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Dialogue: 0,0:00:00.54,0:00:01.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(beep)
Dialogue: 0,0:00:01.69,0:00:03.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(screaming)
Dialogue: 0,0:00:03.41,0:00:18.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(jazzy intro)
Dialogue: 0,0:00:18.64,0:00:20.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How does it feel to be the
Dialogue: 0,0:00:20.71,0:00:21.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,same sex as Donald Trump?
Dialogue: 0,0:00:21.82,0:00:23.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How does it feel to be the
Dialogue: 0,0:00:23.13,0:00:24.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,same sex as Sarah Palin?
Dialogue: 0,0:00:24.16,0:00:25.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How does it feel to be the
Dialogue: 0,0:00:25.14,0:00:26.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,same sex as Michelle Bachman?
Dialogue: 0,0:00:26.39,0:00:27.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How does it feel to be the
Dialogue: 0,0:00:27.29,0:00:28.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,same sex as anybody
Dialogue: 0,0:00:28.03,0:00:28.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you disagree with?
Dialogue: 0,0:00:28.96,0:00:29.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Why does it even matter
Dialogue: 0,0:00:29.99,0:00:31.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,whether or not you're the
Dialogue: 0,0:00:31.03,0:00:31.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,same gender as somebody else?
Dialogue: 0,0:00:31.96,0:00:33.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I mean, I'm also the same
Dialogue: 0,0:00:33.08,0:00:33.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,gender as Abraham Lincoln, Einstein,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:33.91,0:00:35.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and the guy who introduced
Dialogue: 0,0:00:35.14,0:00:36.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,chocolate to the Western world.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:36.64,0:00:38.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So what are you even getting
Dialogue: 0,0:00:38.36,0:00:38.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,at with this question?
Dialogue: 0,0:00:38.98,0:00:40.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Are you trying to say Donald Trump
Dialogue: 0,0:00:40.46,0:00:41.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is bad, and Donald Trump
Dialogue: 0,0:00:41.54,0:00:42.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is a man, therefore men are bad?
Dialogue: 0,0:00:42.86,0:00:44.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Why do you hate rom-coms?
Dialogue: 0,0:00:44.61,0:00:46.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Or do you just feel like you
Dialogue: 0,0:00:46.01,0:00:47.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,need to hate them?
Dialogue: 0,0:00:47.08,0:00:48.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Everybody likes The Notebook,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:48.18,0:00:49.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,everybody likes Beyoncé.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:49.76,0:00:51.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's just a fact.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:51.24,0:00:52.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Men hate romantic comedies
Dialogue: 0,0:00:52.51,0:00:53.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for the same reason you
Dialogue: 0,0:00:53.46,0:00:54.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,hate video games with
Dialogue: 0,0:00:54.54,0:00:55.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,over-sexualized female characters.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:55.83,0:00:56.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The men in these movies are
Dialogue: 0,0:00:56.74,0:00:57.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,always willing to sacrifice
Dialogue: 0,0:00:57.89,0:00:58.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,their careers, their dreams,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:58.98,0:01:00.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,even their lives to win
Dialogue: 0,0:01:00.06,0:01:01.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the lead females' affection.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:01.06,0:01:02.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now I don't have any empirical
Dialogue: 0,0:01:02.86,0:01:04.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,data to back this up, but
Dialogue: 0,0:01:04.08,0:01:05.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it seems to me that
Dialogue: 0,0:01:05.31,0:01:06.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,romantic comedies and
Dialogue: 0,0:01:06.29,0:01:07.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,romance movies in general
Dialogue: 0,0:01:07.41,0:01:08.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,cause women to have unrealistic
Dialogue: 0,0:01:08.21,0:01:08.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,expectations of men and what
Dialogue: 0,0:01:08.99,0:01:10.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,love should be like, and these
Dialogue: 0,0:01:10.08,0:01:10.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,become the expectations
Dialogue: 0,0:01:10.99,0:01:11.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that men have to live up to,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:11.98,0:01:13.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and it's unfair.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:13.31,0:01:14.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Feminists like to bitch
Dialogue: 0,0:01:14.11,0:01:15.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,about poor representation of women
Dialogue: 0,0:01:15.13,0:01:15.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in media intended for men
Dialogue: 0,0:01:15.91,0:01:16.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because they promote body issues
Dialogue: 0,0:01:16.96,0:01:17.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and shit like that
Dialogue: 0,0:01:17.99,0:01:19.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I agree, to at least, an extent
Dialogue: 0,0:01:19.51,0:01:21.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But it's not any better for men
Dialogue: 0,0:01:21.89,0:01:23.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When we're expected to be Prince Charming,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:23.41,0:01:24.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ready and willing to sacrifice themselves
Dialogue: 0,0:01:24.83,0:01:27.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,physically, mentally, and emotionally
Dialogue: 0,0:01:27.53,0:01:29.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And we're called selfish for daring to
Dialogue: 0,0:01:29.04,0:01:30.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,have our own desires
Dialogue: 0,0:01:30.91,0:01:32.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or even misogynistic for daring to draw
Dialogue: 0,0:01:32.16,0:01:34.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,attention to our own problems.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:34.06,0:01:35.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,These movies appeal to the female fantasy
Dialogue: 0,0:01:35.58,0:01:36.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of having a night in shining armor
Dialogue: 0,0:01:36.98,0:01:39.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,swear their entire existence to pleasing
Dialogue: 0,0:01:39.19,0:01:40.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,them, and thus reinforce these notions
Dialogue: 0,0:01:40.94,0:01:42.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,within their target audience of women
Dialogue: 0,0:01:42.36,0:01:43.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,like you that you somehow deserve
Dialogue: 0,0:01:43.69,0:01:45.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to have your boyfriends and husbands
Dialogue: 0,0:01:45.24,0:01:47.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,give up everything that makes them
Dialogue: 0,0:01:47.31,0:01:49.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who they are and basically dehumanize
Dialogue: 0,0:01:49.11,0:01:50.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,themselves for your pleasure and
Dialogue: 0,0:01:50.69,0:01:52.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,devote 100% of their time and energy
Dialogue: 0,0:01:52.13,0:01:53.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to you. The fact that some of you
Dialogue: 0,0:01:53.88,0:01:55.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,watching this are scoffing at what I
Dialogue: 0,0:01:55.26,0:01:56.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,just said only proves my point.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:56.78,0:01:58.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You have fooled yourself into thinking
Dialogue: 0,0:01:58.33,0:02:00.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that I'm somehow the one who's being
Dialogue: 0,0:02:00.09,0:02:00.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,selfish when I object to the notion
Dialogue: 0,0:02:00.76,0:02:02.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that men should be expected to cave
Dialogue: 0,0:02:02.36,0:02:03.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,into all of your demands, for the sake of
Dialogue: 0,0:02:03.79,0:02:05.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,your perverted idealistic conception
Dialogue: 0,0:02:05.09,0:02:06.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of love. And I have no doubts that
Dialogue: 0,0:02:06.39,0:02:08.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,some of you will accuse me of being
Dialogue: 0,0:02:08.21,0:02:09.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,bitter at some ex girlfriend for saying
Dialogue: 0,0:02:09.88,0:02:11.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that, but I'm not and I will
Dialogue: 0,0:02:11.19,0:02:12.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,pre-emptively characterize such an
Dialogue: 0,0:02:12.68,0:02:14.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,argument as out cropping of the
Dialogue: 0,0:02:14.26,0:02:15.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,very mentality that I'm talking about.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:15.99,0:02:17.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You expect all of your demands to be
Dialogue: 0,0:02:17.61,0:02:19.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,catered to, and any man who is unwilling
Dialogue: 0,0:02:19.36,0:02:20.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or unable to cater to them must have
Dialogue: 0,0:02:20.51,0:02:22.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,something wrong with them. Us men are
Dialogue: 0,0:02:22.11,0:02:23.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,human beings with our own interests and
Dialogue: 0,0:02:23.49,0:02:24.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,goals, and it's selfish for you to expect
Dialogue: 0,0:02:24.99,0:02:27.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,us to give all that up for you.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:27.13,0:02:29.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But these movies condition you to expect
Dialogue: 0,0:02:29.04,0:02:31.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,exactly that. And that is why we hate
Dialogue: 0,0:02:31.26,0:02:33.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,romantic comedies. We don't see anything
Dialogue: 0,0:02:33.19,0:02:35.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,romantic about them. What we see is the
Dialogue: 0,0:02:35.42,0:02:37.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,reinforcement of unfair and unreasonable
Dialogue: 0,0:02:37.91,0:02:39.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,expectations about what we should be doing
Dialogue: 0,0:02:39.31,0:02:42.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with our own lives. Also, fuck Beyonce.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:42.18,0:02:44.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Why do you make women sit around and talk
Dialogue: 0,0:02:44.36,0:02:46.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,about men in movies when y'all easily just
Dialogue: 0,0:02:46.18,0:02:49.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,sit around and talk about boobs for hours?
Dialogue: 0,0:02:49.09,0:02:50.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,One, I don't know, maybe you should be
Dialogue: 0,0:02:50.99,0:02:53.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,asking that to people who write romantic
Dialogue: 0,0:02:53.09,0:02:54.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,comedies you like so much, because
Dialogue: 0,0:02:54.86,0:02:56.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,those are the movies which have women
Dialogue: 0,0:02:56.41,0:02:57.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,sitting around talking about men. Or,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:57.46,0:02:59.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,better yet, instead of complaining about
Dialogue: 0,0:02:59.23,0:03:00.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,how writers depict women in their movies,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:00.76,0:03:01.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,maybe you should try being the change you
Dialogue: 0,0:03:01.59,0:03:03.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,want to see and write your own damn movie.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:03.34,0:03:04.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Then you could make the female characters
Dialogue: 0,0:03:04.59,0:03:05.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,sit around and talk about whatever you
Dialogue: 0,0:03:05.71,0:03:07.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,want. Like how men are oppressing them, or
Dialogue: 0,0:03:07.11,0:03:08.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,how men are objectifying them or how men
Dialogue: 0,0:03:08.49,0:03:09.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,are such pigs, or how men spread their
Dialogue: 0,0:03:09.71,0:03:11.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,legs too far apart on the subway, or how
Dialogue: 0,0:03:11.36,0:03:13.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,men hate romantic comedies. There's
Dialogue: 0,0:03:13.64,0:03:15.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,nothing stopping you.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:15.73,0:03:17.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Two, you're referring to the Bechdel Test,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:17.40,0:03:19.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,which is bullshit. All the Twilight movies
Dialogue: 0,0:03:19.16,0:03:20.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,pass the Bechdel Test, but I think you'd
Dialogue: 0,0:03:20.66,0:03:22.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,hesitate to call any of those movies
Dialogue: 0,0:03:22.44,0:03:24.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"pro-feminist."
Dialogue: 0,0:03:24.13,0:03:25.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Three, I don't know a single guy who ever
Dialogue: 0,0:03:25.73,0:03:27.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,talks about boobs for hours at a time.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:27.81,0:03:29.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I think the only guys who do are medical
Dialogue: 0,0:03:29.48,0:03:30.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,students learning how to conduct
Dialogue: 0,0:03:30.98,0:03:32.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,mammograms. You want to know what most of
Dialogue: 0,0:03:32.81,0:03:34.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the men I know talk about? Movies, video
Dialogue: 0,0:03:34.19,0:03:36.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,games, politics, religion, music, sports,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:36.11,0:03:37.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,cars, boats, technology, work, guns,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:37.96,0:03:39.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,hunting, places they've been to, people
Dialogue: 0,0:03:39.39,0:03:41.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they've met, and so on. The subject of
Dialogue: 0,0:03:41.44,0:03:43.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,boobs actually rarely ever comes up.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:43.59,0:03:45.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Contrary to what you may have been told in
Dialogue: 0,0:03:45.69,0:03:47.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,your Women's Studies class, men don't
Dialogue: 0,0:03:47.26,0:03:48.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,think about sex constantly. If we did, we
Dialogue: 0,0:03:48.58,0:03:50.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,would never have invented the camera
Dialogue: 0,0:03:50.59,0:03:51.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,equipment you used to make this video.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:51.96,0:03:54.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Four. If anybody's talking about boobs for
Dialogue: 0,0:03:54.53,0:03:57.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,hours at a time, it's feminists. You're
Dialogue: 0,0:03:57.59,0:03:59.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the ones who are always whining about
Dialogue: 0,0:03:59.16,0:04:00.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the designs of fictional characters,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:00.01,0:04:01.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,complaining that fat girls' tits are too
Dialogue: 0,0:04:01.36,0:04:02.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,big. And in all honesty, the only time I
Dialogue: 0,0:04:02.71,0:04:04.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ever even think about a comic book
Dialogue: 0,0:04:04.66,0:04:05.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,character's tits is when I hear a feminist
Dialogue: 0,0:04:05.99,0:04:07.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,bring it up. So I think maybe you're
Dialogue: 0,0:04:07.41,0:04:08.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,projecting.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:08.36,0:04:10.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Why do you automatically assume that you
Dialogue: 0,0:04:10.49,0:04:11.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,won't like the TV or movies that star a
Dialogue: 0,0:04:11.94,0:04:13.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,female lead?"
Dialogue: 0,0:04:13.19,0:04:14.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I don't. In fact, some of my favorite
Dialogue: 0,0:04:14.59,0:04:16.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,movies and TV shows have female leads.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:16.56,0:04:18.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I don't know a single man who has ever
Dialogue: 0,0:04:18.38,0:04:19.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,scoffed at the notion of watching a movie
Dialogue: 0,0:04:19.81,0:04:21.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or TV show just because it has a female
Dialogue: 0,0:04:21.59,0:04:23.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,protagonist. However, I have seen
Dialogue: 0,0:04:23.69,0:04:25.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,feminists scoff at anything with a male
Dialogue: 0,0:04:25.09,0:04:26.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,lead.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:26.11,0:04:27.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Why are you surprised when women are
Dialogue: 0,0:04:27.78,0:04:29.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,funny?" "I'm probably funnier than you!"
Dialogue: 0,0:04:29.34,0:04:30.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm not surprised when women are funny.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:30.89,0:04:32.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There are plenty of funny women out there.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:32.43,0:04:34.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[names not recognized], et cetera.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:34.53,0:04:36.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But I will say that, in general, women are
Dialogue: 0,0:04:36.56,0:04:38.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,not as funny as men, and I think most
Dialogue: 0,0:04:38.66,0:04:39.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,women won't agree with that statement.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:39.94,0:04:41.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I also think there's a reason for this.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:41.88,0:04:43.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,See if you understand what humor is
Dialogue: 0,0:04:43.96,0:04:46.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and how it works, which I'm guessing
Dialogue: 0,0:04:46.09,0:04:47.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you don't because you're feminists,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:47.44,0:04:49.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,then you know that the things that make
Dialogue: 0,0:04:49.44,0:04:50.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,laugh often have their roots in very dark
Dialogue: 0,0:04:50.54,0:04:51.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,subject matter.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:51.73,0:04:53.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,To quote the amazing atheist,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:53.33,0:04:55.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"These people who are fucking offended
Dialogue: 0,0:04:55.06,0:04:56.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,by rape jokes don't even understand
Dialogue: 0,0:04:56.41,0:04:57.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,humor. They don't understand- They
Dialogue: 0,0:04:57.38,0:04:59.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,think of humor as like a happy thing,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:59.68,0:05:02.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because humor makes us laugh and laughter
Dialogue: 0,0:05:02.16,0:05:04.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,makes us happy, but a lot of the time
Dialogue: 0,0:05:04.19,0:05:05.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they don't seem to notice that what we're
Dialogue: 0,0:05:05.63,0:05:07.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,actually laughing at is quite dark and
Dialogue: 0,0:05:07.94,0:05:09.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,morbid. Like if you actually look at it
Dialogue: 0,0:05:09.81,0:05:11.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and examine the jokes, and look at the
Dialogue: 0,0:05:11.58,0:05:13.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,exaggeration and try to figure out the
Dialogue: 0,0:05:13.04,0:05:15.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,mechanics of how the joke works,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:15.28,0:05:17.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,why does it work; you're gonna find that
Dialogue: 0,0:05:17.23,0:05:19.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a lot of jokes have their genesis in pain
Dialogue: 0,0:05:19.81,0:05:22.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and suffering. Because laughter is this
Dialogue: 0,0:05:22.23,0:05:25.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,great transcendent tool we have, where
Dialogue: 0,0:05:25.23,0:05:27.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we can take something that- that's bitter
Dialogue: 0,0:05:27.49,0:05:30.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and difficult to comprehend or deal with,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:30.26,0:05:32.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and make it something funny.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:32.13,0:05:34.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Like if I take a joke like "How many
Dialogue: 0,0:05:34.18,0:05:37.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,police officers does it take change a
Dialogue: 0,0:05:37.19,0:05:39.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,light bulb?"
Dialogue: 0,0:05:39.33,0:05:41.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"None, they just beat the room for being
Dialogue: 0,0:05:41.66,0:05:43.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,black." you know that joke has it's
Dialogue: 0,0:05:43.71,0:05:46.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,genesis in some very serious, very dark
Dialogue: 0,0:05:46.93,0:05:49.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,shit. And that joke is not making light
Dialogue: 0,0:05:49.66,0:05:52.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of the fact that people have suffered,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:52.23,0:05:54.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or it's not making light of the fact that
Dialogue: 0,0:05:54.61,0:05:56.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,people, you know, marched in the Civil
Dialogue: 0,0:05:56.44,0:05:58.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Rights Movement, or- or that people are
Dialogue: 0,0:05:58.69,0:06:00.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,racial discriminated against, or police
Dialogue: 0,0:06:00.53,0:06:02.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,brutality. It's not making light of any
Dialogue: 0,0:06:02.74,0:06:04.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of that. What it's doing is it's taking
Dialogue: 0,0:06:04.96,0:06:06.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that pain and it's taking that dark
Dialogue: 0,0:06:06.89,0:06:08.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,subject matter, and it's helping us
Dialogue: 0,0:06:08.58,0:06:10.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,transcend it for a moment. And view
Dialogue: 0,0:06:10.61,0:06:13.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the absurdity of our circumstance.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:13.41,0:06:15.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because that is what humor is supposed to
Dialogue: 0,0:06:15.83,0:06:18.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,do. Humor at it's best takes the elements
Dialogue: 0,0:06:18.09,0:06:19.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of the world that are dark and horrible,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:19.68,0:06:21.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and shows you there absurdity. It shows
Dialogue: 0,0:06:21.84,0:06:24.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you the absurdity of the human condition.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:24.01,0:06:26.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and that is important."
Dialogue: 0,0:06:26.18,0:06:29.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,See men are socially conditioned to not
Dialogue: 0,0:06:29.03,0:06:30.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,talk openly and honestly about their
Dialogue: 0,0:06:30.53,0:06:32.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,feelings, which I'll talk more about
Dialogue: 0,0:06:32.43,0:06:34.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,later, and that's why we cultivate a sense
Dialogue: 0,0:06:34.39,0:06:36.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of humor. The only way we can really talk
Dialogue: 0,0:06:36.28,0:06:37.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,about the things that upset us is if
Dialogue: 0,0:06:37.84,0:06:39.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we do it through the filter of comedy.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:39.36,0:06:40.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But women have the {\i1}clears throat{\i0}
Dialogue: 0,0:06:40.94,0:06:43.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"privilege" to not be subject to social
Dialogue: 0,0:06:43.04,0:06:45.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,conditioning, and so they don't feel the
Dialogue: 0,0:06:45.11,0:06:46.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,need to cultivate a sense of humor.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:46.74,0:06:48.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And that's why women, in general, aren't
Dialogue: 0,0:06:48.24,0:06:50.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as funny and men. That isn't to say that
Dialogue: 0,0:06:50.34,0:06:51.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,all men are funny, or that all women are
Dialogue: 0,0:06:51.96,0:06:54.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,unfunny. It's just that in general men are
Dialogue: 0,0:06:54.23,0:06:56.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,funnier than women. I'm sorry but that's
Dialogue: 0,0:06:56.03,0:06:58.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,how it is. Also no- I'd rather strongly
Dialogue: 0,0:06:58.49,0:07:00.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,doubt that you're funnier than me.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:00.29,0:07:02.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And it's not because you're a woman.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:02.33,0:07:03.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Just judging by how you look and talk,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:03.44,0:07:04.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm willing to bet that your sense of
Dialogue: 0,0:07:04.66,0:07:05.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,humor boils down to saying something rude,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:05.84,0:07:08.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and then following it with "Just kidding".
Dialogue: 0,0:07:08.03,0:07:09.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I mean I'm not the funniest person in
Dialogue: 0,0:07:09.94,0:07:11.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the world but if you think of yourself
Dialogue: 0,0:07:11.36,0:07:13.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as the funny one, you probably lack the
Dialogue: 0,0:07:13.03,0:07:14.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,objectivity to realize that everybody
Dialogue: 0,0:07:14.76,0:07:16.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,else in your circle of friends probably
Dialogue: 0,0:07:16.41,0:07:17.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,thinks of you as the "annoying one".
Dialogue: 0,0:07:17.79,0:07:20.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Just kidding, actually I'm not.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:20.29,0:07:21.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Why do you think we're obsessed with you
Dialogue: 0,0:07:21.88,0:07:24.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when we hook up?" "Nine times out of
Dialogue: 0,0:07:24.06,0:07:25.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ten, I just want you to leave too, I'm
Dialogue: 0,0:07:25.66,0:07:27.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,busy, I got shit to do."
Dialogue: 0,0:07:27.19,0:07:28.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Probably because you do shit like text
Dialogue: 0,0:07:28.86,0:07:30.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,us 50 times in the space of one hour, and
Dialogue: 0,0:07:30.84,0:07:32.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,slash our tires when we dump you after you
Dialogue: 0,0:07:32.44,0:07:34.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,accuse us of cheating because you saw our
Dialogue: 0,0:07:34.14,0:07:36.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,sister's name in our call history. Also
Dialogue: 0,0:07:36.09,0:07:38.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,what shit could you possibly have to do?
Dialogue: 0,0:07:38.03,0:07:39.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Pluck your eyebrows to the point
Dialogue: 0,0:07:39.48,0:07:40.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,where they're so unnaturally clean around
Dialogue: 0,0:07:40.71,0:07:41.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the edges that they look like they're
Dialogue: 0,0:07:41.89,0:07:43.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,drawn on? Spend your husband's money
Dialogue: 0,0:07:43.56,0:07:45.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,on more frumpy sweaters? Buy a tub of
Dialogue: 0,0:07:45.34,0:07:47.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ben & Jerry's and watch Glee? Or write
Dialogue: 0,0:07:47.33,0:07:49.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,more questions for men to answer
Dialogue: 0,0:07:49.11,0:07:50.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because you're so lacking in self
Dialogue: 0,0:07:50.49,0:07:51.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,awareness that you can't figure out the
Dialogue: 0,0:07:51.71,0:07:52.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,answers for yourself?
Dialogue: 0,0:07:52.70,0:07:54.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Why can't I sleep as many people as I
Dialogue: 0,0:07:54.64,0:07:56.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,want to without being judged? When men do
Dialogue: 0,0:07:56.64,0:07:58.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it, they're congratulated"
Dialogue: 0,0:07:58.21,0:07:59.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Go ahead and sleep with as many
Dialogue: 0,0:07:59.31,0:08:00.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,people as you want. I don't give a shit,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:00.60,0:08:02.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but once again I don't know anybody who
Dialogue: 0,0:08:02.49,0:08:04.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,would. The only time I would care is if I
Dialogue: 0,0:08:04.68,0:08:05.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,was dating you, because if you told me
Dialogue: 0,0:08:05.94,0:08:07.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you've been with 20 other guys before
Dialogue: 0,0:08:07.48,0:08:08.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I met you, I would naturally assume that
Dialogue: 0,0:08:08.81,0:08:10.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there was something wrong with you
Dialogue: 0,0:08:10.21,0:08:11.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if you've been in so many relationships
Dialogue: 0,0:08:11.64,0:08:13.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and have them all fail. Not to mention the
Dialogue: 0,0:08:13.23,0:08:14.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,fact that your substantially more
Dialogue: 0,0:08:14.51,0:08:16.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,likely to be carrying an STD. And I think
Dialogue: 0,0:08:16.53,0:08:18.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it's perfectly reasonable for a woman to
Dialogue: 0,0:08:18.09,0:08:19.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,view men who have slept with a lot of
Dialogue: 0,0:08:19.71,0:08:21.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,other women the same way. Also who's
Dialogue: 0,0:08:21.16,0:08:22.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,congratulating men for sleeping around?
Dialogue: 0,0:08:22.89,0:08:24.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I don't see any guys walking around with
Dialogue: 0,0:08:24.74,0:08:26.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,trophies for fucking everyone they've
Dialogue: 0,0:08:26.18,0:08:27.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,met. It's not like having sex with easy
Dialogue: 0,0:08:27.79,0:08:29.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,women is some kind of achievement.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:29.11,0:08:30.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Furthermore, I would say that most media
Dialogue: 0,0:08:30.66,0:08:32.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,portrays men who do that as assholes
Dialogue: 0,0:08:32.43,0:08:34.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who should be looked at with content.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:34.09,0:08:36.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I mean -name not recognized- isn't
Dialogue: 0,0:08:36.08,0:08:37.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,exactly portrayed as a model citizen.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:37.60,0:08:39.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,By the way studies have found that the
Dialogue: 0,0:08:39.63,0:08:41.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,majority of people who slut shame women,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:41.54,0:08:43.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,are other women. Maybe you should be
Dialogue: 0,0:08:43.56,0:08:44.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,directing this question at them and not
Dialogue: 0,0:08:44.91,0:08:45.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,men.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:45.84,0:08:46.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Why do you consider a woman a tease,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:46.54,0:08:48.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if she does sleep with you after three
Dialogue: 0,0:08:48.98,0:08:51.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,dates, but a slut if she sleeps with you
Dialogue: 0,0:08:51.44,0:08:52.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,on the first date?"
Dialogue: 0,0:08:52.71,0:08:54.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Why do you consider a man a douchebag if
Dialogue: 0,0:08:54.39,0:08:55.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,he doesn't call you back three days after
Dialogue: 0,0:08:55.46,0:08:57.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,he meets you, but desperate if he calls
Dialogue: 0,0:08:57.28,0:08:58.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you the next day?
Dialogue: 0,0:08:58.23,0:08:59.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"In what world does no mean yes?"
Dialogue: 0,0:08:59.63,0:09:00.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"No means no."
Dialogue: 0,0:09:00.49,0:09:01.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I don't know anybody who thinks no
Dialogue: 0,0:09:01.98,0:09:04.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,means yes. Also this question seems to be
Dialogue: 0,0:09:04.39,0:09:06.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in the spirit of the feminist notion that
Dialogue: 0,0:09:06.23,0:09:08.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,all men are potential rapists. Which
Dialogue: 0,0:09:08.04,0:09:09.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,simply isn't true. I already talked about
Dialogue: 0,0:09:09.91,0:09:11.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,this at length in my other video, "'Teach
Dialogue: 0,0:09:11.76,0:09:13.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,men not to rape' is a stupid rhetoric".
Dialogue: 0,0:09:13.56,0:09:14.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Moving on.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:14.56,0:09:16.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Why do you say that women are too
Dialogue: 0,0:09:16.09,0:09:17.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,emotional to be leaders"
Dialogue: 0,0:09:17.71,0:09:19.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,{\i1}whispering:{\i0} maybe if feminist argued
Dialogue: 0,0:09:19.63,0:09:22.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with logics instead of feelings, people
Dialogue: 0,0:09:22.31,0:09:23.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,wouldn't think that.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:23.91,0:09:25.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Then justify cat calling by saying
Dialogue: 0,0:09:25.96,0:09:28.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,'men just can't control themselves'"
Dialogue: 0,0:09:28.08,0:09:30.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I've never heard a man say either, I have
Dialogue: 0,0:09:30.74,0:09:32.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,hear women say both though.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:32.23,0:09:34.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Why do you think that just because
Dialogue: 0,0:09:34.08,0:09:35.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you're nice to me, I owe you my body?"
Dialogue: 0,0:09:35.96,0:09:37.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Why do you think that just because I'm
Dialogue: 0,0:09:37.50,0:09:38.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,nice to you that I want your body.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:38.79,0:09:42.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Sometimes I've been walking down the
Dialogue: 0,0:09:42.24,0:09:43.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,street, hysterically crying because my cat
Dialogue: 0,0:09:43.16,0:09:44.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,was missing, and a man came up and
Dialogue: 0,0:09:44.46,0:09:46.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,was like 'Hey what's up, why are you
Dialogue: 0,0:09:46.56,0:09:47.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,crying? Can I talk to you?'
Dialogue: 0,0:09:47.84,0:09:49.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"But I want to continue this, so when
Dialogue: 0,0:09:49.24,0:09:50.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the guy up to you and asked you
Dialogue: 0,0:09:50.56,0:09:51.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,how you were doing, did you judge his
Dialogue: 0,0:09:51.71,0:09:52.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,intentions, or do you feel like-"
Dialogue: 0,0:09:52.100,0:09:54.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"I was like what the hell is wrong with
Dialogue: 0,0:09:54.66,0:09:56.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you I'm hysterically crying, holding
Dialogue: 0,0:09:56.11,0:09:57.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,flyers that say missing cat."
Dialogue: 0,0:09:57.63,0:09:59.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Wait what if he was checking how you were
Dialogue: 0,0:09:59.06,0:10:00.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,doing because you were crying?"
Dialogue: 0,0:10:00.33,0:10:01.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"No he was- It was a catcall, it was like
Dialogue: 0,0:10:01.86,0:10:04.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a 'Hey pretty lady, like what's going on-"
Dialogue: 0,0:10:04.31,0:10:05.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"What if he was trying to be sweet to get
Dialogue: 0,0:10:05.74,0:10:07.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,into you, like 'hey pretty lady, why are
Dialogue: 0,0:10:07.39,0:10:08.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you crying?'"
Dialogue: 0,0:10:08.58,0:10:10.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"He's not entitled to my time, honestly"
Dialogue: 0,0:10:10.48,0:10:13.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"If he had not said anything to you, then
Dialogue: 0,0:10:13.09,0:10:14.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,he's a dick because he's a guy in society
Dialogue: 0,0:10:14.96,0:10:16.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who saw a girl crying and didn't do
Dialogue: 0,0:10:16.79,0:10:18.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,anything."
Dialogue: 0,0:10:18.44,0:10:19.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"But it's a different- If he's saying that
Dialogue: 0,0:10:19.61,0:10:20.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to get my number, that's different that
Dialogue: 0,0:10:20.69,0:10:22.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,him coming up and saying 'Whats
Dialogue: 0,0:10:22.14,0:10:23.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,wrong, if I see your cat around, I'll let
Dialogue: 0,0:10:23.64,0:10:25.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you know. Like that's a different thing"
Dialogue: 0,0:10:25.51,0:10:27.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"But how is he going to know about your
Dialogue: 0,0:10:27.04,0:10:28.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,cat, he saw a girl crying on the street"
Dialogue: 0,0:10:28.14,0:10:29.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Well, it was just- I was hanging up the
Dialogue: 0,0:10:29.18,0:10:30.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,flyers."
Dialogue: 0,0:10:30.18,0:10:31.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Now I'll now if I ever see a girl crying
Dialogue: 0,0:10:31.69,0:10:33.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,on the street, and she's hysterical and
Dialogue: 0,0:10:33.51,0:10:35.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,she might've just lost her parents and
Dialogue: 0,0:10:35.13,0:10:36.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,has nobody, I shouldn't go up to her
Dialogue: 0,0:10:36.81,0:10:38.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because she might think I'm objectify her"
Dialogue: 0,0:10:38.63,0:10:40.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"She doesn't know you. She doesn't know
Dialogue: 0,0:10:40.18,0:10:40.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you."
Dialogue: 0,0:10:40.93,0:10:41.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"But we're humans, we should care about
Dialogue: 0,0:10:41.73,0:10:43.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,each other."
Dialogue: 0,0:10:43.31,0:10:44.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Of course, of course, but I think you
Dialogue: 0,0:10:44.41,0:10:45.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,have to understand what you come off
Dialogue: 0,0:10:45.33,0:10:47.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as to women. They don't know you. It's
Dialogue: 0,0:10:47.46,0:10:48.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,like if a brown bear came up and said
Dialogue: 0,0:10:48.98,0:10:51.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,hello to you. Like you just have to like-"
Dialogue: 0,0:10:51.01,0:10:53.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Why would you ever send an unsolicited
Dialogue: 0,0:10:53.93,0:10:55.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,dick pic?"
Dialogue: 0,0:10:55.21,0:10:56.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I wouldn't. If you didn't give out your
Dialogue: 0,0:10:56.43,0:10:58.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,phone number to the types of guys you meet
Dialogue: 0,0:10:58.04,0:11:00.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in night clubs, you know the type of guys
Dialogue: 0,0:11:00.41,0:11:01.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who go to such clubs for the specific
Dialogue: 0,0:11:01.88,0:11:03.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,purpose of meeting women, and who read
Dialogue: 0,0:11:03.51,0:11:05.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,books about how to be a pick up artist;
Dialogue: 0,0:11:05.03,0:11:06.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,maybe you wouldn't be getting dick pics
Dialogue: 0,0:11:06.48,0:11:07.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,from them.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:07.36,0:11:08.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Why do you feel like it's okay to harrass
Dialogue: 0,0:11:08.34,0:11:09.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,women, or make offensive comments about
Dialogue: 0,0:11:09.91,0:11:13.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,women, but when somebody does it to your
Dialogue: 0,0:11:13.08,0:11:14.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,sister, it's not okay?"
Dialogue: 0,0:11:14.49,0:11:15.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Why do you feel like it's okay to make
Dialogue: 0,0:11:15.100,0:11:17.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,these misandrist videos which paint all
Dialogue: 0,0:11:17.58,0:11:19.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,men as sexual harassers or rapists, but
Dialogue: 0,0:11:19.44,0:11:20.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when somebody treats your son that way,
Dialogue: 0,0:11:20.86,0:11:22.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it's not okay?
Dialogue: 0,0:11:22.09,0:11:23.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"How does it feel to interrupt me when
Dialogue: 0,0:11:23.63,0:11:24.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm in the middle of making a point
Dialogue: 0,0:11:24.98,0:11:26.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,during a meetings?"
Dialogue: 0,0:11:26.09,0:11:27.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You make it sound like the only people
Dialogue: 0,0:11:27.36,0:11:28.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who have ever interrupted you are men.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:28.53,0:11:30.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I smell confirmation bias. Hey have you
Dialogue: 0,0:11:30.20,0:11:31.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ever stopped to think that maybe people
Dialogue: 0,0:11:31.28,0:11:33.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,interrupt you because they realize you're
Dialogue: 0,0:11:33.63,0:11:35.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,talking shit and wasting time after only
Dialogue: 0,0:11:35.46,0:11:36.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,two sentences.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:36.33,0:11:37.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Why do you have to sit with your legs
Dialogue: 0,0:11:37.80,0:11:38.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so wide open?"
Dialogue: 0,0:11:38.78,0:11:40.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"I get that you have balls, but I don't
Dialogue: 0,0:11:40.99,0:11:43.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,stand around with my arms wide open
Dialogue: 0,0:11:43.23,0:11:44.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to make room for my boobs."
Dialogue: 0,0:11:44.66,0:11:46.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Maybe that's because your boobs don't get
Dialogue: 0,0:11:46.30,0:11:47.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,squished between your arms when you stand
Dialogue: 0,0:11:47.81,0:11:49.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,normally with your arms down by your
Dialogue: 0,0:11:49.16,0:11:51.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,sides. A man's balls are literally between
Dialogue: 0,0:11:51.36,0:11:52.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,his legs, and they do get squished if he
Dialogue: 0,0:11:52.58,0:11:54.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,puts his legs together. It's not exactly
Dialogue: 0,0:11:54.16,0:11:56.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,an apt comparison. Furthermore, why
Dialogue: 0,0:11:56.88,0:11:58.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,do you even care? I don't see you
Dialogue: 0,0:11:58.43,0:11:59.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,complaining about women taking up
Dialogue: 0,0:11:59.93,0:12:01.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,two seats with their bags.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:01.46,0:12:02.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Why are women perceived as the weaker
Dialogue: 0,0:12:02.56,0:12:03.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,sex? Even though we literally birth you,
Dialogue: 0,0:12:03.11,0:12:08.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,like watermelons through like 'this'"
Dialogue: 0,0:12:08.73,0:12:10.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because physical strength has nothing to
Dialogue: 0,0:12:10.18,0:12:11.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,do with your ability to give birth. Women
Dialogue: 0,0:12:11.58,0:12:13.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,are, generally speaking, not as physically
Dialogue: 0,0:12:13.36,0:12:16.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,strong as men. The average man has about
Dialogue: 0,0:12:16.04,0:12:18.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,50% greater upper body strength than the
Dialogue: 0,0:12:18.23,0:12:20.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,average woman. I'm sorry but that's just
Dialogue: 0,0:12:20.19,0:12:22.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,simple biology. There's also the fact
Dialogue: 0,0:12:22.34,0:12:24.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that men are by in large the one's who go
Dialogue: 0,0:12:24.23,0:12:26.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to war and fight and die to protect you.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:26.08,0:12:27.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Men are the ones who work the dangerous
Dialogue: 0,0:12:27.58,0:12:29.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,jobs to make your comfortable lifestyle in
Dialogue: 0,0:12:29.33,0:12:30.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the industrialized world possible.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:30.61,0:12:32.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And historically men are also the ones
Dialogue: 0,0:12:32.48,0:12:33.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who have gone out into the unforgiving
Dialogue: 0,0:12:33.51,0:12:35.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,wilderness to kill dangerous animals so
Dialogue: 0,0:12:35.03,0:12:36.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ungrateful entitled women like you could
Dialogue: 0,0:12:36.69,0:12:38.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,eat. You as a woman are substantially less
Dialogue: 0,0:12:38.93,0:12:40.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,likely to die during your daily activities
Dialogue: 0,0:12:40.83,0:12:42.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and you don't have to worry about being
Dialogue: 0,0:12:42.38,0:12:44.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,called a deadbeat for not risking life in
Dialogue: 0,0:12:44.14,0:12:45.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a factory or field for the benefit of
Dialogue: 0,0:12:45.71,0:12:47.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,others. Nor do you have to worry about
Dialogue: 0,0:12:47.16,0:12:48.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,being told you don't have a real job
Dialogue: 0,0:12:48.51,0:12:50.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because you work with computers or push
Dialogue: 0,0:12:50.26,0:12:51.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,pencils in a safe, clean environment.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:51.86,0:12:53.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Women work soft cushy jobs compared to
Dialogue: 0,0:12:53.86,0:12:55.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,men and that's why women make only 7% of
Dialogue: 0,0:12:55.91,0:12:58.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,workplace fatalities despite making up 47%
Dialogue: 0,0:12:58.50,0:13:00.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of the work force. That is why you're
Dialogue: 0,0:13:00.40,0:13:02.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,perceived as the weaker sex. If you
Dialogue: 0,0:13:02.23,0:13:03.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,don't want people to see you that way,
Dialogue: 0,0:13:03.41,0:13:04.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,then get out of your comfortable air
Dialogue: 0,0:13:04.74,0:13:06.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,conditioned studio and go work on a
Dialogue: 0,0:13:06.21,0:13:08.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,craving boat on a coal mine. You're
Dialogue: 0,0:13:08.14,0:13:09.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,always complaining about employment
Dialogue: 0,0:13:09.53,0:13:11.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,discrimination, so go ahead, take the
Dialogue: 0,0:13:11.03,0:13:12.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,dirty dangerous jobs and show us all just
Dialogue: 0,0:13:12.86,0:13:14.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,how strong and tough you are. And look
Dialogue: 0,0:13:14.63,0:13:16.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I don't begrudge women for working jobs
Dialogue: 0,0:13:16.54,0:13:18.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that don't put them in danger and I will
Dialogue: 0,0:13:18.04,0:13:19.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,freely admit that my job isn't
Dialogue: 0,0:13:19.59,0:13:21.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,particularly dangerous; but if you're
Dialogue: 0,0:13:21.20,0:13:22.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,going to sit there and act like women
Dialogue: 0,0:13:22.68,0:13:24.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,are stronger than men just because you can
Dialogue: 0,0:13:24.56,0:13:26.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,give birth, something which you have a
Dialogue: 0,0:13:26.16,0:13:28.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,0.0002 percent chance of dying from if you
Dialogue: 0,0:13:28.33,0:13:30.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,live in the United States, and that's up
Dialogue: 0,0:13:30.16,0:13:31.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,from 15 years ago, then you can fuck right
Dialogue: 0,0:13:31.90,0:13:34.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,off. By the way passing a kidney stone
Dialogue: 0,0:13:34.30,0:13:36.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,hurts more than giving birth. Any woman
Dialogue: 0,0:13:36.14,0:13:37.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who has experienced both will tell you
Dialogue: 0,0:13:37.98,0:13:39.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that, and men get them more often so
Dialogue: 0,0:13:39.29,0:13:40.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,blow me.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:40.26,0:13:42.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Why is it so bad to show your emotions?"
Dialogue: 0,0:13:42.08,0:13:43.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"It means you're human."
Dialogue: 0,0:13:43.48,0:13:45.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Maybe it's because feminists like you
Dialogue: 0,0:13:45.03,0:13:46.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,tell us we're misogynists for even
Dialogue: 0,0:13:46.81,0:13:48.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,daring to complain about our problems.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:48.13,0:13:51.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Since you're not a man and you don't have
Dialogue: 0,0:13:51.31,0:13:52.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,even the slightest inclining of what it's
Dialogue: 0,0:13:52.26,0:13:53.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,like to be a man, let me spell it out for
Dialogue: 0,0:13:53.83,0:13:55.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you. Boys are socially conditioned from
Dialogue: 0,0:13:55.64,0:13:57.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the day we learn to talk to not express
Dialogue: 0,0:13:57.11,0:13:59.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,our feelings. We are [unknown] constantly
Dialogue: 0,0:13:59.83,0:14:01.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,be told to man up and that boys don't cry.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:01.51,0:14:03.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We don't have the privilege of showing
Dialogue: 0,0:14:03.91,0:14:06.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,our emotions because if we do, it's a sign
Dialogue: 0,0:14:06.11,0:14:08.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of weakness. To put it simply, us men are
Dialogue: 0,0:14:08.29,0:14:09.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,programmed to believe that our own
Dialogue: 0,0:14:09.84,0:14:11.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,feelings are invalid, and so we hide them
Dialogue: 0,0:14:11.74,0:14:13.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and we lie about them. We are raised to
Dialogue: 0,0:14:13.56,0:14:15.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,expect that if we tell you our feelings,
Dialogue: 0,0:14:15.43,0:14:17.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you will shoot them down. You will tell
Dialogue: 0,0:14:17.04,0:14:18.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,us we're wrong for feeling the way we do,
Dialogue: 0,0:14:18.88,0:14:21.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and even if you don't, we still don't want
Dialogue: 0,0:14:21.31,0:14:22.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to tell you our feelings because
Dialogue: 0,0:14:22.81,0:14:23.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we know you'll use them against us.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:23.76,0:14:25.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You're probably thinking that you don't do
Dialogue: 0,0:14:25.38,0:14:27.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that but you do, you do it all the time
Dialogue: 0,0:14:27.06,0:14:29.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and don't even realize it. Ask yourself if
Dialogue: 0,0:14:29.14,0:14:30.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you have ever had an argument
Dialogue: 0,0:14:30.50,0:14:31.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with one of them men in your life and
Dialogue: 0,0:14:31.63,0:14:33.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you told them "If you were a real man..."
Dialogue: 0,0:14:33.11,0:14:35.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you ever have then you have done
Dialogue: 0,0:14:35.41,0:14:37.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,exactly what I'm talking about. See no
Dialogue: 0,0:14:37.48,0:14:39.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,woman has ever been told "If you're
Dialogue: 0,0:14:39.18,0:14:40.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a real woman you wouldn't feel this way"
Dialogue: 0,0:14:40.94,0:14:42.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Women have their feelings cultivated and
Dialogue: 0,0:14:42.86,0:14:44.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,coddled. You're not only allowed to cry.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:44.90,0:14:46.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you are expected to, and when you do,
Dialogue: 0,0:14:46.74,0:14:48.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,people around you give you sympathy and
Dialogue: 0,0:14:48.34,0:14:49.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you are comforted. You are so used to
Dialogue: 0,0:14:49.98,0:14:51.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,getting sympathy that you feel entitled
Dialogue: 0,0:14:51.44,0:14:53.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to it. Men don't have that luxury. A man
Dialogue: 0,0:14:53.81,0:14:55.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,fully expects to be looked down upon,
Dialogue: 0,0:14:55.93,0:14:57.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and told that his feelings don't matter if
Dialogue: 0,0:14:57.43,0:14:59.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,he shows any sign of emotional weakness.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:59.01,0:15:01.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Even by the people he trusts most, because
Dialogue: 0,0:15:01.24,0:15:03.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that is what he has experienced for
Dialogue: 0,0:15:03.18,0:15:05.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,his entire life, and you wonder why the
Dialogue: 0,0:15:05.33,0:15:06.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,suicide rate for men is four times higher
Dialogue: 0,0:15:06.98,0:15:08.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,than it is for women. I know what you're
Dialogue: 0,0:15:08.78,0:15:10.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,going to say, you're going to say that
Dialogue: 0,0:15:10.06,0:15:11.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the social conditioning of men to not
Dialogue: 0,0:15:11.46,0:15:12.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,show their emotions is part of the
Dialogue: 0,0:15:12.86,0:15:15.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,patriarchy, and feminism is fighting to
Dialogue: 0,0:15:15.10,0:15:17.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,change that. Good, what heroes you are,
Dialogue: 0,0:15:17.24,0:15:19.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,let me give you a little golf clap while
Dialogue: 0,0:15:19.18,0:15:20.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you take a sip from your fucking
Dialogue: 0,0:15:20.33,0:15:21.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,'Male Tears' mug while sitting in the
Dialogue: 0,0:15:21.53,0:15:23.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,comfort of your safe space, where
Dialogue: 0,0:15:23.13,0:15:24.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,men aren't allowed.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:24.56,0:15:28.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Why are you always trying to prove your
Dialogue: 0,0:15:28.18,0:15:29.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,masculinity?"
Dialogue: 0,0:15:29.11,0:15:31.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,See my answer to the previous question.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:31.03,0:15:34.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Also wow, how egocentric are you.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:34.08,0:15:36.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You are so certain that the world
Dialogue: 0,0:15:36.06,0:15:37.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,revolves around you that you believe that
Dialogue: 0,0:15:37.71,0:15:39.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when a man is acting like a man, that he
Dialogue: 0,0:15:39.43,0:15:41.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,must be trying to prove something to you.
Dialogue: 0,0:15:41.04,0:15:42.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Like he couldn't possibly be acting like a
Dialogue: 0,0:15:42.91,0:15:44.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,man just because he's, you know, a
Dialogue: 0,0:15:44.34,0:15:46.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,fucking man. Why are you constantly trying
Dialogue: 0,0:15:46.69,0:15:48.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to prove your femininity to me? How
Dialogue: 0,0:15:48.76,0:15:49.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,bout that?
Dialogue: 0,0:15:49.36,0:15:51.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Why the fuck isn't it lady like to cuss?
Dialogue: 0,0:15:51.11,0:15:53.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When did words get gendered?"
Dialogue: 0,0:15:53.03,0:15:54.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's also not considered gentlemen like
Dialogue: 0,0:15:54.71,0:15:56.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to curse. Swearing is generally
Dialogue: 0,0:15:56.53,0:15:57.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,considered rude regardless of the gender
Dialogue: 0,0:15:57.98,0:15:59.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of the person who is doing it. Personally
Dialogue: 0,0:15:59.80,0:16:01.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I don't give a shit if you use
Dialogue: 0,0:16:01.06,0:16:02.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,profanity. Go right the fuck ahead.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:02.34,0:16:04.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And when did words get genered?
Dialogue: 0,0:16:04.36,0:16:05.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I guess right around the time the
Dialogue: 0,0:16:05.61,0:16:07.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,word feminist was invented, which is
Dialogue: 0,0:16:07.33,0:16:09.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,at self a gendered word. I'm mean the
Dialogue: 0,0:16:09.08,0:16:10.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,invention of feminism is when everything
Dialogue: 0,0:16:10.81,0:16:12.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,suddenly became gendered. Like when assert
Dialogue: 0,0:16:12.59,0:16:14.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that interrupting people is somehow a
Dialogue: 0,0:16:14.11,0:16:16.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,uniquely male behavior, or that only
Dialogue: 0,0:16:16.18,0:16:17.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,women get told not to swear.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:17.76,0:16:19.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Why is it your first instinct to doubt
Dialogue: 0,0:16:19.84,0:16:21.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,women who have been sexually violated or
Dialogue: 0,0:16:21.66,0:16:22.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,raped?"
Dialogue: 0,0:16:22.61,0:16:24.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Maybe a false rape accusation weren't
Dialogue: 0,0:16:24.53,0:16:26.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,systemically encouraged by feminism,
Dialogue: 0,0:16:26.43,0:16:28.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we wouldn't have a problem. Notice how
Dialogue: 0,0:16:28.31,0:16:30.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,this question is phrased, to doubt women
Dialogue: 0,0:16:30.23,0:16:32.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who have been sexually violated or raped.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:32.53,0:16:34.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The more salient question would be,
Dialogue: 0,0:16:34.54,0:16:36.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,'Why do you doubt women who {\i1}claim{\i0} to have
Dialogue: 0,0:16:36.13,0:16:37.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,been sexually violated or raped. And the
Dialogue: 0,0:16:37.94,0:16:39.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,answer is because we have this thing
Dialogue: 0,0:16:39.80,0:16:41.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,called the presumption of innocence.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:41.84,0:16:43.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That means a person who is accused of a
Dialogue: 0,0:16:43.73,0:16:45.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,crime is innocent until proven guilty.
Dialogue: 0,0:16:45.60,0:16:47.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So it's not my first instinct to doubt,
Dialogue: 0,0:16:47.76,0:16:50.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it's my moral imperative to doubt until
Dialogue: 0,0:16:50.34,0:16:53.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,evidence is forthcoming. You wouldn't put
Dialogue: 0,0:16:53.08,0:16:54.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,somebody in jail just because somebody
Dialogue: 0,0:16:54.48,0:16:56.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,accused them of murder nor would you put
Dialogue: 0,0:16:56.23,0:16:57.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,them in jail just because somebody accused
Dialogue: 0,0:16:57.83,0:16:59.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,them of theft, nor would you put them in
Dialogue: 0,0:16:59.36,0:17:00.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,jail because somebody accused them of any
Dialogue: 0,0:17:00.70,0:17:02.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,other crime. Why should accusations of
Dialogue: 0,0:17:02.14,0:17:04.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,rape be held to a different standard? This
Dialogue: 0,0:17:04.83,0:17:06.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,really isn't a difficult concept to
Dialogue: 0,0:17:06.24,0:17:07.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,understand, and it both baffles me and
Dialogue: 0,0:17:07.84,0:17:09.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,disturbs me how often I see feminists
Dialogue: 0,0:17:09.53,0:17:11.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,failing to grasp this. For people who
Dialogue: 0,0:17:11.84,0:17:13.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,claim to fight for social justice, you
Dialogue: 0,0:17:13.19,0:17:14.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,really don't understand how justice works,
Dialogue: 0,0:17:14.63,0:17:17.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,do you? See a man who its accused of rape,
Dialogue: 0,0:17:17.24,0:17:19.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,{\i1}will{\i0} have his life ruined. That's not even
Dialogue: 0,0:17:19.64,0:17:21.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,only if he is convicted, the mere
Dialogue: 0,0:17:21.58,0:17:23.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,accusation is enough to cost him his job,
Dialogue: 0,0:17:23.56,0:17:25.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,his relationships, his education and
Dialogue: 0,0:17:25.33,0:17:26.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,career prospects, his home, his
Dialogue: 0,0:17:26.80,0:17:29.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,reputation, and so on. If a woman wants
Dialogue: 0,0:17:29.46,0:17:31.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to ruin a man's life all she has to do is
Dialogue: 0,0:17:31.21,0:17:32.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,accuse him of raping her and he will be
Dialogue: 0,0:17:32.98,0:17:34.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,put through the ringer by law enforcement
Dialogue: 0,0:17:34.18,0:17:35.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and the media; and even if he is found not
Dialogue: 0,0:17:35.90,0:17:37.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,guilty, the damage will have already been
Dialogue: 0,0:17:37.43,0:17:39.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,done and the woman who made the false
Dialogue: 0,0:17:39.06,0:17:40.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,accusation will get away scot free.
Dialogue: 0,0:17:40.68,0:17:42.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Really it astonishes me that even after
Dialogue: 0,0:17:42.91,0:17:44.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,what happened at Duke and the University
Dialogue: 0,0:17:44.65,0:17:46.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of Virginia, that you're still asking
Dialogue: 0,0:17:46.18,0:17:47.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,this question. Furthermore, feminists
Dialogue: 0,0:17:47.65,0:17:49.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,have abused the word rape to point where
Dialogue: 0,0:17:49.04,0:17:51.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,its lost all meaning. Everything is rape.
Dialogue: 0,0:17:51.24,0:17:53.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Its gotten to the point where if a woman
Dialogue: 0,0:17:53.46,0:17:54.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,claims she was raped I have to wonder
Dialogue: 0,0:17:54.91,0:17:56.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if she means a guy actually forcibly put
Dialogue: 0,0:17:56.14,0:17:57.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,his penis in her, or if she had
Dialogue: 0,0:17:57.94,0:17:59.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,consensual sex and just decided to call it
Dialogue: 0,0:17:59.43,0:18:01.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,rape when she decided she regretted it the
Dialogue: 0,0:18:01.16,0:18:02.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,next morning, or if she's merely
Dialogue: 0,0:18:02.60,0:18:04.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,complaining that a guy looked at her in
Dialogue: 0,0:18:04.58,0:18:06.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a way that made her feel uncomfortable.
Dialogue: 0,0:18:06.01,0:18:07.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I mean what even is rape at this point?
Dialogue: 0,0:18:07.31,0:18:09.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,According to some feminists, it's rape if
Dialogue: 0,0:18:09.100,0:18:11.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a man changed positions during sex without
Dialogue: 0,0:18:11.50,0:18:13.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,forewarning. It's rape if your boyfriend
Dialogue: 0,0:18:13.91,0:18:15.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,breaks up with you because you cheated on
Dialogue: 0,0:18:15.91,0:18:17.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,him. It's rape if you overhear somebody
Dialogue: 0,0:18:17.93,0:18:19.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,calling somebody else a slut.
Dialogue: 0,0:18:19.36,0:18:23.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"I got raped, when my mother called
Dialogue: 0,0:18:23.84,0:18:25.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,someone else's daughter a slut."
Dialogue: 0,0:18:25.98,0:18:28.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Really it's your own damn fault that
Dialogue: 0,0:18:28.13,0:18:29.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,people are becoming increasingly reluctant
Dialogue: 0,0:18:29.80,0:18:31.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to believe rape accusations, because you
Dialogue: 0,0:18:31.71,0:18:33.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,have expanded the definition so broadly,
Dialogue: 0,0:18:33.06,0:18:34.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that nobody even knows when you're really
Dialogue: 0,0:18:34.61,0:18:36.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,talking about rape anymore. You did this,
Dialogue: 0,0:18:36.68,0:18:38.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you asked for it, and now you have buyers
Dialogue: 0,0:18:38.88,0:18:40.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,remorse. Now let me pose a question to
Dialogue: 0,0:18:40.90,0:18:42.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you, why is it your first instinct to
Dialogue: 0,0:18:42.58,0:18:44.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,doubt when a man says he was sexually
Dialogue: 0,0:18:44.51,0:18:45.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,violated or raped by a woman.
Dialogue: 0,0:18:45.91,0:18:47.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Why do you assume a woman is angry
Dialogue: 0,0:18:47.41,0:18:48.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because she's on her period?"
Dialogue: 0,0:18:48.76,0:18:50.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because women get angry when they're on
Dialogue: 0,0:18:50.41,0:18:52.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,their period. It's a scientific fact that
Dialogue: 0,0:18:52.30,0:18:54.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the hormonal changes a woman experiences
Dialogue: 0,0:18:54.08,0:18:55.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,during her period cause her to become
Dialogue: 0,0:18:55.60,0:18:57.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,irritable. This is called premenstrual
Dialogue: 0,0:18:57.56,0:18:59.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,syndrome, or PMS. However, I don't
Dialogue: 0,0:18:59.98,0:19:02.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,always assume a woman is angry because
Dialogue: 0,0:19:02.01,0:19:03.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,she is on her period. If your boyfriend
Dialogue: 0,0:19:03.60,0:19:04.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,thinks that, then maybe it's because
Dialogue: 0,0:19:04.56,0:19:05.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you're not being straight forward with him
Dialogue: 0,0:19:05.96,0:19:07.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and expecting him to be a mind reader.
Dialogue: 0,0:19:07.20,0:19:09.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Maybe you should try telling him why
Dialogue: 0,0:19:09.06,0:19:10.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you're angry. Ever thought about that?
Dialogue: 0,0:19:10.93,0:19:12.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ever thought about simply telling him that
Dialogue: 0,0:19:12.73,0:19:13.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you're mad that he ate the last
Dialogue: 0,0:19:13.93,0:19:15.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Klondike bar or whatever trivial bullshit
Dialogue: 0,0:19:15.59,0:19:17.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you're getting your panties in twist over.
Dialogue: 0,0:19:17.34,0:19:18.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[mocking voice] "Awe he should just be
Dialogue: 0,0:19:18.86,0:19:19.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,able to figure it out"
Dialogue: 0,0:19:19.70,0:19:20.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yeah like you should be able to figure out
Dialogue: 0,0:19:20.86,0:19:22.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the answers to these stupid questions
Dialogue: 0,0:19:22.10,0:19:23.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you're asking.
Dialogue: 0,0:19:23.41,0:19:24.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Why do you think women that wear makeup
Dialogue: 0,0:19:24.70,0:19:27.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,are false advertising, we can say the same
Dialogue: 0,0:19:27.08,0:19:28.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,thing about your dick size."
Dialogue: 0,0:19:28.41,0:19:30.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You actually answered the question
Dialogue: 0,0:19:30.08,0:19:30.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,yourself. We consider it false
Dialogue: 0,0:19:30.68,0:19:32.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,advertising for the same reason that you
Dialogue: 0,0:19:32.10,0:19:33.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,think a man who stuffs the crotch of his
Dialogue: 0,0:19:33.68,0:19:35.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,pants is false advertising. If you cover
Dialogue: 0,0:19:35.95,0:19:37.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,up all your pimples and scars with makeup
Dialogue: 0,0:19:37.26,0:19:38.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you can't really be surprised when he's
Dialogue: 0,0:19:38.81,0:19:40.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,taken aback upon discover that you
Dialogue: 0,0:19:40.56,0:19:41.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,don't really look the way you did when you
Dialogue: 0,0:19:41.98,0:19:44.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,first met. I mean wouldn't you feel like
Dialogue: 0,0:19:44.10,0:19:45.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you were lied to if you met a guy who
Dialogue: 0,0:19:45.58,0:19:47.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,looked well dressed and drove a nice car,
Dialogue: 0,0:19:47.03,0:19:48.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but then you found out that he got his
Dialogue: 0,0:19:48.61,0:19:50.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,clothes at goodwill, and he rented that
Dialogue: 0,0:19:50.41,0:19:51.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,car with his burger king salary.
Dialogue: 0,0:19:51.96,0:19:53.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Why isn't it weird that there's a bunch
Dialogue: 0,0:19:53.86,0:19:55.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of old white men sitting in a room,
Dialogue: 0,0:19:55.51,0:19:58.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,making legislation about what I can and
Dialogue: 0,0:19:58.16,0:19:59.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,can't do with my body?"
Dialogue: 0,0:19:59.63,0:20:01.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Wasn't it a room full of old white men
Dialogue: 0,0:20:01.30,0:20:02.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that decided the Roe v. Wade ruling.
Dialogue: 0,0:20:02.88,0:20:05.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You know, women have had the right to
Dialogue: 0,0:20:05.20,0:20:07.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,vote for almost a hundred years now, and
Dialogue: 0,0:20:07.11,0:20:08.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,polling data has found that women are more
Dialogue: 0,0:20:08.54,0:20:10.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,likely to vote than men; and yet these
Dialogue: 0,0:20:10.41,0:20:12.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,old white men keep getting elected.
Dialogue: 0,0:20:12.51,0:20:14.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I see a lot of you people supporting
Dialogue: 0,0:20:14.36,0:20:16.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Bernie Sanders even though he looks pretty
Dialogue: 0,0:20:16.08,0:20:18.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,fuckin old and white to me. Go figure.
Dialogue: 0,0:20:18.31,0:20:19.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Furthermore, why does it even matter that
Dialogue: 0,0:20:19.100,0:20:21.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they're white? Why does their melanin
Dialogue: 0,0:20:21.46,0:20:22.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,level matter more than the merit of their
Dialogue: 0,0:20:22.100,0:20:25.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ideas? Wasn't it Martin Luther King Jr.
Dialogue: 0,0:20:25.58,0:20:27.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who once said "I have a dream that my
Dialogue: 0,0:20:27.53,0:20:29.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,four little children will one day live in
Dialogue: 0,0:20:29.33,0:20:30.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a nation where they will not be judge by
Dialogue: 0,0:20:30.84,0:20:32.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the color of their skin, but by the
Dialogue: 0,0:20:32.11,0:20:33.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,content of their character." For as much
Dialogue: 0,0:20:33.86,0:20:35.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as you people like to accuse other of
Dialogue: 0,0:20:35.63,0:20:37.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,being racist, you sure do judge people
Dialogue: 0,0:20:37.08,0:20:39.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,based on their race a lot. Oh but it's
Dialogue: 0,0:20:39.04,0:20:40.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,not racism when you do it because of
Dialogue: 0,0:20:40.88,0:20:42.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,power structures or some other mental
Dialogue: 0,0:20:42.11,0:20:43.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,gymnastic bullshit, right? As if whether
Dialogue: 0,0:20:43.78,0:20:45.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or not the prejudice somebody is being
Dialogue: 0,0:20:45.50,0:20:47.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,subjected to is institutionalized makes
Dialogue: 0,0:20:47.10,0:20:49.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,any difference to them when it happens.
Dialogue: 0,0:20:49.10,0:20:50.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Fuck off. Racism is racism, regardless of
Dialogue: 0,0:20:50.94,0:20:52.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who is doing it to whom. Calling it
Dialogue: 0,0:20:52.98,0:20:54.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,something other than racism doesn't
Dialogue: 0,0:20:54.46,0:20:56.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,change the fact that it's fucking racism;
Dialogue: 0,0:20:56.16,0:20:57.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And the only people who think otherwise
Dialogue: 0,0:20:57.65,0:20:59.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,are racist like you. This mentality that
Dialogue: 0,0:20:59.28,0:21:01.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,only certain people can be racist hinges
Dialogue: 0,0:21:01.30,0:21:02.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,on the categorization of people based on
Dialogue: 0,0:21:02.100,0:21:04.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,their ethnicity, and the ascribing of
Dialogue: 0,0:21:04.98,0:21:06.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,attributes to them such as privilege,
Dialogue: 0,0:21:06.50,0:21:08.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,based on those racial categories. You
Dialogue: 0,0:21:08.80,0:21:10.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,have to make judgements based on race to
Dialogue: 0,0:21:10.43,0:21:11.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,make this argument work, you have to make
Dialogue: 0,0:21:11.90,0:21:13.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,assumptions and generalization about their
Dialogue: 0,0:21:13.78,0:21:15.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,race and origin to make those judgments.
Dialogue: 0,0:21:15.30,0:21:16.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So you have to be racist to use this
Dialogue: 0,0:21:16.96,0:21:18.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,argument, how do you not see the problem
Dialogue: 0,0:21:18.98,0:21:20.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with this, how do you not see the problem
Dialogue: 0,0:21:20.33,0:21:21.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with putting people's race before the
Dialogue: 0,0:21:21.53,0:21:23.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,merits of their argument and categorizing
Dialogue: 0,0:21:23.16,0:21:25.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,people into a hierarchy of consideration
Dialogue: 0,0:21:25.10,0:21:26.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,based on their race. How the fuck do you
Dialogue: 0,0:21:26.81,0:21:28.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,expect to fight racism with racism, and
Dialogue: 0,0:21:28.66,0:21:30.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,then expect people to take you seriously.
Dialogue: 0,0:21:30.15,0:21:31.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Maybe this is the reason why you think
Dialogue: 0,0:21:31.98,0:21:33.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that if somebody thinks that you're
Dialogue: 0,0:21:33.30,0:21:34.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,stupid it must be because you're a woman.
Dialogue: 0,0:21:34.55,0:21:36.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You're projecting, you judge other people
Dialogue: 0,0:21:36.33,0:21:37.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,based on their race and gender so you
Dialogue: 0,0:21:37.81,0:21:39.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,assume other people are doing it to you.
Dialogue: 0,0:21:39.38,0:21:41.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Well I've got news for you, I don't think
Dialogue: 0,0:21:41.15,0:21:42.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you're stupid because you're a woman, I
Dialogue: 0,0:21:42.88,0:21:44.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,think you're stupid because you're stupid.
Dialogue: 0,0:21:44.74,0:21:47.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Anyway I'm getting off topic, it's not
Dialogue: 0,0:21:47.23,0:21:48.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,like they don't also tell me what I can't
Dialogue: 0,0:21:48.81,0:21:50.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,do with my body. For example, I can't take
Dialogue: 0,0:21:50.98,0:21:52.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the palm of my hand and slap some sense
Dialogue: 0,0:21:52.83,0:21:54.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,into you, without being considered
Dialogue: 0,0:21:54.46,0:21:55.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,assault.
Dialogue: 0,0:21:55.24,0:21:56.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Do you have a coochie?"
Dialogue: 0,0:21:56.21,0:21:56.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,No.
Dialogue: 0,0:21:56.95,0:21:57.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Why are straight guys so obsessed with
Dialogue: 0,0:21:57.61,0:21:58.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,lesbians?"
Dialogue: 0,0:21:58.28,0:21:59.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Why are straight women so obsessed with
Dialogue: 0,0:21:59.35,0:22:01.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,gay guys? Or better yet, why are women
Dialogue: 0,0:22:01.34,0:22:03.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so obsessed with lesbians? According to
Dialogue: 0,0:22:03.36,0:22:05.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Porn hub search data for 2014, the number
Dialogue: 0,0:22:05.88,0:22:07.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,one thing women search for was lesbian
Dialogue: 0,0:22:07.34,0:22:09.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,porn. Proportionately women look up
Dialogue: 0,0:22:09.31,0:22:10.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,lesbian porn more than men do.
Dialogue: 0,0:22:10.76,0:22:12.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"How does it feel to get kicked in the
Dialogue: 0,0:22:12.78,0:22:13.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,balls?"
Dialogue: 0,0:22:13.43,0:22:14.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How do you think it feels, you dumb
Dialogue: 0,0:22:14.51,0:22:15.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,bitch?
Dialogue: 0,0:22:15.33,0:22:16.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Do you ever get tired of being manly all
Dialogue: 0,0:22:16.88,0:22:17.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the time?"
Dialogue: 0,0:22:17.63,0:22:19.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Do you? You're the one that's dressed like
Dialogue: 0,0:22:19.25,0:22:21.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a lumberjack. To answer the question, no,
Dialogue: 0,0:22:21.58,0:22:23.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,not really. It comes naturally to me
Dialogue: 0,0:22:23.80,0:22:26.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,since I'm, you know, a man. The fact
Dialogue: 0,0:22:26.56,0:22:28.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that you're asking this question implies
Dialogue: 0,0:22:28.06,0:22:29.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that you sometimes get tired of being
Dialogue: 0,0:22:29.31,0:22:30.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,feminine, so do you ever get tired of
Dialogue: 0,0:22:30.86,0:22:32.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,being feminine all the time? Is that why
Dialogue: 0,0:22:32.56,0:22:33.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you're dressed like a lumberjack?
Dialogue: 0,0:22:33.85,0:22:35.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Would you like to be a man?
Dialogue: 0,0:22:35.36,0:22:37.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Well you have to pass a test first. Have
Dialogue: 0,0:22:37.36,0:22:39.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you mastered the art of manspreading?
Dialogue: 0,0:22:39.06,0:22:40.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Have you completed your forty hours of
Dialogue: 0,0:22:40.83,0:22:42.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,rape training?
Dialogue: 0,0:22:42.36,0:22:43.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Why are you so afraid of gender
Dialogue: 0,0:22:43.84,0:22:44.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,equality?"
Dialogue: 0,0:22:44.41,0:22:46.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm not. You are. What I'm afraid of is
Dialogue: 0,0:22:46.71,0:22:48.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,gender inequality. Which is what feminist
Dialogue: 0,0:22:48.83,0:22:50.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,are actually pushing for. You want
Dialogue: 0,0:22:50.56,0:22:53.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,examples? In 2005, Swedish Politian and
Dialogue: 0,0:22:53.46,0:22:55.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,co-founder of feminist initiative,
Dialogue: 0,0:22:55.26,0:22:57.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Godrum Schyman, proposed what the media
Dialogue: 0,0:22:57.25,0:22:59.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,called a man tax, which would have raised
Dialogue: 0,0:22:59.13,0:23:00.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,taxes for men in Sweden. Basing it on the
Dialogue: 0,0:23:00.76,0:23:02.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,idea that all men should be held
Dialogue: 0,0:23:02.28,0:23:04.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,accountable for all man on women violence.
Dialogue: 0,0:23:04.28,0:23:06.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It should be noted that Schyman was
Dialogue: 0,0:23:06.11,0:23:08.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,convicted of tax evasion in 2004, a
Dialogue: 0,0:23:08.56,0:23:10.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,year before making this proposal.
Dialogue: 0,0:23:10.18,0:23:12.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In 2010, women's group leaders in Isreal
Dialogue: 0,0:23:12.70,0:23:14.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,have unanimously opposed changes to rape
Dialogue: 0,0:23:14.28,0:23:16.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,laws that would make it possible for
Dialogue: 0,0:23:16.50,0:23:18.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,women to be convicted of rape. They
Dialogue: 0,0:23:18.36,0:23:20.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,succeeded and now women in Israel commit
Dialogue: 0,0:23:20.80,0:23:22.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,sex act on non-consenting adults or
Dialogue: 0,0:23:22.88,0:23:24.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,children who are not old enough to
Dialogue: 0,0:23:24.35,0:23:25.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,legally give informed consent, are not
Dialogue: 0,0:23:25.71,0:23:27.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,actually being charged with rape, and are
Dialogue: 0,0:23:27.18,0:23:29.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,instead charged with lesser crimes. In
Dialogue: 0,0:23:29.13,0:23:31.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,2013 Indian feminists successfully
Dialogue: 0,0:23:31.18,0:23:33.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,pressured the government to rewrite rape
Dialogue: 0,0:23:33.01,0:23:34.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,laws in such a way that only men could be
Dialogue: 0,0:23:34.68,0:23:37.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,charged with rape. In 2014, Jessica
Dialogue: 0,0:23:37.05,0:23:38.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Valenti published an article in the
Dialogue: 0,0:23:38.73,0:23:40.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Guardian advocating paying men less than
Dialogue: 0,0:23:40.46,0:23:43.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,women. In 2015, York University planned to
Dialogue: 0,0:23:43.01,0:23:45.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,hold an international men's day meant to
Dialogue: 0,0:23:45.01,0:23:46.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,highlight issues affecting men and boys,
Dialogue: 0,0:23:46.83,0:23:48.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,such as the high suicide rate, shorter
Dialogue: 0,0:23:48.70,0:23:50.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,life expectancies, and struggles faced in
Dialogue: 0,0:23:50.41,0:23:52.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,getting and education. It was canceled
Dialogue: 0,0:23:52.70,0:23:54.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,after feminists student, staff, and alumni
Dialogue: 0,0:23:54.51,0:23:56.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,protested and held a petition to ban it,
Dialogue: 0,0:23:56.46,0:23:58.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,which received almost 200 signatures.
Dialogue: 0,0:23:58.48,0:23:59.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,To add insult to injury, Holly Baxter
Dialogue: 0,0:23:59.90,0:24:01.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,wrote a condescending article on
Dialogue: 0,0:24:01.56,0:24:04.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Independent.co.uk enlightening readers
Dialogue: 0,0:24:04.16,0:24:05.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,why we don't need an international men's
Dialogue: 0,0:24:05.78,0:24:07.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,day. You can claim the definition of
Dialogue: 0,0:24:07.88,0:24:09.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,feminism is advocating gender equality
Dialogue: 0,0:24:09.75,0:24:11.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,all you want, but actions speak louder than
Dialogue: 0,0:24:11.51,0:24:13.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,words. And it's really hard to believe the
Dialogue: 0,0:24:13.75,0:24:15.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,feminist movement is really a movement
Dialogue: 0,0:24:15.58,0:24:17.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for equality, when you dismiss anyone who
Dialogue: 0,0:24:17.13,0:24:18.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,brings up men's issues as misogynists.
Dialogue: 0,0:24:18.70,0:24:20.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You say all men are rapists, you try to
Dialogue: 0,0:24:20.86,0:24:23.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ban men from certain place son college
Dialogue: 0,0:24:23.04,0:24:24.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,campuses, you actively fight against
Dialogue: 0,0:24:24.65,0:24:26.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,father's rights, undermine the
Dialogue: 0,0:24:26.05,0:24:27.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,presumption of innocence when it comes
Dialogue: 0,0:24:27.56,0:24:28.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to rape accusations, and you deny
Dialogue: 0,0:24:28.48,0:24:30.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,statistics about male victims of domestic
Dialogue: 0,0:24:30.38,0:24:32.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,abuse. As well as protest and disrupt
Dialogue: 0,0:24:32.13,0:24:33.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,conferences about male suicide.
Dialogue: 0,0:24:33.93,0:24:36.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"This is what mens' rights looks like"
Dialogue: 0,0:24:36.45,0:24:38.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"This is what mens' rights looks like"
Dialogue: 0,0:24:38.70,0:24:41.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"This is what mens' rights looks like"
Dialogue: 0,0:24:41.76,0:24:43.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,All that said, why are you so afraid of
Dialogue: 0,0:24:43.71,0:24:44.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,gender equality?
Dialogue: 0,0:24:44.83,0:24:45.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Why do I deserve to be paid less than
Dialogue: 0,0:24:45.58,0:24:47.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you?"
Dialogue: 0,0:24:47.43,0:24:49.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"In what world does 77 cents equal a
Dialogue: 0,0:24:49.33,0:24:50.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,dollar?"
Dialogue: 0,0:24:50.01,0:24:51.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"In what world does 68 cents equal a
Dialogue: 0,0:24:51.41,0:24:51.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,dollar?"
Dialogue: 0,0:24:51.100,0:24:52.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"How is that fair?"
Dialogue: 0,0:24:52.91,0:24:54.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,After I finished writing my answers to
Dialogue: 0,0:24:54.81,0:24:55.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,all these questions, I actually counted
Dialogue: 0,0:24:55.84,0:24:56.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,them and realized there are only 33
Dialogue: 0,0:24:56.90,0:24:58.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,questions, instead of 36. I just
Dialogue: 0,0:24:58.70,0:25:00.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,naturally assumed these four questions
Dialogue: 0,0:25:00.26,0:25:02.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,are actually one and answer them as such,
Dialogue: 0,0:25:02.03,0:25:03.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but no. Buzzfeed actually considered this
Dialogue: 0,0:25:03.58,0:25:05.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,compound question as a bunch of seperate
Dialogue: 0,0:25:05.11,0:25:07.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,questions, in order to bolster their count
Dialogue: 0,0:25:07.18,0:25:09.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for their deceptive, click baiting title.
Dialogue: 0,0:25:09.01,0:25:10.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Like it wasn't bad enough that they're
Dialogue: 0,0:25:10.23,0:25:12.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,already not even questions. Anyway, this
Dialogue: 0,0:25:12.90,0:25:15.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,has been pointed out countless times by
Dialogue: 0,0:25:15.03,0:25:16.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,countless other people, but the wage gap
Dialogue: 0,0:25:16.95,0:25:18.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is bullshit, and when I say it's bullshit
Dialogue: 0,0:25:18.71,0:25:20.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I don't mean that it doesn't exist.
Dialogue: 0,0:25:20.18,0:25:21.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I mean it's bullshit because of the way
Dialogue: 0,0:25:21.93,0:25:24.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it's presented. The observed wage gap it
Dialogue: 0,0:25:24.06,0:25:25.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,based on comparing the average income of
Dialogue: 0,0:25:25.61,0:25:26.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,men to the average income of women without
Dialogue: 0,0:25:26.90,0:25:29.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,considering any variables. Sometimes when
Dialogue: 0,0:25:29.23,0:25:30.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the wage gap is brought up they add women
Dialogue: 0,0:25:30.91,0:25:32.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,get paid less for the same jobs, but
Dialogue: 0,0:25:32.18,0:25:34.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that's horseshit. Asking women why they
Dialogue: 0,0:25:34.50,0:25:36.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,get paid less than men is like asking why
Dialogue: 0,0:25:36.13,0:25:37.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,men are more likely to die in the
Dialogue: 0,0:25:37.41,0:25:39.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,workplace than women. It's because men
Dialogue: 0,0:25:39.30,0:25:41.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and women tend to work different jobs;
Dialogue: 0,0:25:41.01,0:25:43.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and just like some jobs are more dangerous
Dialogue: 0,0:25:43.63,0:25:45.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,than others, some jobs pay more than
Dialogue: 0,0:25:45.23,0:25:46.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,others. And since men tend to work
Dialogue: 0,0:25:46.96,0:25:48.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,higher paying jobs, such as those in STEM
Dialogue: 0,0:25:48.96,0:25:50.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,fields, men tend to make more money.
Dialogue: 0,0:25:50.93,0:25:52.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And even when you are comparing men and
Dialogue: 0,0:25:52.60,0:25:54.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,women working the same jobs, there are
Dialogue: 0,0:25:54.48,0:25:56.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,things which factor into why men get paid
Dialogue: 0,0:25:56.48,0:25:58.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,more. Such as the fact that men are more
Dialogue: 0,0:25:58.21,0:26:00.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,likely to work overtime, or more likely
Dialogue: 0,0:26:00.31,0:26:01.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to ask for raises or promotions, or less
Dialogue: 0,0:26:01.100,0:26:04.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,likely to take time off, or more
Dialogue: 0,0:26:04.16,0:26:06.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,competitive, or more likely to take risks,
Dialogue: 0,0:26:06.31,0:26:08.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,prioritize earnings more than women,
Dialogue: 0,0:26:08.11,0:26:09.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,retire at a later age, and all these other
Dialogue: 0,0:26:09.78,0:26:12.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,things which studies have found. With all
Dialogue: 0,0:26:12.63,0:26:14.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,this taken into consideration, it's no
Dialogue: 0,0:26:14.36,0:26:16.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,wonder that men get paid more, men work
Dialogue: 0,0:26:16.61,0:26:19.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,more. And really I hate to point out this
Dialogue: 0,0:26:19.15,0:26:20.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,obvious bit of common sense, but if
Dialogue: 0,0:26:20.83,0:26:22.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,companies could actually get away with
Dialogue: 0,0:26:22.21,0:26:23.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,paying women less, don't you think they
Dialogue: 0,0:26:23.70,0:26:25.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,would just hire nothing but women to save
Dialogue: 0,0:26:25.03,0:26:26.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,money. Do you honestly think that
Dialogue: 0,0:26:26.45,0:26:28.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,corporations are such boys clubs that
Dialogue: 0,0:26:28.20,0:26:30.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,giving advantages to men is more important
Dialogue: 0,0:26:30.16,0:26:32.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to them than their profits and shareholder
Dialogue: 0,0:26:32.10,0:26:34.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,interests. Don't be stupid. And no the
Dialogue: 0,0:26:34.86,0:26:36.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,fact that there are so few women in STEM
Dialogue: 0,0:26:36.53,0:26:37.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,fields has nothing to do with
Dialogue: 0,0:26:37.83,0:26:39.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,discrimination. In fact, surveys have
Dialogue: 0,0:26:39.65,0:26:41.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,found that there is a 2 to 1 preference
Dialogue: 0,0:26:41.20,0:26:42.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for female applicants in STEM fields
Dialogue: 0,0:26:42.75,0:26:45.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,over equally qualified men. So the reason
Dialogue: 0,0:26:45.10,0:26:46.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that there are so few women in STEM
Dialogue: 0,0:26:46.46,0:26:48.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,fields is because few women are interested
Dialogue: 0,0:26:48.45,0:26:50.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in pursuing careers in STEM fields. If you
Dialogue: 0,0:26:50.91,0:26:52.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,want more women in STEM fields, then maybe
Dialogue: 0,0:26:52.50,0:26:53.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you shouldn't have wasted your parents
Dialogue: 0,0:26:53.100,0:26:55.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,money on a degree in gender studies.
Dialogue: 0,0:26:55.56,0:26:57.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And if you wish to continue pushing this
Dialogue: 0,0:26:57.55,0:26:59.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,baseless contention that the patriarchy
Dialogue: 0,0:26:59.18,0:27:00.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is keeping women out of STEM fields, then
Dialogue: 0,0:27:00.88,0:27:02.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,explain why the patriarchy isn't stopping
Dialogue: 0,0:27:02.66,0:27:04.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,women from dominating certain fields
Dialogue: 0,0:27:04.41,0:27:06.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,such as veterinary, medicine, psychology,
Dialogue: 0,0:27:06.11,0:27:08.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,pharmacology, and biology. Furthermore,
Dialogue: 0,0:27:08.55,0:27:10.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,which is it, 77 cents to a dollar or 68
Dialogue: 0,0:27:10.60,0:27:13.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,cents. I've also heard other feminists
Dialogue: 0,0:27:13.11,0:27:15.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,claim 72 cents. The fact that you can't
Dialogue: 0,0:27:15.11,0:27:16.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,keep your story straight kind of says
Dialogue: 0,0:27:16.51,0:27:18.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,something about it. And I'm really
Dialogue: 0,0:27:18.11,0:27:19.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,struggling to understand why you thought
Dialogue: 0,0:27:19.50,0:27:21.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,including this discrepancy in your video
Dialogue: 0,0:27:21.05,0:27:22.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,was a good idea. Maybe you should have
Dialogue: 0,0:27:22.70,0:27:25.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,let a man proofread it. (whispering) that
Dialogue: 0,0:27:25.28,0:27:26.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,was a joke. I know I have to explain it
Dialogue: 0,0:27:26.61,0:27:28.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because feminists don't understand jokes,
Dialogue: 0,0:27:28.30,0:27:30.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but it was a joke, alright.
Dialogue: 0,0:27:30.38,0:27:32.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Why are you intimidated by a woman who
Dialogue: 0,0:27:32.16,0:27:33.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,makes more money than you? That's
Dialogue: 0,0:27:33.70,0:27:35.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,awesome! More money"
Dialogue: 0,0:27:35.38,0:27:37.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm not, but since we're making
Dialogue: 0,0:27:37.05,0:27:39.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,assumptions, why are you intimidated
Dialogue: 0,0:27:39.33,0:27:41.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,by my deep, booming, commanding, yet
Dialogue: 0,0:27:41.70,0:27:43.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,sultry baritone voice.
Dialogue: 0,0:27:43.21,0:27:45.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Why are opiniated women seen as bitches?"
Dialogue: 0,0:27:45.38,0:27:47.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"When opiniated men are seen as bosses."
Dialogue: 0,0:27:47.90,0:27:50.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Opiniated men aren't seen as bosses unless
Dialogue: 0,0:27:50.45,0:27:51.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they actually are somebody's boss.
Dialogue: 0,0:27:51.88,0:27:53.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Otherwise they are just called assholes.
Dialogue: 0,0:27:53.80,0:27:55.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Unless of course their opinions disagree
Dialogue: 0,0:27:55.80,0:27:57.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with you. In which case they are kicked
Dialogue: 0,0:27:57.48,0:27:59.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,off of campus, banned from speaking at
Dialogue: 0,0:27:59.21,0:28:01.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,events, and told to stop mansplaining.
Dialogue: 0,0:28:01.16,0:28:03.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Maybe that's why opiniated women like you
Dialogue: 0,0:28:03.21,0:28:04.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,are seen as bitches.
Dialogue: 0,0:28:04.46,0:28:06.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Why aren't you speaking up when you hear
Dialogue: 0,0:28:06.43,0:28:09.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,your male friends behind closed doors,
Dialogue: 0,0:28:09.10,0:28:10.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,make jokes that are offensive to
Dialogue: 0,0:28:10.90,0:28:11.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,women?"
Dialogue: 0,0:28:11.61,0:28:12.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because they're jokes, and they aren't
Dialogue: 0,0:28:12.96,0:28:14.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,meant to be taken seriously.
Dialogue: 0,0:28:14.55,0:28:16.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"These people who are fucking offended by
Dialogue: 0,0:28:16.50,0:28:18.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,rape jokes don't even understand humor."
Dialogue: 0,0:28:18.55,0:28:20.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If that's not a good enough answer, then
Dialogue: 0,0:28:20.38,0:28:22.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,let me ask you this, do you speak up when
Dialogue: 0,0:28:22.43,0:28:24.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,your female friends make jokes that are
Dialogue: 0,0:28:24.15,0:28:26.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,offensive to men, no? Why not? Oh because
Dialogue: 0,0:28:26.98,0:28:30.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it's empowering right? Fuck off. Also I
Dialogue: 0,0:28:30.18,0:28:31.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,thought you said you were probably funnier
Dialogue: 0,0:28:31.33,0:28:33.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,than me? You think of yourself as a funny
Dialogue: 0,0:28:33.28,0:28:34.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,woman but you don't want people making
Dialogue: 0,0:28:34.60,0:28:35.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,jokes that don't cater to your own
Dialogue: 0,0:28:35.76,0:28:37.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,personal taste. Stop trying to please
Dialogue: 0,0:28:37.60,0:28:39.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,other people's speech, you empty
Dialogue: 0,0:28:39.11,0:28:40.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,headed bimbo. (Horn blaring)
Dialogue: 0,0:28:40.38,0:28:42.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Why are you so afraid of recognizing
Dialogue: 0,0:28:42.45,0:28:44.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,your own privilege? Doesn't mean you're a
Dialogue: 0,0:28:44.26,0:28:46.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,bad person, just recognizing it and do
Dialogue: 0,0:28:46.23,0:28:47.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,something about it."
Dialogue: 0,0:28:47.78,0:28:49.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I just love how you boldly assert that I
Dialogue: 0,0:28:49.01,0:28:50.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,have privilege without backing up that
Dialogue: 0,0:28:50.31,0:28:52.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,assertion at all. And then pursue to talk
Dialogue: 0,0:28:52.08,0:28:53.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,down to me in this condescending tone,
Dialogue: 0,0:28:53.60,0:28:55.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,like it's just so obvious it's such an
Dialogue: 0,0:28:55.50,0:28:57.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,unassailable argument. (mocking voice)
Dialogue: 0,0:28:57.40,0:28:59.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It doesn't mean you're a bad person.
Dialogue: 0,0:28:59.20,0:29:00.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But I guess being the same gender as
Dialogue: 0,0:29:00.61,0:29:02.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Donald Trump does. To answer your
Dialogue: 0,0:29:02.51,0:29:03.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,question, it's because I don't have
Dialogue: 0,0:29:03.98,0:29:06.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,privilege, I really don't, but you do.
Dialogue: 0,0:29:06.20,0:29:09.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I defy you name one, just one, legal
Dialogue: 0,0:29:09.28,0:29:12.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,privilege that I have, which you don't
Dialogue: 0,0:29:12.03,0:29:13.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,also have. Because I can think of several
Dialogue: 0,0:29:13.66,0:29:15.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you have which I don't have. Let me list
Dialogue: 0,0:29:15.53,0:29:18.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ten. Women are almost always granted
Dialogue: 0,0:29:18.43,0:29:19.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,custody of children in a divorce by
Dialogue: 0,0:29:19.91,0:29:21.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,default unless the man can prove she is
Dialogue: 0,0:29:21.48,0:29:22.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,unfit to care for them. See
Dialogue: 0,0:29:22.96,0:29:24.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,misrepresentation of gender bias
Dialogue: 0,0:29:24.38,0:29:26.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,committee of Massachusetts Supreme Court
Dialogue: 0,0:29:26.03,0:29:28.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,by Mark B Rosenthal, this is despite
Dialogue: 0,0:29:28.76,0:29:30.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the fact that children are twice as
Dialogue: 0,0:29:30.43,0:29:31.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,likely to be abused by their mother than
Dialogue: 0,0:29:31.86,0:29:33.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they are by their father. According to
Dialogue: 0,0:29:33.33,0:29:34.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,page 49 of Child Maltreatment 2013
Dialogue: 0,0:29:34.96,0:29:37.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,published by the US Department of Health
Dialogue: 0,0:29:37.30,0:29:38.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and Human Services. Women have more
Dialogue: 0,0:29:38.95,0:29:40.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,social safety nets designed for them,
Dialogue: 0,0:29:40.66,0:29:42.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,which is why they only make up 24% of
Dialogue: 0,0:29:42.36,0:29:44.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the homeless population. This is in spite
Dialogue: 0,0:29:44.26,0:29:46.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of the fact that 42% of homeless men are
Dialogue: 0,0:29:46.36,0:29:48.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,employed, versus only 27% of homeless
Dialogue: 0,0:29:48.41,0:29:50.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,women. This is according to page 2 of
Dialogue: 0,0:29:50.16,0:29:51.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Who's Homeless" published by the National
Dialogue: 0,0:29:51.85,0:29:54.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Coalition for the Homeless, July 2009 and
Dialogue: 0,0:29:54.26,0:29:56.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,page 1 of "Single Males: The Homeless
Dialogue: 0,0:29:56.08,0:29:57.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Majority" published by Healing Hands
Dialogue: 0,0:29:57.66,0:30:00.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in June 2001. Women get more lenient
Dialogue: 0,0:30:00.50,0:30:02.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,sentences for equivalent crimes. See
Dialogue: 0,0:30:02.23,0:30:03.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Estimating Gender Disparities in Federal
Dialogue: 0,0:30:03.90,0:30:05.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Criminal Cases" by Sonja B Starr in 2012.
Dialogue: 0,0:30:05.81,0:30:08.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,A woman could get a male coworker fired
Dialogue: 0,0:30:08.40,0:30:10.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,from his job simply by accusing him of
Dialogue: 0,0:30:10.06,0:30:11.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,sexual harassment even without proving it.
Dialogue: 0,0:30:11.96,0:30:13.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's so easy for a woman to get a man
Dialogue: 0,0:30:13.81,0:30:15.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,fired at a malice, and it happens so
Dialogue: 0,0:30:15.78,0:30:17.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,often that men are now starting to avoid
Dialogue: 0,0:30:17.50,0:30:19.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,women all together in the workplace.
Dialogue: 0,0:30:19.21,0:30:20.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Refusing to mentor or help them.
Dialogue: 0,0:30:20.86,0:30:22.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Kim Elsesser talks about this in her book,
Dialogue: 0,0:30:22.91,0:30:25.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Sex in the office" 2015. In California, a
Dialogue: 0,0:30:25.80,0:30:27.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,woman can declare a man to be the father
Dialogue: 0,0:30:27.66,0:30:29.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of her child and sue him for child
Dialogue: 0,0:30:29.28,0:30:31.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,support and it's up to the man to prove
Dialogue: 0,0:30:31.18,0:30:33.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,he isn't the father by taking a DNA test.
Dialogue: 0,0:30:33.26,0:30:35.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And he only gets 30 days to do so, if he
Dialogue: 0,0:30:35.83,0:30:37.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,doesn't do it in that time, then a court
Dialogue: 0,0:30:37.51,0:30:39.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,can declare him responsible for the child
Dialogue: 0,0:30:39.03,0:30:40.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,even if he proves he isn't the father
Dialogue: 0,0:30:40.51,0:30:43.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,later. A woman can sue a sperm donner for
Dialogue: 0,0:30:43.46,0:30:45.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,child support. A woman who gets
Dialogue: 0,0:30:45.65,0:30:47.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,pregnant with stolen sperm, can sue the
Dialogue: 0,0:30:47.56,0:30:49.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,man she stole it from for child support.
Dialogue: 0,0:30:49.38,0:30:51.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And before you argue that a man should
Dialogue: 0,0:30:51.23,0:30:52.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,keep it in his pants so he doesn't want to
Dialogue: 0,0:30:52.71,0:30:54.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,be a father, imagine if you heard a
Dialogue: 0,0:30:54.40,0:30:55.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,conservative Christian arguing against
Dialogue: 0,0:30:55.95,0:30:57.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,abortion by saying 'women should keep
Dialogue: 0,0:30:57.30,0:30:58.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,their legs together if they don't want to
Dialogue: 0,0:30:58.58,0:31:00.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,be mothers' I think you would lose your
Dialogue: 0,0:31:00.36,0:31:02.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,shit. A woman who get pregnant by raping
Dialogue: 0,0:31:02.90,0:31:04.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a man or an underage boy can sue him for
Dialogue: 0,0:31:04.88,0:31:06.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,child support. See Hermesmann V Seyer.
Dialogue: 0,0:31:06.88,0:31:08.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,A woman could get an abortion in
Dialogue: 0,0:31:08.93,0:31:10.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,complete disregard for the wishes of the
Dialogue: 0,0:31:10.56,0:31:12.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,father, she doesn't even have to tell
Dialogue: 0,0:31:12.18,0:31:14.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,she's seeking an abortion. A woman can
Dialogue: 0,0:31:14.26,0:31:15.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,also sue the father for child support if
Dialogue: 0,0:31:15.91,0:31:17.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,he wants nothing to do with the child.
Dialogue: 0,0:31:17.43,0:31:19.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So basically a woman can opt out of
Dialogue: 0,0:31:19.25,0:31:20.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,parenthood but a man cannot.
Dialogue: 0,0:31:20.63,0:31:22.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Domestic violence against women is
Dialogue: 0,0:31:22.70,0:31:25.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,actually taken seriously. Men are always
Dialogue: 0,0:31:25.03,0:31:26.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,presumed to be the aggressors in
Dialogue: 0,0:31:26.68,0:31:27.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,domestic violence cases. Despite the fact
Dialogue: 0,0:31:27.80,0:31:30.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that CDC statistics have found that more
Dialogue: 0,0:31:30.05,0:31:32.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,than 70% of non reciprocated domestic
Dialogue: 0,0:31:32.28,0:31:33.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,violence is perpetuated by women.
Dialogue: 0,0:31:33.98,0:31:35.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Even when a man is recognized as a being
Dialogue: 0,0:31:35.91,0:31:37.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a victim of domestic abuse, he is almost
Dialogue: 0,0:31:37.35,0:31:38.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,always presumed to be at fault.
Dialogue: 0,0:31:38.46,0:31:39.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,People ask 'What did he do to piss her
Dialogue: 0,0:31:39.91,0:31:40.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,off?'
Dialogue: 0,0:31:40.61,0:31:43.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So let me pose a question to you, Why are
Dialogue: 0,0:31:43.26,0:31:44.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you so afraid of recognizing your
Dialogue: 0,0:31:44.86,0:31:46.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,privilege? It doesn't mean you're a bad
Dialogue: 0,0:31:46.95,0:31:49.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,person. Just recognize it and do something
Dialogue: 0,0:31:49.06,0:31:52.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,about it. Or don't, I already know you
Dialogue: 0,0:31:52.05,0:31:56.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,won't.