1 00:00:00,640 --> 00:00:04,216 My mom is a strong black woman 2 00:00:04,240 --> 00:00:07,520 who raised her kids to have the same sense of strength and pride. 3 00:00:08,400 --> 00:00:10,656 This spirit was epitomized by a single wall 4 00:00:10,680 --> 00:00:14,136 in our small, two-bedroom apartment on the South Side of Chicago. 5 00:00:14,160 --> 00:00:15,416 Two pictures hung proudly: 6 00:00:15,440 --> 00:00:18,536 one larger-than-life photo of my siblings and I 7 00:00:18,560 --> 00:00:20,416 and the other a picture of my mom 8 00:00:20,440 --> 00:00:21,656 at 12 years old 9 00:00:21,680 --> 00:00:24,400 staring into the eyes of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. 10 00:00:25,880 --> 00:00:28,816 When I was younger, I used to stand on my tippy-toes, 11 00:00:28,840 --> 00:00:30,096 stare at that picture, 12 00:00:30,120 --> 00:00:32,695 close my eyes tightly, and just pretend that it was me 13 00:00:32,720 --> 00:00:36,536 gazing up at the man who revolutionized the Civil Rights Movement, 14 00:00:36,560 --> 00:00:39,336 who marched on Washington and who transformed a generation 15 00:00:39,360 --> 00:00:40,840 by his words, "I have a dream." 16 00:00:41,760 --> 00:00:43,376 But I did get to meet him. 17 00:00:43,400 --> 00:00:45,296 Now, obviously, I didn't meet Dr. King, 18 00:00:45,320 --> 00:00:47,400 but I met a man named Dr. Vincent Harding. 19 00:00:48,080 --> 00:00:49,976 He worked with Dr. King from day one 20 00:00:50,000 --> 00:00:52,600 and even wrote some of his most iconic speeches. 21 00:00:53,600 --> 00:00:56,456 You see, this was a really important moment for me as a kid, 22 00:00:56,480 --> 00:00:58,616 because it was the first time that I realized 23 00:00:58,640 --> 00:01:01,136 that it wasn't just Dr. King who led this revolution, 24 00:01:01,160 --> 00:01:05,519 but he was surrounded by a movement made up of anonymous extraordinaries. 25 00:01:07,320 --> 00:01:11,216 Anonymous extraordinaries are people who work selflessly and vigorously 26 00:01:11,240 --> 00:01:12,496 for what they believe in, 27 00:01:12,520 --> 00:01:15,696 people who are motivated by conviction and not recognition. 28 00:01:15,720 --> 00:01:18,856 It took me a long time to realize the significance of this moment, 29 00:01:18,880 --> 00:01:20,136 until I was much older. 30 00:01:20,160 --> 00:01:22,016 And like I said, I grew up in Chicago. 31 00:01:22,040 --> 00:01:24,096 I grew up in a rough, poor neighborhood, 32 00:01:24,120 --> 00:01:26,096 but it didn't really matter to me as kid, 33 00:01:26,120 --> 00:01:29,216 because I literally have the most incredible family in the world. 34 00:01:29,240 --> 00:01:31,336 Two things that I did struggle with a lot -- 35 00:01:31,360 --> 00:01:32,576 growing up was one -- 36 00:01:32,600 --> 00:01:34,896 that my dad has been sick my whole life. 37 00:01:34,920 --> 00:01:37,416 He suffers from Parkinson's and pancreatitis, 38 00:01:37,440 --> 00:01:40,736 and as a kid, it was so hard for me to watch my hero 39 00:01:40,760 --> 00:01:42,040 in so much pain. 40 00:01:42,640 --> 00:01:44,976 And my other issue was with me. 41 00:01:45,000 --> 00:01:47,200 I guess you could say I had an identity crisis. 42 00:01:47,640 --> 00:01:49,736 I had to move four times during high school, 43 00:01:49,760 --> 00:01:53,056 and my freshman year I went to an extremely racist high school. 44 00:01:53,080 --> 00:01:54,456 Kids were so cruel. 45 00:01:54,480 --> 00:01:56,136 They gave us hate letters, 46 00:01:56,160 --> 00:01:57,976 wrote terrible things on our lockers 47 00:01:58,000 --> 00:02:00,136 and because I'm biracial, they would tell me, 48 00:02:00,160 --> 00:02:02,816 "You can't be both. You have to choose, black or white." 49 00:02:02,840 --> 00:02:05,056 And in the end I just resented being either. 50 00:02:05,080 --> 00:02:07,936 And then all of a sudden, my senior year rolls around, 2008, 51 00:02:07,960 --> 00:02:10,936 and being mixed, being racially ambiguous is this new cool fad, 52 00:02:10,960 --> 00:02:14,176 like, "Natalie, now it's OK for you to like you. You're pretty now." 53 00:02:14,200 --> 00:02:17,416 I was over it. I was tired of caring about what other people thought 54 00:02:17,440 --> 00:02:19,056 and I just wanted to hurry up, 55 00:02:19,080 --> 00:02:22,176 go through my classes, whatever school I was going to be at next, 56 00:02:22,200 --> 00:02:23,456 and graduate. 57 00:02:23,480 --> 00:02:25,576 It wasn't until I was 17 58 00:02:25,600 --> 00:02:27,696 and I saw a film called "Invisible Children" 59 00:02:27,720 --> 00:02:29,960 that something happened. 60 00:02:31,080 --> 00:02:32,736 Child soldiers, 61 00:02:32,760 --> 00:02:35,056 children as young as my nephews 62 00:02:35,080 --> 00:02:39,216 being abducted, given AK-47s and forced to kill, 63 00:02:39,240 --> 00:02:42,296 not just anyone, but oftentimes forced to kill their own parents, 64 00:02:42,320 --> 00:02:44,096 their own siblings -- 65 00:02:44,120 --> 00:02:48,736 a rebel army committing mass murder for no political or religious reason, 66 00:02:48,760 --> 00:02:49,960 just because. 67 00:02:50,880 --> 00:02:52,400 25 years. 68 00:02:53,080 --> 00:02:55,896 25 years this conflict has been going on. 69 00:02:55,920 --> 00:02:57,336 I'm 20 years old, 70 00:02:57,360 --> 00:02:59,840 so that makes this conflict five years older than me. 71 00:03:00,480 --> 00:03:02,416 One man, 72 00:03:02,440 --> 00:03:05,056 one man with one charismatic voice, 73 00:03:05,080 --> 00:03:06,656 started this whole thing. 74 00:03:06,680 --> 00:03:07,880 His name is Joseph Kony. 75 00:03:09,680 --> 00:03:11,656 When I saw this film, something happened. 76 00:03:11,680 --> 00:03:13,936 Something started kind of stirring inside of me 77 00:03:13,960 --> 00:03:15,696 and I couldn't identify what it was. 78 00:03:15,720 --> 00:03:17,856 I didn't know if it was rage, if it was pity, 79 00:03:17,880 --> 00:03:20,136 if I felt guilty because this was the first time 80 00:03:20,160 --> 00:03:21,840 I'd heard about a 25-year-long war. 81 00:03:22,880 --> 00:03:24,416 I couldn't even give it a name. 82 00:03:24,440 --> 00:03:27,936 All I knew is that it kicked me off my ass and I started asking questions. 83 00:03:27,960 --> 00:03:30,816 What do I do? What can one 17-year-old do? 84 00:03:30,840 --> 00:03:32,364 You've got to give me something. 85 00:03:32,880 --> 00:03:34,166 And they gave me something. 86 00:03:34,800 --> 00:03:37,496 The founders and filmmakers at Invisible Children told me 87 00:03:37,520 --> 00:03:38,776 that there was this bill, 88 00:03:38,800 --> 00:03:40,816 that if we could just get this bill passed, 89 00:03:40,840 --> 00:03:43,616 it would do two things: one, it would apprehend Joseph Kony 90 00:03:43,640 --> 00:03:45,616 and the top commanders in his rebel army, 91 00:03:45,640 --> 00:03:48,816 and two, it would provide funding for the recovery of these regions 92 00:03:48,840 --> 00:03:50,936 that had been devastated by 25 years of war. 93 00:03:50,960 --> 00:03:52,656 And I was like, done. Let me at it. 94 00:03:52,680 --> 00:03:55,160 I swear I will do whatever I can to make this happen. 95 00:03:55,800 --> 00:04:00,096 So myself and 99 other idealistic 18- to 20-year-olds 96 00:04:00,120 --> 00:04:03,200 hopped on a plane to intern in San Diego with Invisible Children. 97 00:04:03,880 --> 00:04:07,096 I was postponing college. We weren't getting paid for this 98 00:04:07,120 --> 00:04:10,296 and you could call it irresponsible or crazy -- my parents did -- 99 00:04:10,320 --> 00:04:13,480 but for us, it would have been insane not to go. 100 00:04:14,120 --> 00:04:17,375 We all felt this urgency and we would do whatever it took 101 00:04:17,399 --> 00:04:19,120 to pass this bill. 102 00:04:19,839 --> 00:04:21,696 So we were given our first task. 103 00:04:21,720 --> 00:04:25,496 We were going to plan an event called the Rescue of Joseph Kony's Child Soldiers 104 00:04:25,520 --> 00:04:28,656 where participants would come in a hundred cities worldwide 105 00:04:28,680 --> 00:04:30,136 and rally in their city center 106 00:04:30,160 --> 00:04:32,256 until a celebrity or a political figure 107 00:04:32,280 --> 00:04:35,176 came and used their voice on behalf of these child soldiers, 108 00:04:35,200 --> 00:04:37,400 and at that point each city was "rescued." 109 00:04:37,840 --> 00:04:41,480 But the catch was, we weren't leaving the cities until we were rescued. 110 00:04:42,000 --> 00:04:44,176 I was given Chicago and nine other cities 111 00:04:44,200 --> 00:04:45,816 and I told my bosses, I was like, 112 00:04:45,840 --> 00:04:49,296 "If we're going for big-name people, why not go for the queen bee? Right? 113 00:04:49,320 --> 00:04:50,776 Why not go for Oprah Winfrey?" 114 00:04:50,800 --> 00:04:54,576 They thought I was a little idealistic, but I mean, we were trying to think big. 115 00:04:54,600 --> 00:04:56,256 We were doing an impossible thing, 116 00:04:56,280 --> 00:04:58,496 so why not try to reach more impossible things? 117 00:04:58,520 --> 00:05:01,000 And so we had from January to April to get this done. 118 00:05:02,480 --> 00:05:05,496 This is the number of hours that I spent on logistics, 119 00:05:05,520 --> 00:05:07,896 from getting permits to rallying participants 120 00:05:07,920 --> 00:05:09,440 and finding venues. 121 00:05:11,000 --> 00:05:13,216 This is the number of times that I was rejected 122 00:05:13,240 --> 00:05:15,880 by celebrities' agents or politicians' secretaries. 123 00:05:18,160 --> 00:05:21,056 That is amount of money that I spent personally 124 00:05:21,080 --> 00:05:23,976 on Red Bull and Diet Coke to stay awake during this movement. 125 00:05:24,000 --> 00:05:25,216 (Laughter) 126 00:05:25,240 --> 00:05:26,800 You can judge me if you want to. 127 00:05:27,520 --> 00:05:30,376 That is my hospital bill from the kidney infection I got 128 00:05:30,400 --> 00:05:33,816 from an overconsumption of caffeine due to this event. 129 00:05:33,840 --> 00:05:34,856 (Laughter) 130 00:05:34,880 --> 00:05:37,576 These were just some of the ridiculous things that we did 131 00:05:37,600 --> 00:05:39,136 to try and pull this event off. 132 00:05:39,160 --> 00:05:41,896 And so April 21 rolls around and the event begins. 133 00:05:41,920 --> 00:05:44,496 A hundred cities around the world. They were beautiful. 134 00:05:44,520 --> 00:05:47,816 Six days later, all the cities were rescued but one: 135 00:05:47,840 --> 00:05:49,416 Chicago. 136 00:05:49,440 --> 00:05:51,816 So we were waiting in the city. 137 00:05:51,840 --> 00:05:54,016 People started coming from all over the world, 138 00:05:54,040 --> 00:05:55,993 all over the country to be reinforcements 139 00:05:56,017 --> 00:05:57,536 and join their voice with ours, 140 00:05:57,560 --> 00:05:58,816 and finally, on May 1, 141 00:05:58,840 --> 00:06:01,136 we wrapped ourselves around Oprah's studio 142 00:06:01,160 --> 00:06:02,656 and we got her attention. 143 00:06:02,680 --> 00:06:05,336 This is a clip from a film called "Together We Are Free" 144 00:06:05,360 --> 00:06:08,240 documenting the rescue event and my attempt to get Oprah. 145 00:06:10,560 --> 00:06:13,016 (Video) Oprah Winfrey: When I drove into the office, 146 00:06:13,040 --> 00:06:16,136 there was a giant -- when you came in, was there a group outside? 147 00:06:16,160 --> 00:06:17,376 Crowd: Yes. 148 00:06:17,400 --> 00:06:19,816 OW: Holding up signs asking if I would talk to them 149 00:06:19,840 --> 00:06:21,096 for just five minutes, 150 00:06:21,120 --> 00:06:23,056 so I was happy to do so, 151 00:06:23,080 --> 00:06:26,336 and they are with a group called "Invisible Children," 152 00:06:26,360 --> 00:06:28,216 and I told this group outside 153 00:06:28,240 --> 00:06:31,576 that I'd give them a minute to state their case. 154 00:06:31,600 --> 00:06:34,376 Man: Oprah, thank you so much for having us. 155 00:06:34,400 --> 00:06:40,056 Basically, these folks out here have seen the story of 30,000 children 156 00:06:40,080 --> 00:06:43,776 abducted by a rebel leader named Joseph Kony 157 00:06:43,800 --> 00:06:45,496 and they're out here in solidarity, 158 00:06:45,520 --> 00:06:48,776 and they have been out here for six days. 159 00:06:48,800 --> 00:06:51,656 This started 100,000 people worldwide. 160 00:06:51,680 --> 00:06:54,416 Now it's down to 500 standing strong 161 00:06:54,440 --> 00:06:56,896 so that you can raise the profile of this issue 162 00:06:56,920 --> 00:07:01,136 and we can end the longest-running war in Africa and rescue those kids 163 00:07:01,159 --> 00:07:03,695 that are child soldiers still in East Africa. 164 00:07:03,720 --> 00:07:05,976 Oprah, I have to say this girl Natalie here, 165 00:07:06,000 --> 00:07:07,256 she's 18 years old. 166 00:07:07,280 --> 00:07:08,976 She was an intern for us this year, 167 00:07:09,000 --> 00:07:11,736 and she said, "My one goal is to get Oprah." 168 00:07:11,760 --> 00:07:14,456 She had 2,000 people come out on Saturday, 169 00:07:14,480 --> 00:07:15,696 but it rained. 170 00:07:15,720 --> 00:07:18,456 She stood here in the rain with 50 people. 171 00:07:18,480 --> 00:07:21,336 When they heard she was here, hundreds started coming. 172 00:07:21,360 --> 00:07:23,376 People are here from Mexico, Australia. 173 00:07:23,400 --> 00:07:24,616 Natalie's 18. 174 00:07:24,640 --> 00:07:26,216 Don't think you're too young. 175 00:07:26,240 --> 00:07:27,976 You can change the world any day. 176 00:07:28,000 --> 00:07:29,216 Start now. 177 00:07:29,240 --> 00:07:30,456 Start today. 178 00:07:30,480 --> 00:07:32,960 (Cheers) 179 00:07:35,960 --> 00:07:37,176 Man: Was it worth it? 180 00:07:37,200 --> 00:07:39,680 Crowd: Yeah! 181 00:07:41,240 --> 00:07:45,816 Natalie! Natalie! Natalie! 182 00:07:45,840 --> 00:07:48,680 (Music) 183 00:07:51,640 --> 00:07:55,120 Together we are free! Together we are free! 184 00:08:00,480 --> 00:08:04,536 (Applause) 185 00:08:04,560 --> 00:08:07,576 So you would think that this is the moment in my life, 186 00:08:07,600 --> 00:08:10,040 the pinnacle that made me an extraordinary. 187 00:08:10,920 --> 00:08:12,336 And it was an awesome moment. 188 00:08:12,360 --> 00:08:14,016 I mean, I was on top of the world. 189 00:08:14,040 --> 00:08:16,496 Ten million people watched the "Oprah Winfrey Show". 190 00:08:16,520 --> 00:08:18,256 But looking back, that wasn't it. 191 00:08:18,280 --> 00:08:19,496 Don't get me wrong. 192 00:08:19,520 --> 00:08:21,136 Like I said, it was great moment. 193 00:08:21,160 --> 00:08:24,256 It made for a heck of a profile picture on Facebook for a week. 194 00:08:24,280 --> 00:08:25,496 (Laughter) 195 00:08:25,520 --> 00:08:27,656 But I had been extraordinary all along, 196 00:08:27,680 --> 00:08:28,880 and I wasn't alone. 197 00:08:29,480 --> 00:08:32,135 You see, even though my story was featured in this film, 198 00:08:32,159 --> 00:08:33,856 I was just one of a hundred interns 199 00:08:33,880 --> 00:08:36,559 who worked their tails off to make this happen. 200 00:08:37,799 --> 00:08:39,015 I'm up in the air, 201 00:08:39,039 --> 00:08:41,216 but the guy that I'm sitting on his shoulders, 202 00:08:41,240 --> 00:08:42,456 he's my best friend. 203 00:08:42,480 --> 00:08:43,856 His name is Johannes Oberman 204 00:08:43,880 --> 00:08:46,336 and Johannes worked with me from day one in Chicago, 205 00:08:46,360 --> 00:08:49,160 just as long hours, just as many sleepless nights as I did. 206 00:08:50,200 --> 00:08:52,696 The girl on the right, her name's Bethany Bylsma. 207 00:08:52,720 --> 00:08:54,776 Bethany planned New York City and Boston 208 00:08:54,800 --> 00:08:58,120 and they were seriously the most beautiful events that we held. 209 00:08:58,640 --> 00:09:00,616 The girl on the left, her name's Colleen. 210 00:09:00,640 --> 00:09:02,696 Colleen moved to Mexico, 211 00:09:02,720 --> 00:09:04,256 moved, for three months, 212 00:09:04,280 --> 00:09:05,896 to plan five events there, 213 00:09:05,920 --> 00:09:08,216 only to be kicked out the day before the events 214 00:09:08,240 --> 00:09:09,720 because of the swine flu. 215 00:09:10,880 --> 00:09:13,096 And then there was this family. 216 00:09:13,120 --> 00:09:15,536 This family, they didn't get to come to the rescue. 217 00:09:15,560 --> 00:09:16,856 They couldn't make it out, 218 00:09:16,880 --> 00:09:19,216 but they ordered a hundred boxes of pizza for us, 219 00:09:19,240 --> 00:09:22,056 delivered them to the corner of Michigan and Randolph 220 00:09:22,080 --> 00:09:24,136 where we were all silently protesting. 221 00:09:24,160 --> 00:09:26,936 You see, it was people like this doing whatever they could, 222 00:09:26,960 --> 00:09:29,136 simultaneously, single-mindedly, 223 00:09:29,160 --> 00:09:31,136 without a care to who was watching, 224 00:09:31,160 --> 00:09:32,856 that made this happen. 225 00:09:32,880 --> 00:09:34,816 It wasn't about us getting on Oprah, 226 00:09:34,840 --> 00:09:36,976 because when I got down from their shoulders, 227 00:09:37,000 --> 00:09:38,456 the war hadn't ended. 228 00:09:38,480 --> 00:09:39,736 It was about that bill. 229 00:09:39,760 --> 00:09:42,216 Oprah was just a checkpoint on the way to that bill. 230 00:09:42,240 --> 00:09:43,496 That bill was the point. 231 00:09:43,520 --> 00:09:46,056 That bill is what we had our eyes set on from day one. 232 00:09:46,080 --> 00:09:48,856 That was going to help us end Africa's longest-running war. 233 00:09:48,880 --> 00:09:51,536 And that is what brought a hundred thousand people 234 00:09:51,560 --> 00:09:53,720 out to the rescue event from around the world. 235 00:09:55,120 --> 00:09:56,320 And it paid off: 236 00:09:57,560 --> 00:10:00,216 10 days after we were on Oprah, 237 00:10:00,240 --> 00:10:02,200 the bill was introduced into Congress. 238 00:10:02,840 --> 00:10:06,291 A year after that, it got, unanimously, 239 00:10:06,316 --> 00:10:09,856 267 cosponsors in Congress, 240 00:10:09,903 --> 00:10:11,292 and then one week after that, 241 00:10:12,600 --> 00:10:14,656 President Obama signed our bill into law. 242 00:10:14,680 --> 00:10:18,320 (Applause) 243 00:10:22,920 --> 00:10:25,056 And none of us interns got to be there. 244 00:10:25,080 --> 00:10:27,056 We didn't get to be there in this moment. 245 00:10:27,080 --> 00:10:28,296 Our founders were there. 246 00:10:28,320 --> 00:10:30,376 They're the guys cheesing in the background. 247 00:10:30,400 --> 00:10:34,736 But that moment right there is what made all of it worth it. 248 00:10:34,760 --> 00:10:38,096 It's what a hundred thousand anonymous extraordinaries 249 00:10:38,120 --> 00:10:40,720 worked for so hard to make that happen. 250 00:10:42,360 --> 00:10:43,856 You know, the Oprah moments, 251 00:10:43,880 --> 00:10:46,976 they prove that the supposedly impossible can be done. 252 00:10:47,000 --> 00:10:49,056 They inspire us. They boost our confidence. 253 00:10:49,080 --> 00:10:51,376 But the moment isn't a movement. 254 00:10:51,400 --> 00:10:54,696 Even a lot of those moments strung together don't fuel a moment. 255 00:10:54,720 --> 00:10:58,080 What fuels a movement are the anonymous extraordinaries behind it. 256 00:10:58,960 --> 00:11:01,816 You know, for me, what kept me pushing on through the rescue 257 00:11:01,840 --> 00:11:03,776 was the thought of those child soldiers. 258 00:11:03,800 --> 00:11:06,656 It became personal. I was able to go to Africa at one point. 259 00:11:06,680 --> 00:11:08,136 I met these incredible people. 260 00:11:08,160 --> 00:11:11,536 I have friends that have been living in this conflict their entire life 261 00:11:11,560 --> 00:11:12,976 and it was personal to me. 262 00:11:13,000 --> 00:11:15,080 But that doesn't have to be what drives you. 263 00:11:15,680 --> 00:11:18,816 You know, you may want to be the next Shepard Fairey 264 00:11:18,840 --> 00:11:21,296 or the next JK Rowling 265 00:11:21,320 --> 00:11:22,616 or the next whoever. 266 00:11:22,640 --> 00:11:24,816 It doesn't matter, but whatever you want, 267 00:11:24,840 --> 00:11:27,416 chase after it with everything that you have, 268 00:11:27,440 --> 00:11:29,336 not because of the fame or the fortune, 269 00:11:29,360 --> 00:11:31,536 but solely because that's what you believe in, 270 00:11:31,560 --> 00:11:33,576 because that's what makes your heart sing. 271 00:11:33,600 --> 00:11:34,840 That's what your dance is. 272 00:11:36,360 --> 00:11:38,776 That's what is going to define our generation, 273 00:11:38,800 --> 00:11:41,856 when we start chasing and fighting after the things that we love 274 00:11:41,880 --> 00:11:43,336 and that we want to fight for. 275 00:11:43,360 --> 00:11:46,536 I cared too much in high school about what people thought about me. 276 00:11:46,560 --> 00:11:48,696 That's what so awesome about this conference, 277 00:11:48,720 --> 00:11:50,256 is so many of you are so young. 278 00:11:50,280 --> 00:11:53,696 Find that thing that inspires you that you love and just chase after it. 279 00:11:53,720 --> 00:11:54,936 You know, fight for that, 280 00:11:54,960 --> 00:11:57,336 because that is what is going to change this world 281 00:11:57,360 --> 00:11:58,936 and that is what defines us. 282 00:11:58,960 --> 00:12:00,296 Despite what people think, 283 00:12:00,320 --> 00:12:03,976 my Oprah moments, my being on TED, doesn't define me, 284 00:12:04,000 --> 00:12:06,096 because if you were to follow me home to LA, 285 00:12:06,120 --> 00:12:09,016 you would see me waiting tables and nannying to pay the bills 286 00:12:09,040 --> 00:12:11,440 as I chase after my dream of becoming a filmmaker. 287 00:12:12,200 --> 00:12:15,496 In the small, anonymous, monotonous 288 00:12:15,520 --> 00:12:17,256 every-single-day acts, 289 00:12:17,280 --> 00:12:20,000 I have to remind myself to be extraordinary. 290 00:12:21,160 --> 00:12:24,456 And believe me, when the door is closed and the cameras are off, 291 00:12:24,480 --> 00:12:26,136 it's tough. 292 00:12:26,160 --> 00:12:28,896 But if there's one thing that I want to drive home to you, 293 00:12:28,920 --> 00:12:31,576 one thing that I can say, not just to you but to myself, 294 00:12:31,600 --> 00:12:34,096 is that it is the acts that make us extraordinary, 295 00:12:34,120 --> 00:12:36,400 not the Oprah moments. Thank you.