1 00:01:13,264 --> 00:01:14,774 Personally, 2 00:01:14,774 --> 00:01:16,984 I feel there are only a few 3 00:01:16,984 --> 00:01:17,784 The first one 4 00:01:17,784 --> 00:01:20,074 I can appreciate time 5 00:01:20,702 --> 00:01:22,022 I can appreciate time 6 00:01:22,268 --> 00:01:23,538 Then the second one 7 00:01:23,775 --> 00:01:26,135 I can please others more 8 00:01:26,277 --> 00:01:27,927 Especially to parents 9 00:01:28,518 --> 00:01:30,298 In my community 10 00:01:31,507 --> 00:01:33,047 I see that 11 00:01:33,486 --> 00:01:35,656 Among fellow members of the community 12 00:01:35,656 --> 00:01:38,674 They are more open to each other 13 00:01:39,287 --> 00:01:41,857 So, between one community 14 00:01:41,857 --> 00:01:43,637 with other communities 15 00:01:43,637 --> 00:01:46,377 They are more open to each other 16 00:01:48,028 --> 00:01:51,108 Second, they are also more sensitive 17 00:01:51,108 --> 00:01:52,498 More respect for each other 18 00:01:53,040 --> 00:01:55,650 Both from men to women 19 00:01:55,650 --> 00:01:57,300 And women to men 20 00:01:58,915 --> 00:02:00,435 It feels like the same 21 00:02:00,435 --> 00:02:01,805 Nothing is different 22 00:02:01,805 --> 00:02:03,545 So, respect each other 23 00:02:04,487 --> 00:02:06,487 In the community itself 24 00:02:06,487 --> 00:02:08,247 That is the change 25 00:02:08,247 --> 00:02:10,007 We take one another 26 00:02:10,007 --> 00:02:10,917 Become an alarm 27 00:02:10,917 --> 00:02:12,657 or a reminder for others 28 00:02:12,657 --> 00:02:13,797 If there is an error 29 00:02:13,797 --> 00:02:15,807 Or misunderstanding in the community 30 00:02:16,288 --> 00:02:19,188 Or turn from what we learned 31 00:02:19,188 --> 00:02:20,568 Like positive values 32 00:02:20,568 --> 00:02:21,818 In our lives 33 00:02:21,818 --> 00:02:23,438 We are from one another 34 00:02:23,438 --> 00:02:24,608 Remind each other 35 00:02:25,259 --> 00:02:26,009 Then 36 00:02:26,087 --> 00:02:27,817 there are certainly many obstacles 37 00:02:27,817 --> 00:02:29,807 And the challenges we will face 38 00:02:29,807 --> 00:02:31,567 And especially myself 39 00:02:31,567 --> 00:02:32,807 As the leader 40 00:02:33,492 --> 00:02:34,982 Where should I continue 41 00:02:34,982 --> 00:02:36,552 Give a good example 42 00:02:36,552 --> 00:02:38,172 For its own constraints, namely 43 00:02:38,172 --> 00:02:40,812 Most come from within me 44 00:02:41,309 --> 00:02:44,569 I sometimes can't control myself 45 00:02:44,812 --> 00:02:46,652 I can't sometimes be 46 00:02:46,652 --> 00:02:48,292 good examples for friends 47 00:02:48,292 --> 00:02:49,852 But there I continued to study 48 00:02:49,964 --> 00:02:51,854 And I keep reminding friends 49 00:02:51,854 --> 00:02:53,204 For us together 50 00:02:53,547 --> 00:02:56,677 Achieving something good 51 00:02:56,677 --> 00:02:57,837 In our lives 52 00:02:57,837 --> 00:02:59,417 We must continue together 53 00:02:59,417 --> 00:03:00,847 We must remind each other 54 00:03:00,847 --> 00:03:02,337 Between one another 55 00:03:02,536 --> 00:03:03,346 First time 56 00:03:03,786 --> 00:03:08,356 I am involved in the LLB (Laki - laki Baru) community 57 00:03:08,356 --> 00:03:10,356 This New Men's Movement 58 00:03:11,322 --> 00:03:15,112 From church youth 59 00:03:16,800 --> 00:03:19,120 Incidentally at that time LLB 60 00:03:19,120 --> 00:03:22,720 Working directly with church youth 61 00:03:23,320 --> 00:03:26,350 And communities are formed 62 00:03:27,343 --> 00:03:30,193 In the youth of the church 63 00:03:30,193 --> 00:03:32,373 I am also involved in it 64 00:03:32,621 --> 00:03:33,991 Which is the background 65 00:03:33,991 --> 00:03:35,021 Why do I have to 66 00:03:35,021 --> 00:03:36,811 involved in it 67 00:03:37,613 --> 00:03:38,623 Mindset 68 00:03:39,353 --> 00:03:42,883 About the purpose of the LLB itself 69 00:03:43,161 --> 00:03:46,311 That is about gender equality 70 00:03:46,599 --> 00:03:48,669 And violence against women 71 00:03:49,370 --> 00:03:51,210 More specifically 72 00:03:53,360 --> 00:03:56,930 I am interested in gender itself 73 00:03:57,351 --> 00:03:59,481 Because in my mind 74 00:03:59,481 --> 00:04:00,861 Gender is actually 75 00:04:00,861 --> 00:04:02,881 An act of crime 76 00:04:04,129 --> 00:04:04,779 And 77 00:04:07,107 --> 00:04:08,127 Apparently 78 00:04:09,130 --> 00:04:12,860 After being in this community 79 00:04:13,730 --> 00:04:18,390 The mindset that is in my mind 80 00:04:18,390 --> 00:04:19,899 That is still wrong 81 00:04:20,870 --> 00:04:22,750 New Men's Movement 82 00:04:22,750 --> 00:04:24,380 In a community 83 00:04:25,362 --> 00:04:27,742 Occurs in Mata Air Village 84 00:04:27,742 --> 00:04:29,822 Organized by the CIS 85 00:04:30,370 --> 00:04:32,400 Very useful for 86 00:04:33,410 --> 00:04:34,887 Not only for the church 87 00:04:34,887 --> 00:04:36,957 But it also has an impact on society 88 00:04:36,957 --> 00:04:39,027 Especially in Mata Air Village 89 00:04:39,521 --> 00:04:42,671 We feel helped by this movement 90 00:04:42,671 --> 00:04:44,741 Because at least 91 00:04:45,261 --> 00:04:47,281 There are paradigm changes 92 00:04:47,417 --> 00:04:49,697 Changing mindsets 93 00:04:49,795 --> 00:04:52,565 From the youth 94 00:04:53,049 --> 00:04:54,059 Parents 95 00:04:54,059 --> 00:04:56,069 Problem living side by side 96 00:04:56,069 --> 00:04:58,819 With his wife and children 97 00:04:59,538 --> 00:05:02,388 Because that is what happens in society 98 00:05:02,542 --> 00:05:04,292 And also to the church 99 00:05:04,553 --> 00:05:05,563 Specifically 100 00:05:06,265 --> 00:05:08,425 This New Men's Movement 101 00:05:09,254 --> 00:05:11,064 in this region 102 00:05:11,693 --> 00:05:12,973 Especially young people 103 00:05:12,973 --> 00:05:14,223 Who follows it 104 00:05:14,556 --> 00:05:16,396 He has a positive impact 105 00:05:17,251 --> 00:05:18,591 In the church specifically 106 00:05:18,591 --> 00:05:21,391 They have already begun to show 107 00:05:22,236 --> 00:05:23,286 Who are they 108 00:05:24,057 --> 00:05:26,427 Young people who think positively 109 00:05:27,007 --> 00:05:28,567 But also young people 110 00:05:28,567 --> 00:05:29,787 Not only 111 00:05:30,545 --> 00:05:31,695 Keep quiet 112 00:05:31,695 --> 00:05:33,455 But has a role 113 00:05:34,453 --> 00:05:36,183 In their particular church 114 00:05:36,835 --> 00:05:38,375 When given space 115 00:05:38,753 --> 00:05:41,043 They work responsibly 116 00:05:41,547 --> 00:05:44,307 There are new creations 117 00:05:44,307 --> 00:05:46,827 What they met 118 00:05:46,827 --> 00:05:49,067 Even they provide solutions 119 00:05:49,067 --> 00:05:50,927 In a problem 120 00:05:51,301 --> 00:05:52,561 I am personally 121 00:05:52,561 --> 00:05:54,421 As a priest in this place 122 00:05:54,766 --> 00:05:56,076 Feeling helped 123 00:05:56,561 --> 00:05:57,321 Why 124 00:05:57,760 --> 00:05:59,790 Because it's almost mostly 125 00:05:59,790 --> 00:06:01,080 Youth 126 00:06:01,551 --> 00:06:03,731 Feeling that they are no longer 127 00:06:04,271 --> 00:06:07,761 Give responsibility, then they act 128 00:06:08,076 --> 00:06:11,056 But they have started to have 129 00:06:12,819 --> 00:06:15,139 Sort of their past work 130 00:06:15,629 --> 00:06:17,899 Start doing activities 131 00:06:18,369 --> 00:06:20,479 In church life 132 00:06:20,891 --> 00:06:22,661 But also society 133 00:06:27,387 --> 00:06:28,657 About how 134 00:06:29,194 --> 00:06:29,894 Difficult 135 00:06:30,509 --> 00:06:31,269 Difficult 136 00:06:31,385 --> 00:06:32,115 Sad 137 00:06:32,156 --> 00:06:32,856 sad 138 00:06:32,982 --> 00:06:33,702 Odd 139 00:06:33,812 --> 00:06:34,512 Odd 140 00:06:37,616 --> 00:06:38,396 Worry 141 00:06:38,639 --> 00:06:39,409 Worry 142 00:06:45,089 --> 00:06:48,029 Means that communication is important 143 00:07:00,896 --> 00:07:04,506 Here it's said communication is important 144 00:07:04,506 --> 00:07:06,066 In building relationships 145 00:07:15,134 --> 00:07:17,154 My biggest challenge is 146 00:07:17,154 --> 00:07:18,904 Comes from within myself 147 00:07:19,408 --> 00:07:20,958 And also the closest people 148 00:07:21,435 --> 00:07:23,155 Where do I invite people 149 00:07:23,155 --> 00:07:24,395 Around me 150 00:07:24,395 --> 00:07:25,645 Even people 151 00:07:25,645 --> 00:07:26,555 Don't know me 152 00:07:26,555 --> 00:07:28,955 For them don't do violence 153 00:07:29,055 --> 00:07:31,285 But at least 154 00:07:31,285 --> 00:07:32,935 We have great hope 155 00:07:33,439 --> 00:07:35,389 As a woman 156 00:07:35,670 --> 00:07:38,880 We don't want more than men 157 00:07:38,880 --> 00:07:41,260 But we want to be the same as men 158 00:07:41,935 --> 00:07:43,245 We don't want to 159 00:07:43,245 --> 00:07:44,565 Higher than men 160 00:07:44,565 --> 00:07:46,695 But we want to be appreciated 161 00:07:48,413 --> 00:07:50,303 I hope in the future 162 00:07:51,687 --> 00:07:52,897 This movement 163 00:07:53,424 --> 00:07:55,694 can be maintained continuously 164 00:07:56,168 --> 00:07:58,668 Then don't just be limited to the community 165 00:07:58,922 --> 00:08:01,192 But if there can be programs 166 00:08:01,192 --> 00:08:03,442 That touches up outside the community 167 00:08:04,171 --> 00:08:05,951 With help 168 00:08:05,951 --> 00:08:08,191 From members of the community 169 00:08:08,191 --> 00:08:10,121 It certainly can strengthen information 170 00:08:10,438 --> 00:08:12,198 Keep strengthening 171 00:08:13,924 --> 00:08:16,004 Actions which is 172 00:08:17,179 --> 00:08:19,449 Characterizing this LLB 173 00:08:19,915 --> 00:08:21,205 I hope 174 00:08:21,205 --> 00:08:23,335 That not only in the church 175 00:08:23,945 --> 00:08:25,955 But they have more access 176 00:08:25,955 --> 00:08:26,965 To the community 177 00:08:27,148 --> 00:08:29,329 Especially us in the Mata Air Village, right? 178 00:08:29,329 --> 00:08:31,859 There are several churches 179 00:08:32,389 --> 00:08:33,549 Not only ... 180 00:08:33,549 --> 00:08:34,719 But there is Catholicism 181 00:08:35,149 --> 00:08:36,299 There is a GBI 182 00:08:37,942 --> 00:08:40,712 This group must have more access 183 00:08:40,712 --> 00:08:41,972 For that 184 00:08:42,158 --> 00:08:44,308 So not only 185 00:08:44,677 --> 00:08:47,177 Here in the village ... 186 00:08:47,177 --> 00:08:48,457 Desa Mata Air 187 00:08:48,457 --> 00:08:50,717 But overall to other hamlets 188 00:08:51,144 --> 00:08:55,144 The embryo starts from the church 189 00:08:55,144 --> 00:08:56,704 Not questioned 190 00:08:56,942 --> 00:08:58,772 But they must access 191 00:08:58,952 --> 00:09:00,102 Must jump 192 00:09:00,432 --> 00:09:02,172 In the midst of the community 193 00:09:02,172 --> 00:09:04,372 So that this community develops forward 194 00:09:04,938 --> 00:09:06,518 And don't keep quiet 195 00:09:07,198 --> 00:09:09,668 I have one hope 196 00:09:10,180 --> 00:09:11,200 I hope so 197 00:09:11,650 --> 00:09:12,930 I hope so 198 00:09:12,930 --> 00:09:14,950 communities that I have built 199 00:09:15,186 --> 00:09:16,806 We have built it together 200 00:09:16,806 --> 00:09:18,216 Keep standing, stay strong 201 00:09:18,444 --> 00:09:20,454 We want to stay together 202 00:09:20,454 --> 00:09:22,224 To keep fighting 203 00:09:22,440 --> 00:09:26,000 To keep voicing 204 00:09:26,000 --> 00:09:27,970 Stop violence against women 205 00:09:27,970 --> 00:09:29,370 Wherever we are 206 00:09:29,666 --> 00:09:31,466 I also hope that 207 00:09:31,466 --> 00:09:33,466 Other friends from other regions 208 00:09:33,941 --> 00:09:35,201 Good friends of SIO 209 00:09:35,201 --> 00:09:36,821 Or other communities 210 00:09:36,947 --> 00:09:38,557 Let us support one another 211 00:09:38,837 --> 00:09:41,097 We motivate each other for 212 00:09:41,097 --> 00:09:42,997 in the same destination 213 00:09:43,471 --> 00:09:45,991 So that we speak the same thing 214 00:09:46,447 --> 00:09:47,577 And I believe that 215 00:09:47,717 --> 00:09:49,147 When we move 216 00:09:49,147 --> 00:09:50,487 For something good 217 00:09:50,487 --> 00:09:52,497 Then that will come true 218 00:09:52,956 --> 00:09:54,986 Then my last hope is 219 00:09:54,986 --> 00:09:56,996 I hope to friends from CIS 220 00:09:57,595 --> 00:09:59,005 More specifically 221 00:09:59,005 --> 00:10:01,475 which handles this New Male program 222 00:10:01,728 --> 00:10:04,418 To always give us motivation 223 00:10:04,716 --> 00:10:06,656 Always give us support 224 00:10:06,975 --> 00:10:08,995 In the future we try 225 00:10:08,995 --> 00:10:10,645 Better 226 00:10:10,970 --> 00:10:12,220 Maybe that's all 227 00:10:12,468 --> 00:10:14,418 I have a poem 228 00:10:14,418 --> 00:10:18,248 For this New Men's movement 229 00:10:18,474 --> 00:10:19,314 That is this 230 00:10:19,924 --> 00:10:21,244 Go to the market to buy fish 231 00:10:21,524 --> 00:10:22,924 Don't forget to buy basil 232 00:10:25,015 --> 00:10:26,295 Life without violence 233 00:10:26,783 --> 00:10:28,553 Is a real man 234 00:10:29,063 --> 00:10:30,483 Thank you