[Script Info] Title: [Events] Format: Layer, Start, End, Style, Name, MarginL, MarginR, MarginV, Effect, Text Dialogue: 0,0:00:06.69,0:00:09.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What does being\Na "young carer" mean? Dialogue: 0,0:00:10.08,0:00:12.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When someone we love\Nstarts feeling unwell Dialogue: 0,0:00:13.22,0:00:16.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,all the attention goes to that person,\Nto his or her needs. Dialogue: 0,0:00:17.19,0:00:19.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But what happens if that someone Dialogue: 0,0:00:20.12,0:00:23.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is your mum or your dad? Dialogue: 0,0:00:24.57,0:00:30.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What happens to you\Nif you are still a kid or a teenager Dialogue: 0,0:00:30.21,0:00:32.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when your parents\Nstart becoming unwell? Dialogue: 0,0:00:32.88,0:00:35.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When I was a teen\NI didn't have the slightest idea Dialogue: 0,0:00:35.83,0:00:37.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I was a "young carer". Dialogue: 0,0:00:37.51,0:00:41.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Like everyone else I went to school,\NI had fun with my friends. Dialogue: 0,0:00:41.92,0:00:45.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But what lays behind these pictures,\Nthat we don't see? Dialogue: 0,0:00:46.65,0:00:49.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Before telling you\Nabout the hidden iceberg Dialogue: 0,0:00:50.69,0:00:55.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I want to take a step back,\Ngo back to the start. Dialogue: 0,0:00:55.49,0:00:58.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If I'd ask you what has changed\Nand what has stayed the same, Dialogue: 0,0:01:00.04,0:01:03.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you'd probably tell me, apart from my age,\Nthat I still love dogs Dialogue: 0,0:01:03.56,0:01:05.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I've changed my haircut. Dialogue: 0,0:01:06.04,0:01:08.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But what stays invisible\Nin those pictures? Dialogue: 0,0:01:08.96,0:01:12.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What took me\Nfrom the child you see in the center Dialogue: 0,0:01:13.08,0:01:14.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to the adult I am today, Dialogue: 0,0:01:14.88,0:01:17.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,passing through the adolescent me\Nyou see on the left? Dialogue: 0,0:01:18.97,0:01:22.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Suddenly a tsunami\Nhit my family. Dialogue: 0,0:01:22.48,0:01:26.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,A tsunami that has been growing\Nprogressively, until devastating us. Dialogue: 0,0:01:26.66,0:01:29.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,A tsunami called health problem. Dialogue: 0,0:01:29.63,0:01:32.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And when it hits one or both\Nof your parents Dialogue: 0,0:01:32.62,0:01:34.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and you are still a child\Nor an adolescent Dialogue: 0,0:01:34.84,0:01:36.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you rely on them Dialogue: 0,0:01:36.64,0:01:38.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it becomes really hard. Dialogue: 0,0:01:40.57,0:01:43.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And if I told you\Nthat the health problem Dialogue: 0,0:01:44.35,0:01:46.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is a "mental health" problem? Dialogue: 0,0:01:47.78,0:01:51.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The load for a daughter or a son\Ncan become extremely heavy Dialogue: 0,0:01:51.90,0:01:57.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and can be made of sense of guilt,\Nfear, anger, sadness, Dialogue: 0,0:01:57.23,0:02:00.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a whirlwind of alternating emotions\Nof love and hate, Dialogue: 0,0:02:00.20,0:02:04.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the constant feeling\Nof walking on eggshells, Dialogue: 0,0:02:04.52,0:02:10.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,an excessive load of responsibilities,\Ndifficulty concentrating Dialogue: 0,0:02:10.90,0:02:13.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and also doing\Nhousehold chores, Dialogue: 0,0:02:13.75,0:02:16.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,like doing the grocery shopping,\Ntaking care of younger siblings, Dialogue: 0,0:02:16.80,0:02:19.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or talking to doctors\Nand managing therapy. Dialogue: 0,0:02:20.02,0:02:22.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Or being bullied, Dialogue: 0,0:02:22.16,0:02:26.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,maybe because of the strange behaviour\Nyour parent might display. Dialogue: 0,0:02:27.27,0:02:29.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But in addition to this Dialogue: 0,0:02:29.80,0:02:32.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you might find yourself dealing\Nwith real emergencies Dialogue: 0,0:02:32.73,0:02:34.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for which no one\Never prepared you. Dialogue: 0,0:02:35.25,0:02:38.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Like handling the situation\Nwhen your father or mother Dialogue: 0,0:02:38.97,0:02:42.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,see or hear things that do not exist:\Npsychosis. Dialogue: 0,0:02:42.79,0:02:47.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Or having to deal with the extreme swings\Nof mania and depression Dialogue: 0,0:02:47.53,0:02:49.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,without anyone preparing you for that. Dialogue: 0,0:02:50.46,0:02:54.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Or even witnessing or thwarting\Nsuicide attempts. Dialogue: 0,0:02:55.57,0:02:57.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,On top of that, Dialogue: 0,0:02:57.50,0:03:00.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,having to continue\Nwith your everyday life, Dialogue: 0,0:03:00.73,0:03:02.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,going to school, study... Dialogue: 0,0:03:02.92,0:03:06.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the reason why I am here today is that\Nanother weight adds to our shoulders Dialogue: 0,0:03:06.79,0:03:10.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,which is often that you can't talk\Nabout it with anyone. Dialogue: 0,0:03:12.28,0:03:16.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you say that your mum or dad\Nhave a physical health issue, Dialogue: 0,0:03:16.37,0:03:18.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a cancer or another physical illness, Dialogue: 0,0:03:18.64,0:03:21.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,hardly would someone\Nblame them for that Dialogue: 0,0:03:21.66,0:03:25.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or believe they are bad parents\Nor weak persons. Dialogue: 0,0:03:25.78,0:03:29.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Hardly would someone consider you\Nas genetically compromised Dialogue: 0,0:03:29.40,0:03:32.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and automatically destined\Nto inherit the same illness. Dialogue: 0,0:03:33.03,0:03:37.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But if you try to say that your mum\Nor dad suffer from major depression, Dialogue: 0,0:03:37.54,0:03:41.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,bipolar disorder or schizophrenia,\Nor in case there is no diagnosis, Dialogue: 0,0:03:41.50,0:03:43.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you describe their behaviour Dialogue: 0,0:03:43.38,0:03:46.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and say: "there's something wrong\Nwith mum or dad", Dialogue: 0,0:03:46.33,0:03:49.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the outside world's response\Nwill be completely different. Dialogue: 0,0:03:50.31,0:03:53.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Still today, worldwide,\Nphysical health and mental health Dialogue: 0,0:03:53.63,0:03:56.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,are not granted\Nequal dignity and respect. Dialogue: 0,0:03:57.44,0:03:59.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Still today mental health\Nis not perceived Dialogue: 0,0:04:00.23,0:04:01.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as a common good for us all. Dialogue: 0,0:04:01.66,0:04:04.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And this causes a delay\Nin understanding what's happening Dialogue: 0,0:04:04.94,0:04:09.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,inside of ourselves and our loved ones,\Nin asking and getting help, Dialogue: 0,0:04:09.05,0:04:11.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and often not getting\Nany treatment at all. Dialogue: 0,0:04:11.89,0:04:15.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And for you as a son or daughter,\Nthe load becomes much heavier. Dialogue: 0,0:04:18.02,0:04:20.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The atmosphere you feel around you, Dialogue: 0,0:04:20.17,0:04:23.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,communication problems,\Nwithin and outside the family, Dialogue: 0,0:04:23.42,0:04:25.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,stigma, prejudice, shame Dialogue: 0,0:04:25.67,0:04:29.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,may lead you to keep everything inside you\Nand not to say anything at all. Dialogue: 0,0:04:29.40,0:04:34.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But loneliness and silence are a heavy\Nload to carry for a minor. Dialogue: 0,0:04:34.03,0:04:36.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How did I cope\Nwith the situation? Dialogue: 0,0:04:37.02,0:04:39.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What lays behind those photos\Nthat can't be seen? Dialogue: 0,0:04:39.34,0:04:40.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Behind that smile? Dialogue: 0,0:04:41.58,0:04:45.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,An armor started to form,\Nautomatically, Dialogue: 0,0:04:45.04,0:04:48.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,behind which I used to hide,\Nan armor made of ice Dialogue: 0,0:04:48.64,0:04:52.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that allowed me to keep fear,\Nanger and pain inside Dialogue: 0,0:04:52.27,0:04:55.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and prevent them from overwhelming me\Nand the people around me, Dialogue: 0,0:04:55.25,0:04:58.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and allowed me to keep on doing\Nthe things my peers were also doing Dialogue: 0,0:04:58.55,0:04:59.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but which at the same time Dialogue: 0,0:04:59.85,0:05:02.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,made me feel light years\Napart from them, Dialogue: 0,0:05:02.09,0:05:04.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because it made me grow up\Nfaster than others. Dialogue: 0,0:05:05.63,0:05:10.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,At the same time\Nthere was also a cry for help Dialogue: 0,0:05:10.31,0:05:13.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a cry for help that couldn't,\Nthat wasn't able to come out Dialogue: 0,0:05:13.14,0:05:15.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and that no one,\Nnot even in school, imagined. Dialogue: 0,0:05:18.02,0:05:21.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When did the first crack start\Nto open in that armor? Dialogue: 0,0:05:21.93,0:05:25.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When, for the first time, did light\Nstart to seep in? Dialogue: 0,0:05:26.48,0:05:29.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I still fondly remember\Nthe psychologist of the family counseling Dialogue: 0,0:05:29.94,0:05:33.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who is the first reliable person\Noutside my family Dialogue: 0,0:05:33.04,0:05:36.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with whom I could open myself up\Nand that gradually helped me Dialogue: 0,0:05:36.02,0:05:38.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,identify trustworthy persons\Naround me, extended network Dialogue: 0,0:05:38.75,0:05:40.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that could support me. Dialogue: 0,0:05:41.16,0:05:43.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But the real watershed\Nfor me has been Dialogue: 0,0:05:44.34,0:05:49.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,reading on Internet forums the stories\Nof daughters and sons from other countries Dialogue: 0,0:05:49.85,0:05:53.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,thanks to the love for languages\Ninherited from my parents. Dialogue: 0,0:05:54.36,0:05:57.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The stories of us children\Nof mentally ill parents Dialogue: 0,0:05:57.01,0:05:59.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,are all different, all unique. Dialogue: 0,0:05:59.24,0:06:01.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But there's one thing that blows my mind\Nwe have in common Dialogue: 0,0:06:02.11,0:06:05.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That we often believe\Nwe are the only ones. Dialogue: 0,0:06:06.15,0:06:09.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But statistically that's impossible!\NWe're millions in the world Dialogue: 0,0:06:09.60,0:06:13.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Nevertheless we persuade ourselves\Nthat no one else Dialogue: 0,0:06:13.72,0:06:16.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,has ever experienced the same things\Nwe have experienced. Dialogue: 0,0:06:16.68,0:06:18.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You know why that happens? Dialogue: 0,0:06:18.04,0:06:20.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because we don't talk about\Nour stories of children. Dialogue: 0,0:06:22.78,0:06:29.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Through stories of activists, daughters\Nand sons from Australia, US & Canada, Dialogue: 0,0:06:30.54,0:06:34.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,not only I could give a name\Nto emotions I had been feeling Dialogue: 0,0:06:34.33,0:06:37.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and understand they were a natural\Nreaction to what I experienced, Dialogue: 0,0:06:37.71,0:06:40.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but I could also acknowledge\Nthe positive traits Dialogue: 0,0:06:40.95,0:06:43.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that I developed to cope\Nwith that situation. Dialogue: 0,0:06:44.84,0:06:48.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So I took my first\Nintercontinental flight, alone Dialogue: 0,0:06:49.04,0:06:53.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and went to Vancouver, in Canada,\Nfor the first conference as a speaker, Dialogue: 0,0:06:53.79,0:06:56.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to meet those daughters and sons,\Nto talk to them. Dialogue: 0,0:06:57.22,0:07:00.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That has been a moment of positive,\Npowerful reflection Dialogue: 0,0:07:00.86,0:07:03.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as in them I could see\Nthe story I had lived, Dialogue: 0,0:07:03.75,0:07:05.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but also the one yet to be written. Dialogue: 0,0:07:05.88,0:07:09.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In them I saw the pain,\Nbut also the power of redemption, Dialogue: 0,0:07:09.43,0:07:12.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to transform that pain\Nin seeds for change. Dialogue: 0,0:07:12.22,0:07:16.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I saw those positive traits\Nof resilience, empathy, courage, Dialogue: 0,0:07:16.57,0:07:20.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,willingness to challenge the status quo\Nthat I didn't recognize in me, Dialogue: 0,0:07:20.01,0:07:23.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,until I saw them reflected through them\Nand finally felt mine, too. Dialogue: 0,0:07:23.93,0:07:26.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That encounter has been a gift,\Nan immeasurable gift, Dialogue: 0,0:07:26.98,0:07:29.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that keeps giving me energy even now. Dialogue: 0,0:07:29.27,0:07:32.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And it's a gift I strongly wanted\Nto bring back to Italy, to Europe Dialogue: 0,0:07:32.89,0:07:36.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to help other "forgotten children" Dialogue: 0,0:07:36.69,0:07:39.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,take some of this burden\Nfrom off their shoulders. Dialogue: 0,0:07:40.50,0:07:44.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,My wish is that no child,\Nno adolescent nor young adult Dialogue: 0,0:07:44.28,0:07:47.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,has to feel alone anymore\Nwhen one or both parents Dialogue: 0,0:07:47.36,0:07:49.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,start suffering from\Na mental illness. Dialogue: 0,0:07:50.11,0:07:52.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's an immense wish,\Nthat needs everyone's help Dialogue: 0,0:07:53.02,0:07:57.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because, otherwise, how could I\Nprevent myself Dialogue: 0,0:07:57.98,0:08:00.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,from carrying again the world\Nupon my shoulders? Dialogue: 0,0:08:01.71,0:08:03.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And so that brings us to today. Dialogue: 0,0:08:03.78,0:08:07.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In 2017, with other Italian daughters\Nand sons, Gaia, Carlo and Marco, Dialogue: 0,0:08:07.80,0:08:10.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we started the first Italian\Nnot for profit Dialogue: 0,0:08:10.54,0:08:12.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,created by and for daughters and sons Dialogue: 0,0:08:12.66,0:08:15.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to give voice to children and adolescents\Nwho don't have a voice, Dialogue: 0,0:08:15.93,0:08:19.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to advocate for our rights\Nalso within institutions Dialogue: 0,0:08:19.02,0:08:22.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and it is called COMIP,\NChildren of Mentally Ill Parents, Dialogue: 0,0:08:22.22,0:08:24.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,daughters and sons. Dialogue: 0,0:08:24.21,0:08:27.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We started a project Dialogue: 0,0:08:27.55,0:08:30.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that is called\Nlike the mini guide I've written Dialogue: 0,0:08:30.08,0:08:33.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and that I would have needed\Nwhen I was fifteen Dialogue: 0,0:08:33.47,0:08:36.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and is called: "When Mum Or Dad\NAre Unwell Dialogue: 0,0:08:36.57,0:08:40.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,mini guide to survival for children\Nof parents with mental ill health". Dialogue: 0,0:08:40.79,0:08:44.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It is a grassroots project,\Nstarted through crowdfunding, Dialogue: 0,0:08:44.75,0:08:48.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with the aid of people around me,\Nsome of them are in this theater now, Dialogue: 0,0:08:48.30,0:08:50.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who believed\Nin the same wish Dialogue: 0,0:08:50.65,0:08:54.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and gave us the nourishment\Nto begin and fly high. Dialogue: 0,0:08:54.32,0:08:59.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This project has the ambitious goal\Nto donate a copy of this mini guide Dialogue: 0,0:08:59.12,0:09:03.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to all school and public libraries,\Nall family counseling centers Dialogue: 0,0:09:03.60,0:09:05.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and to mental health centers in Italy Dialogue: 0,0:09:05.41,0:09:07.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so that no child or teen is\Never left alone Dialogue: 0,0:09:07.66,0:09:09.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,nor their families. Dialogue: 0,0:09:09.36,0:09:12.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Especially children whose parents\Nare not aware Dialogue: 0,0:09:12.22,0:09:15.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of their illness and are not even\Nin treatment for their disorder. Dialogue: 0,0:09:15.44,0:09:17.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We need to think about\Nthese kids, too! Dialogue: 0,0:09:17.51,0:09:19.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I have been one of them\Nfor quite some time. Dialogue: 0,0:09:20.61,0:09:23.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,At first, when I started\Nplanning this project Dialogue: 0,0:09:23.28,0:09:26.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I told myself: "I am never going to\Nmake it, how am I going to do it?" Dialogue: 0,0:09:27.16,0:09:30.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Little by little, though, I asked help\Nfrom people around me Dialogue: 0,0:09:30.16,0:09:33.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,also to professional hikers guides,\Noffering to tell Dialogue: 0,0:09:33.42,0:09:36.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,my story in ten minutes\Nduring an excursion Dialogue: 0,0:09:36.59,0:09:39.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and find this way people\Nfrom civil society Dialogue: 0,0:09:39.16,0:09:41.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who may not have lived\Nthis type of experience Dialogue: 0,0:09:41.42,0:09:44.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who wanted to become our\N"postmen of change" Dialogue: 0,0:09:44.55,0:09:47.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and deliver a copy of the mini guide\Nas a donation from Comip Dialogue: 0,0:09:47.56,0:09:49.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to the public library of their city. Dialogue: 0,0:09:49.92,0:09:52.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And now we've managed\Nto reach a lot of regions, Dialogue: 0,0:09:52.92,0:09:55.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,from Aosta Valley to Sicily\Nand Sardinia. Dialogue: 0,0:09:55.36,0:09:57.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And we are not going to stop,\Nwe want to reach them all. Dialogue: 0,0:09:57.69,0:10:01.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Another wish we have\Nis to raise awareness within institutions Dialogue: 0,0:10:01.68,0:10:04.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and make them do more for us,\Nbut also civil society, Dialogue: 0,0:10:04.34,0:10:07.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and invest more in mental health. Dialogue: 0,0:10:07.96,0:10:10.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Another enormous wish\Nwe are fulfilling Dialogue: 0,0:10:10.50,0:10:14.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is to meet schools,\Ntalk to students, to young people. Dialogue: 0,0:10:14.91,0:10:17.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Not only caregivers, \Ndaughters & sons, but them all. Dialogue: 0,0:10:17.44,0:10:20.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,To have a toolbox Dialogue: 0,0:10:20.61,0:10:24.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to deal with all emotions,\Nboth positive and negative, Dialogue: 0,0:10:24.25,0:10:27.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with life's challenges\Nby starting well equipped, Dialogue: 0,0:10:27.04,0:10:29.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,before feeling too unwell. Dialogue: 0,0:10:29.21,0:10:31.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,To save lives. Dialogue: 0,0:10:32.28,0:10:36.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,A long and winding road\Nlays ahead of us, Dialogue: 0,0:10:36.29,0:10:40.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but if there's one thing I know for sure Dialogue: 0,0:10:41.30,0:10:43.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is that one of the positive traits Dialogue: 0,0:10:44.03,0:10:46.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we daughters and sons of parents\Nwith mental illness have Dialogue: 0,0:10:47.08,0:10:49.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is the willingness to change\Nthe status quo. Dialogue: 0,0:10:49.68,0:10:52.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That's why I know that\Nthat girl Dialogue: 0,0:10:52.40,0:10:55.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is going to make her wish come true,\Nwith your help, too. Dialogue: 0,0:10:55.91,0:10:58.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If this story struck you,\Nmoved you, Dialogue: 0,0:10:58.83,0:11:02.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,talk about it, tell it\Nto your friends, to your colleagues. Dialogue: 0,0:11:02.31,0:11:05.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Let's open together that tiny door\Nthat didn't open for us. Dialogue: 0,0:11:05.49,0:11:07.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Let the Light shine in! Dialogue: 0,0:11:07.55,0:11:09.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Thank you. Dialogue: 0,0:11:09.22,0:11:11.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Applause)