1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:02,000 This is my first trip, 2 00:00:02,000 --> 00:00:04,000 my first foreign trip as a first lady. 3 00:00:04,000 --> 00:00:06,000 Can you believe that? 4 00:00:06,000 --> 00:00:16,000 (Applause) 5 00:00:16,000 --> 00:00:19,000 And while this is not my first visit to the U.K., 6 00:00:19,000 --> 00:00:24,000 I have to say that I am glad that this is my first official visit. 7 00:00:24,000 --> 00:00:28,000 The special relationship between the United States and the U.K. 8 00:00:28,000 --> 00:00:33,000 is based not only on the relationship between governments, 9 00:00:33,000 --> 00:00:36,000 but the common language and the values that we share, 10 00:00:36,000 --> 00:00:40,000 and I'm reminded of that by watching you all today. 11 00:00:40,000 --> 00:00:44,000 During my visit I've been especially honored 12 00:00:44,000 --> 00:00:47,000 to meet some of Britain's most extraordinary women -- 13 00:00:47,000 --> 00:00:50,000 women who are paving the way for all of you. 14 00:00:50,000 --> 00:00:53,000 And I'm honored to meet you, 15 00:00:53,000 --> 00:00:59,000 the future leaders of Great Britain and this world. 16 00:00:59,000 --> 00:01:04,000 And although the circumstances of our lives may seem very distant, 17 00:01:04,000 --> 00:01:08,000 with me standing here as the First Lady of the United States of America, 18 00:01:08,000 --> 00:01:12,000 and you, just getting through school, 19 00:01:12,000 --> 00:01:16,000 I want you to know that we have very much in common. 20 00:01:16,000 --> 00:01:20,000 For nothing in my life's path 21 00:01:20,000 --> 00:01:22,000 would have predicted that I'd be standing here 22 00:01:22,000 --> 00:01:25,000 as the first African-American First Lady 23 00:01:25,000 --> 00:01:27,000 of the United States of America. 24 00:01:27,000 --> 00:01:32,000 There is nothing in my story that would land me here. 25 00:01:32,000 --> 00:01:35,000 I wasn't raised with wealth or resources 26 00:01:35,000 --> 00:01:39,000 or any social standing to speak of. 27 00:01:39,000 --> 00:01:43,000 I was raised on the South Side of Chicago. 28 00:01:43,000 --> 00:01:46,000 That's the real part of Chicago. 29 00:01:46,000 --> 00:01:49,000 And I was the product of a working-class community. 30 00:01:49,000 --> 00:01:53,000 My father was a city worker all of his life, 31 00:01:53,000 --> 00:01:55,000 and my mother was a stay-at-home mom. 32 00:01:55,000 --> 00:02:00,000 And she stayed at home to take care of me and my older brother. 33 00:02:00,000 --> 00:02:03,000 Neither of them attended university. 34 00:02:03,000 --> 00:02:06,000 My dad was diagnosed with multiple sclerosis 35 00:02:06,000 --> 00:02:08,000 in the prime of his life. 36 00:02:08,000 --> 00:02:11,000 But even as it got harder for him to walk 37 00:02:11,000 --> 00:02:13,000 and get dressed in the morning -- 38 00:02:13,000 --> 00:02:15,000 I saw him struggle more and more -- 39 00:02:15,000 --> 00:02:19,000 my father never complained about his struggle. 40 00:02:19,000 --> 00:02:21,000 He was grateful for what he had. 41 00:02:21,000 --> 00:02:26,000 He just woke up a little earlier and worked a little harder. 42 00:02:26,000 --> 00:02:29,000 And my brother and I were raised with all that you really need: 43 00:02:29,000 --> 00:02:32,000 love, strong values 44 00:02:32,000 --> 00:02:35,000 and a belief that with a good education 45 00:02:35,000 --> 00:02:37,000 and a whole lot of hard work, 46 00:02:37,000 --> 00:02:40,000 that there was nothing that we could not do. 47 00:02:40,000 --> 00:02:44,000 I am an example of what's possible 48 00:02:44,000 --> 00:02:48,000 when girls from the very beginning of their lives 49 00:02:48,000 --> 00:02:53,000 are loved and nurtured by the people around them. 50 00:02:53,000 --> 00:02:57,000 I was surrounded by extraordinary women in my life: 51 00:02:57,000 --> 00:03:02,000 grandmothers, teachers, aunts, cousins, neighbors, 52 00:03:02,000 --> 00:03:06,000 who taught me about quiet strength and dignity. 53 00:03:06,000 --> 00:03:11,000 And my mother, the most important role model in my life, 54 00:03:11,000 --> 00:03:13,000 who lives with us at the White House 55 00:03:13,000 --> 00:03:16,000 and helps to care for our two little daughters, 56 00:03:16,000 --> 00:03:18,000 Malia and Sasha. 57 00:03:18,000 --> 00:03:22,000 She's an active presence in their lives, as well as mine, 58 00:03:22,000 --> 00:03:24,000 and is instilling in them 59 00:03:24,000 --> 00:03:27,000 the same values that she taught me and my brother: 60 00:03:27,000 --> 00:03:30,000 things like compassion, and integrity, 61 00:03:30,000 --> 00:03:34,000 and confidence, and perseverance -- 62 00:03:34,000 --> 00:03:37,000 all of that wrapped up in an unconditional love 63 00:03:37,000 --> 00:03:40,000 that only a grandmother can give. 64 00:03:40,000 --> 00:03:44,000 I was also fortunate enough to be cherished and encouraged 65 00:03:44,000 --> 00:03:49,000 by some strong male role models as well, 66 00:03:49,000 --> 00:03:52,000 including my father, my brother, uncles and grandfathers. 67 00:03:52,000 --> 00:03:57,000 The men in my life taught me some important things, as well. 68 00:03:57,000 --> 00:04:00,000 They taught me about what a respectful relationship 69 00:04:00,000 --> 00:04:04,000 should look like between men and women. 70 00:04:04,000 --> 00:04:08,000 They taught me about what a strong marriage feels like: 71 00:04:08,000 --> 00:04:11,000 that it's built on faith and commitment 72 00:04:11,000 --> 00:04:15,000 and an admiration for each other's unique gifts. 73 00:04:15,000 --> 00:04:17,000 They taught me about what it means 74 00:04:17,000 --> 00:04:19,000 to be a father 75 00:04:19,000 --> 00:04:21,000 and to raise a family. 76 00:04:21,000 --> 00:04:23,000 And not only to invest in your own home 77 00:04:23,000 --> 00:04:28,000 but to reach out and help raise kids 78 00:04:28,000 --> 00:04:30,000 in the broader community. 79 00:04:30,000 --> 00:04:32,000 And these were the same qualities 80 00:04:32,000 --> 00:04:35,000 that I looked for in my own husband, 81 00:04:35,000 --> 00:04:37,000 Barack Obama. 82 00:04:38,000 --> 00:04:41,000 And when we first met, 83 00:04:41,000 --> 00:04:45,000 one of the things that I remember is that he took me out on a date. 84 00:04:45,000 --> 00:04:48,000 And his date was to go with him to a community meeting. 85 00:04:48,000 --> 00:04:50,000 (Laughter) 86 00:04:50,000 --> 00:04:52,000 I know, how romantic. 87 00:04:52,000 --> 00:04:55,000 (Laughter) 88 00:04:55,000 --> 00:04:57,000 But when we met, Barack was a community organizer. 89 00:04:57,000 --> 00:05:01,000 He worked, helping people to find jobs 90 00:05:01,000 --> 00:05:05,000 and to try to bring resources into struggling neighborhoods. 91 00:05:05,000 --> 00:05:07,000 As he talked to the residents in that community center, 92 00:05:07,000 --> 00:05:09,000 he talked about two concepts. 93 00:05:09,000 --> 00:05:15,000 He talked about "the world as it is" and "the world as it should be." 94 00:05:15,000 --> 00:05:19,000 And I talked about this throughout the entire campaign. 95 00:05:19,000 --> 00:05:21,000 What he said, that all too often, 96 00:05:21,000 --> 00:05:26,000 is that we accept the distance between those two ideas. 97 00:05:26,000 --> 00:05:30,000 And sometimes we settle for the world as it is, 98 00:05:30,000 --> 00:05:34,000 even when it doesn't reflect our values and aspirations. 99 00:05:34,000 --> 00:05:37,000 But Barack reminded us on that day, 100 00:05:37,000 --> 00:05:40,000 all of us in that room, that we all know 101 00:05:40,000 --> 00:05:44,000 what our world should look like. 102 00:05:44,000 --> 00:05:47,000 We know what fairness and justice and opportunity look like. 103 00:05:47,000 --> 00:05:49,000 We all know. 104 00:05:49,000 --> 00:05:51,000 And he urged the people in that meeting, 105 00:05:51,000 --> 00:05:53,000 in that community, 106 00:05:53,000 --> 00:05:56,000 to devote themselves to closing the gap 107 00:05:56,000 --> 00:05:58,000 between those two ideas, 108 00:05:58,000 --> 00:06:02,000 to work together to try to make the world as it is 109 00:06:02,000 --> 00:06:06,000 and the world as it should be, one and the same. 110 00:06:06,000 --> 00:06:09,000 And I think about that today because I am 111 00:06:09,000 --> 00:06:13,000 reminded and convinced that all of you in this school 112 00:06:13,000 --> 00:06:18,000 are very important parts of closing that gap. 113 00:06:18,000 --> 00:06:23,000 You are the women who will build the world as it should be. 114 00:06:23,000 --> 00:06:25,000 You're going to write the next chapter in history. 115 00:06:25,000 --> 00:06:29,000 Not just for yourselves, but for your generation 116 00:06:29,000 --> 00:06:32,000 and generations to come. 117 00:06:32,000 --> 00:06:34,000 And that's why getting a good education 118 00:06:34,000 --> 00:06:36,000 is so important. 119 00:06:36,000 --> 00:06:39,000 That's why all of this that you're going through -- 120 00:06:39,000 --> 00:06:43,000 the ups and the downs, the teachers that you love and the teachers that you don't -- 121 00:06:43,000 --> 00:06:46,000 why it's so important. 122 00:06:46,000 --> 00:06:49,000 Because communities and countries and ultimately the world 123 00:06:49,000 --> 00:06:54,000 are only as strong as the health of their women. 124 00:06:54,000 --> 00:06:56,000 And that's important to keep in mind. 125 00:06:56,000 --> 00:07:02,000 Part of that health includes an outstanding education. 126 00:07:02,000 --> 00:07:07,000 The difference between a struggling family and a healthy one 127 00:07:07,000 --> 00:07:10,000 is often the presence of an empowered woman 128 00:07:10,000 --> 00:07:13,000 or women at the center of that family. 129 00:07:13,000 --> 00:07:16,000 The difference between a broken community and a thriving one 130 00:07:16,000 --> 00:07:20,000 is often the healthy respect between men and women 131 00:07:20,000 --> 00:07:25,000 who appreciate the contributions each other makes to society. 132 00:07:25,000 --> 00:07:28,000 The difference between a languishing nation 133 00:07:28,000 --> 00:07:30,000 and one that will flourish 134 00:07:30,000 --> 00:07:34,000 is the recognition that we need equal access to education 135 00:07:34,000 --> 00:07:36,000 for both boys and girls. 136 00:07:36,000 --> 00:07:41,000 And this school, named after the U.K.'s first female doctor, 137 00:07:41,000 --> 00:07:47,000 and the surrounding buildings named for Mexican artist Frida Kahlo, 138 00:07:47,000 --> 00:07:49,000 Mary Seacole, 139 00:07:49,000 --> 00:07:53,000 the Jamaican nurse known as the "black Florence Nightingale," 140 00:07:53,000 --> 00:07:56,000 and the English author, Emily Bronte, 141 00:07:56,000 --> 00:08:00,000 honor women who fought sexism, racism and ignorance, 142 00:08:00,000 --> 00:08:05,000 to pursue their passions to feed their own souls. 143 00:08:05,000 --> 00:08:08,000 They allowed for no obstacles. 144 00:08:08,000 --> 00:08:12,000 As the sign said back there, "without limitations." 145 00:08:12,000 --> 00:08:14,000 They knew no other way to live 146 00:08:14,000 --> 00:08:17,000 than to follow their dreams. 147 00:08:17,000 --> 00:08:22,000 And having done so, these women 148 00:08:22,000 --> 00:08:24,000 moved many obstacles. 149 00:08:24,000 --> 00:08:26,000 And they opened many new doors 150 00:08:26,000 --> 00:08:29,000 for millions of female doctors and nurses 151 00:08:29,000 --> 00:08:32,000 and artists and authors, 152 00:08:32,000 --> 00:08:34,000 all of whom have followed them. 153 00:08:34,000 --> 00:08:37,000 And by getting a good education, 154 00:08:37,000 --> 00:08:41,000 you too can control your own destiny. 155 00:08:41,000 --> 00:08:44,000 Please remember that. 156 00:08:44,000 --> 00:08:48,000 If you want to know the reason why I'm standing here, 157 00:08:48,000 --> 00:08:51,000 it's because of education. 158 00:08:51,000 --> 00:08:55,000 I never cut class. Sorry, I don't know if anybody is cutting class. 159 00:08:55,000 --> 00:08:57,000 I never did it. 160 00:08:57,000 --> 00:08:59,000 I loved getting As. 161 00:08:59,000 --> 00:09:01,000 I liked being smart. 162 00:09:01,000 --> 00:09:05,000 I liked being on time. I liked getting my work done. 163 00:09:05,000 --> 00:09:10,000 I thought being smart was cooler than anything in the world. 164 00:09:10,000 --> 00:09:12,000 And you too, with these same values, 165 00:09:12,000 --> 00:09:14,000 can control your own destiny. 166 00:09:14,000 --> 00:09:17,000 You too can pave the way. 167 00:09:17,000 --> 00:09:19,000 You too can realize your dreams, 168 00:09:19,000 --> 00:09:23,000 and then your job is to reach back 169 00:09:23,000 --> 00:09:27,000 and to help someone just like you do the same thing. 170 00:09:27,000 --> 00:09:30,000 History proves that it doesn't matter 171 00:09:30,000 --> 00:09:32,000 whether you come from a council estate 172 00:09:32,000 --> 00:09:34,000 or a country estate. 173 00:09:34,000 --> 00:09:36,000 Your success will be determined 174 00:09:36,000 --> 00:09:39,000 by your own fortitude, 175 00:09:39,000 --> 00:09:43,000 your own confidence, your own individual hard work. 176 00:09:43,000 --> 00:09:47,000 That is true. That is the reality of the world that we live in. 177 00:09:47,000 --> 00:09:50,000 You now have control over your own destiny. 178 00:09:50,000 --> 00:09:55,000 And it won't be easy -- that's for sure. 179 00:09:55,000 --> 00:09:57,000 But you have everything you need. 180 00:09:57,000 --> 00:10:00,000 Everything you need to succeed, 181 00:10:00,000 --> 00:10:03,000 you already have, right here. 182 00:10:03,000 --> 00:10:07,000 My husband works in this big office. 183 00:10:07,000 --> 00:10:10,000 They call it the Oval Office. 184 00:10:10,000 --> 00:10:12,000 In the White House, there's the desk that he sits at -- 185 00:10:12,000 --> 00:10:15,000 it's called the Resolute desk. 186 00:10:15,000 --> 00:10:19,000 It was built by the timber of Her Majesty's Ship Resolute 187 00:10:19,000 --> 00:10:22,000 and given by Queen Victoria. 188 00:10:22,000 --> 00:10:27,000 It's an enduring symbol of the friendship between our two nations. 189 00:10:27,000 --> 00:10:29,000 And its name, Resolute, 190 00:10:29,000 --> 00:10:33,000 is a reminder of the strength of character that's required 191 00:10:33,000 --> 00:10:35,000 not only to lead a country, 192 00:10:35,000 --> 00:10:40,000 but to live a life of purpose, as well. 193 00:10:40,000 --> 00:10:44,000 And I hope in pursuing your dreams, you all remain resolute, 194 00:10:44,000 --> 00:10:47,000 that you go forward without limits, 195 00:10:47,000 --> 00:10:52,000 and that you use your talents -- because there are many; we've seen them; 196 00:10:52,000 --> 00:10:54,000 it's there -- 197 00:10:54,000 --> 00:10:58,000 that you use them to create the world as it should be. 198 00:10:58,000 --> 00:11:01,000 Because we are counting on you. 199 00:11:01,000 --> 00:11:03,000 We are counting on every single one of you 200 00:11:03,000 --> 00:11:06,000 to be the very best that you can be. 201 00:11:06,000 --> 00:11:08,000 Because the world is big. 202 00:11:08,000 --> 00:11:10,000 And it's full of challenges. 203 00:11:10,000 --> 00:11:14,000 And we need strong, smart, confident young women 204 00:11:14,000 --> 00:11:16,000 to stand up and take the reins. 205 00:11:16,000 --> 00:11:20,000 We know you can do it. We love you. Thank you so much. 206 00:11:20,000 --> 00:11:27,000 (Applause)