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(children) Kids react to viral videos!

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This episode: Slap Her!

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(director speaking Italian)

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Pedro.

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Furio.

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Domingo.

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(director speaking Italian)

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"This is Martina."

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Boy meets girl.

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(director speaking Italian)

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- (boy speaking Italian)
- Oh, that's so sweet!

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(chuckling)

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Wait, they're totally crushing on her.

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(speaking Italian)

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Wow, he's not nervous.

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Wow, oh, neither is he.

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"Now, "care-ess" her."

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Ooooh my god!

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Touch!

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(chuckling) On the cheeks.

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That was so awkward.
They're like, "Okay."

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Oh, that funny face.

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(giggling)

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I don't get this.

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This is cute.

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(director speaking Italian)

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"And now."

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- (director speaking Italian)
- Slap her.

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- (director speaking Italian)
- What?!

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Oh! Ooh.

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- What?! Why?
- (director speaking Italian)

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I would slap her.

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- (director) No?
- Yes!

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(in video) No.

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Good kids.

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- (director speaking Italian)
- What do you mean, "Why not?"

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You're not supposed to hit anybody.

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(speaking Italian)

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Can't hit a girl.

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(speaking Italian)

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Aww.

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Never, ever slap a girl.

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I would not do it.

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(speaking Italian)

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Ooh!

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It's perfect.

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(director speaks Italian)

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- (speaking Italian)
- (giggling)

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Aww, I wanted to see them kiss.

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No fair.

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I loved that video so much.

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That was...I am Marlhy 
and I approve this message.

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(kids) Question time!

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(Finebros) Okay, so in that video
they asked this group of boys

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to slap a girl, but they wouldn't do it.

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What do you think of their decision?

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That was a good decision.

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That was a very manly decision.

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That's a good decision 
because you can't hit a girl.

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It's against the law.

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I would say "no" too.

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I mean, really, who would slap a girl?

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The rules of life:

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Number one: never hit a girl.

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Number two: don't do violence.

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They're seven and ten 
and they know better than that.

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But then now some people right now,
maybe your age, is doing that.

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So it shows the difference.

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I like that and I'm not just saying 
that because I'm a girl.

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I don't think that people 
are allowed to just hit others.

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I mean, I don't think 
that's fair to any gender.

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(Finebros) If you were asked 
to slap a girl, would you do it?

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No.

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No!

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It's wrong to hurt people.

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If I was a person in that video,
I'd definitely wouldn't

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considering I would be saying 
all these nice things about her

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and then I'm hurting them in the end.

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(Finebros) Why do you think 
this video has gone so viral?

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Because it's a good message?

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It's just a good lesson for kids.

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It definitely raises 
awareness to female abuse.

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And it's showing that we can fix it.

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We just need motivation 
or something like that.

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- (Finebros) Is it ever okay to hit a girl?
- NO!

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No.

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I would never hit a girl.

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No!

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You guys can't hit me or any other girl.

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(Finebros) When someone tells 
a boy "be a man"

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what does that usually mean?

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To step up.

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Don't cry.

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Be tough.

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Man up, be stronger.

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Usually means stop acting 
like a chicken or a girl.

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Magazines and then movies 
have made it built up

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that being a man is to be strong.

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To be hardcore! Be manly! 
Be awesome!

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(Finebros) One of the boys, in the video,
when the interviewer asked him

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why he wouldn't hit the girl
he says, "Because I'm a man."

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- What do you think he meant by that?
- He's a gentleman?

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He doesn't want violence 
to be the answer to something.

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That men aren't supposed to do that.

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He's a man. He's proper.

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He doesn't act like 
a little five or six year old

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and be like, "Punch! Punch! 
Punch! Punch! Punch!"

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(Finebros) Should the ideal 
of what being a man is change?

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Should it be this type of thing?

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I think it could.
I mean, it's 2015.

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There is room for some change.

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Being a man isn't just being manly 
and strong and awesome!

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I mean, it's not just that,

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but it's being kind to others.

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(Finebros) Are you aware that sometimes
men will hit women?

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Mmm, no.

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No.

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Yeah.

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Yes, I am aware of that.

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I am aware of that 
and I really, really don't like that.

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Oh, so the point of this video
is to stop adults from hitting the girl?

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I know that a lot.
And they're dumb.

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They're really dumb.

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Those people that do it are really dumb.

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♪ (mean guitar solo) ♪

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(Finebros) Why do you think that happens?

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Maybe because they get mad at them?

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They think dumb's popular, but it's not!

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They wanna show who's the boss?

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They're just mad and stressed.

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They don't know what to do
so they just-- baaah!

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Abusive parents!

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Especially if the father's abusive
to the mother or to the kid.

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And if it's a boy, then the boy would then,

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"Well, if my dad's like this, then 
I'm supposed to be like this too, right?"

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I don't know why anybody would do that.

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It's not right and I don't think 
they should ever do it.

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(Finebros) So back to the video:
If this was reversed

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and it was a bunch of girls, 
and there was a boy there

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and they said, "Slap the boy"
do you think the girls would have done it?

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(chuckles) Yes, they would.

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Well, I mean, I wouldn't.
But some people would.

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I think girls would possibly do it,
probably because girls

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get mad easily and they're more catty.

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The rule is usually 
not for boys to hit girls,

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but I'm not sure there's a rule 
for the other way around.

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I think they would say no...
if they're nice girls.

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I don't think so, unless they had
a really good reason to.

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If a boy wouldn't slap a girl,
I don't think a girl should slap a boy.

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(Finebros) So some people think that 
this video has a very good message,

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but they also think it's wrong
because it's only pointing out

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that boys shouldn't hit girls
when they think it should also be

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girls shouldn't hit boys--
that no one should hit each other at all.

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What do you think about that?

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I think they should include it 
the other way around too,

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just in case girls have 
a history of violence too.

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I mean, it's still a good video, 
but if they showed both sides

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it would be an even better video.

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The girls are the same thing 
that go with the boys.

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Sometimes they do it, sometimes they don't.

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The people that do do it, 
and they are girls, are dumb.

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Sorry, girls out there, but that's true.

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Statistically, women do get hit 
more than women hit men.

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After we fix that, we should fix 
the women hitting men.

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The video would have more of an impact
if it also showed it the other way around.

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It's definitely important to show both sides

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so that way no one will feel that
one is more encouraged than the other.

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But the video's message 
is still really good.

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(Finebros) So last question:

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If anyone is watching 
this that hits people,

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or gets so angry they think 
about hitting someone,

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what would you tell them?

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Well, it's the wrong thing to do
and just get your anger out a different way.

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Hit a pillow.

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Pillows don't have feelings.

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You guys are dumb and I 
wouldn't even be your friend.

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Don't hit anybody!

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You're hurting a human being!

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If you have hit somebody, 
say sorry and don't ever do it again.

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That's stupid and it doesn't--
it's just not right.

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It doesn't have any right morals to it.
It's just not right at all.

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If you hit someone, that could 
actually make the other person

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believe that that is okay 
to do it to someone else as well.

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Think it through.
Use your brain.

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Don't use your fists.
Use your brain.

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Thanks for watching 
another episode of Kids React!

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Let us know what other videos 
we should watch in the comments below.

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Goodbye!

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Don't slap anybody! Bye!

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♪ (end music) ♪