,0:04:53.02,0:04:56.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I want it to be to you. Dialogue: 0,0:04:56.49,0:04:59.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Somebody read Romans 12:2. Dialogue: 0,0:04:59.58,0:05:03.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"I urge you therefore, brethren, \Nbased upon the mercies of God, Dialogue: 0,0:05:03.19,0:05:06.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to present your bodies \Nas a living sacrifice, Dialogue: 0,0:05:06.31,0:05:09.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,holy and acceptable to God, \Nwhich is your spiritual worship. Dialogue: 0,0:05:09.41,0:05:12.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And do not be conformed to this world, Dialogue: 0,0:05:12.06,0:05:15.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but be transformed by \Nthe renewal of your mind, Dialogue: 0,0:05:15.06,0:05:17.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that you may know what the good, Dialogue: 0,0:05:17.81,0:05:21.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,perfect and pleasing will of God is." Dialogue: 0,0:05:21.27,0:05:24.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Look, you've got your body. Dialogue: 0,0:05:24.74,0:05:28.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You know what's amazing to me, \Nespecially after I studied? Dialogue: 0,0:05:28.76,0:05:30.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Here you have Peter, Dialogue: 0,0:05:30.41,0:05:32.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,saying that these passions wage war Dialogue: 0,0:05:32.20,0:05:33.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,against the soul. Dialogue: 0,0:05:33.41,0:05:36.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I think so often we think that way: Dialogue: 0,0:05:36.17,0:05:39.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Spirit, soul, that's where the battle is. Dialogue: 0,0:05:39.17,0:05:43.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Sometimes we kind of relegate the body. Dialogue: 0,0:05:43.74,0:05:46.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We don't see it to be near as important Dialogue: 0,0:05:46.47,0:05:48.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as what it seems like in the Scripture. Dialogue: 0,0:05:48.62,0:05:50.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Especially in Romans, as I studied it, Dialogue: 0,0:05:50.76,0:05:58.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it was interesting that if \Nyou're living in the flesh, Dialogue: 0,0:05:58.25,0:05:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you're going to die. Dialogue: 0,0:05:59.99,0:06:03.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But if, by the Spirit, you \Nput to death - not just sin, Dialogue: 0,0:06:03.45,0:06:05.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but it's interesting - deeds of the body. Dialogue: 0,0:06:05.53,0:06:07.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's saying, "Offer your body." Dialogue: 0,0:06:07.65,0:06:10.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We're to be these living sacrifices. Dialogue: 0,0:06:10.24,0:06:13.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And here's the way, Dialogue: 0,0:06:13.03,0:06:16.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we need to be geared \Ntowards the will of God. Dialogue: 0,0:06:16.48,0:06:20.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And that comes about through \Na renewing of the mind; Dialogue: 0,0:06:20.82,0:06:23.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,which he also says in Ephesians, Dialogue: 0,0:06:23.43,0:06:28.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"We need to be renewed \Nin the spirit of our minds, Dialogue: 0,0:06:28.96,0:06:34.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,putting on the new man that's created Dialogue: 0,0:06:34.35,0:06:36.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,after the likeness of God." Dialogue: 0,0:06:36.96,0:06:39.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's really the mind. Dialogue: 0,0:06:39.74,0:06:45.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Mindsets are where this battle is fought. Dialogue: 0,0:06:45.52,0:06:48.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now you just tell me this. Dialogue: 0,0:06:48.26,0:06:57.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Look, I'm not talking \Nright now about the lost. Dialogue: 0,0:06:57.52,0:07:00.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You were lost. Everybody \Nin this room was lost. Dialogue: 0,0:07:00.91,0:07:04.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You know how you dealt \Nwith sexual temptation. Dialogue: 0,0:07:04.31,0:07:12.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You know why you gave place to it. Dialogue: 0,0:07:12.45,0:07:15.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I suppose that the reasons Dialogue: 0,0:07:15.50,0:07:18.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that a lost person would give place to it, Dialogue: 0,0:07:18.50,0:07:21.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we can probably drag that \Nover into the Christian realm. Dialogue: 0,0:07:21.38,0:07:26.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But I want you to tell me this: Dialogue: 0,0:07:26.27,0:07:29.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Christians fall into sexual sin. Dialogue: 0,0:07:29.27,0:07:31.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Why? Dialogue: 0,0:07:31.22,0:07:34.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In other words, what's \Ngoing on in the mind? Dialogue: 0,0:07:34.44,0:07:39.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Look, there's never a vacuum up \Nhere when people fall into sin. Dialogue: 0,0:07:39.25,0:07:42.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Certain thoughts, certain reasonings, Dialogue: 0,0:07:42.07,0:07:44.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,certain deductions, certain logic. Dialogue: 0,0:07:44.41,0:07:48.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There's thoughts that fill the mind. Dialogue: 0,0:07:48.01,0:07:52.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now a person may try not to \Nthink about certain things, Dialogue: 0,0:07:52.22,0:07:54.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but he's definitely \Nthinking about something, Dialogue: 0,0:07:54.63,0:07:56.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or she is thinking about something. Dialogue: 0,0:07:56.50,0:08:00.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I want to ask you this: Dialogue: 0,0:08:00.46,0:08:03.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What mindset controls a man or a woman, Dialogue: 0,0:08:03.46,0:08:05.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a Christian man or a woman, Dialogue: 0,0:08:05.77,0:08:10.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who gives place with the \Neyeball and looks with lust; Dialogue: 0,0:08:10.46,0:08:15.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,gives place to something like \NInternet pornography or masturbation; Dialogue: 0,0:08:15.80,0:08:19.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or actually falls into the actual sin Dialogue: 0,0:08:19.52,0:08:23.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with the person of the opposite sex? Dialogue: 0,0:08:23.04,0:08:27.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And far be it from me to say \Nthat it's not possible for a Christian Dialogue: 0,0:08:27.41,0:08:31.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to fall into sex with \Nsomebody of the same sex. Dialogue: 0,0:08:31.90,0:08:34.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I mean, we obviously have \Nexamples in the Scripture. Dialogue: 0,0:08:34.76,0:08:36.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We know that it can happen. Dialogue: 0,0:08:36.42,0:08:39.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We see Christians that \Nwere involved in it Dialogue: 0,0:08:39.46,0:08:42.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,being strongly rebuked. Dialogue: 0,0:08:42.12,0:08:45.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We see Paul, the way he \Nspoke to the Corinthians. Dialogue: 0,0:08:45.00,0:08:48.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Obviously some things were \Ngoing on in that church Dialogue: 0,0:08:48.16,0:08:50.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that he was dealing very hard with. Dialogue: 0,0:08:50.42,0:08:54.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We have some examples of sexual sin Dialogue: 0,0:08:54.70,0:08:56.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,being a problem in the New Testament. Dialogue: 0,0:08:56.53,0:08:59.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Obviously we have, at least, Dialogue: 0,0:08:59.57,0:09:03.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,one or two notable cases \Nin the Old Testament. Dialogue: 0,0:09:03.15,0:09:05.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What goes on in the mind? Dialogue: 0,0:09:05.59,0:09:07.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What's happening? Dialogue: 0,0:09:07.29,0:09:11.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Audience] They're not viewing the \Nglory of Christ at that moment. Dialogue: 0,0:09:11.09,0:09:19.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Tim] They're not viewing the \Nglory of Christ at that moment. Dialogue: 0,0:09:19.57,0:09:27.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Let's think about that. Dialogue: 0,0:09:27.68,0:09:40.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When Peter saw Jesus manipulate the fish Dialogue: 0,0:09:40.21,0:09:45.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and fill the net, what did he do? Dialogue: 0,0:09:45.13,0:09:47.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He worshiped. Dialogue: 0,0:09:47.00,0:09:51.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In fact, he told Him, \N"Lord, depart from me." Dialogue: 0,0:09:51.22,0:09:53.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What did Isaiah do when he saw the Lord Dialogue: 0,0:09:53.73,0:09:58.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,high and lifted up in the Temple? Dialogue: 0,0:09:58.21,0:10:04.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He fell down on his face, "Woe is me!" Dialogue: 0,0:10:04.40,0:10:09.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You know, when God has been seen, Dialogue: 0,0:10:09.71,0:10:15.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when the glories of Christ came through; Dialogue: 0,0:10:15.38,0:10:18.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,what did Peter do when that voice Dialogue: 0,0:10:18.24,0:10:24.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,spoke out on the mount of transfiguration? Dialogue: 0,0:10:24.67,0:10:29.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'll tell you, he was utterly terrified. Dialogue: 0,0:10:29.64,0:10:32.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Can I tell you this, Dialogue: 0,0:10:32.45,0:10:37.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I mean, this is a thought that hits Dialogue: 0,0:10:37.77,0:10:40.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,right on what Jonathan just said. Dialogue: 0,0:10:40.77,0:10:44.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Highly unlikely. Dialogue: 0,0:10:44.19,0:10:47.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now I'm not saying this in jest. Dialogue: 0,0:10:47.100,0:10:50.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm saying this in dead seriousness. Dialogue: 0,0:10:50.04,0:10:55.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Isaiah is not going to watch \NInternet pornography and masturbate, Dialogue: 0,0:10:55.78,0:10:59.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when he's on his face \Nin the presence of Christ; Dialogue: 0,0:10:59.61,0:11:04.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when he has an awareness of Christ Dialogue: 0,0:11:04.23,0:11:08.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,high, lifted up, full of glory. Dialogue: 0,0:11:08.27,0:11:10.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He's already struck. Dialogue: 0,0:11:10.27,0:11:12.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"I'm a man of unclean lips; Dialogue: 0,0:11:12.24,0:11:18.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I dwell in the midst of a \Npeople with unclean lips." Dialogue: 0,0:11:18.12,0:11:22.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'll tell you this, you watch your step. Dialogue: 0,0:11:22.39,0:11:30.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Do you remember when \NNadab and Abihu were consumed? Dialogue: 0,0:11:30.20,0:11:33.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Aaron did not find fault with God. Dialogue: 0,0:11:33.20,0:11:36.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The Scripture says he held his peace. Dialogue: 0,0:11:36.16,0:11:42.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You can bet he did. Dialogue: 0,0:11:42.37,0:11:48.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Remember, a certain man \Nputs his hand out, Dialogue: 0,0:11:48.60,0:11:55.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,touches the ark, he's dead. Dialogue: 0,0:11:55.75,0:12:01.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,David did not go home that day, Dialogue: 0,0:12:01.13,0:12:07.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and have Bathsheba come to \Nhis house, and sleep with her. Dialogue: 0,0:12:07.50,0:12:08.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That's huge. Dialogue: 0,0:12:08.78,0:12:12.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He did it another day, \Nbut he didn't do it that day. Dialogue: 0,0:12:12.58,0:12:17.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Why not? He was terrified. Dialogue: 0,0:12:17.40,0:12:23.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The presence and reality \Nof God and God's glory. Dialogue: 0,0:12:23.49,0:12:25.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,God was fearful to him. Dialogue: 0,0:12:25.64,0:12:28.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He didn't run off and do that that day. Dialogue: 0,0:12:28.51,0:12:30.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Brethren, I'll tell you what, Dialogue: 0,0:12:30.11,0:12:33.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when you have a sense \Nof Christ and His glory, Dialogue: 0,0:12:33.98,0:12:38.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it's very difficult to run off into sin. Dialogue: 0,0:12:38.48,0:12:43.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,One of the reasons that we \Nso cheaply do things like this Dialogue: 0,0:12:43.58,0:12:52.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is because we lose a \Nsense of the glory of God. Dialogue: 0,0:12:52.86,0:12:57.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And that takes place in the mind. Dialogue: 0,0:12:57.10,0:12:59.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In the mind is where we fear. Dialogue: 0,0:12:59.50,0:13:01.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In the mind is where we believe. Dialogue: 0,0:13:01.63,0:13:10.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In the mind is where we \Ncontemplate what God is like. Dialogue: 0,0:13:10.65,0:13:14.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I mean, Job already told us Dialogue: 0,0:13:14.32,0:13:18.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that he had made a covenant with his eyes. Dialogue: 0,0:13:18.13,0:13:24.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Do you think when \Nthe Lord appeared to him Dialogue: 0,0:13:24.11,0:13:28.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,out of the storm, out \Nof the tornado there, Dialogue: 0,0:13:28.70,0:13:30.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that all of a sudden he was going to Dialogue: 0,0:13:30.48,0:13:32.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,break the covenant right on that day? Dialogue: 0,0:13:32.29,0:13:38.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He says, "I repent in dust and ashes." Dialogue: 0,0:13:38.62,0:13:42.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I guarantee you, Moses, that \Nday up there on the mount, Dialogue: 0,0:13:42.18,0:13:46.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when the Lord revealed \NHis hind quarters to him, Dialogue: 0,0:13:46.54,0:13:48.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He could not see His face. Dialogue: 0,0:13:48.13,0:13:50.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He couldn't see the whole deal. Dialogue: 0,0:13:50.46,0:13:53.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,His face shone. Dialogue: 0,0:13:53.85,0:13:56.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Can you imagine the glory that he saw, Dialogue: 0,0:13:56.36,0:13:58.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so much so that the people were terrified Dialogue: 0,0:13:58.96,0:14:02.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,by the glow that came off of his face? Dialogue: 0,0:14:02.84,0:14:08.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Moses could come down off the mountain, Dialogue: 0,0:14:08.07,0:14:12.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and find the people \Nengaged in sexual immorality. Dialogue: 0,0:14:12.67,0:14:16.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But I guarantee you, after \Nhaving experiences like that Dialogue: 0,0:14:16.26,0:14:18.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,up on the mountain with the Lord, Dialogue: 0,0:14:18.21,0:14:22.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,he didn't walk down and go dive into it. Dialogue: 0,0:14:22.97,0:14:27.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Why? He had just seen the Lord. Dialogue: 0,0:14:27.39,0:14:31.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You know what? When your devotional time, Dialogue: 0,0:14:31.18,0:14:33.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,just like I was talking about Sunday, Dialogue: 0,0:14:33.10,0:14:35.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when you guys go to the Scriptures, Dialogue: 0,0:14:35.33,0:14:38.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you need to behold glory. Dialogue: 0,0:14:38.33,0:14:43.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You need to gaze upon glory. Dialogue: 0,0:14:43.26,0:14:45.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This comes right out of 2 Corinth. 3:18. Dialogue: 0,0:14:45.87,0:14:50.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Look, if you're not finding glory - Dialogue: 0,0:14:50.30,0:14:51.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the glory of Christ, Dialogue: 0,0:14:51.78,0:14:53.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the glory of the Father, Dialogue: 0,0:14:53.04,0:14:54.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the glory of the Spirit, Dialogue: 0,0:14:54.46,0:14:57.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in the Scriptures when you go to read, Dialogue: 0,0:14:57.12,0:14:59.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that's a bad place to be. Dialogue: 0,0:14:59.22,0:15:01.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because you're not being sanctified, Dialogue: 0,0:15:01.08,0:15:02.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you're not being transformed, Dialogue: 0,0:15:02.83,0:15:05.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,unless you're seeing the glory. Dialogue: 0,0:15:05.60,0:15:09.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Very difficult. Very difficult. Dialogue: 0,0:15:09.39,0:15:12.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When you come up off your knees, Dialogue: 0,0:15:12.40,0:15:13.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or come out of your closet Dialogue: 0,0:15:13.99,0:15:16.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,after you've been looking \Nat the Word of God, Dialogue: 0,0:15:16.73,0:15:20.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and you've been staggered Dialogue: 0,0:15:20.14,0:15:22.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,by the holiness, by the awesomeness, Dialogue: 0,0:15:22.59,0:15:26.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,by the bigness, by the mighty hand of God; Dialogue: 0,0:15:26.29,0:15:29.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when you begin to see God, Dialogue: 0,0:15:29.16,0:15:31.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when you tremble at who He is, Dialogue: 0,0:15:31.17,0:15:33.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when you fear Him - Dialogue: 0,0:15:33.21,0:15:36.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He talks about the man \Nwho trembles at His Word - Dialogue: 0,0:15:36.21,0:15:37.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when you come away Dialogue: 0,0:15:37.75,0:15:39.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and you feel that kind of trembling, Dialogue: 0,0:15:39.48,0:15:42.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,have you ever read Habakkuk? \N Dialogue: 0,0:15:42.07,0:15:44.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Full of trembling. Dialogue: 0,0:15:44.07,0:15:47.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Brethren I'll tell you, you don't \Nfind a person in the Scriptures, Dialogue: 0,0:15:47.36,0:15:51.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I mean, can you imagine the Apostle John? Dialogue: 0,0:15:51.85,0:15:56.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He fell down on his face \Njust looking at angels twice. Dialogue: 0,0:15:56.41,0:16:01.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He fell down as dead when it was Christ. Dialogue: 0,0:16:01.03,0:16:03.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When you begin to get a view of Christ, Dialogue: 0,0:16:03.64,0:16:06.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when you begin to see His glory; Dialogue: 0,0:16:06.05,0:16:11.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,very hard, very hard. Dialogue: 0,0:16:11.25,0:16:17.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So what mindset leads to sexual sin? Dialogue: 0,0:16:17.72,0:16:21.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The mindset that Christ isn't glorious; Dialogue: 0,0:16:21.08,0:16:22.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that Christ isn't big; Dialogue: 0,0:16:22.70,0:16:26.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that God the Father is Santa Claus, Dialogue: 0,0:16:26.06,0:16:27.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the big man upstairs. Dialogue: 0,0:16:27.78,0:16:30.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Diminished views. Dialogue: 0,0:16:30.08,0:16:33.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Just small views of God. Dialogue: 0,0:16:33.14,0:16:35.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Little God. Dialogue: 0,0:16:35.14,0:16:37.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Not very terrifying. Dialogue: 0,0:16:37.16,0:16:40.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Just far off. Not very near. Dialogue: 0,0:16:40.16,0:16:42.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'll tell you another one. Dialogue: 0,0:16:42.81,0:16:45.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And it's very closely attached to this. Dialogue: 0,0:16:45.81,0:16:51.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Do you know why, when you're like Job, Dialogue: 0,0:16:51.04,0:16:54.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and you just beheld God Dialogue: 0,0:16:54.71,0:16:57.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,appearing to you in the whirlwind, Dialogue: 0,0:16:57.71,0:17:00.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,why you don't break the covenant Dialogue: 0,0:17:00.93,0:17:05.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with your eyeballs and \Ngo look upon a maid? Dialogue: 0,0:17:05.19,0:17:09.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because there is a terrifying \Nfear of offending the Lord. Dialogue: 0,0:17:09.62,0:17:12.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You've seen who He is. Dialogue: 0,0:17:12.83,0:17:16.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Brethren, what mindsets \Nlead to sexual sin? Dialogue: 0,0:17:16.65,0:17:21.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When offending God no longer terrifies us. Dialogue: 0,0:17:21.17,0:17:24.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now listen to me. Dialogue: 0,0:17:24.77,0:17:28.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,2 Samuel 12. Dialogue: 0,0:17:28.90,0:17:35.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You guys can turn there if you \Nhave your Bible. 2 Samuel 12:1. Dialogue: 0,0:17:35.63,0:17:38.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You know this, but I want you to see it. Dialogue: 0,0:17:38.55,0:17:42.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I want you to feel this. Dialogue: 0,0:17:42.62,0:17:45.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You see, this is where \Nthe battle is fought. Dialogue: 0,0:17:45.40,0:17:47.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Renewed in the spirit of your mind. Dialogue: 0,0:17:47.58,0:17:49.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When the temptation comes, Dialogue: 0,0:17:49.84,0:17:51.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you've got to think the right way. Dialogue: 0,0:17:51.62,0:17:53.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You've got to have high thoughts of God; Dialogue: 0,0:17:53.54,0:17:56.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,high thoughts of Christ; \Nhigh thoughts of the Spirit. Dialogue: 0,0:17:56.54,0:17:58.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You need to see Him for what He is. Dialogue: 0,0:17:58.66,0:18:01.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The reason that Isaiah \Nwouldn't have gone out Dialogue: 0,0:18:01.44,0:18:03.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,into that sin right at that moment Dialogue: 0,0:18:03.24,0:18:05.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is because he saw the Lord. Dialogue: 0,0:18:05.68,0:18:07.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He saw Him for what He was. Dialogue: 0,0:18:07.90,0:18:10.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Even there, he didn't see \Nthe full deal. Moses didn't. Dialogue: 0,0:18:10.56,0:18:14.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We can't see the full \Ndeal because God is infinite. Dialogue: 0,0:18:14.05,0:18:17.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But it's when you have \Nviews of at least part of Him. Dialogue: 0,0:18:17.45,0:18:19.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You have revelations of Him. Dialogue: 0,0:18:19.25,0:18:22.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Isn't that what Paul was \Npraying for for the Ephesians? Dialogue: 0,0:18:22.69,0:18:24.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Isn't that what he prayed for? Dialogue: 0,0:18:24.83,0:18:30.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that they might have wisdom, Dialogue: 0,0:18:30.83,0:18:32.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,revelation of the knowledge of Him. Dialogue: 0,0:18:32.71,0:18:37.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'll tell you this, why? \NWhy pray that for people? Dialogue: 0,0:18:37.00,0:18:39.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because when people \Nhave a revelation of God, Dialogue: 0,0:18:39.80,0:18:41.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it drives sin away. Dialogue: 0,0:18:41.13,0:18:43.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When people have a revelation of God, Dialogue: 0,0:18:43.18,0:18:46.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and of His glory, sin isn't easy. Dialogue: 0,0:18:46.85,0:18:52.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When they see God in His \Nawesome glory, His splendor; Dialogue: 0,0:18:52.68,0:18:58.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when that's revealed, it is a sin-killer. Dialogue: 0,0:18:58.78,0:19:04.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now listen to this, 2 Samuel 12:1, \Nyou know the account. Dialogue: 0,0:19:04.34,0:19:06.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,David has been with Bathsheba. Dialogue: 0,0:19:06.81,0:19:09.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"And the LORD sent Nathan to David. Dialogue: 0,0:19:09.49,0:19:11.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He came to him and said to him, Dialogue: 0,0:19:11.63,0:19:13.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,'There were two men in a certain city, Dialogue: 0,0:19:13.61,0:19:15.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the one rich and the other poor. Dialogue: 0,0:19:15.74,0:19:18.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The rich man had very \Nmany flocks and herds, Dialogue: 0,0:19:18.77,0:19:21.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but the poor man had nothing Dialogue: 0,0:19:21.18,0:19:23.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but one little ewe lamb, \Nwhich he had bought. Dialogue: 0,0:19:23.87,0:19:25.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And he brought it up, Dialogue: 0,0:19:25.38,0:19:28.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and it grew up with him \Nand with his children. Dialogue: 0,0:19:28.27,0:19:30.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It used to eat of his morsel Dialogue: 0,0:19:30.28,0:19:32.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and drink from his cup \Nand lie in his arms, Dialogue: 0,0:19:32.93,0:19:35.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and it was like a daughter to him. Dialogue: 0,0:19:35.14,0:19:37.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now there came a traveler to the rich man, Dialogue: 0,0:19:37.69,0:19:40.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and he was unwilling to take \None of his own flock or herd Dialogue: 0,0:19:40.58,0:19:43.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to prepare for the guest \Nwho had come to him, Dialogue: 0,0:19:43.58,0:19:46.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but he took the poor man's lamb Dialogue: 0,0:19:46.23,0:19:50.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and prepared it for the \Nman who had come to him.' Dialogue: 0,0:19:50.25,0:19:53.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Then David's anger was greatly \Nkindled against the man, Dialogue: 0,0:19:53.15,0:19:55.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and he said to Nathan, \N'As the LORD lives, Dialogue: 0,0:19:55.90,0:19:58.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the man who has done this deserves to die, Dialogue: 0,0:19:58.67,0:20:01.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and he shall restore the lamb fourfold, Dialogue: 0,0:20:01.47,0:20:03.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because he did this thing, Dialogue: 0,0:20:03.16,0:20:06.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and because he had no pity.'" Dialogue: 0,0:20:06.06,0:20:10.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now watch this. Dialogue: 0,0:20:10.04,0:20:14.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Nathan said to David, 'You are the man!' Dialogue: 0,0:20:14.96,0:20:18.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Thus says the LORD, the God of Israel, Dialogue: 0,0:20:18.26,0:20:20.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,'I anointed you king over Israel, Dialogue: 0,0:20:20.48,0:20:22.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I delivered you out \Nof the hand of Saul. Dialogue: 0,0:20:22.77,0:20:25.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I gave you your master's house Dialogue: 0,0:20:25.47,0:20:28.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and your master's wives into your arms Dialogue: 0,0:20:28.47,0:20:32.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and gave you the house \Nof Israel and of Judah. Dialogue: 0,0:20:32.24,0:20:38.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And if this were too little, \NI would add to you as much more. Dialogue: 0,0:20:38.35,0:20:42.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Why - listen to this. \NHere's what I want you to see - Dialogue: 0,0:20:42.93,0:20:48.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Why have you despised \Nthe word of the LORD, Dialogue: 0,0:20:48.40,0:20:52.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to do what is evil in His sight? Dialogue: 0,0:20:52.24,0:20:56.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now therefore the sword shall \Nnever depart from your house, Dialogue: 0,0:20:56.24,0:21:01.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because you have despised Me Dialogue: 0,0:21:01.74,0:21:05.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and have taken the wife of \NUriah the Hittite to be your wife.'" Dialogue: 0,0:21:05.38,0:21:08.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And then in verse 13, \N"David said to Nathan, Dialogue: 0,0:21:08.57,0:21:10.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,'I have sinned against the LORD.' Dialogue: 0,0:21:10.83,0:21:12.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And Nathan said to David, Dialogue: 0,0:21:12.56,0:21:16.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,'The LORD also has put away \Nyour sin; you shall not die. Dialogue: 0,0:21:16.01,0:21:22.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Nevertheless, - look at this - \Nbecause by this deed Dialogue: 0,0:21:22.02,0:21:25.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you have utterly scorned the LORD, Dialogue: 0,0:21:25.65,0:21:28.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the child who is \Nborn to you shall die.'" Dialogue: 0,0:21:28.34,0:21:31.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In verse 9, he says, "You \Ndespised the word of the LORD." Dialogue: 0,0:21:31.98,0:21:36.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In verse 10, he says, \N"You've despised Me." Dialogue: 0,0:21:36.18,0:21:40.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And in verse 14, he says, \N"You have utterly scorned the LORD." Dialogue: 0,0:21:40.53,0:21:43.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Let me tell you something. Dialogue: 0,0:21:43.05,0:21:46.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You let this fill your mindset. Dialogue: 0,0:21:46.05,0:21:49.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When you look at a \Nwoman to lust after her; Dialogue: 0,0:21:49.67,0:21:54.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ladies, you lust after a man; Dialogue: 0,0:21:54.54,0:21:57.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you view pornography; Dialogue: 0,0:21:57.47,0:22:01.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you give place to sexual immorality; Dialogue: 0,0:22:01.01,0:22:05.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you notice, God doesn't \Ncome right to David, and say, Dialogue: 0,0:22:05.38,0:22:07.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"David, I can't believe it. You blew it. Dialogue: 0,0:22:07.74,0:22:11.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You dishonored the marriage covenant, Dialogue: 0,0:22:11.81,0:22:16.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and you had such little \Nhonor for marriage." Dialogue: 0,0:22:16.56,0:22:19.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Or, "You had such little \Nhonor for human life. Dialogue: 0,0:22:19.79,0:22:23.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I can't believe it, David, \Nhow could you kill somebody?" Dialogue: 0,0:22:23.74,0:22:28.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He said, "David, your sin is against Me." Dialogue: 0,0:22:28.56,0:22:32.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Remember how David said it \Nwhen he confessed that sin? Dialogue: 0,0:22:32.34,0:22:34.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What did he say? Dialogue: 0,0:22:34.04,0:22:39.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Against You, and You \Nonly, have I sinned." Dialogue: 0,0:22:39.96,0:22:41.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Let me tell you this. Dialogue: 0,0:22:41.81,0:22:43.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Sometimes we can think, Dialogue: 0,0:22:43.78,0:22:46.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Well, God is not really \Naffected by this." Dialogue: 0,0:22:46.36,0:22:48.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Oh, you don't believe that. Dialogue: 0,0:22:48.99,0:22:50.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You view pornography on the Internet, Dialogue: 0,0:22:50.87,0:22:52.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you know what He is saying to you Dialogue: 0,0:22:52.55,0:22:53.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,right through these words? Dialogue: 0,0:22:53.90,0:22:55.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"You are scorning Me." Dialogue: 0,0:22:55.13,0:22:57.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Remember what we read last week? Dialogue: 0,0:22:57.27,0:22:59.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It comes right out of \N1 Thessalonians 4:7-8, Dialogue: 0,0:22:59.59,0:23:03.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"For God has not called us \Nfor impurity, but in holiness." Dialogue: 0,0:23:03.01,0:23:05.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is where he's dealing \Nwith sexual immorality. Dialogue: 0,0:23:05.53,0:23:08.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Therefore whoever disregards this, Dialogue: 0,0:23:08.32,0:23:11.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,disregards not man but God." Dialogue: 0,0:23:11.32,0:23:14.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You scorn God. You disregard God. Dialogue: 0,0:23:14.96,0:23:19.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You dishonor, you despise Him. Dialogue: 0,0:23:19.30,0:23:20.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Don't ever forget that. Dialogue: 0,0:23:20.79,0:23:25.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When you give place to sexual \Nimmorality, you despise Him. Dialogue: 0,0:23:25.94,0:23:33.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He takes it as a personal \Naffront against His Person. Dialogue: 0,0:23:33.40,0:23:35.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You remember that. Dialogue: 0,0:23:35.59,0:23:39.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Let that ring in your ears, \Nespecially you young guys. Dialogue: 0,0:23:39.15,0:23:41.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Let that ring in your ears. Dialogue: 0,0:23:41.74,0:23:46.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You're walking before \Nthe Lord, you scorn Him. Dialogue: 0,0:23:46.88,0:23:49.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You disregard Him. You dishonor Him. Dialogue: 0,0:23:49.88,0:23:52.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How was it that Joseph said, Dialogue: 0,0:23:52.55,0:23:55.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,remember when Potiphar's \Nwife wanted him? Dialogue: 0,0:23:55.55,0:24:00.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He doesn't say, "How can I do \Nthis and sin against Potiphar?" Dialogue: 0,0:24:00.25,0:24:04.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He says, "How can I do this \Nand sin against the LORD?" Dialogue: 0,0:24:04.33,0:24:06.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You see, that's the issue. Dialogue: 0,0:24:06.20,0:24:09.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Here's two mindsets. Dialogue: 0,0:24:09.18,0:24:14.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,One mindset: God is small. \NThat'll lead you into it. Dialogue: 0,0:24:14.72,0:24:23.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,One mindset is, when offending \NGod no longer terrifies you. Dialogue: 0,0:24:23.29,0:24:31.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Another mindset, think with me here: Dialogue: 0,0:24:31.80,0:24:38.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When you think God is against you. Dialogue: 0,0:24:38.47,0:24:43.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You say, "What do you mean?" Dialogue: 0,0:24:43.95,0:24:47.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What I mean is this: Dialogue: 0,0:24:47.46,0:24:52.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,As a Christian, especially single, Dialogue: 0,0:24:52.18,0:24:56.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you can come to points in your life Dialogue: 0,0:24:56.15,0:24:59.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,where you feel God has forgotten you. Dialogue: 0,0:24:59.15,0:25:01.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You want to be married. Dialogue: 0,0:25:01.84,0:25:04.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You don't like being single. Dialogue: 0,0:25:04.12,0:25:08.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You've asked the Lord for a spouse. Dialogue: 0,0:25:08.70,0:25:13.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And you feel like, you see other people \Naround you getting married, Dialogue: 0,0:25:13.66,0:25:15.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Lord, what's happened? Dialogue: 0,0:25:15.82,0:25:18.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I want a spouse just as much as they do. Dialogue: 0,0:25:18.82,0:25:21.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You didn't give me the gift of singleness Dialogue: 0,0:25:21.12,0:25:23.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,any more than You gave it to them." Dialogue: 0,0:25:23.82,0:25:29.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And you can get to feeling sorry \Nfor yourself, and self-pity. Dialogue: 0,0:25:29.46,0:25:33.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And remember, the devil is a slanderer. Dialogue: 0,0:25:33.68,0:25:38.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And will he not come in right \Nthere and say, "Look at you. Dialogue: 0,0:25:38.30,0:25:40.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Look at these folks over here. Dialogue: 0,0:25:40.64,0:25:44.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,God's given them girlfriend, boyfriend. Dialogue: 0,0:25:44.58,0:25:48.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They're courting. They're doing this. Dialogue: 0,0:25:48.52,0:25:50.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,God's got it out for you. Dialogue: 0,0:25:50.38,0:25:52.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You're probably not even one of His. Dialogue: 0,0:25:52.24,0:25:54.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He probably doesn't want \Nanything to look at you. Dialogue: 0,0:25:54.83,0:25:56.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He just mocks you. Dialogue: 0,0:25:56.79,0:26:00.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He's forgotten you. Dialogue: 0,0:26:00.60,0:26:03.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What are you serving Him for? Dialogue: 0,0:26:03.60,0:26:07.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Look at how much everybody else has. Dialogue: 0,0:26:07.35,0:26:10.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And you don't have anything." Dialogue: 0,0:26:10.35,0:26:11.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And you know what you can do Dialogue: 0,0:26:11.44,0:26:14.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,right at that point with that mindset? Dialogue: 0,0:26:14.44,0:26:17.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Justify sin. Dialogue: 0,0:26:17.74,0:26:20.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You can justify it. Dialogue: 0,0:26:20.61,0:26:25.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Listen. Does God say He's against you? Dialogue: 0,0:26:25.98,0:26:27.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Listen to what He says. Dialogue: 0,0:26:27.66,0:26:29.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'll just fly through these. Dialogue: 0,0:26:29.28,0:26:33.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Romans 8:31, "What shall \Nwe say to these things? Dialogue: 0,0:26:33.32,0:26:37.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If God is for us, who can be against us?" Dialogue: 0,0:26:37.40,0:26:41.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Look, just because God \Nhasn't given you a spouse yet, Dialogue: 0,0:26:41.22,0:26:43.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,does not mean that He's against you. Dialogue: 0,0:26:43.68,0:26:45.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Look, all of us have trials to bear. Dialogue: 0,0:26:45.85,0:26:48.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That may be yours today. Dialogue: 0,0:26:48.15,0:26:50.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You can look over at the married guy Dialogue: 0,0:26:50.20,0:26:54.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and you can think, "Look at him. \NI don't have what he has." Dialogue: 0,0:26:54.23,0:26:58.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,No, but he doesn't also \Nhave what you have. Dialogue: 0,0:26:58.64,0:27:02.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Until you've walked in \Nsomebody else's shoes, Dialogue: 0,0:27:02.21,0:27:05.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,don't always think that \NGod is showing favorites. Dialogue: 0,0:27:05.21,0:27:10.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,God does show favorites, \Nbut to all of His children. Dialogue: 0,0:27:10.11,0:27:12.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They're His favorites. Dialogue: 0,0:27:12.06,0:27:14.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And He's guaranteed us all Dialogue: 0,0:27:14.34,0:27:17.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that we have to go through \Naffliction to get to the end. Dialogue: 0,0:27:17.60,0:27:20.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And just because your \Naffliction isn't like that guy, Dialogue: 0,0:27:20.27,0:27:22.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as in one of the \Nafflictions you have to bear Dialogue: 0,0:27:22.48,0:27:24.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,happens to be in the \Nrealm of singleness, Dialogue: 0,0:27:24.46,0:27:26.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I guarantee he's bearing them, too. Dialogue: 0,0:27:26.18,0:27:29.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So before you think that you're getting Dialogue: 0,0:27:29.03,0:27:32.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the major raw end of the deal, \Nstand in his shoes first. Dialogue: 0,0:27:32.03,0:27:34.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because, I guarantee you, \Nthere's a whole lot of people Dialogue: 0,0:27:34.88,0:27:41.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that are married that wish they weren't. Dialogue: 0,0:27:41.18,0:27:45.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Romans 8:32. Now think with me here. Dialogue: 0,0:27:45.99,0:27:49.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"He who did not spare His own \NSon but gave Him up for us all, Dialogue: 0,0:27:49.48,0:27:53.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,how will He not also with Him \Ngraciously give us all things?" Dialogue: 0,0:27:53.21,0:27:56.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Look, if He has given you His Son, Dialogue: 0,0:27:56.92,0:27:59.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,then He is going to give you everything Dialogue: 0,0:27:59.04,0:28:00.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that's for your good, for your best. Dialogue: 0,0:28:00.78,0:28:03.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And He knows what's for your best. Dialogue: 0,0:28:03.19,0:28:04.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He really does. Dialogue: 0,0:28:04.92,0:28:06.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How about this: Romans 8:35, Dialogue: 0,0:28:06.33,0:28:09.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Who shall separate us \Nfrom the love of Christ?" Dialogue: 0,0:28:09.06,0:28:14.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Listen, singleness doesn't separate \Nyou from the love of Christ. Dialogue: 0,0:28:14.12,0:28:15.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jesus was single. Dialogue: 0,0:28:15.86,0:28:18.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,God is just keeping you just \Nlike Him for a season. Dialogue: 0,0:28:18.44,0:28:22.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Paul was single. He is keeping \Nyou like that for a season. Dialogue: 0,0:28:22.21,0:28:26.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Come on, you're no more \Ncursed than they were. Dialogue: 0,0:28:26.07,0:28:32.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Psalm 118:6, "The LORD is on \Nmy side; I will not fear." Dialogue: 0,0:28:32.41,0:28:34.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'll tell you, when your mindset is: Dialogue: 0,0:28:34.80,0:28:39.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"I know the Lord knows \Nall about my situation. Dialogue: 0,0:28:39.09,0:28:41.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I know He's on my side. Dialogue: 0,0:28:41.15,0:28:43.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I know He is for me, \NHe's not against me. Dialogue: 0,0:28:43.96,0:28:45.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I know He gave His Son for me. Dialogue: 0,0:28:45.71,0:28:48.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And if He has, He's going \Nto graciously give me Dialogue: 0,0:28:48.53,0:28:51.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,everything that's good and \Nprofitable for my life, Dialogue: 0,0:28:51.53,0:28:55.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and it's all going to \Nwork out for my good. Dialogue: 0,0:28:55.24,0:28:58.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I love God. I know He hasn't forgotten me. Dialogue: 0,0:28:58.34,0:29:01.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There is a promise there that He \Nwill never leave me nor forsake me. Dialogue: 0,0:29:01.78,0:29:03.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I know that." Dialogue: 0,0:29:03.09,0:29:08.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Psalm 56:9, "This I know, \Nthat God is for me." Dialogue: 0,0:29:08.04,0:29:11.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When you have that mindset, brethren, Dialogue: 0,0:29:11.50,0:29:13.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it goes a long ways to help deliver you. Dialogue: 0,0:29:13.94,0:29:16.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Matthew 7:11, " If you \Nthen, who are evil, Dialogue: 0,0:29:16.72,0:29:18.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,know how to give good \Ngifts to your children, Dialogue: 0,0:29:18.96,0:29:21.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,how much more will your \NFather who is in Heaven Dialogue: 0,0:29:21.32,0:29:23.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,give good things to those who ask Him!" Dialogue: 0,0:29:23.30,0:29:26.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I'll guarantee you this, \NHe gives good things to His children. Dialogue: 0,0:29:26.56,0:29:28.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And if He looks at you, and He says, Dialogue: 0,0:29:28.35,0:29:30.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"I know, in My infinite wisdom, Dialogue: 0,0:29:30.21,0:29:34.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that the best thing for that \Nperson right now is singleness." Dialogue: 0,0:29:34.06,0:29:38.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Listen, I never wanted to \Nget married in my life, Dialogue: 0,0:29:38.33,0:29:40.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,until God saved me. Dialogue: 0,0:29:40.25,0:29:43.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And then I wanted to get married, \NI wanted to have a family. Dialogue: 0,0:29:43.13,0:29:45.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He left me single for three years. Dialogue: 0,0:29:45.18,0:29:49.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That was not an enjoyable \Nthree years for me. Dialogue: 0,0:29:49.16,0:29:51.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That was tough. Dialogue: 0,0:29:51.47,0:29:54.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But I know full well this: \NDuring those three years, Dialogue: 0,0:29:54.68,0:29:59.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He knew it was best for \Nme to be in that place. Dialogue: 0,0:29:59.14,0:30:00.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I was able to take that time, Dialogue: 0,0:30:00.55,0:30:03.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and invest it in studying the Word of God Dialogue: 0,0:30:03.21,0:30:05.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in a way that I would \Nhave never been able to Dialogue: 0,0:30:05.69,0:30:07.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,had He given me a wife immediately. Dialogue: 0,0:30:07.56,0:30:09.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I was able for the better \Npart of three years Dialogue: 0,0:30:09.71,0:30:13.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to saturate myself with the \NWord of God and with prayer. Dialogue: 0,0:30:13.64,0:30:16.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Come home from work everyday \Nand just listen to sermons, Dialogue: 0,0:30:16.83,0:30:19.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and get in the Word, and go out and pray. Dialogue: 0,0:30:19.39,0:30:21.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Day after day after day. Dialogue: 0,0:30:21.21,0:30:25.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And get involved in various ministries, \Nand just absorb my life in that, Dialogue: 0,0:30:25.23,0:30:27.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,which I would have never been able to do. Dialogue: 0,0:30:27.81,0:30:31.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Craig and Rod, the two that I was \Nhanging with tightly at that time, Dialogue: 0,0:30:31.82,0:30:32.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they were married. Dialogue: 0,0:30:32.99,0:30:35.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They had kids. They couldn't \Ndo the things that I did. Dialogue: 0,0:30:35.75,0:30:39.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They couldn't study the \NScriptures like I could. Dialogue: 0,0:30:39.96,0:30:43.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So the thing is: Remember, when \Nyou're in a place of singleness, Dialogue: 0,0:30:43.99,0:30:46.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,God is actually giving you \Nopportunity to do things Dialogue: 0,0:30:46.64,0:30:49.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that that married guy over there can't do. Dialogue: 0,0:30:49.64,0:30:53.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He's giving you opportunity, \Nvery possibly, to be more fruitful Dialogue: 0,0:30:53.68,0:30:56.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,than that other person may be able to be. Dialogue: 0,0:30:56.78,0:31:03.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Don't despise that. \NDon't let self-pity ruin it. Dialogue: 0,0:31:03.70,0:31:08.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Give yourself to striving \Nto excel at that point. Dialogue: 0,0:31:08.46,0:31:09.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How about this, Psalm 84:11, Dialogue: 0,0:31:09.99,0:31:12.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"For the LORD God is a sun and a shield; Dialogue: 0,0:31:12.16,0:31:14.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the LORD bestows favor and honor. Dialogue: 0,0:31:14.14,0:31:17.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,No good thing does He withhold \Nfrom those who walk uprightly." Dialogue: 0,0:31:17.84,0:31:18.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,No good thing. Dialogue: 0,0:31:18.91,0:31:21.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You walk uprightly, \NHe doesn't withhold it. Dialogue: 0,0:31:21.20,0:31:23.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And if He looks at you and He says, Dialogue: 0,0:31:23.08,0:31:25.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"A good thing is a wife," \Nyou're getting it. Dialogue: 0,0:31:25.27,0:31:28.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If He says, "A good thing is \Nsingleness," you're getting it. Dialogue: 0,0:31:28.34,0:31:30.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And He is wise. Dialogue: 0,0:31:30.31,0:31:33.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Or this, Psalm 37:4, \N"Delight yourself in the LORD, Dialogue: 0,0:31:33.67,0:31:36.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and He will give you \Nthe desires of your heart." Dialogue: 0,0:31:36.94,0:31:39.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Listen, there's a place to take that, Dialogue: 0,0:31:39.15,0:31:41.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if you know, "I do delight in the Lord. Dialogue: 0,0:31:41.49,0:31:44.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I love the Lord. I'm striving \Nto serve the Lord," Dialogue: 0,0:31:44.49,0:31:47.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,go to Him and ask Him. Dialogue: 0,0:31:47.71,0:31:50.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Lord, would you give me \Nthe desire of my heart? Dialogue: 0,0:31:50.27,0:31:53.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I really would like to be married." Dialogue: 0,0:31:53.90,0:31:57.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How about Matthew 6:17-18? \NIt talks there about fasting: Dialogue: 0,0:31:57.19,0:31:59.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"When you fast, anoint your \Nhead and wash your face, Dialogue: 0,0:31:59.79,0:32:03.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that your fasting may \Nnot be seen by others Dialogue: 0,0:32:03.54,0:32:05.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but by your Father who is in secret. Dialogue: 0,0:32:05.98,0:32:08.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And your Father who sees in \Nsecret will reward you." Dialogue: 0,0:32:08.94,0:32:11.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Fast. Seek the Lord diligently. Dialogue: 0,0:32:11.98,0:32:13.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Don't just ask Him flippantly. Dialogue: 0,0:32:13.73,0:32:16.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You want something from Him, \Nshow Him you mean it. Fast for it. Dialogue: 0,0:32:16.88,0:32:20.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He says that He gives openly those things Dialogue: 0,0:32:20.97,0:32:23.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that you seek Him for in secret. Dialogue: 0,0:32:23.46,0:32:26.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Or remember this, \NGenesis 2:18, "The LORD God said, Dialogue: 0,0:32:26.61,0:32:28.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,'It is not good that \Nthe man should be alone. Dialogue: 0,0:32:28.83,0:32:30.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I will make him a helper fit for him.'" Dialogue: 0,0:32:30.76,0:32:32.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Listen, take that text to Him. Dialogue: 0,0:32:32.25,0:32:37.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Lord, you say it's not good for a \Nman to be alone, and I'm alone." Dialogue: 0,0:32:37.01,0:32:40.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I mean, plead with Him. Pray to Him. Dialogue: 0,0:32:40.20,0:32:43.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Proverbs 19:14 says, \N"A prudent wife is from the LORD." Dialogue: 0,0:32:43.10,0:32:45.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'll guarantee you this, you get a wife, Dialogue: 0,0:32:45.34,0:32:47.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you get a husband, it's from God. Dialogue: 0,0:32:47.82,0:32:50.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Like He's got everything to do with it. Dialogue: 0,0:32:50.99,0:32:55.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Look, is that important? \NThat's hugely important. Dialogue: 0,0:32:55.31,0:32:58.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you're just basically a \Nlost person out in the world, Dialogue: 0,0:32:58.37,0:33:01.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and you go, and all you do is \Ncamp in front of the TV all the time, Dialogue: 0,0:33:01.70,0:33:04.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you see these movie stars \Nand all these beautiful people, Dialogue: 0,0:33:04.49,0:33:06.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and you go and look in the mirror, Dialogue: 0,0:33:06.22,0:33:08.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and you're like, "I'm not as \Nhandsome. I'm not as beautiful. Dialogue: 0,0:33:08.79,0:33:10.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm not as this; I'm not as that.\N Dialogue: 0,0:33:10.71,0:33:13.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm not as suave and \Ndebonair as these guys. Dialogue: 0,0:33:13.65,0:33:15.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I don't have any chance to get this." Dialogue: 0,0:33:15.50,0:33:22.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Listen, what are you saying? \NGod is sovereign. Dialogue: 0,0:33:22.20,0:33:25.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I mean, is it like any Christian \Nis in some kind of position Dialogue: 0,0:33:25.42,0:33:29.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,where God isn't quite able \Nto give that person a mate? Dialogue: 0,0:33:29.42,0:33:33.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I mean, you're basically \Ncoming to a conclusion, Dialogue: 0,0:33:33.33,0:33:36.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Well, I don't have what \Nother people have." Dialogue: 0,0:33:36.33,0:33:42.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Listen, my Bible says a prudent \Nwife is from the LORD. Dialogue: 0,0:33:42.62,0:33:47.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,By the way, a prudent husband \Nwould be from the same place. Dialogue: 0,0:33:47.30,0:33:52.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If your desire is to have this, \Nyou're delighting in the Lord - Dialogue: 0,0:33:52.23,0:33:54.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it's not good for a man to be alone, Dialogue: 0,0:33:54.74,0:33:56.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,which must mean that it must not be Dialogue: 0,0:33:56.74,0:33:59.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,very good for women to be alone either. Dialogue: 0,0:33:59.36,0:34:05.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ask. Expect. Dialogue: 0,0:34:05.79,0:34:14.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you believe God is \Nagainst you, it can give place. Dialogue: 0,0:34:14.13,0:34:18.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I've heard this before. \NI've heard Christians reason, Dialogue: 0,0:34:18.88,0:34:23.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Well, I'm not married. \NAnd I have these desires. Dialogue: 0,0:34:23.56,0:34:27.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I need to knock the edge off. Dialogue: 0,0:34:27.76,0:34:31.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I need to do this. God understands." Dialogue: 0,0:34:31.43,0:34:37.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,No. Listen, you fall into sexual sin, Dialogue: 0,0:34:37.16,0:34:38.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and you reasoning in it Dialogue: 0,0:34:38.92,0:34:41.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because well, you want to be married, Dialogue: 0,0:34:41.16,0:34:43.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but God just hasn't brought you a wife. Dialogue: 0,0:34:43.62,0:34:45.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You see what that's doing? Dialogue: 0,0:34:45.39,0:34:47.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You're basically blaming God for your sin. Dialogue: 0,0:34:47.64,0:34:49.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Well, He's not for me. Dialogue: 0,0:34:49.98,0:34:52.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He's not there like with other people." Dialogue: 0,0:34:52.39,0:34:55.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You don't want to get into that mindset. Dialogue: 0,0:34:55.43,0:35:02.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'll tell you, another mindset \Nthat lead Christians into sin Dialogue: 0,0:35:02.04,0:35:08.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is the mindset that basically makes Dialogue: 0,0:35:08.01,0:35:13.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,God's threatenings and \Nwarnings of no effect. Dialogue: 0,0:35:13.58,0:35:15.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You know what I mean by that? Dialogue: 0,0:35:15.84,0:35:20.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Where you just \Nbasically say as a Christian, Dialogue: 0,0:35:20.12,0:35:23.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Well, I'm a Christian. Dialogue: 0,0:35:23.12,0:35:26.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I can't lose my salvation. Dialogue: 0,0:35:26.22,0:35:33.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So warnings about hell \Nto sexually immoral, Dialogue: 0,0:35:33.44,0:35:35.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there's no condemnation to me. Dialogue: 0,0:35:35.40,0:35:37.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm in Christ." Dialogue: 0,0:35:37.51,0:35:43.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You see what I'm saying? \NThat mindset is deadly. Dialogue: 0,0:35:43.33,0:35:45.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That mindset will land people Dialogue: 0,0:35:45.50,0:35:49.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,right in the lap of sexual immorality. Dialogue: 0,0:35:49.30,0:35:56.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because what you basically do \Nis you come to this conclusion: Dialogue: 0,0:35:56.15,0:35:58.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"I'm saved, Dialogue: 0,0:35:58.70,0:36:03.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and the Bible teaches that saved \Npeople can't lose their salvation. Dialogue: 0,0:36:03.62,0:36:06.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Therefore no amount of sexual immorality Dialogue: 0,0:36:06.69,0:36:08.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,can make me lose my salvation. Dialogue: 0,0:36:08.50,0:36:11.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Therefore the warnings about \Nsexually immoral people Dialogue: 0,0:36:11.97,0:36:13.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,suffering under the wrath of God, Dialogue: 0,0:36:13.69,0:36:15.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and not inheriting the Kingdom of Heaven, Dialogue: 0,0:36:15.71,0:36:18.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,can't apply to me." Dialogue: 0,0:36:18.71,0:36:24.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But what presupposition in \Nall that was dead faulty? Dialogue: 0,0:36:24.59,0:36:29.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That first assumption that "I'm saved, Dialogue: 0,0:36:29.43,0:36:32.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and that I can go and jump \Ninto all this sexual immorality, Dialogue: 0,0:36:32.80,0:36:34.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and it'll be okay." Dialogue: 0,0:36:34.18,0:36:38.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Listen, this is why Paul is saying, \Nhe's like shaking people, Dialogue: 0,0:36:38.20,0:36:41.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"No! No! No! No! Don't think that way. Dialogue: 0,0:36:41.21,0:36:44.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because if you get involved \Nin sexual immorality, Dialogue: 0,0:36:44.56,0:36:46.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,let me tell you, do not be deceived. Dialogue: 0,0:36:46.74,0:36:50.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The sexually immoral do not \Ninherit the Kingdom of Heaven." Dialogue: 0,0:36:50.15,0:36:52.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In other words, it doesn't \Nmatter what you think. Dialogue: 0,0:36:52.74,0:36:55.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It doesn't matter what you \Nsay about your Christianity. Dialogue: 0,0:36:55.42,0:36:57.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It doesn't matter what \Nassurance you have. Dialogue: 0,0:36:57.48,0:36:59.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It doesn't matter what \Nexperience you have. Dialogue: 0,0:36:59.62,0:37:02.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It doesn't matter how long \Nyou think you were saved. Dialogue: 0,0:37:02.20,0:37:04.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you can all of a sudden \Ndepart from that, Dialogue: 0,0:37:04.36,0:37:06.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and go into that sexual immorality, Dialogue: 0,0:37:06.15,0:37:08.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and you can just blow \Noff the warnings of Scripture; Dialogue: 0,0:37:08.79,0:37:11.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,people like that, Paul \Ncomes along and says, Dialogue: 0,0:37:11.03,0:37:12.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Their condemnation is just." Dialogue: 0,0:37:12.76,0:37:17.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,People who give place to \Nlicentiousness and sin, Dialogue: 0,0:37:17.29,0:37:22.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because they basically presume upon God. Dialogue: 0,0:37:22.03,0:37:24.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Brethren, dangerous, dangerous, dangerous. Dialogue: 0,0:37:24.45,0:37:29.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jesus says if you're not \Namputating these things, Dialogue: 0,0:37:29.95,0:37:33.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you have an eye that looks at a woman, Dialogue: 0,0:37:33.79,0:37:39.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He says, "You better pluck that \Nthing out or you're going to hell." Dialogue: 0,0:37:39.17,0:37:43.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You say, "He says that?" \NYou better believe He says that. Dialogue: 0,0:37:43.83,0:37:49.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you have such a theology that you're \Nable to toy with sexual immorality, Dialogue: 0,0:37:49.97,0:37:52.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and convince yourself \Nthat no matter how much Dialogue: 0,0:37:52.48,0:37:54.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you do that it's going to be okay, Dialogue: 0,0:37:54.45,0:37:57.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because there's no condemnation, \Nafter all you're saved; Dialogue: 0,0:37:57.32,0:38:01.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you're walking on very \Nscary ground. Very scary. Dialogue: 0,0:38:01.95,0:38:03.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Be very careful. Dialogue: 0,0:38:03.60,0:38:10.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That kind of mindset will \Nland people in trouble. Dialogue: 0,0:38:10.21,0:38:16.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And then, I can tell you this, Dialogue: 0,0:38:16.89,0:38:26.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,especially guys, girls \Ntoo but especially guys: Dialogue: 0,0:38:26.65,0:38:35.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,A mindset that what I \Nlook at doesn't matter. Dialogue: 0,0:38:35.33,0:38:45.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Listen, the apostle Paul gave \Na stern warning to the Romans. Dialogue: 0,0:38:45.86,0:38:49.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He said, "Make no \Nprovision for the flesh." Dialogue: 0,0:38:49.65,0:38:57.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The flesh is that unredeemed part of us. Dialogue: 0,0:38:57.36,0:39:02.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We're to crucify it. We're \Nto take the life out of it. Dialogue: 0,0:39:02.29,0:39:08.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We're to buffet it and \Nbeat it. We're to starve it. Dialogue: 0,0:39:08.24,0:39:14.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The flesh is like a living animal. Dialogue: 0,0:39:14.64,0:39:20.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's like an animal that has the ability, Dialogue: 0,0:39:20.25,0:39:23.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if it's fed, to regain strength. Dialogue: 0,0:39:23.25,0:39:29.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's almost like a creature that \Nyou can crucify life out of it, Dialogue: 0,0:39:29.55,0:39:32.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so that it becomes weaker and weaker. Dialogue: 0,0:39:32.66,0:39:35.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But then, you can also feed it Dialogue: 0,0:39:35.43,0:39:38.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so that, like an animal, it suddenly Dialogue: 0,0:39:38.20,0:39:42.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,becomes incredibly strong and vicious. Dialogue: 0,0:39:42.79,0:39:52.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Job said, Job 31:1, he made a \Ncovenant with his eyes not to look Dialogue: 0,0:39:52.68,0:39:56.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(or "Why then shall I look"). Dialogue: 0,0:39:56.83,0:40:00.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He would not look. He made \Na covenant with his eyes. Dialogue: 0,0:40:00.66,0:40:03.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Guys, you drive around this city, Dialogue: 0,0:40:03.86,0:40:06.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you know where the billboards are. Dialogue: 0,0:40:06.86,0:40:09.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Don't look at them. Dialogue: 0,0:40:09.64,0:40:14.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You know if you walk into a mall, Dialogue: 0,0:40:14.89,0:40:17.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and you walk by Victoria's Secret; Dialogue: 0,0:40:17.89,0:40:19.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for one, don't go there; Dialogue: 0,0:40:19.88,0:40:22.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,two, don't even go to the malls. Dialogue: 0,0:40:22.50,0:40:25.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What do you need there? Dialogue: 0,0:40:25.63,0:40:30.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Guys what do you need at a mall? Dialogue: 0,0:40:30.21,0:40:35.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Buy it online. I'm serious. Dialogue: 0,0:40:35.24,0:40:38.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There is practically no reason Dialogue: 0,0:40:38.56,0:40:41.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that any guy needs to go into a mall. Dialogue: 0,0:40:41.56,0:40:43.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Audience] Walmart. Dialogue: 0,0:40:43.29,0:40:45.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Tim] Right. Walmart. Dialogue: 0,0:40:45.04,0:40:48.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And even there, watch \Nyourself at the racks. Dialogue: 0,0:40:48.04,0:40:51.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,H-E-B, watch yourself at the racks. Dialogue: 0,0:40:51.47,0:40:54.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You know it, don't look. Dialogue: 0,0:40:54.12,0:40:57.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Keep your eyes to the ground. Dialogue: 0,0:40:57.72,0:41:02.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I mean, I go to the gym. To the Y.\N Dialogue: 0,0:41:02.79,0:41:04.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ruby and I go there. Dialogue: 0,0:41:04.30,0:41:09.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I mean, there are women working out. Dialogue: 0,0:41:09.39,0:41:13.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There's obvious places not to look. Dialogue: 0,0:41:13.74,0:41:16.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Watch your eyes. Dialogue: 0,0:41:16.21,0:41:23.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Believe me, your eyes are a \Nchannel to feed the flesh. Dialogue: 0,0:41:23.11,0:41:28.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And if you feed that animal, \Nyou're going to go down. Dialogue: 0,0:41:28.89,0:41:32.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You feed it enough, and it's going \Nto take you by the throat, Dialogue: 0,0:41:32.72,0:41:35.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and you're going to go down. Dialogue: 0,0:41:35.47,0:41:38.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I'll tell you, you tempt God, Dialogue: 0,0:41:38.30,0:41:40.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and He's going to draw His hand back. Dialogue: 0,0:41:40.21,0:41:45.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And you may fall farther than you \Never thought you were going to fall. Dialogue: 0,0:41:45.23,0:41:47.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And if He takes His hand back; Dialogue: 0,0:41:47.57,0:41:55.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when a Christian presumes \Nupon God, be very careful. Dialogue: 0,0:41:55.04,0:42:03.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Listen, movies, TV, computer, \Nyou need to stay away from places. Dialogue: 0,0:42:03.61,0:42:06.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There are places you \Nknow you should not go. Dialogue: 0,0:42:06.17,0:42:09.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Don't go there. Don't feed it. Dialogue: 0,0:42:09.33,0:42:14.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Guys, there is no reason and \Nno legitimate excuse Dialogue: 0,0:42:14.30,0:42:17.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for you to be in circumstances Dialogue: 0,0:42:17.06,0:42:20.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that are putting things before \Nyour eyes that are inappropriate. Dialogue: 0,0:42:20.20,0:42:23.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Don't tell me, "Well, I have to. Dialogue: 0,0:42:23.02,0:42:27.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Well, I need to do this thing over here, Dialogue: 0,0:42:27.03,0:42:29.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and this just happens." Dialogue: 0,0:42:29.25,0:42:31.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Or, "This is part and parcel of that." Dialogue: 0,0:42:31.89,0:42:34.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That's not true. Dialogue: 0,0:42:34.11,0:42:38.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The Scripture says, "Flee \Nfornication. Run from it." Dialogue: 0,0:42:38.84,0:42:44.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You need to get away\Nfrom it. Don't entice it. Dialogue: 0,0:42:44.21,0:42:47.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What we look at matters. Dialogue: 0,0:42:47.04,0:43:00.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Another mindset, it's \Nwhen we forget, (this is huge,) Dialogue: 0,0:43:00.14,0:43:09.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when we forget that a vacuum never works. Dialogue: 0,0:43:09.38,0:43:19.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In other words, if I'm struggling \Nwith sexual thoughts, illicit ones, Dialogue: 0,0:43:19.63,0:43:23.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or I had dreams that weren't right, Dialogue: 0,0:43:23.56,0:43:25.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or something just got stuck in my face. Dialogue: 0,0:43:25.68,0:43:27.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Brother Andy says over there in China, Dialogue: 0,0:43:27.85,0:43:29.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you know, he's on his computer, Dialogue: 0,0:43:29.64,0:43:32.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and all of a sudden, it just appears, Dialogue: 0,0:43:32.48,0:43:34.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,full pornography right in his face. Dialogue: 0,0:43:34.87,0:43:37.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He didn't look for it, \Nhe didn't ask for it, Dialogue: 0,0:43:37.12,0:43:40.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,he didn't entice it, \Njust bang! It's right there. Dialogue: 0,0:43:40.12,0:43:45.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I mean, once in a while something \Nhappens where you have images, Dialogue: 0,0:43:45.05,0:43:49.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you have images in your mind \Nfrom when you were lost. Dialogue: 0,0:43:49.95,0:43:56.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But listen, one of the \Nthings that often happens is - Dialogue: 0,0:43:56.12,0:44:01.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I can remember one time when \NI was working as an engineer, Dialogue: 0,0:44:01.20,0:44:03.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,my boss was in there, Dialogue: 0,0:44:03.40,0:44:07.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and there was this guy that worked \Nover in the other cubicle across from me. Dialogue: 0,0:44:07.86,0:44:10.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And this guy would come late. Dialogue: 0,0:44:10.76,0:44:15.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He wasn't a really good worker, \Nand he would miss a lot of work Dialogue: 0,0:44:15.71,0:44:18.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because he was having these \Ncluster headaches and everything. Dialogue: 0,0:44:18.68,0:44:25.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And the guy drank all sorts \Nof coffee and smoked like crazy. Dialogue: 0,0:44:25.03,0:44:27.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Every break he was going out to smoke. Dialogue: 0,0:44:27.52,0:44:29.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I came in one day, and I said, Dialogue: 0,0:44:29.42,0:44:32.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Scott, I saw, down in the lunchroom, Dialogue: 0,0:44:32.81,0:44:37.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they had a medical fact sheet \Non cluster headaches." Dialogue: 0,0:44:37.52,0:44:43.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I said, "They're caused by \Nexcessive caffeine and nicotine." Dialogue: 0,0:44:43.28,0:44:46.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This guy would have to \Nget this machine on him Dialogue: 0,0:44:46.44,0:44:48.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that would shock him, \Nwhile he was at work. Dialogue: 0,0:44:48.62,0:44:51.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And Scott would be over \Nthere looking at my boss, Dialogue: 0,0:44:51.03,0:44:52.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and all of a sudden he'll just jump, Dialogue: 0,0:44:52.03,0:44:54.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because he'd get this great big shock. Dialogue: 0,0:44:54.04,0:44:56.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I could tell it really made Scott mad. Dialogue: 0,0:44:56.59,0:45:00.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So I came back from the lunchroom \Nthat day, and Scott is in his office. Dialogue: 0,0:45:00.17,0:45:03.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I said, "Hey Scott, I saw this thing \Nabout cluster headaches down there." Dialogue: 0,0:45:03.74,0:45:05.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And he's just going, "La la la la la la." Dialogue: 0,0:45:05.88,0:45:08.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Like he didn't want to hear. Dialogue: 0,0:45:08.38,0:45:10.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Can I tell you something? Dialogue: 0,0:45:10.65,0:45:14.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That does not work with sexual sin. Dialogue: 0,0:45:14.36,0:45:17.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You just put your hands over your ears, Dialogue: 0,0:45:17.31,0:45:19.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that kind of thing where, Dialogue: 0,0:45:19.77,0:45:22.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"No! I don't want to think about it." Dialogue: 0,0:45:22.77,0:45:34.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Listen, in 2 Timothy 2:22, \N"Flee youthful passions." Dialogue: 0,0:45:34.19,0:45:35.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But that's not all. Dialogue: 0,0:45:35.96,0:45:39.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You see, that's the negative. Dialogue: 0,0:45:39.05,0:45:42.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That's what you want to clear out; Dialogue: 0,0:45:42.26,0:45:44.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you want to get away from. Dialogue: 0,0:45:44.49,0:45:48.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But if that's all it was, \Nit wouldn't be Christianity. Dialogue: 0,0:45:48.09,0:45:50.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It would just be some kind of morality. Dialogue: 0,0:45:50.43,0:45:53.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It would be some kind \Nof stop doing the bad. Dialogue: 0,0:45:53.85,0:45:56.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But with Christianity, it's always what? Dialogue: 0,0:45:56.83,0:45:59.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There's always an opposite side to it. Dialogue: 0,0:45:59.74,0:46:01.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's always "Christ came, Dialogue: 0,0:46:01.72,0:46:04.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,not only to deliver His \Npeople from the evil, Dialogue: 0,0:46:04.72,0:46:06.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He came to make them \Nzealous of good works. Dialogue: 0,0:46:06.95,0:46:08.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We replace one thing with another. Dialogue: 0,0:46:08.96,0:46:11.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We have to replace the bad with the good. Dialogue: 0,0:46:11.25,0:46:14.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And what does it say \Nthere? 2 Timothy 2:22, Dialogue: 0,0:46:14.30,0:46:17.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Flee youthful passions, and pursue" - Dialogue: 0,0:46:17.23,0:46:20.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you run from one thing, \Nand you chase after another. Dialogue: 0,0:46:20.80,0:46:22.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What is it? What do we pursue? Dialogue: 0,0:46:22.94,0:46:26.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Faith, love, peace, along with those Dialogue: 0,0:46:26.54,0:46:28.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who call on the Lord from a pure heart." Dialogue: 0,0:46:28.95,0:46:32.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You know what? Start loving people. Dialogue: 0,0:46:32.01,0:46:35.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Start doing things that are \Ngoing to increase your faith. Dialogue: 0,0:46:35.87,0:46:38.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Start thinking about \Nways you can give more Dialogue: 0,0:46:38.48,0:46:39.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and see how faithful God is. Dialogue: 0,0:46:39.99,0:46:41.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Start thinking about missionaries Dialogue: 0,0:46:41.96,0:46:44.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you can put together care \Npackage for, and show love. Dialogue: 0,0:46:44.80,0:46:47.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Start thinking about people \Nthat you can serve. Dialogue: 0,0:46:47.13,0:46:48.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Get involved in things. Dialogue: 0,0:46:48.58,0:46:51.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'll tell you, when \Nyou're not sitting alone Dialogue: 0,0:46:51.70,0:46:53.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in front of your computer, Dialogue: 0,0:46:53.70,0:46:58.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but you're rather out helping \Nsomebody, serving somebody, Dialogue: 0,0:46:58.39,0:47:00.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it's a whole lot different. Dialogue: 0,0:47:00.83,0:47:04.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You're not likely going \Nto look at pornography Dialogue: 0,0:47:04.95,0:47:13.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when you're out mowing the \Nwidow's lawn in your church. Dialogue: 0,0:47:13.89,0:47:18.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's just the reality. Dialogue: 0,0:47:18.24,0:47:28.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Brethren, another mindset is when \Nwe forget the power of prayer. Dialogue: 0,0:47:28.78,0:47:32.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And what I mean by that is, \Nlook, when you start your day Dialogue: 0,0:47:32.10,0:47:34.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and you really believe that \Nthere is power in prayer, Dialogue: 0,0:47:34.68,0:47:37.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and that God can deliver \Nfrom temptation, you pray it. Dialogue: 0,0:47:37.54,0:47:39.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Just like Jesus taught us - Dialogue: 0,0:47:39.63,0:47:44.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Keep us from temptation. \NDeliver us from evil." Dialogue: 0,0:47:44.70,0:47:46.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You'll pray that way because you believe, Dialogue: 0,0:47:46.87,0:47:49.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"I really believe God can \Nkeep me from this. Dialogue: 0,0:47:49.87,0:47:52.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Lord, keep me from it. Dialogue: 0,0:47:52.50,0:47:56.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm going to school, \NLord help me, help me. Dialogue: 0,0:47:56.27,0:47:58.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Give me the ability to \Nkeep my eyes focused." Dialogue: 0,0:47:58.93,0:48:03.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I mean, you're surrounded \Nby 50% of these maidens Dialogue: 0,0:48:03.10,0:48:05.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that Job wouldn't look at. Dialogue: 0,0:48:05.16,0:48:07.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And there you are, out in the campus; Dialogue: 0,0:48:07.73,0:48:10.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and they're walking around, \Nand summer is coming on, Dialogue: 0,0:48:10.31,0:48:13.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and they're wearing things \Nthey should not be wearing. Dialogue: 0,0:48:13.05,0:48:14.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And sometimes you're in class, Dialogue: 0,0:48:14.95,0:48:17.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and it's just right there in your face. Dialogue: 0,0:48:17.95,0:48:21.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"God help us," you can pray \Nbrethren. You can pray. Dialogue: 0,0:48:21.92,0:48:25.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If we're to be salt and light \Nin the midst of this world, Dialogue: 0,0:48:25.64,0:48:29.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,just the reality is we're going to \Nbe around things that are improper. Dialogue: 0,0:48:29.54,0:48:32.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And we need God's help \Nand grace and mercy Dialogue: 0,0:48:32.44,0:48:34.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to be able to cope with these things. Dialogue: 0,0:48:34.30,0:48:36.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Remember, there is power in prayer. Dialogue: 0,0:48:36.08,0:48:39.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He would not have taught us, Luke 22:40, Dialogue: 0,0:48:39.43,0:48:42.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jesus says, "When He came \Nto the place, He said to them, Dialogue: 0,0:48:42.27,0:48:45.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Pray that you may not \Nenter into temptation." Dialogue: 0,0:48:45.66,0:48:52.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That's because we can pray and \NGod will keep us from temptation. Dialogue: 0,0:48:52.53,0:49:02.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How about this: When you \Nbelieve you are justified Dialogue: 0,0:49:02.18,0:49:07.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in relieving your affliction through sin. Dialogue: 0,0:49:07.66,0:49:09.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now what do I mean by that one? Dialogue: 0,0:49:09.94,0:49:20.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I mean, your sexual \Nappetite is just screaming. Dialogue: 0,0:49:20.81,0:49:24.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That's affliction. \NLet's call it what it is. Dialogue: 0,0:49:24.54,0:49:27.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When a man or a woman has sexual desires Dialogue: 0,0:49:27.96,0:49:30.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that are incredibly strong, Dialogue: 0,0:49:30.28,0:49:38.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and there is no immediate, \Nviable, righteous outlet Dialogue: 0,0:49:38.88,0:49:43.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for that desire, that's tough. Dialogue: 0,0:49:43.78,0:49:52.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That's hard. That's a trial. \NThat's affliction. Dialogue: 0,0:49:52.56,0:49:56.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But brethren, when you have a mindset Dialogue: 0,0:49:56.88,0:50:05.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that you're justified in avoiding \Naffliction by way of sin, Dialogue: 0,0:50:05.08,0:50:08.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when you have that mindset, Dialogue: 0,0:50:08.36,0:50:12.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you've got the groundwork for a fall. Dialogue: 0,0:50:12.46,0:50:16.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You see, God says, 1 Corinthians 10:13, Dialogue: 0,0:50:16.94,0:50:18.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"No temptation has overtaken you Dialogue: 0,0:50:18.76,0:50:21.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that is not common \Nto man. God is faithful." Dialogue: 0,0:50:21.98,0:50:24.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Listen right there, God is faithful. Dialogue: 0,0:50:24.91,0:50:29.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When you feel like you're at that \Npoint where you're ready to break, Dialogue: 0,0:50:29.03,0:50:31.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the best thing to do is clear out, Dialogue: 0,0:50:31.09,0:50:32.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,hit the closet, and go to your knees: Dialogue: 0,0:50:32.97,0:50:35.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Lord, I need help. Dialogue: 0,0:50:35.92,0:50:42.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Lord, I don't know if I can \Nkeep going. I need help." Dialogue: 0,0:50:42.21,0:50:45.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"He will not let you be \Ntempted beyond your ability." Dialogue: 0,0:50:45.66,0:50:49.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He promises there will \Nbe sufficient grace Dialogue: 0,0:50:49.15,0:50:51.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for you to get through this thing Dialogue: 0,0:50:51.21,0:50:56.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,without taking the outlet of sin. Dialogue: 0,0:50:56.76,0:51:00.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"But with the temptation He will \Nalso provide the way of escape, Dialogue: 0,0:51:00.72,0:51:02.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that you may be able to endure it." Dialogue: 0,0:51:02.57,0:51:07.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Or 2 Peter 2:9, "The Lord knows \Nhow to rescue the godly from trials." Dialogue: 0,0:51:07.13,0:51:09.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He knows. He knows how to rescue you. Dialogue: 0,0:51:09.66,0:51:11.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You need to believe that. Dialogue: 0,0:51:11.13,0:51:13.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You see, a lot of times when \Nyou're in the midst of it, Dialogue: 0,0:51:13.87,0:51:16.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you think you've got to deal with it. Dialogue: 0,0:51:16.29,0:51:19.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You think you've got to \Ngive yourself a way out. Dialogue: 0,0:51:19.01,0:51:22.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It says, "God knows how to \Ngive you a way out." Dialogue: 0,0:51:22.74,0:51:25.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Run to Him. Believe that. Dialogue: 0,0:51:25.09,0:51:30.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When it's fierce, the battle \Nis hot, believe it. Dialogue: 0,0:51:30.56,0:51:32.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Believe it, brethren, believe it. Dialogue: 0,0:51:32.44,0:51:36.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He is able to rescue \Nthe godly from trials. Dialogue: 0,0:51:36.09,0:51:39.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He knows how to rescue you. He knows. Dialogue: 0,0:51:39.08,0:51:43.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Brethren, so often with the Lord, Dialogue: 0,0:51:43.22,0:51:50.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"You don't have because what? \NYou haven't asked." Dialogue: 0,0:51:50.55,0:51:52.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Listen, if you've got that mindset, Dialogue: 0,0:51:52.81,0:51:57.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"The Lord knows how to deliver \Nme from this," you run to Him, Dialogue: 0,0:51:57.12,0:52:02.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Lord, deliver me. Show me a way out." Dialogue: 0,0:52:02.20,0:52:08.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Or how about this: \NYou do fall into sexual sin. Dialogue: 0,0:52:08.77,0:52:13.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Can I tell you what? Listen, you \Nnot only have these passions, Dialogue: 0,0:52:13.78,0:52:14.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you have the devil. Dialogue: 0,0:52:14.98,0:52:19.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He comes along, and he's \Nwhispering to you, Dialogue: 0,0:52:19.02,0:52:21.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Certainly God is going to understand. Dialogue: 0,0:52:21.81,0:52:24.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Certainly he doesn't expect \Nyou to endure this. Dialogue: 0,0:52:24.55,0:52:26.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Look at the affliction you're in. Dialogue: 0,0:52:26.63,0:52:30.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He's forgotten you. \NHe doesn't care about you." Dialogue: 0,0:52:30.50,0:52:35.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He's going to come along \Nand slander God to you. Dialogue: 0,0:52:35.06,0:52:39.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And then, you fall into the sin. Dialogue: 0,0:52:39.41,0:52:45.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And then, he suddenly changes his tone. Dialogue: 0,0:52:45.56,0:52:49.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now he slanders you to you. Dialogue: 0,0:52:49.40,0:52:51.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Before he slandered God to you. Dialogue: 0,0:52:51.96,0:52:57.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now you fall, "Look at you. \NLook at how pathetic you are. Dialogue: 0,0:52:57.13,0:53:00.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Are you going to think, even think, Dialogue: 0,0:53:00.28,0:53:04.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Christ wants anything to do with \Nyou after what you just did? Dialogue: 0,0:53:04.25,0:53:05.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You might as well just go do it again. Dialogue: 0,0:53:05.65,0:53:08.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You're so defiled. You're so wretched. Dialogue: 0,0:53:08.65,0:53:10.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Just go do it again. Dialogue: 0,0:53:10.66,0:53:13.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I mean, why even fight anymore? Dialogue: 0,0:53:13.53,0:53:17.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You've already fallen, \Nlook how pathetic you are. Dialogue: 0,0:53:17.03,0:53:21.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You might as well just \Nblow it even worse." Dialogue: 0,0:53:21.86,0:53:27.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You get that mindset, just the \Ndevil trying to convince you, Dialogue: 0,0:53:27.26,0:53:31.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"It's no use now, you \Nmight as well just indulge." Dialogue: 0,0:53:31.17,0:53:35.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Brethren, this is where Scripture comes \Nalong and it says things like this, Dialogue: 0,0:53:35.41,0:53:38.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,think there with Romans 8: Dialogue: 0,0:53:38.56,0:53:42.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Who shall bring any \Ncharge against God's elect?" Dialogue: 0,0:53:42.11,0:53:44.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You remember who you are. Dialogue: 0,0:53:44.02,0:53:50.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Listen, even on your worst day, \Nthere is no condemnation. Dialogue: 0,0:53:50.80,0:53:54.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Even on your worst day, \Nwho shall bring any charge? Dialogue: 0,0:53:54.23,0:53:58.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That doesn't mean that \Nnobody brings charges. Dialogue: 0,0:53:58.15,0:54:01.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When it says, "Who shall bring \Na charge against God's elect?" Dialogue: 0,0:54:01.23,0:54:04.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it doesn't mean that there \Naren't those who do bring charges. Dialogue: 0,0:54:04.47,0:54:08.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It means there's nobody that \Ncan bring one that sticks. Dialogue: 0,0:54:08.92,0:54:17.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'll tell you this, as a young Christian \N Dialogue: 0,0:54:17.92,0:54:20.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I would fall into all sorts of sins. Dialogue: 0,0:54:20.92,0:54:23.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The battle was on. Dialogue: 0,0:54:23.10,0:54:26.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I mean, for the first time in \Nmy life, I wanted righteousness. Dialogue: 0,0:54:26.13,0:54:32.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I hungered for it. I mean, \Nit was all out battle. Dialogue: 0,0:54:32.35,0:54:34.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There was no perfect day. Dialogue: 0,0:54:34.64,0:54:39.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But I can tell you, even on my worst day, Dialogue: 0,0:54:39.09,0:54:42.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I was so overwhelmed by the fact that Dialogue: 0,0:54:42.09,0:54:44.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jesus Christ came and rescued me Dialogue: 0,0:54:44.90,0:54:47.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when I was totally dead in my trespasses. Dialogue: 0,0:54:47.90,0:54:52.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now that I'm justified, \Nand I happen to have one fall; Dialogue: 0,0:54:52.38,0:54:55.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I mean, when he came and rescued \Nme when I was like that, Dialogue: 0,0:54:55.51,0:54:58.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is He going to now abandon \Nme when I'm like this? Dialogue: 0,0:54:58.20,0:55:00.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I mean, how much more now that I'm His, Dialogue: 0,0:55:00.42,0:55:01.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and now that I'm justified, Dialogue: 0,0:55:01.85,0:55:05.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,how much more is He going \Nto come and be a help to me? Dialogue: 0,0:55:05.27,0:55:10.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When the devil would come \Nin at those times and says, Dialogue: 0,0:55:10.06,0:55:12.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"He doesn't want anything to do with you." Dialogue: 0,0:55:12.28,0:55:14.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I would say, "Well, that's interesting. Dialogue: 0,0:55:14.32,0:55:17.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When I was like ten thousand times \Nworse before I was regenerated, Dialogue: 0,0:55:17.89,0:55:20.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He wanted everything to do with me." Dialogue: 0,0:55:20.95,0:55:23.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I mean, the basic logic of it was foolish. Dialogue: 0,0:55:23.19,0:55:29.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'd say, "Devil, your logic is \Nnot working with me." Dialogue: 0,0:55:29.22,0:55:33.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Who can lay anything to the \Ncharge against God's elect? Dialogue: 0,0:55:33.61,0:55:36.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's God Who justifies! (Amen). Dialogue: 0,0:55:36.66,0:55:41.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I mean, look, "Oh, is that right, devil? Dialogue: 0,0:55:41.57,0:55:45.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm pretty bad? Yeah. That's right. Dialogue: 0,0:55:45.05,0:55:48.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You're right, I did sin, and I am bad. Dialogue: 0,0:55:48.38,0:55:51.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But I read somewhere in my Bible Dialogue: 0,0:55:51.16,0:56:02.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that I have an Advocate with the \NFather, Jesus Christ the Righteous. Dialogue: 0,0:56:02.75,0:56:08.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I don't think I'm going to \Nbuy into that thinking." Dialogue: 0,0:56:08.08,0:56:12.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Or how about this? Dialogue: 0,0:56:12.93,0:56:21.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Brethren, you've got the reality of the \Nfear of the Lord, like we talked about. Dialogue: 0,0:56:21.95,0:56:25.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When offending God no longer terrifies us. Dialogue: 0,0:56:25.03,0:56:26.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But how about just this: Dialogue: 0,0:56:26.87,0:56:28.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How about just from love end? Dialogue: 0,0:56:28.86,0:56:31.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,from the closeness end? Dialogue: 0,0:56:31.45,0:56:34.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,from the intimacy end? Dialogue: 0,0:56:34.45,0:56:38.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When we forget just how much Dialogue: 0,0:56:38.61,0:56:44.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,this kind of thing damages \Ncommunion with the Lord. Dialogue: 0,0:56:44.24,0:56:58.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Listen, can I tell you this, \NDavid sinned with Bathsheba. Dialogue: 0,0:56:58.50,0:57:03.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Nine months later, the child was born. Dialogue: 0,0:57:03.92,0:57:07.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And that child died. Dialogue: 0,0:57:07.27,0:57:12.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So most people estimate that David Dialogue: 0,0:57:12.92,0:57:17.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,was unrepentant of the sexual immorality Dialogue: 0,0:57:17.41,0:57:19.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for somewhere in the neighborhood Dialogue: 0,0:57:19.26,0:57:21.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of nine months approximately. Dialogue: 0,0:57:21.88,0:57:24.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's a good guess. Dialogue: 0,0:57:24.62,0:57:28.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We know it was within the time \Nframe of this child being born. Dialogue: 0,0:57:28.87,0:57:32.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And so this judgment is \Nbasically handed down Dialogue: 0,0:57:32.11,0:57:34.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that the child is going to die. Dialogue: 0,0:57:34.32,0:57:36.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She gave birth. Dialogue: 0,0:57:36.46,0:57:40.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It seems in the flow of 2 Samuel Dialogue: 0,0:57:40.60,0:57:43.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that it happened fairly immediately. Dialogue: 0,0:57:43.60,0:57:46.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There's not record of other \Nthings happening there. Dialogue: 0,0:57:46.03,0:57:53.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So it may very well be right that \Nabout nine months went by. Dialogue: 0,0:57:53.07,0:57:59.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Listen, to those of you that \Nhave found Christ precious, Dialogue: 0,0:57:59.31,0:58:03.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and you love intimacy with Him, Dialogue: 0,0:58:03.97,0:58:07.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,David lost those nine months. Dialogue: 0,0:58:07.98,0:58:10.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What do I mean by that? Dialogue: 0,0:58:10.91,0:58:13.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I mean nine months that he did not grow Dialogue: 0,0:58:13.44,0:58:15.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in communion with the Lord. Dialogue: 0,0:58:15.38,0:58:17.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Nine months where he did not grow Dialogue: 0,0:58:17.14,0:58:18.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in intimacy with [the Lord]. Dialogue: 0,0:58:18.50,0:58:20.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They were wasted. Dialogue: 0,0:58:20.14,0:58:21.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You say, "How do you know?" Dialogue: 0,0:58:21.79,0:58:26.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because he tells us. Listen to this. Dialogue: 0,0:58:26.83,0:58:34.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In Psalm 51, where he's responding \Nafter the sin with Bathsheba, Dialogue: 0,0:58:34.83,0:58:37.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Let me hear joy and gladness; Dialogue: 0,0:58:37.13,0:58:41.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,let the bones that you \Nhave broken rejoice." Dialogue: 0,0:58:41.11,0:58:44.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He describes that \Nperiod of unrepentance Dialogue: 0,0:58:44.19,0:58:47.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as having broken bones. Dialogue: 0,0:58:47.19,0:58:58.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In Psalm 32:3, "When I kept silent - \Nin other words, sinned, Dialogue: 0,0:58:58.96,0:59:04.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,haven't confessed it, \Nhaven't come to the Lord - Dialogue: 0,0:59:04.04,0:59:08.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when I kept silent, my bones wasted away Dialogue: 0,0:59:08.10,0:59:14.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,through my groaning all day long." Dialogue: 0,0:59:14.84,0:59:20.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Mark 4:19, "The desires of other \Nthings enter in and choke the word, Dialogue: 0,0:59:20.10,0:59:22.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and it proves unfruitful." Dialogue: 0,0:59:22.25,0:59:25.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You know what happens when you \Nhave desires for other things, Dialogue: 0,0:59:25.76,0:59:28.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,like for a woman, or for a man, Dialogue: 0,0:59:28.00,0:59:31.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and you become consumed with \Nthose in an illegitimate way? Dialogue: 0,0:59:31.28,0:59:35.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They choke. They choke the Word. Dialogue: 0,0:59:35.13,0:59:37.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They choke communion with God. Dialogue: 0,0:59:37.56,0:59:39.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They cause the bones to break. Dialogue: 0,0:59:39.79,0:59:45.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They cause this kind of \Nbones wasting away, groaning. Dialogue: 0,0:59:45.47,0:59:49.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Look, if you don't value \Nintimacy with Christ, Dialogue: 0,0:59:49.16,0:59:51.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,just run out into a bunch of sexual sin; Dialogue: 0,0:59:51.36,0:59:53.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,just view pornography. Dialogue: 0,0:59:53.02,0:59:56.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you think you're going to have \Nsome of the sweetest times Dialogue: 0,0:59:56.16,1:00:00.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that you've ever experienced \Nin prayer after you do that, Dialogue: 0,1:00:00.65,1:00:05.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you're crazy. It's not going to happen. Dialogue: 0,1:00:05.46,1:00:14.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Can I tell you who takes flight \Nup to the mountain of God? Dialogue: 0,1:00:14.65,1:00:16.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Anybody know your Bibles? Dialogue: 0,1:00:16.54,1:00:23.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Anybody know Psalm 15 \Nor Psalm 24? Who is it? Dialogue: 0,1:00:23.28,1:00:25.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He that has clean hands and a pure heart. Dialogue: 0,1:00:25.28,1:00:27.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You spend your time defiling yourself, Dialogue: 0,1:00:27.55,1:00:32.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you will not walk in those \Nhigh places with the Lord. Dialogue: 0,1:00:32.12,1:00:36.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You will not be given access. Dialogue: 0,1:00:36.92,1:00:43.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm talking experientially. Dialogue: 0,1:00:43.26,1:00:48.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm talking manifestly experiencing Dialogue: 0,1:00:48.36,1:00:52.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the reality of God's presence; Dialogue: 0,1:00:52.06,1:00:54.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,knowing what it is to walk with Him Dialogue: 0,1:00:54.42,1:00:57.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and talk with Him and delight in Him. Dialogue: 0,1:00:57.42,1:01:02.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You will groan, and your bones will break, Dialogue: 0,1:01:02.05,1:01:06.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,before He'll let you \Nmount that holy mountain. Dialogue: 0,1:01:06.64,1:01:11.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You won't go there. You won't walk there. Dialogue: 0,1:01:11.48,1:01:15.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And one last one: \NWhen you forget, brethren, Dialogue: 0,1:01:15.37,1:01:23.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when you forget the agonies \Nof Christ for sexual sin. Dialogue: 0,1:01:23.59,1:01:28.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Listen guys, you ever \Ntempted by the computer? Dialogue: 0,1:01:28.51,1:01:35.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,As you're thinking about it, \Nbegin to picture in your mind. Dialogue: 0,1:01:35.43,1:01:39.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I read somewhere in my \NBible something like this: Dialogue: 0,1:01:39.75,1:01:42.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Titus 2:13, "Our great God \Nand Savior Jesus Christ, Dialogue: 0,1:01:42.99,1:01:47.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who gave Himself for us to \Nredeem us from all lawlessness Dialogue: 0,1:01:47.87,1:01:54.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and to purify for Himself a \Npeople for His own possession." Dialogue: 0,1:01:54.83,1:01:56.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,To purify. Dialogue: 0,1:01:56.69,1:02:02.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,To take that smut, and \Nthat dirt, out of your life. Dialogue: 0,1:02:02.99,1:02:07.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Scripture says, "He gave Himself." Dialogue: 0,1:02:07.08,1:02:14.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Listen, can you see Christ hanging there? Dialogue: 0,1:02:14.07,1:02:19.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Darkness is upon the land. Dialogue: 0,1:02:19.44,1:02:25.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Everyone has forsaken Him. Dialogue: 0,1:02:25.84,1:02:27.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,God has forsaken Him. Dialogue: 0,1:02:27.72,1:02:31.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The sun has forsaken Him. Dialogue: 0,1:02:31.02,1:02:33.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's dark. Dialogue: 0,1:02:33.60,1:02:39.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Can you imagine the groans \Nand the sighs of the Man of sorrows Dialogue: 0,1:02:39.33,1:02:49.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as He hangs upon that cross, \Nspecifically to purify you? Dialogue: 0,1:02:49.97,1:02:51.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What are you gonna do? Dialogue: 0,1:02:51.50,1:02:53.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You're gonna tread on that blood? Dialogue: 0,1:02:53.12,1:02:54.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You're gonna tread on that pain? Dialogue: 0,1:02:54.92,1:02:57.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You're gonna tread on that affliction? Dialogue: 0,1:02:57.45,1:03:02.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You're gonna say, "Well, it doesn't \Nreally matter. It's a small thing. Dialogue: 0,1:03:02.02,1:03:05.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's a light thing I'm about to do. Dialogue: 0,1:03:05.32,1:03:14.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm gonna just cheaply sin, \Nbecause Christ has paid for it?" Dialogue: 0,1:03:14.29,1:03:18.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You're just gonna trample that blood? Dialogue: 0,1:03:18.06,1:03:21.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You can imagine in your \Nmind Christ hanging there Dialogue: 0,1:03:21.52,1:03:30.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,between Heaven and Earth, groaning? Dialogue: 0,1:03:30.78,1:03:40.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You see, when the Christian \Nventures into the realm of sexual sin, Dialogue: 0,1:03:40.30,1:03:48.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,his or her thinking has totally \Ngone wrong. Totally gone wrong. Dialogue: 0,1:03:48.88,1:03:56.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is where our minds need to be. Dialogue: 0,1:03:56.88,1:04:01.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You know, it's hard when you \Nthink, you're walking along, Dialogue: 0,1:04:01.40,1:04:05.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's a disregard. It's a despising. Dialogue: 0,1:04:05.40,1:04:08.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Just remember this: "You despised Me." Dialogue: 0,1:04:08.36,1:04:18.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Remember God saying that through \NNathan to David? "You despised Me. Dialogue: 0,1:04:18.12,1:04:22.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You disregarded Me," \Nso says 1 Thessalonians 4. Dialogue: 0,1:04:22.74,1:04:26.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"You disregarded Me. You despised Me. Dialogue: 0,1:04:26.54,1:04:28.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You despised My Word. Dialogue: 0,1:04:28.100,1:04:35.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You have utterly scorned the LORD." Dialogue: 0,1:04:35.56,1:04:39.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Is that what you want to do, Christian? Dialogue: 0,1:04:39.32,1:04:41.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You that love the Lord, Dialogue: 0,1:04:41.31,1:04:43.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,do you want to scorn the Lord? Dialogue: 0,1:04:43.26,1:04:46.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Do you want to trample \Nthe blood of Christ? Dialogue: 0,1:04:46.06,1:04:49.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He who hung on the \Ncross to make you pure, Dialogue: 0,1:04:49.20,1:04:51.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,do you want to do that? Dialogue: 0,1:04:51.03,1:04:58.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Do you want to just wreck your \Ncommunion with the Lord? Dialogue: 0,1:04:58.33,1:05:04.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Brethren, these are things \Nwe need to think about. Dialogue: 0,1:05:04.53,1:05:07.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's a mind battle. Dialogue: 0,1:05:07.45,1:05:12.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's bringing your thoughts \Nin subjection to the Word. Dialogue: 0,1:05:12.45,1:05:20.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Arm yourself. Think on these things. Dialogue: 0,1:05:20.32,1:05:24.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Well, there you have it for tonight. Dialogue: 0,1:05:24.81,1:05:31.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Audience] You just made \Na reference to 1 Peter, Dialogue: 0,1:05:31.16,1:05:35.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,where you said, "Those of you \Nwho count Him as precious." Dialogue: 0,1:05:35.23,1:05:42.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Is it possible to be saved and \Nnot count Him as precious? Dialogue: 0,1:05:42.86,1:05:52.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Tim] No. Now, obviously, \Nour affection for Him Dialogue: 0,1:05:52.19,1:05:55.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,can increase and diminish. Dialogue: 0,1:05:55.19,1:06:00.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But I would just say this: Dialogue: 0,1:06:00.12,1:06:10.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The given New Covenant promise, just huge, Dialogue: 0,1:06:10.30,1:06:13.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is that He is going to put \NHis Spirit within us. Dialogue: 0,1:06:13.73,1:06:21.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The Spirit comes and works the \Nfruit of the Spirit in His people. Dialogue: 0,1:06:21.72,1:06:28.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The first description \Nof that fruit is love. Dialogue: 0,1:06:28.41,1:06:32.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The highest love is for God. For Christ. Dialogue: 0,1:06:32.45,1:06:36.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The Spirit of God works \Nthat in His people. Dialogue: 0,1:06:36.24,1:06:39.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I mean, you get the \Nreality of the parable Dialogue: 0,1:06:39.80,1:06:41.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that I brought up last week Dialogue: 0,1:06:41.36,1:06:43.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of the treasure hidden in the field. Dialogue: 0,1:06:43.38,1:06:46.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I mean, basically, the \Nreality of Christianity Dialogue: 0,1:06:46.45,1:06:49.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is discovering a treasure \Nthat is so precious to us, Dialogue: 0,1:06:49.45,1:06:51.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we're willing to go \Nsell everything to have it. Dialogue: 0,1:06:51.75,1:06:59.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now, that doesn't mean that as \Nwe progress through our Christian life, Dialogue: 0,1:06:59.40,1:07:04.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that from time to time, idols \Ndon't encroach and challenge that. Dialogue: 0,1:07:04.84,1:07:09.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But Jesus says that He disciplines, Dialogue: 0,1:07:09.81,1:07:12.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He chastens those whom He loves. Dialogue: 0,1:07:12.81,1:07:15.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The promise in the New Covenant is this: Dialogue: 0,1:07:15.84,1:07:18.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That He is going to \Ncleanse us from our idols. Dialogue: 0,1:07:18.42,1:07:26.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In other words, He is jealous \Nfor our love, for our affection. Dialogue: 0,1:07:26.04,1:07:29.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And when anything enters \Nin that challenges it, Dialogue: 0,1:07:29.48,1:07:32.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He's knocking it out of there. Dialogue: 0,1:07:32.48,1:07:36.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I mean, He is jealous for our love, Dialogue: 0,1:07:36.28,1:07:39.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and He's determined to have it. Dialogue: 0,1:07:39.28,1:07:44.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And His Spirit is working that within us. Dialogue: 0,1:07:44.48,1:07:50.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So, I would say it can \Nebb and it can flow. Dialogue: 0,1:07:50.56,1:07:57.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The very characteristic of a \NChristian given in Romans 8:28, Dialogue: 0,1:07:57.51,1:08:01.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is not only those that are called, \Nbut those that love God. Dialogue: 0,1:08:01.01,1:08:04.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I mean, that is a \Ndescription of the Christian. Dialogue: 0,1:08:04.71,1:08:07.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So no, that's impossible. Dialogue: 0,1:08:07.46,1:08:10.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You come across somebody that \Ndoesn't find Christ precious, Dialogue: 0,1:08:10.62,1:08:13.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you've just come across an unbeliever. Dialogue: 0,1:08:13.32,1:08:15.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now they may believe a \Nlot of things about Christ, Dialogue: 0,1:08:15.75,1:08:18.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but they're not a true believer. Dialogue: 0,1:08:18.00,1:08:19.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I mean, that's just the reality. Dialogue: 0,1:08:19.59,1:08:23.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That's one thing that, to the \Nsaved person, Christ is precious. Dialogue: 0,1:08:23.27,1:08:26.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I mean, if anything is \Ntrue about the Christian, Dialogue: 0,1:08:26.50,1:08:29.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Christ is altogether everything; Dialogue: 0,1:08:29.50,1:08:37.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,altogether lovely, altogether \Nworthy of being followed, Dialogue: 0,1:08:37.57,1:08:39.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of our total commitment. Dialogue: 0,1:08:39.96,1:08:46.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,One of the triggers that really \Nspirals the Christian downward Dialogue: 0,1:08:46.61,1:08:50.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is when their prayer life takes a hit. Dialogue: 0,1:08:50.52,1:08:58.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And, I've heard other men \Nsay this, and I feel it myself, Dialogue: 0,1:08:58.04,1:09:09.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that even more so than maybe \Nnot reading as much of the Word. Dialogue: 0,1:09:09.04,1:09:14.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But when the prayer life slackens, \Neven more so than Bible reading, Dialogue: 0,1:09:14.74,1:09:17.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,your spiritual life takes a major hit. Dialogue: 0,1:09:17.87,1:09:19.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I have found that to be true.