0:01:13.264,0:01:14.774 Personally, 0:01:14.774,0:01:16.984 I feel there are only a few 0:01:16.984,0:01:17.784 The first one 0:01:17.784,0:01:20.074 I can appreciate time 0:01:20.702,0:01:22.022 I can appreciate time 0:01:22.268,0:01:23.538 Then the second one 0:01:23.775,0:01:26.135 I can please others more 0:01:26.277,0:01:27.927 Especially to parents 0:01:28.518,0:01:30.298 In my community 0:01:31.507,0:01:33.047 I see that 0:01:33.486,0:01:35.656 Among fellow members of the community 0:01:35.656,0:01:38.674 They are more open to each other 0:01:39.287,0:01:41.857 So, between one community 0:01:41.857,0:01:43.637 with other communities 0:01:43.637,0:01:46.377 They are more open to each other 0:01:48.028,0:01:51.108 Second, they are also more sensitive 0:01:51.108,0:01:52.498 More respect for each other 0:01:53.040,0:01:55.650 Both from men to women 0:01:55.650,0:01:57.300 And women to men 0:01:58.915,0:02:00.435 It feels like the same 0:02:00.435,0:02:01.805 Nothing is different 0:02:01.805,0:02:03.545 So, respect each other 0:02:04.487,0:02:06.487 In the community itself 0:02:06.487,0:02:08.247 That is the change 0:02:08.247,0:02:10.007 We take one another 0:02:10.007,0:02:10.917 Become an alarm 0:02:10.917,0:02:12.657 or a reminder for others 0:02:12.657,0:02:13.797 If there is an error 0:02:13.797,0:02:15.807 Or misunderstanding in the community 0:02:16.288,0:02:19.188 Or turn from what we learned 0:02:19.188,0:02:20.568 Like positive values 0:02:20.568,0:02:21.818 In our lives 0:02:21.818,0:02:23.438 We are from one another 0:02:23.438,0:02:24.608 Remind each other 0:02:25.259,0:02:26.009 Then 0:02:26.087,0:02:27.817 there are certainly many obstacles 0:02:27.817,0:02:29.807 And the challenges we will face 0:02:29.807,0:02:31.567 And especially myself 0:02:31.567,0:02:32.807 As the leader 0:02:33.492,0:02:34.982 Where should I continue 0:02:34.982,0:02:36.552 Give a good example 0:02:36.552,0:02:38.172 For its own constraints, namely 0:02:38.172,0:02:40.812 Most come from within me 0:02:41.309,0:02:44.569 I sometimes can't control myself 0:02:44.812,0:02:46.652 I can't sometimes be 0:02:46.652,0:02:48.292 good examples for friends 0:02:48.292,0:02:49.852 But there I continued to study 0:02:49.964,0:02:51.854 And I keep reminding friends 0:02:51.854,0:02:53.204 For us together 0:02:53.547,0:02:56.677 Achieving something good 0:02:56.677,0:02:57.837 In our lives 0:02:57.837,0:02:59.417 We must continue together 0:02:59.417,0:03:00.847 We must remind each other 0:03:00.847,0:03:02.337 Between one another 0:03:02.536,0:03:03.346 First time 0:03:03.786,0:03:08.356 I am involved in the LLB (Laki - laki Baru) community 0:03:08.356,0:03:10.356 This New Men's Movement 0:03:11.322,0:03:15.112 From church youth 0:03:16.800,0:03:19.120 Incidentally at that time LLB 0:03:19.120,0:03:22.720 Working directly with church youth 0:03:23.320,0:03:26.350 And communities are formed 0:03:27.343,0:03:30.193 In the youth of the church 0:03:30.193,0:03:32.373 I am also involved in it 0:03:32.621,0:03:33.991 Which is the background 0:03:33.991,0:03:35.021 Why do I have to 0:03:35.021,0:03:36.811 involved in it 0:03:37.613,0:03:38.623 Mindset 0:03:39.353,0:03:42.883 About the purpose of the LLB itself 0:03:43.161,0:03:46.311 That is about gender equality 0:03:46.599,0:03:48.669 And violence against women 0:03:49.370,0:03:51.210 More specifically 0:03:53.360,0:03:56.930 I am interested in gender itself 0:03:57.351,0:03:59.481 Because in my mind 0:03:59.481,0:04:00.861 Gender is actually 0:04:00.861,0:04:02.881 An act of crime 0:04:04.129,0:04:04.779 And 0:04:07.107,0:04:08.127 Apparently 0:04:09.130,0:04:12.860 After being in this community 0:04:13.730,0:04:18.390 The mindset that is in my mind 0:04:18.390,0:04:19.899 That is still wrong 0:04:20.870,0:04:22.750 New Men's Movement 0:04:22.750,0:04:24.380 In a community 0:04:25.362,0:04:27.742 Occurs in Mata Air Village 0:04:27.742,0:04:29.822 Organized by the CIS 0:04:30.370,0:04:32.400 Very useful for 0:04:33.410,0:04:34.887 Not only for the church 0:04:34.887,0:04:36.957 But it also has an impact on society 0:04:36.957,0:04:39.027 Especially in Mata Air Village 0:04:39.521,0:04:42.671 We feel helped by this movement 0:04:42.671,0:04:44.741 Because at least 0:04:45.261,0:04:47.281 There are paradigm changes 0:04:47.417,0:04:49.697 Changing mindsets 0:04:49.795,0:04:52.565 From the youth 0:04:53.049,0:04:54.059 Parents 0:04:54.059,0:04:56.069 Problem living side by side 0:04:56.069,0:04:58.819 With his wife and children 0:04:59.538,0:05:02.388 Because that is what happens in society 0:05:02.542,0:05:04.292 And also to the church 0:05:04.553,0:05:05.563 Specifically 0:05:06.265,0:05:08.425 This New Men's Movement 0:05:09.254,0:05:11.064 in this region 0:05:11.693,0:05:12.973 Especially young people 0:05:12.973,0:05:14.223 Who follows it 0:05:14.556,0:05:16.396 He has a positive impact 0:05:17.251,0:05:18.591 In the church specifically 0:05:18.591,0:05:21.391 They have already begun to show 0:05:22.236,0:05:23.286 Who are they 0:05:24.057,0:05:26.427 Young people who think positively 0:05:27.007,0:05:28.567 But also young people 0:05:28.567,0:05:29.787 Not only 0:05:30.545,0:05:31.695 Keep quiet 0:05:31.695,0:05:33.455 But has a role 0:05:34.453,0:05:36.183 In their particular church 0:05:36.835,0:05:38.375 When given space 0:05:38.753,0:05:41.043 They work responsibly 0:05:41.547,0:05:44.307 There are new creations 0:05:44.307,0:05:46.827 What they met 0:05:46.827,0:05:49.067 Even they provide solutions 0:05:49.067,0:05:50.927 In a problem 0:05:51.301,0:05:52.561 I am personally 0:05:52.561,0:05:54.421 As a priest in this place 0:05:54.766,0:05:56.076 Feeling helped 0:05:56.561,0:05:57.321 Why 0:05:57.760,0:05:59.790 Because it's almost mostly 0:05:59.790,0:06:01.080 Youth 0:06:01.551,0:06:03.731 Feeling that they are no longer 0:06:04.271,0:06:07.761 Give responsibility, then they act 0:06:08.076,0:06:11.056 But they have started to have 0:06:12.819,0:06:15.139 Sort of their past work 0:06:15.629,0:06:17.899 Start doing activities 0:06:18.369,0:06:20.479 In church life 0:06:20.891,0:06:22.661 But also society 0:06:27.387,0:06:28.657 About how 0:06:29.194,0:06:29.894 Difficult 0:06:30.509,0:06:31.269 Difficult 0:06:31.385,0:06:32.115 Sad 0:06:32.156,0:06:32.856 sad 0:06:32.982,0:06:33.702 Odd 0:06:33.812,0:06:34.512 Odd 0:06:37.616,0:06:38.396 Worry 0:06:38.639,0:06:39.409 Worry 0:06:45.089,0:06:48.029 Means that communication is important 0:07:00.896,0:07:04.506 Here it's said communication is important 0:07:04.506,0:07:06.066 In building relationships 0:07:15.134,0:07:17.154 My biggest challenge is 0:07:17.154,0:07:18.904 Comes from within myself 0:07:19.408,0:07:20.958 And also the closest people 0:07:21.435,0:07:23.155 Where do I invite people 0:07:23.155,0:07:24.395 Around me 0:07:24.395,0:07:25.645 Even people 0:07:25.645,0:07:26.555 Don't know me 0:07:26.555,0:07:28.955 For them don't do violence 0:07:29.055,0:07:31.285 But at least 0:07:31.285,0:07:32.935 We have great hope 0:07:33.439,0:07:35.389 As a woman 0:07:35.670,0:07:38.880 We don't want more than men 0:07:38.880,0:07:41.260 But we want to be the same as men 0:07:41.935,0:07:43.245 We don't want to 0:07:43.245,0:07:44.565 Higher than men 0:07:44.565,0:07:46.695 But we want to be appreciated 0:07:48.413,0:07:50.303 I hope in the future 0:07:51.687,0:07:52.897 This movement 0:07:53.424,0:07:55.694 can be maintained continuously 0:07:56.168,0:07:58.668 Then don't just be limited to the community 0:07:58.922,0:08:01.192 But if there can be programs 0:08:01.192,0:08:03.442 That touches up outside the community 0:08:04.171,0:08:05.951 With help 0:08:05.951,0:08:08.191 From members of the community 0:08:08.191,0:08:10.121 It certainly can strengthen information 0:08:10.438,0:08:12.198 Keep strengthening 0:08:13.924,0:08:16.004 Actions which is 0:08:17.179,0:08:19.449 Characterizing this LLB 0:08:19.915,0:08:21.205 I hope 0:08:21.205,0:08:23.335 That not only in the church 0:08:23.945,0:08:25.955 But they have more access 0:08:25.955,0:08:26.965 To the community 0:08:27.148,0:08:29.329 Especially us in the Mata Air Village, right? 0:08:29.329,0:08:31.859 There are several churches 0:08:32.389,0:08:33.549 Not only ... 0:08:33.549,0:08:34.719 But there is Catholicism 0:08:35.149,0:08:36.299 There is a GBI 0:08:37.942,0:08:40.712 This group must have more access 0:08:40.712,0:08:41.972 For that 0:08:42.158,0:08:44.308 So not only 0:08:44.677,0:08:47.177 Here in the village ... 0:08:47.177,0:08:48.457 Desa Mata Air 0:08:48.457,0:08:50.717 But overall to other hamlets 0:08:51.144,0:08:55.144 The embryo starts from the church 0:08:55.144,0:08:56.704 Not questioned 0:08:56.942,0:08:58.772 But they must access 0:08:58.952,0:09:00.102 Must jump 0:09:00.432,0:09:02.172 In the midst of the community 0:09:02.172,0:09:04.372 So that this community develops forward 0:09:04.938,0:09:06.518 And don't keep quiet 0:09:07.198,0:09:09.668 I have one hope 0:09:10.180,0:09:11.200 I hope so 0:09:11.650,0:09:12.930 I hope so 0:09:12.930,0:09:14.950 communities that I have built 0:09:15.186,0:09:16.806 We have built it together 0:09:16.806,0:09:18.216 Keep standing, stay strong 0:09:18.444,0:09:20.454 We want to stay together 0:09:20.454,0:09:22.224 To keep fighting 0:09:22.440,0:09:26.000 To keep voicing 0:09:26.000,0:09:27.970 Stop violence against women 0:09:27.970,0:09:29.370 Wherever we are 0:09:29.666,0:09:31.466 I also hope that 0:09:31.466,0:09:33.466 Other friends from other regions 0:09:33.941,0:09:35.201 Good friends of SIO 0:09:35.201,0:09:36.821 Or other communities 0:09:36.947,0:09:38.557 Let us support one another 0:09:38.837,0:09:41.097 We motivate each other for 0:09:41.097,0:09:42.997 in the same destination 0:09:43.471,0:09:45.991 So that we speak the same thing 0:09:46.447,0:09:47.577 And I believe that 0:09:47.717,0:09:49.147 When we move 0:09:49.147,0:09:50.487 For something good 0:09:50.487,0:09:52.497 Then that will come true 0:09:52.956,0:09:54.986 Then my last hope is 0:09:54.986,0:09:56.996 I hope to friends from CIS 0:09:57.595,0:09:59.005 More specifically 0:09:59.005,0:10:01.475 which handles this New Male program 0:10:01.728,0:10:04.418 To always give us motivation 0:10:04.716,0:10:06.656 Always give us support 0:10:06.975,0:10:08.995 In the future we try 0:10:08.995,0:10:10.645 Better 0:10:10.970,0:10:12.220 Maybe that's all 0:10:12.468,0:10:14.418 I have a poem 0:10:14.418,0:10:18.248 For this New Men's movement 0:10:18.474,0:10:19.314 That is this 0:10:19.924,0:10:21.244 Go to the market to buy fish 0:10:21.524,0:10:22.924 Don't forget to buy basil 0:10:25.015,0:10:26.295 Life without violence 0:10:26.783,0:10:28.553 Is a real man 0:10:29.063,0:10:30.483 Thank you